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This is my question too... I lived in Berlin for 6 months last year and I never had such a great period seducing women.
/r/seduction15/10/14 06:38 PM
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I can have conversations, I can meet new people, I can kino, but my conversations are usually interesting but not "fun." I can sometimes have the other girl laughing a few minutes after meeting her, but this seems random.
/r/seduction03/10/14 08:52 AM
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Depends on where you live, your culture, etc. A tanned person would be drastically out of place in Norway, as a very pale person would be in Brazil. Get a tan if you want one, but the idea that a tan is healthy is old and wrong. You get enough vitamin D after only 10 minutes casually in the sun if you're fair-skinned.
/r/seduction22/08/14 08:40 PM
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Yes, but you need to push your boundaries if you want to get to that point in the first place.
/r/seduction08/07/14 02:28 PM
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Different perspectives. "A man wants to fuck a thousand women. A woman wants to fuck the same guy a thousand times." Also, you have limiting beliefs.
/r/seduction04/07/14 08:14 PM
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I just ask if she's single, or I assume she's not until she tells me. I don't see why this needs to be complicated.
/r/seduction11/06/14 11:18 AM
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Huh? Obviously you don't walk up to random women on the street and molest them... I'm assuming OP was having a proper, flirty chat and might have forgotten to engage physically. I don't know about all these complicated conditions you describe. If you like her you should touch her at some point, arm, shoulder, lower back, whatever. If they like me they'll reciprocate.
/r/seduction26/05/14 12:58 PM
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Your ancestors didn't spend the last several thousands of years writing "wadup gurl" notes to each other. What's a "phone voice"?
/r/seduction25/05/14 02:59 PM
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Did you touch her? Next time, ensure that you interact physically as well.
/r/seduction25/05/14 02:44 PM
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My last girlfriend was 5 years older than me. I was 22, she was 27. No game change. She's just a person, don't over think it.
/r/seduction23/05/14 05:14 PM
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Why does it have to be complicated? If we made out before getting to my place, she knows we're going to bang.
/r/seduction20/05/14 05:57 PM
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This is a good mindset. "Is she right for me?" is superior to "How can I get her to approve of me?"
/r/seduction11/05/14 05:59 PM
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It may not be what you want to hear, but her attempts to guilt you like that is emotional manipulation, no question. I would agree that she's crazy, but in some ways you're crazy too for sticking around somebody who's that toxic. From what you've written, her entire purpose in the relationship appears to make you feel as shitty as possible. You should acknowledge that she has some problems, but you can't save herself from them. You can't change other people, and if you've tried to change yoursel…
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:33 PM
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It's you. The type of behavior you express will lead you to women who express something that "fits" it. There are two guys I know, every woman they've dated, consistently, has been a little mad. Based on their relative experiences, they believe all women are crazy. I've never experienced this myself. My last two girlfriends were extremely rational, but knew how to have fun. We never had arguments (I would have called them calm debates), never yelled at each other. I don't know the details of you…
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:17 PM
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I know seddit has always had people plugging their blogs constantly, but lately it seems like it has been more of an advert aggregate than usual.
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:55 PM
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Not a shit test. If she was shy, you should have calibrated and pulled back the aggression a bit. Of course, we have no idea what your interaction was like. Don't assume everything is a shit test. Just be yourself, be assertive, be honest.
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:48 PM
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For the amount of time it takes versus the results you get, it's terrible. Go outside. Humans didn't spend the last 10,000 years seducing each other with "u dtf gurl??"
/r/seduction06/05/14 12:50 PM
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Yeah, PUA helps to a certain degree. PUA taught me that I had to approach women myself, but my success went in reverse once I started to do over analyze conversations. Just like your life and be happy from within, don't attach your happiness to other people.
/r/seduction06/05/14 12:45 PM
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Who cares, just try, or you'll get nowhere with it. If they know that you're still learning the language, they should be forgiving about your mistakes. The fact that I knew a tiny bit of Swedish seemed to go a long way with a girl I started shagging, though like most things relating to seduction, my confidence must have helped much more than a "language opener." Also, "wow! No one who lives outside of Sweden cares to learn it!" despite knowing only "Jag ar" plus a few words. If they know you're …
/r/seduction26/04/14 08:31 PM
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You should be speaking Niederlandish already, at least conversationally. I'm in Austria, and while nearly all women here speak English, I always open in German and take it as far as I can go, they usually respect an Anglophone who's trying to learn their language despite "not needing to."
/r/seduction26/04/14 02:24 PM
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You're 1.5 inches taller than me and you've gone to counselling over it? You can't change your height man, women might say passively that they prefer taller guys, but once they realize that you have an attractive personality, are confident and don't give a fuck, they won't care if you're a foot shorter than them.
/r/seduction26/04/14 02:20 PM
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Whether you've already had sex with her, or haven't even dated, there is no way this can go well.
/r/seduction19/04/14 01:07 PM
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If you are actually intelligent, then you'll still be perceived that way if you're less verbose. Often more so if you can articulate big ideas.
/r/seduction19/04/14 01:02 PM
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Terrible attitude, girls would be attracted to the fact that you're passionate about something, but they wouldn't be that interested in hearing the gritty details. Bad: "I much prefer Gentoo over Arch, it does blahl albalalhalbalhlahl" Good: "I love creating stuff! I love getting in front of a keyboard and creating something, working hard as fuck and bringing something into reality!"
/r/seduction04/04/14 08:03 PM
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Changing yourself (as you and many in this sub have discovered) is really difficult. Trying to get someone else to change is many times more difficult, if not impossible. There are people who have 1, 2 heart attacks and still fail to change their diet or begin to exercise.
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:03 AM
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I'd say thinking too much. Once a girl sees how fun and assertive (plus other good qualities) you are, she will care less and less about shit like that.
/r/seduction08/03/14 11:08 PM
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Hey Seddit, I don't think this deserves a thread, so I'll ask here. I have a girl who I don't find 100% physical attractive after me. The problem is, she's in a few of my classes, and I find her rather cool otherwise. In short, how do I friendzone her? Like an idiot, I kissed her (and three other girls) at a house party after a drink or two, though she's the only one who's still contacting me. I've tried acting like my "pre-seddit" self around her, eg: being unfunny and boring, but it's hard to …
/r/seduction03/03/14 10:01 PM
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Say whatever you want, its more about how you say it than what you say. Also, nightclubs are loud. You've better off dancing with (not around) the girl, being physical, but don't expect to talk a whole lot with loud music going on. This allows you to isolate ("Lets go somewhere quieter"). Bad: "Hey that's a nice dress you're wearing." Decent: "Hi, I'm blobass42, who are you?" "High risk high reward" RSD Julian/Jeffy style: "Dog!" "Who the fuck are you?" "My ex-girlfriend cheated on me with my da…
/r/seduction01/03/14 11:28 AM
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My instinct says "shit test" but there isn't a lot of information here. You also said you're seeing a lot of flakes, so it might be something that you're not "memorable" enough. You were called "sweet," (in combination with a flake) and where I'm from, that could mean you were overly supplicating, maybe you were complimenting her too much?
/r/seduction25/01/14 09:35 AM
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Same for me man. /u/NanotechMagikarp, if you get her in your bed and she still hasn't asked about your lack of experience, keep these things in mind: Practice putting the condom on, do it a few times, because even though I did this, I got performance anxiety when the time came and I would end up losing my erection. Somehow this didn't give me away. Don't hesitate, just go at it, do whatever, if she likes it, she'll let you know via moans. Kiss all over, put your fingers in her. Don't stay in one…
/r/seduction30/12/13 08:34 AM
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No, this wasn't my first time closing, it's just the most recent one... And the fastest, I usually have to do more conversation and kino stuff before I get to the same position. I genuinely wasn't in the mood last night, at least I got my day two. I know about fools mate, and I don't disagree. This was probably the easiest one I've gotten, but it's also the least amount of effort I've ever put in, in that I was detached from outcome. I don't think I learned nothing.
/r/seduction20/12/13 07:32 PM
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Not much else to say, you've surely been reading the links posted on this subreddit which have likely explained what you're potentially doing wrong. Once you know, you'll be able to apply it the next time you socialize/seduce. For me, I had been talking to girls all of my life, making them laugh, making friends out of them, yet never had a girlfriend. It wasn't until I read some of the stuff on this subreddit did I realize that I hadn't been making physical contact with them, making first moves …
/r/seduction18/12/13 06:36 AM
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Exposure and practice. Get yourself into more social interactions and learn through experience.
/r/seduction17/12/13 11:10 PM
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Shoulder is "safest" but you need to escalate to elbow, lower back or hand, face, lips. If she's touching you back, and you're vibing well, then keep going.
/r/seduction11/12/13 11:12 AM
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I'm 5'7", and sometimes I do feel the same. I just don't allow it to bother me. Height is something you can't change, so there's no point in worrying about it.
/r/seduction09/12/13 09:30 AM
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Keep going man! Don't give up! You said that you made some progress already, so keep going and make more!
/r/seduction07/12/13 07:59 AM
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How you say it vs what you say
/r/seduction07/12/13 07:42 AM
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Push him to talk to people (if he needs it). Just have fun with him, laugh a lot, etc. Demonstrate that he's a cool dude via your behaviour around him. I don't think there's a need to be blatant eg: "He's a good lay."
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:22 AM
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Dating sites aren't good because if you're a man, that woman has gotten 50 messages already before you've sent one. You're putting in a lot of work and not getting a lot of reward. To her, you're text with a picture attached. Real life is much better because the fact that you approached a woman is impressive in-itself. You also get to use your body language, touch, and there's no lag time between the words. To her, you're a person with a voice and 3 dimensions. Hope this makes sense.
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:17 AM
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"Let's meet at X place at Y time to do Z, then after we can do A, B and C. Are you down? See you there!" Actual conversations are to be done in person. Text messaging is to initiate physical meetings. 99% of romantic interactions with women should be in person, because communication is more than the content of your speech; it's mostly your body language, tone of voice, and in seduction: touch. All of this is lost over text messaging.
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:12 AM
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Friendzone tips: If you're in one, your chances of getting out are almost zero Difference between friend and relationship is touch. If she isn't okay with your hand on her lower back, she won't be okay with your dick in her vagina. I had no problems with getting "female friends" for a long time, wondering why I kept getting friendzoned, and after I discovered r/seduction, I found that the touch barrier change made HUGE difference for me. As it has been said, make your intentions known. Get that …
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:02 AM
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Well, all I eventually got was a phone number. My friend and I were waiting for a bus outside of a dorm party in Berlin, as we'd drank enough and were heading to one of the nightclub districts. There are two attractive women at the bus and we ask the obvious stuff. "Where are you from? Have you checked out Berghain?" etc. We acted like goofs and were super funny. They were spent and were heading home, but they agreed to go to a nightclub with me the following week.
/r/seduction28/11/13 11:37 PM
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For the sake of your relationships, you should make sure the girl getting something out of it. You've probably read this in a few places, but you should be (depends on the girl of course) foreplaying for 10-15 minutes before you penetrate. Use your fingers as well and try to touch her navel from inside-out. Go for that spot with your dick as well. As for your lack of feeling, it probably has less to do with frequency of fapping and more to do with intensity. If you're choking your dick then yes,…
/r/seduction27/11/13 03:13 AM
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My tips: Who cares, just talk to her on the bus even if your friends are there. They'll be impressed by your ballsiness, and you'll have "social proof." I assume this ride is fairly short, so there isn't much time to "build rapport" so just establish that you're a fun guy, demonstrate that you're interested (touch her, etc) and get her number. If you're in Spain, you'll probably have to come off stronger than if you were in North America, assuming you're an expat. Latino cultures generally have …
/r/seduction27/11/13 12:25 AM
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You tell them early on that you "don't want anything serious" and that you're seeing other people.
/r/seduction14/09/13 05:33 AM
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Which universe do you live in, and how did you travel to it?
/r/seduction14/09/13 05:32 AM
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By being interested in things. Having lived in two very different cultures gives you a lot you can talk about.
/r/seduction14/09/13 05:24 AM
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10 girls is not a large sample size..
/r/seduction16/08/13 10:37 AM
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Or you could say the truth."I want to meet some new people." Do whatever the fuck you want and stop being insecure.
/r/seduction29/07/13 02:09 PM
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Day game. Or you could keep making excuses for yourself, and change nothing.
/r/seduction06/07/13 07:34 AM
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Yes you can.
/r/seduction03/07/13 10:20 AM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction16/06/13 08:46 AM
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Text/phone should only be for setting up physical meetings.
/r/seduction15/06/13 09:51 PM
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I think the first bits are hard. Even if you try and fail, you can at least tell yourself that you tried. That you made an incremental improvement. "I tried. I know what I did wrong and I learned from it." If you've read all of the sidebar stuff, then you probably know what's up.
/r/seduction11/06/13 11:12 PM
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If there's a barrier between "non-sexual" and "sexual," then you're better off starting at the "low end" of "sexual" and escalating. Make sure you maintain eye contact, touch, etc.
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:54 AM
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1) Yea I am, what turns you on about players? This takes a SHITLOAD of confidence to pull off Why a "shitload" of confidence?
/r/seduction15/12/12 02:53 AM
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