verkadalai Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	A happy yet sad post to read at the same time - Adult men and support	Marriage/Children	verkadalai	/r/MensRights	15/05/21 08:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do you check if the friend that said "No" to a date is having a change of heart ? He can go be friends with other women. In this specific case, OP is romantically interested in said woman. Wanting to maintain comms because she wants to (“she sounds excited about meeting again”) is weak posture.	/r/seduction	13/07/25 12:50 PM
11	How do you check if the friend that said "No" to a date is having a change of heart ? Please do yourself a favour and move on. Do not engage as a friend. How are you going to signal to her that you were serious about wanting something romantic with her, if you give her the attention she needs without receiving what you want? Your value diminishes in her eyes. If you stop engaging, there will come a time when she asks “hey how are we not engaging much these days” and that’s your time to say, I am interested in you romantically, if you are open to that, let’s talk. She will value y…	/r/seduction	12/07/25 09:55 PM
1	I spent the last 2 weeks studying online dating algorithms Interested in the pdf please, thank you!	/r/seduction	25/06/25 07:28 AM
9	Confessions of a retired man-whore turned intimacy dropout Ok	/r/seduction	06/05/25 06:34 PM
22	Approached a 10 in a group of girls Rule 0 of group approach is to NOT go for the target directly, instead make the target work for your attention by building up status with the rest.	/r/seduction	03/10/24 05:56 PM
3	Why self improvement won't solve your dating problems Your argument raises important points about communication but oversimplifies the broader picture: Oversimplification of Self-Improvement: You suggest men who focus on self-improvement are avoiding dating, but in reality, building confidence and self-esteem through self-improvement makes communication and attraction more effective. False Dichotomy Between Communication and Self-Improvement: You pit communication skills against self-improvement, but both are interconnected; developing one enhances…	/r/seduction	03/09/24 11:08 PM
7	9 seduction facts I wish I knew earlier! RIP inbox	/r/seduction	28/10/22 08:37 AM
1	Feminist GF seems unsympathetic to mens issues, sees most men as assholes. Is this a red flag to break it off? It is time to dump her and move on. Good luck, don’t fear.	/r/MensRights	21/09/21 06:50 AM
1	A happy yet sad post to read at the same time - Adult men and support Thank you for the sympathy.	/r/MensRights	16/05/21 05:59 PM
3	A happy yet sad post to read at the same time - Adult men and support It was happy to read this post because some guy out there has a caring wife who understood the need to do this and did him right. On the other hand, it was sad to read this post because a man felt that it was such an out-of-the-way experience (which it shouldn’t be) that he felt the need to share it with such gratitude. For every adult man out there who yearns for attention and comfort but doesn’t get it, here’s a giant hug for you.	/r/MensRights	15/05/21 08:52 PM
1	Found at my work. Could you imagine if the roles were reversed? Blatantly unfair for men to have to go to the 2nd floor just to use washroom. A toilet	/r/MensRights	22/09/19 10:11 AM