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They also have a 12:1 ratio. All people in show is generally look good especially if you’re going to have one guy with 12 girls.
/r/seduction04/03/21 06:25 PM
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Yes because they know we care about looks. Don’t you think if women cared about looks men would have the same effeminate obsession with their looks? I used to do labor in the oil field in remote areas and work 12 hour days. I’d go to the grocery store before showering and going to bed with the 1 hour of free time I had. Wearing the shittiest clothes I didn’t care about to work. In the grocery story I would literally look like I came out of a coal mine, tar on my face hands and arms. Fingernails …
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:24 AM
1

Why do women read erotica over watching porn? They like a story more than looks. The bachelor is a good example of a story. One girl fights vs 12 other girls to win the guy over. These bachelor shows actually have very successful marriages afterwards too.
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:19 AM
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Your argument is destroyed by the fact that girls will almost never be single without the white knight showing up to save them from their previous guy. The other detail is that you don't own your girlfriend or even your wife anymore - they can do what the hell they want and it sucks but that's life. Learn how to defend your relationship if you really like it, or accept that it cannot last forever.
/r/seduction01/04/19 11:18 PM
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date your coworkers go out after work and sleep in (only sustainable if you dont drink) pick up girls at the mall Really, not that different from anyone else. It's not like between 5 and 9 girls are dying to hang out with someone. They are usually with their bfs or best firends then. So it's blocked out for us 9-5ers anyways, just as much as you.
/r/seduction14/12/17 11:48 AM
1

Thats your friends trying to justify why they didn’t have sex, they’re too picky
/r/seduction01/11/17 10:03 PM
4

I remember a survey of men and women and there was a concensus between both that the guy is attracted to the girl and the girl isn't attracted to the guy. In most girl guy friendships.
/r/seduction26/09/17 09:33 PM
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Bad move talking to the girl like that, makes him seem like he's a threat, and questions her trust. Make fun of him. Hit him up yourself and say hey this is xyz boyfriend. Don't kiss my girl goodnight, thanks.
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:36 PM
-1

He sounds like a loser with no drive.
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:59 PM
2

I lived in a city of 100k and knew only 200 people but I ran into them everywhere. Bomb one set and it could haunt you for an entire semester if you get a class with her. How many classes are you gonna take the entire time? 30?30-60 students per class? Reasonable odds of having class with any of them. I just did social circle game instead of pickup.
/r/seduction29/03/17 03:49 PM
1

Lol. So naive. Go do it tough boy.
/r/seduction29/03/17 03:39 PM
2

You are going to be there for a few years, probably will see them. I lived in a city of 100k and I saw people I knew everywhere. Only knew a couple hundred people.
/r/seduction29/03/17 12:11 AM
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Having a conversation would be social circle game. Pickup is where you pull or get a number the first time you meet, and fuck on the first or second date. High risk high reward.
/r/seduction28/03/17 05:32 PM
26

Cold approach pickup isn't for on campus imo. You will see these people over and over again and they might start rumors about you and shit. Social circle game on the other hand is basically perfect for it.
/r/seduction28/03/17 10:47 AM
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Too entitled
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:03 PM
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The girls online are just as lazy as you when it comes to dating. Try meeting women or people in general in the real world, at concerts, clubs, bars, groups, malls. It's only creepy if you are bad at it and come on really strong. But you gotta start somewhere and sitting at home lonely is no way to live.
/r/seduction02/01/17 09:03 AM
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You know you're talking to a PUA when he looks you in the eye and WILL not look away But seriously. Just relax and be vulnerable, show your weaknesses. This is basically what all those cues really mean is that you are ok with showing weakness.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:38 AM
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No one of my best friends is an overweight natural who is dating a 9 for years.
/r/seduction20/10/16 10:40 PM
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I know naturals, dozens, who are overweight. And they don't even study the stuff
/r/seduction20/10/16 07:39 PM
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You gotta go out more if you think fat guys can't get hot girls.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:58 PM
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A lot of guys just keep pumping attraction over and over and competing with their value. It makes you look insecure, arrogant, desperate, etc. Don't list off your accomplishments and expect a lay in return.
/r/seduction03/07/16 07:13 PM
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You're probably just not escalating and/or building comfort. So many guys have a girl attracted to them but they continue to game making themselves look insecure, horny, desperate, or whatever the girls mind goes. They expect the woman to do all the work, which if she likes you she will be self conscious around you. Friends is a good thing, siblings are platonic. Friends fuck when the opportunity arises. Lovers elope. Just stay away from the sibling vibe - like putting her on a pedestal or compe…
/r/seduction03/07/16 09:28 AM
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So basically brag? My favorite thing to do. I'm a master pianist, I can...this is actually getting weird but... Squat and deadlift 400 lbs, heir to a $50 million dollar company, highest paid degree (petroleum engineering), mastered a handful of esports and even played on a team some of the top players, made $40,000 in a few months trading commodities, and some others I probably can't think of because I'm so used to blocking it from my memory. I could see and have experience with things like this…
/r/seduction06/12/15 07:39 PM
2

Telegraph is the exact opposite of verbalizing. Maybe it's a long awkward silence with strong eye contact, a firm hand on the shoulder, a compliment in a frame of a lover.
/r/seduction06/12/15 07:20 PM
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It's not that being persistent makes you unattractive, it's that you just showed her your hand and now she will want more. From my experience it is a minority of girls who need persistence, they enjoy it and it is a sign of how much power they have but that does not mean it is good for the relationship. Unfortunately most women have TERRIBLE game and they end up fucking the whole thing up trying to game you back. Most girls' first impression of game is make him jealous and make him chase you - w…
/r/seduction06/12/15 11:51 AM
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I should have asked why in my op, but I guess I did.
/r/seduction24/10/15 03:51 AM
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Wow good job! Light years ahead of me
/r/seduction24/10/15 12:14 AM
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Every time I've been rejected for a kiss and gave up, I shouldn't have. Some girls just reject the first kiss. When you're trying to kiss a girl you're asking her to make the split second decision about crossing a pretty big line. If she rejects you once, give her some time to think about it and try again. You're right about one thing, it doesn't matter that she rejected you, because that doesn't mean you should never try again.
/r/seduction04/09/15 11:01 AM
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Well every guru/master has changed their principles over the years so chew on that one for a bit.
/r/seduction24/08/15 09:22 AM
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You will have to seduce your wife to keep things interesting, you will have to know what to do to keep her, you can always learn more about attraction. You will have to understand the social queues at work meetings, social gatherings, family gatherings, to communicate with your kids. This is a life-long skill, 1NS and a group of friends is shooting so low. It's like stopping at a continuous mile while running, stopping at a bodyweight squat, stopping at an associates degree, stopping when you're…
/r/seduction24/08/15 08:42 AM
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They understand and are more knowledgeable of women and social situations. Posted twice because you edited your post.
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:34 AM
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They are better /r/seducers?
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:16 AM
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This is like a fittitor saying "whelp I lost 50 lbs and now im not overweight anymore goodbye everybody". Instead of setting higher goals than being average or normal. You can always improve, most people attending bootcamps are already ahead of you I gaurantee it.
/r/seduction24/08/15 02:25 AM
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That's kind of what I was suggesting, but i wouldn't consider an old slob an alpha male of the group.
/r/seduction08/08/15 01:32 AM
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If you "care" what people think, that is OK. If you're thinking about what people think, then you're a bitch. The latter will probably stem from thinking about what other people are doing all the time. If you think about what everyone else is doing, you'll think they are thinking about what you're doing.
/r/seduction02/08/15 11:19 PM
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I think this is a slippery slope to not caring enough. If you aren't scared talking to a girl then you aren't present. And it can be kind of creepy when someone is trying to talk to you and they aren't present. I'm not saying you should appear scared, but you should feel it. The way I conquer that fear, personally, is by being proud of whatever it is I'm going to say or feel or do. And that if I'm later not proud of it, I can always change, and at the end of the day I have social value whether e…
/r/seduction02/08/15 07:44 AM
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I mean i guess it depends on how she says it, but this could be a success if she just doesn't like texting or calling. And every girl will turn you down atleast once unless she's a slut or hasn't been laid in a long time.
/r/seduction01/08/15 10:54 PM
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I guess I shouldn't have used an example in my post because everyone's taking it and assuming the worst. I've tried to be friends with him. Like I said he's an asshole. I think you are projecting your own feelings of what you would feel in this situation on to me. I don't feel that way. But frankly I'm going to start feeling that way if you keep talking about this example that wasn't supposed to mean anything. Seriously, just shut up.
/r/seduction31/07/15 07:31 PM
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Good advice. I already am not wasting time with girls like this, but I should shoot for higher age groups.
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:06 PM
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That's a good point. Makes me feel a little less annoyed by the frequency of these situations.
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:04 PM
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He only reason I don't like him is because he is an asshole I don't care about this specific girl. Never said I did. I said this happens a lot and how can I work around it. Why are you assuming all these things? That I am jealous, that I've got oneitis, that I hate him because he's better than me, that I care about this girl. Like I said in the begginning I would take her out with the trash. I don't like manipulative people, she is one. I know that he isn't getting anything because she is consta…
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:01 PM
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Clearly you don't understand the situation. He is not getting anything, she is using him. He could be a virgin. He only reason I don't like him is because he is an asshole. I'm talking to ten other girls this is just a specific example of the manipulation I see. This guy is in the friend zone. He has been hanging out with her for months and not made a move. I don't know why everyone is focusing on this specific scenario and questioning my judgement. Why not just talk about the principle instead …
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:24 PM
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I'm meeting other women, he is not.
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:54 PM
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I know why she does it for the most part, the problem is that I find it unattractive and it happens with most girls I meet.
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:07 PM
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It happens often that's why.
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:53 PM
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It happens often enough and to girls I otherwise really like, so I would like another solution than just it wasn't meant to be. It seems like the majority of women are manipulative like this. Maybe it's just the demographic of the girls I approach though.
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:53 PM
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Guys a douche
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:51 PM
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Yea he's an asshole, and so far I've been the better person.
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:50 PM
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One of the biggest misconceptions about seduction is that it's manipulative. A "master of seduction" as you said it, is just someone who isn't socially retarded (unlike most people)...and who also happens to be socially adept. They are good communicators, they read people well, they know who they are, they know how people respond to who they are, and they have had a lot of social experiences. To me the "game" is a word we use to poke fun at the average frustrated chump, who is constantly gaming …
/r/seduction26/07/15 09:32 PM
1

Well, if I talked to a girl and she didnt say anything back. I would assume she didn't want to talk to me. So there's your problem. Find a way of expressing interest, or getting over that specific barrier.
/r/seduction25/07/15 10:54 PM
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You can tell a girl she's the most beautiful thing...after you've been together and exclusive for a while.
/r/seduction12/07/15 10:40 PM
1

I don't think it's a shit test, you're first text basically told her that women are scarce to you which implies you don't have anything to offer women. You should be implying that women are abundant for you. If you show yourself in the right light girls will be texting you not the other way around. That said girls are really good at hiding what they're thinking, and they like it that way. So text messages and secondary sources (like this post) aren't very helpful.
/r/seduction12/07/15 09:43 PM
-1

If you approach with the right energy she will keep the conversation going. Just approach until you get the energy right. Read micro expressions, express your own micro expressions.
/r/seduction07/07/15 10:37 AM
1

go to a massage spa
/r/seduction05/07/15 03:48 AM
2

Approaching is good because it exposes your problems that you mention. Ironically this guy comes off as a sociopath criticizing people with a broad stroke and with so much hubris.
/r/seduction04/07/15 10:21 PM
0

Have you read mystery method? Buyer's remorse? Moved too fast?
/r/seduction04/07/15 06:04 AM
0

Does it really matter though? You don't need to read every cue, just the important ones. It can be a blessing ignoring her cues, it can make you seem strong. The important ones are, does she pull away when I touch her? Change the subject when the topic is sexual? How does she respond to you? It doesn't matter what state she is in naturally, but what YOU make her feel.
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:26 AM
0

crazy good video!
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:20 AM
1

Was the creepy look from the girl ABOUT your asshole friend? I want to believe that a girl can easily see through such a bullshit attack. Regardless of what you do, the more shit you take with a smile on your face the more comfortable she will feel around you.
/r/seduction03/07/15 01:09 AM
0

That's weird as hell, how do you know you've never met them? If a girl doesn't want to be glanced at then I don't want to talk to her. But the girls doing this are ioi-ing when I talk to them.
/r/seduction02/07/15 04:47 PM
0

This is probably the most true response yet. I do have a small smile most of the time, but if you aren't looking closely (like out of the corner of your eye) you wouldn't notice.
/r/seduction02/07/15 08:11 AM
0

Thanks. I've talked to them, but I never brought it up because it just seems awkward.
/r/seduction02/07/15 08:11 AM
0

There's a big difference between glancing and staring. And no, I've had it happen twice the very first time I noticed two different girls. One I knew, the other not.
/r/seduction02/07/15 08:10 AM
1

nah, I'm talking they look fine, I look at them, instant bitchface, then back to normal.
/r/seduction02/07/15 02:27 AM
1

Psa: This is why you don't help pessimistic people.
/r/seduction30/06/15 08:08 AM
-1

...You're an idiot.
/r/seduction30/06/15 07:21 AM
0

make you more pessimistic.
/r/seduction30/06/15 07:11 AM
0

eat some carbs
/r/seduction30/06/15 07:02 AM
4

You have to talk to a lot of pretty girls, and eventually you realize that they are just like any other girl, and a lot of the time even cooler when you get through the bullshit.
/r/seduction10/05/15 09:03 AM
1

Go to somewhere public where you can just sit and eat or drink coffee, or just sit and look at the scenery. Somewhere where there is a constant stream of strangers that you can say hi to or make friendly eye contact with. Do that for an hour a day.
/r/seduction30/04/15 06:44 PM
1

I'm not a PUA really, but what reputation do you have to worry about? That girls will think you know a lot of girls? Wouldn't that just raise your value? If your PU is bad, then you will build a bad reputation, sure.
/r/seduction25/04/15 11:57 PM
0

You didn't really ask her out yet, she's prompting you. "Let's find out what eachothers about over dinner, I'll pay!" Not much thought but that's my first instinct.
/r/seduction16/03/15 05:50 PM
3

My mental cue is, what would I be doing right now if I were alone? Or what could I do to make those around me more comfortable? Either way I come off as outcome independent and I feel more confident.
/r/seduction23/02/15 08:57 PM
3

You have what I call noob syndrome. Where someone thinks they're doing the right thing, but their goal is counter-productive and naive. I can tell by the way you listed your interests as if this makes you a good partner or sexy. It doesn't make you sexy or a good partner, and I don't think the girl you want should like you for your hobbies/interests. Start focusing on the way you make people feel instead of a masturbatory contest of who's more successful or who will help you achieve your goals. …
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:17 AM
0

How do you know you weren't the guy she was talking to? Whole thing is pretty childish to me, not just the rejection part. I don't think she even rejected you in the first place. Besides if you can't take even that amount of jealousy... GL in any relationship that isn't a one night stand.
/r/seduction31/10/14 01:16 AM
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If you look at her, and she reacts funny. You probably won't catch her actually looking at you, unless she's super aggressive. IMO everything girls do is all calculated, until they get their panties in a knot and they like that. They don't look at people they aren't attracted to, unless they are interacting with them. They don't lock eyes with you across the room, unless they think it's how they get what they want. If you casually say something to her and she gives a genuine smile, she's been ch…
/r/seduction01/10/14 04:14 PM
2

Why ask? Just kiss. You sound pretty unnatural with all of these "plays".
/r/seduction23/09/14 02:15 PM
3

For me, oneitis is a symptom of AA. The less approach anxiety I have at the time, the less desire I have to simply choose someone outright. And the more of a courting period there will be. So approaching other girls might help.
/r/seduction16/09/14 03:47 AM
1

It depends on what scared her. That she would hurt you, that you would expect more from her, etc. You kind of just slammed the door in her face by not asking deeper questions.
/r/seduction15/09/14 05:52 AM
1

....bitch
/r/seduction30/04/14 08:11 AM
1

You seem more experienced than I do. But maybe you're misreading her? Maybe she's bored or even bothered? In my experience with one-itis, it's ok for the girl to have it but not for the guy. If you're right, just ask her how her day was (maybe she doesn't want to talk about it). Give her some room. Try to cheer her up with some silliness. Find out what works for her and what doesn't.
/r/seduction14/02/14 05:51 PM
1

Maybe she made up the thing about cancun, maybe her friend was smiling because she knows she's taken.
/r/seduction25/12/13 02:59 PM
1

25 and a quarter
/r/seduction10/11/13 06:16 AM
0

If they're too forward or creepy I dominate the conversation or take attention away from him, last resort just kiss her and leave the situation maybe with the gf. If they're beta I just befriend them and laugh it off.
/r/seduction22/09/13 09:35 AM
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