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Being irritated by that stuff might be part of a mild depression. Even ambient noise can be more or less annoying based on your mental state. Extreme exercise might help make these things become less impactful on your mental state. Stoic reflection, meditation, mindfulness exercises will also help you better deal with irritations.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 01:55 AM
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Worse, men are OK with paying for their spouse, Women are much less amenable to that arrangement. So with the latest de-industrialization, we end up with able-bodied men losing their jobs and then losing their homes. That has the potential to become a very volatile situation.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 01:44 AM
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Which part of the sidebar told you to adopt an external locus of control?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 10:40 PM
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It was always about the economy. The whole thing was to get from 1 adult working to maintain a minimum household to 2 adults working to maintain a minimum household. All excess money people had by having two incomes was absorbed by rising prices in housing, childcare, education and other areas. Feminism was just one of the tools in the toolbox. Economics is politics.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 10:29 PM
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They hire lawyers to protect their constitutional rights. Once again proving my point that lawyers do not represent pure argument but rather tactical manipulation of the legal apparatus which is used to project power. Whether you are the aggressor or the defender, you will need a lawyer in that arena. edit: added quote
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 09:24 PM
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I do not understand why you try to prove my argument of legal aggression is "idiotic" by saying that most people hiring a lawyer are doing it because they are a victim of legal aggression. edit: by the way people hire lawyers for civil cases as well. Contract cases are an important case of when argument does not work, go to court. Saying most people are hiring lawyers defensively is disingenuous, since there is only one prosecution in criminal cases, the state. Your cherry picking of criminal la…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 09:03 PM
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If you cannot hold frame in a reddit discussion, you will have trouble with women.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 08:44 PM
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You could look at this as proving the rule. People hire lawyers when talking does not work. Invoking the law means invoking the power of the state. Hiring lawyers is an act of aggression or projection of power. edit: professional lawyer displaying his competence at sophistry proves my point: What comes out of a lawyers mouth is not necessarily the truth, but what will sway a juror. people hire lawyers when reasonable, logical argument does not work to achieve their ends.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 08:36 PM
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By telling her he was not getting enough sex, he pointed out that she is better than him. Among other rules, he broke Tomassi's Iron rule #8 Always let a woman figure out why she won't fuck you, never do it for her.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 04:22 AM
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If you are getting a lot of flakes, there is probably room for improvement somewhere earlier in the sequence. Your looks or profile photo, how you come across in person or in texts, how you handle logistics, etc. Details matter. Just like in every other endeavor, being observant, thoughtful, and disciplined in improving every aspect of your interactions with women will eventually pay off.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 11:54 PM
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Yes. A lot of low quality posts would never have been submitted if people had spent a few evenings reading through the rational male archives.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 10:20 AM
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This might fit in better at an MRA subreddit. Could use some editing too, it's a bit long. This subreddit is more about accepting and understanding women how they really are instead of trying to change them into something we want them to be.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 01:37 AM
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Let me flip this back on you. Which sidebar material do you think gives the best answers to these questions? Perhaps rephrase your question in terms of asking for clarification within that material's framework. edit: When I read your words, I could tell that you know what you need to to in your head, but the gut is not yet engaged. My point is that no amount of tips are going to help you until you know really deep down in your gut that it's all just you. to become the man I want to be You don't …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 12:01 AM
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It's kind of interesting that when I worked on my walking posture, I ended up going through some stages, the last of which was the position and attitude of my head. I ended up with my head back a bit but the chin a bit lower than I started. Similar to what the video shows.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 11:37 PM
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This has been an interesting exchange, but I don't think you have supported your original thesis that Steve Jobs became a success because he had an "executive portfolio". He is actually one of the go-to examples of the opposite: anyone can rise to great heights if they have the winner mindset. I think that is more of a red-pill attitude than trying to hamster away a beta-bux mindset
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 11:22 PM
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My bad, I had assumed you were a teenager. By the way, you used present tense a few times. Mr. Jobs passed away in 2011.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:19 PM
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And dictated that the OS be a Unix that could actually integrate media management better than any before, and that the OS would be written in an object oriented language before it was the norm. So forward looking that when he got back to Apple a decade later, they could just take that OS and development framework and immediately reinvent Apples macintosh line making it actually somewhat competitive with wintel so that apple could actually survive And found a company based on taking stuff that wa…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:12 PM
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Steve jobs was negotiating IPO deals out of his Mom's kitchen when he was your age.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:00 PM
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OP, do you realize you just posted feminist agitprop? They are mocking guys who balk at betabux. It will get pulled, but I almost wish it could stick around as a clear example of how deep bluepill programming really goes even on the people who think they know better.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 08:28 PM
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I would define intimacy as the aspect of the relationship not part of sexual market relations. Its kind of fluid, but explains for me a lot of the cases where there is intimacy without sex and sex without intimacy. I also think intimacy has a lot to do with that is left over after a sexual relationship ends. edit: I should have added that successful sexual market relations often interfere with intimacy and that is why marriage is so hard and TRP so tough to swallow.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:14 PM
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Again, there is no moral quality to fractional lending. You are imputing morality into what were rational statements of fact. Something is not really voluntary if the choice is to do it or be destroyed. Taking loans is not voluntary in our system if you are a business, and pretty much anyone else who wants to be successful before they die of old age. Boom-bust has nothing to do with population growth. All wealth is created from work. Work is done by people and therefore is directly related to po…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:51 PM
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Steve Jobs is a legend for a reason. He did not just co-found Apple, but after being forced out, went on to found NeXT and then Pixar. He was brought back to turn Apple around and made it into the powerhouse it is today. He was a true visionary and entrepreneur legend. There are plenty of tech companies that make tech stuff, but he really was involved in the details. He's known for this and was good at it, as evidenced by the popularity of his products.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:28 PM
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the Sisterhood was NOT happy he'd stepped out on he I am not sure about this. I think they are employing powertalk to run her down behind her back under the facade of caring. Notice she is not there being comforted. They are essentially negotiating how this change in her SMV will be applied to her social status in the workplace.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:21 PM
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Good questions. I was studying this topic while trading and investing way before it become popular. I think its not voluntary for a company to take out a loan in a regime where there is fractional reserve lending with compound interest attached. If you wait and save, your competition will beat you to the market and you will have no chance. The rate of money supply growth should track population growth more or less, to avoid boom-bust cycles. Finance hamstering trashes industrial base, acts to ke…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:45 PM
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Since money is not wealth, the guy with the pen is.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:20 PM
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Not all loans are usurious. They become so when the loan is unethical or systemically damaging to the underlying economy. Charging a flat fee or non-compound interest is not usually considered usurious, provides a motivation for loans, while avoiding the systemic dangers of compound interest and fractional reserve banking.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:14 PM
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Also, when you are in a power position, thanking or rewarding someone can kind of be a way to take some credit since it asserts your position and the implication is that your leadership somehow enabled their performance. Kind of connects to law 6 from yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:02 PM
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You're right, although at least half the trip will be posture practice and the other half might be good for toughening up your body.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 04:43 PM
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Immediate impulse response: Way to internalize stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:57 AM
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Dozens of grammatically correct examples of crypto-beta male hamstering are slapped up on this board daily. I'll take a diamond-in-the-rough example of some guy actually "getting it" and putting it into practice any day. Have you read Epictetus? He makes some good points about how to treat other people, especially the ones on your side.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:36 AM
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She was hitting on you. Work on your inner game.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:23 AM
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Doing 5 mile walks regularly for a time while focusing on posture really helped me. Good time to listen to audiobooks related to TRP. If you are already working out, it won't really impact your workouts. If you aren't working out, congratulations, now you are. Bring a backpack and you can fold in a grocery run to buy oats and potatoes, if you are short on spare time.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:30 AM
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I remember that one, but not the number. It was on youtube a few months back.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:18 AM
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Nice work that second time. This might even have qualified as a FR on frame control.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:21 AM
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Good debate is what we are here for. A controversial post is worth way more than a dozen me-too or not-even-wrong OPs.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 01:05 AM
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This transaction is male time and attention for female sexual access. It's barter, both parties are selling and buying. Women are attracted to power. The person who needs the other person less is the one with power in the relationship. Since men need project power to attract the woman, a take it or leave it attitude is what they need to internalize. Women provide the hamstermotive force to eliminate deadlock.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 12:29 AM
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it's being interpreted as a PUA thing. It's being interpreted as a frame thing. Don't negotiate. Let her negotiate herself.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:54 PM
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You did not even discuss your thesis, let alone prove it. Back to the sidebar!
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:37 PM
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The interest rate is controlled by the same people making the loans and terms of default. The money they create is backstopped by the government with the guarantee of your income tax as collateral. Paying one is paying the other.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:02 PM
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I'd like to support the idea of feminism You took the wrong offramp, bro.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:24 PM
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I don't see how bringing up the woman paying for marriage supports your argument that she is the seller. It does suggest that men knew what a shit deal marriage could be and had a practical way to compensate a man for agreeing to enter one.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:07 PM
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A woman is the "seller" and you are the "buyer". Congratulations, you just broke frame. She is buying your time and attention, paying with her sexual access.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:36 PM
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No. Alpha "haggle" is about power. You let her negotiate with herself over what you are worth. If you have >SMV her hamster will sort it out. If you give into the haggle frame, you are initiating your own shit-test, qualifying yourself, etc. Why would you do that?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:19 PM
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Take a break, listen to black phillip show episodes, read rational male. You will have the right mentality and done some no-contact.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:45 PM
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I hear you, but most men will have to approach women, that is just how it is. I agree that a lot of new posters are struggling with the cold-hard reality of TRP, but why wouldnt they? Most are not that far away from the warm embrace of their mothers and life still has much to teach them.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:34 PM
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Obviously, so first step is not to give away your own frame before you even get to the relationship. edit: TRP =/= PUA. TRP is about inner game, which will allow you to get a stronger frame and stop chasing after women who will smell the beta after the cologne washes off.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:07 PM
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Women say they want good listeners, how right they are. Listen carefully to what she said and think about the context. She is attempting to renegotiate the relationship. This is a shit-test. If you fail, her attraction to you will lessen. The key to negotiation is being willing and able to walk away. Everyone buying a car knows this, and your time is a much more precious resource. Unlike cars, you will be in this situation over and over again with this woman or any other. You need to be willing …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:35 PM
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Haggling is bargaining. How is this not a beta frame? Alpha: Give. Her: Uh, I don't do that. What kind of girl do you take me for? Alpha: Give. That is alpha "haggle". If you have the SMV for the particular girl you are interested in, you should be thinking "Give". Thinking haggle is to embrace betabux frame.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:13 PM
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Someone downvoted you. UFB. What is more TRP 101 than innate female hypergamy and Briffault's law?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:53 AM
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To the extent that government supports feminism, it already provides free prostitutes.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:00 AM
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While it's likely true you're more intelligent than those around you in the office. Lose this. Instead, ask yourself what possible circumstances could explain why every young guy thinks the same thing, yet older guys never waste their time trying to correct him on this. Reading of 48 laws of power and other sidebar material pretty much spells out the answer.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:32 PM
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The turgid and obfuscatory character of Scienteze is barely tolerable where it is necessary, which is far less often than it is employed. One of the many laments attributable to our slide into whatever you want to call this purgatory of moral and philosophical decrepitude we now inhabit is that nobody speaks clearly or directly any more. I looked through the paper, and did not see anything in there that is going to help a guy deal with red pill issues. Anything that might be in those 20 pages, w…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:12 AM
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In reality, the most important thing is to make sure that you still have people to talk to hang out with at all. Talking about your problems has a high likelihood of damaging your relationships and losing you friends, and a low likelihood of providing any therapeutic value. If we are talking about some simple problem, sure you can bitch to a friend over a few drinks. But people who are on the brink of suicide have persistent situational or emotional troubles that won't go away after a talk and a…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:56 AM
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Without social status, no amount of 'redpill' will work for you. Social status is a major part of redpill, but I think I know what you meant. Alpha is about power, masculinity, fitness. not strictly about looks, but looks are one of the indicators of fitness. He failed publicly in a certain way that questions his ability to perform under pressure. His fitness is called into question. Now somehow people subconsciously expected that such a dominantly good looking and popular guy would obviously ha…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:39 AM
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Yeah you can't even think like that. Nip the idea of even wanting to talk out your problems because it does not encourage the right way of thinking for a guy to get and stay strong. Wishing for that unicorn just prolongs the pain.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:32 AM
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No. because it is not manly to share your weaknesses and women are attracted to manliness and repelled by weakness. Why? Read the sidebar!
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:20 AM
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OP, Did you read the sidebar material? The way you asked this does not sound like you did. use it against the other person in a way that changes them for good This is not RP thinking.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:11 AM
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You have never had a girl actually fall for you, have you? No, just one night stands, fucking other guys women, live in girlfriends, marriage, etc. You know, the usual. My experience anyway. I was more like monk-mode What experience? OP was talking about marrying that unicorn. Plenty of stories on this board and other RP sites that demonstrate the manifold ways in which your SMV or just your perceived SMV can slip due to circumstances beyond your control.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:45 AM
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I'm not saying you'll find a unicorn. That doesn't exist. What you can find is a virgin or low-count girl, from a stable family, who is smart enough to see the logical inconsistencies of feminism, brave enough to accept the biological realities of the genders, and has high self-esteem. If you are a high SMV man, who is authentically alpha, she will be loyal and loving to you for the rest of your life. Until you make one fucking slip, one time, or she just randomly gets drunk or stupid with her b…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:15 AM
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Nah guy... I'm far from the nice guy. It's exactly the point of the book, that a lot of "nice guys" are not actually that nice but are instead conflicted, passive-aggressive wimps who are not being true to their own nature. People have an innate talent for detecting such incongruous behavior, even if they cannot quite put their finger on it, and a "nice guy" might find their advances towards women rebuffed with responses ranging from noncommittal giggles to clearly indicated concerns that the "n…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 12:35 AM
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You are posting 1 obvious and one possible shit-test fail. Why are you complaining about them when you still have so much work to do on you? In the first, she just destroyed your frame, and you just gave up. In the second, to what did you say "that's OK"? It could also be a failed shit test. Think about how you responded to both women, is it masculine, attractive? Is that who you want to be, or seen to be by women? And are you expecting strange women to come to your home for the first date? Afte…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:56 PM
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OP describes a himself as living under the same roof as a higher-SMV woman who is not fucking him. This is pretty much the same situation as a beta-tized husband with a dead bedroom. Being a room-mate is pretty beta from a woman's POV, you are helping her with money, protection, attention without her having to provide you with sex. Its like the ultimate beta-orbiter. Some people are assuming that because she is throwing shit that she is interested. Not necessarily. Women will put up with some th…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:13 PM
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Join a club with some redpill and sense of community. A competition sports club can be very good for this. Besides athletics, there are other sports such as sailing, marksmanship, motorsports, etc. In my experience, the key is that competition is involved. Friendly competition is definitely a male thing, and makes all the difference in the atmosphere of the club. It might seem counter-intuitive, but it acts to build camaraderie and a sense of belonging. It will give you the opportunity to learn …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:41 PM
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Easy there, brother, he was agreeing and amplifying, pointing out how today's churches are BP-ing all over their own RP scripture.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 05:24 PM
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