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Still, starting procedures (often enough women are forced to do) and initiating falure are so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:14 PM
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„….the person who is most likely to have initiated the failure is usually the one who benefits the most.“ - Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:40 PM
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You mean women were allowed to go to actual war without suing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:42 PM
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You do know, that women had to sue again and again to get into the military in Western countries? Also neither women nor feminists implement the draft or signed it into law.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:52 PM
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Men did not „provide“ for the majority of history. Women worked at all times, just most of it uncompensated. Hell, children worked most of history. The „trad wife“, who did „not work“ was a blink in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:51 AM
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This….I will go to one in August, we will be painting pottery and go to a nice restaurant after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:50 AM
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So don‘t….whats stoping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:38 AM
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You sure about that? How are there men then who do pay with a smile?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:31 AM
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I don’t think, the not paying for the date, is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:57 AM
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Thats right….women don’t care if they look ugly to you 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:54 AM
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You never heard of adoption?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:34 PM
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Why would any woman try that and flip the switch later? That would be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:06 PM
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One way is to make him wait a extended period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:18 PM
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Red pill is not an ideology? Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:29 PM
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Out of curiosity: How many women have you emotionally damaged before? What stops you from damaging the current girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:37 AM
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Babes, my point was that little girls are influenced practically from the cradle…..can you break out of that sometimes? Yes, but many never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:48 AM
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You have no idea how young we are talking here…..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:16 AM
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„Women can do anything they want“ and „You should want to be married“ is not exclusive to each other. It starts when you are very young, every princess in a fairytail gets married at the end and the wedding is what schown as the thing for the girl. Little girls strive to become flower girls in weddings…..not because they want that, most of them don’t know what that is but because they are told by mommy and daddy. There are endless idiomes, that little girls get to hear every day about getting ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:15 AM
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It’s no use to switch, when every channel shows the same. If you are bombarded for years, from every angle, it will show results…..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:50 AM
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The social conditioning is strong. Why do you think there were and are so many reality shows about weddings, about picking dresses and all that stuff? Why do you think churches are fighting so hard to let girls think of nothing else? And that shit is everywhere you look…..in every kind of media, in every conversation, in every family. And depending on your jurisdiction, there is a little bit of protection in marriage. It does not out weight the negatives in most marriages but it’s still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:42 AM
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Social conditioning…..little girls allready get told and told again, that marriage is what they should want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:26 AM
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Why would you think that ever happened to me and what has that to do with the topic at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:39 PM
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That Uni guy wasn’t the only one, who did shit like that and I am not the only woman, who guys did that to. And the commenter I answered to said „No man is trying to force anyone.“ Why are you trying to move the goalpost?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:09 AM
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No? So the guy, that followed me around in Uni, allways sat beside, out of no where started to use my busline (even though he didn’t live anywhere close) and waited sometimes hours in front of my apartment building after I told him, that I don’t want to date him (twice), did that because he had no other hobbys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:25 PM
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Why do men try to force women, that don’t like them, into relationships today?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:55 PM
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Moronic grandsons…..the granddaughters very well know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:29 AM
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No, otherwise dad gets an 8 hour day while mom is on duty 24/7…..also, bills need to be paid? So? Laborious chores? Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:41 PM
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So this website and the specific section surpassed your video by a lot, because its years old and some thousands every month…..what was that about critical thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:45 PM
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But she isn’t a stay at home mom……and even if she was, that doesn’t exemt the father from parenting his own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:37 PM
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So wait, a video with 28.000 views is wildly popular but but the website with 62 million visits is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:47 PM
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It’s not even about that but about the fact that he is praised for the most basic things BY OTHER PEOPLE but she is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:43 AM
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Oh god I wish it would…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:41 AM
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She is at fault that other people see his contribution but not hers? Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:42 AM
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Did you listen to the song?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:24 AM
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You do realize that the „taking out of the gene pool“ has not worked?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:23 AM
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You mean the abuse, the shitty healthcare because womens bodys are to complicated, the motherhood penalty in the Job market, the constant reduction to reproduction but also the being shamed for having kids/to many kids or being a single mother? Yeah, you can have that!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:21 AM
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Fuck that……you are welcome to the monopoly of pregnancy and childbirth!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:17 AM
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You mean being praised for baby sitting your own kids? I go with her: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGdH7Jh2d/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:16 AM
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Nope, thats a very specific type of adoption…..the trafficing kind and you may want to do some research on how the adoptees feel about those.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:11 AM
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You just want to sell babies…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:05 AM
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It’s not really far away to make artificial eggs? How? Where? And so noone will raise them……if you want it like that, why don’t you build robots right away……that would Save so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:04 AM
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It’s one thing to have a embryo implant into an artificial womb as implantation is a natural process but it’s a totally different thing to have it reimplant because thats not a natural process……You would have to make it do a whole new process, that isn’t part of its „programming“ if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:01 AM
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How would that work? Thats really not the way…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:12 AM
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What a dream…..imagine becoming a mom without all that…..just like a dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:09 AM
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Just for funsies…..where will you get the eggs? Who will raise these kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:05 AM
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You think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:21 AM
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„if you‘re fat, dumb, an addict, or old.“ …. No, just no. Pregnancy under 20 for example is high risk, just for being young. And no, it’s not womens fault that men are violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:32 PM
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Thats just simply not true…..pregnancy in and of it self is life threatening but also a lot of pregnant women get killed by their partner/ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:39 PM
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Ok, I play…..where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:05 PM
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Born humans are killed all the time and I am willing to bet, that you will not classify a lot of that as murder…..but when a woman decides about her own body, than you think it’s murder…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:57 PM
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That doesn’t seem to apply to born humans, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:33 PM
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„An unborn human“……people kill „born humans“ all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:20 PM
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No form of contraception is without fail and men would be the first to cry about no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:16 PM
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Pregnancy is always a life threatening issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:08 PM
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Noone has an abortion „for funsies“ and no, it’s not „killing their own child“…..dear freaking god.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:08 PM
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How has that worked out until now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:26 AM
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So you are 14…..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:36 AM
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Her „biological alarm“? Let me tell you, there is no such thing….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:34 AM
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Well you did Frame it as one……
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:16 PM
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That doesnt make any sense….neither you nore I are american.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:14 PM
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That seems like a you problem…..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:05 AM
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The „american divorce rate“ came up no where in you post…..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:38 PM
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Ohhh, all the people who take much longer must be dumb then…..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:37 PM
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A temporary process of like 25 years……
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:09 PM
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Why would the americen divorce rate then matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:08 PM
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Thats not what I asked…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:45 AM
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Do you intend to live in the US with your spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:42 AM
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But it’s not….nearly 70% of households with kids under 11 are dual income and if I am not totally off women have a higher participation in the labor market then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:51 AM
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Why are you not answering my question? Is it because the answer is „most women could not do anything but live of their husbands income“? The premise of the book is falls from the start. Today things are fundamentally different, which is why nearly 70% of households with kids under 11 are dual income. The households that are not, there is reasons for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:36 AM
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It absolutely does, she presumes women would „train“ men to do things, when in reality womens roles were the legally restricted ones but men were free to do as they wanted and to control the women around them. Lets brain storm together here: what was a woman supossed to do, when she had a child with her husband? She could not work anymore, there was no childcare that would allow a job and her husband was legally able to terminate her employment, if he said she didn’t fulfill her household duties…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:26 AM
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So Esther Vilar is German but was born in Argentina, which is a whole other can of worms. Over the course of her life she lived at times in Argentina and at times in Germany but in both countries she was unbelievably privileged. She did not have to live under the legal framework that the women she wrote about had to abide by. You might try and understand that when she wrote her book, women in Germany just had gained the right to have their own bank accounts without the oversight of their husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:08 AM
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Who ever takes Esther Vilar seriously, has lost complete control…….you do understand under what kind of circumstances she wrote that book yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:39 AM
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What do you see as „older“?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:05 PM
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So where would be the „shame“ in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:37 AM
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You mean you are cool with just giving the woman oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:15 PM
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You take being gay as shame? I would think your problems start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:12 PM
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I understand that you don’t see women as full people, like you are. Why would I want to convince you otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:59 PM
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So it doesnt make any sense….thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:58 AM
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I have no idea what you are babbeling about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:28 AM
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I allways have to ask: did you actually read that? Because it doesnt say what you say it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:08 AM
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„The gender ratio in the United States in 2024 will be 100.994 males per 100 females. There are 175,399,113, or 175.40 million, males and 173,636,381, or 173.64 million, females in the US. The percentage of the female population is 49.75 percent, compared to 50.25 percent of the male population. The United States has the 7th highest number of excess male population of 1.76 million.“ https://statisticstimes.com/demographics/country/usa-sex-ratio.php You don’t seem to understand what affirmative a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:40 PM
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Do you not know what minority means? 50.26 % of the world population are men. In countries without sexselective abortions roughly 105 boys are born for every 100 girls, in countries with sexselective abortions that ratio can go up to 120 boys for every 100 girls……men are not a minority. That boys are outperformed by girls, when girls are allowed to partake is only showing that men have been proped up for ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:14 PM
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I would be embarrassed of those guys too……
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:43 PM
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The thing allmost all perpetrators so „not all men but allways a man“ is absolutely right. And babes „men“ are not a minority…..you need to internalize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:39 PM
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The thought is riddiculous……women have wishes for their partners…..the horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:36 PM
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It actually makes the „generalization“ absolutely true….. And men are the victims of who exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:33 PM
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So it’s not a reality that women get saed, raped and killed and that the perpetrators are actually nearly allways men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:07 PM
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So? Let them…..If the expectations are so out of wack, ist will go no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:05 PM
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Ohhh god what demonization of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:37 PM
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This….there were allways people, men and women, who never got into a relationship but in past times they were more or less „invisible“. As in you knew about your cousin or aunt, who never had a man but usually you didn’t knew about everyone elses lonely uncle. Now with social media you hear from a lot more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:05 PM
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No one can help you here, if you don’t read the comments🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:16 AM
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She gave examples…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:34 AM
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Go to TikTok and look for Shanann Watts…..she was murdered by her husband, alongside their two little daughters, while pregnant with a boy and under every video about it, you find a host of comments saying „what did she do to him?“. Or look for Emily Kiser, her 3 year old son drowned in her pool, while her husband was supposed to look after him, she wasn‘t even home…..still people comment again and again that it was her fault. The freaking father, who did not look after the kid is somehow blamel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:35 PM
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Is this your first day on the internet? Women are blamed for literally everything all the time. No matter what it is. You also forget the other side of things…..men. Men still do what they want, good and bad. And men can still lie and manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:25 PM
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Overpower her physically……what kind of relationships are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:53 AM
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Like everything……you are usually in somewhat the same stage of life. So over Education and getting a Job when you are young. Over starting a family when you are a little older. Your parents are about the same age usually and you face the same challenges over that. And so on and so on……
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:50 AM
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You are circumventing the question….read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:28 PM
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Because you don’t have the ability to carry children and feed them from your body and subsequently you dont suffer the aftermath, so its not really a full swap. But also most men don’t want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:56 PM
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So why should a woman then lose everything for the same behavior that a man should lose nothing for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:53 PM
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So then you do see motherhood and home making as worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:57 AM
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So what do you deem not traditionally masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:55 PM
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What is „traditionally masculine“ to you? Like yes, my husband is taller than me but so is the average man where we live. He has a job and income but he also loves to cook/bake and craft. He is really good with kids and animals and all around very attentive. Is he traditionally masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:20 PM
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Are there? Most of them seem to be paid to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:54 PM
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Everything is always womens fault…..don’t you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:44 PM
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This might be to much for the guys…..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:44 AM
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Thats not worth it…..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:47 PM
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I am German…..paying for quite everything afterwards is normal. There might be a deposit for really small vendors or you might have to pay when you pick up. Like we had to pay for the wedding cake when it was picked up but that wasn’t a huge amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:17 PM
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Usually you pay after the event, not before. And its not „reimbursement“ in a classical sense but usually, what you get for the wedding will cover the wedding. My husband and I made a few thousend plus. It’s not like everyone gives the same either…..family will give more cash than friends. Parents/Grandparents will give the most money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:08 PM
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Where is this female surpremacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:03 PM
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That wasn’t my question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:12 AM
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True but whats the Harm in using money for a wedding, that I wouldn’t have without one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:13 PM
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So where I am wedding guests typically give cash gifts to pay for the wedding….you would not get the money without a wedding. Thats why I really don’t understand that line of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:07 PM
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Thats not a wedding in any way and not what we talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:50 PM
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So problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:48 PM
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Doesnt matter…..he does not want them🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:48 PM
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You do know that you don’t need a wedding to be married?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:23 PM
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It would be but what exactly do women receive these days? Or ever for that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:20 PM
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So you don’t want to be a traditionell husband……
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:47 PM
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So how do weddings work where you are? Because where I am, the couple would not have the wedding funds without the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:43 PM
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Thats the fairytale little boys dream of…..they want a bang-maid-mommy, not actually a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:41 PM
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I am from Europe, I never paid for a date in my life…..first or otherwise. But nobody makes you pay…..If you don’t want to then don’t. What are you afraid of?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:54 PM
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You didn’t know about surrogacy? Did you live under a rock? And why do you need a step mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:12 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:56 AM
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You want to have sex with women regardless….. And you still need women…..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:56 AM
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So you don’t intend to raise those kids and what about the eggcells now? Without eggs no kids….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:54 AM
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None of this makes sense….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:38 AM
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So what will you guys do about Eggcells than and who will raise those kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:37 AM
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What woman in the US did ever sent men into war?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:36 AM
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But it isn’t and in quite some states republicans try to pass laws to give women the death penalty, if they have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:36 AM
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Well than, now that you know, You See that this is bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:33 AM
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So you just ignore the current laws around abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:10 AM
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Don’t confuse him with facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:08 AM
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Since when is „ripping each other apart“ an integral part of debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:31 AM
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We need to „ripp each other apart“ now? Why would we do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:36 PM
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You somehow missed the point…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:25 PM
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…..because they still are stealing the recources of other countries and kill everyone that is in their way. There, fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:03 AM
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Sure buba, most families need two incomes, but the womans income does not contribute to the family……
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:31 AM
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I know exactly what he wants to say, but this very hard worker, who is so dominant, doesn’t want to say it with his whole chest…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:06 AM
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So I am married for a decade now and we go by two yes/one no……no one needs to be a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:56 AM
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It’s correct that the US is the wealthiest country but not because you all work so hard…..it’s because you steal and your ancestors stole…..you stole the land the US is on, you stole the labor of slaves and indigenous people, you stole the recources of other countries and you are still doing that today. That you now trying to devalue the education and work of women is nothing more than typical. So you don’t want a woman who wants the same things ….. you want one who doesn’t and you want to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:54 AM
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So to submit is being a doormat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:33 AM
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If you say „I want to into marriage with someone who agrees with my ideas“….that sounds like you want a wife who already wants those things…..Thats fundamentally different then trying to convince a woman to that, who got an education because she wanted to work. So which one are you? By the way, that would still not be „organizing around me“. And last but not least, the US has nothing to do with hard labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:32 AM
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Why exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:49 AM
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That has nothing to do with „organizing the family around you“……is there a reason why you put it into these specific words?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:49 AM
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You do know that YOU don’t have to stalemate, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:14 AM
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I just can’t…..You want to organize the family/household around you? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:12 AM
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It doesnt have to be a fight…..YOU can submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:11 AM
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Ok but in what way? What would make it better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:05 AM
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You also have a distorted view of male fertility…..1 in 3 couples suffers only from male factor infertility and 1 in 3 couples has both pertners contributing. Male factor infertility is way more prevalent than you think and male age is a factor in way more Medical Problems for mother and baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:53 AM
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Are you under the impression that „cougar“ is a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:47 AM
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You canfusing a celebraty, who very publiky shows of his relationships with the average Joe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:16 PM
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So thats your answer then……mr. Law degree and mr. Mortgage don’t seem to choose much younger women, they seem to largely marry women in their early 30ies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:11 PM
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Whats the average age for a first marriage where you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:54 PM
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Ok, go be the prize 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:44 PM
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No, they show women do the paperwork…..nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:56 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:54 PM
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So? You do know, that if he leaves for another woman, she has to file for divorce, otherwise she can’t file for child support or alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:37 PM
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As if men did not leave their wifes and families for other women in all times🤦🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:05 PM
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Again, your premise is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:06 AM
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There is wide spread support for the idea that women should not have a right to their own bodies……there, fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:05 AM
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I don’t even think women are currently favored at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:02 AM
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But everything you think about is only to roll back womens rights. And that commenter is not me….I concede nothing as your premise is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:01 AM
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Our society doesn’t like to adopt rules that disadvantage/inconvenience women? Are we living on the same planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:05 AM
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What? Where? You know that you guys can get a test? You know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:03 PM
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So you can’t go to court and get one? Be honest!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:01 PM
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So that is not your comment? „Slapped a wife one time, mandatory therapy Broke her nose, straight to jail. I know how DV cases go.“ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/3FQHI13wks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:12 PM
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Didn’t you just say that in your own comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:53 PM
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Oh here we are again…..women have rights to their own bodies? Men have to be compensated for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:52 PM
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Lets see what other situation can that happen in? Oh when daddy lies about his identity or when he just leaves…..I take it, that that should than also be illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:49 PM
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Duty of Care is still not a principle of criminal law…..when will that sink in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:46 PM
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You broke your wifes nose? Somehow that doesnt even surprise me anymore…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:44 PM
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Oh my God……leave to a red piller to always come back to abortion. I don’t need an excuse…..my body is mine. But you don’t even realize that you invalidate your own argument. There is no kid in case of abortion and never was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:14 PM
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Thats for sure…..no woman could make it less appealing than the guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:32 PM
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Ok, where else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:16 PM
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You would need to read the whole thread to understand…..it was an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:14 PM
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Shoulda woulda coulda……has that ever happened? Do judges generally decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:11 PM
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Well she proved in british court 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:09 PM
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Show me the guys who got jail time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:07 PM
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Did you? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:59 AM
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Thats not at all true but affirmative action is also civil. And no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:59 AM
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Babes, rape practically stopped being a crime long ago….around the time it wasnt men anymore who were the „harmed party“. But I also never said what you want to put into my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:57 AM
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Babes, nobody ever said that but you really really want to be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:54 AM
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„If the judge allows it“ …. so it’s not illegal. Do you guys ever read what you wright?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:53 AM
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But Duty of Care is still a civil law principle….you can’t just drag that into criminal law and men are still not minors. You are truly trying to invent a whole new criminal law system to punish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:51 AM
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As if I saw it coming…..no it’s Not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:36 AM
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What changes? You don’t even know the law in France?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:35 AM
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You just never care about the kids 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:34 AM
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Statutory rape law does not work the way you think it does……1. it’s for the protection of minors….the men in your cases are overwealmingly not minors and 2. statutory rape law doesnt require intend, most of them don’t, thats a whole other thing than what you are trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:33 AM
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Actually no but I know you will scream „but France“ and than I say but France has guidlines on genetic testing and thats the reason and none of you ever is actually from France.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:26 AM
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Exactly right!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:25 AM
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That not 90% of births are women lying but that only 0,5 - 3,0 % have missatributed paternity and no statistic ever gave evidence that those are all women lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:24 AM
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Not at all……The Duty of Care is a civil law principle, not a criminal one…..big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:19 AM
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Op says „fuck them kids“ 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:17 AM
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It could be less appealing than it already is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:16 AM
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Why not? Because any kind of statistic shows the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:14 AM
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So you just want to invent new standards to prosecute women…….how original.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:02 AM
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I think you fundamentally missunderstand…..“looks don’t matter“ in the way that it really doesn’t matter if you have blue eyes or brown, if you are 5‘9 or 6‘2, if long hair or short……There will be a woman who is into what ever you are, so wear your hair the way you like it, wear the clothes you like and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:24 PM
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How does that go against preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:06 PM
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It’s now red pill that women have „attraction preferences“? I just can’t….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:18 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:24 PM
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Your premise is falls…..There can’t be equality in something that does not touch you. In parenthood everything is allready leaning towards men. Men Are regularly applauded for things that women are scolded for. It could be better, if men would truly take on half the work and responsability but they generally don’t. If we want a foundation without misogyny, we have to start right there, that women are the ones who carry society has to be acknowledged and honorated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:17 AM
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Parental surrender „abortion“……abortion is not parental surrender. In fact it is not even comparable in any way. Not by method, not by outcome, not by any measure. Parental surrender happens after birth and is the same for both parents. That is equal. You want equality in a situation that does not even touch men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:58 AM
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No its not…..you guys like blame things men set up on women and thats the „who set that system up“ point. Misogyny is the foundation of our society, is a point to how deep ingrained misogyny is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:53 AM
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The problem is that you do not see equality as equal and that is painfully clear from last point…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:50 AM
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How are casualties for men treated completly different? What tradition are we talking here? From what point in time? How are men easier to demonized? Like in what way? Do we need to do a deep dive on lynchings? I do not think that we shrug our shoulders at male suicide. But of kind of suicide are you talking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:47 AM
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What are the „multitude of ways in which society discriminates against men“?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:48 AM
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Could you get more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:43 AM
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Where do you want to start? That all which is done specifically by women is devalued? That men claim authority by the power of penis all the time? That everything seen as female is used deragatory? That Religion (especially abrahamic religions) claimed the power of bringing new life and reasinged it to the male?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:42 AM
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How exactly relates that to this? Those Are two different topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:36 AM
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Why don’t you agree with that statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:35 AM
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Have you ever really thought about if misogyny is the foundation of our society?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:43 AM
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So in my country we had a whole Reality Show on passport bros, some years ago. It was entertaining in a way but not the way you might think…..and thats exactly the extend in which I think about passport bros. Do as you wish, we don’t care…..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:12 PM
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So you can’t actually……
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:12 AM
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How can you distinguish the trashi Chads from other Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:23 PM
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So men are not attracted to hairless women who wear make up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:38 PM
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So all Chads are trash…..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:36 PM
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From the law……have you ever lived in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:59 AM
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You seem not to understand the advantages of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:49 AM
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But you are, in most cases you are…..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:07 AM
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You seem not to……
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:06 AM
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No Babes because you are not legally and financially entangled with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:20 AM
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A marriage is Not a friendship…..You are usually not financially and legally entangled with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:14 AM
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And leave the advantages a marriage gives you? Why would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:09 AM
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Nope…..my husband and I did it because we know about the legal advantages it has. You seem pretty short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:08 AM
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Because nothing is this easy and marriage as a contract is about the „after“ in many points but not only. It’s about what happens when you don’t love each other anymore or when one of you is dead……If you truly love someone, you have to think about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:06 AM
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I „projected“ nothing, you said that you even have to control the radiostation. Funny that you now can’t stand by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:34 AM
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Nobody did that….but you said men are absolutely logical but you can’t explain the logic in things men do…..huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:32 AM
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But you said „men are absolutely logical“……and that calling men emotional is ironic…..You didn’t really mean all men? Can you explain the „logic“ of murder? Like when men murder their families?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:49 PM
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I didn’t say something silly….I just analized what you said. You can admit that you feel the need to dictate every aspect of your joint life…..we already understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:11 PM
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Oh dear…..“sometimes“.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:04 PM
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Oh dear…..“sometimes“.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:03 PM
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Oh dear the fuck…..as if it wasnt bad before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:02 PM
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Where can I observe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:01 PM
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I said „its the little things“…….english is not my first language but I am able to differentiat between singular and plural.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:42 PM
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Uff, you mind explaining the rationality of demolishing your own elctronics?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:04 PM
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Correct me if I am wrong but you guys have only one penis each? If I meant his penis I would have said „it’s the little thing“ without the „s“ at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:01 PM
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That wasnt even me but they are still right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:59 PM
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Babes, you might think all women are, but I am in fact not acquainted with your penis. So how should I know of what size it is? But you do base your right to dictate everything on having one…..which is quite ridiculous. And why do you pity my husband? Because I just switch the radiostation when I don’t like the program?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:58 PM
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So it absolutely is a MEN issue…..who Else did it? So YOU have no reason to be the decision maker as you didn’t demonstrate any knowledge and just a comment ago you said we couldnt assume things about MEN. So you blame Melania for sheer proximity even though she is „far from capable“? You might want to decide one way or the other….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:27 PM
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Men caused all Stock market crashes…..doesn’t seem very superior to me. But what I really asked why YOU should get to make the decisions? And are you trying to say Melania is secretly ruling?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:58 PM
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Look where the world is at….. Why would you get to make decisions on „financial stuff“?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:08 PM
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Lead us where though? You didn’t do a very good job……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:43 PM
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I bet he will never tell us and that somehow speaks louder, then anything he could say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:41 PM
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I am an actual woman and if I don’t like whats on the radiostation, I just change it. If the route „doesn’t work out“, I just take another. What this sounds like to me, is that you need to dictate even the smallest, inconsequential things in your relationship by the power of your penis…….its the little things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:40 PM
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For funsies: what responsability is their to take for choosing the radiostation or the route?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:58 AM
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That men are not „less emotional“ at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:45 AM
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Men generally have a Hormon cycle. Men generally have their mood impacted by all kinds of things. Mass events like sportsgames make that visible, because of how many incidents there are in a Short time. But just for fun……have you ever seen a woman demolish her TV, because her team didn’t score?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:39 AM
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Scientific is also that men have a hormon cycle and their moods are not only influenced by hormons but by all other kinds of things……You might want to Look up how many men perpetrate domestic violence when their sportsteam lost a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:31 AM
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No……you can go by two-yes/one-no…..men like you just have to be adults about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:27 AM
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So you say men resent their partners, if they don’t get their way? I somehow have the feeling thats the reason for failing relationships…..men can’t cope with not getting their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:25 AM
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Funny that you answer someone who talks about his own marriage and you come back with „sounds nice in theory“…..it’s not a theory. But I have the feeling it’s theory for you……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:23 AM
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TRP says women are people? Where? When?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:36 AM
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Is that so? Tell me something positiv TRP says about women!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:56 AM
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You mean women resist to being treated like shit and being told they are the reason for everything wrong in this world? Shocking!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:28 AM
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Donald Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:55 PM
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Not even prooven rapists see consequences…..miss me with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:37 PM
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Whats the cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:54 PM
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But you don’t for sexuelle harrassment and thats the problem…..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:44 PM
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The hive mind? You mean like the tens of thousends of men, who find each other in online groups to share methods on how to rape wives and girlfriends and share the videos of that after? I never heard of women doing that though……
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:43 PM
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You are real funny……
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:40 PM
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You know who rapes at alarming rates? Husbands and boyfriends, fathers and brothers….but I am sure you don’t want to talk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:38 PM
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So why are you trying to put literally everything on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:01 PM
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2 or 3 times and you totally missed Kristoff? The great example of a good man and positive masculinity, who built a good male/female relationship over the film…..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:00 PM
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If men are helpless like that, they shouldnt be in charge of anything…….go and tell men that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:31 AM
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I really have to ask you: how often did You watch „Frozen“?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:24 AM
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That very much depends on where you live. I am German, our laws regarding divorce are fairly conservative I would say. But if decide today, that I want to divorce, I could moove out tomorrow and effectively be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:52 PM
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You never heard of divorce, did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:04 PM
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Ohhh dear, I meant that she does not have to force anyone……men want to marry, there is no need to force them. But thats not an „advantage“.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:30 PM
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So you think being a nun your life expectancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:03 PM
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But he didn’t protect or rescue anyone……he quite literally only lived out his own violent behaviors. Can you really not see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:23 PM
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Thats even less of a point then, is it. Nobody rescued a woman in your story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:11 PM
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So some women are allowed to have choice but not all…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:09 PM
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So you don’t realize that you can’t critique one without critiquing the other…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:08 PM
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You do not have to……girl are you seriously saying you can’t find some guy to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:05 PM
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But don’t you see that you critique that the women are allowed to not choose you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:54 AM
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It absolutely has…..it’s the free will of women not to want you and thats what you have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:39 AM
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The Choice of women disadvantages you…..your problem in reality is, that you are not guaranteed a slave…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:37 AM
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So you want to force someone to „like“ you. You are nuts and I fear thats your problem……
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:30 AM
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So you beliefe you have the right to be liked by individual women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:06 AM
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You are discriminated how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:30 AM
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So your problem is that women don’t like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:32 AM
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That wasn’t my question but why exactly men had womens rights to give? And what is that video supposed to mean? And did you go an google introspection yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:50 AM
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You are not going to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:28 AM
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Men fighting men is not rescueing women. And lets imagine the story you linked is true and the boy did rape the girl, then neither the police nor the other guy rescued her from anything. She was still raped and is still not believed. Are you freaking serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:25 AM
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So you don’t understand introspection then? Is it that? And what is it now about us German women and traditionell men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:54 AM
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Ohhh for fucks sake you give us rights? Why do you have „womens rights to give“? Or who has them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:51 AM
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Your take about Jassica Valenti is quite disingenuous or you didn’t read more then the headline. And as german women….how are we complaining about men specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:38 AM
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Men don’t rescue women though….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:32 AM
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For fun: what is your persived „disadvantage“ and what do These women have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:19 AM
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So then go and date….whats stoping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:14 AM
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Babes, no man is „safe“…..like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:15 PM
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34 %…..it’s the biggest perpetrator group. Honorable mentions go to family members (father/brother/son) with 16%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:57 PM
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Oh sweetheart, sweet summer child……maybe you want to go and look up what occupations most perpetrators have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:40 PM
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You believe these men tell their dates that they will beat or kill them later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:38 PM
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And there we have it……I don’t kill my husband……
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:42 PM
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It proves that violent male behavior is the problem and that male intimate partners are not protectors but the biggest thread to womens safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:58 PM
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You do realize, that you want women to fix mens problems or be subjugated and then you wonder why women say „fuck that“?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:27 AM
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Just glazing over the breastpump as if it doesnt exists…..also there are plenty of women why either can’t or wont breastfeed….. You are absolutely contradicting yourself and like it or not, the baby is not „stuck to the mother“ but to a care giver and nothing stops daddy from being one or even the main care giver. And the whole hormon thing you Write about is fundamentally wrong. Both parents experience a rise in oxytocin while doing skin to skin with baby. While for women oxytocin is also relea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:09 AM
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You contradict yourself saying there is no primary parent but the woman still has to do it all the while there is pumps and formula and skin to skin with the father…….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:15 AM
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Why needs someone to be the mother? After a child is born there is nothing to do with the vagina any more. What exactly stops a father from being the primary parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:14 PM
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The first problem is that you already don’t know what gender roles are….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:11 PM
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Are you new to the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:07 AM
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And they endlessly spew about being „providers and protectors“ which was never true……so can they shut up about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:16 AM
5

Ok but can men stop the „provider and protector“ cosplay then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:51 AM
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Which part of my personal experience is „online fuelled horseshit“?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:48 PM
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He didn’t but he left the one he had…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:57 PM
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Of cause not…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:55 AM
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He allready had a kid and he left said kid……
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:51 AM
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So I had cancer many years ago and Yes, women are warnend. What does that look like? For example a nurse, who might tell you that she saw many female patients be left. For me personally it was my psychologist, who said it in one of my first setions. I live in Germany, usually after cancer treatment you go off to rehabilitation for 3 to 5 weeks. I saw quite some of them getting a text about their partner leaving them and I heard of more coming home after and their partner had moved out without sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:48 PM
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Why do you try to ignore 99% of history?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:11 PM
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It does not matter if women are constantly pregnant……the risk is calculated per year. If you want to say anything about data, look at them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:57 PM
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For femizide not being a „real word“ you use it a lot……. You still don’t understand risk catagories and per capita numbers. And if you believe an abortion, that leads to death is somehow not the biggest medical event in that persons life, maybe we have to discuss what „biggest“ even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:48 AM
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Babes, you don’t even have the number for only men……that I have to tell you that. Also, I know logic isn’t your strong suit, but lets try anyway: what do you think happens when you had the most likely biggest medical event in your life? Do you think, that weakens the body and makes you more prone for catastrophic outcomes of lets say a heart attack? And sure, there are no femizides ….. why don’t you tell that women like Amber Czech or the woman who was shott by her ex at custody exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:02 AM
6

Are you done crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:52 PM
6

Leave it to a man, to tell women that carrying and birthing children is not actually that hard, even when the fucking maternal deaths rate is 22.6/100.000, which is higher then police/law enforcemebt with 11.3/100.000.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:51 PM
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Thats why I have you per capita numbers…..otherwise you can’t compare. But and I can’t stress that enough, even if 12 times the number of men died in workplace accidents, that would still not give you a point. For starters: a lot of those men are single and women die in all the same ways but then also, they are killed by partners/expartners or just men who hate women. None of that changes that a lot of men don’t show enough effort at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:45 PM
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I implore you to learn what per capita means and that men and women die from workplace injury from that……and are you trying to say men have it hard because of „deaths though criminal enterprises“? While ignoring how many women are killed by their abusive partner or expartner? You ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:28 PM
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Oh babes, 22.6 maternal deaths per 100.000 life births in 2022 but 3.7 deaths through workplace injury per 100.000 workers overall (men and women) in 2022……..maternal deaths are likely way up now, but we wouldnt know, because the Gouvernement is giving it all to dismantle the boards who track that. And we didn’t even speak about femizides…..so cry me a river.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:55 PM
10

Well it’s a problem that many men don’t put in appropriate effort but what can we do about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:25 PM
6

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:16 PM
9

So I hope you send a group text to your buddies every time you touch your morning wood…..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:15 PM
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Thats a trope…..like that husbands hate their wives….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:02 AM
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Because they might have very different behavior and personalities? I have a sister, we have the same parents, we are not twins but looked in our childhood/youth so much alike, that we were often mistaken for twins. But our behavior and personalities were and are very different…..that absolutely led to us being treated very different not only by family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:10 AM
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Well, you have convinced me with your impeccable arguments and I come to the conclusion that 95% of men are real trash. Do you have other news?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:04 PM
1

You mean they werent punishable…. And no, of cause women fought for laws they didn’t even need…..dear god.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:19 PM
2

What exactly wasn’t „a public case“? And why do you think women fought for laws like that rape in marriage become a crime, age of consent, that marrying the victim of a rape would not nullify the crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:55 PM
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Reality….just go and look up since when rape in marriage is a criminal offense in your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:24 PM
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That is cognitive dissonance…..if they acknowledge that their husbands were „rapey“, the have also to recognise that they were voctims and often are still today. Thats very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:24 PM
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I am not holding your hand when I say this, but did it occure to you that a lot of „sex“ in the past wasn‘t sex but rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:13 PM
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45000 applicants from whom they picked 96 people…..what exactly is nicht a huge pool here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:48 AM
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So did you ever hear of the Reality Show „Married at First Sight“? I Imagine thats how that would go. In my country they had 60 weddings over the years and 51 divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:47 AM
2

Where? And how are the divorce laws and societal expectations there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:40 AM
2

You do realize that the purpose of a date is to get to know each other a little, so you can deside if you „like the guy“?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:51 PM
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The date that I had to pay for would not happen…..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:11 PM
0

A guy who wants to date me isn’t my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:51 PM
5

You do realize that you are saying because men desire me, I should pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:44 PM
3

No it’s not ok……and if you want to be friends, then don’t call it a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:32 PM
4

You really have to let that thoughtprocess think in….guy asks me for a date, I say Yes and give him what he wanted, a date but if the date is bad now I have to pay for what the guy wanted……
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:29 PM
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Babes I insist on nothing……no man ever was forced to date me…..I just don’t see why I should get stuck with the bill for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:14 PM
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So a guy asks me out on a date, which should make it an automatism that he pays, then the date is bad and now I have to pay because it was a bad date? Are you for fucking real?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:10 PM
5

Why exactly should I pay for the man wanting a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:49 PM
4

How about don’t date if you actually want a sexworker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:47 PM
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If he wants reciprocation in that sense, he should visit a sexworker…..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:45 PM
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Paying for dinner doesn’t take away my right to my body. By the way, you are not obligated to pay for dinner…….
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:39 PM
2

They are not negligeable and only some can be done by other means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:20 PM
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No, it means a lot, in a lot of circumstances. You do know that legal rights come from marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:57 PM
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If you love them and marry them, it’s marrying for love. If you don’t love them but marry them anyway for whatever reason, then its for other reasons.🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:54 PM
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No it’s not…..If you love someone, you don’t want them to have all the rights and benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:41 PM
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„Secure“ doesn’t mean nobody can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:40 PM
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There is no such thing as „divorce rape“ there are only people who like to get things out of a partnership but don’t want to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:39 PM
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Nope, secure the legal rights of your partner like surviver benefits and inheritance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:37 PM
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Yeah no, if you are actually in love but not willing to secure your partner with marriage than you are not really in love at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:12 PM
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And you know that because you yourself have been in so many long Term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:07 PM
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No babes, you are but you could ram Head first into it and you still wouldnt see…..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:58 AM
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What? Your own op says otherwise……
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:03 AM
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You are as delusional as op is…..You don’t even see thats your delusion on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:02 AM
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Ok, lets go step by step here: do men know that pregnancy can occure despite contraception?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:55 AM
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Nice how you distract…….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:38 AM
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I disagree with all of it. It starts with comparing average „single men“ with average „single mothers“. Why exactly are you doing that? Because you like to „compare“ whats not compareble. By the way, you start of by ignoring 3/4 of the equation. Your average „single man“ has been a child before. You know these little humans, who go to kindergarden and school, which is mostly tax payer funded. Maybe he was even the child of a low income family or a „single mother“ (its funny how none you would ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:27 AM
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No, men are held liable for their own choices…..that goes right back to the reproductive rights men don’t want to acknowledge. I know the hard part for you is that other people have rights in this equation, not only you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:49 AM
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Correct because they are not the ones pregnant……so what you really want to say is „men can’t overrule the womans right over her own body and mandate an abortion for another human“.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:33 AM
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Men don’t want to acknowledge their reproductive rights is more like it…..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:28 AM
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Ähhhhm you compare apples to suspension bridges…….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:20 AM
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Well of cause there is…..it’s the absent „father“.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:16 AM
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So the guys who abandon their kids …..do they have some kind of marker? Is it written on their forheads or something? And „don’t get pregnant at all“ …. are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:41 AM
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Because the kids of single moms were brought by the fairies…..not like there actually was a father, no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:27 AM
5

Well chemical castration is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:36 PM
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No I worldnt say flashing someone is cheating……it’s Not something you should do but not cheating. I fear you don’t understand nude beaches…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:22 PM
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Why exactly would anyone want to police mens chlothing? I really don’t care what you are wearing….have fun. And whats your problem with nude beaches? People who go there are fine with other people seeing them naked. And why would that be considered cheating? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:50 PM
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Poor people very often have no access to family planing, abortion or a sense of choice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:20 PM
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So I am not from Afrika but it seems like common sense that they are expensive there to……why wouldnt they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:52 PM
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Kids are also expensive in nordic countries……
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:00 PM
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The difference between sexually relevant and sexually apealing and why women don’t actually want to sleep with Bonobos?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:05 AM
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I skimmed over that my bad but you just didn’t read all that was said before? And you make „women always orgasm from sa“ out of „sometimes genitals responding……sometimes even have an orgasm“ …… thats crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:10 AM
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So I just skimmed over these articles but you do realize that they don’t say remotly what you describe in the op, right? Your „unwanted arousel“ articles don’t talk about orgasms at all, but about lubrication and no, thats not the same. They also don’t speak on sa but why women may get wet when they actually don’t feel like having sex or from stimuli outside of what „normally turns them on“. I don’t see how you make your conclusions from this!?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:29 AM
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No…….I would like to know where you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:22 AM
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Ähm…..what? Do you have examples for these articles?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:10 AM
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So Basic Bob wants to investigate a Girls past, wants to control her communication, still wants a paternity test for no reason, wants kids but doesn’t want to give the wife anything in case of divorce and on top of all that, that he pays for coffee is to much to ask…..I think Bob is better off with a sex doll because Bob doesn’t want to be with a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:51 PM
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Ukraine had about 44 million inhabitants before the war. Round about 5,8 million people fled Ukraine and about half of them are women, so like 2,9 million of those are women but through all ages. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:28 PM
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Then men who don’t volunteer are also not loyal?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:15 PM
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Which is faulting women and how are These women exactly not „loyal to their nation“?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:15 AM
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But whats your reason to fault women for circumstances in Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:46 AM
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How many married 15 to 18 year olds should there be?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:00 PM
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Do you take single and unmarried as the same? And you are aware that the oldest gen z turn 30 this year but also the medium marriage age is 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:39 AM
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You have found that 63% of men are single? Not 62?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:36 AM
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So is driving a car…..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:29 AM
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The „layer of saperation“ would be that you need a second person to consent……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:18 AM
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So thats not my kind of thing but I would believe thats a type of bdsm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:17 AM
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Why are you condamn peoples kinks? Its not for you and that is fine but leave others alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:16 AM
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Why wouldnt it be ok if both consent? The more I read of you, the more I believe you have the problem and you should abstain from that kind of play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:13 AM
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Have you tried to find women in Spaces where they would typically search for a pleasur dom?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:53 AM
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So what is that? In a first Person Shooter you play out to kill people but you don’t really do. In cnc you play out raping someone but you don’t really do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:50 AM
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So you don’t See the difference that in cnc she actually consented and in rape she didn’t…..this is quite concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:42 AM
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Is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:37 AM
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So you like video games? First Person Shooter?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:33 AM
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It’s disconnected that women want to do in bed what they like? Like you do see the difference between cnc and rape? You do? Don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:27 AM
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So what is exactly your problem? That women tell you what they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:15 AM
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That also depends very much…..but sure, most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:36 PM
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It is in the big picture but today, there are benefits for women to it. If you have kids, then its really the only protection you get as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:32 PM
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That depends….in my country there are very real legal benefits to marriage for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:04 PM
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But most do…….you just don’t acknowlege societal pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:17 PM
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You are not under the impression that most women perfom femininity, even today? And that they are harshly punished if they don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:27 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:20 PM
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Sure but when you are told from the cradle, that that is what you should want and should do, its more like a „directed decision“.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:23 AM
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Have you ever done that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:21 PM
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Surrogacy is illegale in lots of countries (Germany, France, Spain, Italy to just name a few) and only altruistic, as in not paid, legal in others (UK for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:52 PM
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Something like that…..but I think it’s much deeper ingrained. Like where I grew up marriage is not that important in a romantic sense and still I remember that I was bombarded with it since I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:15 PM
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There is the brain washing on one hand. As a girl you are told your whole life that getting married is incredebly important and what you should want. And on the other hand, there are very real legal consequences to marriage that you might need in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:21 PM
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Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:36 AM
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Gotten to what? That women say this put loud? Or that men still don’t participate equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:35 AM
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Humans don’t „pair bond“ …. we are not birds. There is a fundamental difference between „two parent cohabitation“ and „group living“ because of „the village“ that played a big role in bringing up the children. Nothing about that is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:10 AM
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Like all…..we know from Codex Ur Nammu and Codex Hamurabi that marriage was a contract between father of the bride and groom. The woman was neither party to the contract nor was her consent necessary. From antique greece we know that marriage was between the guardian of the woman and the man. From antique Rome we know marriage was a contract between the pater familias of both families…..because even if you were a man, you didn’t have the legal power over yourself before your father/grandfather d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:12 PM
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So no nuclear family……
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:29 PM
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For far longer it wasnt a contract between two people …. a lot of the time, the two people were not even party to the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:39 PM
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Marriage is absolutely unnatural……the two parent cohabitation is very new.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:37 PM
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Well you didn’t go to school? You don’t use roads? You can’t call the police or fire department if you need it? There are no Gouvernement services you use? Nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:52 PM
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What is a „suitable man“ in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:18 AM
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Thats so interesting because your birthrate is 1,44 and only a little higher then 1,39 in Germany…….are you under the impression that people are going to have more kids again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:34 AM
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Thats cool…..where do you live though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:11 PM
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You can go on YouTube and look at them…..illustrats hilariously that so many fathers, young and old, literally know nothing about their kids. Not their birthdays, not their middle names, not their schools or anything else really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:02 PM
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Did you ever watch the „dad videos“ from the Kimmel Show?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:49 PM
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The majority of fathers in the US gets up at night with baby? Takes half of sick days for baby? Goes to half of doctors apointments with baby? And so on? Really? I seem to recall that statistics Point a very different picture….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:04 PM
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Thanks! This always makes me nuts!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:17 AM
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Because they very often don’t…..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:14 AM
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Nope…….this is anecdotal but I have so many girlfriends with 1 child and a useless father to the child. They all came to the same conclusion of „no more kids because I wont do that alone again“. And then there is a bunch of them, that see this and realize there partners would be like that and they then don’t want any kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:12 AM
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So what are monks? If they respect Mary or don’t doesn’t really matter for the exclusion of women today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:59 PM
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Well they do…….who do you think is behind the fall of roe v. wade? Who do you think tries everything to get the „bible back into classrooms“? Who do you think is advocating against womens sufferage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:08 PM
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Organized religion all around the world is currently fighting to keep and widen their grip on people. No matter where you are looking … fundamental christians in the US are not any better then the taliban in Afghanistan. And the do everything to get back into power. How can I not care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:56 PM
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Women cant get into any leading position in the cathlic church.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:48 AM
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Upps sorry, I am married for nearly a decade…….he is just not an asshole, who thinks I am here to be his mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:23 AM
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For sure…..women have rights now and men really don’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:52 PM
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You mean you managed to understand nothing……big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:44 PM
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Yeah men get less then 40 % of degrees…..that they then shall have 50% of workplaces ist actually preferring men…..but math is not you strong suit, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:42 AM
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That wasn‘t my point….my point was that women not being allowed to say anything when they get abused, because thats misandry and that makes misogynie worse, is abuse in it’s self.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:38 AM
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Maybe your argument wasnt a good one….was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:33 AM
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Yeah exactly, you want to creat a whole new level of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:42 PM
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Anecdotes don’t make a general trend…….
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:33 PM
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You get that from what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:49 PM
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How is it „funded by everyone through taxes“ but also „everyone with wealth“? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:48 PM
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Thats funny coming from someone who doesn’t Even make his own statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:59 PM
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Yeah, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:02 PM
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Babes, the school system is made by men for boys and still run by men today……if you are still outperformed, may that one be on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:56 PM
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You don’t understand how quotas work. It’s for „unqualified“ people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:04 PM
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It did happen in the past but you guys dream to much of being the top predator while being pray. But hey, tell me when you guys have procreation down without women and are able to do all the work women do, paid and unpaid on top of what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:56 PM
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Great, show me the childcare mashine. Id love to have one. Until then…..custody/child support and mostly alimony are decided in the best interest of the child. It’s usually not in the best interest of the child to give them to someone who did not care for them when mommy and daddy were still together. You guys make the decision to want the woman to do Most of the care taking but you don’t want to pay for that work. Bad boys. But this is easily solved. Stay home half the time, do half of the chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:52 PM
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Did You Read your Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:45 PM
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You mean my university Professor with 30 years of experience had no clue? He is a man……
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:39 PM
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Why was it not handing over when only straight, white men had a shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:37 PM
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It absolutely does and that men are the minority in collage is actually the reason behind it but you don’t get that, because you don’t understand how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:20 PM
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That correct but you want affirmative action for men without the reason for affirmative action.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:18 PM
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Thats still not how quotas work but go on…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:16 PM
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Because misogynie. The same reason one of my professors told us in the first semester that as women, we needed a doctorate to not be the designated barrista for men with the same degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:15 PM
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But didn’t you argue everyone has to be a plumber first? Rules for thee but not for me, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:11 PM
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You make no sense to my question. Try again!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:10 PM
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Thats a whole lot of words when all you wanted to say was „women are not people the same way men are“. And you are still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:09 PM
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You do understand why women and minorities were held back from higher education in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:56 PM
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Sorry my guy but you can‘t possibly discuss all your grievences in depth at once. We will have to go point by point. So who do you think is the primary caregiver for a child most of the time and who stays home for the children most of the time and might that be the reason for those outcomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:55 PM
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Are men held back from collage because they have penisses?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:43 PM
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You spelled „evil men“ wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:40 PM
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Oh you don’t know how discussions work…..you make a statement, then it’s on you to back that up. But it’s Not even your statement……
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:39 PM
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So how Long have you been a plumber?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:38 PM
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Oh wait, the school system that was made by men for boys doesn’t work for them? Seems like men did a bad job but are still the ones running the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:26 PM
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You mean equal footing is „handing over“? How was it then not „handing over“ before anyone else but the white, straight male had a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:24 PM
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What‘s „handing over“ about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:23 PM
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When people are Not give the Same chances because they are women or black or disabled and so on, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:22 PM
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Lets start here: why do you believe the family courts to be rigged?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:20 PM
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Because all men have to be plumbers before they are allowed to be anything else…..thats not how that works, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:19 PM
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I think the same about that comment and you…..you guys don’t even know how quotas work but you still think it’s „anti male“.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:18 PM
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Oh babes, why did the Gouvernement have our rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:17 PM
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What „attributes“ do women lack?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:16 PM
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Are they? Or do they make it so that women for example are not excluded because they are women without looking at their qualifications?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:15 PM
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At what point did „daddy gouvernment“ hand anything over?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:00 PM
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Than these men should go an make an OF account…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:59 PM
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At what point is it „female supremacy“?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:58 PM
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They don’t need preferential treatment but fair treatment…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:57 PM
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Who exactly „designed schools for women“ and when?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:05 PM
-20

The other half of the population wants to partake equally……thats anti male!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:04 PM
3

Men repeatedly yapping about it only shows that it works as intendet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:17 PM
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FICTIONAL chads……be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:13 AM
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You are sorely mistaking, we also like the viking types…… Jokes aside, You do understand that these „men“ are fictional and some of them are actually bats? Oh and 40 year olds absolutely read those books.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:31 AM
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Good for him, that he figured things out before he got into a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:44 AM
1

Ähm men leave pregnant women and even new borns all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:14 AM
1

What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:39 PM
1

You still didn’t elaborate what hopps you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:04 AM
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„There should be someone for everyone“…..no and there never was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:58 AM
1

You mean you have to be appealing to the Person you want to be with? In what why is that a hoop?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:24 AM
1

Thats funny…..what hoops?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:52 AM
0

Did you read the op and my further comments? It’s Not mens rights op wants ….. it’s that he doesn’t want womens rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:24 AM
1

What exactly confuses you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:39 PM
3

„Managing“ OF accounts is generally Not pimping. But you said pimping. Don’t you know what that word means? No I don’t. You spoke of a date……a lot of people go on dates without being a couple. And a lot of couples don’t have sex or only rarely. And even if you are a couple a date doesn‘t necessarily mean sex……
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:39 PM
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So you understand that pimping is illegal or don’t you understand that? Yes women can choose because it’s their body they choose for……the man can‘t because it’s not about his body. Whats not clicking? What? Do you go on a date and say BEFORE „I only go on a date with you if you sleep with me?“. This is a really long post when all you wanted to say was „I hate women having rights.“
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:48 PM
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The prostitution/only fans……women working for themselves is not the same as pimping……pimping actually is a crime because they control the women (mostly with violence) and take their earnings. Thats straight up illegal because women have rights. The thing with men can do nothing if they want the Baby but the woman wants an abortion……again women have Rights to their own body, the man can not override. Spinning plates/game……is straight up lying about your intentions to get sex. And yeah thats not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:14 PM
3

Hey champ quick question…..You do see that all your criticism is about not being allowed to violate other peoples/womens rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:19 AM
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You mean like the Videos he had on the Internet about how to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:15 AM
1

By „Game“ you mean lying about your intentions……
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:03 AM
1

Women staying independent adults is assuming men will be violent…..thats the biggest bull shit I read in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:20 AM
1

How is bring an independent adult accusing anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:44 PM
1

No, she is prepared for when the situation goes south…..the same way men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:29 AM
2

It’s not standard according to your own comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:28 AM
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So that is a very specific situation that calls for specific measures according to the law……a little like a paternity test for the court.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:41 PM
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A drug or alcohol test is mandatory on what kid exactly? But lets assume those were „mandatory“ then all of them would be necessary to treat the child medically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:35 PM
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You can be certain but don’t pretend there is any other reason than you not trusting the mother of your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:27 PM
5

What other mandatory tests on kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:26 PM
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Thats what a lot of couples do with fertility treatments…..it’s such a big thing, that there are literal criminal egg farms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:27 AM
2

Can you link those studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:57 PM
11

It is offensive no matter what you say. That doesnt mean that you can’t have one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:22 AM
1

No it’s not……men who don’t support that don’t see women as full human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:13 PM
14

So wanting the right to your own body is a „endless hysterical demand“?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:09 PM
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Only that trusting women are then told its their own fault if something happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:07 PM
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You just don’t consider the legal facts…….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:17 PM
3

Thats exactly what I said and the oppsit of what you said…….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:06 AM
2

So Google says something different…..if a partner resumed financial disadvantages in the marriage, aka staying home for the kids, then they do get alimony in Schweden…….may it be, that it’s only very rare because most women work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:14 AM
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So you actually believe SIDS isn’t real? And accidents aren‘t real?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:28 PM
2

The „causal factor“ being education…….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:00 PM
3

You mean educated women not liking the guy, who wants to take their rights away, is „FAR out of step“? Are you serious ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:47 PM
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What is radicalized about women? Not liking Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:20 PM
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A lot of women don’t want kids or don’t have the right partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:50 PM
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Out of curiosity…..you saw a bunch videos that told you, you could not find a girlfriend without chopping wood?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:06 PM
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Or maybe none at all…..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:53 PM
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How are women the main reason for men to fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:28 PM
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Don’t forget vasectomies…..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:38 AM
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Isnt it illegal to have a baby out of wedlock in Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:37 AM
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In a relationship thats a joint decision…..which is the reason for alimony in those cases. You know you both made the decision, you both get to Bear the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:07 PM
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Of cause there is a reason……it’s that you didnt advance your own ability to have a career and make money for the other partners benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:33 AM
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What you are saying is: If the „weaker“ partner has any rights its suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:12 AM
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Absolutly…..the point is that very very few women Plan to be single mothers. Most plan to raise their kids with a father. That that doesnt happen is at least half the mens fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:34 AM
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Who do you think becomes a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:24 AM
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I never said they could…..are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:17 AM
1

What regret are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:32 AM
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You do understand that men take also Part in this equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:30 AM
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So you don’t look at the fact that most single mothers didnt want to be single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:19 PM
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What do you want to hear? That bone of you even listened to what he had to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:41 PM
2

Why do so many americans not have insurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:48 PM
5

To die from cancer or an accident is a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:30 PM
2

Free to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:25 PM
4

So how would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:23 PM
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Ok, you just don’t know what words mean….thats not „shunning“ but cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:41 PM
4

How exactly would you shun a majority? How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:28 PM
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Because you text your baby daddy when he didnt change the diaper? Who exactly will witness those behavior usually……This is very naiv.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:41 PM
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What evidence would that be? A List of all the diapers she changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:36 PM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:14 PM
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So we don’t want to give a child to those guys but we still want default…..what will the mother have to do to change the default?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:51 PM
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So Tell me how this would work: you throw a baby or a toddler on a guy who never changed a diaper or fed said child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:32 PM
2

So lets say a nurse will now be able to choose when shifts start?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:21 PM
2

You do understand that the stay at home mom is not the obsticle here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:40 PM
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I think custody should be given according to how much care the parents provided before the split. If men don’t take 50:50 care of their children in a working relationship, they can simply not expect to get 50:50 custody after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:33 PM
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Dad is a truck driver and away for prolonged periods of time. Parents don’t live close enough for the kids to be able to go to the same school/kindergarden from both parents houses. One parent has a job that starts so early, that child care isn‘t open before they start working. They have multiple small Kids and one parent stayed home to not have to put them into childcare. So the stay at home parent has a years Long happy in their resumee and is probably not able to earn in a way that they could…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:30 PM
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Ok lets try the real world here…..mom is a stay at home mom and dad is a truck driver, who is regularly away between some days and some weeks. How would they do 50:50?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:21 PM
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A lot of times it want for practical reasons alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:39 AM
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In the real world there will a lot of situations when this can just simply not work. Don’t you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:38 AM
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Problem is that a lot of the time This will not work…..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:23 AM
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There is no intention to stop it actually the US is currently going backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:12 AM
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Sexism obviously exists and your post is living proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:04 AM
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For Royals sure……not for every day people and peasents. And Royals made up like 3% of the population. I did geneology in my own family…..I can go back to like 1650 in some lines and all of them had children before first marriage. Some of those kids would not even take the husbands name, which made it obvious that were fathered by another man. My husband and I are hands down the first couple in centuries who married without being at least very pregnant in my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:11 PM
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Nope, certainly not. That is just your perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:59 PM
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Where exactly was this „west“ and when do you imagine this was?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:13 AM
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So why is it there then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:18 PM
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Why is there a minimum wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:20 AM
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For what exactly do I need a quote from you? You think thats what she feels? I thought she was planing on doing a 1000 men next? She didnt cheat though, did she? If she hurt anyone, she hurt herself and yes, it’s right to look at why someone would hurt themself. It’s funny that you talk about deflection when you are writing such a comment…..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:35 PM
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I am starting to think that you don’t know the meaning of wrong. Wrong as an adjective means „not correct or true; incorrect“ and as as a noun means „unjust, dishonest, or immoral“……wich is it? So you want to hold her accountable for her feelings? Or for other women looking deeper then just what hits them in the face?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:37 PM
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What do you mean with at fault? She didnt do anything that has fault in it? And cant you be exploited even if you do something consentually?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:40 PM
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What is wrong about it? You didnt answer that. How is it her fault how other women see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:38 PM
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I don’t know what are you expecting here? What do you think she is not responsable means? Nobody is actually saying she didnt do this consentually?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:25 PM
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What about her actions was exactly „the wrong thing“? Wrong how exactly? And what kind of accountability are you thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:19 PM
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What exactly are you trying to say…..give me an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:11 AM
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I just can’t…..you are afraid of other cultures and your solution is to enslave women. If that’s what you think is intellectual and according to your values, I don’t want either of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:57 PM
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There are 8 billion people on earth…..are you really worried about population decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:48 PM
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What do you think will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:07 PM
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By saying it’s unfair that women don’t have to depend on men for survival anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:58 PM
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You do know that many people become single parents after wanting and planning a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:56 PM
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And why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:51 PM
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What you described is men being frustrated because women are no longer enslaved to them, as women can survive without men now. Is that really what you want to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:49 PM
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No you don’t…..you blame victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:31 AM
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That you don’t see the irony…….
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:30 AM
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Ist doesn’t just sound like it…..that’s exactly what they want. Funnily enough so men never have to be accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:28 AM
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So you have literally the same problem women have……where is your accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:23 AM
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Oh dear…..those existed way in the past, not today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:06 PM
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In what way exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:26 PM
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Are young men prosecuted for going to college and face like 99 years of prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:26 PM
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Ok, explain it to me then….whats the problem with the 16 year old having feelings. At least in that article she never blames men as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:11 PM
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And I don’t think the 4b ladies say that either. May it be that you lump yourself in with terrible men??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:53 PM
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She did not ever say „men were taking her rights away“ in that article.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
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The article is literally her describing her feelings about all of this. Why do you feel blamed when she speaks about her feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:44 PM
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So you feel blamed because this 16 year old girl has feelings? I am so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:27 PM
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Why do you feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:07 PM
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If anyone ever tries to tell me that bs, I like to tell them about my husbands aunty……she is in her 70s and on husband number 4. That one she met shortly after the death of number 3, who died like seven years ago. She is not a model or anything but a granny …. A normal granny. Any woman wanting to have a man, will find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:58 PM
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No babes, I believe you don’t live in the US……but it still bothers you to no end. So why is that? Are you afraid women where you live, could decide to not engage with you at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:19 PM
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Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:26 AM
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Yeah, you don’t even live there and still felt compelled to but in because it doesn’t bother you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:25 AM
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You are so unbothered that you made a whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:49 PM
2

„Yes, rape is a risk. The best way to minimize the risk is with a medium or long term partner.“ That’s what you said. For the statistics you can look that up: the numbers for rape by spouse/partner are between 30% and 50% depending on what source you look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:42 PM
2

Again…..pearl index. You believe that long term partners would always mean well, when in reality they carry the highest risk of rape. Your anecdote has really nothing to do with the topic at hand. I suggest nothing…..these women decide for themselves and that is there right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:06 PM
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Not I argue that 2 forms of birth control don’t prevent 100% of pregnancy…..the Pearl index does. And you totally ignore that the male partner might not work with you. They might stealth you, they might pressure you or they might simply rape you. And don’t tell me that the majority of men would say: „no p in v is cool with me“.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:38 PM
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Babes, you absolutely need to read up on the Pearl index!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:16 PM
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To have someone’s body on your mind ist not considering them……or would you say that if you fantasize about eating a cutlet, you are considering the animal that died for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:50 PM
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Poor people have more kids statistically….in the past and now. And historically most people didn’t own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:30 PM
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Most men not considering women’s anything……
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:26 PM
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Nope, you can’t be reasoned with….you ask the perspective of women to then tell them there perspective is wrong. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:24 PM
1

This is really interesting…..you think people don’t have kids because they don’t own houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:15 PM
3

I need to ask this: how will republicans do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:08 PM
9

Wow, read that comment out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:04 PM
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Maybe read them out loud….you might here it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:03 PM
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I am an individual person, with individual experience…..when men try to debunk me, how is that not an attack on me as a individual? By the way, you are doing it right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:53 PM
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And how does changing your lastname to then be called Ms. partners lastname not sever you from being your individual person and blend you with your spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:51 PM
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You do realize that all your answers sound like the part that you edited in your op?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:49 PM
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And obviously you do judge them for that…..so what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:56 AM
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So if it’s all that unlikely, why are you thinking about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:36 AM
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Which isn’t one at all…..he didn’t say it and that you said it doesn’t make it his thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:52 AM
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You could have just said that he didn’t say that anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:47 AM
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Where exactly does he say anything about the husband being deranged?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:49 AM
0

In what way exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:39 PM
1

Don’t you think they always were?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:58 PM
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https://nnomy.org/index.php/en/content_page/item/931-feminists-against-the-draft.html Do you actually expect feminists to abolish the draft, that they neither installed nor uphold, by themselves? https://cepa.org/article/ukrainian-women-seek-an-equal-right-to-fight/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:47 PM
1

I don’t think that feminists don’t give a fuck for disadvantaged men but why would you expect them too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:37 PM
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Neither women nor feminists installed the draft and feminists are actually against it. If we talk America the draft has not been invoked for 52 years but in the mean time it was women who fought for being allowed in combat roles and to make things equal. That’s a really bad example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:33 PM
4

You can just say that it was bullsh….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:30 PM
2

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:00 PM
5

Try starting with one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:00 PM
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What’s your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:59 PM
2

You didn’t read further, did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:59 PM
0

At what point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:57 PM
7

What’s not about equality in feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:35 PM
5

„all pussies are not made equal and it’s honestly dumb that this is even up for debate. I shouldn’t have to explain to adults that a 90 lb woman most likely has a smaller pussy than a 6’5 300 lb woman.“ This is not how vaginas work, like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:14 AM
5

Is the serious issue in dating in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:31 PM
3

So I am German, prostitution is legal here for more than 20 years and way before that it was decriminalized……still most prostitutes are believed to be in human trafficking situations with pimps…..there is nothing safe about it. What’s worse is that the pimps are safer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:29 PM
4

Where do you get this from? Less depression? Less suicides? How do you know it’s from legalizing prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:44 PM
1

How do you come to the conclusion that legalizing prostitution would make it safer?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:42 PM
6

And other times you get „do we know each other“…….can go either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:46 PM
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We do know but often we just want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:19 PM
2

Her mother actually was from Nuremberg and she went back to live there with her daughter until the end of the war and after that they went back to Argentina. Or that’s what is officially known. So it is strange to me actually. Like what was the thought process here? Germany under the Nazis was to dangerous for Esther Vilars father, as a Jew, even though the Nuremberg laws weren’t in effect yet. So the whole family fled to Argentina but it was not to dangerous for her mother and Esther herself as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:22 PM
2

I really don’t know. But it is strange that her mother went back to Germany with her after the Nuremberg Laws went into effect, as those made marriages/sex/children with Jews illegal. Like she did all the illegal shit and had the proof right there in form of a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:57 AM
1

So the priests do what they have always done ….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:33 PM
8

True, the east block was mich more equal. But it wasn’t because they were feminist but because they needed women working. But true east Germany was much more equal then west Germany. Men could not but into their wives employment. Abortion was legal and divorce quiet easy. But it’s more complicated then just the political system. I believe that religion had much less influence helped too. That’s changing now, at least in Poland, no? The abortion laws in Poland are right back to 200 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:03 PM
3

No she isn’t dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:03 PM
2

Today we would say rage bate. Like I am German and when she published the book in 1971 women couldn’t work without the permission of their husband, who also could terminate her employment at any point in time without even telling her. Women couldn’t get an abortion but also couldn’t get custody of their kids if they were unmarried. Rape in marriage was legal. And women could only get divorced if they proofed fault on the husbands side. But sure, women had the upper hand in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:01 PM
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Whoever believes in Esther Vilar can not be taken seriously, like at all. That woman never lived in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:25 PM
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Men weren’t better or more viable in the past…..women just needed them to not starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:20 PM
2

So if that’s fine, why were you all so butt hurt about the bear thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:42 AM
4

You said „if a minor and an adult commit crimes together“. So according to your logic the woman must have done a crime and that’s why you blame her. So what’s the crime? That she trusted a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:48 PM
7

So what did she do wrong? Believe a man? When we say we don’t believe men and we don’t choose men you start crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:13 PM
5

What crime does the woman commit in your examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:11 PM
8

But it’s not women who make the mistake/do the crimes you are talking about in your post, it’s men. Getting into abusive relationships/ staying in abusive relationships……the man is the abusive partner, he does wrong but you blame the woman. Getting into a relationship with a „playboy“. I assume you mean a guy who cheats? The guy is cheating, that’s wrong but you, for some reason, blame the woman. Age gap relationships….the problem ist the manipulation of the unexperienced partner. The older one,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:58 AM
12

You try to blame women for the things men do….can you just not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:56 AM
-2

And if we talk about it, then we are „bitter“.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:21 PM
11

I assume you are a man…..would you want to have children if you were a woman? If you had to put your body and health on the line, would go through pregnancy and birth, would have the baby be totally dependent on you for at least the next few years and would be expected to do the lion‘s share of care giving?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:54 PM
1

Actually no cut off……also if you truly don’t know, six weeks is not a sufficient timeframe to get an abortion and I don’t think that there are providers left in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:25 PM
1

Because women deserve bodily autonomy even in Texas…..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:28 AM
1

You do not see a difference here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:35 PM
18

College degrees do not contribute to marital instability…..quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:35 AM
2

You believe sexual harassment only come from strangers…..it does not. Often enough it’s the creepy uncle or even your grandpa or maybe your brother as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:42 PM
2

Well, I am bringing you my universal female experience from across the pond. I would say I was very sheltered growing up but not as much as you were. The first time I really remember something happening I was 10. I was at a family function and there was a man who wasn’t related to me…..he started to talk to me later in the afternoon. He took a lot of pictures of me and us together on my parents camera and at the end of the night that camera was gone. My mom flipped, like really flipped and I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:56 PM
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Thats actually exactly what you said….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:41 PM
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Ok…..how do you personally want to benefit women or specifically the woman you want/have a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:35 PM
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That’s no answer to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:25 PM
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Why exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:24 PM
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Well tell me in what capacity men want to benefit women here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:06 PM
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You are under the impression men want to benefit women……I don’t think most want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:29 AM
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You said in your op you pay even though they offer…..so which is it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:34 PM
1

You do realize that people, namely adults who pay into social security, have choices while kids have none. I prefer that fristline the parents are responsible and after that the government is…..never is a child responsible for being born or raised. I can imagine how you tally up everything you ever gave your child, to present them with a bill when they turn 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:16 PM
1

That’s rich coming from someone who want children to pay for being born and being raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:47 PM
2

„Your reason“? ….. I didn’t realize, you invented the cs system? And what’s wrong with unwilling men to run off? Hmm, if someone totals your car and is than running off because he doesn’t want to pay for the damages…..Will you than say what’s wrong with running off?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:38 PM
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Yep and unwilling men would just run wild impregnating women to than fuck off and never be seen again. I have to ask you…..do you have any idea why the child support system was created? Spoiler: it’s not because abortions didn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:57 PM
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If you can not see that the stance „men should be able to go around and spread their seed but not be responsible for any outcome“ isn’t a scumbag take, I don’t know what is. Releasing men of that little bit of responsibility, that they do have and that can be enforced at least some times, will not make anything better for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:27 AM
5

What you are here to discuss is how to make men never responsible for anything. Just be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:20 AM
2

That’s no answer to my question…..what women could obtain divorce? Was it obtainable for the average woman? And how does that even relate to your statement that traditional marriage can’t exist when marriage can be dissolved?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:40 PM
2

I never heard of this before so not me.🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:25 AM
2

I didn’t want to assume. I want facts. It seems you have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:22 AM
2

It is important who we are talking about….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:13 PM
2

Which women? Could the normal average woman realistically obtain a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:33 PM
3

„She is not legally trapped without any rights….so that is not a traditional marriage.“ - I fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:39 PM
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This is so funny….you conflate her with her audience. They are rich, she has a whole production team for her channel and she does the pageant stuff on the side. She is not a SAHM like at all. What you describe as nice, is not the lifestyle she actually lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:38 PM
2

How do you believe she lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:38 PM
2

That woman is everything but not a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:35 PM
2

Vague about what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:26 PM
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Is this really your argument „women want bodily autonomy…..bad bad women!“ And who got locked up for harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:45 PM
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I am confused….how do you imagine this „promoting“ to go? „Well men, we don’t want anything to do with you … now go and be happy about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:17 PM
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This specific poster made a whole post yesterday about what feminists say on the internet and that that would mean women have no empathy towards Male children……so obviously he doesn’t give them the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:33 PM
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Why don’t you apply the same benefit of doubt to femists?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:13 PM
2

I need specific examples of what you mean in your op……can you give those?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:02 PM
1

You could just tell me what they cited as reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:24 AM
1

I did not see one of those yet so why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:57 AM
0

This might surprise you but life is expensive, kids are expensive and anything can happen anytime so having secure finances is sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:29 PM
1

That’s not what that is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:46 PM
4

Do me a favor and cross post this to the mensrights subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:57 AM
11

The boy scouts weren’t dismantled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:13 PM
1

I think you don’t know what a pimp actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:57 PM
0

This is a post about Tate….but also, pimping in and of itself is a crime in most places.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:07 PM
3

What would’ve the accusation here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:38 PM
2

Not at all….this post is about Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:41 AM
2

It was a question…….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:29 AM
4

He did it to underaged girls though and he used violence to keep the others in line. Not to mention that he defrauded the clients……….well well you respect criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:24 AM
5

But the pimp is respected?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:07 AM
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You can not hold other people’s actions against a literal baby……not legally. But again, there are legal proceedings for this. Your stance is quite frankly ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:40 AM
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That really much depends and, and this is crucial here, the baby did not lie. Paternity is between father and child, as is child support. Plus legal paternity can be generally revised in a timely manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:36 AM
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Are we talking about someone who is generally contractually competent or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:33 AM
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If you signed the birth certificate…….thats the whole point of doing that, that you are than legally the father. How can that be morally wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:09 AM
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Can you show us some pictures of what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:37 PM
3

Netflix has a 3 part documentary about „the man with 1000 kids“…..it’s horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:33 PM
6

If you know anything about sperm donation you should know that this is a really really bad idea…..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:52 PM
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What kind of „legacy“ are you talking about? The furthest ancestors I know reliably are great grandparents, who I have little memories of from when I was a small child. Most people don’t even know their ancestors that far back…..everyone will be forgotten in 4 generations max. Maybe a little longer if you become famous for something. So what kind of legacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:52 PM
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Haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:08 PM
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So I am not from the US and maternal mortality is much lower where I am but I still knew a 27 year old who died during emergency c-section because of some complication with her heart. My sister in law nearly died during a very complicated birth. She also had an ectopic pregnancy that landed her in emergency surgery before. And my cousin gave birth much to early and lost sight in one eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:18 AM
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Wow……that was a rant. I still specifically answered to the part of your comment about the Grundgesetz. Nothing else. Again, if speaking about the examples YOU GAVE ABOUT YOURSELF, is shaming to you, no one can help you. We can discuss each and every point if you like, just don’t get so emotional. I don’t know what Destiny did to you, but they never „sold“ their lifestyle to anyone. Actually they said it’s probably not for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:49 PM
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I answered your comment about the the Grundgesetz and Art. 3 is regarding equality under the law. You tried to appeal to emotion by bringing up your examples, not me. You brought up that you are 41 and „still can’t go shopping“. If you think it’s shaming to mention your own examples back to you, I don’t know what to tell you. Everyone should be equal under the law…..that you somehow don’t want to except that and live in the mindset from more than 80 years ago is quite sad but I am not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:50 PM
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Having different strengths doesn’t make us unequal as people. The only thing your little rant tells me is that even at 41, you lack a lot of abilities…..like remembering on what shelf in the fridge you put the butter. That must be really annoying, I wouldn’t say you are a lesser human because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:18 PM
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Yeah yeah…..men are never responsible for anything whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:50 PM
1

What organization fight for the rights of white people? The ku klux klan or white supremecists ….. I am pretty sure those got protested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:36 PM
6

And you don’t see a problem with men not seeing women as equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:22 PM
7

So you are just not responsible for the child you created?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:15 AM
2

So even most who can won’t…….
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:06 AM
2

Not all private things are dirty though……and this for sure is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:12 PM
3

That doesn’t make it dirty at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:00 PM
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They were not exclusive but dating casually…….thats what he wanted. No commitment and that is exactly what he got. Asking for that and being butt hurt when you get it is quite pathetic. Bashing her as a third party, like you, even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:59 PM
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So doing exactly what the guy wants is trashy….got you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:28 AM
3

What is „trampy“ about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:58 AM
2

What exactly is dirty about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:57 AM
5

So your hobbies are the only positive in your life? And are you married or have ever been?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:46 PM
7

„Relying“ on your partner because you strive for a happy marriage? It’s a team effort. But also you don’t think your job should give you any kind of fulfillment or happiness…..so what will?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:54 PM
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So you just don’t strive for any kind of happiness……sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:06 PM
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The bars you set for marriage and your job are in hell….I can’t see how this would not lead to major disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:45 PM
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My husband learned to cook my favorite dish when we got together. He cooks it for me when I am stressed or had a bad day and he cooks it exactly the way I like it. He has the ingredients always stocked and I never have to ask for it…..he just does it. When my mom died, we had just gotten married, he did everything with me…..go to the hospital, speak to the doctors, organize whatever necessary. He even stayed with us in the hospital for the last night and stayed awake (all of us were just exhaust…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:09 PM
2

Wouldn’t that be convenient?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:15 AM
5

Do you have statistics for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:49 PM
5

What exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:48 PM
3

„ I feel like…“ yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:35 PM
3

Have you tried? And why would you need to make your life harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:51 PM
3

You don’t think getting a mortgage as just two people is harder than as a married couple?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:43 PM
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You can’t read. And no, women always worked. Many in the jobs they work in today. Please for the love of all that you deem holy, take a history class.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:13 PM
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Since when do you think factory work is a thing…….have you read a history book, like ever? And the vast majority of women didn’t work until recently? Please, take a history class.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:48 PM
6

If the guys don’t have it….how can the girls dig it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:35 PM
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More than 50% the US households can’t compensate a 400$ emergency and is one missed paycheck away from homelessness……so where is this money to dig?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:23 PM
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Is this free money in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:19 PM
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Absolutely, those aren’t tradwives either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:17 PM
6

Having a hobby and having a business are not the same thing. Like being a housewife and being a tradwife aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:16 PM
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You believe women didn’t work in third world countries before or women in western countries didn’t consume before?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:14 PM
6

How is she a tradwife when she has her own business?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:23 PM
2

But all those women have rights now, they didn’t have before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:22 PM
9

Again, what gold?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:20 PM
3

The majority of „you“? Who exactly is this you? And why would this „you“ babysit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:21 PM
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They do not care about these women as people, they care about scaring women into relationships (especially not so nice once). If women are totally fine and living their best lives without men, men have it harder to get into relationships and have to actually be good partners to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:50 PM
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I am aware of that. But I read about the Boy Scouts letting girls enroll now some time back and as I understood it, they still have separated „classes“ if you will. So „girl classes“ and „boy classes“ who only use the same curriculum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:18 PM
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Aren’t there still boy groups and girl groups…..so that actually the girls use the curriculum of the Boy Scouts but are still separate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:00 PM
2

Deathgrip Syndrom?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:44 PM
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Kids love you is very different from you demonstrated that you are able and willing to tend to an infant and all their needs. But yes, kids also love him. I also trust that my husband would have told me if he didn’t want kids…..you know when we had the kids conversation before we got serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:01 AM
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Do men not interact with kids where you live? For my husband specifically I took him baby sitting my niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:38 AM
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No never. What I do see and what was a big part of choosing my husband is if men are good with kids. As in he is willing to take care of kids and actually knows what he is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:44 AM
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It always was….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:24 PM
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It modifies it to your liking…..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:08 PM
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Babes, you can make your „own arrangement“ …. It’s called prenup and if you don’t, than you get the standard. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:47 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:57 PM
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The state fucked up what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:56 PM
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What contract can’t you break?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:56 PM
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I know what an annulment is…..it just had nothing to do with the topic of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:54 PM
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The state is involved in every other contract….why shouldn’t it be involved in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:16 PM
5

What would annulment have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:23 AM
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It’s not „half your stuff“ but half of both of your stuff. But if you want it like that, should men give their wives 100% of „your stuff“ if they leave them for another woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:51 AM
2

Can you link that post? I am dying to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:25 PM
5

It would be so interesting to know what you deem evidence exactly. And what „blue pill view“ should be changed by it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:24 PM
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If you think finding a Reddit post is basic research or data in any way…..I really don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:22 PM
5

Can you link the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:11 PM
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What’s the point? That if you say all the things the other party wants to hear, the other party might probably want to meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:11 PM
5

So he catfished men for dates he did not actually go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:03 PM
4

What post?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:59 PM
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What would you deem evidence that should change any of our „beliefs“?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:34 PM
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So what has this list of random celebrity men to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:16 AM
2

Which laws exactly…..can you link them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:41 PM
3

The law where exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:27 PM
1

So your ex is fighting against you…..in what way is that exactly influenced by NOW or feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:26 PM
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Can you link the law that gives (unfit) mothers full custody by default? If you want equal financial responsibility (which there is, if not more) will you impose equal hands on care too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:52 PM
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Who fights against that when exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:50 PM
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Oh, I did not catch that he is the same guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:33 AM
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If you think that’s a good idea knock yourself out….
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:32 AM
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Ok, have fun just don’t do it where it’s illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:40 AM
10

Link that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:57 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:42 AM
2

I asked before: what are these ominous „civil unions“.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:02 PM
1

Dear god stop spreading this bs around paternity test are not illegal in France. You need to get court permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:31 PM
1

I just can not. If you are married paternity is automatically installed in like every western country and with that the father has joint custody with the mother. If you are not, there is a process to establish paternity. That will differ from country to country, sometimes it’s going to some kind of public office to sign documents, sometimes it’s signing and filing the birth certificate and sometimes, if the father is unwilling it’s literally going to court over it. Similar with the last name, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:29 PM
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Of course it does…..from custody to naming the kid, to alimony it makes a world of difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:06 PM
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It makes a difference to the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:00 PM
5

I believe you have to look at two different things here. For one, girls are bombarded from nearly birth with „marriage is the goal in life“ kind of stuff. Practically every Disney movie end with a big wedding, you get constantly told how great it is to have a wedding and a husband. In my language there is a saying „bis zur Hochzeit ist alles wieder gut“ (everything is gonna be fine until your wedding) which you get told as a little girl like 5 times a day for whatever makes you said or angry or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:41 PM
4

And that is not so clever….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:30 PM
2

That’s not an answer to my question and the „hypocrisy“ was also not what the initial commenter „criticized“.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:32 PM
2

Where is that answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:17 PM
-1

Or maybe, you just don’t get it? Have you ever thought about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:08 PM
2

So having a woman does not actually benefit men…..great, leave us alone than.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:59 PM
-1

You forget the children babes…….
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:57 PM
2

„Please and attract women“……because men want women so it does help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:46 PM
0

That doesn’t change that feminist policies do help others besides women……by the way it’s not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:45 PM
3

So making more money and looking good doesn’t benefit those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:35 PM
1

Maybe you want to convince your fellow rp guys than that you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:42 AM
6

What exactly is in bad faith here? I asked a question and the rp couldn’t answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:32 AM
2

So what exactly can we assume to be rp ideas than?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:07 AM
3

First of all your sentence makes no sense but I assume you mean „doesn’t mean it is a rp idea“. He was just right here….You can go into the search bar of ppd and find hundreds of them. But if that your train of thought the same must be applied to feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:58 AM
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You want to try an actual argument maybe? Or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:39 AM
4

You might want to find anything maybe. You split people in men and women and you expect feminism to benefit men like women but you leave out that there are children too and maybe feminism benefits women and children….just food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:34 AM
0

What exactly does not help men? And you do understand that there are kids too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:28 AM
-3

Hmmm you think it’s impossible to simultaneously benefit women and other people? But that wasn’t what the other guy criticized by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:21 AM
2

And working hard would not help red pill men? Do you have sources for that kind of feminism? Would love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:02 AM
-1

This is so wrong I don’t know where to start. „When a war came“ … is war a natural catastrophe in your mind? That alone shows that you have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:12 AM
-1

So it doesn’t click……sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:09 AM
2

He says mgtow is red pill …. You say it’s not. Maybe you can get on the same page?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:55 AM
0

Patriarch means father……Patriarchy is a system. If you don’t understand, that a system that continually oppresses women and other minorities will not be well liked by those who are oppressed, I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:54 AM
3

Why do red pillers scream for it than?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:44 AM
4

It’s a married red pill man (at least that’s his own labeling) who says mandatory paternity test should be a thing…..in this very thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:44 AM
2

Can you guys decide what’s what? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/uBI1LjkWvr
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:39 AM
1

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/21OiCOI7pv No red pill thing huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:37 AM
3

Interesting that so many men who label themselves red pill are in support of that than. But if that’s you stance well feminism is the theory of women and men being equal. And you are obviously not keeping up with politics in any way if that’s what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:35 AM
3

You might want to read the thread again…..maybe it clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:28 AM
-2

They do that to keep the relationship (that would be a benefit) because they believe otherwise they wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:26 AM
2

How do those not benefit red pill men directly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:06 AM
-1

I never said red pillers said what ever your fever dream is but so you acknowledge that they only have ideas benefiting themselves directly…..great talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:05 AM
2

How does that not benefit red pill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:03 AM
3

How does that not directly benefit red pill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:03 AM
6

So there are no red pill ideas, that don’t directly benefit red pill men. And I beg to differ aren’t you guys regularly screaming for mandatory paternity tests, the end of cs and alimony and no fault divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:01 AM
5

Tell us about the red pill ideas that don’t directly benefit red pill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:36 AM
1

Just let them die…..no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:19 PM
1

It’s not that intense of an issue? Women and children die in pregnancy and childbirth by the thousands. Not to forget those fetuses that are doomed anyway and live very short painful lives if they survive birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:47 PM
1

Only that women have to take responsibility in every scenario but men wouldn’t have to take responsibility ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:52 PM
1

Medical complications for mother and/or child cause a need for abortion…..you ok? Can you follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:50 PM
1

So your sperm is just uncontrollable? You don’t have any say about who you impregnate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:37 PM
4

Your idea makes women the only ones responsible ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:10 PM
6

The point is that men wish women to be the only ones who have to carry consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:48 PM
1

So fuck women with medical complications or children in your perfect world…..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:45 PM
7

No no, he wants women to have no abortion but men to be able to have no responsibility at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:44 PM
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And why exactly would we care about that? If you think there is something wrong with modern western women…..go and marry someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:04 AM
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So you ask „aren’t you embarrassed“ and when we answer „we really don’t care“ you say we are in denial? Might it be that you are in denial?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:59 AM
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Ok, so why are you interested in what women, you do not want, are embarrassed about or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:42 AM
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How do we „spread feminism to them“? Most women you talk about here are half a globe away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:40 AM
12

Is the nature you are talking about in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:39 AM
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Enlighten us……how exactly do we do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:00 AM
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So if you are not, why don’t you go and marry one of these women you hold the torch for? Why are you interested in what women, who you do not want, feel embarrassed for or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:56 AM
4

I just can’t…..you saw harrassers getting their ass handed to them? Good for you. And did the helpers asked for the number of the girl after?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:33 PM
11

That doesn’t change that women want different things….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:55 AM
11

I am very confused of what kind of help you think happened in the past? People helping when you get harassed as a woman are typically other women. One time a man „helped“ me while I was harassed only to turn around and asking for my contact himself. It’s not like men generally helped women out of sticky situations before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:50 AM
-2

Did you read the comment I answered?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:59 PM
0

He leads her to believe that he wants to be a genuine friend, while what he really wants is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:56 AM
3

There are quite a lot of them though…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:16 PM
7

Have you seen any ex trad wife content on TikTok?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:28 PM
16

So what comes always to my mind is a guy I met when I studied abroad for a year. He was interested, I was not and when he couldn’t get me to agree to a meeting he started to follow me around. First he would start to take the same bus to and from uni, when he never took that one before. He than always sat next to me on the bus. Than he would come to the same bus stop and after that he waited for me at my apartment building entrance one night (I had never told him where o lived)……..it was unsettli…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:04 PM
2

You are saying that all over your post commander Waterford.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:36 PM
7

What would 9/11 have to do with that and 2010 was less than 20 years ago. But still, when you made this post what did YOU mean by „historical retrospective“? That’s what we are talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:14 PM
3

So may that be because that wasn’t tracked back than?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:03 PM
23

What kind of „evidence“ do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:51 PM
-3

Most men are already not attractive to me because they are out of age range…….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:27 PM
1

What would I need to know you for? I asked clarification for a sweeping generalization about women and you don’t give any…..women are just „trash“ 🤷🏻‍♀️. I just hear what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:08 PM
1

None of that has anything to do with the topic at hand. So either you have specific reasons to say they are trash or you just hate women….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:49 AM
1

What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:59 AM
2

What is exactly trash about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:44 PM
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What about feminism is misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:34 AM
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That really much depends…..I am married for love, I would not want to share. There are people who marry for economic reasons and they might be fine with sharing. Polygamy in our current society seems not to work……look at all those sister wife shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:58 PM
2

Ok….women decide not to have kids. Women are people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:59 PM
0

Do 12 year olds have a sex life where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:58 PM
2

So they decide not to have kids without the right guy……
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:37 PM
2

Jep if i give you a whole dollar instead of half that’s also and increase of a hundred percent and you would still deal it minuscule. You don’t know what infertility is. That’s still no biological difference and doesn’t sound stressful at all. They are pampered.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:36 PM
3

Maybe you decide to not have kids as long as you didn’t win the lottery…..and if you do so you better wrap it up, so that you don’t get a surprise pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:07 PM
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The risk of genetic defects „shoots up“ from 0,5% to 1%. Don’t know where you get that infertility „shoots up“. The existence of post natal care centers is not a biological difference. Why would childbirth be especially stressful for Korean women? I thought they take 3 years off?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:47 PM
1

Sure and still you DECIDE about it and take steps towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:42 PM
-1

It’s is a conscious decision to not get pregnant…..you know consistently using contraception and all and it can still happen. So to not have kids is for most people (yeah infertility exists) something they decided and took measures for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:41 PM
1

So they consciously decide against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:03 PM
4

It is a conscious decision though to not date the man available and to not get pregnant if they do date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:01 PM
3

You think women at 35+ can only have one or no kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:59 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:58 PM
0

Only that living in a penthouse is not the „normal“ walk of life for most people and it also can’t happen accidentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:58 PM
4

Yeah and people DECIDED they don’t want to put kids into this…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:27 PM
0

So they DECIDED to have fewer kids or none at all…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:26 PM
4

So if it’s not people deciding not to have kids….what is it than?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:12 PM
-1

I understand what he means…..it is just not true. I do not need to be married. I lived just fine before and if I was to divorce my life wouldn’t crumble. That does not mean I am „flippant“ about my marriage. I want to be married after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:39 AM
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That’s not what a boundary is……you set boundaries for yourself not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:59 PM
-2

No it doesn’t……you are equating wanting something to being casual about something. That’s not the same or even related.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:58 PM
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And that doesn’t make you think that „feminists“ are maybe talking about those men when they „warn“ women against being submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:54 PM
2

The difference between no such thing as marital rape and no consummation being grounds for an annulment is that the woman’s „no“ wasn’t accepted and husbands forced their „rights“ via violence. While for women it was one of few reasons to be able to leave a marriage because they accepted the „no“ from their husbands. If you can’t see that that are two totally different things, I don’t know what to tell you. Maybe I do know what to tell you: you are unable to see these laws unbiased. Rape wasn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:38 PM
1

I say it again, it falls under sexual assault laws. That is still criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:25 PM
1

Yes that is a new concept. Marital rape is in most western countries a thing since the 1990s. Rape outside of marriage is a crime against the woman for like 200 years. Before that it was a crime against who ever „owned“ her. Plus and that’s really the kicker it was something that could be „healed“ by marrying the rapist as the victim was dishonored. That was a thing in western countries until the 1960s and is still a thing in many countries. By the way, it is not legal for a woman to „rape“ a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:08 PM
1

Yes that is a new concept. Marital rape is in most western countries a thing since the 1990s. Rape outside of marriage is a crime against the woman for like 200 years. Before that it was a crime against who ever „owned“ her. Plus and that’s really the kicker it was something that could be „healed“ by marrying the rapist as the victim was dishonored. That was a thing in western countries until the 1960s and is still a thing in many countries. By the way, it is not legal for a woman to „rape“ a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:08 PM
0

That’s quiet concerning. You don’t see the difference in maturity between someone who still goes to school, totally dependent on their family or maybe is fresh out of school and someone who is either several years into college, probably living alone or who is already several years into a job and a functioning adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:29 AM
-2

And now, that you have matured…..can you see it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:15 AM
-2

And what……you didn’t realize that that was not great?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:34 AM
4

I doubt that’s on the same level but do you know why or should I explain it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:06 PM
3

May that have been because an 18 year old dating a 21 year old, while still not great, is a world away from an 18 year old dating a 41 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:39 PM
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I find it funny every time…..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:12 PM
10

Despite all that Brock Turner spent only 3 months incarcerated. Despite that there are still commentors on here, who go around and „defend“ Turner as innocent. Despite that his mommy is now working to end end the sex offender register. His victim went through all of that trauma after the incident and he still got a slap on the wrist and his daddy called the incident publicly „20 minutes of fun“.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:36 AM
3

So what is the point than?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:59 AM
6

Why did you say that than, if they don’t. You seem not very organized in your thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:13 PM
5

Because if you don’t impose on your partner you must be a bottom? Maybe you just don’t know how to have a equal relationship….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:11 PM
6

Or maybe in a relationship with a equal partner…..must blow your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:01 PM
5

BDSM communities stand on yes means yes and you criticize that because?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:00 PM
3

Babes, you are speaking on law here…..consent has a clear legal definition. That definition might be slightly different in different jurisdictions but that doesn’t change that a definition is there. I didn’t know that the US is somehow the measure for everyone…..it’s not for me. But if you measure yourself to that and they don’t even use what you criticize (legally) what exactly is your grievance than? I wrote something about the no means no historically in another comment…..but in short, if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:59 PM
4

In what world? For sure not in mine….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:47 PM
6

Does anyone speak about tops and bottoms in context of yes means yes? Beside you I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:46 PM
6

Babes, consent has a definition…….there is no disagreement on that. You are wrong here. You mindlessly repeating the yes means yes is a bottom trying to top from the bottom doesn’t explain or validate anything. Your argument is you want the right to be sexually invasive to people without their consent and everything else is rape on you. You also don’t understand what rape is by the way….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:33 PM
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If you understand consent, why did you write this? „….says that consent amounts to someone saying no to something.“ Because that is not what consent is. If you understand that only a fraction of people have a bottom/top dynamic…..why do you think they should be the framework for every one? That is ridiculous. And your bottom line is that you need to be sexually invasive as that is „normal human behavior“…… Oh and you can’t explain why keeping your hands to yourself is rape on you……who would have…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:13 PM
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So you do not understand what consent is……that’s a great foundation for having any debate. You do understand that only a fraction of people have a bottom/top dynamic but that laws are for everyone? You do understand that even a bottom has to consent to sexual acts…..otherwise it’s sa/rape? You might want to explain how a „top“ not being able to force themselves on other people amounts to rape on them? That should be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:49 PM
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Babes, historically „no means no“ is pretty new…..see since when rape in marriage is illegal. Plus for most of the time rape outside of marriage was a crime against the „owner“ of the woman, not the woman herself and was often used to change a no into a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:12 PM
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„….says that consent amounts to someone saying no to something.“ I don’t think you know what consent is and that seems to be the whole problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:01 PM
7

Isn’t the premise of the post to rather speak to a tree….so to no one?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:49 PM
3

Where did I say any of that? Men just have to acknowledge reality……heterosexual sex can ALWAYS end in pregnancy. You don’t understand what bodily autonomy is by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:19 PM
3

What would that have to do with „trapping“? But also you do realize that paying a bill you caused and having bodily autonomy are very different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:01 PM
6

Child support is a thing after divorce/separation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:58 PM
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Oh no, he gets it……he is just offended that women dare to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:55 PM
4

Do you have any statistics that show that those pregnancies are not a minority? It’s weird because they are a minority and you only think about them. Also why exactly shouldn’t both parents be responsible after a separation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:45 PM
3

Even with a sperm donor a woman doesn’t get herself pregnant…..if she could, she wouldn’t need a donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:40 PM
8

You are really weird if you think about a minority only. And parents should just not be responsible for their kids after a separation? That’s even weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:39 PM
5

So you don’t understand that heterosexual sex can always lead to pregnancy? By the way, no woman ever has gotten herself pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:34 PM
12

So in your world no one gets divorced or has kids with long term partner before they separate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:29 PM
6

Yes that’s exactly my stance. There is no such thing as „trapping“. Men know very well that heterosexual sex can ALWAYS lead to pregnancy. No matter the contraceptive method, none is 100%. You do know that, right? You did have a basic biology course in school?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:26 PM
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You do understand that child support is not only for kids of „some random hoe“?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:12 PM
6

There is no way for a man to be in that situation…..men know that heterosexual sex can always lead to pregnancy and are able to use condoms or vasectomy …. Also not cumming into a vagina is helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:09 PM
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You are painfully ignorant……go try to be a pest to a migraine patient and see how quickly you are shoved out the door. And for what it’s worth, if that doctor isn’t a migraine patient herself, she also doesn’t know how it feels like and should shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:21 AM
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Didn’t read your own link, did you? Nowhere is said interact with them plus they say to „not be a pest“ and leave them alone. But cool, that you know better than actual migraine patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:44 AM
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You are categorically wrong because two people with migraines have told you now that there is no „spending time“ with a migraine patient in an active episode but you still insist that you are right. https://www.britannica.com/topic/solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:00 AM
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The problem is that you don’t understand what a migraine is. When I have episodes, I spend time with no one…..I can’t bear someone breathing in the same room. I will vomit my guts out and after hat I am knocked out by meds…all I want then is a quiet room and no one bothering me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:51 AM
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You have Reddit…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:46 AM
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It might surprise you but most women actually have things going on in their lives. And take it from someone with really bad migraines …. I never tough it out, for no one. Why would anyone torture themselves that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:18 PM
0

You think prostitution is „voluntary“? Good sir most of the time it is not, not at all. And while there maybe some women who truly do it because they want to, the overwhelming majority is pressured into it, if not straight up trafficked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:33 AM
1

So if it is not cool, why do you bring that poor people are exploited as excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:17 AM
6

That you say that over and over doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:08 AM
1

Because poor people get exploited in general…..than it’s cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:07 AM
1

Would you have told a slave that they being purchased by a Plantage owner might have been favorable to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:06 AM
6

You seem to be confused…..it’s not illegal to find a wife abroad in poor economic circumstances. That other people might judge you for leveraging your better economic circumstances to essentially buy a woman doesn’t make it illegal either. But still, other people are also allowed to have an opinion on this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:56 PM
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None of that is a reason to trust you….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:25 PM
6

But somehow you arrive at the same conclusion…..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:22 PM
4

Have you made a post yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:24 PM
3

You did realize that their faces were also airbrushed to unrecognizable?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:23 PM
4

Go and tell them that and what that should mean for custody when parents separate……I want to be a fly on the wall!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:11 PM
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Mom does half the time off and dad does half the time off…..or both work part time when mom is healed from birth. I need you to go to the men’s right sub and tell them that they are not really relevant in their kids’ lives ….. please!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:55 PM
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Or maybe, just maybe men could do their fair share of childcare and parenting and also take time off for their kids….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:27 PM
1

I regularly get assumed to be the younger sister, while in reality I am 7 years older than my sister. I was asked several times if I was 18 yet, while I was already over 30. My husband, who is 4 years older than I am, often gets really weird looks when we go somewhere together and was asked more than once that his wife is sooo young. But I don’t smoke, don’t drink, don’t tan in the sun…..actually I avoid the sun in general. So that prevents premature aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:23 PM
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They haven’t…..they are exploited by other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:07 AM
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So it’s the draft that is the problem and you don’t agree with a draft for men nor for women…….so maybe, just maybe you want solidarize (is that a word?) with the people who are against it…..which would be feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:01 AM
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What exactly have you sacrificed for your privileges….nothing I hear. I was speaking on active duty and you come with suffrage….cant stay on the topic at hand I see. But if women didn’t want to be in the military and in combat roles and there is no conscription nor a draft for women….how come women now serf in the military and in combat roles? By the way, if there are women who don’t want to serve in a war or not really doesn’t matter because the other commenter explained so nicely that he (and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:39 PM
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So the problem is a potential draft…..not the conscription. I am also confused what that would have to do with „holding women responsible“? The system as it is was invented and is held up by men. Women in fact have had to fight and claw their way into active duty. It’s very much giving you are barking up the wrong tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:50 PM
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So your grievance is not a draft but that your government wants to know you exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:16 PM
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„Intertwined with religion“ ….. well that really depends. Not where I live. If marriage was good or bad is really moot at this point. Today, at least where I live, it’s a legal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:48 PM
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Is the vas deferens a erogene Zone and nobody told me? You do know what is done in a vasectomy? The point is men taking responsibility for their own reproduction……you having your tubes tied does not take responsibility for a man’s reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:34 PM
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How do you come to that conclusion when we know from the earliest written sources that marriage always was a contract? An economical contract specifically. And yes Catholicism literally devoured marriage but they neither invented it nor the traditions that go along.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:23 PM
1

I am so confused….do you think marriage is a religious thing in principle?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:17 PM
9

Is there any data that it could make „his experience worse“? And you do know what side effects literally all birth control for women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:15 PM
10

Why should a man not take responsibility for his own reproduction via vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:08 PM
1

You only have to look up this very thread or other posts in this sub and you see how the men here cry and scream about child support or alimony (which not even 10% of divorcees get) or what ever else. And if anyone dares to argue that yes, men also have to take responsibility, than you are misandrist……it’s always the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:27 PM
1

You want to elaborate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:56 PM
3

„Women don’t look like I want them to….so I think they are not really people.“ There I fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:38 PM
1

Men think it’s misandry if they have any responsibilities so….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:32 PM
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Jake is not as attractive as he/you think he is. The post is like a resume for a job application….it says nothing about his personality. But personality is what pulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:44 PM
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I think this is really fun…..you could solve all your own problems, you just don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:22 AM
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I don’t know where exactly I advocated for it to be compulsory. But if it was….it would solve the main topics of discussion on this sub all in one go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:12 PM
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It has the same success rate sex would have. It has added bonuses…you know you get the vasectomy young, so the frozen sperm will not decline in quality. Plus no more unplanned pregnancies and you will always know who is the father. Shouldn’t you guys all jump on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:44 PM
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You can freeze sperm, actually for an indefinite amount of time. So no reversal is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:48 AM
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It seems you have a problem following the comment chain. This commenter stated „men have no agency“ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/knVEddZJ1F but they do. That’s all I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:54 PM
4

How would that relate………
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:47 PM
6

How does that relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:45 PM
3

What logic would that be……
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:44 PM
2

Explain how exactly they will have the child without the man causing the pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:40 PM
2

The man drove irresponsibly and caused a wreck…..thats what he pays for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:38 PM
2

Sure, doesn’t change that men have agency and are the ones to cause pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:34 PM
4

Well the man pays money because of HIS choice babes….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:27 PM
5

Last time I checked men absolutely had agency about into who they ejaculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:25 PM
0

You forget vasectomies……I would advocate for vasectomies for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:35 PM
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No it’s not……you ignore the outcome. A woman has an abortion - no child. A man has whatever you are suggesting - the child is still there but only half supported.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:20 PM
7

You really think you can raise a child on 430 $ (that’s the average payment for those who get anything) per month?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:18 PM
9

What standards are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:15 PM
10

So you are butthurt that women are better at coping?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:07 PM
2

Stats for any of those numbers you threw out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:44 PM
2

You just don’t have those stats…..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:42 PM
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None of these are exclusive to women at all…. I also didn’t know that addictions are feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:14 PM
4

So the numbers just appeared in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:13 PM
16

Give us examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:41 PM
3

Can you link sources for those numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:12 PM
2

If you want to speak to the person who brought statistics up, that would be them: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/OAYvzBfd3X If you want to apply crime statistics to bears…..TikTok has some videos where creators did the maths about that. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeC6BD2e/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:51 PM
1

What exactly do you want to apply here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:13 PM
5

Babes, I take you by your word…..is that not what you wanted? Should we not believe what you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:23 PM
5

That must be a very healthy relationship…..but you believe I would hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:03 PM
9

Did you tell your wife that today already…..you know the one who is the mother of your child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:53 PM
3

Für deine Frau? Absolut. Aber jetzt mal Butter bei die Fische, warum nimmst du denn nicht auch ein Jahr Elternzeit? Dein Job ist doch genauso geschützt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:43 AM
2

Ich hab grade so laut gelacht das mein Mann mich ganz komisch angeguckt hat! Ja ja, ihr Job wird noch da sein aber was Beförderungen oder Gehaltserhöhungen angeht gerät sie ans Ende der Schlange. Und das wird immer so weiter gehen, denn irgendwer muss ja auch zuhause bleiben wenn das Kind krank ist oder wenn der Kindergarten geschlossen ist und und und. Ist besonders süß weil dein Job ja auch garantiert ist wenn du Elternzeit nimmst….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:30 AM
3

If you actually wanted to do 50:50 your wife would stay home for a year and you would stay home for a year. That way both of you would spend the same time doing childcare and both of you would take a hit to your career development the same way. But also both of you would have equal bonding time with your kid. The way you do it, only your wife takes a hit to her career and only your wife does the intense childcare shit and you can go on Reddit and demand 50:50 while not actually doing 50:50.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:22 AM
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50% of the childcare obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:36 AM
1

Because they can not help themselves and not commit crimes….like rabid dogs……remind me what we do with those?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:35 AM
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I don’t know where I said you don’t do anything……you just don’t do the 50:50 thing that you want others to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:24 AM
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It’s not 50:50 as you demand. You let your wife do the real hard work for the first 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:17 AM
2

Because that would make him sacrifice……thats not what he intends here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:16 AM
1

I don’t know, I somehow thought we have laws and police and so on……….but nothing is ever the perpetrators fault, at least in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:06 AM
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Other people perpetrating a crime against you is a skill issue……
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:50 AM
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Sure and they are criminals for that……it’s their fault. But you missed that point entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:03 AM
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Glad we can agree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:02 AM
1

Babes do perpetrators somehow not make the decision to commit crimes? Is that not the criminal action?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:51 AM
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„I don’t really give a fuck that men assault, rape and murder women because women saying that hurts my feefees“…..there, I fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:06 AM
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It’s so funny that you cry „not all men“ but it is „all bears“.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:05 AM
1

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/dce63880Uc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:04 AM
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If you think arguing that crimes are the victims fault is in any way really an argument, you are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:53 PM
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Oh the victim blaming again…..and you wonder why we chose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:11 PM
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The point is that the whole criminal law system is built on the understanding that everyone is able to know right from wrong and follow the law. People who are unable to do so usually go either to mental hospitals (if they are truly unable to decide right from wrong) or prison (if they can tell right from wrong but just don’t).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:27 PM
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So you say not all men are able to follow the law? Because if you do, we should definitely make sure they can’t become perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:15 PM
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If you can’t read what I wrote, that really is a you problem. Don’t follow your habit and blame that on women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:07 PM
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I have a lot of introspection…..you could say crime and law is kind of my special interest….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:05 PM
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No it’s not……what’s declared is that women (including myself) rather take the chances with a bear, that might kill us than taking chances with a random man, who might sexually assault us, kidnap us, hold us hostage or kill us for sport. Nowhere is said that every random man will assault us but those who would, are so much worse than what the bear might do (you know not all bears) that we rather take the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:54 PM
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Babes just in your comment before this one, you said it was a „skill issue if you can’t defend yourself“ …… as if it wasn’t a perpetrator issue that crimes are happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:50 PM
0

So do you deny crime statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:30 PM
1

Those pesky statistics…..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:28 PM
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