veiakas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
149	40 Brutal Truths Men Wished Women Knew - I found this video succinctly encapsulating the communications issues that many men have towards women. I recommend sharing this with your partners and daughters.	Progress	veiakas	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 09:26 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Complements for Men? Complement and compliment are two different words and mean different things.	/r/MensRights	08/01/25 02:11 PM
2	Attacked and downvoted in an unrelated sub because they went through my history and found that I post here. I had the same experience!	/r/MensRights	12/12/24 10:11 PM
0	How To ARGUE About Feminism: The Funny Dilemma I stand for mens right but I do not stand for whatever these videos represent.	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 01:35 PM
38	Sen. John Fetterman says fellow Democrats lost male voters to Trump by ‘insulting’ them, being ‘condescending’ The youtuber "Shoe0nHead" did a very good video on this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSw04BwQy4M I recommend for easy watching.	/r/MensRights	01/12/24 09:35 PM
2	How to Argue about Feminism What message is this trying to convey? I don't get it.	/r/MensRights	22/11/24 08:00 AM
18	Elon Musk for President 2028? Since he is not born in the US, that is literally impossible.	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 08:41 PM
8	Don't ask for relationship advice on Reddit This sentiment has been shared before. When asking for relationship advice on those generic relationship subreddits, you should always flip the genders, and Boom, immediately you are treated with compassion and understanding. But you can ask relationship advice in the various AskMen subreddits.	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 05:09 AM
1	Stumbled upon some "Feminist" scientific studies published in "Women's Psychology" journals, claiming that women experience PTSD from everyday "Sexism". They even promote such narrative on the "Feminist" subreddit as well, could somebody such assertions? some physician or scientist (who aren't treated as human beings but as gods/popes who can never be wrong about anything unless they say so) What are you on about? Seriously, none of what you say makes any sense, nor is it in any way true. So you suggest that people can just proclaim they have PTSD? Like, Went to the shop? PTSD. Went to the shower? PTSD... Sounds like the meaning of PTSD just becomes less and less trustworthy. The meaning gets diluted. How about you go to a professional to actual…	/r/MensRights	16/10/24 01:41 PM
209	My girlfriend keeps making comments about mansplaining and men's humour... Etc Why would you want to be with someone that makes you feel exhausted? A partner should bring something good to your relationship, not take energy away. Sounds like you two are not compatible in your values. Time to call it quits, and find someone that appreciates you for you.	/r/MensRights	12/10/24 06:16 AM
25	The HR lady, who proudly claimed that women are 50% of the personnel chose to ignore the elephants. Well, if they are preaching for equal gender representation in the company then the company should indeed create programs to attract women to apply for the factory floor jobs AND to get men to apply for HR positions. Any effort less, is just discrimination.	/r/MensRights	11/10/24 12:19 PM
39	Describe your experience of bias as a boy in favor of girls. Girls learned fast, that all their tears would always make the teacher take their side. Some girls took advantage of it a lot, most didn't. A lot of the young men avoided verbal confrontations in class with girls, because the mostly women teachers would always side with the girl. Boys were more often punished, either verbally or with assignments. I guess you could make the connection, that men's voices are lower, but the girls usually had a better poker face, when being interrogated by the teach…	/r/MensRights	03/10/24 06:58 PM
39	Some famous lady tries to be a man to see what's it like. It doesn't last long One of the more interesting experience, looking into the differences of men and women.	/r/MensRights	30/09/24 01:07 PM
7	Which books should men in their 20s/30s read? No More Mr Nice Guy, is a relationship guide for men. On how to set healthy boundaries.	/r/MensRights	29/06/24 04:36 PM
4	Have you ever been on a first date where she refused to split the bill? How did that go? I used to write this in my dating profile. So I guess they swiped left on me. I am okay with that.	/r/MensRights	20/06/24 05:40 AM
3	I emailed a feminist that said MRAs could help more men as feminists Ok, so you emailed them. Care to shed light, on what was in the mail? Or how they responded?	/r/MensRights	01/06/24 06:01 PM
12	As a feminist what can i do to support men’s rights without diminishing those of women? You can address double standards head-on. And I mean, the double standards that are often discussed as fact, among women, things like: "Men always have it easy!". Somehow, when a woman, addresses this, then women tend to believe them more. Men are not believed, because they "are the enemy, who has it easy."	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 06:36 AM
1	Does the idea of a village/clan ever appeal to anyone? The feeling you are talking about is "community" and "belonging". I assume you do not live in a part of society that values you? (Because you are reaching out here). Also, there is no need to live off the grid to achieve these feelings. Simply having good, responsible neighbors will also fill this void.	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 06:07 AM
2	Finally told my wife about some abuse I suffered as a child something. I have never told any other human being ever. So she betrayed the trust immediately. Must be awful to live with someone like that.	/r/MensRights	19/02/24 04:45 AM
12	Dear men why don't you go fuck yourelves. Yours truly, The Ladies Ah, so just like the women in HR then.	/r/MensRights	08/10/23 08:17 AM
3	Just got fussed at by a fellow childfree person because I'm not a feminist. Blaming men is just an excuse. Women are mean towards each other, but need a scapegoat to blame? Easy, Men! Men don't usually care about the "frenemy social status dick-measuring" and would just prefer to move on with their lives. This is the reason why often, women decry the requirements and expectations of "society" .. when they actually mean the requirements and expectations of other women. Think about it - Who is the one who criticizes you for being too thin, too loud, too quiet, too fat, to…	/r/MensRights	29/09/23 12:24 PM
130	My (M30) Girlfriend (F37) questioned wether I am a 'real man' or not It was a personal insult, so it was meant to be taken personally. This also means she doesn't respect you. And when respect is gone, the relationship is over - She ended it, not with her words, but with her actions.	/r/MensRights	01/09/23 10:11 PM
1	Belgium to no longer provide shelter to single male asylum seekers OP: More evidence that the world does not care about men. This is out of context. Belgium is struggling to integrate the "refugees", who mostly are completely deceitful of their origins. These refugees often are men in their 20's and 30's , often aggressive, and unwilling to integrate. Crime stati The thing is, when an entire family comes as refugees (e.g. South African farmers) then they are willing to integrate. They often try to get a job, and be productive members of society, asap. Yes, of course there are exceptions there as well, but the majority…	/r/MensRights	31/08/23 09:36 AM
3	"women only" scholarships Do your school a service, and file a Title IX. Otherwise the teachers will not know they are sexist.	/r/MensRights	12/08/23 09:45 AM
2	My partner is kind, affectionate and emotionally open. I want to break up with him Well, when you read the article, it becomes clear that the 2 people have very different goals and life tempos. Breaking up is in fact the correct choice in this case. The alternative is a relationship filled with resentment.	/r/MensRights	05/06/23 05:47 AM
42	Mother always talking about how she hates men You know... you can just call the police in cases of physical altercations.	/r/MensRights	25/05/23 08:20 AM
178	Mother always talking about how she hates men Well, the fact that they get emotionally abusive is not really a reason to keep quiet. I wonder how quickly they will turn physically aggressive when you keep talking about your stances. Then you know exactly where they stand, and they will know where you stand.	/r/MensRights	25/05/23 07:56 AM
3	Lack of support/anger from partner following my job contract ending and no new job My wife's extremely resentful towards me. She said she hates the pressure my lack of work has put on her. I hate myself for it, too, and feel worthless. I'm trying. I'm really trying. But I recently also dealt with a life threatening health condition that got me into ER and I'm still recovering, so I'm not able to give my 100% in my search. My wife thinks I'm making excuses but I'm applying for all sorts of jobs now, even these not directly linked to my profession. By the sounds of it, a lot of …	/r/MensRights	23/02/23 07:29 AM
6	This is literally in my jobs anti-harassment policy! Name and shame.	/r/MensRights	24/12/22 08:04 AM
0	Who is toxicly masculine and proud of that? What you descrobed is douchebaggyness. That is not masculinity. The douches act like this to overcompensate for internal insecurities, as apparently they have not had a good masculine role model.	/r/MensRights	18/12/22 06:30 AM
1	Women are excessively marketed fashion/skincare/make-up/home decorating/mindfulness/wellness; is there some kind of “bro” equivalent for men? ATV's, hunting gear, guns, camo etc	/r/MensRights	01/10/22 09:13 PM
-7	Does anyone else feel women have made it "creepy" to approach a girl in public? Nope. Not at all actually. To be honest I'd rather meet someone in person anyways but I feel like I've been conditioned to feel creepy or weird for approaching a girl I like in public. When you approach women only to ask them out, then you give off this vibe, "that you are looking for someone special". And people can sense it. For this reason, men who are in a relationship, get hit on. Because they interact more at ease, with all people around them. It's like this vibe of being at ease, or bei…	/r/MensRights	12/05/22 08:09 AM
2	Male beauty standard is killing me. I get the feeling from your original post, that you talk about visual beauty standards. Where do you get these stupid beauty standards? Social media? Instagram? -> If so, then uninstall those apps. It's all fake. Literally no-one expects you to be the perfect shape or size. Yet somehow you feel pressured to meet some arbitrary standard of beauty? Why? Who actually expects you to? What makes you feel so pressured? Confidence is what makes both men and women sexy. Not the jaw line, not the right h…	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 11:14 AM
0	Male beauty standard is killing me. You don't NEED any of it. It helps when you were born into a wealthy family, or when you have a strong jawline from good genes... But you are here. So your genes also found a way to come into existence. (so if your parents for laid and made you, so can you) Just be charming and have a few good jokes up your sleeve. Fake yourself being confident, until you start believing it and everything else will fall into place. And going to the gym is never a bad idea for a man, for a multitude of reasons. Y…	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 10:47 AM
12	Honestly women cannot handle rejection or take an L This video is ultra cringe, and doesn't really fit the goal of this subreddit - How is complaining about women putting Men's Rights forward?	/r/MensRights	16/12/21 02:08 PM
2	I made up a term called "competition mentality". It's when someone ignores the problems of a minority by stating that the other group of people in a similar situation have it worse. Let me explain further. Whataboutism.	/r/MensRights	14/10/21 12:26 PM
1	SCOTUS allows Texas abortion ban to proceed. Bodily Autonomy is important to everyone, no matter what form it may take. "To shreds, you say?"	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 05:03 PM
2	SCOTUS allows Texas abortion ban to proceed. Bodily Autonomy is important to everyone, no matter what form it may take. Yes. Also switching genders or skin colours in text, to look at something from a different perspective.	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 01:45 PM
2	SCOTUS allows Texas abortion ban to proceed. Bodily Autonomy is important to everyone, no matter what form it may take. Ok, then we are in agreement.	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 01:41 PM
4	SCOTUS allows Texas abortion ban to proceed. Bodily Autonomy is important to everyone, no matter what form it may take. My point was that empathy and caring for your fellow human beings should be something to strive for. When we see examples of things being done differently that actually benefit all people, then we should learn from it and adapt. And abortion should be legal. There was a study on some state, where after legalizing abortions, the crime rate started dropping, as unwanted children weren't brought into the world, those kids weren't abandoned or mistreated, and the ripple effect went from there. Do yo…	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 01:38 PM
-1	SCOTUS allows Texas abortion ban to proceed. Bodily Autonomy is important to everyone, no matter what form it may take. Well, in Asia, people who are sick do wear masks to protect others. There it is considered good custom to do so. Masks are proven to work in preventing transmissible (airborne) diseases. Would you not wear a mask when you are sick?	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 01:20 PM
0	SCOTUS allows Texas abortion ban to proceed. Bodily Autonomy is important to everyone, no matter what form it may take. Well I mean you don't bump into someone on the bus, and accidentally make them pregnant. You do spread common cold that way, simply by being in the vicinity of others.	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 01:17 PM
0	SCOTUS allows Texas abortion ban to proceed. Bodily Autonomy is important to everyone, no matter what form it may take. Well those two things are slightly different. You don't spread pregnancy to other people. That is the distinction.	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 11:38 AM
1	My brother was fired from his high position job at a factory for reporting sexual assault against him from another woman and a gay man. Name and shame	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 05:50 AM
2	This is a man trying to vent out for help and in desperate need for someone to talk to Op, you are codependent. You are trying to fix another person. This is not healthy. Look up r/codependent subreddit. You feel like she values her abusers' time, but not yours? That's it! Walk away. That is a sign of narcissism. She is what is called a vulnerable narcissist. Look it up as well. Why do you choose her to be around? What is preventing you from finding other people around you?	/r/MensRights	05/08/21 03:52 PM
4	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. You should reach out to her husband on private, and reassure that what you saw was not. Have him go to the police and write a statement. For future reference. Sounds like he'll need it.	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 06:02 AM
3	All female management and HR forced me out of the company after reporting harassment Name of the company?	/r/MensRights	29/04/21 07:34 AM
7	Oh my god I accidentally went on the female dating strategy subreddit and what the hell?? Just a reminder: Normal women don't go online to complain about men in general. It is a sub-class of narcissists who go and post on FDS. If you think that subreddit is breaking Reddit guidelines ( Content Policy - Reddit (redditinc.com) ), then I encourage you and everyone to report that subreddit.	/r/MensRights	15/04/21 05:09 AM
6	Hello! I'm a girl, attempting to write men in an accurate way, can anyone help? Yup, agreed. Especially since there are no one correct type. OP should just give it a go. Alternatively, base the character type on an example, and write how he would handle situations.	/r/MensRights	29/01/21 03:14 PM
17	Let’s start a movement to get kids to record sexism in schools. This sounds like a great idea. And could also be expanded to abuse/discrimination of all kinds. Any idea on how to share/market this idea to reach out to all kids?	/r/MensRights	29/01/21 03:09 PM
-1	People will masquerade as "progressive leftists" until they hear you support rights for the wrong group of people, and suddenly it's back to the 1950's. Why does feminism get a pass? When you say the rest of liberals... do you mean the loud minority? Do you mean that there is a smear campaign ongoing to smear the name of MRA? Perhaps this should be a great start for this subreddit to tackle? Perhaps we should organize a monthly post thread to invite all MRA's to collectively send email/feedback to an institution anywhere in the world that enact male-penalizing events, such as hiring only women, promoting only women, and penalizing men, or in other ways promoting a sexually d…	/r/MensRights	27/01/21 10:32 AM
4	People will masquerade as "progressive leftists" until they hear you support rights for the wrong group of people, and suddenly it's back to the 1950's. Why does feminism get a pass? you can start by not generalising MRAs Cool, done.	/r/MensRights	27/01/21 10:20 AM
1	People will masquerade as "progressive leftists" until they hear you support rights for the wrong group of people, and suddenly it's back to the 1950's. Why does feminism get a pass? My point was that I recognize the fact that other people love generalize. I don't think it's useful, but I recognize reality. If we start to also generalize in return, then this results in total communication breakdown. (See example of american politics, where the only form of communication is by now, throwing crap at each-other) What I am saying, is that we shouldn't resort to the same methods, because: 1. The only way to actually change the situation is to get our point across and get heard, 2…	/r/MensRights	27/01/21 09:57 AM
-20	People will masquerade as "progressive leftists" until they hear you support rights for the wrong group of people, and suddenly it's back to the 1950's. Why does feminism get a pass? Yeah, but it is clear that in return, you are now using the term liberals also as a slur.	/r/MensRights	27/01/21 09:05 AM
-18	People will masquerade as "progressive leftists" until they hear you support rights for the wrong group of people, and suddenly it's back to the 1950's. Why does feminism get a pass? Liberals just wait for a chance to call you sexist or racist Don't just generalize an entire group like this. This is lazy. It doesn't in any way help any party in the issue. It doesn't build common ground, doesn't open discussion, but instead closes discussion. As for the notion of being an MRA, then yes, people do think that of MRA people. And it doesn't help when the activists make a reputation of generalizing and putting all people into "They are all bad" group.	/r/MensRights	27/01/21 06:39 AM
-16	People will masquerade as "progressive leftists" until they hear you support rights for the wrong group of people, and suddenly it's back to the 1950's. Why does feminism get a pass? Wait, this just seems like an internet comment disagreement section. I am obviously missing some content. How is this linked to Mens Rights stuff?	/r/MensRights	27/01/21 06:35 AM
41	UK: Police will be banned from 'digital strip searches' of rape victims phones under new law. OP: Many men have been cleard of rape after a trawl of a phone revealed a false allegation. So much for justice! Have you ever seen a single professional give two shits about 'embarrassing' evidence? Like have you ever been to a doctor? Or met with a lawyer? When an investigation takes place after a crime has taken place, it's normal for all evidence to be submitted. This law is now choosing to ignore some of the evidence, that has in the past led multiple times to the unraveling of pre-meditated false accusations. This is a seriously fucked up verdict from the UK.	/r/MensRights	27/12/20 04:09 PM
0	Why is r/againstmensrights even a thing? Do you know why so few subs have been banned?	/r/MensRights	13/11/20 10:07 PM
-21	Why is r/againstmensrights even a thing? If you are unhappy, then go and report it. Reddit.com/report	/r/MensRights	13/11/20 11:59 AM
3	Petition to have Amber Heard removed as the L'Oreal Spokesperson Petitions are a bit crap. You want to make a stand? Bombard the CEO of L'Oreal with snailmail and nominate him/her for Piece of Shit awards. Take to Twitter and call him/her out. Smear the culture of abuse-acceptance to the person who is complicit: the CEO.	/r/MensRights	07/11/20 05:41 PM
29	Rule 16 at my local Jimmy John's.. not sure how to feel about that one. Comment this to their Google page and ask why they are supporting domestic violence? Like this is a chance to do something about it.	/r/MensRights	24/11/19 09:16 AM
3	How an ex-partner of mine got falsely accused of raping me "...how this guy will be affected." Hmmm, let me see. Oh, right. Every time there is disagreement between him and someone else, people will whisper behind his back, that yeah, 'he assaulted someone'. Nothing he says, will make anything better, only make him look more guilty. The only person who can and should set things right is you, OP. Link this post on your social media, and let people know. You have moved away, but the guy has to live with your friend's consequences. It's the adult thing to …	/r/MensRights	18/04/19 05:57 AM
2	How an ex-partner of mine got falsely accused of raping me Power move? Since when is doing the morally right thing a 'power move'?	/r/MensRights	18/04/19 05:50 AM