very_betic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Any reason you'd swipe LEFT if you liked someone IRL? I would assume if I had aasked a girl out and she basically said no and hadn’t reciprocated like the flirting with the touching that she wasn’t interested in me and that would warrant a left swipe.	/r/seduction	30/07/20 03:30 AM
1	[22yo - M] i don't have social media presence. what do i say when a girl wants me to add her in Instagram/Snapchat ?? I’d say explain you don’t have, but do so with a joke to make it sound less creepy/serial killer. Cause that’s why people get weirded out when you say you don’t use, like why not what’s wrong with you/what are you trying to hide? Instead just make it lighthearted right from the get go. Something along lines of no I don’t have an Instagram, I’m far too busy building model train sets in my basement. Or if you’re looking for something more impressive then how I talk something like ya if I used Snap…	/r/seduction	30/11/19 09:09 AM
2	I want hook-ups, but every girl I've went on dates with expects a relationship Well the way I look at it you arnt misleading them at all. I was tired of getting in the situation where girls who were looking for more then me were getting hung up (sucks and makes you feel shit in my opinion). I say just straight up tell them sure a lotta guys on here will disagree. But they bring up really liking you and wanting to wait you say ya I really like you too and enjoyed whatever we did together bla bla bla but I’m not really looking for anything too serious right now, but did like…	/r/seduction	13/02/19 08:01 AM
4	Females at the club randomly sipping my drink? It’s not really a cool thing to do but is pretty normal in my opinion. Lotta girls I know go to the club and spend zero of their own dollars and will drink and do more drugs then me. Just how clubs and bars work girls kind of expect every guy to be the “let me buy you a drink” guy. They probably just assumed you’d be fine with it cause they’re kind of used too	/r/seduction	09/02/19 03:08 PM
1	Why is being a gamer or liking video games seen as a obstacle in getting a girlfriend? It’s a hobby that involves you sitting alone in your house in order to do. Kind of a set back when you’re trying to meet women. Not like you can’t have both, but any time you’re playing video games is a time you won’t be meeting girls.	/r/seduction	29/09/18 08:10 PM
3	If you manage to get a girl to enter your bedroom, does that mean she wants to have sex? Just because a girl agrees to come to your bedroom no it does not mean she wants to have sex, nor does it mean you have consent to try to, unless she has made it clear that you do. If however she comes to your house jumps in your bed and pulls you in after her, different story. An easy way to know is to just ask, the worst thing that can happen when you ask is getting a no, much better then potential consequences of not asking.	/r/seduction	25/09/18 08:20 AM
1	Girl Cancelled On Me 30min Late To Support a Male Friend Who Had "Bad News and Needed to Vent" Depends on what your plans were I think. If you had a legitimate date to go on that you planned yes I think that would be fairly rude, considering she waited till 30 min after to tell you. If the plan was to come to your house and watch a movie and fuck or something, I personally would have no problem with someone skipping out on that to console a friend.	/r/seduction	25/09/18 08:11 AM
1	5'3 guy on Tinder. I think first dudes totally right, if you make it a joke you’re proving to them it doesn’t matter to you, doesn’t bother you. Doesn’t matter what joke. And if you can’t/are unable to make jokes about it then your issue is a lack of confidence not height. Women can smell that from 10 miles away. You have to be completely secure in who and what you are at the very least.	/r/seduction	24/08/18 08:45 PM
11	5'3 guy on Tinder. I’m 5’7 and usually make a joke about being sure to wear my heels so we can slow dance and I’ll be taller or something stupid, I also prefer to say at some point before meeting up because some girls just don’t like short guys nothing wrong with that so I feel weird not telling them just in case they do have a problem with it	/r/seduction	23/08/18 12:05 AM
2	Struggling with developing my inner game. Sounds to me like maybe you’re focusing on the outer game TOO much. People arnt looking for a power lifting guitar playing good looking guy, just a friend/significant other who they can relate with. Being able to confidently approach and talk/tease/joke with people are much more important. Try striking up more conversations with anyone and everyone who seems open too it. If those conversations go bad alright, but in time you’ll find someone who clicks/enjoys you. If you come up screaming look ho…	/r/seduction	04/04/18 12:14 AM
1	How do I (mentally) get past my height? I’m 5’6-5’7 in US as well and I think a lot of it is finding the right girl. People in general are shallow. So in the same way a lot of guys don’t want to fuck an overweight chick, a lot of girls don’t want to fuck a short dude. Just the way of the world. But that’s not to say all girls are like that. The best advice I could give is to approach any woman with confidence, and if she is not into it then she’s not into it and accept defeat with grace. But doing that you will definitely he able to f…	/r/seduction	02/03/18 04:02 AM
2	How do you cope with not being attractive enough for women to approach YOU? In my opinion girls rarely react to just looks alone! Even if you’re the best looking guy in the room, if you’re awkward/a drag doesn’t mean that guy is going to do any better. Just handle yourself with confidence, and put your best foot forward. If you’re funny, show them that. If you’re a good listener, make that known. It’s mostly about the way you handle yourself in a situation, I’d say your looks are less important then that. I mean how often do you see a dopey looking guy with a girl way o…	/r/seduction	02/03/18 03:47 AM