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verdantsound/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:27 AM
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yeah but it’s kind of a catch 22. sometimes a person may pursue an ethical course of action to obtain material rewards but along the way realize that doing good is its own reward. People learn, sometimes from unexpected ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:44 PM
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there was no plan. No location nor time was determined until maybe the last 12 hours before date time. To me, that’s not a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:38 PM
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her matchmaker? what’s the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:37 PM
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you say this after the first date? interesting. I don’t actually need her to plan a date because I can tell if she’s really into me or not from other cues. I also believe in equality, but I don’t believe in sameness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:37 PM
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The guy didn’t ask her to plan together. He straight up had no plan and texted her the night before, and he didn’t even respond when she replied. Poor communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:34 PM
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This has nothing to do with equal effort. This has to do with a guy who has failed to deliver what he promised: a date. He failed to pick a spot and otherwise set up logistics in a timely manner, even though he implied that he would (when he asked her out). Guy was clearly not interested in her, and it showed. She was right to get annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:33 PM
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heh. you hear about women claiming that their men are with holding emotional intimacy as well. It’s not with holding, there are a whole bunch of reasons why they are not privy to their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:19 PM
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i never said it was about morality, so please refrain from suggesting that. This is clearly a YOU problem. You clearly have the arrogance to suggest that your thought process is morally superior to everyone else’s in the thread to the extent that you’d even fabricate what someone else is saying so you can argue against it. what a hypocrite.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 11:50 PM
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I’m not OP but I will ask (and I will share) body count. i have determined that there are things I want to explore with a partner in the bed room, and if the partner has had numerous prior experiences, then that experience may not mean as much. I also wouldn’t want to think about the possibility of that partner comparing our experience with all of their prior experiences. This comparison is more equal if said person had a similar number of experiences, but it is a problem when that number is gre…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 11:14 PM
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ok, your point being…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:19 AM
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i mean people laugh at undesirable socially awkward men all the time. Women who are too social get it. Men who are not social get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:31 AM
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when it comes to dating, people have the freedom to be as demanding and hypocritical as they want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:18 AM
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you go to college and you try to find one in 4 years. if you fail, you can try graduate school. then SOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:31 PM
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yeah but who do you want? high school chicks or more mature women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:47 PM
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Most men believe that being kind means being a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:45 PM
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do something that you like….that is also popular with women. can’t go fishing in a desert and expect to catch fish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:30 AM
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they are not bad or hypocritical. Just ill informed about the reality. goddamn no need to be so dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:25 AM
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even assholery has its uses. I employ both kindness and assholery to different situations that require different solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:23 AM
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the people who bitch about paying should be choosing to go on cheaper dates tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:45 PM
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whoever takes the lead in the interaction (by asking the person out, by organizing logistics etc) can pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:44 PM
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getting ready for a date doesn’t go against the narrative that a women doesn’t get dressed up for a man. It is possible to dress up for oneself for 364 days for herself and then 1 day for the man who asked her out on the date and have that statement to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:44 PM
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i mean the tiers change over time depending on what the person is able to provide. so if they don’t have the time and energy to sustain a top tier relationship…then it seems appropriate for them to abdicate.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 05:22 PM
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i mean as friends there is a certain level of entitlement to each other that is only natural. You expect to be there for each other. Once kids come into the picture usually the friends need to grapple with being shifted down on the totem pole, and for some people they didn’t sign up for that. And then they leave. And that’s OK.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 05:05 PM
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lol most people are average people. let that sink in. you included.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:41 PM
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good list! you probably mean “reverse” as opposed to “backwards”
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 02:02 PM
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no one says that it isn’t possible. but the more likely scenario is the other way around. we all know women who like casual and that’s fine. We all know many more women who like to do it within the confines of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:05 PM
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lol OP thinks people hide well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:41 AM
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So basically, comparison is the thief of joy. Choice paralysis. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:21 PM
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nah honestly most people are generally more moderate than they think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:49 PM
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i think the proper way is to use money. Just spend the dollars so you can get to the top of the list that other people are swiping and then you have your answer within a few weeks, because everyone would have swiped on you. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:36 AM
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yeah but i personally get to benefit from this entertainment
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 01:56 AM
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i don’t think it is an obvious part of the definition. An Incel is a compound word made of involuntary and celibate, it doesn’t inherently incorporate any aspect of their behavior or personality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:59 AM
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so complaining is important for your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:31 AM
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i’m trying to see where they fit in your algorithm. I mean they are technically incel = involuntary celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:09 PM
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hm, how would you characterize involuntarily celibate individuals who are otherwise decent people. Maybe they are just overweight or disabled?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:15 PM
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well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:47 AM
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I agree with most of what you wrote. But I do think that the respective pills do tend to attract certain types of people. The Red Pill for example would be more fitting for someone who might give an ear to conspiracies as they both fall into the category of “things unsaid”, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:24 AM
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sexual closeness. the phrase “sexual intimacy” is useful in denoting the 1) closeness pertaining to the act of having sex 2) and when used to compare degrees of the closeness achieved when comparing differing sexual events
/r/ExRedPill05/08/23 06:47 PM
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theoretically not all sex are intimate
/r/ExRedPill05/08/23 06:31 PM
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what are these other ways?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/23 06:30 PM
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meh, out of all those things…doing well academically and professionally is the easiest thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:36 PM
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meh. Macro this. narrative that you need a college education = more college grads gunning for the same white collar jobs = increased supply relative to demand = lower wages
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:57 PM
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none. even though that increases the likelihood of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:00 AM
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what makes them "deserve" this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:09 AM
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and so is attraction isn’t a choice. what’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:29 AM
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sure man, agree to disagree. good luck, bud
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:29 AM
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for you to think that looks are going to be appealing for 20 or so years alone is a fantasy indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:56 AM
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you don’t need to be physically attractive to every single person. Just be attractive to like 20 in the world and you’re set. Maybe even less but im being generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:30 AM
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why does it have to be one or the other? Why can’t it be a little bit of both? Enough to turn you on but not supermodel hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:16 AM
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So you’re saying men are wising up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:13 AM
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you didn’t swipe left immediately? kudos to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:06 PM
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i mean women go through the same for relationships by staying with an “asshole” or an “abusive relationship”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:44 AM
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sure that’s a very concrete definition. I chose to be very liberal with my definition to highlight how exaggerated OP’s claims are in an ironic fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:37 PM
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so what? everything is prostitution. you’re selling 8 hrs of your body and life every day to your boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:52 AM
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it’s easier to do nothing and accept handouts than to actually do something and risk it
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 05:44 PM
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i think stonewall is too harsh a term. Focused would be more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:29 AM
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people are allowed to be hypocritical. You are too!
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 05:13 PM
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TIL, can anyone give a backstory of how this all went down?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:04 PM
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i never said OP had to be a life of the party, nor does he need to max out all those traits. The shy guy probably has other characteristics that make up for his shyness. It also helps if said shy guy is attractive.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 02:14 PM
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I don’t view life as static. You are constantly changing, even if it is a little bit every day. You have the option to take control of it or not.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 12:19 PM
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lol then go to the gym. Or do body weights if you can’t. Sounds like you have an excuse for everything.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 03:08 AM
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sounds like you need to go keto to lose the weight then
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 02:33 AM
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well the good news is people can change. You can go to the gym and go on the keto diet. Or, you fight in a different arena. if you don’t have the physical traits then you need to compete in an environment where that isn’t so dominating. So that means no online dating and no cold approaches. You need to let your personality shine through with some sort of social activity to make up for your physical deficits. This means you need to go to meetups or join a class. like a dance class or hiking group…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 11:50 PM
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attractive, fun, social, a guy who other people like to be around, and not poor lol (doesn’t have to be wealthy but can’t be dirt poor either). I mean, who wouldn’t be drawn to these people lol. I mean you’d probably look for the same in a woman. Attractive, fun, social enough so that she’s not a loser, and not homeless. same shit.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 11:27 PM
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The reasons why a woman would want to get to know you initially is different than the reasons why she would want to stay. Which one are you asking about?
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 10:10 PM
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sounds like it’s knowing when to be a dick and when to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:29 AM
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they mate just fine outside of relationships lol. Jeeze, stop using the word “mate.”. it’s unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:23 PM
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can’t get to the dick part without the height. So it’s obviously the height.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:42 PM
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because people have interests outside of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:41 PM
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harder? i don’t know if that’s the right word
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:38 PM
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and?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:23 AM
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go on any of the dating subreddits. tons of women claim they don’t care about the physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:25 AM
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here’s the thing though. people want different things. they are allowed to do that. I don’t think it is a relationship killer if the other person doesn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:20 AM
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what’s wrong with being hypocritical? their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:10 AM
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you would hope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:49 PM
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it makes sense. the older you get the less you want to re-evaluate your belief system and “get with the times” because you’re confident that you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:31 PM
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none of the women i know are that boring. maybe you need better friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:21 PM
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nope, I was born in a test tube and have never spoken to a single soul. Sometimes when I shower I question what real life is.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 11:20 PM
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I never said I agreed or disagreed with the statement. Don’t be so excitable.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 11:19 PM
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i’m looking at general trends, not right now. It’s going to come back stronger than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:36 PM
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the physical act of having sex and being in a relationship may offer different utility to each individual. So I would argue that it’s not the same.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/22 01:51 PM
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in red pill logic they don’t have the same to offer though. Women offer sex. Men offer resources/relationships.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/22 12:35 PM
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you original comment didn’t make sense though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:31 PM
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so most of the world basically, has patriarchies intact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:26 PM
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it ain’t dead in the middle east
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:18 PM
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economies go up and down (see great depression) but in the long run it is going up. what are you talking about? You know what’s going to shit? the environment. That will fuck everyone up before the “end of the era of men”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:17 PM
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OP you are mistaken. No one wants to LTR a slut (goes both ways).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:49 PM
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you mean like coffeemeetsbagel? where you only get one to a couple per day?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:45 PM
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to be fair, if you can’t get the dishes so that it makes logistical sense, my respect for you drops
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:13 PM
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what’s wrong with social constructs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:08 AM
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may make him feel better. you should ask OP this question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:53 PM
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don’t know if they deserve it or not, but they’d have a higher chance of being able to relate and share experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:51 PM
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here’s the thing. People who have never tasted your reality will doubt you. It’s only logical. You can explain it to fat or ugly chicks, they may be able to give you sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:14 PM
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i don’t know. sometimes you just don’t know. i’d work for a year only for me to find out one of my coworkers really like to go diving or something. Or another one is really good at piano. I don’t try to presume.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:58 AM
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how are they LVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:13 AM
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just because it is available doesn’t mean it is socially acceptable. I don’t think the societal change would be as drastic as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:20 PM
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sure, whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:11 PM
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that’s because you’re a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:51 PM
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sex falls under the love and belonging and/or self esteem layer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:15 PM
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no shit sherlock
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:32 PM
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IVF, fertility treatments sounds like a huge hassle. Just because having kids is possible at that age doesn’t mean it won’t be stressful or desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:32 PM
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because she already knows she’ll break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:26 PM
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desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:41 PM
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nah bro. those nerdy quirky types are on reddit and on online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:36 PM
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grass is greener on the other side. i’m the opposite. i’m not physically attractive to the point where I get a lot of short term action. but i make money and conduct myself well. tons of people see me as marriage material. And i don’t give two shits about it. It’s boring. I know I make good marriage material, and I don’t think it’s a compliment when people say or allude to the fact that I do. (because i’ve heard it a thousand times already)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:46 AM
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it can be measured by how often people would like a repeat interaction with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:25 PM
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what if “what’s best for you” is “leading them on” to meet your sexual needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:55 PM
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way to fat shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:48 AM
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not really. that woman who owns the vagina are also valued for their ability to raise that child. either way you look at it, women benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:01 PM
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our views are not exactly contradictory. People who are in higher leagues typically have more opportunities to be in the right place and right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:57 PM
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honestly, in all likelihood i’m probably more educated than you are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:43 AM
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if the stars align? that sounds like a rare occurrence. so you’re basically saying that leagues exist in most circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:31 PM
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impossible. politics is related to your inherent understanding of the way the world works. everything you say and do is laced with your politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:26 PM
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this is false. inflation has been occurring for decades not the last 8 months. dollar tree should have raised their prices long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:25 PM
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haha you have a good sense of humor, go you! I just think it’s a matter of supply and demand is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:05 PM
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girl was in a three some with her and two guys. told me about it. Huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:16 AM
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because no one else wants to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:11 AM
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no one wants to see them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:09 AM
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see this belittlement? you’re such a catch!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:15 AM
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why would a woman date someone who is trying to take her right to abortion away?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:42 AM
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it would be great if you can ask some real life friends because reddit is hardly the statistical norm. Here’s the thing. Guys will date you for sex. It’s up to you if you think that’s good enough for you. I think that the mistake that girls make is that they think that by giving sex they are entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:15 PM
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and where do you keep hearing this? lol, reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:04 PM
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ok, i never said you did! what’s your point!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:41 PM
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car deaths are also a result of pre-existing conditions, like distracted driving, bad judgment, and owning a cell phone. same thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:40 PM
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it’s not attractive if someone doesn’t know how to communicate. That’s just frustrating. Even in the early stages of a relationship, hell. Sounds like you’ve never done online dating, if you can’t see how bad grammar can be such a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:27 AM
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Attraction is the first step but it’s not the foremost step. It sparks the relationship but does not sustain it. Communication sustains it. It is the key to retaining a relationship. The key word is retain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:16 AM
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i mean “communication is key.” says nothing about attraction. I think you’re reading too much into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:08 AM
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i don’t understand what is said hwre
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:43 PM
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for your friend, time to move to a metropolis. That’s where you’ll find the single childless 30 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:24 PM
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this is the wrong question. According to TRP the question would be: “if girls pay would guys feel compelled to give her a relationship.”. The theory is that both men and women want relationship and sex. But for men sex is in short supply. For women, relationship is in short supply. And the answer to this question is yes. I’m typically impressed by a woman who wants to pay for things. It doesn’t mean i’ll always agree to it, but her desire to pay tells me that she’s invested and has the sense to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:29 PM
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to make you jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:21 PM
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i think both men and women want successful partners. But this does not mean professionally successful necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:20 PM
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maybe you just know shit people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:57 AM
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some may argue that 60 days is not enough to get the full experience
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/21 08:45 PM
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hah. i’m curious as to what a woman would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:46 PM
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i don’t think your description is implicit enough even for that definition. you’re reading into it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:45 PM
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it doesn’t say without going through the same experiences in your quote…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:21 PM
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“it involves experiencing another….”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:07 PM
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i don’t think so. I think that’s called sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:02 PM
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so a friend then? I thought women don’t want guys they’ve friendzoned to approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:57 PM
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can’t have empathy if the person reading it has not experienced the same experiences. it is difficult for the people who have sex to empathize with those who can not get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:53 PM
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how about 12 weeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:04 PM
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man here: I personally do think that sexual attraction grows with time and emotional connection for women. ​ This is not to say whether they need a basic level of attraction in the first place or not. That I do not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:01 PM
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yet you keep coming back for more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:12 PM
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try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:01 PM
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If it's not just women, then why did you gender your own argument? You literally said "women." Do you understand how to form an argument? ​ Let's dissect what you wrote: "Not the same argument. Women don't like downgrading in lifestyles. Being with a less attractive and lesser partner in general is not something that anyone would willingly do." This isn't about women This isn't about lifestyles. It's about the act of having sex and attraction. This "is not something that anyone would willingly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:33 PM
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"Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?" ​ It literally says SEX in the heading.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:28 PM
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OP is a man, not a woman. wrong argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:04 PM
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how presumptuous. I was raised on home cooked meals and ate out once a week as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:30 PM
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are you kidding? you never get cravings for white castle burgers or mcdonald’s french fries ever? I’ve eaten at Michelin star restaurants and can cook decent myself, but even I get cravings for fast food like once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:35 PM
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how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:13 PM
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is this controlled for age and length of time married? My argument is that fathers cheat more because they were simply married for a long period of time, increasing odds of cheating behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:28 PM
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can you do that with the app?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:15 AM
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hm. thread got deleted. is there an app I can use for deleted posts? oh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:26 AM
2

the flaw to these “truths” is the assumption that people absolutely need another person. I argue that with the security of basic needs, shelter, food, a reliable income, and a little spending money on the side, the prospect of being single elevates at the expense of being in a relationship with a suboptimal partner. In modern society you don’t need to settle (as much) because being single isn’t so bad.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 02:32 PM
0

why would you do this? this is pretty toxic.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/21 12:36 AM
2

Has anyone looked at this practically? College prices and prices in general have outpaced wage increases. This means it is more difficult to survive on one income? Can you really blame men?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 09:40 PM
2

wait if that wasn’t what you wanted, what did you want?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 11:53 PM
1

even with the commas your comment doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:43 PM
1

if you think that’s evidence then i really have nothing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:55 PM
1

accusations without evidence. my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:53 PM
1

really? because that’s not in my quote
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:17 PM
1

you said “youth talk about sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:37 PM
4

but we do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:19 PM
2

i thought women liked emojis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:18 PM
2

maybe you hang out in a distasteful circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:14 PM
2

most people treat each other with common decency. your view is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:13 PM
2

she’s talking about common decency. not that i agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:12 PM
5

As a guy who has women as friends…they are my friends but I keep my guy friends closer. There were definitely instances in which a woman’s platonic relationship has provided value, but there were other times where we would be friends for a long time and then they suddenly go cold turkey, and in retrospect it all feels as if it’s a waste of my time. Then there is the social aspect. Women, more so than men, care about appearances. They don’t want to be perceived to be close to a guy friend who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:08 PM
1

Eastuss
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:03 PM
2

I have identified a comment for you to respond to. He shares the same sentiments I do. Now you don’t have to type your responses twice. I’m looking forward to your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:02 PM
4

hey OP, where’s your response to this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:01 PM
3

women talk about sex too, more often than guys. I think there were some studies on this, however flawed they may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:59 PM
1

Honey, if you weren’t looking for more, don’t ask for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:55 PM
3

so i counterpoint one thing and you can’t “deal with it.”. good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:53 PM
0

War?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:52 PM
4

because you conceptualize the world as black and white respect and not respect. to take your first point for example: when a guy declines to hit on you because he is your friend’s friend. That is out of respect for him and their relationship that’s true. But it isn’t necessarily true that it is at the expense of respect for you. That isn’t even in the equation. But from your stand point, respect for you demands him to hit on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:51 PM
2

wow this post sounds bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:47 PM
0

Guy here. I’m analyzing this from a stats mindset. Your conclusion rests on the assumption that women visit porn sites with the same frequency as men. Also you make the assumption that the dudes in the videos are catered to women. What if the dudes are for male fantasies? One can make the argument that men fantasize themselves to be the 6ft tall white or black studs in said videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:59 PM
11

so above average men are owed a girlfriend? don’t understand tour logic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:11 AM
10

no, a steep curve is one that is difficult to climb (because it’s so steep) and thus takes a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:25 PM
7

that’s not steep, that’s pretty shallow. steep means it takes a LONG time to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:07 PM
6

so what are his good points? You don’t have to take in everything, it’s not all or none.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 08:43 AM
7

your definition of blue pill is wrong
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 10:18 PM
13

he was just looking at the TV. He didn’t do anything. If this was true, she was already into him from the onset. All he did was didn’t fuck up, which is hard to do if the other party already has a high level of interest.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/20 01:39 PM
0

what about paying for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:24 PM
4

i did not, read it again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:35 PM
1

bitter much? it’s inconceivable that one may have enough platonic friends and can’t support more? or is your ego that fragile?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:29 PM
8

he wanted the whole package, the sex and the friendship. And he won't waste his time settling for less. If he were to accept the offer of friendship, which takes effort to maintain, he may miss out on making a connection with someone else who would be open to the full package. Example: My free time is limited and I can't just hand it over to just anyone who wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 02:35 PM
9

just because he rejects a woman’s offer of friendship doesn’t mean he has zero interest beyond her being a sexual tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 11:38 AM
3

I think this sentiment is directed towards people who they knew in high school/college who they are still in contact with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:17 PM
0

the okcupid study is an improper study to quote in answer to this question. The okcupid study can be used to comment on factors of attractiveness, but it does not take into account the psychological changes that occur with being in a stable relationship to begin with. Basically: being in a relationship may change how one perceives attractiveness, and furthermore, says nothing about the willpower or lack thereof to stop cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:31 PM
2

Shit, I used to PREFER for a women have a child. why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:05 AM
0

i agree with a lot of these points, but one thing i disagree with is the monogamous sex bit. that can get boring and routine. I wouldn't say it's always better.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 06:18 AM
1

not the military but my point still stands. Who is policing the police? https://www.reddit.com/r/Portland/comments/imx5xt/this_is_what_portland_police_and_oregon_state/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:09 PM
1

ok, maybe you live in the 12th century bud
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:00 AM
1

ooooh. big scary codes are going to save the day!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:54 AM
4

the reason why we have such a violent police force and military is caused by people who join who are violent, aggressive, and lack self control. This is the worst group of people to give a gun and/or power to. If someone is violent or aggressive maybe they should work on a farm so they don’t hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:28 PM
18

then go join the military probably not a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 02:04 PM
1

I already get a shit ton of compliments professionally. Don’t give a shit about them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 11:11 PM
3

chill, if we’ve known each other for a short amount of time, I don’t know you....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 10:42 PM
2

so if a person was in an accident and suffered head trauma and their personality is fundamentally changed, have you ceased loving that person since their personality has changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 10:41 PM
1

who cares about the whole reject without reject. just get on with it already. hints are so inefficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:29 PM
1

what slip on white couches?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 02:08 PM
3

not that I agree with the reproductive argument at all, but if you want to do a sperm vs egg analysis, women have higher value because of scarcity of supply. It is because that they are temporary that they have higher value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 03:28 PM
2

i don’t think so. so back in the day when people were more conservative you’re telling me that there was a nun fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:21 PM
1

so what if you masturbate without porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:19 PM
2

the fuck is a MLTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:57 AM
7

both want both but each group find it easier to fulfill one of the two needs and harder for the other. So it appears that they just "want" that one, whereas it would be a more accurate statement to say that they are more "desperate" for the other. As a guy, I can land a relationship pretty easily, sex is harder to come by (outside the context of a relationship)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:03 PM
1

most of my friend group don’t get drunk on a regular basis who are these people you’re trying to be friends with?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:26 PM
2

i am talking about women too. oh how did you attract them, well they liked talking to me so agreed to go out when i asked
/r/ExRedPill20/06/20 12:21 PM
1

i made friends who were like minded and i met them through friends of friends organically via parties and events
/r/ExRedPill20/06/20 11:52 AM
7

i’ve had satisfying relationships in my early 20s where the girl didn’t play games. maybe you should adjust the way you pick them.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 05:21 PM
10

i think waiting for this one particular reason is kind of silly. some people bald in their late 20s or 30s and I would think it would make it harder to date actually. It’s one thing to focus on something productive like a career and it might be reasonable to wait until after the pandemic. But to hold yourself back for the mere reason of “I think it will be easier later” that’s stupid to me.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 02:04 PM
1

you and I are talking about different things
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 01:52 AM
2

Looks money and status aren’t necessarily superficial. For some people it takes a lot of work to attain all that.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 05:02 PM
3

i agree with your sentiment, but OP was referring to specifically fucking a lot of alphas then dumping them in order to settle for a stable beta. This is different from what you are saying likely because you have a different definition of alpha/beta than OP.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 02:10 PM
3

you can’t compare everything but you can compare some very important things. Like upbringing, earning potential, and the social prowess to obtain what you want without alienating people.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 02:06 PM
-13

Yes, but I would say that 80/20 is more true than alpha/beta. Highly conservative women don't do alpha/beta. But every woman would want to date an impressive man over someone who is not impressive.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 01:24 PM
12

you got a tldr for the book? or a couple of points that stood out to you?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 10:29 PM
4

And how does your view hold if you don’t want to have sex with your female friends?
/r/ExRedPill15/06/20 12:39 PM
2

no one said that the beta is getting much sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:15 PM
1

i agree that OP specifically identified some activities that take a significant amount of resources to acquire, but I agree with the general sense to attain skills pertaining to the goals that you have (women). In before people who like to take things out of context, my message does not imply that women is the only goal in life, nor does it imply that they should be the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:14 AM
2

why does it have to be completely one or the other? only the sith deal in absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:11 AM
1

well, if you want to have any sort of relationship with someone, you have to think about what they think in some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:09 AM
3

what stuff that the sidebar didn’t teach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:11 AM
3

maybe trashy men attract trashy women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:06 PM
3

i don’t think my comment insinuated that women are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:23 AM
9

no one said they don’t. I don’t know why you’re being defensive about this when I didn’t use my comment to attack
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:38 AM
10

there are situations where it is objectively creepy. But more often than not there are situations that are only situationally creepy, depending on the “creeper’s” attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:26 AM
1

well, I personally believe that there are some things that TRP gets right and there are others that they don’t. I don’t think you have to reject all of TRP to be exRP as well. My personal experience is that the more successful guys, both professionally and inter relationally are the collected ones.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 08:26 PM
1

i’m not saying you should be a slave, that’s a mischaracterization
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 04:45 PM
3

in regards to your previous comment. Any high value woman would understand that you’re human and that you can get knocked off balance once in a while and they will even help you through your struggles. Low value women would not. Still though, let’s hope you don’t get knocked off too often because if you do, there might be some issues you need to sort out before attempting a relationship
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 09:45 PM
1

in my personal opinion i don’t judge a statement by how “sexist” or “backward” it is. I judge it by how true I think it is, and by how closely it matches up with reality.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 09:40 PM
1

also, are you overweight?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 09:38 PM
2

well, you take it or leave it. Generally speaking, the man is usually the stable force that a dramatic woman wants/needs in her life. You either agree to this or you don’t. Sucks if you don’t because, like I said, generally speaking this is your job.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 09:36 PM
3

because you are a man. period. The man is the rock. Now, you don’t need to act like a rock around family and close friends, but you better be that rock in the presence of a romantic interest.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 09:32 PM
2

are you overweight? Do you have nice shoes and do you groom yourself? I feel like this is probably the biggest barrier for men.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 07:53 PM
2

no need to get defensive. i’m merely pointing out the fact that it doesn’t take much for you to form opinions and change them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 02:28 PM
1

so just because one guy said it, you’re going to adopt this viewpoint?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 01:53 PM
2

well most people I know have met their dads. So right back at ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 01:02 PM
2

i had to grow out of this too, that’s why your post resonated with me. I don’t think people are inherently controlling. But we can induce them to act like it if we don’t set up our boundaries in a healthy manner.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 10:24 PM
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what culture is she from? Honestly this all seems pretty innocuous to me. You haven’t really given any examples of how far she tried to push this onto you, and you have given zero examples of your saying no. Don’t call her controlling if you’re going to be a passive aggressive doormat OP
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 02:28 PM
11

upvotes all around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:27 PM
6

you seem to have a bit of experience. What are some of the raw feelings and struggles that come with being with a high N woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:24 AM
1

so what associations are they making?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 09:49 PM
2

so what sort of gender associations are you talking about
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 08:15 PM
1

i don’t think pick me’s are sluts though because sluts are implicated to have had many partners and I don’t think pick mes share the same connotation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:06 AM
1

i really don’t believe so. Social awareness is the ability to sense how receptive the other person is to you and to titrate your own responses accordingly. And figuring out whether she wants you to be in her pants or not is part of it. I’m not equating the two, but i’m saying that one is part of the other.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 02:29 PM
1

treating people like humans doesn’t mean to forego social awareness in conversation
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 02:15 PM
1

You think maybe they need more practice then? I mean I instinctively do all those things too, but my focus is on building a connection, and I try to get her to laugh. More practice = better at multitasking?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/20 01:01 PM
-2

What else is there to think about though? Just tease her. Agree and amplify or propose a challenge. What else is there that requires so much energy analyzing?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/20 06:26 AM
1

I forgot this was said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:59 AM
1

It literally says that the evidence that Toxo causes psychiatric disorders is weak
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:48 PM
3

yeah it’s a disease but it’s not a stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:37 PM
2

so they are boring with nothing else going on in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:28 PM
4

what are the stereotypes associated with women who own cats? i never really understood that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:54 PM
2

probably, i mean i would have a good assortment of photos to make it seem like you’re a real person at least . I would hide the friend count though. I mean the likes you really can’t do anything about really
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:19 PM
2

i feel like this is the only real answer here although i’m not as extreme. I don’t really understand going the extra mile of deleting facebook altogether. Just have enough self control to not make posts every day or check it every day. How hard is that? I mean I have a facebook that i update maybe once a month. I don’t have the app on my phone but i can easily access it via web browser. Facebook keeps me updated on events locally, so I can always find a fun event or festival to invite my date to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:41 PM
1

what’s the story here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:35 AM
1

You keep replying to me. Don’t manipulate me into responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:18 PM
1

Like your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:14 PM
1

No this is incorrect. Many people in the thread have given you adequate rebuttals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:11 PM
0

so why didn’t you say this instead of giving me a history lesson about how the entire female gender was oppressed for all of time (who by the way have no impact on your personal life) and that the current crop of modern men (who did Not oppress said females) should be the sacrificial lamb to satisfy your blood lust. Do everyone a favor and stick with a coherent story
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:54 PM
2

No it isn’t wrong in general. There are many cultures where it is OK to be more blatant about these various superficial characteristics. If you really want to dive down and actually have a conversation about this, we need to agree on a set of standard moral values. Hint: Saying that it is wrong to ask a woman or man about her or his weight because it’ll hurt their feelings is not an adequate justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:40 PM
1

what are some interesting novels you would recommend for someone who would like to learn some of this higher tier of language?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:51 PM
1

social awareness, which number 2 lacks. People don’t usually talk like number 2, so it would be a red flag to stick out in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:48 PM
1

here’s the issue. He doesn’t have the time though. He’d rather be hitting the gym than mess with people he isn’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:46 PM
1

wait, having standards or preferences is a gendered trait now? what is your argument for this? what does masculinity have to do with equal opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:42 PM
3

wait i’m not following your thought process. First we need to establish why it is not appropriate to ask about a woman’s weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:38 PM
3

I don’t think meeting any standard of “good” is a concern for OP. I think he finds it hypocritical that women can get away with blatantly asking “stats” related questions while men cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:21 PM
4

i think in general OP wants society to be more accepting of asking about a woman’s weight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:39 PM
15

what did you find that was so cultish?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/20 09:01 PM
0

or maybe women are more brazen to record them on a survey than women are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:00 PM
1

i don’t know, I’m as vanilla as you can get. so i don’t know if i agree with the statement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:47 PM
3

i think it’s a bell curve. At some point doing more work will be of benefit. But going past that point will lead to an erosion of perceived masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:18 PM
1

fucking an inanimate object is way different from have sex with someone who anticipates, accommodates, and otherwise interacts with you. it’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:30 PM
1

i’m not so sure about that. you can either choose to have a boss who bosses you around 8 hrs a day 5 days a week, or you can live with a bf who you don’t particularly like for 24/7. I think most woman would pick the former out of these two choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:28 PM
20

i don’t think it’s neutral even following your logic though. Women don’t need men for their money because we live in a world where women can work for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:00 AM
1

what about 2 to 300K, you think gold diggers will go for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:54 PM
1

lol living in the moment doesn’t mean you are not hypocritical. just be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:28 AM
1

having money isn’t going to prevent her from cheating on you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:25 AM
1

eh i’m no chad, but this here sounds unattractive to me in a potential long term partner. It doesn’t feel good to me knowing that I would get dumped right away if she could find a chad to commit to her. Especially the part about how she wouldn’t mind that he would just walk out on her. I’d prefer someone who would have enough self respect to be treated as an equal. Not shitting on your views, but just indicating what would turn me off. I rather stay single than take second place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:07 AM
1

be honest, if a chad can commit to you will you want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:45 AM
1

difficulty how so? i would like to hear more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:44 AM
2

my hypothesis for the evolution of nice guys is (provided they remain single and that they’ve woken from their nice mode), is either : 1) turn into the asshole or 2) monk mode-mgtow. curious to hear your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:42 AM
12

yeah why is OP still orbiting her after ten years #thirsty
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 06:36 PM
3

different folks different strokes i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:50 AM
11

why do you follow them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:41 AM
2

I mean isn’t that what the Greeks thought? true love was between male friends. Women, (and our modern day sensibilities would disagree with this) were there to make babies and raise them.
/r/seduction06/04/20 10:18 PM
1

change in a positive or negative way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:22 PM
3

why do you go out with trashy women? the problem is with the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:41 PM
5

which ones for feminism stick out to you?
/r/ExRedPill23/02/20 01:21 PM
7

but he did get friendzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:25 AM
1

are these women in your economic or social class?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:25 PM
2

people what different things. maybe the men you like prefer crazy girls, but don’t generalize to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:27 AM
4

i disagree with your view. this is an economics problem, it’s about supply and demand. if there is a high supply of 10s, he’s not going to do any 2s. If there aren’t many 10s, he’ll go down to 9’s and 8’s and 7’s. Since he is an “alpha” as you say, he’s going to have a high success with those too. So he’s still not going to do a 2. Either way, that 2 has no chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:32 PM
0

are you male or female? Also, I think it is more obvious from an impartial observer. Personally, I (male) am very sensitive to any inequalities in conversation or relationship, so I'd like to think I would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:22 PM
0

I need to find some successful beta guys to get to know. I feel like most people around me would be able to sense unequal efforts/affections when pursuing relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:17 PM
2

yikes, are they generally socially/emotionally obtuse? Or do the women put on a good act?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:11 PM
2

agreed, you have 24 hours in a day. You don't have to spend all 24 hours to be fun. If you do, then you're just inefficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:03 PM
1

do the betabux know they are being settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:02 PM
2

I mean, it is not unreasonable to fathom a scenario in which she meets your attractiveness criteria, but not your relationship-material criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:00 PM
5

I don't know if I agree that love IS fundamentally transactional. I can agree that there are transactional elements to making relationships work, but that's different from saying that that is what love is at the core.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:58 PM
2

sounds like OP is just trying to get a rise out of people. I don't think OP actually has a question he/she wants answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:53 PM
1

Exciting would be the typical bad boy behavior. Break laws, act like an asshole, dance like a monkey, take stupid risks for no reason, sell drugs, cause drama and danger, etc. Boring would be whatever good/real men do. Work hard, save instead of spend, invest properly, focus on improving yourself, etc. I mean, I guess you and I have a difference of what exciting mean. So in regards to the following activities: Break laws: this would would have a negative impact on my livelihood/career act like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:33 PM
2

so what are some examples of acting boring and safe and some examples of being exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:38 PM
1

do you have a specific example?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:27 PM
6

Why won’t you mention who they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:57 PM
2

who the fuck cares where metalmod likes you or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:03 AM
3

its more than just simply fear. it’s about sharing new experiences together. The high N count person already has done everything and won’t be motivated to explore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:04 AM
10

not that i’m disagreeing, but proven where? Was there a rigorous study performed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 12:02 PM
1

I’m going to question the validity here. I would argue that crime has more to do with money. Those who don’t have it may be more willing to skirt the law to survive. And those who have a ton of it know they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:05 PM
17

what does education have to do with the ability to rape? i don’t understand why people think that college educated people would be less willing / capable of doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:02 PM
3

i think the line is drawn at inconveniencing others to achieve your preferences. This goes for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:53 AM
7

sounds like what happened was that he hooked up in the past and got his fill, now he's not in need of it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 12:56 PM
1

Do you have any examples of behavioral changes before and after the books?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 08:43 PM
8

Your kids are yours until they move away after college and marry other people. On the other hand, your kids are your kids whether you actually like them or not. Meanwhile, you and your partner actually chose one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 05:07 AM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2574330/The-awful-day-knew-wed-lost-looks-Its-moment-women-dead-Four-writers-reveal-hit-them.html Ignore OP below, thanks for posting the link!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/18 12:26 AM
1

I see, thanks for the clarification. I hadn't noticed the "on you" vs simply "nice shirt" before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 09:02 PM
1

interesting. any articles talking about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 08:33 PM
1

how subtle? you got examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 08:22 PM
1

You make a good point. I was just concerned that they're gold digging basically. I mean, we didn't know each other very well and then out comes a comment with questionable authenticity? It seemed as if they were almost trying to manipulate me into asking them onto an expensive date, if that makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:58 PM
1

Well, walking side by side with a distance between the two expected of a couple. So basically like 5 inches away as opposed to a foot away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:52 PM
1

I see what you mean. When I mean demonstrating interest I don't mean fucking after a first date. All I mean are basically: by the end of the date we should be able to walk side by side on the street without my feeling like you want to get away from me, and consistent back and forth texting afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:37 PM
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It wasn't on tinder though, it was on a more relationship oriented app. Also there are nuances to saying "you're cute." You don't just blurt it out in the middle of a conversation, that's just poor social skills. And I would have taken a more specific compliment so much better. When they said it I just felt they were lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:34 PM
1

What are some examples of you staying aloof, and how do you balance that with demonstrating interest? Usually I exit the chase early on if she fails to demonstrate interest early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 12:56 PM
1

Because we've only exchanged a few lines and as a guy, I'm really not accustomed to getting that from strangers. So then I start to suspect their motives; what are their intentions etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 12:45 PM
1

I've had several girls text me that "I'm cute" shortly after matching on an online app. Freaked me the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:33 AM
1

also, just to add: the more success you have the sooner you would be able to tell whether attraction is there or not. I'm with you, I lose interest in aloof women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:30 AM
1

By nagging the nurses in hospital? More often than not the atmosphere is cooperative from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:36 PM
1

yup. and as a caveat. Some people are just more likable than other people, people like me. And while I can change things up to a certain point, there are things that I can't, and I'll never ever be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 08:40 PM
30

Wow, your post has got to be the most useful and concise post on tinder I have probably seen. bravo.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 02:12 AM
10

what do you say afterwards?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 01:56 AM
1

I do alright in terms of being genuinely interested in someone and setting up fun dates that are tailored to our interests, but the issue then becomes I become more of a fun friend than a romantic interest. How do you balance the two?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 06:39 PM
1

I have the same experience. I connect better with people outside of America. It just seems like I have more in common with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 01:10 AM
1

Would you be able to link those statistics? I would like to read up on it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 10:27 PM
1

My point is why are we arguing whether it's actually 80/20 vs 79/21 or 78/22. I think most of us can agree that there's no real significance between these exact values.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 09:21 PM
1

I do it to both. I don't preferentially obtain one and ignore the other. Both pieces of information are useful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:37 PM
1

On the contrary I think baggage is usually mostly hidden until something draws it out. Sometimes it is never drawn out because the situation never demands it. I'll ask it directly if I think it's likely I'll get an answer. If not, I'll infer it by asking indirect questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:32 PM
1

I don't believe this to be true from my experience. N count is another piece of information to judge, it's not the end all and be all (although that's not to say that if a woman has n over 30 they'll need a pretty good reason why)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:22 PM
4

I don't understand the significance of arguing over the technicality of 80/20. The fact of the matter is, a disproportionate number of men are getting sex, and until you improve yourself, your options are going to be limited. Why draw a line when you don't need to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:16 PM
1

Crazy also means "tons of baggage" not necessarily just mood disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:13 PM
2

i mean what's the purpose of flirting if you're never going to act on it?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 03:30 AM
4

It sounds like you had a bad experience previously, and that you're associating all those behaviors with this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 07:57 AM
3

What I'm trying to understand is why you are having such an averse reaction to being asked that. To me, it's just another piece of information to consider. Sure, it may be embarrassing and all, but it's not the worst thing that can be asked. EDIT: just re-read your previous post. I think you're making huge assumptions that just because someone would ask that that it's "the most important thing" about you. Like I said, it's just another piece of information.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 07:22 AM
2

Not really. History is something that I will also assess because history is the best indicator for future actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 04:52 AM
1

We all have different types of insecurities. Having insecurities in and of itself is not so much a red flag as how deep the insecurity runs and how that affects daily life. I think you're blowing up this issue way more than it deserves to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 04:46 AM
1

Not necessarily true in my experience. Personally I have experienced fear at how much I like someone so I hold back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 04:28 AM
5

speak for yourself. Just because yours didn't turn out right, it doesn't invalidate my experiences and the lessons that I got from mine.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:53 AM
1

society doesn't like nerds until they can have use for their smarts somehow.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 02:27 PM
1

I'm pretty smart, but I don't try to act like I'm the smartest in the room until I feel necessary. I'll give off the air that I'm above average, but I don't make a show of it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 02:26 PM
0

How about "you're not attractive, looks like you have a small dick and are boring in bed " then goes away? Say that two different women use the exact same line. One is interested, while the other wants to be left alone. How will you know whom is whom?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:30 PM
1

stop doing shit for men then, if you identify as a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 08:24 PM
1

how do you improve/work on GAME?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 04:16 PM
1

I mean I would have just gone for a date instead of hiding behind a party, but whatever floats your boat
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 06:13 AM
1

Don't be too gamey? So engage in run of the mill bland conversation?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 04:05 AM
3

People treat you how you treat them and how you treat yourself. I don't really think this is true. They treat you how they want to treat you.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 03:10 AM
6

I'm not exactly scared of women but my issue is that my mind is blank. I don't know which words to use, or which topics to bring up, or how to transition.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:02 AM
1

Is there a guide on TRP for ways to turn the conversation sexual?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 12:47 PM
9

I mean, if I were 6'8 and built like a volleyball player I might be able to pull it off too
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 05:17 AM
2

I can only speak for myself. A working woman is a baseline, it won't give you brownie points. Talent and skill though, is very attractive to me. Also, the older I get the more I value cooking ability. I'm not setting a double standard though, I'm learning to cook too!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 01:27 PM
5

So did they all just ride the CC the past decade, or were they all career oriented?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:14 AM
0

I mean, what's really waiting for me? I mean, I'm missing out on the parties now...am I realistically going to party when I'm done? Who's to say that what's at the end of the tunnel is actually worth it?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 02:30 AM
2

But what about an obese 400 lb man? No matter how he forgives himself he's still not going to get 10's.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 04:31 PM
-2

lol where did I say that? don't put words in my mouth, and it's mr. sjw to you :)
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 04:07 AM
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lol to achieve one solid point of BMI, waistline, or whatever metric you use without recognizing that there is a +/- range of acceptibility is silly, mr. fanatic
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 01:48 AM
-7

fat and unhealthy aren't completely interchangeable although they are correlated.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 11:30 PM
1

Is there a difference between platonic teasing vs not?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:34 AM
1

What are some examples of being honest with your intentions and some examples of not?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 08:37 PM
1

what about average girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 02:19 PM
1

this shit is scary. in your experience, any way to tell if this is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:39 AM
2

aggressively protecting her. in what ways do you aggressively protect her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 02:55 PM
1

wait, can you pm me the viral video? what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 03:38 AM
2

living situation as in whether you are single or not? or whether you own a house? any of them turn out well, or is this another experience that provides evidence for AWALT
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:49 PM
6

And its very clear whats going on. Late 20's here. No one really hit me up yet. Do they just want to reconnect, or are their messages usually more suggestive?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:59 PM
1

So much this. Same scenario. I have had to remind myself daily to keep things in prospective.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:31 AM
1

What is considered a lot of money these days anyway?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:17 AM
2

Pem I've been liking your replies lately
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 08:00 PM
1

I would argue that being attractive is an alpha trait. Yes, some men are born attractive, but for many others, being attractive means taking the initiative to learn fashion, hairstyle, social grace, and discipline at the gym to be attractive. In and of itself being kind and giving is neither beta nor alpha. The beta simply does it too much, or in situations that compromises his own standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:14 AM
0

definitely needed to read this today
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 08:10 PM
1

any books written with eloquent language that you would like to recommend?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 08:05 PM
3

Thought you wanted to go see the light, now git!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 01:07 PM
4

Get out of your mother's basement and go outside if you want to see the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 12:53 PM
2

No, I'm here for the discussion. Read my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 12:52 PM
4

Just because you don't find value in this sub doesn't mean that other people like myself don't either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 02:12 AM
3

Not really. People tend to downvote ideas contrary to their own in those subs which inhibit discussion. That is why a separate sub is necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 02:11 AM
2

There aren't any purple pills. It's just a room where red and blue talk to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 08:46 PM
1

Thanks, will remember for the next time.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:22 AM
1

I think you're right. As time dragged on and I plateaued with my escalation, I actually FELT becoming more beta, which wasn't good. I was able to escalate a lot the last night, but I still hesitated. Will remember the next time.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:21 AM
1

That's a good one, I'll use that the next time
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:20 AM
1

Admittedly, that's what I should have done. But it was the first time I was ever in that position (thanks TRP), so I went in a bit more conservative. In this particular situation, I was hesitant because 1) I wasn't sure whether the BO would have freaked out and made a scene, and 2) it was public knowledge that HB9 had a "bf" back in London and I wasn't sure if HB5 and HB6 would have called her out on it. What do you think about these two scenarios?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:20 AM
1

TBP and TRP may not be able to debate each other on what is successful in the long run, but they can sure as hell debate with each other in the short run, ergo how to attract a women at a single pint in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:49 AM
2

yellow eyes is usually caused by liver disease. One possible cause of liver disease is hepatitis B/C. And yes, it is contractable with blood contact.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:48 AM
5

They're not going to go for the hottest man. There's a baseline of superficial attractiveness you have to meet, but after that you need to start incorporating behavior into the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 12:15 AM
4

Which green lights do you usually use?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 11:51 PM
1

Personally I try to help my socially awkward brethren
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:24 PM
1

Thanks so much for your informative reply! I'll take a look into it.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:37 PM
1

can you recommend a guide about cutting and bulking at the same time?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:10 AM
0

what do you mean, specifically, by "girling" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 04:16 PM
1

I only know one girl in my various social groups who sleeps with a new guy every month. The one that is the next closest averages 1 new guy per 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 12:30 AM
2

How do you personally get her to feel comfortable?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 01:47 AM
2

One of the best posts I've read lately. I would give you gold, but let's be honest, I'm just a cheap bastard.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:00 AM
1

I've had women try to manipulate me into being an orbiter for bunch of benefits What did they do or try to offer you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 02:42 PM
2

gotcha, thanks for delivering OP
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 07:46 PM
1

Curious, what is your stance on male-female dynamics/relationships as a non-feminist blue pill woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 02:26 PM
1

database designer consulting for healthcare companies seems like a cool job. How did you get into that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 02:18 PM
1

while it's fine to define virginity as strictly no PIV penetration, you are still left with all the baggage and implications attached to losing one's virginity. How will you reconcile this in families with more traditional values?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 02:13 PM
2

I've been wondering about "I'm on my period" though, because it's split 50/50 in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 01:08 PM
2

So when she came over, I made it clear that I wanted one thing, and that I would take command. What did you do/say specifically?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 01:07 PM
1

This is actually the misguided thinking here. If Brad Pitt showed up, would she be worried about whether the sink was clean? Absolutely. Sure, if he showed up for the first time she might not; but if he was over on the regular of course the novelty wears off a bit. And the same with the other example. Gotta compare apples to apples.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 08:33 PM
1

You have the responsibility of caring for your well-being and your own emotional state You also have a responsibility to ascertain that your behavior is not infringing on another's right for safety. The fact that there are Enough people who don't abide by these rules, thusly creating a so called "dangerous" environment is a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 07:01 PM
0

I think this post is misguided. It's not about trade chores for sex. It's about lowering her inhibitions for sex. If she's mentally preoccupied with Oh Shit i have to wash the sink, she's going to wash the sink before doing you. You can expedite this process by washing the sink. Also, I think this masculine/feminine division of chores is going to be out of date soon. As more women work the same long hours, they won't have time to do all the "female chores." And a redistribution is in order.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 06:19 PM
0

You are entitled to your opinions on the matter, but safety is one of the reasons why society and civilization exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 06:03 PM
1

You probably already know the answer to that question. So work your ass off doing what? Is your life in danger every day? Yeah, if you think incurable and/or lifelong diseases are dangerous. Do you work harder than a guy who climbs massive electric pylons, sometimes taking over an hour to reach the top, in order to repair them? I think so, or at least just as hard Are you constantly "breaking your back" doing any kind of hardcore physical labour? I am "breaking my back" due to being in a certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 02:02 PM
3

So what beta characteristics are you actually attracted to? You're not giving me Info here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:41 AM
2

From a statistical point of view yes you are correct. But practically speaking no one gives a rats ass about objectivity. What about targeting girls that you like and modify your strategy based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:39 AM
1

I'm projected to make six figures and I work my ass off. You saying I don't, and her attraction to me is unnatural? I put in more hours in my work than anyone does at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:27 AM
2

I don't think anime and TRP are completely incompatible. Take SAO for example. Kirito has a harem of girls around him due to his 1) skills and 2) fame as a "beater". He's not BP at all. He may be less assertive than other people, but he doesn't need to be assertive. They step out of line, and he'll whoop their ass. His beta ass friend on the other hand (forgot his name), has NOBODY. This is TRP man.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 04:17 AM
0

OK, but what about fear of domestic violence, or fear of professional repercussion when a boss keeps hitting on you and you want them to stop. Those are very real things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 04:02 AM
6

The number of women that get murdered for turning down a guy is miniscule compared to the number of men that get murdered. Listen man, as a man, I'm not really concerned about my life when I reject a girl's advances. But women sometimes are, and that's a shame. Regardless of your beliefs, everyone has a right to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 03:54 AM
2

the guy is clearly in the wrong here. And you're bringing race into this post for absolutely no fucking reason OP. Shitpost.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 07:34 PM
1

Putting work in oneself vs putting work in things. Isn't work just work? How can you say one is shallow when both are work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 02:03 PM
2

People being busier hasn't been an excuse for me. If they can't give me the decency of letting me know that they're busy, then they aren't worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 01:55 PM
1

Hah, come to my high school then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 01:53 PM
4

It's kind of sad that we live in a society that you now have to text/call 2 hrs prior to confirm. Personally, I usually confirm the night before, and if they stand me up without letting me know, I won't be initiating conversation ever again (obviously unless they can explain themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 01:34 PM
1

wow what an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 01:32 PM
3

Did you notice any side effects of keto? fatigue, loss of concentration, irritability?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:59 PM
5

Mad respect for your discipline. You got before/after photos?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:00 PM
6

Wait you dropped 36lbs in 6 months? That's a lot
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 02:30 PM
1

Quality post, you get an upvote
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:19 PM
2

So is there a fucking manual? Like there are YouTube videos showing you if your form at the gym is incorrect, what about for fucking?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:15 AM
3

Wait, what is your point of the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 07:14 PM
4

male doctors marry nurses. Can't say the same for female doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 01:13 PM
1

How many hours do you invest in this per year and how much money do people typically make?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:01 PM
1

This doesn't make sense. The definition of being socially awkward means he doesn't understand cultural references or is unfamiliar with social nuances. This has nothing to do with putting anybody's needs or approval above his own
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 02:18 PM
2

I'd like to fuck my wife too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 12:14 PM
2

You want guys that enjoy gaming to stop it, and do something else that women find attractive, but the guy finds less enjoyable? I'm sure there are tons of activities that can be enjoyable that people havn't tried out yet. And it may even be more enjoyable with a girl to share with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 12:58 PM
2

an exception to the rule doesn't mean that the rule isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 12:35 AM
3

So the OP made a few arguments and drew some correlations involving racial lines. What particularly was so offensive that you'd label it as "hate speech" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 04:17 PM
3

As someone who browses TRP occasionally, I disagree with your assessment. You don't like how they rationalize a woman's behavior, fine. but as for minorities? What the fuck are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:43 PM
2

This sounds too formulaic. People are not always cognizant about what they are attracted to or aroused at. It's really simple. They say one thing but act another because 1) they don't want to admit the truth 2) aren't really introspective. Let the fisherman tell you what they use to attract fish, not the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 03:45 AM
1

Do u masturbate? That takes a lot of energy away
/r/becomeaman19/02/16 10:44 PM
4

Personally, I think there is a vast difference in character between someone who has a high N count and someone who breaks the law, and even more than that, what many would consider highly immoral (child molestation). EDIT: put in another way, you are offering confounding variables in your analysis with your choice of including felony data. You can't make an apt comparison like that. Why not just ask women how they feel if they did not have info about their partner's N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 09:08 PM
6

A weakness to your argument that I feel you haven't addressed enough is that you imply that lying about an N-count is similar to lying about a history of felony. The most scientific comparison would be to compare lying about N-count with....lying about N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 09:02 PM
3

What I said about that lie is true regardless of one's stance on feminism. It is a lie, and it fucked up a lot of people's 10's -20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 09:23 PM
3

I didn't say it was due to feminism. I'm just highlighting a lie that society as perpetuated. Obviously I am less extreme than other RP, who would go so far as to say that feminism itself is a lie (which I can understand their viewpoint).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 09:21 PM
4

female equivalent really was I'd agree with this, but I wanted to further specify that this "equivalent" you are talking about is a type of superficial equivalent: it's about looks and who's in shape. The problem is that society has fed many guys a pernicious lie that doing well at school/career and being just "nice" is enough to make up for these deficiencies, whereas that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 09:00 PM
3

Well I either read the wrong books or they failed to have the same effect. And I'm sure plenty of people can relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:12 PM
4

Then have any TRPers reading ever actually sought out self help books, the actual source of that information? I've read self help books and they're bullshit. Have YOU read any self help "books" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:05 PM
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Divorce rates are at an all time high. Actually some sources disagree. The seemingly high divorce rate is caused by repeated offenders and not first time marriages. http://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/04/upshot/how-we-know-the-divorce-rate-is-falling.html
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 03:30 PM
2

Beta-Bux is a popular strategy....once you're over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 01:46 PM
4

The problem with blue pill is that bluepillers assume people know what self respect actually looks like. They offer general freedictionary.com advice when people usually need wikipedia.org level-of-detail entries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 01:42 PM
3

whoah whoah whoah, there is a difference between a sex partner and a marriage partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 01:39 PM
3

:/ fuck it, I'm taking my six figure salary and buying the other ram a drink. Then we'll do crazy shit around the world before blowing the rest on hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 09:19 PM
1

A girl considered for sex and a woman considered for marriage are two different things. Mere attention for sex does not equate for attention for marriage. I think a lot of women mistake sexual attention for relationship type attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 06:23 PM
2

Not really. That was pretty tongue in cheek and I am waiting to see what his/her response is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 06:04 PM
8

This is really depressing. So a guy has to do all that to be successful while a woman merely needs to be not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 04:32 PM
0

Honestly, after reading the OP i feel it's an honesty issue and less of an alpha/beta issues. Obviously showering her with compliments is beta, but she was fine with that before as long as he was honest about his intentions. Now she just thinks he's lying to her. my 2 pence.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:34 PM
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If she is to be believed, seems like a clear case of marital rape though it's not clear what the cultural context is. I don't care WHAT the cultural context is; if someone forces another person to have sex, then that is rape. Even you must understand this. I am very disappointed by the quality of this post.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 01:26 AM
2

I hear you. Personally I have had experiences different from yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 10:26 PM
0

You got it wrong bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 10:23 PM
0

Wow, a lot of people in here who have the time to beat the same horse. I for one enjoyed your analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 10:21 PM
3

Context is important
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 10:09 PM
3

Thank you. I think it is hurtful to take an "eye-for-an-eye" approach to relationships, but it is important to stay cognizant that your needs are being met and that you are both giving into the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:47 PM
2

I didn't ask for his score. I wanted to know if this was an unbalanced relationship before making the point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:44 PM
3

That's the point. I think her argument is too extreme. Sure, I think keeping track of how many times your SO does the dishes is silly but I sure will keep track of how many times an SO has been selfish or whether they have been malicious or not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:28 PM
2

if you can't be bothered to read my responses to other posters before you about my intended purpose for this question, then you are an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:18 PM
3

I'm not asking what kind of score he had, I'm just trying to figure out if OP is in an parasitic relationship in which one sided just gives and gives and the other just takes and takes. Personally I think there is a middle way between keeping a scorecard and turning a complete blind eye, to avoid being taken advantages of in a parasitic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:09 PM
5

Listen, I agree that keeping a scorecard is kind of petty, but if you're doing all the work in the relationship and he's not supporting you in any way, I think it's time for a new partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:04 PM
4

There's a give and take in relationships. It's clear from all that you do that you certainly have given. I agree with you that in order to truly give you shouldn't expect anything in return. Then further along the post you mention that your partner also gives, but fail to produce examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 09:01 PM
4

I think it is. When you make a point, you need to support it. I don't find this point to be adequately supported.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 08:57 PM
2

He was freely accepting nice things and freely giving nice things without any expectations. He wasn't the one who was entitled, it was me! So what were some of the nice things he's freely given?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 08:21 PM
2

My experience with good, but no chemistry relationships? Completely stable women with loving families that adored me. I couldn't leave fast enough. Wait, you don't like women with loving families?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:02 PM
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The NYC science high school system employed a test for admission, and now people who want to change it are saying the test is biased. You can't win.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:36 PM
1

I think this is bull
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 01:06 PM
1

I'll be more specific. Sometimes I would meet people who I would like to keep in contact with. But the thing is, I don't want to meet with them in one week or two weeks to continue the conversation, I'd like to get back to them a year from now. How do I keep the relationship going?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 04:06 PM
1

What if you don't have further questions and don't see the possibility/need to have a second meeting?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 12:58 PM
13

The problem for me is not fear of public speaking. What I don't have is wit or ideas.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 01:52 PM
2

I think it depends on the girl, some are more receptive than others
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 08:01 PM
3

I absolutely abhor talking about myself and I'm constantly misconstrued as boring :/
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 08:00 PM
0

Curious, how does the vague concept of progress or evolution make your life fulfilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 06:32 PM
2

Since when do I run my life by what's "outdated" or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 11:54 AM
0

I see the point that you're making. But I don't think you need to shit test people just to figure out that he's a bit awkward. That should be pretty self evident in normal conversation.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 09:35 PM
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It looks like you put a lot of effort into this OP, but I fail to buy that being a good shit tester makes you a good father/husband/SO. The moral of the story seems to be that Asperger's is difficult to deal with. EDIT: also, it seems that being model-level hot can compensate for many things, but we know this already
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:47 PM
1

do they come with lab reports stating they're clear from disease lol?
/r/MGTOW14/09/15 01:52 PM
4

I mean, he can get replaced by the single life. She doesn't have to replace him with a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 05:26 AM
1

Except that most women here on PPD say they are turned off by a guy who operates in a relationship as though he is completely independent. Where did they say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 01:50 AM
0

so did you guys sit down and write a list one day?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 05:27 PM
1

What about x3 and x4 curves? the math part is understandable. But you weren't clear about the x and y axis in the legend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 12:45 PM
1

It took me awhile to realize that I need to disregard most of what people say. Think about it. "All of these people" are of average intelligence. What can they possibly teach me about scoring 1-2 SD higher when they so obviously fail at it themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 04:54 AM
1

hit the exponential part of that curve can you ELI5 this concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 04:47 AM
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