| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 453 | Saw this and instantly thought FDS. | QUEEN SH*T | vibewitheasi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Remember your old RED flags | REMINDER 👑 | vibewitheasi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:03 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 15 | Tired of NVM posts.Let's hear your queen ish!I start therapy again today and I’m so excited | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:38 PM |
| 39 | Sounds like Jane has standards to me! Be like Jane :)Everyone in the comments is telling him she’s not wrong or overacting and I don’t think that’s the answer he wanted because I don’t really see him replying to anyone 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | 🤮🤮🤮I wonder if i can switch it to girls only and find more women to play with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:15 PM |
| 11 | This would be a deal breaker for me. If he can’t do something so small, he won’t be able to do bigger more important things. Throw him out along with the oatmeal. No more settling for less than what we deserve! Kick him out 2021! ✊I kinda think she lies on these. She’s shown up on my fyp a couple of times and I think they’re skits. At least I’m hoping they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:35 AM |
| 142 | The decency: “I have a wife and a gorgeous kid but you’re georgous”I feel so bad for that women and her new born baby 🤧. This sub gives me trust issues but in a good way. I feel you though, I just don’t think dating is it right now. Maybe after the pandemic, because people who care about themselves and others are in the house and that’s a quality you want in your man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 6 | The origin of MGTOW 😂If he likes men that’s all he had to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:33 PM |
| 26 | Men love spending money on women they loveThey really do. I’m a streamer and new to computer gaming and wound buy me all sorts of things to get me started. We just went shopping and I picked what I wanted. It was a great time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:58 PM |
| 18 | It all started with a walk datelol ok that was funny and creative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 23 | Cost performance girlfriendIt’s so trash. Especially when you realize you could have done better and now you’re crying over a guy with holes in his underwear pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:42 PM |
| 61 | Cost performance girlfriendUgly guys have pickmes and cheat too. Especially if they’re not use to the attention from girls and suddenly for some reason they’re suddenly getting it. They’re usually more desperate too. So now you lowered your standards for a guy and you still got hurt. Date who you want and just pay attention and vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Expressing FDS values has gotten me into fights with women around meI didn’t read number 1 but number 2 yeah you were an ass but in a way that you needed to be. This is how my friends and I would talk to each other when we need too, but if your friendship wasn’t like this before hand then she’s going to be confused why you’re being so blunt and “rude”. You can’t suddenly have a change of mentality and expect everyone to be on board with it, they got comfortable with the old you and they’re currently comfortable with the current them. Doesn’t mean you should go b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:10 PM |
| 113 | r/NiceGirls is mad we don’t respond to thinly veiled sex attemptsSo they would actually go over this strangers house? Y’all don’t even know what his true intentions are or if he can even cook. What if he has rats? What if he has a sound proof basement? And he can’t be that concerned about Covid if he’s having someone over. I’ll never be a nice girl (pick me) again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 16 | "I don't do friends."I wonder why she sent the pic of herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 12 | Made an OLD account after a long time just to see if it was still trash. Noped out as soon as I downloaded😂I switched mine from women to boys and couldn’t even make it through three swipes. I tried having a conversation with one and he instantly wanted me to carry the whole thing 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 20 | Self-inflicted emotional injuryI’m in a similar situation right now. I thought we could be friendly but that lead to one thing then another and now I’m sad and heartbroken all over again. I’ll never doubt the block and delete again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: don’t beg!Needed this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Mum: “Still single?”LOL wow exam week must be getting to me because I thought it was feminist. But you’re right that doesn’t even make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Yes, Virginia, HVM exist..." as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy"raises my standards even more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:52 PM |
| 16 | Mum: “Still single?”Notice how he said “feminist women only”. He just wants someone who will put up with bullshit and go half with him and still feel eMpOwErEd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:05 AM |
| 9 | Do any of you have HVM dads?I’m not entirely sure if it’s HVM but my mom died when I was 7 (23f) and my dad became a widow with 3 kids. He wouldn’t really date because he didn’t want us to feel like we were taking second place and still cries on her birthday. When she was alive he was a willing provider, and when she wanted to move to be closer to her family he willingly followed. When she was younger she had two kids before my siblings and I were born. One died and the other one got put into foster care (she was in an abu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 51 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure.One thing about me is I will go through a phone. I am not trying to waste my time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:12 PM |
| 8 | Girl slides in dm and drives hours to go meet a guy she saw on tik tok . I hate how women “shooting their shot” is becoming popular & normalized on social media. Ladies lesson to be learned is to never chase a man! We unfortunately know how this will end😶My current bf lives 3 hours away and comes and sees me every time and if he wants me to go to his house he’ll come get me. I sit and think about how this dude I knew before use to have me driving to see him even when my car didn’t have heat and I was freezing. Boy I cringe at my past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else constantly feel like men are liable to snap and kill them at any moment?Sometimes when me and boyfriend wrestle i think about how if he ever wanted to he could easily hurt me. I’m not scared of him or anything but it’s just a reminder that I’m not as strong so I’m vulnerable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 42 | Saw this and instantly thought FDS.Honestly. Like what’s a boyfriend 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 48 | Saw this and instantly thought FDS.I wouldn’t say it’s the norm at all. I work as a server I see all kind of people daily. She takes care of her self and is rewarded for it you can tell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:13 PM |
| 133 | Saw this and instantly thought FDS.I can’t believe she’s in her 40’s. Like girl I’m in love with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:11 PM |
| 21 | Saw this and instantly thought FDS.Honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:10 PM |
| 156 | Saw this and instantly thought FDS.Minus the “you moving in” part she lost me there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Not wearing makeup for othersI refuse 🙅🏽♀️. My fenty is too expensive to be wiped off all on my mask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 28 | How do I respectfully flirt with other women?When you find out let me know 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 12:00 AM |
| 20 | Ladies, how has FDS affected or improved your family dynamics?My mother died when I was young and as the oldest daughter “mom” responsibilities kinda fell on me, especially since my dad always had to work. I basically raised my brother and sister. Whenever my family needed something I would do no matter what it would cost me. This was especially true for my little sister. I would make her problems my responsibility, but lately that’s stopped. I’m here to help her out but if she doesn’t take responsibility and do what she needs to do then I don’t pressure h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 7 | They’re now mocking sensual and intimate sex. The comments are full of girls saying how they only watch brutal or forced or kidnapped porn?? And they’re so proud of it??This was me not to long ago 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 63 | Not the pickmeshas getting excited over the bare minimumWhy is she crying I’m so dead 💀. Like okay maybe your love language is acts of service but damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Real HVM shitYeah I agree, he’s invested in me in ways more than money but I’ve been with men who have had money and wouldn’t even help me pay my rent when I was short and would watch me struggle and cry. Its nice knowing that when he has it you will also have it, if that makes sense. It’s a trait I’m looking for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:29 PM |
| 158 | Real HVM shitMy current boyfriend bought me some things for my gaming setup and took me shopping while we were dating and getting to know each other. I’ve never been spoiled before and he says he just likes to see me happy. Like okay, way to show that you wanna get picked 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:42 AM |
| 10 | Ladies .. Always LISTEN to your gut. It can save you sooo much heartache.In my gut I feel like something is off but I don’t know what. Having anxiety also fucks me up because I don’t know if I’m just overthinking. But either way my guard is up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 08:44 PM |
| 7 | This is true, yeah? Thoughts?Guy I’m seeing (24 M) lives 3 hours away. I (22 F) was locked out of my car and I didn’t have triple A. He drove all the way to me so he could help me get my Keys out because he didn’t like me being stranded even if I’m just at home. If they want to they will. I also now have triple A | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:43 PM |
| 32 | “You got to have standards”It’s weird being with someone who’s not on the same path as you. I try not to judge because college is hard af especially as a first generation student. But she’s about to be successful and he couldn’t even apply for a loan and make a business plan to own his own shop. They’re on different levels | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outDon’t do it. I hit up a guy i thought was cute in my friend group and we started up a fwb relationship. There was another girl in our friend group who he was offering to be a sugar daddy for and get her things in exchange for affection and sex. I asked why I don’t get that same option and he responded “you slid into MY dms.” Don’t do it if they want you they’ll chase you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:12 AM |
| 96 | Being called a gold diggerA lot of these men seem to forget that in order to even attract a “gold digger “ you have to have GOLD. 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:08 AM |
| 16 | Be wary of men with racial fetishes/comments towards ANY raceIt’s also weird how much adult male family members are worried about our sexuality. I’ve heard things like “you better not have a little boyfriend” so many times growing up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:00 AM |
| 16 | Be wary of men with racial fetishes/comments towards ANY racePokémon with with women that’s it! It’s so fucking cringe. A friend of mine asked one of her friends (black male) why he only dates white women and his response was “they’re more submissive and let you do more to them. “ a lot of men probably have this thought too and it’s gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:55 AM |
| 90 | Be wary of men with racial fetishes/comments towards ANY raceI don’t blame it entirely on porn. I think the sexual “freedom?” for white women is more flexible while me personally as a black women does not get the same flexibility. We’re quicker to be shamed for our sexual history and it follows us in our communities for years. Doesn’t matter if it’s a lie or the truth. From what i noticed while at college white women are able to do more sexually, while black women are not. I think that fuels the idea that white women are more “loose”. *edited because I su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 1 | On Personality Psychology & HVM/LVM CharacteristicsI’m going to do this and have my partner do it as well I’m curious about the results. Thanks for this post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 16 | Paitence is a VirtueI wonder how many men this scared | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 2 | The comment section is full of people hating on “Princess week” and how he’s just super spoiling her etc. I can’t believe how some people just can’t deal with a man being nice to his wife...I went to the comments thinking it was gonna be lvms but it was all girls. Imagine hating on another girl being showed loved and basic affection by someone who actually cares for her. Couldn’t be me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:38 PM |
| 7 | Insulting other women is not the way to my heartI remember I allowed a guy I used to know to compare me to his ex. It never sat right with me even though he was saying I saw "better". I realize it was because I betraying the sisterhood by allowing it and also he still probably loved her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 4 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.This guy I use to know would always call me boujee and I would tell him if I can gets things the way I want them then why wouldn’t I? It’s my money. I now realize he was trying to get me to be okay and compromise for the lesser things in life. Which is all he could provide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:25 PM |
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