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Ha, sorry for the late reply, but go ahead, knock yourself out...
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:51 PM
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Don't text back and fuck other girls.
/r/seduction12/07/12 08:53 PM
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This is why calibration is so important, so you can find out what phase you are in an instant. If she approaches you, it would not make sense to ask an opinion opener, and it wouldn't really make sense to DHV because it will make you seem arrogant. So, move straight to the disqualify, qualify and comfort phases.
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:57 PM
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i do have a cock so maybe that makes my ego seem large? most girls don't have one but i figured guys shouldn't mind ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:52 AM
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Just date more women so it doesn't matter if a couple flake...
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:43 AM
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Create tons of value for people without expecting anything in return, including being fun to be around, and people will invite you to parties...
/r/seduction10/07/12 04:24 PM
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I had the best sex of my life and discovered myself sexually. This sounds like a good thing, right? Isn't that what people here want? People who come to seddit, or the PUA community in general, are trying to solve a problem. Yeah, they are socially awkward and want to connect with people on a deeper level but most end up trapped in validation seeking behaviour, where the thrill of some strange is a higher priority than self actualisation. This creates that empty feeling you have now... ...but wh…
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:19 AM
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Seek validation from within...
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:51 AM
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Neil Strauss The Game, Rules of the Game, & Stylelife Challenge Mystery How to Get Beautiful Women in Bed Magic Bullets Noah St. John's The Secret Code of Success The $1 Million Reason To Change Your Mind
/r/seduction08/07/12 05:21 PM
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I don't believe anyone asked.. When you said, "You have to actually use your brain sometimes. Take in the ideas, work with them, make them your own." I already know what works for me because I have experience... So, you done asking (apparently intentionally) stupid questions, then? Since you presumed to speak for OP in your reply, "Ok, since you seem to be new, let me tell you "what she means".. even though its pretty blatant" I've been getting you to flesh out "what she means."
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:39 PM
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Alright, first, you need to step back and realize that seddit is not here to provide you a step-by-step script to get laid. I'm not asking for your advice bro. I'm asking if that's what you have done. You have to actually use your brain sometimes. Take in the ideas, work with them, make them your own. I have experience.
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:08 PM
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I don't know how to clarify it further for you.. "You wanna go grab a drink?" != "Can I buy you a drink?" So, in a club, you are going to ask a woman, "You wanna go grab a drink?" and then walk to the bar with her and then buy just yourself a drink? That's what OP meant?
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:49 PM
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You should only buy a woman a drink under the right circumstances in a certain manner at the right time for the right reasons to bring her into your frame while displaying high social value. The right reason being that she displayed lots of IOI's, qualified herself, jumped through your hoops, and bought you a drink, with the right mood. If you show interest too soon it conveys low social value relative to hers because the guy doesn't know anything about a woman, besides that your attractive, so …
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:36 PM
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Do not buy a woman a drink & nice conversation does not create attraction Nowhere was it stated to buy her a drink. You fabricated that. Dude, I quoted OP's original comment: 6. If she seems to be having a good time with you and doesn't try to get the fuck away ASAP, you've already won. Ask if she wants a drink/go outside for fresh air and have some nice conversation. Be a gentleman. I don't understand, did you miss #6? ...and nice conversation is boring.
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:19 PM
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Hit on sexy young hotties every day, but so far with zero success. Frustrating. It's probably you're attitude, you should work on your inner game... She's not fat or ugly...but she definitely wouldn't impress any of my friends. Why do you give a fuck what your friends think? Don't you make the decisions for your own life? Is this chick worth banging? How the fuck should we know? Would girls my age (early 20s) think it's gross, or would they think I'm a player? Why do you give a fuck what some wo…
/r/seduction06/07/12 02:53 PM
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I'm totally against dancerape but there is a difference between what a girl says she wants, and what actually creates attraction... If she seems to be having a good time with you and doesn't try to get the fuck away ASAP, you've already won. Winning the game is different to everyone but I don't think you're even close to winning until you have fucked... Ask if she wants a drink/go outside for fresh air and have some nice conversation. Be a gentleman. Do not buy a woman a drink & nice conversatio…
/r/seduction06/07/12 02:50 PM
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Make time for each other A lot of couples wish they could spend more time together. If you have a demanding schedule then why not consider introducing a date night? It might not sound that romantic but having an agreed time when you can set everything else aside and just focus on each other, might be the only way you can spend some quality time with your loved one. It doesn’t have to be an expensive or extravagant affair- how about simply going for a long evening walk together or relaxing on the…
/r/seduction06/07/12 02:40 PM
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What the fuck is this, r/relationships? Damn you eternal september, not like this, not like this! Kill it, kill it with downvotes.
/r/seduction06/07/12 02:34 PM
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It's important to open the set by ignoring your target and winning the friends over. Once you have won the friends over they won't block you, so isolate the target and escalate...
/r/seduction03/07/12 04:25 PM
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No ulterior motive, no hidden agenda to pick them up and sleep with them, and I make that clear. Why don't you want to sleep with them? That's a normal male response to seeing a beautiful woman. Don't start off by denying your very nature... Now by attractive I dont mean nice ass and a big chest, I mean everything from face to personality and everything in between. How do you know anything about these women if you haven't even approached them yet? Just some points I want to make on your approach…
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:07 PM
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That's outrageous. I had a 2 year girlfriend slap me and my response was, "It's over." And this was just some strange in a bar? And you weren't even saying anything bad about her? She's lucky you didn't knock her out, you handled it in the best way possible...
/r/seduction01/07/12 05:01 PM
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For me, understanding the underlying cause for our approach anxiety helped me realise that it's not big deal to talk to randoms...
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:50 PM
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What does this have to do with your confidence? Don't you have other women you can chill with? I just say, "No worries =)" because I really don't care & it's not like she stood you up, at least she told you right before the date...
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:45 PM
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Just to back up puaCurvBall, here is a link to my breakdown of the evidence of who is spamming and why
/r/seduction25/06/12 10:28 PM
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Then why didn't you mention anything about this being a false-flag before?
/r/seduction24/06/12 12:12 AM
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From chickenshitsalad, his pastebin of the IRC chat from these same people who are spamming, with evidence they are the ones spamming, lines 107 - 115: 19:13 ironix: now preparing to engage another subreddit while foreveralone is being hammered 19:13 ironix: it shall be okcupid 19:16 mrinferno: ohhh snap 19:16 mrinferno: was not aware reddit had an okcupid sub 19:16 mrinferno: nice 19:21 ironix: i theorize we are spamming betweewn 40 and 60 people a minute 19:22 ironix: ok, got the FA ip i was u…
/r/seduction23/06/12 09:51 PM
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I guess the mods deleted your post, which is bullshit. Throwaway also deleted this same post from his thread about the messages being spam from r/pickup... edit: Throwaway didn't want to link directly to give the spammers traffic which is reasonable.
/r/seduction23/06/12 08:43 PM
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This is a x-post from the original thread posted by TheOriginalSamBell titled Hey r/seduction, I just got this PM, is that supposed to be an advertisement for your subreddit?: Here is OP's original spam PM he got: If you think a cause is worth fighting for then chime in <3 ` ph0cus Here is a link to the screen capture of OP's PM. The link to fighting for in the message goes to this website, which is an unintelligible youtube video titled POUND PICKUP REZERECTION followed by "fr0m y0ur boy ph0cus…
/r/seduction23/06/12 08:29 PM
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This is a x-post from the original thread posted by TheOriginalSamBell titled Hey r/seduction, I just got this PM, is that supposed to be an advertisement for your subreddit?: Here is OP's original spam PM he got: If you think a cause is worth fighting for then chime in <3 ` ph0cus Here is a link to the screen capture of OP's PM. The link to fighting for in the message goes to this website, which is an unintelligible youtube video titled POUND PICKUP REZERECTION followed by "fr0m y0ur boy ph0cus…
/r/seduction23/06/12 08:26 PM
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Just have fun, talk to everyone, don't drink too much, don't show interest until she does, and stay in the set past your comfort level
/r/seduction23/06/12 06:47 PM
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I've been dating recently, and I never pull any moves out It's not a move, it should just happen in a natural way, you should be touching everyone you interact with, not just women you are trying to seduce... Dinner dates are fuckin boring, you should do something way more interesting & active, or at least go to a park after dinner and walk around. Don't wait till the end of the night to touch her. Sit right next to her when you eat, and touch her as a natural part of communication... You should…
/r/seduction23/06/12 06:43 PM
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Does it really matter what either of those people think? i mean, are you going to alter your personality because of what this guy or girl said?
/r/seduction20/06/12 04:51 PM
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If you already set up the date, what's the point of texting her? So you can talk about your feelings or what? The whole point of the phone is to set up the date, once that's done, do not continue to contact her. Don't text her at all, just show up for the date a little early...
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:11 PM
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No worries mate, I don't like to see anybody get played, you deserve better because you're awesome
/r/seduction17/06/12 06:19 PM
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She acted surprised, afraid of losing me as a friend (because it happened before). Women aren't afraid of losing a fuck interest as a friend, they don't want to lose their nice guy lapdogs as playthings... I asked her if this to her is just regular friendship and she said no, she does feel something but because she has a bf, decided to ignore it. She's stringing you along mate... So we stayed friends, but often, she does things like kissing me on the neck while dancing, grabbing my ass, putting …
/r/seduction17/06/12 05:41 PM
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Give me a fuckin break little girl. Let me explain it like your are twelve, picking up women is a glorified hobby. Some people get sucked into making PUA their whole persona, they seek a validation through attracting women, when they should be getting validation from within. I advocate having an inner frame of peace and happiness, living a purpose driven life trying to attain your own goals (hopefully altruistic), loving yourself, and then as a side hobby after all that is having fun attracting …
/r/seduction17/06/12 05:23 PM
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I like what Neil Strauss says in The Rules of the Game, throw a small gathering at your house, a kickback, and invite this girl. If she doesn't show, then whatevs, you have a fun hangout at your place, if she does show then great, you can demonstrate what a badass you are...
/r/seduction17/06/12 01:46 AM
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Basically me and my wing would go up to girls You have to approach alone, never approach with your wing... and tell them they look cute and tried to start a conversation from there. All the girls hear is "I want to fuck you," which is fine with direct approach day game, but you might want to throw in some false time constraints to soften the blow, but still try for the instant date.
/r/seduction17/06/12 01:35 AM
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bitches love swings... ...but seriously, just work on yourself and finding out what you love to do, and women will be attracted to you, don't get sucked into the PUA bullshit.
/r/seduction17/06/12 12:42 AM
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Movies are fuckin boring, take her to the park and swing on the swings, play around, throw a frisbee, go hiking, take dancing classes, do something more interesting than a movie... edit: You are too young to be learning PUA bullshit. You should work on finding yourself, what makes you happy, learn some skills, find out what you want out of life and go for it. Women are just a glorified hobby after you are doing what you love...
/r/seduction16/06/12 03:50 PM
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I have always gotten along with most people and most groups, but that doesn't mean I'm going to change myself in anyway to gain their approval...
/r/seduction15/06/12 03:19 PM
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I guess I value rugged individualism & I just don't give a fuck about being cool or whatever...
/r/seduction14/06/12 04:42 PM
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When you change dramatically as a person, people react, sometimes well, sometimes not so well. If they react badly, what does that say about who they are as a person? Since they can't use the same techniques of control against you because you have grown as a person, they react badly. Personally, I would not want be around people like that. I guess I'm the weird one though...
/r/seduction14/06/12 04:41 PM
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it's annoying to deal with when you are out trying to have fun. i'm in the same boat with him. I doesn't upset me, but it is annoying. If you are constantly being judged and you're 'friends' don't like who you are, then they aren't friends and they suck, stop hangin out with them... The OP. The best solution i know of is to try and cool it abit and spend a few weeks turning these guys to your friends how just accept you. OP, these guys you are chillin with seem like tools, you don't need them. T…
/r/seduction14/06/12 01:51 PM
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It's a nice idea, but if you're actually getting annoying to the people who you are closest to, you're gonna have a bad time. Well then why would you hang out with jerks who are threatened by your confidence? OP needs to meet new friends... There's a point where you go from being outcome independent to being a jackass. Or you could just stop hanging out with shitty people... What if you like who they are? Why would you like people who are being jerks to you because they don't like who you are?
/r/seduction14/06/12 01:48 PM
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The point is, you don't get your validation from your friends, it comes from within. If they don't like who you are, then that's their problem...
/r/seduction13/06/12 06:26 PM
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The main point is that my self-assuredness is intimidating men who I meet in new social circles Why do you care what they think? I often sense a kind of sneering vibe from some guys Why do you care? I probably sound like a self-righteous douche but I really do think it's a case of others' insecurities coming through. So, why do you care about their problems? I feel like I need to own it, but sometimes I question whether I'm being too socially brash. Another thing is whether I am not proving to b…
/r/seduction13/06/12 04:14 PM
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It's over, move on...
/r/seduction13/06/12 01:04 AM
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Location is also important on the escalation ladder. The location you meet girl, where you attract her The more intimate location you take a girl for an instant date (or just a later date), where you qualify her and go through the comfort phase hoops Then the seduction location, which is private (your bedroom or hers), where you can seduce her You shouldn't even attempt to seduce a girl in public, it's fuckin stupid, it won't work, and she will think you're a creep. Next time, take her from the …
/r/seduction02/06/12 08:22 PM
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You guys aren't even monogomous, so she didn't do anything wrong, you have no reason to be even mildly upset She's not yours, you don't own her, she can do whatever she wants Why do you even care what she does? Are you dating other people? If not, then why? You can't control this girl, she's not yours. All you can control is your own reaction to the situation, which should be cool, calm, collected, not giving a fuck, having fun, talking with other girls... ...being jealous is needy behavior, it'…
/r/seduction02/06/12 08:10 PM
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That's fuckin genius!
/r/seduction02/06/12 04:55 PM
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I don't see anything in there that contradicts what I wrote...
/r/seduction01/06/12 04:48 PM
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THIS IS REALLY TERRIBLE. blurgh. Use The Matrix instead, as an allegory. It's easy to tear down other people's work but it takes courage to put out your own work, especially when you are contradicting mainstream beliefs & trying to empower other people and help them to live the lives the want and deserve... You've here been so untrue to Plato's Cave that it has been rendered a vestigial husk whose meaning is 100% determined by your worldview. Could you please give some examples of my untruths. L…
/r/seduction01/06/12 04:03 PM
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Your article missed out a huge point here dr. evolutionary biologist. My doctorate is in chewing bubble gum and kicking ass... Approaching a woman in a tribe and getting bombed out doesnt reduce a man's status in any way. I think when word gets around the tribe what a beta AFC this dude is because he got bombed out, it might lower his social status so much that no woman would consider mating with him because he is now seen as being weak/beta... But when you approach a woman in a tribe, there wil…
/r/seduction01/06/12 03:25 PM
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Well shit, maybe I am a pretentious dbag =)
/r/seduction01/06/12 03:38 AM
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Yes sir & thank you
/r/seduction31/05/12 11:11 PM
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Is the chase game we play with women an evolved form of chasing them in the wild? If that's the case, then it's also a form of courtship from a past culture, and thus, we venusian artists are the evolved males who attract rather than chase. I'll have to look into that...
/r/seduction30/05/12 11:40 PM
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