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how will you be satisfied with a partner who doesn't feel the same way? Sorry for late reply. I think it's possible because no two people are 100% identical/compatible and there are things that he likes to do which I don't like to do, as well. But idk...
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/16 04:05 PM
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Thank you! I'll check it out!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 04:34 PM
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Thank you! Also, I'd never travel alone, I would go with friends but not party girl friends, all my friends are conservative, even more so than I am.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 04:34 PM
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Yay! Also, is there a way to travel and still be an RP woman? Say if your SO doesn't want to travel but you really want to, how can you do it in a way that proves to him you're not sleeping around/cheating while travelling? Would something like googleglass (videoing the whole time to show you're not with other guys) be good proof or would that be too much?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 08:08 PM
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My bf would but he may not be the best example of all guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:27 PM
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If it wasnt for money do you think women would show any interest in men? If the guy is hot or really confident then yes. Hot but broke guys get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:27 PM
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Yes, I do believe women and men look at different things when judging female beauty. That's why women think I'm pretty but men think I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:26 PM
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I'm not athletic but I do have an athletic body type and broad shoulders. That does make me unattractive to men, unfortunately :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:25 PM
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Yes, they've actually said it to me before. Sometimes they pair with suggesting I do squats. That's when I tell them I already do and it doesn't work...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:24 PM
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Unfortunately, I'm not a great swimmer or swimmer at all really. I just happen to have an athletic body type without working out much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:23 PM
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true lol I guess that's a bright side :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:23 PM
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Can a woman be RPW and childfree? And possibly marriagefree as well?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 05:22 PM
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I appreciate your encouragement and optimism, however I don't think that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:38 AM
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Yeah, but I'm Peurto Rican. Guys who like that kind of girl want a big ass and curvy body. They don't want a Spanish girl with a white girl body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:36 AM
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21? You are so young. You have plenty of time to find a guy who is into you. I thought I did...but he has lost attraction for me. I don't know if I'll ever find anyone again, since my luck is so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:36 AM
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Why the fuck are you hanging around guys who are actively being douchey like that? You need to talk to different guys to start, you don't need that kind of bullshit in your life. I guess I didn't really explain it well. I was bullied in middle school and high school by various groups of boys. I didn't "hang around" them, they actively sought me out to bully me both at school and online (yes, I blocked them). Now I'm in college and guys just ignore me (except for two who did actually say some pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:34 AM
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you on facebook to say you are ugly? those guys have mental issues, why you listening to them? I blocked them, of course. This was when we were in high school, so it was standard for guys (and girls) to behave like that. I am 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:31 AM
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you can gain an ass as you grow older. That is hilarious. I actually won't because I've been fat before and I didn't store fat there. I'm not saying I can't improve my looks in other ways, but gaining ass without surgery is impossible for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:30 AM
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Like in a sexual way? Never considered that but maybe I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:00 AM
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The PUA's call it negging, talking shit to women to make them feel bad about themselves so they will try to gain the guy's approval But PUAs approach after negging the girl. These guys just bullied me irl and on facebook for years without approaching. They weren't negging. your self-esteem is so low. I wonder why? you sound like you are depressed. are you? I dunno...maybe. Probably. I got bullied and ignored by guys my whole life and now the first guy to pay me any attention doesn't seem to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:00 AM
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That's true from what I've noticed, too. Or like they think cute girls are better while guys go for sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 01:58 AM
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Weight 130(ish), height 5'6"...don't wanna post a pic, though. But the pic I added to the question looks just like my body shape. Height and weight don't tell the whole story, it's also where the body stores fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:40 AM
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Ever took in consideration that you were bullied because people were intimidated by you? If you look like the girl I showed you that means you are gorgeous. I highly doubt it. I could see that being true if I was only ignored. But bullied? No. They were mean because they thought I was ugly. Guys would never ruin their chances with a girl by bullying her if she was actually pretty. I look like her facial features wise, however, those features aren't as pretty on a girl who looks like me as they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:39 AM
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Yeah I can't do that online but literally that body is exactly like mine, just imagine it tanned skin and the girl has curly black hair. So basically, a dude wearing a curly wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:18 AM
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Like light brown/tan. Trust me, I wouldn't be your type. I'm probably not even my boyfriend's type. I updated the question with a link to how my body looks (not me in the photo). Take a look and get back to me about how I'm your "type"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:05 AM
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Honestly, I've never seen guys talk shit to ugly women. I've had classmates who could sunk a boat with their fat asses(not phat asses) and no one ever said anything. Really? I was bullied pretty badly from age 11 to age 19 and I certainty wasn't the only ugly girl getting bullied. Have you ever considered straightning your hair? because if you just need to do something with your hair to be hot... you already are hot. I used to but it damaged my hair. It also didn't stop the bullying. Lots of guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 12:00 AM
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I do work out. Like I have a swimmer's body type even though I don't swim. I don't think exercise can change my hip to waist ratio, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:58 PM
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So all these middle aged women were attracted to me? Sure, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:56 PM
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Do they come out of nowhere and start insulting you? What do they say? Like at school. White guys do, too, of course. Like they would all bully me for my looks. "You're ugly!" "you have no ass" "your hair looks like pubes/bush/tumbleweed" Tamer comments from men are like this: "if you'd just straighten your hair then you'd be bangeable/hot/pretty." or "if only you had an ass, then I'd hit that." He barely ever sleeps with you? How old is he? Does he have health issues? What's his story? God, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:47 PM
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Yeah, guys don't like curls irl. Idk why they pretend they do online...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:44 PM
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People give out compliments like candy when they view you as being comfortably beneath them. Could be this. Most of the compliments I get from strangers are when I'm at work as a cashier in a department store.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:44 PM
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Yeah, that's what I do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:43 PM
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black men or mexican men? They're the ones who insult me... so you got a boyfriend. Why are you worried about what other guys think of you or not? He barely ever sleeps with me. I'm wondering if my looks have something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:42 PM
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Dude if you look like her you are already hotter than most girls. I look like her but with darker skin and curlier hair. Like a Puerto Rican version of her. My facial features are similar but I'm tan, not pale, and my hair is curly, almost black girl curly but not quite. Also, I doubt I have a body like that girl does. She's probably curvy. I'm just like a log with boobs lol. Are you hitting on 6'6'' navy seals? I'm not hitting on anyone lol. I'm much too shy and have been insulted too much to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:03 PM
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. And since girls complimenting you doesn't mean for sure that men find you attractive, then don't really take it to mean anything other than that person was nice. Because I'm assuming you want men to think you're attractive and thats what you're more concerned about, then you can't look to other women to let you know. Yeah, that's what I thought. It's like "thanks for the compliment, girl, but it doesn't help since I like guys!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 10:58 PM
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Interesting perspective. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 09:59 PM
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That's so odd you posted that pic. She looks A LOT like me. I get ignored or insulted by most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 09:58 PM
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I just don't see an incentive for either group to do either. I think it's actually possible that women might find something attractive while men find the same thing(s) unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 09:56 PM
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Too afraid to do that lol but I think my face is part of the problem as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 09:55 PM
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get a much better chance to experience sex with a vastly superior mate than her male counterpart. Too bad sex isn't as important to most women as commitment is. This is like a man experiencing friendship with a vastly superior in SMV female (we call this beta orbiting).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 09:54 PM
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Yes, I knew I couldn't be the only one!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 09:51 PM
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That I should straighten my hair and that I should have a bigger butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 07:39 PM
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Yes, I'm guessing it'r partially this. While I'm not fat, I'm also not curvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 07:38 PM
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Could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 07:38 PM
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If you're very thin other women might be envious but men could be disappointed by your flat chest and butt I think it is at least partially this. I'm not fat, but I'm also not curvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 07:37 PM
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Plus, in my view at least, once a man and woman in places like that do get married, he can be relatively sure she hasn't experienced a plethora of penis, which is a massive boon. There it is. It's really less about some men getting more sex than other men and more about some women getting more sex than some men. In western countries, more men get laid--but so do more women. Most men want a virgin, so that's why it's seen as worse, even though men do have more of a chance to get sex before marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 06:25 PM
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Do you have a very striking fashion/hair/make-up look or style? No Men are more likely to see tits/ass/facial beauty alone and ignore other aspects of a woman's 'look' than women, imo. I have a naturally curve-less body. I don't starve myself and I'm not super skinny, I just look almost like a stick rather than an hourglass. I think this and curly hair may be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 06:22 PM
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some nerds will be rejected by certain women just because they are nerds. They will probably only get results if they do traditionally un nerdy things, like work out, get buff, and take up other activities. That's pretty straight forward, then. If literally ALL women are rejecting a guy solely because he's a nerd, then he knows exactly what to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 06:19 PM
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Usually they compliment my hair or my eyes, or just my overall appearance. Like "wow, I love your hair" or "you have beautiful eyes" Or "You're so young and beautiful" (from older women).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 06:18 PM
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No, they're straight. I don't think I'm ugly, but I'm not pretty either. I'd say I'm average. However, I say average because I'm ugly to guys and beautiful to women and so that averages out as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:29 PM
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How sure are you about that? Because that has not been my experience at all. Many guys will tell me "You'd be cute/hot if you straightened your hair"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:22 PM
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these days lol, it's always been like that. Men care about looks in a woman, not personality or intelligence. It's biological* *which makes it completely okay for them, however when it's biological for a woman to want a tall, strong, rich man, suddenly hypergamy is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:21 PM
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Whether the majority of a gender may think Woman A is attractive while the majority of the other gender does not, I don't know. I guess it's possible. I've heard Anne Hathaway as an example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:19 PM
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IG eyebrows Don't have those, but I do have curly hair. I know many men don't like curly hair but many women think it's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:18 PM
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True. But why would multiple women who I've never met go out of their way to do that? It's literally strangers stopping me on the street... It is probably all lies, but why are so many random women going out of their way to lie to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:17 PM
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I guess it's all personal taste, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:16 PM
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Strangers don't know my personality (though I do have a strange one--very shy, awkward), and perhaps a unique look, too, I have curly hair which a lot of men don't like so that might be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:16 PM
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A woman, man, or anything inbetween would have to be insane to compliment that fashion lol if that makes me basic then so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:14 PM
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Well I look nothing like Ruby Rose, however, I look nothing like a sorority girl, either, so that may be an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:13 PM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:12 PM
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What could explain my situation then? Why would random women go out of their way to compliment my looks while random men go out of their way to insult them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:11 PM
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Maybe...not in my case, personally, but I could see how that would happen in other cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:11 PM
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it's more tolerable to be in a situation where no guys are getting laid, vs just some guys and not others. But that's just my view. Why? Because it's more fair? lol TRP would say that's a collectivist outlook and so a feminine one. Men are supposed to want to be competitive... I think it's better when at least some guys are getting laid. That way, men at least have a chance. If they're willing to do what is necessary then they have the option of getting laid. Also, in the US I've seen even very …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 05:06 PM
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I was talking more about Middle East and India, in traditional areas. Europe is considered "western", so it's easy to get laid. East Asia...depends on the area. Having known many immigrants and foreign students, it really is a world of difference between the US and non-westernized countries. Sex outside of marriage is punishable, if not by death then by disowning from the family, social exclusion, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 04:56 PM
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I would say sex is easiest to get in western countries. Western men may complain about western women, but try living in a country where extra/pre marital sex is punishable by death. Nobody is getting laid in traditional countries until they're married or unless they visit prostitutes. In western countries at least guys have a chance to go and fuck around. Some guys have more options than others, of course, but it's better than zero options like in say, the Middle East or India, where many men (a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 04:45 PM
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Single dad is lower value, too, just not to the extent of single mom. Especially since most single dad's don't have custody while most single moms do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 10:00 PM
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Visit a nursing home. It's full of parents who taught their kids they "owed" them. The kids pay that debt by warehousing them in a home and never visiting. But feel free to see how that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 09:57 PM
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ALL guys (and all girls, for that matter) have to lower their standards to some degree. 99% of people aren't going to date the 10/10 blonde super model or 10/10 billionaire Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 05:18 PM
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You have to shape a child's value system, There is no 100% way to do that, though. There are outside influences beyond parents which are more powerful than parental influence (media, friends, school, etc). You'd have to keep the kid isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 04:09 PM
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You can have high self-esteem without thinking your DNA is so special that you must reproduce for that reason. (That doesn't mean that you can't want kids for other reasons.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 04:08 PM
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But even with the right woman there is no 100% guarantee that the kids will turn out alright, even with the best guidance from the best parents. I've seen some kids with great parents get messed up anyway (or just to spite their parents).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:28 PM
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Exactly. Men complain about women's high standards but don't want to lower their own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:08 PM
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Agreed. But lots of people think they're so special that the world needs their DNA passed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:07 PM
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Once I'm old they will be supporting me. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:06 PM
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Thanks so much for your suggestions! I will try the pillow one and possibly the penis ring thing if he'll agree to it :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 03:10 AM
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That's it then. You can mentally trace back to those events and forgive them and forgive yourself for every bit of trauma that was held on to. You can even visualise it as a cord between you and other people which needs to be cut and released, with love. You can also release the need to protect yourself like that because you don't need that any more. You are safe enough to become vulnerable now, bit by bit. I have mostly gotten over it, which is why i have become able to desire sex and masturbat…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 05:52 PM
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My lifelong dream is just to be financially stable enough that I can get enough sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 04:50 PM
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Perhaps he thinks missionary is the only allowable position for religious reasons. Yes, I think this is the reason he only wants to do one position. Although he is no longer Catholic it still really affects his mindset. There must be layers of history relating to why you felt scared of sex. I was bullied for being ugly so I felt that desiring sex and love was making myself vulnerable to rejection and ridicule. Therefore, I convinced myself that I didn't want it. Total sour grapes. Also, I felt t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 04:36 PM
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Troll. Indians hate blacks more than any other race does.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 03:55 PM
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My advice would be to take charge of your own orgasms and masturbate during PIV sex. Is this possible in the missionary position? It's the only one he likes and it seems impossible for me to reach down there. But to read that you had sex nearly every day for six months and didn't enjoy it, you felt nothing.....that sounds like perhaps you two are not sexually compatible. Could be. But I think it's probably due to the fact that before I met him I considered myself asexual and feared sex. I had ne…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 02:28 PM
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You should both smoke a joint and just talk it out. whatever issues he's got going on, they'll be out in the open, and you'll both say what you need to say and do what you need to do without awkwardness or anxiety getting in the way. And it does sound like you two have some stuff in the closet you both need to get off your chest. lol we probably should. However our jobs drug test so we've never used drugs in either of our lives. We don't even drink. But we do need to find a way to talk it out. i…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 02:21 PM
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I understand it may be permanent, which makes it harder to leave. I don't want to be the kind of girl who abandons her man because he has a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 02:10 PM
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You mentioned that it's not porn-induced, but how do you know? I don't know 100% for sure. I only know what he told me and he told me that he has no interest in porn. He says he'll masturbate to scantily clad pictures, but no naked girls and no moving images. This may or may not be true, but this is what he told me. How does he get off with you? Through PiV sex. I've tried to get him off with blow jobs, but only succeeded once. My guess is he needs to stop watching porn and masturbating to porn …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 02:09 PM
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Beware of attributing his problem to anxiety, Yeah, he says it's anxiety but it could be something else that I'm not aware of. Rest periods seem like a good idea. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 01:56 PM
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Cool, I will check it out! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 01:55 PM
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Good ideas. I'm currently not initiating anymore and will continue not to.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 01:54 PM
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Is there any chance he has low testonsterone? Yes, there is a chance. He did get his T checked and has chosen not to tell me the results. This makes me suspect that there is low testosterone in play here. Outside of that have you considered a return to sex where he doesn't have to get you off? We try that once in a while. When he is able to get it up, then it goes fine. Other times he just can't get it up and so nobody gets off. Have you tried manually stimulating yourself during intercourse to …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/16 07:01 PM
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Not that I'm aware of. Neither of us drink and he won't even take an advil for a headache. However, the ED may also be stress related. He has a demanding job on top of this issue.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/16 06:55 PM
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you need to get onto the idea that you have to take charge of that aspect for yours I am starting to do this and it has slightly helped.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/16 06:28 PM
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Yes. Blowjobs do work sometimes. Other times though, he can't even get hard for a blowjob since he knows he is "supposed" to get hard. he can still enjoy the feeling, though, he just can't get hard. Basically anything he thinks/knows he should be getting an erection, he is unable to.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/16 06:28 PM
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Thanks for clarifying :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 11:37 PM
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Thank you so much for answering my questions! Rule Zero on TRP By this do you mean: You are a man who wants to improve your own control over your life, mostly your sex life. You want to help men achieve that goal. OR You are a woman who wants to improve your own control over your life, mostly your sex/commitment life. You want to help women achieve that goal.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 10:36 PM
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Are you saying that there wouldn't be male sexbots or VR aimed at women? I would be completely fine with it as long as there was something for me, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 09:01 PM
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I'm not sure if you'll see this but here goes: 1.) I was banned on a different account for suggesting marriage may not be the best choice for women due to the high divorce rate in the US and how being divorced is a stigma worse than being never married in my opinion (which people may or may not agree with). Would I be banned again for such an opinion under the new mods? 2.) If you see my post history, you'll see I've been having trouble with my boyfriend who has ED. He is committed to me and I t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 08:55 PM
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most men are pretty happy to have sex with their gfs At first. After time they get bored of the same women. When my bf and I first got together we had sex all the time and in many places. After 6 months, though, it started slowing down and after a year it's like once a week or every two weeks. Other girls I've talked to said the same thing happened with their bfs. Not ED, necessarily, but slowing down of sex and less attraction from their bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 05:03 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 04:56 PM
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I don't. But many men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 04:55 PM
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You can't have your cake and eat it too. This is so you get to keep your cake fresh, while eating other cakes on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 04:55 PM
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zero abundance mentality. What is the point of abundance mentality for a woman? if she acts on that abundance, she loses value each new man she sleeps with. improve yourself. Women can only improve so much. Once you're skinny, good hair and make up, cooking and cleaning, what else can you do? Women lose value with age and partner count. If I leave this guy, then the next guy will be even worse since I'm older now and would have a higher partner count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 06:22 PM
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"sexual experience" with partner count. The reason people conflate the two is because they assume a highly sexual woman won't be satisfied with just one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 06:18 PM
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less sexually experienced woman, all other things being equal. RP guys say they would for an LTR, and would choose the more sexual woman for ONS or plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 05:22 PM
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Easier said than done, honestly. I don't want to accidentally end up on the CC but I don't want to be sexless either, so it's easier to just stay in the relationship and get occasional duty sex than date around and get used for sex, or dumped and be unsatisfied if I don't put out. Plus, I'm no longer a virgin so won't be able to pair bond with the next guy the way I've pair bonded with this guy. I want to give my love fully to one man, and I've already found the man I can love fully. It would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 05:20 PM
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who you are not interested in sexually. Where did I imply that? I wouldn't be with him if I wasn't interested in him sexually. you should stop focusing on trying to consolidate beta bux at your age And do what instead? Fuck around? Not interested in doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 05:13 PM
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kinky and loves to exploit the primal urges doesn't mean anything regarding her quality. Many people would disagree. They would say that a woman who gives into primal urges and kinks isn't marriage material because she doesn't have good morals, wouldn't be a good influence on the kids, etc. Also, they would imply that because she wants kinky sex, she probably wouldn't be satisfied with only her husband and would eventually want other men as well, leading to infidelity and/or divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:55 PM
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there is no benefit whatsoever to marrying a woman without sex from the woman. He wants emotional support and emotional intimacy from the woman. Like a close friendship with cuddling that he can't get from a close friendship with a man. He either has ED and is such a wank that he won't even bother to get it fixed at the young age of 25, or he's really not attracted to you and can't get it up for you, but is too much of a bitch to man up and leave. He probably isn't attracted to me. But I think h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:53 PM
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I think he's full of shit. As in he's lying? Or as in he's stupid for thinking that? He may be unable to fight the disgust towards a woman willing and wanting to do those things, especially the mother of his kids wanting those things. It could be a biological reaction that he can't control. Even if she's only doing it with him and has only ever done it with him, he may still be too disgusted by the thought of her desiring and agreeing to that kind of sex to have that be compatible with seeing he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:31 PM
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The last question is kinda redundant given that other factors are more important, no? What if she didn't tell you she wanted to do that kind of stuff until you were already married and had kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:28 PM
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Well, a better rephrasing that applies directly to my relationship would be: "My bf has ED and wants a sexless but loving relationship with me instead of trying to fix his ED, and also wants me to be sexless and supportive of him rather than look elsewhere." AND "My bf has ED but he says that he wants a chaste relationship with a pure girl who he loves while fucking degenerate girls he doesn't love on the side...is his ED due or partially due to the fact that he doesn't have this arrangement?" "…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:27 PM
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PO seems like a BP woman. I'm more RP or at least Purple Pill. My bf (or, rather, close romantic friend with occasional benefits) is more BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:22 PM
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I'm not the incel, but okay. My point was that a guy with options is more likely to choose the young virgin than the slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:20 PM
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Since he's an incel, He's not incel, he's basically vocel. He doesn't really like sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:20 PM
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"I have tied up girls before, I have cum on their faces, I have had ass to mouth, I have had a girl who really loved toe sucking who reciprocated with other activities, I've had sex involving food and I have threesomes with two women. These in my opinion, while I would not like the prospect that the mother of my children had engaged in every single one, are not completely out of this world in terms of sexual activity. I don't remember seeing much in pornography that aside from the fantasy aspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:18 PM
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Would you still accept that if you weren't incel and had hundreds of options, including innocent virginal women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:19 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:14 PM
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The woman is a unicorn who doesn't want sex, she just wants to take care of the kids, cook and clean, and be affectionate but not sexual with her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:36 PM
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Lot's of guys like to cuddle and open up, they just don't want to do it in front of another guy. Hence needing a close female friend to do that with, but not to be sexual with since opening up leads to a loss of attraction from the female.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:36 PM
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Anything is possible. If he was he was deeply in the closet though and probably denying it to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:34 PM
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Probably true. But many men can't open up emotionally to other men, let alone cuddle with them. So they want a female to do that with, even if they don't want to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:06 AM
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Or, maybe, he wants to keep the girl around because he loves her and likes her companionship but isn't sexually attracted to her. How he described it was "I just want a wife to love and cuddle with and a woman on the side who I don't care about to fuck."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:45 AM
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No in this scenario the woman doesn't have sex with ANYONE and the man has sex with any woman he wants, except his LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:44 AM
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They want to feel special because she's slutty for them and only them Once that happens, though, she's no longer pure and his attraction fades since she's lost the purity that drew him to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:43 AM
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No, I mean more like the guy is open but the girl isn't open and doesn't even sleep with her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 12:17 AM
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Okay. I believe you. I guess I just dated a male unicorn then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 12:03 AM
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Hmm...it seems to me that many men want a virginal pure woman to LTR while also fucking sluts on the side. Once they fall in love with a woman they can't see in her in a sexual way anymore. Or if they see her as LTR material, they don't see her as sexual and so go into the LTR without a sexual mindset towards her. But since you're a guy, you know how guys think better. I've only witnessed this from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 10:03 PM
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Idk...there is not much reason why a woman would want it. Men would be more likely to want this, though I kept it gender-neutral in case some women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 09:54 PM
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Why would I want that? You get a virginal, innocent, pure girl to LTR while also getting sex from a variety of women on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 09:53 PM
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lol it isn't what I want. But would you agree that this is what most men (and possibly women) want, even if they don't admit it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 09:52 PM
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