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| 4 | I rejected a girl 15 minutes before we were meeting for our date (story time + identifying red flags pre-date)Must have been fun intentionally wasting your own time | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 01:19 PM |
| 2 | How the hell do you flirt and date as a lazy introvert?Not when you are lazy. Keep up the good work and you will be single and lonely at 40s in no time, asking exactly the same questions as you are right now. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman?The projection is absolutely hilarious | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman?Get a grip on life. Or your brain. Cause you ain’t got either | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayThis is absolutely pathetic and cringeworthy And moral of the story: Grow an actual spine and quit joking about “strippers”. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Is she actually interested in me or just stringing me along?I will only allow this once, cause there could be emergencies and she offers to reschedule. Anything less than that I will never reach out again (if we share a social circle) or an outright block (if we have nothing in common). Grow a spine | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How does a relationship form?You are bring it up as well. Usually when you see each other consistently for 2-3 months and is boning the brains out of each other. Also make sure you actually like this person for who she is and not just because you guys are having sex or simply because she’s hot. The latter is a waste of time and emotions. Worked out for me. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Catching feelings for a girl who cheated on her boyfriend for me but wont break up with himlol either pump and dump or just completely cut her off Hos like these are for the streets. Have some standards dude | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Asked a girl out, this is her replyGG. Tell her “no worries” and move on. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | 6 months of a talking stage 💀Ughhhhhh I don’t like this dynamic between you two. Seems like an awful lot of headache and an unspoken tug-of-war/tension below the surface interaction that you two are having. Also I hate ghosting. I don’t do this nor do I like people who do this. I am not giving out any more of my thoughts given the new info. You do you. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | 6 months of a talking stage 💀Not sure what are you trying to get out of this deal, but 6 months is an awful long time to waste on someone. I’d even question if this girl is actually using you just for validation and you are falling damn straight into it to the point that you are actually defending her actions as “modesty”. Sounds like she’s PUAing you and you are getting used. I have dated virgin girls who came from very conservative countries/culture and upbringing and they are not uptight as the person you mentioned. I ta… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:52 PM |
| 2 | What does she really want ?????? Wtf are you apologizing for? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What does she really want ?Stack 10 condoms together and we are talking | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | 6 months of a talking stage 💀Excuse me but your game is 💩💩💩 | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:38 PM |
| 5 | I am getting girls but......Maybe because this post is written as verbal diarrhea | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting laidGet some scented candles. Close the lights and lit the candles then start your foreplay game. Downside is you are kicking off with a very high bar for future references lol | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 12:30 AM |
| 16 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.Then work on these??? | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 06:32 PM |
| 16 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.So you haven’t actually try anything and all these “observations” is literally your imagination. This post screams low self-esteem and is giving major “woe is me” vibes. This isn’t about hot girls. I swear you won’t even be able to attract any women with this attitude. This is about your need to work on yourself, your confidence, and your outlook of the opposite sex. “Some more positive, others not.” Yeah, no shit. Isn’t that how everything goes? | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 06:28 PM |
| 33 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.“Seems so difficult” Did you actually do anything so far??? | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Went on two dates but got hit with the "Didn't feel the connection i was hoping for." afterwards.A) She has multiple dudes on the dial and lost interest in you B) She had fun during the date, but the attraction wasn’t strong enough to hold prolong interest C) You may think that it was a good date, but there’s no telling that she also thinks it was. Guys and girls have different metrics of what constitutes as a “good date”, and girls usually have more of such experiences (especially since you guys met online where guys are statistically handicapped) | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Today is my 22nd birthday and I am still a virgin. I will quit Reddit but I wanted to say some things before I leave.I was a virgin until 23. I made deliberate changes and took massive actions to improve myself and most importantly, go talk to girls and made friends and relationships with girls. But “woe is me”, right? You can continue feeling bad about yourself and how the world is unfair that you can’t get your dick wet. Ain’t gonna help a bit | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I can’t text a girl unless I’m horny.Weak | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Want to know if she has a boyfriend within 10 seconds when doing cold approaches?And? | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Can’t dance, and won’t do itYou probably have both but haven’t reach the “click” yet when you integrate them simultaneously. *I am a freestyler and leader of a 40-person dance crew. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 09:44 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand what flirting isBut you are not a girl lol | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Caught in the feels: move on or try again?Talk to a new chick and get under her. Who’s the previous girl? | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 08:53 PM |
| 5 | I feel resentful towards women?The fact that you are getting mad because of rejection is the problem. I reckon this attitude is outpouring when you are interacting with girls and spoilers*, girls can immediately tell you ain’t got no game nor girls. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 08:30 PM |
| 12 | Why attractive girls don't make eye contact, and when they do, it means nothing.Lmaoo you are the one completely missing the point | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"Either troll or ‘tis | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 07:56 PM |
| 25 | 3rd date - when to kiss her?Make a god damn move or say hello to the friendzone, maybe you are already in it. Being called a “Nice guy” and patting yourself on the back is hilarious. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:09 PM |
| 4 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathHits the problem on the nose and left a bloody mess is what it is | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 08:51 PM |
| 10 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathMehhh | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?Lmaooo please don’t do this | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I’ve never done something so embarrassingBro you’ve got a lot of catching up to do… | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Are people here actually having sex?Yes, nothing crazy though, just regular sex with my gf. Been on this sub for a while when I was struggling but those days are behind. Still here for some occasional fun read. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:03 PM |
| -2 | Girl wants to go to gym togetherHaha now that you mentioned it, it should be “wuss”. Cheers lol | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 03:18 PM |
| 16 | Girl wants to go to gym togetherVery likely or soon to be 2. Who the fuck escalates at a gym, take her out on an actual date you wusp | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | The Phone Is Purely For Setting Dates?Bad game bro. Taking something way too literally | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 02:24 PM |
| 2 | First loss, really hurt.I would not accept the friendship and simply move on. You were means to an end for her and I will not take this kind of disrespect. Chin up brother, there’s a girl out there who will treat you right. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateLmao “remembering” is not how you do this. It’s called internalizing | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?No, but you are parroting it | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Getting laid0 formatting yet 100% facts. Well written | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?But you chose to click into it, read it, digest it, and post it here. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:55 PM |
| 3 | I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trashBut but but but but….. stay single | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Virgins: Why haven’t you had sex yet? what’s taking so long? how old are u?Damn base on your logic your mom has STDs too from your dad. And you probably have STDs inherited from your mom. Eewwwwww you are gross, no wonder you are a virgin | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Questions for getting first date lay🙄 | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Questions for getting first date lay“I’m ignorant af, therefore things I have never heard about due to my lack of experience means that it doesn’t exist.” You | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Questions for getting first date layNot surprised | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.Error = Bias + Variance https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mean_squared_error Basic stats | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Can I persuade my date to modify their standardsThe way you worded your title is extremely weird | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls from my past.1st is inappropriate, and the second is just grossly creepy. Bro, what the fuq | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 01:19 PM |
| 6 | I heard my friend say "women want men who other women want". Do you guys feel the same?Got a brain tumor reading this | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Israel/Tel-Aviv, where do I meet the American females?I respect women while getting laid. May not be the case for you. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 05:14 PM |
| 29 | Israel/Tel-Aviv, where do I meet the American females?Stop calling them females will be a first step. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 10:32 PM |
| -2 | I (24M) had a girl (22F) over but all we did was talk from 8 PM to 3 AMThat’s just you lmaoo | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Me (31M) and my friend (27F) behave as if we were a couple, yet she is adamant about us having a romentic relationship and I don't know what to expectSorry bro but she cannot be more clear that she is not interested. You could choose to talk to her again and spell it out clear, but I am afraid you are just gonna hear what you already know. Girls who have any remote interest in you will not shut the door unless they have some serious personal burdens. I’ll give her some excuse of being busy/away for a while and distance myself from her. Clear your headspace and see if you are okay just being a friend. If not, I’ll just completely moved on. And… | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Why I don’t date career oriented womenSo all talk and no game? | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Why I don’t date career oriented womenDisagree. The girl I am dating right now is highly career driven and has very demanding work hours working in a prestigious firm. We make time to spend as much time as possible with each other on the weekend and she will come over on weekday nights to work on her projects instead of staying at the office. We did have some hiccups in the beginning about her work schedule but we communicated maturely as adults and is making it work smoothly so far. | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | My gf (F21) an I (M25) are not talking anymore. Should I text her or wait for her ?Better choice. Move on. She doesn’t like you, her actions speak for herself. | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 03:24 AM |
| 2 | The #1 Habit of losers.You sound repelling, no wonder you aren’t getting any | /r/seduction | 04/06/23 06:43 PM |
| -3 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidEnjoy being alone then. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 17 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidBullshit. Dancing is a great hobby to do and it’s massively imbalanced favoring guys. I’m talking 3 guys vs 30 girls in my weekly Zumba session. Ballroom, latin, jazz, even hip hop….. guys are rare and it’s so ez | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Hopeless dude.LMAO bro. Do something that you are scared, has a possibility of failing or getting rejected, but a fruitful outcome. These opportunities are EVERYWHERE. | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Hopeless dude.I just signed up for a basic Jazz class for tonight after seeing this comment. | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Girls won’t meet up again after sexI agree. I had 3 dates myself where we had sex on the first dates. 2 of them turned into 1.5-2 years relationship. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Mediocre would be a compliment for this piece of work. He can't even come up with an argument. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | losing virginity to a random girl I found on tinderYeah, it definitely does not smell like roses and strawberries. Once I had a girl over and she was fine at first. The moment I turned her over to hit from behind I smelled a intense odor of swampass. I held my breath for 40 secs as I finished with intense resilience and fortitude. Please shower ffs. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 32 | losing virginity to a random girl I found on tinderThis is some fabulous writing. I had a good laugh, thx. Serious note, good job trooper. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:28 AM |
| 0 | I have seen five prostitutes and I haven't learned anything, help?We found a wizard here. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I have seen five prostitutes and I haven't learned anything, help?Um, wtf are you talking about? you find someone who also just wants sex and an orgasm she won't judge you about that you skipped a few hours and just got these things from a prostitute You said that girls who just want sex won't judge you for seeing a prostitute, which is absolutely absurd. Since you think this is the case, I'm doubling down on your point and ask you to go try it in REAL LIFE and see how that goes. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 03:47 PM |
| 0 | I have seen five prostitutes and I haven't learned anything, help?I did. It’s utter crap. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I have seen five prostitutes and I haven't learned anything, help?Oh lol. Next time when you meet a girl who just want sex, tell her you bang streetwalkers for lunch cause you can’t get any from regular girls. Let us know how that goes. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 03:36 PM |
| 2 | virtually flirting with a guy during quarantine & THEN he describes a past partners vagina as — *read disturbing texts in image* — this is an example of how NOT to seduce a woman. THOUGHTS? 🤦🏽♀️Oh trust me, there is. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 8 | Finally managed to do some proper touch escalation on a date.Get a fxxking life. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Nutter Butter on first date?Wtf did I just read? | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 08:37 AM |
| 3 | It's like an inner demon that comes creeping in. From personal experience, how do you guys deal with this? What's realistic to do when you're focusing on yourself?Two words. Approach anxiety. And this can only be remedied by going thick skin (aka being brave) and approach more. No amount of theory nor self-reflection will help without taking action. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Do you ever just get pissed that you have this deep biological desire for women?No idea how you came to deduce this person as an incel. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 07:15 AM |
| 1 | I’m attractive but my game with women is poor. How do I build confidence?Ignore this john18809 dufus. Go thru his post history and you can see why. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 03:28 AM |
| 3 | A Good social circle is SEVERELY underratedThe only person here whose head got fucked is apparently..... wait for it..... You. | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 05:57 PM |
| 4 | A Good social circle is SEVERELY underratedYou are a sad, sad man. And you have my sympathy. Not really. | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Guys, make sure you treat every girl just as they are another person. Don’t treat them like a queen or some shit like that just to get into her pants.Good job standing your ground. But your last message sounded salty and actually validated the girl more. Just leave her on read and move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Should I always go for the kiss on the first date?Absolutely fucking golden analogy. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 07:20 AM |
| 2 | What is his aim? Love this subreddit, it helps me to understand where guys are coming from and has taught me to be firm. But sometimes I just don’t get what they are trying to do? Hurt themselves?He's trying to hit on you. And quite butthurt and passive-aggressive as well after you rejected him. Some guys don't understand that a "no" means NO and will keep trying. If you are not interested I'll just ignore him. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 01:49 PM |
| 2 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveWow LA is fantastic for dating. Such a young, vibrant and diverse crowd of people. There should be plenty of salsa/bachata dance lessons offered around the city (after all there's a huge Latin population). Sign up for a class and start from there, everyone will be a beginner so no pressure at all. It creates good laughs as well. Focus on dancing and socializing (talk to everyone, not just girls or you will be "that guy") and people will see you as a fun, sociable person with a passion for dancin… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveThanks bro. I'm introverted by nature and struggled initially (making friends outside my ethnicity/dating in general) when I came to college. However, I realized socializing/dating is actually a skill so I read many books on socializing/dating and forced myself to step out of my comfort zone. So far it has worked wonders for me. Cherish the opportunity that you have while you are still in school. All the best! | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 12:36 PM |
| 1 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveI'm not familiar with the term of contemporary dance so I can't comment on them. I do both Latin and International Standard, and from my observation, there is really no hard rule or pattern to the height of dancers (I'm competing at the collegiate level so that might differ). One couple I remembered which slayed both Latin and International Standard was a 5'5'' Asian lead with his 5'0 white follower. 8 first places across different levels and dances. However, male leads are usually taller/the sa… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 12:32 PM |
| 2 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveI'm in a ballroom dance club & a social dance club. They are separate clubs. I agree with your second point. I'm also an instructor and teach undergrads on a regular basis. If you are good at teaching many students will subtly dig you. Add you on social media, come to office hours a lot more. However, it's against the school policy to date students, so gg. Go do ballroom! Super fun and really add a taste of professionalism to your dancing. My salsa and bachata benefited a lot from doing ballroom… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:30 AM |
| 1 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveHahaha Salsa and Bachata for life, my bro. I don't date my ballroom partner. We have great chemistry on the dance floor but not really in terms of dating. She does in fact, give me massive social proof as she is quite attractive. I invited several new people I met from my social dancing circle (men & women) to watch me compete. Guess what, two girls started hitting on me right after the competition :))). | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveJust go for it, my friend. I used to struggle too but I have devoted myself to self-improvement because I rather tried and failed rather than not tried at all. After all, we will all die someday. Cherish the limited time that we have on this Earth to experience as much as possible. Whether it's joy or pain. This mentality helped me develop my DGAF attitude, because I live for the experience, not the outcome. It's not always sunshine and rainbow. I've been rejected/ghosted/told to fuck off more t… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 05:15 AM |
| 7 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveI'm an international student from China but have been in the states for almost 10 years. I'm currently doing my PhD in a huge university town so my logistics is pretty solid. I'm decently attractive (sort of a K-pop idol look), speaks good English, funny and optimistic, and have an absolute don't give a fuck attitude. My friends also tells me that I have a natural leadership aura since I do have a lot of experience hosting and organizing events. This all builds into my confidence. I don't care t… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 04:07 AM |
| 7 | You won't get laid just because you're attractive5'7 East Asian here. Not exactly swimming in pussy but has been pretty successful so far in the dating game. Confidence is my biggest arsenal. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 03:37 AM |
| 8 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveLol not even remotely close. Plain excuses. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Wrote for nice guys as basic things not to do in r/nice guysSolid stuff. Appreciate the effort for writing this much. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being attracted to people?Go to a male-only monastery and be a monk. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?Um nope. Sex is fun, enjoyable, and feels dammn good. Is it meaningless to have fun? If it is then might as well delete all your games, stop going out with your friends and void yourself of all pleasures. After all, it's meaningless right? Hookups require a certain degree of emotional connection. It takes mutual attraction and connection to get into bed together. Sometimes two people enjoy the sex and got to like the other person on a deeper level as well during the process of hookup, which tran… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 07:10 AM |
| 3 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?It's each person's choice to hook up or start a family, as long as the sex is mutually consented between the two parties and people are happy with their choices. People can hook up all they want, and then decide that they wanted to settle down and start a family. Are these two mutually exclusive? Are you saying that people who hook up will never start a family? This is the logic I am getting from your comment. If this is the case then you are blatantly wrong. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?LMAO "sex is harmful in the long term". What kind of ridiculous bullshit is this? Edit: Oh it's you again. No wonder, it's john18809 the salty virgin hehehe. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?And incels like yourself. Oh wait, you don't even get a girl to play games with hehehehe. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Is online dating a waste of time?Cared enough to comment. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | I want your opinion - Lay/Body count - what’s your max number of guys a potential girlfriend can have slept with?If it's a casual fling, the more the body counts the better so she can rock my world. If it's gf material, I don't really care if she has any exp or not. If she doesn't I will teach her, if she does I'll rock her world so hard all her past body counts are wimps compared to mine. As long as she's not promiscuous and practiced safe sex. I lost my virginity to one of my ex-gfs (dated for 2.5 yrs) who had multiple ex-bfs and was sexual with all of them. She was a good sensei I must say and I never c… | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 07:50 AM |
| 135 | I’m finally starting to become more physicalAnd from "I'm single and feeling lonely." to "Why can't this girl stfu for a second?" Lmao | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 07:43 AM |
| 5 | I’m finally starting to become more physicalIf being naive and "not getting it" is helping us to get girls then we will stay this way, thanks. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 07:06 AM |
| 6 | I’m finally starting to become more physicalAnd bitching on the internet to random strangers will surely help you get laid. Might as well channel that energy on improving yourself. I doubt you did much of any self-improvement with that attitude of yours. OP on the other hand, is on the right track. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 06:51 AM |
| 0 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?Why should she help? Nobody owes anyone anything. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 02:33 AM |
| 6 | I really dont understand girls....Man up and ask her out. Fastest way to the friendzone or even worse is being a snapchat buddy with no balls to make a move. | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 01:39 AM |
| 2 | A married, mother of two set the BAR high!Absolutely despise people like you. Stirring unnecessary drama and ruining other people’s relationships and lives. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 07:48 PM |
| 3 | It's okay to feel jealous. Feel it. Just don't act on it. Keep on working to be the best version of yourself, because that's all you can really be. Like straight up. Don't fake shit or try to justify yourself to fit in or "seem normal". Fuck that shit.Overcoming pain and hardship is the true path to grow and improvement. Embrace the struggle, and look forward my friend. | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 04:43 PM |
| 6 | It's okay to feel jealous. Feel it. Just don't act on it. Keep on working to be the best version of yourself, because that's all you can really be. Like straight up. Don't fake shit or try to justify yourself to fit in or "seem normal". Fuck that shit.You have a wonderful example and resource to learn from. Cherish the opportunity. Maybe he or his gf can help you hook up with someone. | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Can someone who's good at Tinder messaging tell me what you do, because I'm a lost cause?4 messages max. Strong opener, flirt or tease with her replies, capitalize on the vibe and ask her out for bubble tea (girls love bubble tea) Half the time they either ghost/unmatch or agrees with the date and give you their number (personal experience). | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | 3 MONTHSYou need to work on your grammar and punctuation. Your post is a complete eyesore and I had to read it 3 times to understand it. Poor penmanship isn’t attractive. Not to break it to you, but your chances are next to none. You took waaaaaay too long to do anything (No “let’s study together” session, no contact info, no hangout, and ofc 3 months of not talking DESPITE being in the SAME class ffs) which make you either seem uninterested or NOT confident at all (your last interaction was poor). Also… | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Can someone who's good at Tinder messaging tell me what you do, because I'm a lost cause?Serious question are not necessarily boring but they required a certain degree of investment from the other side when all you are to her is another stranger dude out of 100 matches who is trying to talk into her pants. Whilst another guy is teasing, flirting and spiking positive emotions with light hearted jokes and banters which is much more likely to grab the attention of the girl and potentially lead to a date. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Is there a compiled list of comments/posts to help me stop being a bitch?Lol tbh no amount of lists, advices, videos will fundamentally help you here. I used to be like you, reading/watching all sorts of materials out there but not taking a single action. And then one day I had enough of myself and decided to go approach. It’s super hard, going from 0 to 1, but there is no shortcut. You have to do it,and just enjoy the ride. My first approach was horrible but I always smile when I looked back at it. | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Is she still interested?Just go for it lol, whats there to lose? And please don’t ask for her snapchat, just ask her number. Don’t be one of her thousand followers lol | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Any beginners new to game interested in joining a master mind group?Def interested. | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her.lmao what a dick comment | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Moved too fast and got dumped a week after... Any advice?Haha I’m all ears for any opinions. I def think this is also a strong factor, or else she won’t mention that to me at all. Anyways, I’m moving on. Plenty of other cuties would love to date me and Im not wasting my time on her. | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Moved too fast and got dumped a week after... Any advice?We are both east Asians but from different countries. She is quite emotionally immature compared to me. I def think herself (who is feeling pressured) and her talk with her parents pushed her over the edge and came to this conclusion. | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Moved too fast and got dumped a week after... Any advice?Word my friend. Definitely not waiting around and moving forward. I've got a bunch of stuff to work on (I'm a grad student) and plenty of girls on the line to talk to. It's just I genuinely like her but oh well whatever... | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 05:41 AM |
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