velvthamr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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23	How do you find a man to pay for you? I’m on my mobile at work so I apologize if my comment comes across as curt: Unless you’re on the road to engagement, engaged, or married, I can’t imagine a relationship where a man pays for everything for you would have much longevity. If a man pays for all of those things right out of the gate without being in an official relationship, it would be safe to assume he wouldn’t be looking for something long-term… just a sexual relationship. I’m not sure if you meant for it to come across this way, …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 08:05 PM
101	Do you ever get offended when certain men think they stand a chance with you You just asked me if I’ve been sexually assaulted. I’m not saying this to be rude but… obviously you have problems with boundaries after asking me that question. Very peculiar question to ask. That doesn’t mean you can’t be kind but firm when you decline a man’s interest. I think you can have self confidence without having this attitude towards those men. If a man you aren’t interested in hits on you, take the compliment graciously but firmly and move on.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/23 01:19 AM
113	Do you ever get offended when certain men think they stand a chance with you I have never been rude or looked down on a guy for flirting with me or showing interest. After getting asked out, I kindly and genuinely have always said “That’s so flattering! I appreciate you being so up-front. I’m (in a relationship, not looking, married) but I’m very flattered.” and then end the conversation. It’s ok to not be attracted to someone but it takes ALOT of courage to ask a woman out.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/23 11:44 PM
1	Ways to look better / more feminine / change up a bit as a woman. I'm at the point where I don't exactly feel " ugly " I just want a change but I don't know where to start... And ways to look more " polished " but in a feminine way. I am feminine, so anything feminine I usually like. I'm considering Hey there! Skincare specialist here. 1) Eating right and doing even a basic skincare routine will help you always looked refreshed and feminine. 2) The last year, I’ve realized how much more put together women I see look when their nails are done. No crazy colors like lime green or with charms on them- I do pinks, reds, ivories, nudes. I even like a simple buff and shine on my nails, which gives the illusion of a clear coat. I go for higher end brands like Cirque Colors or if I want something a …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/08/23 02:14 AM
4	Dinner ideas for a first home cooked meal? Check out Ina Garten’s lemon capellini recipe on YouTube! I make it for myself all the time but I add sautéed mushrooms and spinach. I’ll throw high quality salmon or fresh sausage in the oven and serve it together :)	/r/RedPillWomen	20/07/23 04:19 AM
3	How do you know a friendship will last? Sometimes friendships naturally fade. You don’t have to have a big, sit down discussion about it. It’s just the ebb and flow of friendships. Many women have the “career is everything” mindset, so a RPW’s friendship would look quite different. I’m very conservative and have always been in the RPW mindset, even when I was school age. I’ve always wanted to be married and have kids. My best friend from junior high and high school has a similar sense of humor as me and we kinda “click”. As we’ve gott…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/05/23 05:16 PM
8	Hair Care Advice? Skin care specialist here! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’d start from the outside in- organic beef bone broth (it’s easy to make) and collagen supplements will make a difference. If it’s in you budget, a red light therapy helmet will help stimulate growth. You can also get an at-home red light therapy wand (Pure is a good brand) and use the comb wand, which also helps stimulate growth. All of these options will take 4-6 months to see a difference, but it will help. To keep your scalp…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/23 08:35 PM
7	He(M32) didn’t tell me(F22) he was previously married Is there a reason why y’all have been talking for an entire half of a year and haven’t met? That’s not taking things slow, it’s very odd.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/23 09:45 PM
2	Boyfriend making comments about women multiple times Of course! How are you feeling?	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/23 03:48 AM
3	Boyfriend making comments about women multiple times I’m sorry :( I was in a situation-ship for 2 ish years with a man who made comments about other women front of me. Usually it was women on TV. He even made a “hall pass” comment once. It stung so badly that I couldn’t even watch shows or listen to music if the woman he’d made a comment about was in it. It ruined my self esteem, especially because I thought the world of him. I was in bed for weeks literally crying most of the day after he ended things because I was heartbroken. I felt so discarde…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/04/23 04:36 PM
1	Finally claimed Congratulations! :)	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/23 09:15 PM
5	What music artists makes you most feel in your femininity? I loveee Faith Hill, Shania, and Dolly! I grew up listening to them. They also have some great sad songs, which sometimes everyone needs. “Cry” by FH and “The Grass is Blue” by DP are two of my all time favorites.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/01/23 03:32 AM
2	Girl Game: What are ways you invite men to chase you? Can you please expend on your first sentence? I’d love to hear more about it!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/22 02:15 PM
13	Cutting Off Orbiters I think it's unhealthy for men and women to be "just friends". It's 100000% fine if couples are friends and hang out, where the men are primarily friends and the women are primarily friends, but no HVM would be comfortable with his girlfriend or spouse hanging out with another guy one-on-one. If you're interested in finding a romantic relationship with a HVM, I would cut ties with all male "friends". When I was in my early twenties, I thought that as long as I made it clear that I had zero inter…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/22 03:51 PM
18	My boyfriend says the craziest things sometimes, yet it’s usually funny... Very conflicted. It doesn’t matter how good his intentions are. Between the clarinet story and your comment about the Johnson and Johnson patent, he sounds like a pathological liar. If you’re dead set on staying with him (which doesn’t sound like a healthy thing for you to do), he needs to think about seeing a therapist. Lack of impulse control tends to be a sign of something very serious. He doesn’t sound like something who can protect and provide for you, despite having a high paying job. Even if he doesn’t ha…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/21 02:35 AM
9	My mom doesn't want me to be a traditional woman and makes fun of me And then they say "There's no good men left!!!" There are MANY good men left who need feminine women in their lives. My own grandmother thinks it's "going out of my way" to dress femininely. I went on a date a few months ago and she asked me what I was wearing. She was dumbfounded that I "felt the need" to wear a dress. She and my mother don't even cook. Like, I'm talking NEVER. If the guy is paying for the date AND would be earning all the money after marriage, why on earth would you not show t…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/07/21 05:01 PM
23	Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some advice Of course! I’m not sure how much time y’all spend together but I do think separately working out is a great start. I wouldn’t tell him in advance and “threaten” him with the separate gym idea. I would just get up one morning after he’s sent you another picture and go alone. Just make sure you calmly explain your reasoning when he confronts you, otherwise he’ll pull the “you’re overreacting” card. Stick to your guns. Don’t let him guilt trip you into going to the same gym. “But it’s my favorite p…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/21 06:20 PM
29	Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some advice Have you continued to respond when he sends pictures likes that? It's totally natural if you do. One thing I'd suggest is simply not responding. Sometimes men do it to get a response from us. He may eventually stop playing around if you don't. If it keeps happening, I would calmly tell him that it's a red flag that he continues to cross that boundary. You aren't asking him to stop breathing or something, haha. You're simply asking him to not send pictures of other women. Is he so juvenile that h…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/21 06:08 PM
119	Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some advice This is not normal behavior! I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this. When he texts you those pictures, do you respond? Does he gawk at other women while y’all are out?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/21 04:39 PM