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| 152 | Marriage is a bigger commitment??? Huh!?!That’s something I think a lot of people are forgetting. Parenthood doesn’t end at 18. You have to look forward to that child’s adult life and all their accomplishments (graduation, marriage, kids, etc) and having to see your ex at all of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:58 AM |
| 41 | Man arrested after threatening to rape and kill a woman in her home, caught on Ring cameraCrazy because I normally answer the door if it’s still daylight out, so now I’ll be taking extra precaution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 02:21 AM |
| 70 | When did it “click” for you that’s what posted here/the principles were helping/helped you? Let’s start a list for others…A really hot guy was interested in me, he had a really great six-figure job where he was his own boss, he had his own apartment, which was really clean, and a really nice truck. But all he wanted to do was hook up with me and take me out drinking. Before FDS, I would have 100% taken him up on the offer because I would be thinking that one day it would lead to a relationship. But after FDS, I realize this is not how myself or any woman should be treated, like we are just some object he can use or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:33 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, how do you tell if you don't want kids or haven't found the right circumstances yet?I sometimes find myself having these thoughts. Especially being 27 with a good job and masters degree. I was in a horrible relationship for six years in my early 20s and came on to reddit to find that my experience was not alone, majority of men are trash. I don’t have the strength or will to keep trying so I’ve kind of resigned to the fact that I’m probably never getting married. Now having kids, this is some thing I’ve gone back-and-forth on for years now. I think if it comes down to it I’ll p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:23 AM |
| 8 | Man Pens Important Message On How Anger Can Escalate Into Acts Of Domestic ViolenceYep, I always asked my ex if he acted this way at work when something didn’t go his way or something upset him but nope…. But was perfectly fine destroying our house and laying his hands on me behind closed doors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:20 PM |
| 9 | Man Pens Important Message On How Anger Can Escalate Into Acts Of Domestic ViolenceSame thing happened to me the one time I called the cops on my abusive ex. He did everything BUT punch me so they didn’t do anything. Insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else traumatised by their mothers having relationships with multiple men? I wish we could normalise dating without having to move in and blend families and all of that nonsense, especially if there are kids from a previous relationship.YES, twice to the same man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:00 PM |
| 30 | Anyone else traumatised by their mothers having relationships with multiple men? I wish we could normalise dating without having to move in and blend families and all of that nonsense, especially if there are kids from a previous relationship.I just had this argument with my mom the other day and it got really really ugly. I’m 27 and I’m sick of being a part of my parents nonsense when it comes to them just up and marrying whoever they feel like. My mom has been married 9 times and my dad is coming up on his 6th marriage. I don’t care to meet their significant others anymore or be a part of the circus. I told my mom by her picking piece of shit man to be in my life that has deeply impacted the way I act around men today. She told me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 53 | Moving cities for a better dating pool? Looking for advice on what to consider. (city ratio of women:men is too high)It’s one of the reasons I’m moving next year. (not my top reason y’all, not even in my top 10, but it IS a reason, don’t come at me) I’m going from Orlando, Florida to Chicago, Illinois. The men in Orlando SUCK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:38 AM |
| 42 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?Pass my final certification test I need for my masters degree, graduating Fall 2021. Work on different hairstyles for when I return to work in person for the fall. I dyed my hair back to my natural color recently and want to stop relying on hair color (I had a baylage) to make my hair “pretty” and instead want to change up my actual hairstyle with different braids/ponytails/accessories, if that makes sense (less damaging and better for the wallet) Want to get back in a consistent exercise routin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:18 PM |
| 16 | JUST A FRIENDLY REMINDER: If he’s a HVM and wants to be intimate with you he will get tested for STDs firstAlso, hopping on this comment. My ex boyfriend of six years got tested in the beginning but found out later in the relationship that he was cheating on me throughout the years and I didn’t get tested (after the initial test) because I thought I was in a committed relationship. Even in a committed relationship, even married, I will continuously get STD tested throughout my life because you can never really be sure about someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:57 PM |
| 122 | Level up for your daughter's sake! An interesting article about father LVM's influence on women's expectations of men and in turn their sexual behaviourInteresting, so basically it’s saying that having a father in the home who is a LVM is worse than having no father in the home at all. As the oldest daughter, I had the most time with my father in the home before my parents divorced versus my sisters and I’m definitely more promiscuous and have had more sexual partners and my view of men in general is lower than them. So this article is saying that if your husband or a child’s father is an LVM, it’s better for the kids to leave and be a single p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 03:03 AM |
| 22 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?Omg the wear and tear on my car because his was a POS and we constantly used mine… Idk why but out of all the financial abuse this bothered me the most | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 13 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?Damnnnn I have lived this exact life. Insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:53 PM |
| 24 | Single? Happy?!?Also agreed with you and OP. The illusion was all shattered when I moved into a place with an ex boyfriend. I couldnt believe how much things changed and how I was treated. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 15 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️Ended up apologizing in a conversation with my ex boyfriend about him cheating on me and begging for him to not leave me lolllll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:15 PM |
| 116 | Wife gets divorce so her husband can marry his foreign girlfriend. I think she may be the supreme pickme queen.Oh she’s the WORST. Idk if it’s stupidity, being a pickme, or being brainwashed/abused but somethings not right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 13 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂Omg 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 7 | Some more male delusionYeah another person (it has since been deleted) Commented saying it’s my fault because I didn’t establish boundaries. What boundaries am I trying to establish? I’m being friendly in my job??? So that’s an open invitation to hit on me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Some more male delusionYeah I would never date a male teacher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 14 | Some more male delusionLmao well those women are much more beautiful than me but those were the closest thing to me so you can get a visual 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 87 | Some more male delusionI’ve asked some of my former students who have him now how he acts and they say he’s not inappropriate but he’s constantly making “jokes” that aren’t funny and he gets mad when no one laughs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 93 | Some more male delusionTHIS!!!! Literally all these modern rom-coms make them think the loser can get the hot girl. It’s literally being played out right before my eyes and when he’s rejected idk what kind of retaliation will happen. That’s why I made up the fake boyfriend- because men respect this made up person more than me just straight up saying no because I DONT WANT TO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 20 | Anyone else notice when eldest woman in the family passes away the entire family falls apart?Literally this exact thing happened to my family when my paternal grandmother passed. I had a huge family with 20+ cousins that got together every Thanksgiving and Christmas at my grandmothers house and I literally haven’t seen them since her funeral eight years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:36 PM |
| 73 | Or when they try to turn every conversation into a sexual one...I’m saving this and sending this to the next guy who does this to me and THEN I’ll block them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:52 PM |
| 116 | What are our thoughts on social media?Side story real quick. My ex-boyfriend used social media religiously and would post me all the time for the six years we were together. That didn’t stop him from cheating on me with girls he found off social media. Pickmeishas don’t care and sometimes it even fuels them if the guy has a bunch of pictures with his girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:44 PM |
| 16 | Just an LVM doing LVM thingsIdk why but I laughed out loud after reading this like what the fuck lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 37 | Block him. Delete his ass and get yourself a real man sis. 😭sounds like my ex 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:50 PM |
| 20 | Why do older men think they’re just as attractive or more attractive than younger men? Why do they they think they can pull 20 year olds forever?I literally just got into a fight with an ex friend last week about this. He’s 35 years old and he has his dating preferences set to the ages of 25 to 33 on tinder. When I asked him why he was trying to get a girl 10 years younger than him when his goals are to get married soon and have kids and that’s not what 25-year-olds are interested in he told me “because I am attractive”.... this dude is completely delusional. He’s balding, has a potbelly and his teeth are fucked up. Needless to say that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:02 AM |
| 9 | Start glamorizing your single life like this so you don't need a manI love this!!!! This is the goal for the rest of 2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:21 AM |
| 47 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️Five years into our relationship with my ex-boyfriend I got an abortion. I chose to take the pill at home. About five hours after the second pill I started cramping and bleeding heavily, going through a miscarriage. It was 5 o’clock in the morning and he had to work the next day and told me to shut up and close the door. Good to know there’s actual good men out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:55 PM |
| 11 | Stop caring about men who make it clear they don’t care about you!I was thinking the same thing. So sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 45 | I miss the LVM I was with. I really fucking do. But I really miss the idea of him. He wasn’t who I thought he was. And I will never regret walking away from that lie. I feel happy and free again!This hit home. I’m struggling now 2 months out of a 6 year relationship with a LVM but I know I’m better off. It’s just hard right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 15 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Abusive cheating ex was a Gemini | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 07:47 PM |
| 7 | I just watched the Notebook and thought of FDSYeah I think that’s the main point I was trying to get across, when a man likes you, he’ll do anything to win you so don’t settle for mediocre! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:58 AM |
| 10 | I just watched the Notebook and thought of FDSYES! This!!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:43 AM |
| 4 | 1 month free of a LVMThank you for this. I’m 2 months out of a 6 year relationship with an abusive, cheating, narcissistic LVM. For the most part I had been wallowing in self-pity, but that’s going to stop. I have so far made an appointment with a therapist and started back on my antidepressants as well. I’ve also starting to reconnect with old girlfriends. I need to be more aggressive with my skin care and fitness regimes and start making solid goals for my future. This comment is going to hold me accountable and I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 07:18 PM |
| 19 | He really called his son being brought into this world “B.S” I have no words...This is why I really have no hope anymore. How can you be okay treating someone this way, much less one that’s pregnant with your kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:26 PM |
| 14 | This woman owns a house with her boyfriend of 9 years. He won’t propose to her.THIS. So important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 141 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”WWII ended in 1945 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:50 PM |
| 2 | LVM really tried to send me a twitter post from a pickmeisha because I felt that he should make me a priority, DUSTY ALERT!LOL it was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 4 | LVM really tried to send me a twitter post from a pickmeisha because I felt that he should make me a priority, DUSTY ALERT!This is something my ex always bitched about because he wanted time to “make music” and I needed to understand that his hobbies came first. We were together 6 years and I was never the priority and I would literally be labeled a devil if I took time away from his hobbies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.I think it’s disrespectful to message me thinking I’d be okay sleeping with him while he’s married. I dont care if he’s in an open relationship (if that’s what the case was). I would never sleep with someone whos involved with someone else in any capacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:26 PM |
| 11 | Yas! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Don't settle for a man that doesn't make you feel like a queen!PLEASE make it make sense!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:11 PM |
| 8 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.LMAOOOOO okay that would have been awesome. I literally didn’t even reply and went straight to block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Going from a narcissistic asshole to successful good guy?Did you end up eventually finding someone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 09:25 PM |
| 4 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.Because we were cordial with each other after the break up so he still followed me. But if he didn’t think he could control himself from messaging me he should have just unfollowed me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:43 PM |
| 4 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.And the wife should be aware. Just because I said no doesn’t mean another girl won’t and he’s possibly exposing her to STDs. She needs to know the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 6 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.Exactly!!! It’s a baby too!!!! People are crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:46 PM |
| 6 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.“Got the idea I was available” LMAO HES MARRIED WTF!! doesn’t matter if I’m “available” I’m OFF LIMITS to him!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 14 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.You’re the same type of person that blames a girl getting raped because she dresses a certain way. Again, if he can’t control himself he shouldn’t be following me. I’m allowed to post whatever I want. They are not nudes, not even close. And even if they were it’s still victim-blaming and excusing the man for what he did. I’m not in a relationship I don’t have loyalty to anyone. He’s married, he shouldn’t be asking me what I’m up to at 2 o’clock in the morning when I’m his ex-girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:20 PM |
| 17 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.By risqué I mean you can see the cleavage at the top of my shirt or the shape of my body. Nothing crazy. Jesus calm down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 9 | The consequences of not vetting .Agreed. I’m thankful I got out relatively unhurt- no kids, no marriage and still have my house and awesome job and I only just turned 26. Spent 6 years with a narc LVM but the lessons I learned were priceless. I’m thankful and feel for others who lost so much to these POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 97 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.Probably the sad truth :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 30 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.Because it’s my personal Instagram? If he can’t control himself he should have removed me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:18 PM |
| 41 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.It was 2am on a Friday night and he liked a bunch of my more “risqué” pictures on Instagram moments before this was sent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:23 PM |
| 220 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.She just said “okay” smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | DON'T chase a manMe too!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:56 AM |
| 6 | You would think that mothers would at least rebuke their sons for their actions - but nopeMy ex MIL blamed me every time he cheated or physically abused me. One time even his dad got involved and said I should “leave him alone” after my ex smashed our coffee table and I sent him a picture of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:06 AM |
| 30 | Man wants to "nuke" marriage so he can fuck younger women. Shocked when people call him out.Good!!!! My ex just dumped me 3 weeks ago after 6 years together basically thinking the same thing, “why should I stay in this relationship when SO MANY other women are out there that I could sleep with” I have no idea where these thoughts came from- I checked his DMs not too long ago and he was sending tons of girls messages but literally every single one left him on read or just didn’t reply lol like where are they getting these thoughts from that ALL these women are out there want them?? He’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:45 PM |
| 15 | Man wants to "nuke" marriage so he can fuck younger women. Shocked when people call him out.“A tale as old as time” LOL love it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 19 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.Agreed! I’m on Bumble BFF trying to meet new friends and I always swipe left if it says they’re in a relationship. I dont have time for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Keep leveling up, queens!I needed this, thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:12 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone here pulled an “Elle Woods” and gotten a “revenge degree”?HELL YES!!! This is serious inspiration | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone here pulled an “Elle Woods” and gotten a “revenge degree”?I will do it for all of those reasons, also my love of the topic of my PhD (education) is my main motivation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone here pulled an “Elle Woods” and gotten a “revenge degree”?I hope so too!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 02:30 PM |
| 107 | One of my old friends shared this on facebook and tagged her husband... can't imagine 1. knowing anyone this irresponsible 2. thinking that this is cute/funny or 3. that she'd actually air her problems with him publicly like this......Omg... my ex did all of that... how the hell did i put up with that for 5 years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:34 PM |
| 19 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Education! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:44 PM |
| 53 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Looking into schools for a PhD program!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:06 PM |
| 3 | I kicked my narcissist LVM of 6 years out of my apartment after breakup and now regret it?Till the end of November :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | I kicked my narcissist LVM of 6 years out of my apartment after breakup and now regret it?I’m a teacher and just signed a contract for next year so can’t leave the area unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 06:31 PM |
| 19 | Apart from having a separate bank account and keeping your important documents at a safe place, how else can you provide security for yourself in the case of needing to exit a relationship quickly?From my experience, there is no true commitment if you’re a forever girlfriend. My ex would always threaten to leave me at any fights and was more inclined to talk to other girls because we weren’t married and he always said he “wasn’t sure about us”... basically if we were married all of the excuses he made about his actions would be invalid And we were together 6 years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Wow, are you policing how I clean now?! Guess I cant do anything right 😞😞😞Omg lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 3 | General Question : when do you feel it is appropriate to turn to a close/best friend about an issue in relation to your relationship? Or should you never do it ?I learned my lesson a long time ago to not talk about my relationship problems outside of the relationship. No one understands totally what’s going on inside the relationship other than you and your partner and when you tell other people snippets of disagreements or fights between you and your spouse, your painting a one-sided or negative view of them... and it’s sooo hard to change other people’s opinions once they are set. I tell my friends one fight between myself and my boyfriend of course t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:53 AM |
| 2 | FDS, please give me the strength to leave my boyfriend of 6 yearsHe works, yes. I am contemplating moving across the country to be with my best friend. He wouldn’t know where to find me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 34 | Pickmeisha gets cheated on by her husband who is SLEEPING WITH HER BOSS 🤡 🤡Noooo fucking wayyyyy. I was in a semi-similar situation, literally a couple weeks ago. My (ex) boyfriend was friends with this couple before we met. We had hung out with them several times and I became really close with the girlfriend and the guy became my main tattoo artist. Well last weekend, myself and my boyfriend drove to their house (in another city about 2 hours away) to get tattoos and hangout. I thought everything was fine and normal. Then my boyfriend and I got home and we got into a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:32 PM |
| 54 | If your man seeks space like this most of the time and gives the same attitude about it, give up and move on sis. It’s boring being with a moody, non-conversing, inconsiderate, stone-walling man child. He doesn’t want to spend time with you so leave itLiterally same. He considered me cooking dinner and then us eating on the couch a “date” and “spending time together” then went to hangout with his friends. When I asked for more time together he said we already spent time together when we eat dinner together every night... LOL yeah okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:57 PM |
| 98 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!Made me realize my worth and have hope that there are good men in the world, I just have to move the trash out of my way first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 5 | FDS, please give me the strength to leave my boyfriend of 6 yearsYou must know me personally because you described my life exactly. Literally to a T. Thank you so much for your advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:20 PM |
| 6 | FDS, please give me the strength to leave my boyfriend of 6 yearsThank you so much for this comment. It meant the world to me. I’m so glad you are doing better. I’ll remember your story as I take the day today to think about what I’m going to do with my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:05 PM |
| 7 | Let’s Talk About How to Discuss High Value Men On This SubAgreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:10 PM |
| 13 | Can we all take a moment to appreciate the succinctness of this probable HVM making a date?! THIS IS HOW IT SHOULD BE DONE, LADIES. Never respond to a guys text of “wyd”.Yeah sorry I’m barely seeing any effort except mentioning a restaurant lol those dots are annoying the crap out of me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:35 PM |
| 15 | Men and their social media habitsAgreed with social media being a dealbreaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 06:34 PM |
| 43 | A new mum suspects her baby has congenital syphilis due to her disloyal husband, toxic pickmeisha teases her for it. Your reminder that when LVM cheat and have multiple partners they literally endanger lives.True. I guess myself personally wouldn’t turn down any test while I was pregnant for the safety and well being of my child even if I didnt think my husband cheated. Although I’m a very skeptical and paranoid person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:27 PM |
| 139 | A new mum suspects her baby has congenital syphilis due to her disloyal husband, toxic pickmeisha teases her for it. Your reminder that when LVM cheat and have multiple partners they literally endanger lives.So sad. This is random but do they not STD test while pregnant? I was under the impression you are tested when you go in for check-ups and at the hospital when you give birth. I dont have any kids so I wouldnt know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:12 PM |
| 4 | What is everyone’s opinions here about SO liking other girls photos?I think OP is referring to thot pics which is what I was referring to. Obviously if he has a female friend whose posting pictures of nature or whatever then no I’m obviously not going to be mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 02:48 AM |
| 11 | What is everyone’s opinions here about SO liking other girls photos?It’s a HUGE pet peeve of mine. Especially if the girl is local and he’ll possibly interact with her outside of Instagram. Liking insta models pictures isn’t too much a big deal especially when she has thousands of likes. When it gets personal is when it really bothers me. Edit: to make it clear- liking ANY thot picture bothers me but if he KNOWS the girl and can interact with her and she’ll reply or he’ll see her IRL then it’s going to bother me a HELL of a lot more than random IG models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How to start over after dating a LVM?That last sentence made me laugh thank you 😂 they always come back around don’t they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How to start over after dating a LVM?Thank you I’ll check it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:24 AM |
| 8 | I'm not even in the workforce yet and this is so depressing. How do you even begin to deal with things like this?I have a normally male gendered name and in emails I have always been treated highly and with respect, then after those emails when I go and meet the person face to face the first reaction is “Oh I thought you were going to be a man?” Um what difference does it make? I’m still the one who was speaking to in those emails. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:28 AM |
| 68 | Daily reminder that men are seven times more likely to leave a sick partner than women are. Also, what a major asshole (full text in comments)I would LOVE to hear the wife’s side of the story... always men making themselves out to be the victim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:26 AM |
| 3 | QUEEN SHITThis actually made me cry. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 04:15 PM |
| 13 | “She is crazy!!” is any man’s favorite description of a woman he used to date 🙄I had my ex tell me his girlfriend before me was crazy and he absolutely hated her because she cheated on him. Yet he was texting her and keeping in contact with her our whole 5 year relationship... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:58 PM |
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