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strangely enough, the one categorizing the men with slight flaws as completely unbearable is the one condemning me as seeing humans black and white, strange indeed. I see where you stand when considering a woman's flaws in the dating scene as irrelevant, deflecting fault comes off as disingenuous. speaking of men whining about dating, let's talk about the women who complain that men are pulling out, shall we?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:36 AM
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why the fuck should I tolerate unbearable men just because alot of unbearable men exist seems rather vague, considering the majority of the population of both genders aren't able to balance their self, emotions, and majority being unstable, it's asking alot. Anger issues exist, disassociation exists, when you find a partner they have burdens they bare and seek someone else for help. "just got therapy bro" is not effective, it's a working progress, the person seeking therapy in thr back of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:46 AM
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I'd rather die
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:13 PM
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when did I say humans are flawless? can you point it out? as for or believe humans are all terrible how terribly misandrist to point out slight imperfections and twist them into something more sinister as an addon to my comment of humans being flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:03 PM
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it's a common phenomenon for men to date lower than their standards that results the conventionally unattractive women to become beautiful. Men have a diverse taste in women and have communities that isn't normally seen as attractive, dedicated to what they are looking for with little to no luck. It's usually women who are frustrated because men are dropping out of the dating scene or usually hear her complain that she isn't finding the "right" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:02 PM
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social media and porn has enhanced it, but expecting more is nothing short outside of human nature prior to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:25 PM
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couldn't agree more, if more men were nihilistic about dating and gave up instead of RP'ing themselves, the desperation would resolve highing standards into humility
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:25 PM
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not anymore, no. The shift of high standards puts the other party at risk with a heart break and betrayal. The man has a stable job, friends, and jumped through many hoops to attract a woman just for her to break his heart. The man's standards now expects a woman to basically hold her own, speaking volumes on a man's vulnerability and distrust for women in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:22 PM
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Why should women tolerate being around someone unbearable just because a lot of unbearable men exist? because alot of women do not meet up with their own standards that expect something more, where they marry a man who is mentally stable, and ruin him in the process. We are after all human with downfalls and mistakes, expecting totaly perfection and flawlessness is a form of objectification by negating his emotional needs for a situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:18 PM
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or just use sperm donors for reproduction Last thing we need are baby craving mentally ill women unable to handle raising a kid, continuing the cycle of generational drama, christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:12 PM
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why would I be jealous of your life style?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:36 AM
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totally believable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:32 AM
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same kind of thought can be reversed to women thst complain about men who are attracted to natural blond women with unrealistic narrow waist, GG breast's size and a bubble butt while remaining under the BMI chart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:28 AM
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But at least you’ve changed “women caused smaller men’s dating woes” to “women contributed to the sexual dimorphism between of men and women” not even you know what you are saying at this point So I suppose I’ll take your concession as a win. Because in the Victimhood Olympics. being forced to compete over genuine connections while the females take amusement to this? no wonder. which is the black pill for mentioning natural fundamentals? everything wrong with dating isn’t women’s fault. Men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:26 PM
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and there are women that do instant hookups that lie about wanting a LTR to tease the man she isn trying to persue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:20 PM
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blaming women for contributing to the cycle of natural selection in a supposed progressive culture we should be living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:52 PM
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The rejection of polygamy is a legal one, not necessarily a natural one. right, we can agree on that one What is it about polygamy that should make other masculine roles optional? military service (this varies some countries dont have it, i hear the states has it, switzerland has it. But there are western countries that still has these as mandatory while simultaneously not adhering to traditional norms) outdated divorce laws that only mattered back when the wives couldn't work. Being expected to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:49 PM
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wow! you can recite the basics of biology. Want recognition?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:41 PM
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ah, sorry for the defensiveness. I'm pretty much neutral on politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:39 PM
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oh, you're southern, explains the reading comprehension. Good day to you as well I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:32 PM
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re read, before you make a fool out of yourself again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:29 PM
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take a breath, sherry and retype that more coherently this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:28 PM
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morality and politics go hand in hand for jurisdiction, laws, and decisions. Many basic laws we have are rooted in basic morality. are you by chance a socialist why would that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:24 PM
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In places where women can now provide for themselves, they are free to select mates for fitness and symmetry rather than forced to marry for resources. You are seeing the results of sexual selection for women now. in places where women are free to provide for themselves, hypergamy is still around. "muh culture change tho" isn't a suffice explanation to say otherwise. not what bottle neck means speak for yourself nature Selects for fit specimines incorrect, it's usually the female that selects in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:20 PM
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if polygamy is allowed, then many expectations of masculine roles should be optional as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:17 PM
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incase you haven't known, ops post is completely political by having an opinion on how a population should be arranged based on values.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:15 PM
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me when don't understand adaptation and evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:13 PM
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Which is why women ‘with hold’ sex when wanting LTR. assets would be considered more important over sex in terms of convenience. Women also use people in relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:11 PM
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what blurs between it's okay to act upon or suppress natural impulses
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:38 PM
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absolutely, cultural progress has bottle necked ever since we thought it would be plausible to go above and beyond our natural impulses. Already you kind of see how traditionalism is still reminiscent under liberalism just more chaotic and competitive. Still wonder why progressivists never point the blame on nature for our short comings, maybe then we would achieve actual progress rather than chasing our tails, expecting a different outcome each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:32 PM
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absolutely hillarious how anti science claims dance around the wording to deny it. Culturalists are absolutely hillarious that they are allergic to reasoning, it's almost adorable how this religious sociology mentality constantly finds ways to move beyond ecology to find a glimmer of hope for humanity amidst their delusions. Apparently their nonsense still survived after the church no longer had authority of the state
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:20 PM
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It is relevant. Acting like you have been wronged when you’re not getting sex is entitlement. Stop treating not getting laid as a form of injustice Reread my post, no one is talking about that. What are you trying to look for exactly? If we’re really going to pretend compatibility and emotional connection isn’t relevant to a relationship, , then this conversation is over. taking into consideration it's mostly faked out of convenience, and transaction. I'd pretty much say your personal opinion to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:15 PM
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continue to read, you might improve on your focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:12 PM
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because it context matters, she is leaving out vital neuances. please read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:07 PM
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Wanting sex as an act of fairness is entitlement. irrelevant, it's an observation based on people's affairs to point out the myth of emotional intelligence based on gender. Why would I want a boyfriend I wouldnt even consider a friend if we werent fucking? do you represent all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:05 PM
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by interacting with people I find majority of them are scanning me, nothing wrong with that as I do the same, but they appear way too friendly. Often times they give subtle hints on making sure I completely abide by their beliefs. It's uncanny when you meet them outside of the internet hivemind. I'd like to believe not everyone in a belief is an extremist but even moderates kind of behave the same way except with cherry picking. It's difficult to find a genuine moderate who rarionalizes their pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:01 PM
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could never drive, too much anxiety and really poor coordination/multitasking and focusing, and I'd probably lash out by driving my car into another car out of anger. Rather not deal with that mess and ruin my life worse than it already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:54 AM
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mostly inexperienced men that get don't like it when a woman with a past is now just settling down as well, it varies and depends on the woman who he is with as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:50 AM
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emotional connections is not the same as being more intimate in sex, there are many women who have guy friends that have alot in common but she doesn't seem interested past friendship. It's not entitlement to point this out, it's calling on the myth that women are more sophisticated than men when it comes to emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:49 AM
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you can pick up on certain antics and patterns from previous people, and get a weird feeling about them from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:45 AM
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if we leave the situation where she did have past hookups, we are viewed as only finding immediate sex from her. If he wasn't a virgin that is different, then I'd say he is hypocritical. in this case if he has his virginity still, she would be hypocritical in this situation. then the hookup and dating scene is so convoluted you get promiscuous people larping as people who want a serious relationship out of manipulation to get their partner second-guessing constantly. At this point, it's easy to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:39 AM
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as women often say not having a bitter entitled personality while being nice is just the bare minimum I'm not asking women to use this requirement as the ideal and throw themselves at men who exhibit this personality, but what I'm saying is why change when the outcome will be the same anyway. This isn't just an entitled thought process, punishment reward system proven by frued (or jung im not sure) is common. men don't just outright hate women for no reason, it takes negative reinforcement for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:42 AM
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it's a belle curve, men are also bitter when in a relationship later on so it's not just lonely men. I've noticed this time and time again when friends vent to me. Just seems to me the men that end up in relationships just "buckle down" and deal with the flaws of a woman's personality is what it essentially boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:39 AM
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usually those relationships are later broken off and vented about later as, he was nice.... but. or he just wasn't the one..., and other similar varients of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:35 AM
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women aren't a monolith that incels keep judging but also claiming all women are repelled or attracted by something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:33 AM
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it's not a gender thing for me not to trust what people say, alot of people can say one thing and behave differently which is a manipulative tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:31 AM
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they follow it up with "I don't judge" while using it as an insult when you criticize their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:34 AM
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women's sexualization doesn't help either when their attraction is based around the usual stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:33 AM
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she's not screening you for money because they work now how inconspicuous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:15 PM
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because pleasure reduces someone to mere objects and becomes judged based on what they provide. There is no emotional connection therefore admiration of your partner is no longer there. Replaceable and expendable for someone better until that person runs dry. There is no commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:55 PM
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you don't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:13 PM
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how do we know women don't use this as a way to tease, I don't trust the dating system, but for guys that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:45 PM
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Basically this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:43 PM
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keyword: one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:39 PM
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problem is they treat casual hook ups as normal dating and commitment. There is nothing wrong with casual hook up, if you want to dehumanize yourself, that's on you. Problem is bringing guys in that want a potential relationship to blossom by advertising being a prude and saving yourself, and dehumanizing them as your average mediocre man for simply not sexually pleasing her. Ironically enough these are the same women who cry about a man's sexual standards being too high, so I find it hypocritic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:35 PM
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ikr? all of a sudden she "magically changed" its going to throw alot of guys off. Wether jealousy or not, it still shows comparisons and guys don't like feeling compared
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:31 PM
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most of us dont want that first night sex it's usually the guys that do, defend their way of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:28 PM
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and there are female middle school teachers who sleep with their students, mutilple instances of radfem shooters, vice versa. Your point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:05 PM
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yeah basically, however it's already taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:17 AM
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men as well, why do you think a guy that has casual sex also despises them at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:01 AM
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this magical substance will fix you! okay alternative medicine believer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:58 AM
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And in case of France it's in big part because of regulations in regards to handling DNA information. It's illegal in general not just for paternity. their original purpose was because the DNA testing wether it was to test for paternity recreational purposes had the to potential to break apart families. Lobbying is just done differently at an EU level. Irregardless, you don't need to lobby at EU level, you can still do that at national level. And outside of France you usually don't have issue wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:55 AM
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But I never even argued this. I said women are nicer as in they are more polite and less insulting to men they find unattractive despite that fact men still rage about rejection. being entitled to someone and raging about rejection are mutually exclusive are they not? that doesn't make you any better than the niceguy stereotype. It’s not if you’re hot. You just ain’t hot if being nice is an ick. yeah, we know being hot determines how excusable a man's behavior is. But saying ick like it isn't de…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:07 PM
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you're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:42 PM
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that seemed difficult for you to get out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:41 PM
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now you are aware, next step is getting help ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:40 PM
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so you are smarter than I thought, incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:39 PM
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reality remains reality oh of course
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:36 PM
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do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:35 PM
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whatever you say p_edo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:34 PM
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I never said women can’t be fiend zoned or whatever I said generally speaking (that doesn’t mean in every possible case it just means in most cases or more often than not) women are nicer than men. more times than not women get envious that their friend found someone else, so being territorial is not uncommon amongst women. women are nicer than men. totally, that is why majority of men also feel like they have to walk on eggshells to talk to women as well, too bad that's also considered an ick f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:33 PM
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r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:27 PM
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rather have no sexual attention, than use examples of sexual attention from people you consider as children, as a form of rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:26 PM
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it's okay grandma you forgot your afternoon pills, there there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:25 PM
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as would human proportions for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:24 PM
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I'm just stating facts, constantly, as a way to have an upperhand over someone else that children orbit around me followed by synonymous ways to say "are you jealous" right so you admit they are children I'm pointing out how strange you over exert your "facts" as a one up against "le inkwells" that you get sexual attention from an age range you consider children as a way to boost your self esteem and value. it's basically like a 30 year old man saying "look at me get attention from teenage girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:18 PM
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self deprivation at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:16 PM
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says the one attracted to bears
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:15 PM
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you mean in the event the one being cheated on didn't partake in? of course a cheater would change their mind about their previous conversations in the moment of convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:15 PM
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It doesn’t women notice unattractive men when they make passes on them which they react to with fear and disgust. thanks for proving me right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:13 PM
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it's better than bragging about getting sexual attention from children, don't ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:12 PM
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because people that think with their genitals aren't capable of having a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:10 PM
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so this is what you mean by getting attention, oh no I happened to reply to delusional comments on reddit, sue me. enjoy ending up developing your mother's personality, lol lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:05 PM
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ahead of what exactly, reproducing? thats an oxymoron, considering the paternity test is to make sure you are the one that helped with reproducing and not someone else. Your dismissive dialog falls apart there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:00 PM
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that's hillarious to believe unattractive men are invisible to women, when a woman's "intuition" or her paranoia rampage constantly points to the undesirable man subliminally. As if doublexchromosomes wasn't enough material to provide much evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:42 PM
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places like the EU lobbying is illegal or if there are loopholes, not easy for the average interest group to slide through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:37 PM
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This is BS. A woman can reject a man kindly and he’ll still be pissed and vengeful it’s a myth that the men are just upset because women were “mean”. assuming r/nicegirls aren't a thing and totally never get possessive and territorial to just male friends. The reality is women are way nicer than men are generally it’s actually something the Red Pill gladly points out as a weakness of women, apparently we don’t tell it like it is and lie about liking “nice guys” to protect our image and menMs fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:36 PM
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If you want to be sure ahead of time, have the conversation about paternity testing before procreation. assuming she doesn't get pregnant from another man? that's rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:27 PM
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no one wants to be manipulated and exploited, you are taking that choice from the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:17 PM
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weird for women to say the patriarchy oppressed them only, pick an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:15 PM
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it seems one is legally more unfavore of the other. One is more exploitive than the other side it's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:14 PM
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how is it despicable for the man to make sure he is not being used? it's about being sure ahead of time, the man's security is also just as important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:12 PM
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and the countries that don't allow them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:09 PM
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so you pride yourselves on how much you can eat in one sitting? contradicting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:37 PM
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surprised this hasn't garnished much attention
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:24 PM
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right? it's easy to make a fake tinder account
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:22 PM
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maternity needs being met, yeah. Freud is always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:16 PM
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that's the point age gap people make most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:14 PM
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gags on grandpa "ugh you guys are so" mmm "gross!" splurge "ickkk I got grandpa icing all over me!, disgusting moid wait till I tell my boyfriend about this!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:12 PM
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we get it grandma, you're happy to have children visit you in the retirement home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:08 PM
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speaking of man children, you don't seem very mature for your age either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:05 PM
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I want a committed relationship not just sex calls her self kinky princess oh my me the joke writes itself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:00 PM
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emotions change because tastes change, which depends on circumstance. indecisive but still logical if you are assuming logic goes off of causality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:55 PM
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usually, the ones providing that have the power dynamic against them. Its more of an uphill battle to maintain than most people realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:53 PM
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when it comes it attractiveness morals and beliefs are thrown out the window. That much is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:51 PM
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it's the unattractive ones they tease to get something out of them, like protection and resources. They say it like it's such a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:48 PM
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a dollar to a billionaire is worthless many in such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:46 PM
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you're saying it like it's the only thing you can offer, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:37 PM
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there's a difference between women rejecting them, and outright insulting and calling them creeps simply because they don't fit the attractive demographic. It's revenge but not out of "simply" rejecting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:35 PM
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women have started this one way before men have, it's the women that can't handle what they dished out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:33 PM
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you could do better than what they do instead of being like them, but ig not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:31 PM
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right, it's made up of individuals and is grouped in as a singular network. It's an abstract concept that is capable of disassociating the individual from themself to serve something bigger, where leaders and founders aren't safe of being replaced much like the common man. The idea is their guide that provides base fundamental ideas that dictate ones way of life. However self discovery will soon tell that individual much if their desires that are given to them from this idea, is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:59 AM
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keyword: desiring
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:04 PM
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people who are self fulfilled are less likely to fall into a relationship, point is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:47 PM
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bonding occurs when both parties come together to fulfill based on what the other lacks, marriage is what I believe is a useless concept. When partnership is based on the principles of reproduction of the species. You assume there is more to it than simple chemistry and co-dependancy. They are "committed" because they have no one else to depend on. Completely transactional and fake. otherwise she would not fantasy Hollywood actors
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:25 PM
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basically what it boils down to, yeah. Being constantly controlling is not easy for anyone, which is why they are the ones that are usually the ones to break down mentally. They don't enjoy the power trip, abuse of power is a state of paranoia of constantly needing to maintain something. Its stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:15 PM
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that's disassociation not true desire
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:14 PM
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funny how you leave out long term bonding vs short term bonding, the Maddona whore complex but for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:13 PM
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incorrect, the cultural desire is a collective desire passed through tradition that trickles down to personal preference by people raised under it. People protect it, cherish it, and get offended when someone dares question it. It's an entity and a belief that a network of minds share to form a broader concept like a god. Just like when people bow before a king, they don't bow to the king directly, they bow to the throne and their title as the king himself is easily replaceable. It follows simil…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:25 AM
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cultural desires aren't necessarily the same as interpersonal desires. they think they do and believe it, but actions show differently when the wife shows she has similar interests to the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:43 AM
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they say that because they hear it from other people, but they will connect better with a woman on his level of ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:36 AM
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I've given enough context throughout to indicate it is only useless if you are only a sahm seeking a man to be the only provider and live off his income as contribution. If the roles are shared it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:51 PM
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it's not when you can find social ques in what they say, it's just some people prefer to over look the red flags when the partner excites them on first encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:44 PM
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said, but then there is actually doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:42 PM
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Internet made things more convenient but it doesn't change human behavior, if anything culture warps around human nature. Any genocidal regime in history didn't have internet to make them do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:41 PM
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then she wouldn't be a sahm If she had income and and contributed, keep in mind in my position most if the duties are shared, yours isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:35 PM
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irrelevant, you are on the position of only being a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:01 PM
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can say the same thing about women complaining about rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:59 PM
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feminism is about woman's rights it's not like a femcel community ehh lines blur abit in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:54 PM
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money spent from your husband, you mean... I'm saying what you are asking for, just providing the bare minimum for him is kind of worthless. Especially expecting your partners income alone to raise an entire family in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:38 PM
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oh wow, huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:30 PM
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of course I don't know, but considering doing basic tasks you should be doing already regardless of gender and marital status as a full time job shows me it's difficult for someone like you to keep up with basic hygiene cleanliness levels. It's not a real task if I'm being honest, it is more universal, it's kind of a joke to consider homemaking as a justifiable means of contributing when considering a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:10 PM
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You know what’s worse than that? Having a kid by accident when you haven’t even began to have your life in order. If you’re irresponsible in your younger years, then having children later is clearly the better option. it's not a better option both are horrible options, for one there are complications of children when parents are older, such as higher risk of developing mental problems and health problems. https://www.healthline.com/health-news/children-of-older-mothers-health-risks https://med.s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:57 PM
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a personal attack would be a baseless insult, claiming how difficult it is to keep up with basic tasks and considering it as a full time job indicates laziness and poor self care. That's not ment to be an insult, that was a genuine question. Instead of writing scathing rants about how worthless you believe homemakers are besides the objective...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:35 AM
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See above. Wasting your 20s as a woman is a show of poor judgment. incorrect, anyone that abused themselves for sexual deviance during their peak age horribly, they get dingy and disgusting as their beauty wares off barely held together by a layer of makeup. Same goes for men who had casual sex too, they also get dingy and disgusting as they age. There is a radiant presence to someone who isn't in their prime that hasn't had casual one night stands. as for having children older, please don't. as…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:29 AM
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oh no, have you seen a Karen before?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:23 AM
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nit trying to make it a personal attack, complaining basic tasks as difficult gendered duties would raise suspicion on how you live. but men don't do home making based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:15 AM
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it's definitely true, I'm not denying that, but we deny this truth to feel comfortable at the existence of being created to fulfill some task and nothing more. Some people are created to do menial tasks while others are created to design and direct others or engage in creativity. The ones designed to fight don't have a mind that allows them to archive information, but only be responsible for quick sudden information for action purposes, that people are oh so quick to judge as if they dont have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:19 AM
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homemaking is fulfilling basic tasks and doing what you should be doing, whether single or not. That is the thing. You are just doing what you should already be doing for hygiene. I assume you don't do hygienic tasks because it's too difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:01 AM
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Basically you want a full time provider that is wealthy while you just do house chores, without reciprocating it's quite high expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:25 PM
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with your standards in men it kind of is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:22 PM
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huh? what's this now? prying at people's insecurities again? whew it's like I can read people a mile away
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:23 PM
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a little bit of criticism sent you into a mental breakdown, Jesus dude, seek a therapist. complains men don't show attention to each other acts like the exact same way he criticized the men for behaving I'm cacklin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:19 PM
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bro even though bluepilled favors women a tad bit more just trust me bro so you are a narcissist, gotcha Bruh because when make male spaces like that it's in online incel forums imfao. I mean get out and talk to your friends irl, make male friends irl and online as well as long as that doesn't become the 26th incel forum. ironic coming from someone on reddit, when hasn't there been a time where people isolate themselves in ideological groups before online, that's redundant. Women hardly do anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:55 PM
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men want a dominant woman because they connect with them better and higger chance of shared interests. Most of those women aren't the motherly type, they are straight forward and blunt which appeals to a man's security as if he doesn't feel like he has to walk on eggshells to please her, but already feel comfortable. It's more of a kinship than insecurity. For the most part men are uncomfortable dealing with fragile women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:39 PM
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That's the problem. Men suppress everything and release it all out. People don't want that, be normal and release it normally. should or shouldn't opinions to causality is moot at best, I'm explaining why men have more outbursts, not making moral opinions. Men need to support each other, if others can't support them like that. Most problems men create themselves. mostly those men are those that favor women too much, you get the overly progressive man or the traditional blue collar man they both …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:17 PM
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Oh so now because you grew up amongst people with a false religion, irrelevant, behavioral norm still counts you’re going to classify all men as ungrateful and bitter that their wives work tirelessly for the sake of their kids? Isn’t that misandry? you're implying women aren't capable of doing anything outside of household chores? that sounds misogynistic. No one is a bigger misandrist than someone who treats their partner as a financial money bag, let alone the self hatred you must have for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:39 PM
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well obviously someone who hasn't been heard before and is taught to bottle up emotions finally is put in a place (where he thinks the person is being genuine) to open up, he will let most of it out, that's... the cause of suppressed emotions. Which is the fault of dating standards and attraction as well as social norms poking fun as insecurities in men wether it is against toxic masculinity from the progressive side, or against men who don't want to fit into traditional norms from the tradition…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:31 PM
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you seem to be implying that long term addictions don’t affect our brain wiring. that also implies people want to be addicted just because, when many addicts hate themselves for being addicted in the first place. If they have a strong preference to a stimulation its already over for them when they discovered it to begin with, the other problem with long term addiction changing and wiring the mind also indicates the one who is addicted would have been able to stop the moment they discovered said …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:23 PM
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can't explain why it's nonsense keeps deflecting the main point that the mother can provide for the child, that the child's rights aren't completely neglected if the child doesn't want to live or didn't consent to living that's on the mother it's like the father is solely responsible for the child being born
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:17 PM
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and now you admit that "I don't want a rich guy just one to support a family" was a fabrication for the former. Your husband will eventually want your contribution to be more tha "teehee look at me make craft dinner for the 5th time this week and clean the dishes for the family!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:51 PM
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except that this deflection was an accurate depiction; men should open up but only when it's convenient to me, but I'm empathetic I swear! or in translation: erm he is too emotional he should open up but only in this mysterious and poetic way! otherwise I'll view him as being insecure that refuses to see a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:47 PM
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They accrue to the child by virtue of having been made to exist by its parents, without its consent. such an argument can be made to justify eugenics, let's not go down that path. but the truth of the matter is if the mother is supporting the child's rights, the father doesn't have to reciprocate. That is the thing you are being too pedantic to acknowledge. You are acting as if the child will be homeless and starving simply because the father isn't giving alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:45 PM
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if the mother wants the child she can deal with it, seems fair imo. if the father doesn't he doesn't have to. That is the beauty of equal right, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:39 PM
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interesting, however... men should open up but only when it's convenient to me, but I'm empathetic I swear! or in translation: erm he is too emotional he should open up but only in this mysterious and poetic way! otherwise I'll view him as being insecure that refuses to see a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:37 PM
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you don't need to be rich to support a family sounds like someone hasn't supported a family before especially in this economy...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:36 PM
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Parents owe obligations to their children. “I don’t want to meet my obligations” is not a justification for violating your child’s rights. as you said, equal rights don't guarantee equal outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:35 PM
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rights can shift and change for individualism, it's not a concrete argument against hypocrisy. Right to life changed for autonomy of my body, see how insignificant your argument is? So the mother is the one caring for the child, the child's right is being fulfilled from the mother as she wanted to keep the child. So this cycles back to why should the father not opt out if the mother decides to keep the baby. This takes away from the man's choice all together dictated by the woman. If the right t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:27 PM
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olay but... men should open up but only when it's convenient to me, but I'm empathetic I swear! or in translation: erm he is too emotional he should open up but only in this mysterious and poetic way! otherwise I'll view him as being insecure that refuses to see a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:22 PM
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so you are trying to be a stay at home mother seeking rich men, while not being upfront about it. While also complaining about the men's standards, sounds hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:21 PM
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my morals actually come from certain things are bad because it can be used to exploit, such as human trafficking women and exploiting and profiting off mentally vulnerable men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:08 PM
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so that is an underlying cause to addiction such as adhd and brain chemical imbalances, people engage in these behaviors because it produces a chemical that their brains don't produce naturally, which is also the same chemical in illegal drugs such as amphetamines. People who are addicted already have a bad prefrontal cortex to begin with. Which is why adhd and behavioral meds are slightly altered amphetamines. It helps regulate the hippocampus and the amygdala. People conflait nurture with natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:01 PM
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mans anatomy is different from a woman's, so a man being prone to high libido and having painful boners through every hormonal cycle (daily) is not about lacking self control for most men who masturbate daily. The problem is alot of women that do criticizes a man's libido see it through their own lens. Testicular contortions and blue balls is very likely to happen when an urge goes too long without relief, especially in the mornings when the males hormonal cycle is at its peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:52 PM
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why the father, if the mother is financially providing for the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:39 PM
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weird that you say they don't, while criticizing men for ignoring them or not wanting anything to do with social groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:38 PM
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men should open up but only when it's convenient to me, but I'm empathetic I swear! or in translation: erm he is too emotional he should open up but only in this mysterious and poetic way! otherwise I'll view him as being insecure that refuses to see a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:34 PM
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why should we see people that view us as "husband material providing bread winners" in a positive light
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:22 PM
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and a man can opt out of child support if need be as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:19 PM
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or, the deadbeat mothers who decided to have a child with a dead beat father
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:15 PM
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yes, so the mother can work and provide for that child financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:14 PM
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that came from women themselves for bragging rights to shame men that feel pain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:03 PM
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some people are allergic to latex and the alternative materials aren't that affective as latex ones are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:01 PM
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no one wants to pay to have emotional needs met to a point it's kind of exploitation of mentaly vulnerable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:58 PM
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my only problem is that differences assumes limitation and lacking in one aspect of skill as I'm stuck being a certain criteria nature imposed upon me through genetic predisposition as my fate is now sealed. Truth is truth but the existentialism is the part most of us are bothered by. People outright offended by this aren't very emotionally intelligent in this regard if their only argument is nature argument is adhering to fascist values, or whatever other tactics they use to dismiss the unrefut…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:54 PM
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you're right, the child doesn't deserve to be punished, why bring life to a child in a broken family? seems idiotic don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:49 PM
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what a broad question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:47 PM
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similar to women when they see a guy that is not apart of the chad/cuck dilemma?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:46 PM
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him: I want a wife I can rely on your conclusion: YOU SICK FREAK YOU JUST WANT A HUMAN SEX TOY TO OWN HER seek a therapist weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:44 PM
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Basically you can't differentiate between guys wanting casual sex and guys that want a long term relationship. gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:41 PM
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erm why aren't men opening up!? ugh om gee I'm not your therapist!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:38 PM
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Boiling down? I said it was an example. One concrete example of an issue that asymmetrically effects men. It's difficult to have a discussion without a clear topic! horrible example, seems to me you used a convenient one to isolate actual things to fit a narrative that all men want to be oppressed because "they are just bored lol" leaves a bad taste in anyone's mouth who is genuine about these topics. Women also work, pretty much everyone on the left of center wants this. Take Texas as an exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:34 PM
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or you could say no like someone with free agency would do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:22 PM
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then maybe you should make that income you desire out of a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:28 PM
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Just boiling down mens issues to gambling is very dismissive of you, while turning around saying the things you want banned that don't at all what so ever have anything to do with solving our problems, make it seem you are doing it for selfless reasons. Ways to improve mens issues would be to improve work environments, stop expecting men to always be the bread winner, while looking down on men who don't meet your expectations. Address the legal system that put men through harsher sentences than …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:25 PM
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and with female middle school teachers sleeping with their students in the rise, media never covers this. comes to show you which one is more stigmatized, actual pedophilia or just sending "slight bad vibes to parents or teachers"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:38 PM
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because majority of them look down on a man who does not have a full fledged carrier, and often uses your average unattractive man as a scapegoat, claiming they should do better, and act like they are the means to an end of their tribulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:29 PM
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funny way of saying "teehee I like abusive dark triads"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:27 PM
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men don't suffer body image issues? yeah go fuck yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:23 PM
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both adhere to gynocentrism so it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:21 PM
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you mean that those women that fetishize Hollywood actors that dehydrate themselves to get peak body, behind her husband's back who is not nearly as attractive? yeah no thanks. enjoy your chads without having our financial stability holding you up, buh bye
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:20 PM
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how 4b is such an attention grab when men play it better, they just want us to say "noooo I'm sorry please comeback!" without realizing females under appreciating us makes us more resilient to the lack of attention hence allowing us to play the game better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:17 PM
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females don't deserve attention nor are they entitled to it. If you want us you have to appease us, it goes both ways. What good are you besides being a wet hole and looking pretty, nothing, no inherent value whatsoever ever, just a means to an end and a shitty one at that. You aren't entitled to these options, and we have the right to drop out when we feel humiliated and dehumanized. Maybe do better as a woman and maybe we might come back, rather than act like an adult child expecting things to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:12 PM
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maybe because their standards are too high, why not point out the actual root cause of this rather than being dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:03 PM
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by then she's treating you like an object rather than a human being, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:51 PM
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using hypotheticals as if they were true the promiscuous one is always going to compare you rather outright or subliminally. Let alone her sexual interests objectify men by quite a bit often making men feel insecure with justifiable reasons .inb4 she chose you out of those other men; would be different if she had options and didn't go with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:45 PM
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