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Progressvicsj/r/MensRights14/04/19 03:57 PM
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Discriminationvicsj/r/MensRights25/02/19 12:34 PM
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That's true, which is why I think the term feminism is tainted. But a true equal and inclusive movement can easily replace the word feminism (like egalitarianism for example). What could replace the word patriarchy, do you think? Both patriarchal and matriarchal societies have existed throughout history, and these terms have been accurate to describe such power hierarchies. It is still an accurate description of many power hierarchies today, but as you say the word has lost its true meaning for …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 06:43 PM
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I agree, I hope we can find a common ideology that equally benefits all. But I honestly don't think it's possible. Humans are far too tribalist. Just look at what's happened the past 20 years: feminism rose back up which massively influenced culture and societal rules - which in turn alienated men to a noticeable degree. Then since the pandemic there's been a rise in "traditional" gender roles and values that favour men more and male centric spaces. It's part of the anti woke counterculture (I c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 07:42 AM
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This might be a hot take but I think you can not identify with feminism and still believe that patriarchy exists. I'm not talking the social hierarchy among average people where women are at an advantage in many cases, I'm talking about who runs and control "the world" and have created systems and subsequently cultures where men are more likely to hold positions of power. I believe these systems often hurts the average man as well and creates infighting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 07:21 AM
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In Hungary's case, it's definitely not feminists. They are one of the most "anti-woke" countries in Europe.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 11:11 PM
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If this is the result of a trained police officer in the US, then I'm wondering what the actual fuck makes them qualified for anything, really. This is not even the first time they've shot people in their own home for calling for help! Some serious changes to police education need to be made. It is genuinely sickening that these things are allowed to happen.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 03:12 PM
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This has been discussed in Norwegian media as well because we have the same statistics. It is a real issue, unfortunately. The issue itself isn't discriminatory. This is real men needlessly dying preventable deaths. There are several solutions, and some of those are discriminatory. Like delaying men from taking their licences. Well over 10 years ago in Norway, we just implemented an extensive and obligatory traffic course that goes through the foundations of being a driver and the dangers involv…
/r/MensRights13/11/24 08:15 PM
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This is the way to approach this. This particular issue doesn't need to be a battle between the sexes. It sucks to hear because the statistics are grave, but being defensive about it is just emotions speaking - and therefore not very constructive. It's like how boys statistically struggle with and drop out of education more than girls. It's not because men are dumber or "worse" students, they just need different accomodations. This issue is real and it is important exactly for the reasons you me…
/r/MensRights13/11/24 08:08 PM
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I see your point, but comparing divorce to traffic accidents that are more deadly and a way less complex issue is irrational.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 07:59 PM
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I won't pretend I know the answer to this conflict either, but one thing is for sure and that is both the US and Putin do horrible things. It is definitely biased of the West to not go after the US, but that doesn't make it wrong to go after Putin. Similarly to the US, he is also responsible for invading where he shouldn't and causing massacres. One thing is for sure though; the US won't be invading Russia as long as they remain in NATO. That would severely fuck up their relationship to Europe, …
/r/MensRights08/11/24 04:35 AM
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This is true for most leftwing parties around the world. They fail the men, sadly. I am just devastated for Ukraine right now. Say what you want about Kamala, but Trump is going to favour Putin's wishes and we're going to see even more men die in his war now.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 12:23 PM
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Alright, this might be true in the US, but this is citing a Norwegian study. I am Norwegian and have read three news articles just today about women being spoken "negatively" about in the article. One article is about how a woman was found guilty of lying about her testimony during a terrorist attack we experienced in Oslo during 2022 and is now sentenced to jail because of it. Still, men are definitely discriminated against moreso than women in many cases here in Norway, so I'm not trying to ta…
/r/MensRights02/10/24 01:43 PM
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I don't really see the correlation either. The article doesn't even draw any conclusions as to why, so saying lesbians think their divorce rates are men's fault is pure speculation in this case. I would love for the sub to stay a bit more relevant. Without more information when it comes to conclusions or theories regarding this study, it is a stretch to link this to men's rights.
/r/MensRights02/10/24 12:33 AM
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I think it's a combination of that and women being better at reporting psychological abuse. Unfortunately many men aren't believed when they report abuse, especially if it's "just" psychological so they are way less likely to report it in fear they won't be taken seriously.
/r/MensRights02/10/24 12:15 AM
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Luckily it is definitely not encouraged in my country. There's brain rot in the younger generation, but they're only a loud minority. The vast majority of women I know disagree with radical feminism. Our biggest issue has been politicians and mainstream media neglecting men's issues, but even women have been calling that out here through chronicles and articles. As of late I've seen more articles in big newspapers highlighting the male mental health crisis and the educational gender gap, which I…
/r/MensRights24/07/24 10:22 AM
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To be fair the same is very much true for women. I think anyone can be radicalised online. Men can become misogynists and women can most definitely become misandrists. It just so happens a lot of misandry is viewed as socially acceptable - that's where the real issue lies. Men being radicalised is newsworthy, women being radicalised is mostly scuffed at. Especially by media. When are the media gonna start holding people accountable and tackle these issues without discrimination? That's why it is…
/r/MensRights23/07/24 07:01 PM
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Not to be that guy, but this sub used to be about actual men's rights issues. What is this silly finger pointing and low effort memeing I keep seeing in this sub as of late? It feels like it's descending to full on tribalism whereas this used to be a community where both men and women supported men's rights. Not to criticise this post in particular, this is just the type of post that would get called out for being off-topic or irrelevant just a few years ago. It doesn't contribute to anything in…
/r/MensRights12/06/24 12:24 PM
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Yeah everything was so intentional! What's silly is that they displayed patriarchy equally ridiculous. The whole thing was way more based than I could ever imagine it would be.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 08:59 AM
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From what I understand it's more relevant to "atone" for something if it has resulted in long term consequences or systematic oppression. You could argue that's the case for women to some degree, but they're not more at a disadvantage than men are in modern times. What I find extremely dumb is that feminists feel the need to punish regular ass men for whatever societal / systemic injustices that still exist. In reality most men want actual equality and don't want anyone to be oppressed. That's j…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 12:28 AM
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I mean, I'm happy his DV charges were cleared if he really is innocent of that. But the grooming allegations have been backed up with screenshots and the ages of the victims have been verified. So there is some truth there, at least. I mean he's also said some pretty gross stuff about minors in podcasts as well, but that's not proof of any crime. Being wrongfully accused of such heinous crimes is not to be taken lightly. But actually engaging in pedo behaviour is completely inexcusable. I love t…
/r/MensRights08/01/24 01:26 PM
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Good for him, but I thought he was being cancelled due to the grooming allegations?
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:13 AM
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Private messages have been shared where he called a minor jailbait and said they should start cam whoring once they turn 18. There's also been screenshots posted where he's acting dubious towards several underaged fans whilst being fully aware of their age.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:12 AM
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My immediate thought as well
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/23 01:31 AM
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You are completely right. It is discrimination towards both sexes and only strengthens harmful gender stereotypes. Obviously men are getting the shorter end of the stick still, but it also shows how hypocritical feminism is towards women as well. They're all for empowerment until something like the military is brought up and all of a sudden they're "too weak" or too busy being a "housewife". Empowerment my ass. Either make drafts compulsory for all or (preferably) make it compulsory for none and…
/r/MensRights24/10/22 08:46 PM
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I just wanted to say that there are some of us out there who support men's rights. I'd be considered a socialist in the US so I'd say I'm pretty leftist, however I'm not American. The problem with the US is that your political standing often becomes part of your identity and it offers very little flexibility and nuance. It's like you have to subscribe to the whole ass party or else you're "on the opposite team". We don't have that outside the US, so I'm probably not a good example in that sense.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/22 09:31 PM
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I don't think regretful parents are 100% to blame for the bed they have to lie in. No one really tells the truth about parenting and glorification is a huge problem imo. We're told having children is the most magical thing in the world. We're told you'll instantly bond with your baby. We're told raising a child is rewarding. And in pretty much all cultures we're expected to have children as if it's a given. Many grow up believing that starting a family is just what you're supposed to do. I've he…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 10:16 AM
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Communication, communication, communication. It's the only way to clear shit up or solve a dilemma. Imo people are just generally bad at communication. We like to assume, we like to stay inside our own heads, we subconsciously wish our partners were telepathic and would just "get it" without needing to address it. And sometimes you find a person who is perfect in every other way but the bedroom, so you decide the pros outweigh the cons. Sex isn't everything, and to some couples it isn't even tha…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 07:03 PM
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I kinda agree. I know some feminists here in my country and they tend to be more intolerant of men in general. Though I've not met anyone who has said all men are trash or anything like that irl. Could be I don't hang with that crowd but I do have a fair few friends from the LGBTQ community as I'm bi myself and not even they mistreat men or talk trash. They're just quick to judge, but it's clear they get their attitude from online LGBTQ places that are more radical. I've only known one woman who…
/r/MensRights22/07/22 03:45 PM
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I am from Norway. It is one of the top countries in gender equality but even here men still are discriminated against by the state, education, mental health-wise and the justice system. It's by far better than other places in the world, but there are still systematic issues that needs addressing. However, most average people are for actual equality and don't want to see men left by the wayside. My biggest criticism against Norwegians is that we tend to be very passive when it comes to activism. …
/r/MensRights22/07/22 03:32 PM
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Wtf why. I am a woman if that's what you're wondering, I'm not trying to hide that. I'm vocal about my support for human rights in general, men's rights included. I thought me not having male genitalia was irrelevant to my support. My response is genuine, it is just my observation. Most women I know don't even use the feminist label and think the demonizing attitude towards men is extremist based on our discussions. I know it's hard to grasp but there are places outside of the US that... are not…
/r/MensRights22/07/22 12:44 PM
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To be honest most women I know irl are completely reasonable people who don't discriminate against men. I'm not in the US though so could be it's different over there for all I know. I only know a few radicals (some LGBT members) but even they don't hate men, they're just quicker to disapprove of men but they've still got male friends and are considerate people. The rampant extremism I see on the internet and from America's end isn't something I ever experience or witness irl. So there's definit…
/r/MensRights22/07/22 07:01 AM
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Tbf those of us who support men's rights don't identify as feminists anymore. I used to before I realized it wasn't about equality after all and then ditched the movement. There's probably quite a few people in this sub that are former feminists. Also I'm sorry to hear you went through such a rough time. I'm glad you made it through and I hope you're doing better now.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:28 AM
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Another woman here who used to identify as a feminist some years ago. I switched to calling myself an egalitarian instead, so maybe a term like egalitarianism would be better.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:15 AM
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Horrific.
/r/MensRights04/07/22 02:19 AM
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I realized back in 2014. I had been a feminist up until then but I discovered I couldn't freely speak about male issues or men's rights without being told that it was misogynistic. I called myself a feminist precisely because I thought it was about equality. Once that falsehood was exposed I stopped calling myself a feminist and after a while I stopped condoning the movement completely. At the end of the day I'll always support egalitarianism. For women and men. Fuck any type of discrimination a…
/r/MensRights01/07/22 10:48 PM
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They're rape apologists. Simple as that. Fucking disgusting.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 10:22 PM
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having sex with A weird way of saying raped, as well.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 06:39 PM
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100%. Two of my ex boyfriends were very against me getting sterilised and there's a reason why they're exes. If your partner is pushing you to do something you don't want for your body, or if a partner is preventing you from doing what you want with your body... Then that's a massive red flag imo. At the very least it means you're potentially incompatible, in worst case the person wants to control you and manipulate you into being what they want you to be. If you wanna get a vasectomy then no on…
/r/MensRights01/07/22 12:29 AM
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I'd be devastated living there tbh. I love my dad, my uncles, my boyfriend and my friend group. I would have none of that. Do these women not have men they care about in their lives?
/r/MensRights30/06/22 10:59 PM
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Go check out r/intactivism and r/intactivists if you wanna discuss the body mutilation issue further (don't know which sub is best tbh). I'm a woman so I don't feel it's my place to speak for men, but I can say as a European at least that circumcision is fucked up and I find it disgusting that it's still being committed so regularly in the US and in certain religions. No matter what you think about the abortion issue, it's still a huge problem that we don't do everything we can to ensure the hea…
/r/MensRights29/06/22 11:00 AM
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My solution is to just get sterilised. No need to punish anyone.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:38 AM
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I mean personally I'd do absolutely anything else than fuck up the life of an innocent person. Whether that is going to a different state or straight up getting sterilised before anything can happen.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 09:08 PM
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Oh my god I didn't even think about that... I'm sure some women are crazy / desperate enough to actually go through with a false rape claim to save themselves. What a terrifying biproduct of this whole situation.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:18 PM
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Forreal. I genuinely hope this is the incident that'll call attention to men's reproductive rights too. Maybe some misandrist women will realize how awful it feels to have your choices and control stripped away from you over something so life altering. If we're going to be talking about reproductive rights we should be talking about everyone's rights, no more discrimination.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:40 PM
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I saw they're already trying to organize sex strikes. So yeah, seems like the latter is what's about to happen.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 11:31 AM
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As a woman I fully support men's reproductive rights. Everyone should have a choice and options.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 11:29 AM
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I'd say beauty is subjective and he is very much entitled to his opinion. What I do find cringe is media still so obviously trying to push "body positivity".
/r/MensRights20/05/22 10:34 AM
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I understand women preferring to hire other women, but why does men not hire other men? That's a bit alarming to me. Why are so many men discriminating against each other? How can we address that?
/r/MensRights20/05/22 10:26 AM
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I think it's a common pattern when communities become closed off to criticism and echo chambers start to take hold. It breeds toxicity. It's almost cult like. You see the same thing happening with sub groups of incels like MGTOW, for example. They started out with very fair and good ideals and as the echo chambers developed it just turned into another toxic place with extremist vibes. What's scary about feminism is that it is so widely accepted, pandered to and unchallenged. They've been allowed…
/r/MensRights10/05/22 10:28 PM
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The legal system really doesn't give a fuck about men and that's been the main issue imo. Of course feminists aren't advocating for men's rights, but the legal system has actively fucked men over since forever.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 08:46 AM
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This is a great comment, I wish you'd make it into a post for more people to see! Bodily autonomy cannot have any exceptions, period. Men have been robbed of their rights for so long it's straight up disturbing. This needs to be talked about more.
/r/MensRights06/05/22 11:13 PM
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It is crazy how progressive women's autonomy has been but men's autonomy has literally just been continuously shat on. They're forced into parenthood, many get their genitals mutilated after birth... It's disgusting. Men should have the right to opt out of non consensual parenthood just as much as women. Men should have the right to not have their genitals mutilated - just like female genital mutilation is illegal! Men's concent matter just as much as women's.
/r/MensRights06/05/22 11:05 PM
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I'd argue pregnancy definitely isn't risk free although a minority don't even notice. Pregnancy was regularly fatal before modern medicine. However, everything you're saying about what men have to go through is right and it has been completely ignored since forever. I fully support financial abortion for men if abortion should be legal. What worries me about this development is that it's not a step in that direction at all... It's a step away from bodily autonomy rights which I don't think will …
/r/MensRights06/05/22 10:58 PM
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Also I think part of why student debt is much higher for women because statistically men drop out at much higher rates. Not only from college but high school as well. I think that's an extremely important issue that needs more light shed on it. Why is the school system favouring women and / or discriminating against men? What can be done to address it?
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/22 11:48 AM
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Noo for real? I loved that sub... I was wondering why I hadn't seen anything from it lately. I honestly thought it was harmless and a cheeky way of highlighting casual misandry / sexism. But of course to anyone outside of these spaces there are no such thing as misandry... What a shame.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/22 12:24 PM
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I abandoned the feminist labels years ago and when I found this sub I instantly recognized it as a much more reasonable and egalitarian space. I was worried about joining initially since I am a woman, but I can't sing the praises of this sub enough. I've never felt excluded from any discussion on here. All the points raised here are completely within reason and speak of important issues that are hard to talk about elsewhere. I've always been worried this sub would eventually get run over by actu…
/r/MensRights21/04/22 10:17 AM
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100%.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 10:21 PM
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And even if I got stealthed as a woman I'm still fortunate enough to have the option to have an abortion. Men don't. If someone forced me to have a baby I didn't want it would honestly make me feel a bit suicidal.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 10:01 PM
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Ironically enough visiting FDS is a great motivator to take contraceptives.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 09:55 PM
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I hate that the whole lonely part of the cat lady stereotype has become associated with AWFLs as well. Like I never want to have children. I'd much rather have animals. I hope I can find someone to spend my life with eventually, but I'd rather share my life with cats and dogs than of a bunch of kids. I don't want to be seen as a crazy feminist catlady despite that. I pray people view me as sane.
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/22 07:46 AM
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It's a bit off topic, but the association is understandable.
/r/AntiFeminists27/03/22 05:09 PM
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No advice, I just wanted to wish you the best of luck and hopefully you can grind through this extremely unfair situation and come out stronger. And also fuck that bitch.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 06:01 PM
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This is what bothers me. Like if you were raised to be a gentleman why not be a gentleman to other men as well? Why discriminate? There is no shame in being polite even if it's not reciprocated, just don't do it for the purpose of only being nice to women.
/r/AntiFeminists25/03/22 05:57 PM
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I'm probably one of the few females on this sub (as well as being queer), but I've just grown tired of the feminist movement. Like anything else American it abandons moderation and balance for something more extremist. It always becomes "us vs. them". I don't think it represents true egalitarianism anymore. Too many women are taking advantage of it to gain privileges. You could say they're the minority, but the problem is that it's mostly condoned by the rest. Mainly I'm just alarmed by the dehu…
/r/AntiFeminists21/03/22 12:16 AM
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Rules for thee, not for me.
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 05:44 PM
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I don't see how this is a feminist issue. Men wearing skirts really has nothing to do with feminism. If a guy is comfortable enough with his masculinity and he figures he wants to wear a skirt (or kilt) for himself, then why is that ruining things for you personally? I assume OP has a hard time distinguishing between LGBT and feminism, and probably meant to be anti-LGBT. Guess what, even LGBT people can be antifeminist, so they're not synonyms. OP is just homophobic.
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/22 06:05 AM
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I was gonna pitch in my two cents but I would just be echoing what others have already said.
/r/AntiFeminists21/02/22 01:09 PM
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A lot of people also don't realize how fragile children are. They see everything you do, they understand more than you think and they are so easily influenced. Unintentionally fucking up your child is easier than most people would like to admit. And now you've put that human into the world who will go and affect other human beings. Every sociopath out there was a cute, little baby at some point. Personally I encourage the idea of dissuading people from becoming parents. If you're able to be diss…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 02:17 PM
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It sounds like what you need to focus on more than anything else is finding a way to love yourself. It's only natural for us to find people other than our partners attractive, but that doesn't mean anything. At least it shouldn't. Someone else being attractive doesn't cancel out your own beauty. If I was with a guy who chose more attractive women over me, then I'd let him. And then I'd leave. Why would I ever want to be with a man like that? If he is that shallow that he only finds values in loo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 10:45 PM
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I'd be supportive of him regardless. This might sound a bit harsh but if it turned out he was full-on gay and has just been in denial about it, it would be much better for both of you to figure out earlier rather than several years down the road when you're properly established. If you're unsupportive of him or make him feel ashamed, he would probably just end up hiding what he truly feels further which will backfire at one point. That being said, of course it's likely he's just bisexual and it …
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 11:53 AM
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From what I can see the cab was about to drive off because it starts backing up at the beginning. She slips as she tries to open the door while the cab is moving, and that's when she starts kicking in what I assume was an attempt to get the cabby's attention. When the cab stops she probably took that as "ah, he understood I was trying to get in". As someone else mentioned it could be she's drunk as well which would explain a lot. Either way kicking the cab was a stupid move. I'm glad the cabby s…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/12/21 12:08 PM
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And of course every female that sides with subs like this one is a gender traitor and a "pick-me" girl. You seriously cannot reason with these people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 02:19 PM
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Feminism has slowly become really culty... Like they're seriously ticking some boxes at this point. Kinda scary.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 02:16 PM
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How is that supposed to work when you allow their wives and children in then? As if they're not gonna scheme against you from another country when you refuse to let them unite with their families? And then the children grow up resentful of the government that wouldn't let their father be present in their lives? Then there's the principle of what if you were in a position where you needed asylum? Can you image being in a situation where you were refused to get into a country based on your gender,…
/r/MensRights17/08/21 04:45 PM
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When it comes to immigration, I do believe integration is a better solution than alienation. We had a lot of rapes happen by Muslim immigrants here in Norway where I live, but what was distinct about it was that it was mostly men who had not taken steps to learning Norwegian, integrate into Norwegian culture / society and kept to their own communities. The young men who get radicalised by ISIS / the Taliban in Norway are often men who experience discrimination and racism by Norwegians, not makin…
/r/MensRights17/08/21 04:19 PM
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One thing's for sure... If you treat the men like second hand trash, they won't feel too fondly towards you either. If they were all treated like the valuable human beings they are, maybe they'll behave accordingly.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 09:52 AM
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You know what created the feminist movement in the first place? Male supremacy. Now we're experiencing female supremacy, so by responding with opting for more male supremacy will only fuel another feminist movement. Do you not see this? The answer to the problem is to break the cycle. Extremism always creates extremism towards the opposite end. The answer is balance, aka actual equality. Or else this will be a never-ending tug of war.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 09:47 AM
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It's sad because I wish MGTOW was exactly what it was supposed to be. Men deserve their own space away from women where they can support each other. It isn't just misogynists that taint those places, it is feminist SJWs as well so it's almost impossible to sustain such a space. I feel this sub is one of the only places left where people are concerned about men's rights in a legitimate way, and that's a shame.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 09:17 PM
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To play devils advocate MGTOW started out as a place for men to encourage each other and finding happiness without women in their lives. It was a place for positivity. It turned into a place for obsessing over and complaining about women which obviously attracted the actual misogynistic crowd which doomed them in the end. That's why I've always liked this sub better. It isn't about hating on or blaming anyone for their gender, it's simply about achieving actual equality. I have personally not se…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 03:06 PM
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^
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/21 06:01 AM
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Stopped being a feminist for the same reason.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/21 06:35 PM
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100% yes. I'm a bisexual woman and I'm generally put off by feminists. But FDS members... They're fucking repulsive.
/r/AntiFeminists06/04/21 04:24 PM
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Puppy tax pls
/r/AntiFeminists06/04/21 04:21 PM
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This is actually heartbreaking. I say this a lot but so many people in general should never have become parents.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/21 03:21 PM
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"we just want equality"
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 09:46 PM
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I'm joining in with the other female voices in this thread to share my own personal experiences. I've always had close male friends. I'm not super sure why, but I've always found it so much easier to communicate and connect with them. During my late teens I discovered I was bisexual, but honestly women intimidate and scare the shit out of me. I find it very hard to make friends with women by myself. I've been in many female friend groups, however. There's always drama at some point. Now, I've me…
/r/MensRights19/02/21 12:30 AM
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I was hesitant to join the r/MensRights sub because I'm a woman but it's honestly one of the least sexist places to discuss gender equality. Most of the people on there are super sivil, inclusive and reasonable. They just call out feminist bullshit which is obviously stampled as sexist by feminists because they're allergic to criticism.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/21 09:08 PM
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There is no list if you phrase it that way. It'll only show up if you use the word "sleep with" or "had sex with" instead of "rape".
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/21 06:46 PM
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I don't understand how some feminists can't acknowledge that there are toxic and abusive women out there?? I mean not only are they victim blaming men, they're victim blaming all women in lesbian relationships that has been abused by their female partner as well. But I think those who refuses to acknowledge abusers might be abusive themselves tbh.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 08:38 AM
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I don't fucking understand people that decide to keep the baby when they can't even financially support themselves. What kind of life are you supposed to give this completely innocent and helpless human? Fair enough if contraceptives failed and you don't want to have an abortion, but for fucks sake that just means you've chosen responsibility. If you didn't even bother with contraception however... Fuck you.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/21 04:59 PM
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I used to support her because I agree with her views and there are painfully few women who speak about these issues. BUT some months ago she literally said she was fine with spanking her kid for a really silly reason and thats when she lost me. It frustrates the fuck out of me because she's literally the top example of a female mra on tiktok especially. She has literally no credibility because of how much of a mess she is, so she's just giving the feminists more reason to believe "this is what s…
/r/MensRights03/01/21 07:40 AM
2

Well the feminists call her a "pick-me" girl exactly because they think she's doing this for male attention only.
/r/MensRights03/01/21 07:31 AM
1

I don't know why but I think both feminists and non-feminists have misunderstood what the wage gap was about. The original issue was that women got less paid than men within the same job. For example male journalists were paid more than female journalists. But even that isn't as sexist as feminists make it out be. A lot of wage gaps are due to men just being more present at work. Pregnancy / maternal leave is one example where women are absent and therefore get paid less. But because this issue …
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/20 02:13 PM
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Not really. It's just like BLM. It's mainly about black people obviously, but racism and discrimination is an universal issue for all minorities. Similarly, it's mainly male veterans that dominate homelessness and suicide statistics. So coming here and saying that all veterans suffer is not incorrect in itself, but it's kind of like going onto the BLM sub to say "all lives matter".
/r/MensRights20/12/20 07:05 PM
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It is a bit stupid, but isn't that what r/suicidewatch is for? I kind of understand why they wouldn't want depressed people talking too much about it. There's gonna be people with different kinds of depression there and if some talk about suicide a lot, it might give ideas or glamorise it to others (kinda like what happened on Tumblr). Suicide tends to inspire more suicides if it happens within a community.
/r/MensRights08/12/20 09:22 AM
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I think some of the judgemental women are bitter they had children because they felt it was their duty. It took me many years to realize that I didn't actually have to have children. It's just a traditional / cultural / societal expectation. It's pretty much a given. When I reflected upon that I realized that I could just choose not to if I didn't want to. It sounds a bit stupid, but the thought really hadn't struck me before. I think a lot of women experience the same thing when it comes to wha…
/r/MensRights07/12/20 01:33 PM
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I agree. I used to follow them originally because I supported the cause and thought it was admirable trying to find happiness and fulfilment in life without women. But yeah all of a sudden it just got uncomfortably sexist and toxic. I liked it when it was just men encouraging and supporting each other in finding their own way, now every other post is obsessing about women-this, women-that.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 01:19 PM
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Exactly!! I don't think anyone who doesn't want kids should have kids. Raising another human is a big deal and if you're not 100% in it, then just don't. I'd rather regret not having kids than regret having them.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 01:14 PM
6

Yet I keep falling for men who wants children when I absolutely do not! I honestly wish there was a dating app for childfree people.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 01:11 PM
1

Thank you for bringing attention to this cause specifically! We talk about men's rights in the west a lot (which is good too), but I don't see too many posts that cover non-western activism.
/r/MensRights06/12/20 06:52 AM
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One small good thing is that apart from religious practice, in the west it's only really in the US it's normalised. I read once it was due to campaigning against masturbation during the 1940's (I'm probably wrong about the decade). But yeah, a lot of people speak against it in Europe at least. But that means they should use their influence to end it other places as well - like in Kenya.
/r/MensRights06/12/20 06:49 AM
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Sound like the exact argument they made for equal pay. They want to get paid equally for doing the same job, not different jobs (which is the common misconception). But... They kicked up a whole ass rights movement because of that, claiming to be oppressed. Yet when men dominate far more grim statistics than "I don't get paid the same", it's all of a sudden a matter we can diminish and dismiss of. The pure fucking hypocrisy. "I only understand concepts that supports my views".
/r/MensRights03/12/20 07:52 AM
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So you'd be okay with being physically and / or mentally abused by a man as long as he is smaller than you? Are you gonna tell lesbians the same? That they'll avoid abuse if they don't date female bodybuilders? I think you'd be surprised to learn women can be just as abusive as men, abusers comes in all shapes and sizes. If you really came on here to victim blame, then you're disgusting and this is not the place for you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/20 10:12 PM
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That's disgusting. The Nordic countries claim to be amongst the biggest on gender equality, but yet again, men are left by the wayside. I'm so fucking disappointed in my country I could literally cry. What organisations or resources can you donate to in Norway to support men's rights? I'm gonna Google it, but if anyone has any good suggestions I'm all ears. I'm fuming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/20 10:07 PM
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I congratulated my two male best friends and my boyfriend yesterday and they didn't even know it was international men's day... I reminded my mom and she thanked me. But that was it. I didn't see or hear anyone else acknowledge the day. It made me sad. You can argue that the majority of normal feminists only want equality, but I feel I cannot associate myself with a label / movement that has rotten apples. Especially when those rotten apples want to make life hell for other human beings. I won't…
/r/MensRights21/11/20 01:27 AM
1

Some of that could be down to how they treat themselves, though. If they don't care about personal hygiene, being physically active, wearing clothes that suit them etc, then they won't ever be the most attractive versions of themselves. I work closely with programmers and a lot of them are really good looking men, some just don't care for themselves.
/r/MensRights17/11/20 12:56 AM
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I used to have this very unrealistic expectations towards men when I was younger. Because it was the socially acceptable thing to want, I thought I could only be attracted to fit, tall men. My first boyfriend was a bit chubby, was really insecure about some missing teeth and was a bit shorter than me. I remember feeling surprised I found him attractive when it went against what I thought I was supposed to find attractive. My current boyfriend is a balding, anorexic ginger (as he so eloquently pu…
/r/MensRights17/11/20 12:52 AM
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Well the "body positivy" movement started that way. #MeToo started that way. What's being said in stupid Twitter posts has a tendency to snowball in some cases. If enough people hear this sentiment and decide to jump on the bandwagon, it could change some attitudes. Any and all kind of activism / support, no matter how impersonal, matters in the grand scheme of things.
/r/MensRights17/11/20 12:40 AM
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Great post, thank you! I'm saving it for a day I'm discussing gender issues with my feminist friends. That being said, my heart breaks over this shit. It's so unfair, but there's so little we can do about it! Especially when it's considered sexist and discriminating to openly show support. We just have to keep on spreading this type of information. Eventually, it will be discussed in a context it wouldn't have been mentioned in earlier.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/20 11:49 PM
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I am a woman who tends to make friends with men quite easily. I've had a few I've had to friend zone because I have a long term boyfriend (who's totally ok with me having male friends). But as I've matured, I find it easier to maintain platonic male relationships. You just have to be a bit clear on boundaries and communicate with each other. This fall I've become close friends with a guy who has a track record for ending up in sexual or romantic relationships with girls he talks to. I obviously …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/20 10:10 PM
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Depends. If a random man I don't know hits on me and I turn him down, then I don't care for his reaction. If it's a friend or someone I like... It's terrible. I understand how crushing rejection feels and I fucking hate doing that to someone else. I rejected a male friend some years ago because I was in love with someone else and it wouldn't be fair on him to be with me and the disappointment in his eyes still haunt me to the point where it keeps me up at night. I used to cry thinking about it. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/20 09:56 PM
1

I am so sick of the US at this point. I honestly think Biden is the lesser evil but Biden and his team would never have been voted into government in my country still. US politics and the justice system is a shit show. I understand why, but man it's exhausting to constantly see political stuff all the time. None of it is "happy news" either. So depressing.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/11/20 02:44 PM
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I would have so fucking uncomfortable and out of place
/r/AntiFeminists16/10/20 11:40 AM
1

This gives me r/ABoringDystopia vibes
/r/AntiFeminists12/10/20 10:36 PM
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I agree with bringing it up before the check comes, definitely. I would (personally) still prefer to split it on the first date, even if the guy invited me. Maybe it doesn't really matter, but I'd like for our relationship to start on equal terms so it's more of a symbolic thing to me. I'm not too fuzzed about it later on in the relationship because I often pay for him as well based on what's convenient.
/r/MensRights03/10/20 05:41 PM
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I feel like this is a bit of a cultural thing as well. I live in Norway and the notion that a guy should pay the whole bill is usually seen as a bit offensive. Kinda how it's seen as rude to tip your waiter in (either Japan or South Korea, can't remember which). It indicates that the person being paid for, or tipped, can't provide for themselves financially. Etiquette here is seen as outdated and discriminating. All the dates I've been on either end in an equally split bill, or us just paying fo…
/r/MensRights03/10/20 10:15 AM
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That seems a bit staged but still kinda funny
/r/AntiFeminists23/09/20 12:41 PM
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Fuuuck her. Jesus Christ she doesn't deserve any of this. Johnny got kicked off of pirates of the Caribbean because of her and she doesn't even get kicked from aqua man when truth came into light. The movie industry just knows people don't give a fuck about male abuse victims, they know they can get away with the shit amber did. Equality my fucking asshole.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/20 10:49 PM
1

It's like waiting for governments to rid themselves of corruption.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/20 10:46 PM
2

It's such a shame. I like Jason Mamoa, it sucks that he got a big time role and the movie's shit and the main actress is a flaming can of garbage.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/20 10:45 PM
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Am I mistaken, or isn't The Dark Knight and The Joker DC's as well? I thought they were pretty good and I hope to see similar stuff. But I very much agree with the movies you mentioned, I didn't even watch birds of prey because it just seemed cringy.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/20 10:42 PM
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I was thinking that could be the reason. The first thought that came to mind was femoid. But her response is still cringy
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/20 02:08 PM
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It's because of the misconception that sex ed encourages teenagers (minors) to have sex. Completely ignoring the fact that teenagers will have sex whether you try to prevent them or not (hence the high teen pregnancy rates in the US), so the best thing you can do is educate them on the risks and consequences and encourage safety and responsibility. Withholding contraception because they're "too young to be having sex" is obviously a big part of the problem as well. This is precisely how you get …
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/20 05:24 PM
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I'm convinced you're a troll at this point. You've not been listening to a single word I've said in this whole conversation, you keep dodging the points I make and twist them into things I've not said at all. All the points I have made benefit the father's rights as well, as I thought we were discussing antifeminism in relation to parenthood. You make it sound like you don't care at all about men who are forced into fatherhood because of the woman's choices. But for the record I live in a countr…
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/20 05:07 PM
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Calling it a fetus a baby is equivalent to calling a child a teenager. They're at two very different developmental stages which is why we have specific words to distinguish them. I am not claiming that every unplanned kid should be aborted. I am saying that there are a lot of parents out there who should have never become parents in the first place. Some even have enough self awareness to acknowledge they wouldn't do a child any services. They shouldn't be forced to have to be responsible for a …
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/20 02:57 PM
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Again it is called a baby after it's birth, it's scientific definition. And 33 weeks is about 7 months. A baby is considered premature if it is born before week 37. The earlier it is born, the less likely it is to survive exactly because it isn't fully developed. The nervous system isn't fully developed until week 33, which means it won't work how it's supposed to until then. But again it is illegal to abort that late anyways. The latest I've read some countries can legally abort is until week 1…
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/20 02:34 PM
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I googled the definition for you: "fetus - an unborn or unhatched offspring of a mammal, in particular an unborn human more than eight weeks after conception." Just some additional information: we call it an embryo from the time of conception until the 8th week where it becomes a fetus. The fetus' brain and nervous system aren't fully developed until week 33. That means it is neither aware nor has any ability to physically feel anything until then. And week 33 is so far into the pregnancy that i…
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/20 02:08 PM
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A child is something very different from a fetus. Personally I'd much rather never have been born in the first place than grow up in an abusive and neglectful household. I feel it's more cruel to wonder why you were born and have no desire to live later in life when you are aware of it. I don't know about you, but I feel like a suicide is a hell of a lot more tragic than an abortion - which is yet another heartbreaking statistic men dominate. And most mental disorders have roots in your childhoo…
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/20 01:44 PM
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Fetus*. I hope you know the difference
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/20 01:27 PM
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I think abortion should be a lot less stigmatized. Why the fuck would you force a human to the world when the responsible parts openly admit they don't want to or can't be responsible. It's cruel and unfair towards the child. There are far too many people out there who should have never become parents in the first place.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/20 12:42 PM
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I found this sub a year and a half ago. And this is in all honesty one of my favourite subs on Reddit. At first I was worried it was gonna be a more formal incel / MGTOW space, but man was I wrong. This is one of the most fair and genuine subs about gender issues. There's no attacking women for just being women, no "male supremacy" as many think this sub wants... It's just genuine problems discussed in a genuine way. This sub is way less sexist and discriminating than any feminist subs I've ever…
/r/MensRights30/08/20 10:22 AM
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As a woman I agree 100%. I can't even stand to look through the sub because it makes me lose faith in humanity. I am sick and fucking tired of sexism in general, but the way it's become so normalised towards men is just... it's fucking vile. It's so frustrating that no one's doing anything about it either. All social media seem to condone / enable these attitudes by allowing their spaces to stay up. I can't fathom why more people don't find it alarming.
/r/MensRights20/08/20 02:56 PM
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I'm assuming OP means that "female empowerment" equals "I don't need no man" although there are a lot more elements to it than that.
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/20 11:17 AM
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Even if that was the case, why does it matter? Before we emigrated from Africa there was no such thing called Caucasian yet. Races constantly change, that's what evolution is all about.
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/20 11:15 AM
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Why is it that it's so widespread in the US in comparison to other western countries? I read a while back on this sub that about 80% of the male population in the US are circumcised. Why is it such a norm over there? I mean, of course it happens in Europe too but that's mostly in relation to Jewish and Muslim practices, and those are minorities. It just baffles me that genital mutilation of this kind is allowed to exist anywhere in modern times. It's barbaric and disgusting. But why is it so com…
/r/MensRights16/08/20 04:03 AM
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That's some fresh, reeking sexism right there
/r/AntiFeminists13/08/20 05:14 PM
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Not only do women take it for granted, but men as well. For one or another reason it's "gay" if you compliment your buddy. At least up to a certain age. That attitude needs to go as well. Compliment your bros!
/r/MensRights10/08/20 02:17 PM
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You deserve lots of compliments!
/r/MensRights10/08/20 02:13 PM
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You're still condoning a movement that is widely sexist and toxic. I used to identify as a feminist and I was of the opinion that so called "feminazis" were not representative of what real feminism was about. But at this point it doesn't matter because feminism as a whole has moved in the direction of oppressing (especially straight, white) men. I'm not religious for the same reasons. Although religion has a good message and a lot of good people, I can't condone all the terrible things religion …
/r/AntiFeminists09/08/20 12:00 PM
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This is reaching a bit. Seems like you're criticizing political stances (and stereotyes) more so than feminism specifically.
/r/AntiFeminists07/08/20 10:50 AM
1

I'm the opposite. I don't usually date men without beards. As a result, I never swipe on clean shaven men because I would never expect anyone to change their appearance on my behalf. This woman's tactics are not very sustainable, are they.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/08/20 06:50 AM
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I became a feminist because I wanted equality. At the time, I did think some things needed fixing for women, but I soon came to realize the same goes for men. I started wanting to distance myself from the movement when it became clear they did not want to do anything for men at all. Then the extremists came along and I just couldn't condone that type of behaviour. I wanted it to be about equality, not just flip the scales around. That's not fair. I started calling myself an egalitarian instead o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 03:42 AM
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I totally agree you should get paid more for dangerous and physically straining jobs, no question. But I thought the wage gap issue was regarding men and women doing the same job? At least that's what it was originally. But I read somewhere that in many cases there's a wage gap within the same career paths because women get pregnant and give birth at some point and therefore men advance more. It makes sense to me that you'd get paid more if you spent more time on the job than another person did.…
/r/MensRights30/07/20 08:59 AM
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No obviously he's been the victim here. But an adult can recover from things like this and move on with their lives. A child will be affected by this to a much higher degree. Take it from someone who was unfortunate enough to not have a dad growing up (although not his fault).
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/20 06:25 PM
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I don't really feel bad for anyone except the kid in this situation. That man was probably the only reliable adult in her life and now she's down to one deranged mother.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/20 12:39 PM
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It isn't at all. If anything, we need less people on earth than ever. It's just extremely ingrained in human psyche so it's going to be difficult to change overnight.
/r/MensRights29/07/20 12:47 AM
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Of course progress is possible! There are already many European countries that has paid paternity leave, we just gotta continue the fight in all other countries as well. You're doing a massive service for all future dads out there and you should be incredibly proud of what you've set in motion so far. Congrats!
/r/MensRights27/07/20 01:12 AM
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Or her emotionally neglecting and/or abusive father. Never underestimate the power of daddy issues.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/20 11:38 AM
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Because of this one example? It's better than shooting a 14 year old boy because you thought maybe he had a gun. Or shooting a woman in her sleep because you raided the wrong house. That's just two of many US examples. I'd feel safer approaching a German police, you don't have to worry about getting murdered by them.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/20 06:55 PM
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I honestly wouldn't expect more of a cop that's only had max 21 weeks of "training". Most other western countries require 2 or 3 years of training and studying to become a cop. It's a bachelor's degree. Many cops who are hired in the US, including the woman you mentioned, shouldn't be allowed to become cops at all.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/20 10:35 AM
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What else can you do when there's a horde of people out there just waiting for you to make a wrong step so they can cancel you and end your career? Modern feminism and the "offended" culture is essentially holding celebrities hostage. I mean even Jenna Marbles became a victim of it and she was literally one of the least problematic content creators out there.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/20 10:46 PM
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If your only purpose here is to discriminate and act sexist towards men, you're better off in r/feminism
/r/MensRights18/07/20 12:26 PM
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The MGTOW sub used to be a male only space, but idk how that one's doing nowadays. It seems the only male spaces on Reddit are misogynistic to various degrees so it's a bit unfair on men who don't want to partake in anything sexist and just want a space for themselves. But on the other hand, I don't know of any female only spaces that aren't misandrist either. As you point out, misandry is widely more acceptable than misogyny.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 11:03 AM
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Remember when they used to chemically castrate gay men some decades ago? Yeah, this doesn't feel far off. Scary.
/r/MensRights16/07/20 03:01 PM
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I will say though that you don't need to be super feminine to be against feminism - your friendly neighborhood MRA tomboy lol
/r/AntiFeminists15/07/20 10:24 AM
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We need more people to talk about it. Whenever feminism or something like that is discussed among my friends, I always mention an injustice men have to suffer through. I try to emphasize that everyone can experience discrimination and abuse based on their gender, and that we need to acknowledge this for men more. Most will agree with me, but won't have much to say about it. We just need to keep pushing it. Keep talking about it, talk about real life cases you've heard about, talk about statistic…
/r/MensRights14/07/20 09:46 AM
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I was heartbroken reading through this. The so called "justice" system is so biased and corrupt, it doesn't even recognize that women can be just as abusive as men. I'd say women can be even more abusive just based on psychological abuse. I'm so sorry this happened to you, you did not deserve it...
/r/MensRights14/07/20 09:35 AM
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You deserve to be heard and acknowledged, OP. I'm sorry you weren't granted that due to your biological sex. You deserve better.
/r/MensRights10/07/20 10:03 PM
2

Depends on which country you live in as well. The US isn't among the most progressive countries for dads.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 08:13 PM
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I totally agree. At some point in my late teens I realized you can either live a decent life with freedom, or have children. I'd never ever want to be a single parent myself because my mom was a single mother and it was hard for a while. I'd never want that for my own kid, but you can't guarantee anything in life. My dad got sick and died when I was a kid, so my mom didn't have a choice being a single parent. That can literally happen to anyone, shit happens. The choice is pretty simple. A life …
/r/MensRights08/07/20 08:10 PM
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Who the fuck is "people"?
/r/AntiFeminists07/07/20 10:46 AM
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The US is a terrible example, though. It's not far from being a 3rd world country itself at this point.
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/20 04:38 PM
1

I am curious why there are gangs of women running around beating up rapists in the first place then? Because that would be completely unheard of in the west.
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/20 04:30 PM
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And yet they continue being one of the most unsafe countries for women in the world. So they're obviously doing something wrong still. Just like our society is doing wrong by men despite men being able to report injustices too.
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/20 04:19 PM
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I think you need to read up on what it's actually like in India from Indians themselves. It's not just rape statistics that is the problem. And I don't think the rest of the west likes using the US as a good example for anything right now. Let's just send all the feminists to India.
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/20 04:15 PM
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No one else is doing shit, though. Neither the police not the government, they're left to fend for themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/20 04:09 PM
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India is one of the countries that needs it. It's fucked that it's gotten to a point where women has to do this to hold men accountable because nobody else is protecting their girls. We're lucky here in the west where feminism isn't needed, but you can't deny women are being grossly mistreated in some parts of the world still.
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/20 03:40 PM
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I've had these same views for a few years now, but I don't label myself a feminist anymore, it's turned too toxic imo and I don't want to associate myself with sexists
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/20 05:48 AM
15

Thank you for calling attention to this issue, truly.
/r/AntiFeminists09/06/20 01:06 AM
5

How long does a session normally take?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 09:24 AM
1

I know that there are fewer vegan restaurants around all that, but fuck I would walk across town to find the only other one just so I could avoid supporting such a disgustingly sexist and discriminating place.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/20 07:31 AM
4

Maybe she's just very closeted
/r/AntiFeminists16/05/20 07:54 PM
2

Oh shit, I'll have to break it to my boyfriend of 4 years that his feelings for me are completely invalid and fake :(
/r/AntiFeminists16/05/20 02:29 AM
4

And that's exactly what you deserve. Feminists tend to forget men are human too.
/r/AntiFeminists16/05/20 02:28 AM
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Great point. I like that argument against feminists. They are quick to dehumanise men saying "all men are trash" or "kill all men" until they remember their father, uncle, brother or son. Oh really...? All men, huh?
/r/AntiFeminists16/05/20 02:25 AM
2

I've found this to be a very cultural thing. I'm from a culture where it's normal to split the bill or just pay for your own stuff, because that's seen as polite. Etiquette is seen as outdated and discriminating here (Norway). I've been dating a British guy for the past 3 and a half years. When we went on our first date, I insisted on paying for my own stuff because I wanted our first date to be based on equal values/terms. He refused because he is more traditional and wanted to pay for everythi…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 02:20 AM
3

I said I can see how this particular post is pussy pass denied, I'm just agreeing that this sub has become a bit shit lately in general.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/20 05:56 AM
1

I can kinda see how this is pussy pass denied, but I have noticed more posts just being sexist because the person in question is a woman, and it doesn't even have anything to do with a pussy pass. I like this sub, I don't want it to become a misogynistic cesspool for incels to whine about women. Same reason I don't follow any feminist subreddits either. I don't like sexism.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/20 05:31 PM
2

Yes but we are obviously talking about the western world here. This isn't a post about the countries you're thinking of
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/20 04:42 PM
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That is true, but the issue is more complex than that. Even if there were no services like the sugar daddy arrangement, men will always seek out sexual services. Women do too, but men are obviously creating the biggest demand. If there were no crack, there would be no crack. But there will always be women around and therefore there will always be simps and perverts. Most porn producers are men who just hire women.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/20 02:45 PM
2

I don't think you have to worry. I mean, if even widows with children deserve love then why wouldn't you? Despite what this sub is about, there are many men out there with different views and values and I'm sure you'll find one that fits you perfectly.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 02:38 PM
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I agree, but she is an idiot for giving him too much information. There's no way he would have been able to drain her account if she'd only given him her account number and nothing else.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/20 02:32 PM
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Well it wouldn't have been a thing if there hadn't been a market for it. It's kinda like blaming liquor stores for alcoholics. There wouldn't be liquor stores if people didn't want to buy liquor. Blame the simps for creating the demand. That being said, yeah women are 100% not oppressed. That's just a massive lie.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/20 02:29 PM
10

I'm sure most people like me came her for anti feminist content, not anti women. Everyone can agree that being raised by both parents is the most ideal situation, but are we really shitting on women who has to raise children on their own for whatever reason just because they're women? It reminds me too much about how feminists shits on single fathers just because they're men. I thought the point of calling out feminism was to not sink to their very sexist level. I want content about feminism, no…
/r/AntiFeminists07/05/20 10:26 PM
1

Yeah that's just as pointless
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/20 01:35 AM
2

Still don't deserve to feel guilty about your heritage under any circumstances!
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/20 03:28 PM
94

Hello, I'm from Norway so I can only speak for my own culture but we love Germany! You are a lovely people and you have a lovely country and I would hate for any Germans to be ashamed of being German in this day and age. Fuck anyone who thinks modern Germans should be held accountable for what some Germans did 80 years ago.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/20 03:24 PM
1

What ever happened to Warren? Did she drop out too? Are there no better democratic alternatives than Biden?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/20 06:23 PM
21

They stopped wanting equality loooong ago
/r/AntiFeminists03/05/20 01:35 PM
0

Totally agree
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/20 06:52 PM
0

The mental state of a human being regardless of gender has nothing to do with feminism. Hormones and brain chemistry is routed in science. However, how society and the state discriminates against men by favouring women is about feminism. So PPD isn't a feminist issue. Murdering your children isn't a feminist issue. How the justice system responds to it is a feminist issue. But this post wasn't about that, it merely called attention to an underrated statistic regarding females. More importantly, …
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/20 04:54 PM
2

No lol. It's a genuine mental disorder that can occur after birth mainly due to hormonal imbalances (although it can persist for way longer than just after birth if it goes untreated). It's not a joking matter, and it's not an excuse or justification for killing anyone. It's simply a potential explanation as to why women dominate these statistics. Men can experience post partum depression as well for various reasons, but it's obviously way more common among women. It's still a fairly stigmatized…
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/20 01:47 PM
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I'd expect a big chunk of these statistics are a result of post partum depression. It's a very dangerous thing that doesn't get talked about nearly enough. That would explain why it doesn't affect men as much.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/20 01:08 PM
2

In my country it's frowned upon to exercise traditional etiquette. It's seen as outdated. If you did that to a Norwegian woman (and you're a Norwegian man), she would most likely interpret it as you see her as weaker than you. Anything you wouldn't also do for a fellow man is seen as discrimination. If you hold the door for a woman, it's socially expected that you also hold the door for another man, and same goes for women, vica versa. We tend to be more tolerant towards foreigners because we un…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/05/20 04:14 AM
3

That statistic is so damn disgusting... It makes me feel so angry and sad for men. When are women gonna start getting held accountable?
/r/AntiFeminists29/04/20 09:32 PM
1

I will again refer to the video of prince Andrew's interview. A lot of the "I didn't know" statements are harshly challenged based on what the girls who came forward and whistleblowers said. But Trump didn't say that he didn't know. He literally saw Epstein hit on a minor if your source is correct. And again, millionaires and billionaires of all kinds interacted with Epstein's services. PM's, politicians, former presidents... Literally dozens of people knew. It wasn't like no one did. And young …
/r/AntiFeminists17/04/20 02:35 PM
1

Thank you for following up! I did look it up myself, but I have to say there are many conflicting results. I couldn't find a single article before 2019 that reported on Trump disowning Epstein over him hitting on a minor. He seems to have only brought it up when it was relevant due to the Epstein arrest. However, I found several sources stating their fallout was in 2004 and it was over a mansion money dispute instead. They were literally neighbors in Florida, and it's confirmed that Epstein recr…
/r/AntiFeminists17/04/20 02:12 PM
1

Most importantly: a source on that (that hasn't come from Trump's own mouth preferably because we know for a fact now that he twists and lies about pretty much anything, but a source would be nice at least). Secondly, if he was associated with Epstein enough to have actually witnessed something, he most definitely knew what was going on like most other million/billionaires did at the time. Epstein didn't exactly do much to hide it because he profited from other rich people paying for his "servic…
/r/AntiFeminists17/04/20 01:37 PM
3

I'll also throw in that he was associated with Jeffrey Epstein. Not that that is necessarily accusatory, but in the breakdown interview / commentary they did on prince Andrew, witnesses claimed that you couldn't hang around Jeffrey and not know what was going on. Apparently the girls were everywhere, not only on his island or on the Lolita Express, but also in his private jets that Trump has been in
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/20 03:47 PM
1

When you realize you don't need to put others down to find confidence within yourself, you will truly flourish
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/20 08:50 AM
1

I think sexual repression is more linked to us becoming less religious as a culture. Religion has always been the biggest driving factor towards making sex a shameful and taboo thing. With religion lifted, people stop being scared of ending up in hell for sinning, or being ruined socially for engaging in promiscuity. Porn, grooming, nudes, and all that is still very driven by men. They're the main consumers, it's just become less taboo for women to engage in the economy of it all as well. I can'…
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/20 10:31 AM
16

Depends on what subs you follow. I've made a point of not following any subs that usually discusses feminism, and I very rarely browse through the "popular" feed. It's funny cus based on the subs I have in my feed, I find Reddit to be one of the less feminist social media I use.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/20 01:45 AM
38

Abuse is abuse! Stop the bias towards women! We should all be equally believed and held equally accountable!
/r/PussyPassDenied03/04/20 01:53 PM
16

What people fail to see is that abuse is abuse. Everyone can be abused, it's a gross misconception that men can't be abused. "They can take it", "you can't be hit by a girl", "they're emotionless" etc. NO. Men have feelings, if someone they love harms them, it's going to fucking hurt! And in this day and age they can hardly even defend themselves because the justice system is so biased towards women, the men risks being punished instead! It's absolutely disgusting. Whenever I discuss these thing…
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/20 01:50 PM
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This isn't a feminist issue. Cheating isn't inherent to feminism and I see no other clues that would make this a feminist issue (no pussy passes, no double standards, she's not victimising herself or exercising any female privileges). This is just a shitty person who happens to be female.
/r/AntiFeminists26/03/20 12:12 PM
1

I'm not saying people wouldn't get drafted if a conflict were to arise. I'm saying they'd go for the ones who's served already first, but essentially both men and women would have to go. The ones who's already been in the military has gone through the physical tests and medical exam you need to do to get drafted, so they're more safe bets in that sense. What is compulsory in Norway is that you have to respond to the drafting form when you get it in the mail, you have to fill it out. You're legal…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/20 02:11 PM
1

Obviously if that was the case, both able-bodied men and women would be required to go. But they'd go for the ones who has already served once first because they know they're able-bodied and willing opposed to those who didn't want to or couldn't for other reasons. Despite Norway being a very peaceful nation, a lot of men and women serve just because they want to know what it's like, they don't know what to do with their lives after graduation, or they feel that it's an admirable thing to do. An…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/20 01:04 PM
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In Norway it's completely voluntary for both men and women to get drafted. Equal opportunities for all
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/20 05:17 AM
1

As a gal it wouldn't make a difference to me whether I got banned, I've literally never even been on the feminism subreddit. I would cringe too hard, it's uncomfortable
/r/AntiFeminists24/03/20 09:52 AM
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Growing up in the 2000's I've never vandalized anything. Not as a drunk teenager / young adult either. It's not that fucking difficult to stop and ask yourself "should I do this?". Normal human decency are the keywords here
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/20 05:15 PM
1

Oh thank you so much for reminding me!! I made a mental note of this date earlier this year but I forgot. I'm gonna spoil the living shit out of my boyfriend today
/r/MensRights19/11/19 05:38 AM
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This makes my fucking blood boil. I've been trying to help my boyfriend get in touch with his emotions after an abusive childhood. At one point in his life, he went numb and his go-to coping mechanism is to shove everything under the rug and never deal or confront it again. It's so harmful, and I know he hurts a lot... I've spent months upon months not being pushy and making him feel comfortable and safe enough around me to allow himself to be vulnerable with me. I've been with him for almost 3 …
/r/MensRights23/10/19 11:12 PM
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Thanks so much for sharing! I needed to feel a bit hopeful today :)
/r/MensRights12/10/19 01:05 PM
5

Yes, this!!! If I got pregnant and was forced to see the pregnancy through and become a mother - I would in all honesty contemplate suicide because it would be such a life-ruining event for me (I'm childfree). It's easy to imagine an involuntary father could feel similar and it enrages me. Women can so easily trap and exploit men with their reproductive rights, and men can barely even protect themselves if that happens. I think it's disgusting. If I have the right to decide whether to be a paren…
/r/MensRights11/10/19 02:19 PM
1

"I'm not sexist, but..." Careful, you are starting to sound more like the feminists if anything; generalising the opposite sex, accusing the opposite sex for everything wrong in the world, describing your gender as more superior (or less retarded in your words) and wanting to limit or remove the right of body autonomy for the opposite sex.
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/19 07:54 PM
5

Totally agree. Feminism served its purpose last century, this century it has only put men at a disadvantage and created a matriarchy. The strive for equality continues...
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/19 07:46 PM
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To be fair, you can still be anti feminist and not be a 1950's housewife. I still believe in equality, I just recognize that feminism is a very toxic and anti equality movement. This post would be more suitable for r/redpillwomen
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/19 06:38 PM
2

It's been proven that a big reason why women earn less is because they're more likely to be absent from work. I saw a program a while back about how women who starts families earn less than childless women. So of course they're gonna boil it down to it being a gender targeted issue - because the majority of women chooses to have children at one point during their career.
/r/MensRights07/10/19 12:47 AM
16

Honestly she is a nasty fucking woman
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/19 01:39 PM
2

Wow that's fucked up. I am so sorry you were made to feel that way, that's heartbreaking. I hope you can be kind to yourself despite the world not being the greatest place for men nowadays. We need good men.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 10:43 PM
9

Hello and welcome! I'm still left leaning in politics because I believe how other people lives their lives is no one's business unless they're hurting someone. But I came over to this side for a reason. I used to be a feminist, I used to think women were at a disadvantage in society. But time and time again I would see things women did or said about men that made me think "that would have been very differently received if the roles had been reversed". I thought feminism actually wanted equality.…
/r/MensRights23/09/19 06:49 PM
2

I remember seeing this video when I was 16. I identified as a feminist then, and I remember thinking why the fuck is no one talking about this?? I cried the first time I watched it. I was actually thinking about it the other week, so bizarre to see it in a random Reddit post now! I love this video, it's so damn powerful.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 11:26 PM
1

I'm glad I've never seen anything like this in my Norwegian education so far. This is insane.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 02:03 AM
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I believe men have it worse, but that doesn't diminish that there are women who also have it bad. Same as just because women struggle with what the fuck ever, doesn't diminish men's struggles although feminists have that as their main agenda.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 04:33 PM
2

10/10 title
/r/MensRights22/08/19 02:15 AM
2

Yeah I think so too.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 11:20 PM
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Praise this fucking woman for standing up to the feminists despite the shit she got for posting this. She didn't delete the post or do a 180 and try to appease the comment section. Hopefully we can one day get to a point where posting stuff like this won't result in the reaction it gets nowadays.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 01:42 PM
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That's crazy! Literal propaganda to mutilate your children! I got curious and tried to find statistics on it in my own country (Norway), and I can't even find any credible ones. The only thing I've been able to find out is that approximately 2000 boys were circumcised each year in a 2013 article, the vast majority of those boys being Muslim or Jewish. I honestly thought there was gonna be more than that since it is such a massive thing in the US. I really hope things change for the better soon.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 07:47 PM
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Is this mainly in the US? Or does any other western countries have the same issue? I find it very interesting why it has become such a huge thing in the US, when it seems like it's not as common in other western countries.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 07:08 PM
2

This is a fool proof way to make sure men doesn't get help for their issues. No one is born a murderer.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 10:09 AM
4

This is brilliant! Finally we get to properly spread this message. It was about time!
/r/MensRights03/08/19 03:38 PM
4

Equality my ass
/r/MensRights28/07/19 01:47 AM
4

Aw I'm really happy for you! I am struggling with the same with my boyfriend... His emotions were never validated and he always had to put others feelings before his own. He's almost 30 and he's completely messed up emotionally... Pretty much the only emotion he can express when dealing with shit is anger. I've only seen him cry once and it was the day after his father died. He usually just shoves everything under the rug and prefers to be emotionless. I think it's heartbreaking. He's got such a…
/r/MensRights27/07/19 02:17 PM
2

You are a bit mistaken. First wave feminism focused on suffrage and overturning legal obstacles to gender equality. Voting rights was one of the main issues. Third wave feminism wanted equality in attitudes (breaking free from gender stereotypes and sexism) and the work space (like equal pay and opportunity). I don't think it set out to do much at first, but then it got so much traction, it seems they thought they could overturn the whole society and it became an abusive force. First wave femini…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 01:57 PM
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Well I'm a woman supporting the cause. I make sure to discuss issues like these with my other female friends who are either feminists or are completely unaware. Most everyone I've spoken to about the issue agrees with me that men are being treated really unfairly in certain situations. It's something. I used to think I was a feminist. But only because I thought it really was for equality. I started having more and more doubt about feminism the more I saw some women using it to abuse men for no r…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 01:47 PM
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I know what you mean but we can't lose hope! We owe it to all generations to come to fight for their right. Remember how black people used to be literal slaves and had no more rights than a farm pig? People taking a stance and being persistent about an issue does make a change! I mean just look at 3rd wave feminism. They didn't really need to change anything except for some sexist attitudes (compared to when they had a real cause like not being allowed to vote). They manage to bend things to the…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 01:04 PM
8

Amen to that.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 02:01 PM
1

My father is a black American actually. And that's a societal issue. Systematic racism is still a thing. When you're raised in poverty and with poor education, you'll see communities with a lot more crime and violence. And that's just statistical facts. It has nothing to do with anyone being predisposed to crime. I know a few black people in Norway, and they're like any other Norwegian - myself included, seen as I am biracial. Why? Because they're raised on equal terms as everyone else in the co…
/r/MensRights20/07/19 02:27 AM
2

So what we can assume is that there is either one for females and one for males, which would make it equal although still segregated. But no problem. Or there is a female only parking lot and a normal parking lot for whoever wants to park there - male or female. If there was a male only parking lot, and a normal one for whoever, then men would be free to park in the normal one where females have to park anyways and there would still be assaults like in a normal parking lot. By only rounding up t…
/r/MensRights19/07/19 08:15 PM
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I've read this was in a Muslim or Hindu country where women tended to get assaulted in parking garages because of the seclusion of the location. In that case, it would obviously make sense why they would separate parking spaces this way - although it's not tackling the root of the problem. But if it's a western country, it's definitely just sexist. It depends. But regardless, it's fucked how we've come to this point.
/r/MensRights19/07/19 05:03 PM
2

Honestly, I understand you love her, but there are tons of other women out there who won't abuse you!! Get out! People like that shouldn't even be parents really! I know it's hard, but you have to stand up for yourself and priorities your well-being. Don't put up with the abuse to be with their loving side when you can find someone who will give you nothing but their loving side. You deserve better. I really hope you leave her. What she's done to you is NOT okay.
/r/MensRights17/07/19 09:42 AM
9

That's fucked and 100% assault if anything. Sad that women aren't held as accountable as men. It really needs to change.
/r/MensRights15/07/19 01:27 PM
4

Absolutely disgusting.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 04:07 PM
4

It's scary how desensitised we are to casual male abuse nowadays
/r/MensRights02/07/19 06:26 AM
2

Aw that is so great! It did make me happy to read, thank you! I'm hoping things will change for the better soon
/r/MensRights28/06/19 06:31 AM
1

This is the kind of masculinity we need!
/r/MensRights23/06/19 09:03 AM
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Keep in mind still that being in a relationship isn't everything in life. There are many women (and men for that sake) who would rather be single than being abused by their partner. And not being fortunate enough to not be in a relationship doesn't justify threatening to rape women or commit mass murder. We all just need to be decent and do our best to be good people. Focus on improving yourself rather than obsessing about others.
/r/MensRights20/06/19 05:26 PM
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I think they're a lot more mentally abusive than men, but men are more physically abusive. A lot of statistics suggest it's pretty 50/50 on domestic abuse, though. Both men and women are violent in relationships, but women are way more abusive than what most people think. In a documentary I watched a while ago (The Redpill), they suggested that 46 or 47% of domestic violence was made up of women. So that is pretty much half. I personally (not backed up on a specific source) think women are more …
/r/MensRights20/06/19 05:03 PM
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I would argue the severity of female out lashes vs. male out lashes, though. But before I continue, let me disclose; I don't consider myself a feminist at all, I think men are at a disadvantage in today's society. I want actual equality without any discrimination for any reason. That being said... There are definitely more male incels than femcels. Femcels, as you mentioned, seems to be more vocal and proactive about their involuntary celibacy. BUT men are definitely the more violent ones. But o…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 04:16 PM
3

Yes cus being a man automatically makes invulnerable obviously
/r/MensRights20/06/19 08:19 AM
4

That is honestly sad. My boyfriend is somewhat similar. He is more emotional, but he's the type of guy that always just shoves shit under the rug and stays strong for everyone around him. He hates talking about how he really feels because it depresses him to acknowledge it and his only emotional response to such things is anger. I very much disagree with how he's been raised in that sense. He always wanted to be a "hard man" like his father, never letting emotions get the best of you. It is so h…
/r/MensRights15/06/19 12:20 PM
1

It is so clear that white women are the most priveliged in society anywhere. We may have been a patriarchy once upon a time, but not anymore. I believe we are a matriarchy now, and it's not the white man, but the white woman who's on top. They're setting ridiculous standards for men whilst pushing for female empowerment and acceptance. Which is all good and that, but not when it's only for women. It's also devastating how they're slowly demonizing white men as well. It's like they're trying to p…
/r/MensRights12/06/19 12:30 PM
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I'm saving this for later
/r/MensRights09/06/19 01:30 PM
1

Yeah of course but the US is fucked. Like I mentioned a fetus is a thing that is not able to survive outside of the womb, but if it can do so, then it is a baby. Which is why aborting as such a late stage is unethical af. In my country, you can't abort after week 12 unless you or the baby's life is in danger. Edit: besides if you wait that long to decide whether to have a baby or not, then something's fucked. A person like that shouldn't be a parent in the first place. Also worth mentioning that…
/r/MensRights26/05/19 11:43 AM
1

Well I did just say that I think men who didn't want the child shouldn't have to pay child support? But you can't compare having a child to over-working because one involves bringing an actual human being into the world. A human who is innocent and fragile and who is easily fucked up by unstable environments and situation. If 9 months of having your body wrecked with life threatening risks involved equaled 18 years of overworking, then yeah it would be fair. But not when there's an innocent life…
/r/MensRights24/05/19 03:30 PM
8

You know ontraceptives fail. Not all women who abort are reckless or irresponsible. Most contraceptives (when used correctly) only have a 1-2% fail rate. Which sounds pretty secure but think about how many people 2% of birth control users actually are. Which means each year there is always going to be thousands of failed contraceptives despite the women being responsible. You shouldn't be forced to go through the mental, physical, financial and life long strain and responsibility because of some…
/r/MensRights24/05/19 12:07 AM
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That is unfortunately where things might seem unfair, but being pregnant is not an easy thing and there can be numerous health risks involved - especially if the woman involved is forced to carry a child she doesn't want / care for. At the end of the day, it's her body so she gets the say. That being said, I 100% support men opting out of paying child support if they become father unwillingly. If a woman decides to terminate a pregnancy and prevent you from becoming a father, it's very unfortuna…
/r/MensRights23/05/19 09:19 PM
19

Is this more normal in the US than in other western countries? It is certainly not mainstream to circumcise in my country, although I'm sure it happens for medical reasons sometimes. Fucking barbaric.
/r/MensRights21/05/19 01:23 AM
5

Yeah lemme just ditch my boyfriend of 2 years to go fuck a chick instead. I am 100% pro choice and we should definitely protest, but fuck me this is sexist and toxic. It's not normal men's fault the government has some brain-dead farts in their ranks. Aaah this is so stupid!
/r/MensRights15/05/19 03:10 AM
1

I'd love to sign but it's only for UK citizens :/ I 100% support this cause!
/r/MensRights07/05/19 08:00 AM
9

This is the only missing piece of the post
/r/MensRights15/04/19 03:16 AM
1

These companies don't give a fuck about gender inequality or women being paid less. It's literally just a sales trick to lure in women by making it sound like they're fighting for justice or some shit like that. Absolute bullshit.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 03:31 PM
1

Yeah but must mostly be in the US then. It's not often I read about false accusation cases where I live. It seems a lot of people here agree that it hurts everyone involved
/r/MensRights07/04/19 10:23 AM
1

Ok, reasonable people. Like me and my friends who discussed this very topic just two weeks ago and all agreed with my statement. And I think actual victims would agree too.
/r/MensRights06/04/19 10:35 PM
3

Yeah absolutely no one agrees with the women who make false accusations. It hurts everyone. It hurts women who actually get raped because people will tend to doubt them because of the women who's lied about it, and it obviously discourages men from being taken seriously as victims as well. There really needs to be harsher punishment for women who falsely accuse.
/r/MensRights06/04/19 05:14 PM
4

I have to say I was surprised at how many high libido women there are there though. There's a lot of posts voicing frustrations about the man not wanting sex so it's not just women who always don't want sex.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 02:01 PM
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She means it's sexist that it is such a huge generalisation that women turn into fat insufferable bitches when you get married because she doesn't want that stereotype to scare her boyfriend away from marrying her when she really wants to be a good wife/partner. It's pretty obvious what she's aiming at.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 01:57 PM
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Just saying we're not all total asswipes
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 01:17 AM
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Too bad I am the one with money in my relationship and I'm with him because he's my best friend.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 01:10 AM
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Women probably get easier punishment, but I wouldn't say they get away with more than male celebs. Remember the pedophile scandals in BBC? All men that had gotten away with exploiting children for decades. Made possible with their fame. Same with the new documentary on Michael Jackson. He got away with every single little boy he fondled, and was honoured by millions at his funeral. He will never face justice and people are still defending him passionately. Bill Cosby only got punished for his cr…
/r/MensRights02/04/19 10:03 AM
1

Even if this was real, why is it such a big deal? Can't you just... not use the app then? No one's forcing you too. If you really want to date through a screen, there are plenty of other dating apps that people use.
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 12:02 AM
2

My step dad used a toupee for years
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 09:39 AM
11

Young people are dumb though, they don't fully understand the gravity of such things. I used to be sexually harassed daily by the guys in my class, and I came close to being raped at one point. Everyone tried to say and do what everyone else was saying or doing. No one wanted to have an independent opinion. I think the girls justifying cardi might just the same as the guys from my class justifying groping by saying "it's a joke" and just doing it because the other guys thought it was cool. They …
/r/MensRights29/03/19 08:47 AM
1

Regardless, I am going to spoil the shit out of my boyfriend this November
/r/MensRights26/03/19 10:22 PM
2

Oh, I guess I should just throw my 28 yo boyfriend in the trash then
/r/MensRights26/03/19 07:57 PM
1

They don't condone white knights either though, so that's why
/r/MGTOW26/03/19 12:15 PM
1

All women experience some side effects with contraceptives, but most are mild. But there are a ton of women who also get a few very bothersome side effects. All contraceptives contain hormones, so there will always be a bit of fuckery involved because of that. The one that contains no or minimal hormones is the IUD. The copper one I don't think has any hormones, but it comes with a bunch of different side effects which are not so fun either. The milder version, the hormonal IUD, has similar side…
/r/MensRights26/03/19 12:07 PM
2

I really hope a better male birth control will pop up, because this doesn't sound much better than female birth control. The normal female birth control side effects may include: •Acne •Weight gain •Decreased libido •Nausea •Headaches or migraines •Breast tenderness •Mood swings •Inconsistent periods •Vaginal discharge •Intermenstrual spotting •Change in eyesight for people with contact lenses. And a handful of rarer but more serious side effects like: •Blod clots (especially if you are genetica…
/r/MensRights26/03/19 11:53 AM
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You make it sound like it's a matter of just taking care of your appearance. Which most decent people do anyways. You'd be surprised at how differently people treat you if you do your hair, stay active, take care of your skin, shower regularly and being nice to people in general. This is what a lot of girls do anyways + makeup. Even fat girls usually comb their hair and put some makeup on. You can't expect people to want to be around you, let alone be intimate with you if you don't take care of …
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 08:30 PM
8

He puts it beautifully, very well written.
/r/MensRights25/03/19 06:43 PM
9

This would make perfect sense had men and women been keys and locks. But we aren't so it doesn't quite work like that. Infections goes into your blood, and it so happens that both men and women has blood so they can be equally as affected. The most common STI's aren't that dangerous, but that can still have dire consequences. There still a risk of becoming infertile if an STI is left untreated, even in men, because it goes into the urinal tract.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 04:35 PM
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Well I appreciate you for considering my opinions enough to respond then. And no, I live in a country with little obesity, so it had nothing to do with fucking nasty chicks like that. It's not more complicated than a lot of younger women were attracted to guys with confidence and an outgoing personality. These guys were just normal looking dudes who took care of their appearance, with normal looking girls who usually did the same. Because obesity isn't as normal here, a lot of girls who were chu…
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 04:25 PM
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Then you'd also know why sex isn't as much of a big deal to women as it is for men. Evolutionarily speaking, it would only makes sense for women to have sex once a month (when she's fertile). They've got the hormone estrogen that lowers sex drive significantly in comparison to testosterone. So if we are so different, and we should all acknowledge the biological and evolutionary differences, then why are incels still not coming to terms with the biological and evolutionary differences? I thought …
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 04:15 PM
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But if women don't have to put any work into their appearance, and can literally just be the most disgusting human being and still get men pursuing her, then that says more about the men pursuing her than it does the woman.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 03:37 PM
4

Well I've known about many men who just looked decent but we're popular who got a lot of pussy. But they were usually charismatic and people just liked being around them. But also worth mentioning that if any nasty, ugly, fat woman can spread her legs and get sex, then that says more about the men having sex with her than it does about women.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 03:33 PM
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And the master key can still contract and spread STI's
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 03:16 PM
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And easy for men as well (at least if you're a Chad), seen as it was way more socially acceptable for men to be "players". That would only give you respect.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 03:05 PM
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It's literally just as simple as that. And don't be a pussy and get yourself checked now and again. It's not like people enjoy walking around with STI's. Besides the obvious disturbing symptoms, you can go sterile or risk infection and die. I don't think anyone goes around spreading it on purpose. I'd say just be careful and a bit responsible, that's all.
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 02:47 PM
-44

But only for women*
/r/MGTOW25/03/19 02:43 PM
7

How the tables have turned
/r/MensRights25/03/19 10:02 AM
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Because of the time and how you worded it. Saying that on international women's day is kind of like saying "yeah, I sure will be expecting this many gifts on my birthday". You are obviously gonna get a negative response for that. I don't need to explain to you how that sounds or comes across. Secondly, it is worded to sound condescending / bitchy / whiney. Another reason why it received backlash. You can't just go around saying obviously bitter and insensitive sounding shit and then be surprised…
/r/MensRights25/03/19 09:24 AM
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Did you even read the last paragraph? I'm not disagreeing with anything.
/r/MensRights24/03/19 11:21 AM
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For the record, saying you want to have sex in text and then meet up and say something else in person still is a consent issue. If you meet up and feel like this is wrong and say no, and the other person proceeds to have sex with you regardless, it's still rape even if you consented previously. Consent is not set in stone, it can be taken away. Texts shouldn't prove whether consent was given in the moment of it happening. That being said, people obviously lie and are generally assholes. Which is…
/r/MensRights24/03/19 10:43 AM
1

Well then take it from someone who lives here and interacts with normal people and very few radical feminists. I only know one passionate feminists, and even she isn't as radical as I've seen some US women are. I'm not super pleased by her focus on women, but we have discussed male rights and she agreed with me on everything I brought up. The other not so passionate feminists I know is a lesbian, but she doesn't take an interest in men in general - but we're close friends with a guy, so it's not…
/r/MensRights22/03/19 05:17 PM
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There's still a difference between speaking your mind and your opinion, and saying shit just for the purpose of hurting someone. I understand what this comic is trying to say, but it is a misconception by feminists that speaking about men's rights is hate speech. You're not trying to hurt anyone by demanding to be treated fairly.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 01:42 PM
3

I'd say we treat men fairly okay in this country. At least not as bad as certain other western cultures although it could be better still. I've mostly seen hatred towards men raise within the women who use social media the most. They seem to be very influenced by American media and feminist attitudes. So I've seen some women turn around and think that we are as "oppressed" as women in bigger countries with more diversity. Which is bullshit. We're amongst one of the most egalitarian countries in …
/r/MensRights19/03/19 09:43 AM
14

Really depends on the culture in my opinion. I'm from Norway and a guy "taking care" of a girl here is seen as insulting almost. They're not expected to offer you their seat at the bus, hold doors open, pay for dates or open car doors. We frown upon it because it comes across as "oh you think we can't take care of ourselves?". It's normal to always split the bill or just pay for what you've bought. You're seen as an actual asshole if you demand that the guy pay for everything. It's a silly notio…
/r/MensRights19/03/19 02:30 AM
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I am so glad he got proof! His whole career could have been fucked had he not had those surveillance cameras. Unfortunately, not all men are that lucky. It's truly horrific what's happened to him, and I hope he can heal after justice has been served.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 03:02 PM
2

So that means children raised by two fathers will become the worst possible people ever in history ever! It's double masculinity - double the evilness!
/r/MensRights11/03/19 04:41 AM
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Why is this comment not at the top? Everyone is completely misunderstanding this and it's only fuelling more hate.
/r/MensRights25/02/19 01:18 AM
2

I think what she means by "lying" is women not being believed or accused of lying when they're really telling the truth. I could be wrong, but that's how it came across to me at least. That being said, fuck me does there need to be way stronger punishment for women that do falsely accuse men of rape. It's outrageous how they can just get away with ruin a persons life just like that. Disgusting.
/r/MensRights22/02/19 08:03 PM
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Then you haven't been to r/ rapekink. I can understand why it's nsfw, it's probably because it can come across as triggering to some (or a lot of) people.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 05:33 PM
12

Yeah it's so incredibly fucked
/r/MensRights16/02/19 04:00 AM
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I would dare say it is a crisis.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 06:23 PM
109

There is daddy issues... And then there's mommy issues.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 06:23 PM
4

I find that to be so sad. It's a very unhealthy expectation towards men and a lot of women are part of the problem. We need to start seeing you as humans and not as disposable objects that has to live up to a certain stereotype. I think I'm the first woman my boyfriend has met that has been this soft with him. He's always used to being the strong one in every situation, and he has an extremely hard time confronting his emotions because of having to be strong for most of his life. I have spent tw…
/r/MensRights15/02/19 01:50 PM
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I am devastated that you've had to deal with women like that... I just want you to know that not all if us are that way. Most of the women I know take issues like rape and abuse very seriously - even when it comes to men. I've held my ex through his major suicidal breakdowns due to the child abuse he suffered and he was never any less attractive or manly to me. My current boyfriend also suffered from an abusive household when he was a kid and he is the strongest person I know. He has days where …
/r/MensRights15/02/19 06:51 AM
2

I won't let it discourage me, this is a far too important cause to not support just because of a few rotten apples.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:41 AM
2

Thank you for the suggestion! I am very curious about her, I have to say.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:38 AM
2

I could not agree more with you. You summarised it perfectly. This is exactly what we need to be telling people.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:35 AM
1

No I am not trying to take anything away from men at all with my statement. I was thinking further ahead in the sense of "let's not completely neglect injustices commited towards women" because then we're only going to see another feminist uprising and that's the last thing we want. When I said equally represented, I meant acknowledging that both men and women are victims of domestic abuse for example. Not that we all of a sudden start saying that women don't have problems at all, let's solely f…
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:32 AM
2

Honestly the welcome I have received has just made me even more eager to support this cause and educate myself! Thank you soo much!
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:20 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:18 AM
1

I think so too! There is really not enough of them.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:17 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:17 AM
2

Yes I agree. I'm just trying to say that it isn't so hard after all to sympathize. Any woman could do it if she really tried (like thinking about such injustices being committed towards your dad for example). But so so so many women are completely ignorant and blind to it all. I was too, and still have a way to go. But it wasn't hard at all to start seeing things from a loves one's perspective.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:15 AM
2

Thank you so much! I do feel very passionate about this cause I am so happy to have found an activist group that actually does include everyone that wants to join in!. I will definitely check out that TED talk!
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:12 AM
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I am very sorry for using those words. I've already admitted in another comment that I should have articulated myself differently to better communicate what I meant. English is not my first language. All I meant is that let's not forget that there are still some issues that only women deal with. Especially in the developing world. I don't think we have nearly as many problems as you at all, but completely neglecting one to focus solely on the other has shown to only create misery and the eventua…
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:09 AM
1

I just mean that I don't personally deal with or experience the troubles you go through. So it's easy to be ignorant or forget how bad they are. They way feminism demonizes men makes it hard to not think of them as something to look out for. Like I still feel afraid or uneasy around men in certain situations, so I need to remind myself how they would feel if they were constantly looked upon as something to be afraid of. It's not fair on them at all, and I feel very sorry for feeling that way. I …
/r/MensRights14/02/19 10:00 AM
2

I'm sorry if I'm not articulating myself correctly. I meant that focusing on one thing shouldn't automatically mean that the other thing isn't focused on at all. We need to pay attention to people, not just women or just men. I believe that we all should be equally represented. So no I don't mean that we should only focus on women's issues. Or focus on them more than men's issues. It does make the world a worse place to be in. I truly believe men are at a disadvantage in this day and age and we …
/r/MensRights13/02/19 08:12 PM
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Thank you so much! I am always eager to educate myself further, and this is a topic I feel like I definitely didn't know enough about!
/r/MensRights13/02/19 07:53 PM
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Thank you for the welcome! I still think we should focus on female injustices as well because we want to make the world better for everybody, I just feel like men is being severely neglected in comparison and it is time to call attention to that fact. There are things feminists do that I disagree with, so I'm aware there might be some radical activists here as well, but my own morals and views still stand. Men are still just as important and valued!
/r/MensRights13/02/19 01:54 PM
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Thank you and I agree! I feel like more people are becoming aware of how toxic modern feminism has become - especially for straight white males. I truly hope we can become a balanced society hat doesn't discriminate against anyone one day. We're all just people after all.
/r/MensRights13/02/19 11:52 AM
2

What even is the point of women... Why are they still around? Are all of them evil? Every single one? If that's the case, then why the fuck are they still around FFS. What can we do to fix this issue? It's not like they can stop existing either because or else there won't be any new children but it all seems so toxic... What are we supposed to do?
/r/MGTOW01/02/19 08:40 PM
3

Yeah it was originally posted to terriblefacebookmemes or something like that.
/r/MGTOW29/01/19 04:07 PM
4

Pc and PS gaming, playing the guitar/piano, recently learnt how to play the ukulele and am currently also taking violin classes. I also enjoy nature photography, reading (anything from fiction to historical and fun facts). Apart from that I am also learning game development, 3D modelling and digital art (been drawing and painting since I was a kid, but only traditionally). A little bit of animation too, but I'm not super into that.
/r/MGTOW24/01/19 11:34 PM
0

Well it has been proven that you can get worse eyesight (as in you can become more nearsighted) from looking at phones up close throughout the years. Don't think this is as true for pc monitors and TVs since you're naturally further away from them anyways.
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 12:06 PM
7

Statistically, most women who choose shitty men like that has serious issues with men from earlier in life. Either had an abusive father or an abusive boyfriend or something early on. It fucks them up for good unless they accept that they need help and can be treated better than that. Which doesn't happen often either. They are never worth changing yourself for, ever. No one is, to be fair. Always put yourself and your needs first, not others when it comes to situations like that. Just remember …
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 01:10 AM
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Norway
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 09:52 PM
14

In my country it's a norm that you always pay for what you've ordered regardless of gender or situation. It's just seen as the polite and civil thing to do. It seems this is only an issue still in more conservative and traditional countries such as the US where people still believe etiquette is relevant.
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 06:44 PM
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