veryfemale Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
53	Day 1 Shower Thoughts	SHOWER THOUGHT	veryfemale	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 07:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
40	Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a woman What OP says hits super hard for the previous version of me, so, can confirm: we can and do internalize this kind of toxic dribble. Getting out of this mindset is a real journey.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/21 10:49 AM
16	Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔 Ah ha! Okay, I've caught up with the class now. Clicking that link took me to the YouTube video that has what AHS stands for; I was all over here trying to figure that out. I'm good now. sheepish grin	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/21 07:06 AM
6	Day 1 Shower Thoughts I wrote it and am quite female. I'm young and mid-career and thought "what's the worst possible match for me right now based on vector?" and came up with the retiree - instead of maybe a younger guy who could still change direction.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 06:34 PM
5	Day 1 Shower Thoughts Yup! Phoesilvle nailed it. It's shockingly important and not often discussed in the context of successful relationships.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 06:31 PM
23	Caught a man filming me yesterday Very obviously walk up to him, photograph him, his car, and his license plate. Quid pro quo.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 12:19 AM
55	Vanilla is a word created by men to shame women for not wanting to re-enact porn and be degraded I don't think humans are biologically engineered to naturally benefit from watching sex. There's a reason we yell creeper!!! at the dog when it watches us and it's not because we're doing something wrong. The dog is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 09:36 PM
37	Why do so many LVM ask you to plan the date? Laziness is a given but are they looking for a mother figure? TIL! Never thought of this. Great tip.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 09:17 PM
5	The Empathetic i Am oN yOuR sIdE Male A message is an exchange. Seems to me he is trying to take ... checks ... like 4 freaking pages worth of your attention and time and gives you exactly nothing in return. One, an intro messsage should be a short enquiry to see if you're even amenable to speaking with him. Two, a wall of TMI whether its text or verbal is a sign of an emotional and time vampire with no concept of boundaries. What do you actually get from this exchange? You're an author, not a therapist. It's fabulous that he thinks…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 09:13 PM