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vellyr/r/seduction01/04/12 06:02 AM
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Start early, build gradually. I've never had a girl outright reject my kino, but I've had a few who I moved too quickly with and they either got uncomfortable or an AMOG or cockblocking friend called us out and she got embarrased.
/r/seduction14/06/12 11:16 AM
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The best places for day game are places where there are lots of people sitting or standing in one place. Food courts, Busy coffee shops, parks, bookstores, crosswalks with long lights, etc.
/r/seduction10/06/12 01:57 AM
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Yes, it may never become natural though. I realize I need to build social connections so I force myself to go out to a party or a club or something at least a couple times a month. Once I get there I can flip on my "social switch" and generally have a good time and meet people. I don't find large social events fun in general, but the seeds I plant there can help me do things I find entertaining later on, so it's a good skill to have.
/r/seduction10/06/12 01:52 AM
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Hey, this guy is an anthropologist!
/r/seduction07/06/12 01:33 AM
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If you're not going to tell us the reason how are we supposed to come up with a good answer?
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:17 AM
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Fall out boy - I Don't Care
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:24 AM
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Not going lie, I find her face very unappealing and cold (not ugly, mind you). If I saw her in a bar I wouldn't hit on her either. I think I'm in the minority though. Most guys are probably intimidated by her looks and/or body language.
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:11 PM
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Ok, I see what you're saying. Usually when people on seddit use the term, they mean "what women find attractive". What other word would you use? "High-value" works I guess.
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:06 PM
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Because you only have so much free time, you can and should be filling it with girls you're actually attracted to. Also, using a less-attractive girl's self-confidence issues for your personal sexual gratification is not what this sub is about. You might not want a relationship, but what about her? The lower a girl's confidence, the more likely it is that she wants an LTR. Don't touch them and you'll both be better off for it.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:01 AM
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Sure, you could counter 'that's not what being alpha is about yo', but I disagree. The alpha man is traditionally aggressive and dominant. So you're defining "Alpha" as something different than this community does and then you say that you don't like it. There are many ways to be alpha, the football player/frat boy is only one way. Would you describe the Don Juan type as beta? I wouldn't. If by not being "aggressive" you mean you want to be so magnetic you don't have to approach women, that's pr…
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:49 AM
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I don't think you'll ever stop being an introvert. If you get tired of putting yourself out there all the time, take a break and go for a LTR for a while.
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:05 AM
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It's a common misconception that overcoming LMR involves pressuring or manipulating. Everything I've read revolves around simply making her more comfortable and seeing if she changes her mind. Every girl that comes back to your place willingly has to be entertaining the idea of sex somewhere in her mind, unless maybe she's Amish. The idea that every "no" is not a "hard no" is important to guys wanting to get laid. That said, I agree that this is dangerous advice in the hands of a stupid, horny "…
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:57 PM
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I had a rather interesting discussion about it on /r/askwomen the other day. The primary offenders are LMR, the HB scale, and negging (which nobody here recommends anyway). They have a very strong idea in their heads from somewhere that PU is immoral, dishonest, and encourages rape. They think that we have some kind of voodoo mind control that we use to prey on helpless women and somehow "trick" them into having sex with us (ironically this shows an underestimation of females' true willpower). T…
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:34 PM
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Check out /r/askwomen or /r/twoxchromosomes
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:26 PM
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It's not something you're "born" with, it's a result of your upbringing. I was a skinny, pale, nerdy ginger in elementary school, so I got bullied. I was taught that I was a submissive beta male before I even started looking at girls. I was brought up in a Christian home, where I was taught to only have sex after marriage, and to suppress my sexuality around women. Because of this, I didn't lose my virginity until 25. I've been reading seddit for about 6 months now and I've already managed to un…
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:26 AM
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How are you sure he knew you liked her? Did you tell him? At this point I'd say there's not much you can do except try to hang out with her more and be awesome about it. When you hang out with her are you making eye contact? Kino? If you're doing all that and she still doesn't respond chances are it's too late and it's time to get over your crush and find a new girl.
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:10 AM
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Actually, the advice women give most often is "just be yourself".
/r/seduction16/05/12 01:40 PM
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I heard about this kind of thing somewhere else. They called it "reality breaking" I think. The idea is that you do something so unexpected that you instantly form a strong impression. I can just imagine, you catch a girl's eye from across the room, smile at her, she smiles back seductively. You approach her with wide, confident strides, her heart races with anticipation. You walk up to her, look her dead in the eye, and...meow like a kitten. I'm cracking up just thinking about it.
/r/seduction15/05/12 02:09 PM
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If you're in a situation where you have to convince her with words, it's probably not going to happen.
/r/seduction15/05/12 03:22 AM
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Sure, you might be able to get her caught up in "the heat of the moment" or whatever and convince her to sleep with you. Do you really want to be the source of her shame and regret though? If she was serious about only having sex within a relationship it will bother her afterwards.
/r/seduction15/05/12 03:19 AM
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You don't. You respect her decision and next her.
/r/seduction15/05/12 02:31 AM
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I live in Japan, which has a similar taboo approaching random people, and let me tell you it is possible to run day game here. People will excuse you for approaching them because you're foreign, and many of them are actually quite interested in talking to you. I've actually had girls comment on how it would be creepy if a Japanese guy did it, but they didn't mind it coming from me. You automatically get people looking at you because you're different, so next time you go out to a crowded area, tr…
/r/seduction14/05/12 02:11 PM
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No kidding, I'm talking the tiniest girl I know, and I'd still have to put on 30 pounds of muscle to meet that statistic. I'm already a pretty fit guy. If I wanted to date a girl my height I would need to be a grotesque meat-sculpture or a major fatty.
/r/seduction14/05/12 06:05 AM
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Ideally, you're not just getting her number, you're getting a real connection with her, which gives you options. In that sense, getting the number isn't the actual accomplishment and shouldn't be viewed as such. Getting the girl interested enough to go out with you later is the accomplishment, getting her number is just a way to facilitate your later interaction.
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:55 AM
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Link? That seems pretty ridiculous. Even most little girls weigh at least 110, which would mean the guy would have to be 170. For an average-height guy that's pretty fucking heavy.
/r/seduction14/05/12 01:00 AM
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I have never met a girl who was uncomfortable with me touching her arm (aside from the bitchy ones that just shut down my open). Obviously wait for return IoIs before you escalate. I think one of my major problems is I escalate kino the same speed on every girl without gauging her reaction.
/r/seduction13/05/12 04:26 PM
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Don't worry about what people expect you to do. You could ride into the bar on a unicycle and a banana hat and people would just be like "oh those wacky foreigners". You're completely free of pesky social norms. From what I hear, most people in Korea speak decent English, at least enough to have a bar conversation. If you're a decent looking guy, you're a drool-worthy hottie over there because caucasians are rare and exotic, and they will associate you with famous movie stars.
/r/seduction11/05/12 01:59 AM
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Things that catch my eye -Smiling -Nice hair -Meets people's eyes -Muscle tone
/r/seduction11/05/12 01:50 AM
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High school teacher is not one
/r/seduction10/05/12 01:45 PM
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28 isn't old, lol. Guys can be desirable to young and attractive women from about 18 to 45 (obviously not absolute) so 28 is less than halfway to old-mandom if you view it in that light.
/r/seduction10/05/12 02:09 AM
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Hi, my name is ____. <Situational Opener about your city, or the other people on the bus, or the weather, or whatever>. DON'T mention that you see her on the bus all the time. Even if she sees you too, just forget about that and go with the moment. Approaching girls on buses or trains is super high-risk because if she's not into it, she has nowhere to go and it's super awkward. Most girls won't mind though. It's up to you to decide whether it's worth it.
/r/seduction10/05/12 02:02 AM
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Everything on this subreddit is "ways to attract women". I guarantee that almost every tip on here was copied from a natural who did it without thinking once. This community is primarily for people who weren't born chick-magnets, but have realized that being a chick-magnet is a learnable skill. It's all about cultivating desirable behavior in yourself, not "tricking" girls into taking off their pants.
/r/seduction05/05/12 07:07 AM
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Just man up and go for it. There's no "technique" involved really, other than waiting for the right moment and location. That said, one line I've used is "have you been kissed lately?". She said no, so I kissed her, but if she said yes then you could be like "well then, I'm not going to kiss you" and play with her a bit.
/r/seduction04/05/12 03:32 AM
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Check out bodyrock.tv. They have a ton of free workouts you can do at home with a modicum of equipment. Also, they're HARD. I find my biggest excuse for not working out is that it takes too long to go to the gym, so having something i can do at home is ideal.
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:49 AM
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She's right...sort of. You're not going to get real far by using "tricks". It's more about changing your mindset/social behavior than special techniques that will make girls fall for you. I disagree that girls know what they want though. As a general rule, don't listen to a girl's advice on this matter. It's almost disgusting to me how big the disconnect between a woman's heart and her mind is.
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:45 AM
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I used to do this. If it's something stupid like "where should we eat" or ordering off a menu, it's not going to change your life. You just need to force yourself to choose something at random and then deal with the consequences. Usually it won't be that bad.
/r/seduction27/04/12 02:45 PM
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You don't have to get angry or lose your cool to defend yourself.
/r/seduction26/04/12 03:42 AM
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It's one of the mysteries of life. It's just something girls do, and then they wonder why they can never meet any good guys. I never got flaked by the rare #closes I had when I was an AFC. They would go on dates with me and then friendzone me. So my theory is that it has to do with the fact that what attracts girls and what girls think attracts them are the exact opposite. In person she may be attracted to you, but later she thinks "I'm not into that kind of guy". It's a form of ASD.
/r/seduction26/04/12 01:16 AM
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You're probably not even in any "zone" yet. You should walk with her to one of her classes and get to know a little about her. If she says anything that seems like it could lead into a date, invite her out. If not, get her number (at the high point of the conversation, not right before you say goodbye) and ask her out the next day.
/r/seduction26/04/12 01:07 AM
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You don't need to lie to pick up girls.
/r/seduction26/04/12 01:01 AM
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Well, Creed is one of the most well-respected names in the fragrance business. I've heard people call their fragrances "smelling in 3D", and to be sure they're definitely more complex and interesting than your average cologne, but also overpriced. I recently got into cologne collecting as a hobby, and no matter what forum I go to looking for recommendations, this one comes up again and again along with another fragrance by them, Green Irish Tweed. I wouldn't buy anything just because it's recomm…
/r/seduction22/04/12 09:57 AM
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Really, it's about how you want to present yourself. Sure some colognes smell better than others to different people, but pretty much any good cologne will help. It makes you stand out and adds another way to express your individuality. Girls do love old spice though.
/r/seduction22/04/12 05:52 AM
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Creed Aventus. Pricy, but from what I've heard about it, it's got to have unicorn blood or something in it.
/r/seduction22/04/12 05:49 AM
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You have a much higher chance of your feelings being reciprocated if you man up and tell her to her face. Being "forceful" is good, you need to learn to do it.
/r/seduction18/04/12 01:35 AM
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Issey Miyake L'eau d'Issey for basically anything and Paco Rabanne Black XS for clubbing are my two favorites right now. Other good ones are Burberry London (smells like Christmas), Versace Man Eau Fraiche and pour Homme, A&F Fierce. Check out the forums at www.basenotes.net for a massive list of "what chicks dig".
/r/seduction15/04/12 04:35 AM
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"Can a man still be brave if he's afraid?" "That is the only time a man can be brave." -Game of Thrones
/r/seduction14/04/12 01:40 AM
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Doesn't this make you look like kind of a boob if they're legitimately busy? I can also see this triggering a rebellious response in some women.
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:40 AM
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Came here to say this.
/r/seduction13/04/12 03:49 AM
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In my experience with Japanese girls, racism is a factor, but about half the time it works in your favor, so it's not something to be worried about. You should try to go for the ones that are obviously into white guys, it will save you a lot of time. I'm not sure what color your eyes/hair are, but if they're anything other than brown/black be sure to flaunt them openly. I get drunk girls that are practically hypnotized by my blue eyes and just tell me over and over how pretty they are. Also, kee…
/r/seduction12/04/12 06:06 AM
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[facepalm] Don't buy a girl more than one or two drinks. See this makes a lot of sense, but what do you do if some other guy comes up and offers to buy your set a drink?
/r/seduction01/04/12 10:12 AM
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Just looking with a vaguely positive expression. If they hold eye contact for more than a second they win a smile and maybe even an approach if they smile back. Your appearance plays huge into this too. I'm a fairly tall, attractive guy and a westerner to boot, but I still have to be dressed to kill to get a good reaction rate.
/r/seduction01/04/12 06:58 AM
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I was doing this In Japan and I got some pretty good responses. Like others have said, looking away isn't rejection, it's their lack of confidence. Many girls will look away smiling, and then say something to their friend as I pass ( it's cute how they assume I don't understand them). One thing I noticed was that on the streets, about half of the girls would notice me, but in malls and other places with lots of external stimulus, it fell to about 20%.
/r/seduction01/04/12 06:39 AM
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Seddit is for making yourself more attractive to girls in general. It's not for making that one girl like you. If it's already been a month and you're still trying to build attraction through texts, it's probably too late. Ask her to do something ASAP. If she turns you down, find another girl. Also, never "measure interest", especially not through texts. Assume she's interested. If she isn't, that's her problem, not yours.
/r/seduction31/03/12 04:54 AM
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I'm going to be in osaka the last week of April if you're interested.
/r/seduction31/03/12 04:49 AM
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First of all "pheremone" colognes are snake oil. What scent will do: Give girls an excuse to rub up against you and sniff you, make you feel more confident, help you stand out from the crowd, act as a conversation topic, and create a pleasant experience for you and those around you. What scent will not do: Make a girl want to have sex with you. Think of scent as a part of your wardrobe, it helps create your image, and skillful use can definitely increase attraction, but it usually won't create i…
/r/seduction17/03/12 01:06 PM
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Don't wait for the "right" partner. Lose it. If you don't it will slowly eat away at your confidence until you do. The older you get, the worse it will be.
/r/seduction13/03/12 01:18 AM
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Because she'll appreciate it and it will excuse you if you make any stupid fuckups in bed.
/r/seduction13/03/12 01:15 AM
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Lost mine at 25, told her first. I would say there's no harm in telling her, but make sure you have some serious sexual tension first. Make sure that she's already decided to fuck you and it shouldn't make much difference. If you let it slide any earlier it will destroy your chances.
/r/seduction12/03/12 02:32 PM
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I put my arm around a girl and touched her leg with mine and she seemed totally comfortable with it at the time. Later I got "let's just be friends". Not foolproof.
/r/seduction12/03/12 02:28 PM
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Kawaii is fine in this context.
/r/seduction22/12/11 12:49 PM
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Yeah, the guys here are either super-beta or smooth as hell.
/r/seduction22/12/11 12:48 PM
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