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I know Tate lied and said OF girls “easily” make 10k a month I heard Tate say the opposite in a recent podcast guest appearance, claiming 99% of OF girls dont make money
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 05:28 AM
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Forums in general like these are filled by majority amateur "coaches". What you should really do is read books and blogs of established professionals in self help & self development. This subreddit has its own book recommendations too, many of which answer 90% of the questions people post on here. What I do now with this sub is, if there's a concept or idea I learn from an expert, I search this forum for further reading and discussions people have had about it. I've been in the seduction game fo…
/r/seduction15/04/20 05:12 PM
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I'd also add that if you can't find a girl to lack anything, try to see her potential. So if you mentally move the goalpost, something she already has will become lacking.
/r/seduction30/09/18 10:24 PM
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Make a verbal observation that suggests you know something she doesn't know. Then when she responds with 'why?', share why you think that observation is true. The more detailed, unexpected and non-generic the observation, the better. So "Are you a model?" is probably the worst you can use. Have you ever seen an advertisement and thought "I never knew I needed this in my life until I saw this!" Works kind of the same way.
/r/seduction30/09/18 10:17 PM
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The trick is to stop trying to predict her reaction. Whatever you say in the moment, say what you want to say however you want to. If she gets pissed off, stand your ground and justify your position. You'll stay dominant in the power struggle and get away with anything this way. Remain light hearted throughout the whole interaction and she will follow your vibe and grow more playful.
/r/seduction30/09/18 10:05 PM
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TLDR: Live a life that you yourself are satisfied with, independent of the women. And if you're not satisfied with yourself, I hope you're making continuous progress to fix it. Then your vibe will attract the women.
/r/seduction01/06/18 02:55 AM
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Problem about texting is you relying on text messages to validate that you're popular or well loved is a bad idea. There are many other things that determine where you stand in your relationship with another person. Take a look at your own messaging habits. Chances are you ignore (or are late to reply to) your friends messages as well, but that doesn't really affect your friendships does it? It's just a temporary shift in priorities that passes and changes over time. Recently there's a girl I'm …
/r/seduction15/05/17 02:24 AM
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Probably should be asking someone else since i'm in my mid 20s... but where do you go meet your buddies? I feel like there's no good place to meet women in my area
/r/seduction15/05/17 02:17 AM
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I just wrote an article here about where to meet women. Where to meet women depends on what YOU are interested in learning about, not where the women actually are.
/r/seduction23/04/17 08:30 PM
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establishing attraction even when you very little in common LOL.. no. If you have very little in common with someone, you two will not have a connection. You'll get very miserable trying unless you genuinely like what they like. Plus the girls will also avoid the shit out of you after sensing you're miserable. Look, I understand you're angry at OP because his post is basically saying throw away all the dating advice you've ever learned 'cause they're all useless, but it'll make more sense after …
/r/seduction17/04/17 08:24 PM
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Assuming you're not trolling, you completely missed the point of what OP means by that statement. He's saying you don't have to do what all the other popular kids do to get girls in terms of hobbies / activities. Yes, you can go out and meet girls but you don't have to partake in the same things they do, because there are other ways.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:48 AM
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models drags it out in a long mental masturbation session Models is one of those books where by the end of it you think "well duh, I could've thought of writing that" but you didn't. So yes, Models does drag things out, but it's necessary to hammer into the noggins the basic social skills / concepts for the men who've been over-thinking and over complicating dating for too many years of their lives. OP's list is good but IMO not a replacement for the actual book. It's been months since I finishe…
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:43 AM
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And that's enough to give you a decent response rate? At least that's a better copypaste than a generic question or some cringey pickup line, although at only 2 words long it looks a bit of a bore
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:20 PM
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This method is a way of dealing with the internal so that the change becomes permanent and doesn't have to make someone rely on anything external to live in a confident, attractive state. How is this different from the vulnerability concept in Mark Manson's Models? Because to me it sounds exactly the same. If you haven't read Models, feel free to say so. Because it sounds to me you're trying to reinvent the wheel, creating a concept another author already created
/r/seduction03/03/17 08:28 AM
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You don't have to be invited to something to go to something. Lots of college events are open for anyone to show up to. Start with what your own favorite hobbies are and look for a club that does just that. It's much harder to meet people after college is over, so don't waste your time muttering over your perceived levels of worth (emphasis on PERCEIVED - it's all just in your head). Also, shouldn't your college have a mental health clinic? I'd recommend visiting them. It should be covered with …
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:12 PM
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You're a complete stranger that implies that you know every deep dark secret about her just from one picture of her face. Stalker much?
/r/seduction01/03/17 10:57 PM
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Could you share some of these blogs? I've seen such a demonstration on Tinder but never before on other sites
/r/seduction28/02/17 09:48 PM
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Well in that case I'd love to see you make a big writeup on why a simple "hey" is all you need to get all the women you want on the internet. Right now you're just throwing huge claims, or you're trolling.
/r/seduction28/02/17 09:21 AM
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Glad you asked. Basic idea is, instead of asking questions, predict what the answer is going to be. Like instead of asking "What're your hobbies?" say something like "You look like you'd be an artist." One of two things will happen here: You guess correctly - her mind will be racing wondering how you knew she's an artist. You guess wrong - she'll still be wondering what it is you see in her that makes you think she's an artist. Bottom line is you're giving an aura of mystery that you can't give …
/r/seduction28/02/17 04:35 AM
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what else would you expect from a username like mine?
/r/seduction28/02/17 04:30 AM
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Its not impossible to do well on there, but the odds are terrifying. Imo it isnt worth the effort it would take, and your energy would be better invested elsewhere. I knew of a girl who was a HUGE advocate of online dating. Even though she juggled through online boyfriends like going through toilet paper - never kept a relationship for longer than 8 months. Now she met someone in person and it's been long past the 8 month mark. Most stable relationship of her life. Go figure.
/r/seduction28/02/17 04:30 AM
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Thanks! I've already read so much dating advice at this point the ideas just flowed.
/r/seduction27/02/17 11:00 PM
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Don't use sites Here's the thing guys, online dating is like applying for jobs. Men are the hundreds of candidates trying to land a gig, and women are the employers posting their openings looking for candidates, needing to sort through hundreds of resumes to find the few with the best potential. In other words, online dating is completely skewed against men. Every single person I know who has recommended online dating to me or found love online has been a girl. The real world is the answer. This…
/r/seduction19/01/17 08:04 PM
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This video is all you need. Seriously. Watch it several times if you need to.
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:12 AM
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Where do you find women who are so open like that? Where I live all the acceptable looking women are sheltered as fuck, never confident enough to meet a stranger from the internet, especially from such a short time from match to meet
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:09 AM
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On top of Models by Mark Manson, be sure to subscribe to his column too (markmanson.net). Those articles of his give you huuuge insight on how to live an overall fulfilling life, not just in dating & relationships. I easily lose myself jumping from article to article, just on his website.
/r/seduction28/04/16 07:26 AM
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"how do I know if this girl is worth meeting out?" Since I, and everyone else, agrees that meeting in person is so much better than online, I figured pushing the in-person meetup early would be better to see if she fits my values. But you're right, noone has the time & energy to meet strangers they may be completely incompatible with.
/r/seduction28/04/16 07:19 AM
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OP, good post, but none of your examples include talking to a complete stranger for the first time. And I have a big problem thinking of what to say to complete strangers. All that comes to my mind is "wow she's hot / cute" and that's it. Usually happens in the daytime when I'm very focused on my errands. Help?
/r/seduction08/03/16 03:37 PM
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You missed the point of this post. It's about acknowledging & embracing the discomfort and openly letting her know that. Also she probably has discomfort too 'cause you're a stranger, so open expression of awkwardness puts you two on the same page.
/r/seduction08/03/16 03:33 PM
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This isn't good advice. It's safe to say that MOST college couples don't last after college is over (contrary to what Hollywood make you think), all because of changing life paths and maturity progressions that split people up. Futhermore the mentality of college-age kids are still somewhat immature, and it takes the full real world experience to change that mentality.
/r/seduction12/02/16 07:48 AM
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Thanks for sharing; I have a terrible habit of over-dwelling on making mistakes and being embarrassed and this video really helps keep me from beating myself up. Also a great "further reading" type informational video after reading about vulnerability & creepiness in Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction07/02/16 09:57 PM
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Your examples of bad responses are unrealistic Thank you. I also found his examples to be downright terrible. A lot of the "fail" responses would be perfectly fine if delivered from the right mindset & mood. Heck many of the fails even sounded better than the pass responses, either because they do a better job continuing the conversation, allows the guy to throw shit tests right back at her etc. Also, all of OP's examples of the actual shit tests coming from girls, sound like they are coming fro…
/r/seduction29/07/15 07:59 PM
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You are enough. You don't need to, and shouldn't depend on girls as your primary source of happiness. To you, your life is amazing as it is regardless of how many women you have in your life. Do you have hobbies, passions, goals? If not, get some. Imagine if a girl is head over heels into you but she has literally NOTHING else going for her in her life - bad grades in school, dead end career, no hobbies and passions, and that the only thing significant about her is that she has a crush on you. T…
/r/seduction18/07/15 06:35 PM
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I somewhat agree. OP is bashing online dating a bit too harshly. It has its advantages and disadvantages. One advantage is that it gives more power to women who want to weed out all the creepy guys she encounters in her life. A disadvantage is that being photogenic plays a much bigger role than it does otherwise - If you're not at least a 9 in your pictures the girls will just scroll past your profile. I also agree that most online daters are weird, creepy and trashy looking as f**k, with my onl…
/r/seduction14/07/15 07:52 PM
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