vendorea Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	"Male loneliness epidemic" is just a tool used to manipulate men What do they get from it, though? Rotting indoors and being alone is apparently just more appealing than interacting with society	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 09:58 PM
0	"Male loneliness epidemic" is just a tool used to manipulate men If someone's that chronically online they've gotta know what it's doing to them and be willfully choosing it over the real world at that point. Plus it's not like plenty of people haven't found love over the internet, even from meeting in games. So they have to be avoiding it there, too	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 09:00 PM
1	Women do want to be apprached. That she's as ugly as he is, or probably more likely that she comes across as easy. Or those factors might not even be relevant to her and it's just about which one's an ego boost: the attractive man who's assumed to have loads of options or the ugly man who's assumed to take whatever he can get. It's completely possible she doesn't NEED an excuse, but rather she's filtering for the type of man who will approach. It doesn't mean there's anything unhealthy about her ego. That seems like a strange…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 11:42 PM
1	Women do want to be apprached. I wasn't saying anything about their preferences for a partner, I was talking about the people they like or don't like being approached by. it's a separate question. if a woman's actively looking for an attractive partner then she can make the move herself and walk up to all those attractive men she notices in public. There's no excuse not to in 2023, just ego	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 07:21 PM
5	Women do want to be apprached. only wanting to be approached by attractive men is treating them as objects for personal gratification because it's just about reinforcing her own image as a desirable woman that gets pursued by desirable men, as opposed to a woman who ugly men somehow "think they'd have a chance with". it's not about her actual preference for a partner, that's why it still applies when she's taken or not even interested in dating. but if they treated the men like humans as men are often told to treat women, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 01:39 AM
6	Women do want to be apprached. i'm guessing something about treating people as humans, not objects for personal gratification	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:30 PM
1	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? I'm guessing you don't want to clarify what having sex in pursuit of LTRs means? gonna stick with "manipulation" then	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 06:33 AM
1	So how do I vet women to make sure they have their head on straight before getting with them? and I don't care to hear smug people spreading disingenous and ignorant garbage that just makes life worse for anyone who believes it. so what? nobody gives a crap, that's why we're both here in a thread only like ten other people will ever read	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 06:23 AM
1	So how do I vet women to make sure they have their head on straight before getting with them? Just listening and taking them at face value only gives you more info if she's honest. the fact she's a human is more than enough to suspect her of being dishonest, but some men assume the woman they're interested in is honest because they think numbing themselves and just putting up with whatever abuse they walk into is easier than treating every woman the same way they'd treat an equal status male (as a rival or threat he has to defend against). you're saying how you think humans should be tre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 03:38 AM
1	So how do I vet women to make sure they have their head on straight before getting with them? Because people should say what they really mean instead of veiling it behind some disingenuous angle about "humanity" you mean treat them like women. A trustworthy and honest woman that you can just talk to, even though she wouldn't have done anything to prove she's honest or trustworthy yet	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 08:46 PM
4	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? no, i'm assuming you think most high count women use sex to pursue LTRs (which is what you said), but that implies the men would be more likely to want a LTR with her because they had sex That'd be a completely irrational thing for him to base the decision on, so it just sounds like taking advantage of the dumbness of men's sexuality to get them into an LTR they wouldn't have wanted otherwise. Trying to get him to catch feelings or whatever you didn't really specify beyond "using sex in pursuit …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 10:42 AM
-1	So how do I vet women to make sure they have their head on straight before getting with them? no, treat them like a human being, right? Well human beings are dishonest and selfish. We conceal our real traits and motives so we can take advantage of others and access social circles we don't belong in. the best way to learn what one of them's truly like is assume they're a liar and out-manipulate them. but ofc that's not what people mean when they say they want to be treated like humans	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 10:27 AM
5	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? is this right, you believe that most women who have a high count are trying to use men's desire for sex to "lure" them into LTRs...? but it just didn't work out, or what? i guess that changes it from being a greater chance to prefer LTR to greater chance of being capable of maintaining LTRs by the way you said the preference for a low count is what was sexist, and that only incels and sexist men held it. nothing with how anyone was treated	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 05:32 AM
1	So how do I vet women to make sure they have their head on straight before getting with them? so treat them like a liar and game them into revealing their real personality and agenda? i think OP is looking for some kind of system but you're not wrong, the best thing is just talking to a lot of different people and learning to read them	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 01:39 AM
2	Men say they want virgins OPs or others? i haven't come across them	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 01:24 AM
2	Men say they want virgins when have they met one and scadaddled?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 12:06 AM
2	Men say they want virgins that makes it sound like even more of a liability though? "just spend a lot of time and money hiring lawyers to write contracts so you can get married, then if you divorce, spend a ton of time and money fighting in court over who the contract favors" especially when you can just... not do that, then there's no risk to mitigate in the first place and all those other points stay the same (about cheating, preparing for kids etc) i'm guessing i'm missing something here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 12:00 AM