vhdn Archive

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1	How do I become a better woman? What do I mean by other traits? Feminine traits. Kindness, compassion, sweetness, patience, and supportive and nurturing instinct. Most importantly, you need to demonstrate to a man that you have these traits before you've had sex with him, because it will be relevant to his decision to leave or stay once the two of you have had sex. Most concise version of 'How to avoid being pumped & dumped' I've read so far, thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/13 04:34 AM
2	Since this is a place to discuss strategy, what does RPW think of my situation? 22F, has had two sexual partners, sterilized in June. Thank you for the points, saved for reference :)	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/13 10:23 PM
3	How many of you have noticed the effect of age (The Wall) on girls/women? They're definitely out there, but just harder to find.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/13 07:03 PM
4	Wife is noticing change... mostly because I believe that all of that sugar and crap isnt healthy for my kid. It sounds like you are going to be a kick-ass dad.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/13 06:34 PM
1	On the subject of having children After taking TRP, I've realized having children can potentially be incredibly fulfilling, especially with the right mate and parenting with red-pill ideas (cultivating traits of femininity/masculinity in your kids etc). Also, the manosphere also has a few things to say on lessons to impart to your kids: http://dannyfrom504.com/detinennui32s-advice/ http://www.returnofkings.com/4898/best-of-the-manosphere-a-note-to-my-son	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/13 04:52 AM
-1	On the subject of having children Very true...a wife who does not respect the captain/first officer roles will bring about a dysfunctional relationship dynamic which children would then emulate. Not ideal.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/13 04:37 AM
1	How do you replace the feeling of being cared for? If you've lurk on this subreddit long enough, you realize that women are realistically never going to "care for" you the way you crave. What you want is simply incompatible with our culture's women, a dream created by your mom and popular media. Yes, it is Iron Rule of Tomassi #6: Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. As a girl, it's hard to come to terms with TRP's view of women as incapable of genuine love; it makes me very sad. (We're still slo…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/13 12:07 AM
1	What does the dating-phase sex life look like between man and woman who are both red pill, where the woman is a virgin who wants to wait until marriage? I don't believe in marriage for marriage sake. Marriage is serious and for life, not just the "next step" Yes. I know too many friends who have "slid" into marriage after cohabitation and have ended up in unhappy marriages or divorce. With divorce rates as high as they are, I agree with you that a good RPW would exercise discretion with her n-count and seriously consider the level of commitment before having sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/13 07:44 AM
1	Useful Books for TRP. Not specifically seduction or game based, but interesting books with useful information and knowledge. The Allegory of the Cave is massive....it's almost literally the taking of the red pill. Great point. The Ring of Gyges, I'd say, also fits well with the taking of TRP and seeing that our rules of 'morality' are only social constructs.	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/13 07:21 AM
1	Useful Books for TRP. Not specifically seduction or game based, but interesting books with useful information and knowledge. Add Letters from a Stoic by Senenca to your philosophical readings. I think it is much better than either Aurelius or Epictetus. Interesting... I'm halfway through Aurelius' Meditations so I'll look for 'Letters from a Stoic' next. I really enjoyed Seneca's De Brevitate Vitae and wasn't sure which other works to continue with. Thanks for the suggestion!	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/13 07:04 AM
3	Useful Books for TRP. Not specifically seduction or game based, but interesting books with useful information and knowledge. Thanks, these are great suggestions! Dale Carnegie's book is a staple...I have to keep reminding myself that it's one to re-read now and then. Nietzsche changed my life. 'The Gay Science' and 'Human, All too Human' are phenomenal as well. I hope you find a copy of "Mastery"! I'm on the 3rd chapter and it's blowing my mind. I haven't read The 50th Law but will put that on my list. "How to Argue Powerfully, Persuasively, Positively" by Jonathan Herring Thanks for the suggestion, I'll have to look …	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/13 06:56 AM
2	Reminder: we're still very much the underdogs. I personally know of at least three men who committed suicide after being divorce-raped. This is heartbreaking.	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/13 07:10 AM
1	Becoming the Perfect Woman: Exercise Another good reminder to women is to not neglect your upper body. This. Get a barbell and rack and do overhead presses and bench press a few times a week. Pull ups work well too to develop functional strength.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/13 02:23 AM
2	Becoming the Perfect Woman: Exercise succinct and sound.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/13 02:20 AM
2	Becoming the Perfect Woman: Exercise Starting Strength is a solid program.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/13 02:18 AM
5	how does one get a red pill marriage? ...is there any particular strategy for eventually finding a "red pill marriage"? What should I be looking for in women? How do I increase my chances of finding the marriagable ones? Finding a marriage-worthy lady these days will be difficult, but not impossible. These resources may help...good luck! http://marriedmansexlife.com/2013/05/wife-hunting-201-loyal-smart-and-nice/ http://marriedmansexlife.com/2010/03/10-critical-things-in-how-to-choose-a-wife/ http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2010/07/09/i…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 04:22 PM
2	how does one get a red pill marriage? This idea is as reality shattering as it is to men for women just in different ways. I think a woman that is open to it can be coaxed, with your example and guidance, deeper down the rabbit hole, so to speak. < This is true! TRP is a shift in paradigm that dissolves all of the beliefs we women have held about reality. It is ungrounding and you may have an easier time finding a lady who is not yet red-pill-aware, but is open-minded and of a submissive nature.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 04:17 PM
1	/u/AlwaysLateToThreads sent me here. So I recently swallowed the pill, and have some questions regarding keeping monogamous LTR, particularily my own. It is quite likely that her attitudes will change. When I was 20, I imagined for myself a future married life without kids so I could invest in travel, career, etc. Like your girlfriend, I viewed having kids as a burden. It is part of feminist culture and the ideals we are fed. Now I'm 23 and after taking TRP, my opinion has changed as a result of having better understanding our nature and what brings us fulfillment as women (eg. caring for a husband and/or children).	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/13 09:38 PM
1	Some Discussion on How to Win Friends and Influence People? Yes, for relationships I would read some of Robert Greene's books- 48 Laws of Power (which applies to general social dynamics) and Seduction.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/13 05:18 PM
7	Any suggestions for gold mines for plate-spinning? I suggest Couchsurfing... Also if you're looking to host or couchsurf, make sure you have your profile filled out well. As a girl who does cs'ing (though not to hook up), I would say that most other girls are pretty attentive to your profile. There is stronger 'creep-radar' on the site now and women are more likely to travel/couchsurf with you if your profile says 'friendly and open.'	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/13 05:04 PM
3	38M married to 33F, seriously considering divorce. Am I being selfish, or am I entitled to my thoughts? Don't allow your guilt to keep you from doing what you know you should do. The fact that your own family members agree you should divorce her speaks volumes about how much misery you're trying to endure. There is little reason for you to be concerned for her future as she has hardly shown any concern for your interest in the past 7 years. Even from a religious standpoint, it seems she hasn't fulfilled her role as a Christian wife- she does not respect your lead, does not assist with housework...…	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/13 04:49 PM
1	Can we talk about diet for a minute? Good link! Yes, Leangains worked for me as well but it seems there are some mixed reviews with women and intermittent fasting. Apparently some women do do better with 3 regular meals a day instead of warrior-type eating- especially if they are doing some intense training such as HITT or crossfit. Experiences will vary with each person, but IF is certainly worth a try.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/13 10:59 PM
3	Can we talk about diet for a minute? Yes, it is a good idea for you to bring up your calories to above BMR and then begin a gradual weight loss. Due to your prolonged calorie restriction period, your metabolism will have been stressed and the hormones regulating weight will be out of whack. -You may need to reintroduce some carbs at first to re-establish balance. Aim for "clean" paleo starches (yams, sweet potatoes, bananas, rice), avoid sugars. When you start cutting calories, start at -10% of TDEE-total daily energy expenditure).…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/13 10:45 PM