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I think tramp stamps are trashy, but I still think it should be legal to get one. Wanting something legal isn’t quite the same as supporting/encouraging it. I want sex work to be legal for taxes but also regulation to protect women from exploitation & abuse. I would, however, discourage my female friends from choosing sex work due to negative social & health ramifications from it… I don’t think that’s overly hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:51 AM
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It’s okay to say you don’t know how to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:54 AM
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Did you answer the questions that I wrote, or are you going to deflect some more?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:50 PM
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Why do you keep giving me pet names? 2x You’re accusing me of gaslighting, and now accusing me of hypothetical deflecting, when YOU’RE the one deflecting my questions. Please explain where I gaslit so I may correct the errors of my ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:54 PM
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I am aware I’m an outlier here, as statistically women do indeed benefit financially being with a man, I don’t really disagree with you there. But if it’s not a good trade for men, why are there many men who do end up in relationships and get married, and men on this subreddit want that with women? If it was just sex, no marriages would exist, only sex workers, so evidently there is SOMETHING men gain from relationships, aside from “headaches”. Why do you keep giving me pet names? And again 2x, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:39 AM
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What would be interesting is to see the increase of employment in women since the 1950s. What’s more interesting is the men of this subreddit think the 30% unemployed women are the majority. I’m not among that 30%, so it’s weird to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:35 PM
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I’m a chemical scientist so I don’t actually benefit financially being with a man. There was nowhere in my statement did I say men NEED any of these things, I was stating what men can potentially get in a relationship. Where was the gaslight?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:22 PM
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Your numbers don’t make sense to me. For every women in a relationship, then there’s also a man in a relationship. Why are more men on dating apps if “women pursue relationships more”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:51 PM
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Men can gain a cook, a cleaner, sex, emotional support, a baby-maker and someone who pays half their rent/mortgage (since most women work nowadays) Women don’t gain as much now they’re becoming more financially stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:38 PM
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If more women pursue relationships, then why are there less women than men in OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:31 PM
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Spot on how you both give each other financial support. Are men on Reddit from the 1950s? Don’t most women work now and alleviate men’s rents/mortgages?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:30 PM
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Normal women definitely couldn’t be financially reliant on an Instagram account, this is for the small 1% of attractive women, probably even less. I like to think men and women pick and mix what they gain from one another, be it financial stability, sexual intimacy, emotional support, sharing of burdens (chores, cooking etc.). This comparing game serves no purpose, if a guy (or woman) doesn’t feel they gain anything from a relationship, then stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:24 PM
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I enjoy cooking, I don’t mind doing chores (although fuck dishwashing, I’ll buy a dishwashing machine), I have a well-paid job so I will cut a man’s rent/mortgage in half, and I’ll have sex with them. Sounds alright to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:06 PM
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If you claim 5, most guys will will think you’ve had more that 5 regardless. Why would they think that? If they’re not going to believe whatever I say, should I just lie if what I’m after is a monogamous LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:04 PM
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Left, but I have a love for bald/shaved heads, so I’m probably an outlier here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:48 PM
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I’m overly self conscious when I get asked this as I know within myself that I wouldn’t be unfaithful, and it’s entirely objective question on what a “high number” is. I would rather a different conversation along the lines of their beliefs on monogamy, number of LTRs they’ve had, what their plans for the future are etc. Is 5 a lot for a 25 year old? Because I honestly don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:51 PM
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Conversely, I have never asked a man, and yet, all men I have gone on dates with have asked me. (Mind you, I have only had 2 long term relationships, so objectively, a low number) I really wish people didn’t care, because I sure as hell don’t care. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:10 AM
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I think it’s interesting you made the comment “men who are attracted to only 20 year olds don’t exist” and equate it to feminist propaganda, but then make the reverse statement that older women who are attracted to 20 year old men do exist. One could argue it’s red pill propaganda; that women only want youthful men (I don’t believe this, mind you). Both exist I’m afraid. I personally don’t care overall, each to their own, but think it’s an interesting line of conversation on how you view one to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:17 AM
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I’ve not meet any irl myself either. I have, however, seen comments saying they value looks and youth, but I mostly take it with a pinch of salt as I know humans aren’t so one dimensional to exclude people of their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:20 AM
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I’m 25 and I wouldn’t say I’m attracted to men under 26. But I understand I don’t speak for all women in this, and when I see posts like OPs, I know men who only value 20 year olds also don’t speak for the entirety of men. Either way, we can’t change our ages, so might as well change something about ourselves we can to attract the opposite sex. (Healthy eating, hobbies, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:15 PM
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Sadly, self-awareness is a trait shared by the minority. I hope I find someone with it too! 💪 Edit: Thank you for the award! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:27 AM
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Assume good faith in my questions: I think in this scenario you’re presenting where women don’t befriend men, women are friends with women, and men are friends with men. Is this not equal then? Where do women have access to more social events? My take: I assume most individuals meet their friendships in schools and workplaces, and is highly dependent on subject/industry and it’s gender percentages of said industries. E.g. my workplace is male dominated (chemical sciences), so I expect to have mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:20 AM
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You’ve summed up half of the problems encountered by this, and many other subreddits. People like to play the blame game, make massive generalisations, over-analyse singularities, or make comparisons between gendered issues, without considering to tackle these issues case by case, or to even entertain SOLUTIONS all genders might face. I fear a vast majority stick to their confirmation biases, rather than participating in subreddits with vastly different opinions and outlooks. A lot of generalisa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:21 PM
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You’ve pretty much hit the nail on the head. I like the attention sure, but I don’t particularly feel my “virtue” is threatened because I dress a certain way. I think it’s important to note that some women might not have that same confidence, where they feel they can dress to attract others whilst still controlling their “virtue”. Being viewed as promiscuous is still frowned upon for women, and although I roll my eyes internally with all the “I wear this for me”, it serves to protect stigmas a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:43 PM
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Modern day feminism is a hate movement. I don’t/won’t align with hate movements (be it religions to subreddits). I actively empathise with men’s issues as well as women’s (I recommend r/menslib), and encourage both genders to do the same. Positive, pro-active, and can-do attitudes are very much needed to find the best solutions to gendered issues, be it women’s honesty on appearances, to men’s struggles in online dating. We can never be too empathetic. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:49 PM
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Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:31 PM
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I find people spend more time comparing issues (often male vs. female, rather than as separate issues), and not as a way to critically come up with solutions, but to finger point and vent on who has it better. You’ve pointed that teenage girls social media problems are less of an issue compared to men’s OLD experiences… now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:23 PM
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I get not wanting to appear as promiscuous due to appearance weighs heavier than being seen as a hypocrite to some. Although I’m a woman who admits to wearing certain things to appeal to my desired gender, I don’t really care if women want to delude themselves into thinking it’s for themselves. Women could learn to be more open and honest, but we can still be empathetic as to WHY women still feel the need to be dishonest on why they wear makeup/revealing clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:13 PM
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You’d get men calling them sluts/whores/superficial/validation-seekers etc. So I empathise with the lie “dress like this for myself” women use.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:46 PM
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Interesting. Would you consider men comparing their penis sizes to porn stars “not fucking real” then, since it’s all just online? Because, to me, this is the same self-inflicted self-esteem issues from an online site as young girls get from Instagram. I suppose I disagree with the point of “realness” for the anxieties. Make anxiety from OLD is valid, teenager body dysmorphia from social media is also valid. Just because you don’t experience the same anxieties women/girls might face, doesn’t mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:38 PM
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In the end of the day, women can’t win this argument. Either they dress provocatively to attract men and get called attention-seekers, or they get called liars/delusional if they say they dress that way for themselves. Would you prefer women didn’t wear revealing clothes at all? I openly admit I wear revealing clothes to appeal to men, because we’re all in the same stupid rat race in finding the best significant other in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:24 PM
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Pretty much this. The idea of dating “bad boys” and “nice guys” both equally repel me because of what these labels mean online now. Human beings aren’t one dimensional characters, “bad/nice” aren’t static traits.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:38 PM
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I’m not so sure on how it’s easier for women to find friendships, can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:21 AM
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Surely your aunt isn’t a career woman if she’s failing so abysmally in office politics. But I suspect “career woman” is a broad term here. I might consider myself one as a chemical scientist, but all I do is look up what’s explosive or not on a computer all day. 😅 Case by case, amigo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:56 AM
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I might get the sexual part, but why are women more likely to be socially successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:52 AM
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This just isn’t true. https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:31 AM
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When I was in my teens, I always wanted lip augmentation because I was so insecure they’re thin. This was before the current craze Kylie Jenner set. After seeing so many women with bad ones done, it did put me off, and now I will sit patiently for the day when thin lips is the next beauty standard. 😅 Although, just because I haven’t had any surgery, doesn’t make me more secure in myself than these women who do. I do however, think the pornstars and instagram models who are popular, speak for its…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 09:13 AM
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You haven’t repeated anything specifically to me, so I’m not sure why you’re so frustrated. My comment on blaming patriarchy was probably hyperbole on my part (although I’m not entirely sure myself), I don’t blame all my problems on it, but I can certainly see areas of improvement for minorities or women. I think saying just because it is successful, minimises those it negatively impacts. Sure, I’m alive and well, but I’m certainly not treated as equally as I feel I should be. I suspect, even in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:21 PM
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Ensures my survival? How so? Also, did you read the rest of my comment or are you just honing in on the patriarchy part?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:36 PM
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I’m confused, are you trying to say men need to take responsibility for the patriarchy, or women need to take responsibility their oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:22 PM
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I laughed at this because as a chemical scientist, I probably could fuck off to a oil rig. It’s nice to see someone trying to understand the others perspective so I applaud you for that. It being a “man’s world” despite our perceived equality can certainly feel oppressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:48 AM
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World that blames men (toxic masculinity, rape culture, patriarchic oppression) for all hardships women faces Who else can the blame be placed on, if not the patriarchy? Or are you saying individual men get blamed for it? Because in that, I agree shouldn’t happen. I don’t blame individuals for such things, I blame the society that was built by men as a group. But these are important issues that need discussing, and when they do get discussed, it shouldn’t be met with a wave of men feeling person…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:35 AM
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They’re quite antagonistic in the way they write, which doesn’t really help their points. If anything, I’m not sure what I took from this comment other than “men are bad and should be blamed”, which is of course, a massive oversimplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:20 AM
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Why do you think women shouldn’t vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:44 AM
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These are not gendered traits. I have met lots of men who are feel they are entitled to my body and attention, men who are superficial and think they are deserving of women of certain appearances. But why are these traits only unacceptable if a woman has them? “Women are simply the worst people.” Really? Take one good look at rape and murder statistics and which gender is committing them. (Now this is just a bit of hyperbole, I am no way saying men are are evil, nor do I believe one gender is wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:39 AM
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This is the same for me. All of my relationships I’ve been in were less interested in sex than myself, so it’s strange to me seeing the general belief that women aren’t interested in sex… I’d just rather have lots of sex with a long-term partner than with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:23 AM
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I just finished showering and wanted to articulate a bit more, so bear with me: The fact we have evolved from a species that is patriarchal (as opposed to bonobos which is matriarchal) only to have rules/laws that now regard the females of said species as legal equals is an impressive feat as it is. We’ve made great astrological and societal advances, there is room for more. We like to mask dated beliefs under the premise of biology and science, because it sounds confound. But we are SO much mor…
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:27 PM
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I couldn’t have said this better myself. I saved your comment for notes on how to better articulate! 💪
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:23 PM
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Of course, however, I am under the personal belief that our extreme intelligence overrides our primitive instincts and behaviours. We’re a conscientious species, we can evolve further and for the better. We’ve come this far, why not a little further? Give our species more credit!
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:41 PM
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As a woman, who’s a chemical scientist, this was a strange read for me. Now I recognise I am a minority of women, but I come from a place of privilege, where education has been readily available and encouraged. You can’t, however, expect a whole group of individuals who have been suppressed for over a millennia to just become highly skilled and obtain roles socially regarded as “masculine”. The same can be said for African descendants who have faced slavery. Although women are legally equal now,…
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:33 PM
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I’ve never regarded masculinity as toxic. To me, “toxic masculinity” is when men belittle and berate other men for not being masculine enough. It is a cause for a whole host of serious issues men face. A good example being men’s struggles talking about their mental health, because it’s considered “feminine” to talk about ones problems. Men should prioritise their health before their masculinity. As a human of the female variety, I don’t want sex-only relationships. I don’t, however, mind people …
/r/seduction21/07/21 06:52 PM
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Fr. I’d be pissed if someone woke me up to cuddle. 😂
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:05 PM
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Funnily enough, you’ve openly admitted to going down the hole of being an incel in previous comments, even going as far to consider prostitution. You disregard any “unicorn” advice under the cloak of being “realistic”. How is that “realism” treating you? A quick look at your post history is pretty suggestive it’s not benefiting you at all. Take on the advice from men more successful than you. Take on the advice from the gender you seek intimacy from. Take on POSITIVE and CAN-DO advice. DON’T tak…
/r/seduction20/07/21 07:44 PM
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I find it interesting you respond to this comment and not the one I tried to be genuine in. Why are you even in r/seduction if the only advice you believe in is money/looks is everything?
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:02 PM
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Says the evident incel…smh
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:58 PM
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Being approached shouldn’t bother you unless they’re being persistent. Good on those women for approaching you, could do more of women like this.
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:28 AM
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I don’t speak for all women no. But neither can you. My main point of disagreement was categorising women who go to beaches as shallow. Which I naturally have to defend as I enjoy water sports. The women I see / meet at beaches are no different from the general population. Your negative opinions regarding women is probably what’s holding you back from being successful in “seduction”, and I realise I might not convince you to read these advice posts positively and increase your chances as I’m sur…
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:32 AM
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There seems to be a lot of mixed comments on this post. You’re going to find people who read this too literally, and poke holes in everything OP has said because they’ve taken it down as law. As a woman, I would much prefer meeting a man whilst I’m out having fun swimming/paddle boarding/jet skiing etc. than I would at a bar - a place notorious for all kinds of sexual harassment and inappropriateness. As a frequent beach go-er, I’m surprised to see “women at beaches are more shallow” comments. I…
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:14 AM
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“Women at the beach are some of the most shallow women out there.” As a woman who goes to the beach with family with the intention to paddle board/jet skiing and other beach related activities, I couldn’t disagree more. If anything, I have my guard down significantly more at the beach than I would in a bar/club, with less fears of drink spiking and pushy people. If men focussed on going out with the intention for fun and not solely for women, they’d be more inclined to bump into said women. It’s…
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:47 AM
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I didn’t say she wasn’t seeking validation, so I’m confused what you’re arguing with me here.
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:43 PM
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Yes, I’m very paranoid about people seeing my phone for this very reason. It’s a window into my personal life. It’s not unreasonable to have a pin code. I hope you reprimanded the person who shared these photos, and you’ve cut out this horrible person who lead you on and accused you, as no one deserves that. Have a good day.
/r/seduction18/07/21 07:41 AM
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No it doesn’t take a max security hard drive, all it takes is a pin code on your phone. Couldn’t you have seen which email these naked images were forwarded to? (I’m invested now)
/r/seduction16/07/21 05:12 PM
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It was the “lady” part I felt was unnecessary. You too have a good day and weekend. 😊
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:36 PM
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I will do. 😊 You can do something for me too, don’t refer to someone by their gender as a pejorative. I have a username, use it.
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:05 PM
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I didn’t say men do this? Just that we all seek validation one way or another.
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:56 PM
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If we’re going to assume we’re purely primitive like in your post (which I disagree with, we’re far more complex than this), then to “increase her chance of survival” doesn’t really apply to 1st world countries, as we typically aren’t starving to death. I think the obvious answers to this are: physical prowess, financial stability and commitment. I don’t think there’s a behavioural pattern in men that’s going to override these three traits that attract women.
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:29 PM
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I don’t disagree masturbation and pornography can be damaging. Hence why I used “in moderation”. I have a masters degree in Chemistry. I feel I’m perfectly educated enough to give the advice and opinions I like online, as are you.
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:13 PM
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Maybe don’t say “I want to have some sex.” 🤦🏼‍♀️ Ask her what she’s looking for - a relationship? A friend? A hookup?
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:57 AM
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Holy shit there’s a lot to unpack here. She’s a shitty person, I’m sorry she lead you on. But I don’t think it’s fair that she had her nudes leaked, even if you say it was an accident (honestly, who doesn’t have a lock their phone? This sounds kinda bullshit)
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:54 AM
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I don’t really like the “that’s all women want validation”. I would argue, all people want validation, regardless of their genitals. The problem lies in her method for seeking validation, she’s giving false promises to OP. We should seek validation from people we’re willing to validate in turn.
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:47 AM
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Rejection is something almost every human faces. What defines you isn’t the amount you get rejected, but how you respond to it. Masturbating to this extent in order to avoid rejection is unhealthy. The thing with masturbating is - you’re going to get very used to a certain “sensation” that you won’t experience with a woman. This is just my personal experience being with a guy who masturbated too frequently, and how it can cause ED in normal relationships. Masturbation is great! But like all thin…
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:20 PM
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