venividivitis Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	[M33] Hypothetically, does friendzoning a girl after making out or more work?	Fundamentals	venividivitis	/r/seduction	20/05/25 08:20 AM

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1	Feel like a creep trying streetgame or daygame Alleygame FTW	/r/seduction	23/06/26 10:42 PM
9	Putting Women on a Pedestal. How did you overcome it? After having sex with a couple of babes you won't be that impressed any more. And liking yourself for who you are also helps.	/r/seduction	21/11/25 10:54 PM
5	Seduction works best when you drop it I would rather say if you escalate and she doesn't reciprocate, you can find out useful information that she is not interested. It's not the act itself that would make her uninterested (provided you have a minimum of social tact of course). It's necessary to escalate, of you don't, nothing happens and that's where she'll lose interest (by acting needy, subassertive, passive, etc.)	/r/seduction	15/09/25 12:02 PM
11	Seduction works best when you drop it When you postpone indicating interest or doing something that urges her to make up her mind (putting your arm around her, going in for the kiss), initially interested or neutral women can become disinterested.	/r/seduction	15/09/25 08:28 AM
2	How do you handle jealous unrelated male fridges in the process of seduction? I tend to disagree. "Uncs" can have a decisive negative effect, removing some great degrees of freedom from the interactionthrough their cockblocking and that's exactly their goal.	/r/seduction	13/09/25 10:42 PM
8	How do you handle jealous unrelated male fridges in the process of seduction? I tend to disagree. "Uncs" can have a decisive negative effect through their cockblocking and that's exactly their goal.	/r/seduction	13/09/25 10:41 PM
5	I didn't think I'd be talking to a 10 so soon and she'd be so attracted to me I'm happy for you bro, congrats on increasing your value. I am starting to go through that myself, multiplying my pay by changing my career from an odd-job in France to an office job in Switzerland and I definitely notice people treat me differently. I am just getting started though, need to work on my social life and muscle. Would you elaborate on in what ways you leveled up and maybe give some tips, especially for the social aspect?	/r/seduction	13/09/25 12:01 PM
6	Girls are being approached less than you might think Which I see as a big advantage	/r/seduction	11/09/25 11:24 AM
5	Sex in Europe as a backpacker And dorm sex - provided you pull it off - is only worth it for the bucket list, otherwise I'd steer clear of such situations.	/r/seduction	10/09/25 12:11 PM
2	Signs she’s looking to get laid that night Good post. I remember a few such occurrences myself while backpacking quite some years ago. One night in Koh Rong I wasn't particularly in a party mood or with good game but at the end hooked up with a girl that I did not really interact with much after our first encounter or vibe with but it just happened after the kiss towards the end of the night. Another girl I had even less vibe with, the kind of person where you just feel so different that conversation doesn't match. However, after the oth…	/r/seduction	07/09/25 04:27 PM
1	Why men obsessed with analysing women's signals keep failing with them and why men just need to follow their desires Interesting, I have recently thought more and more about the bulldozing thing in the sense of if my first attempt does not create an indication of interest (first seconds of a cold-approach, first attempt not responded to, her not locking eyes when I put my face closer) I have been doing more before drawing my conclusion before backing down and deciding she must not be interested. More talking, more touching, more opportunities for a kiss. Do you have any examples you'd like to give?	/r/seduction	17/08/25 02:45 PM
8	Is there a "right time" in life to have a hoe phase as a guy? For me, it was my early twenties, 22-26 or so. I am 33 now. The past years have been relatively calmer. One never forgets the hedonism of these periods. I still reminisce about those times.	/r/seduction	09/08/25 11:25 PM
2	What is the best career for game ? Through a love for coke	/r/seduction	02/06/25 10:34 AM
1	[M33] Hypothetically, does friendzoning a girl after making out or more work? Wow, that is an amazing answer. Looking back at previous times I tried to "be a puppet master of human emotions" (mostly to try and protect her feelings / doing the "right" thing) I was proven wrong, indeed. I guess going with the flow and staying upright throughout is the way to go.	/r/seduction	20/05/25 04:36 PM
1	Are coffee dates just a bad first idea for women you meet online? Is that last sentence you wrote really something on your mind in a first date context? I am genuinely curious to what extent you consider such scenarios.	/r/seduction	21/12/24 10:42 PM
17	How I text girls when I want to get laid (+IRL examples) Great point, us guys, me included, tend to forget dating dynamics. You'll be far less on her mind than she is on yours (with all the viable candidates she has) - unless you really know what you're doing.	/r/seduction	20/12/24 02:46 AM
2	A Philosophical Perspective That Might Help You Get Chicks Glad you didn't see the sarcasm because you made a great comment!	/r/seduction	07/10/24 07:51 PM
5	Venezuelan girl wants tip for sex is that normal? Yup, can confirm. Same scenario as OP and she even walked back with me to my cheapo young backpacker hostel before saying "I no free" and I replied "I no pay". That was that.	/r/seduction	08/04/24 01:16 PM
17	Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it? What a pervert indeed	/r/seduction	17/03/24 08:36 PM
2	Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game? Well put and food for thought! I think you're really onto something. Bringing physical activity and/or discipline into their life would solve (improve) a lot of guys' issues	/r/seduction	29/02/24 10:07 PM