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~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | Where's the lie?adding on that first part- some men are actually nice to waitresses and other women but for some reason when it comes to their partner they treat them like shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this?Amazing responses all around that’s why I love this community 👏🏼 mans response to this video | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:08 AM |
| 1 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.My husband is insanely clean .... but his mental health is another story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Oh lord 💔💔💔💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I feel like I am in a trauma bond ... it shouldn’t be this hard to leave 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:01 AM |
| 3 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I’m going to message you girl . Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:12 AM |
| 5 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Thank you for this. I don’t know why I stood in this for so long .. I have no clue. I’ve hid what he’s done from my family, my best friend knows a bit of it. He didn’t isolate me but he did get jealous at times. Reading this right now that I could contact a domestic violence organization broke my heart. Wow. Domestic violence ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Thank you for putting things in a new perspective for me I needed this. I have an alcoholic cousin that’s currently in rehab. He would drink every day so that’s what I thought all alcoholics were like honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:49 AM |
| -1 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Thank you I really appreciate it. I’m at home in the US living with my parents | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:16 AM |
| -24 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I’ve been with him for 7 years. I don’t feel right being cold and ignoring him. I know I will leave. I’ve left many parts out of this. He’s out of the military in a month, he’s been severely depressed overseas where I’ve constantly been worried if he will do something to himself. Me explaining will be a novel. My answer as to why I’ve stood with him is probably because He’s been amazing to me for a long time ( before this) and as he got more unhappy things changed. Then from there it’s been a ro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 01:40 AM |
| 4 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I felt the need to encourage women to leave after the first time because I don’t want anyone to go through what I have. It’s a lesson learned. I’m currently reflecting on it all & after the divorce I will still wonder why/ reflect. It’s just the person I am and I’m sure therapy will help with letting all of it go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 5 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I do have to leave, I want kids and I refuse to put them in a toxic situation. I haven’t considered him an alcoholic before but this thread is for sure making me do my research | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:45 AM |
| 29 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Thank you 😞 ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:42 AM |
| 19 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Damn.... Thank you for the stats. It’s sad. I’m sure it’s just alcohol, they don’t drink unless they’re getting DRUNK over there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:42 AM |
| 23 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.they all drink so much in the military it’s normalized , it’s sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:40 AM |
| -1 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Sad to say, this was said in 2018. And you are right. This was the beginning. I never forget the things he’s said to me so I used the search bar on message for this. I’m reflecting on all of it. this summer he put me through hell. He was on deployment in a very dark place and would call me drunk 2x a week and tell me he wanted a divorce and explode. The next day he’d say he didn’t remember anything since he was blacked out. In may I told him I’d leave if he kept being mean. He apologized and tol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 4 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I feel like he may turn into an alcoholic if he doesn’t stop coping with it. It’s scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:25 AM |
| 3 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I mentioned the military because we have been long distance. He’s been very depressed and did go to therapy but said it wasn’t working so he stopped. He’s going back this week & I feel like it’s not working because he isn’t putting his own work in. He had mentioned to me he wanted to stop drinking, but nope. I’ve been in therapy since I started dealing with anxiety and you have to be very self aware for it to make a difference (in my situation that was the case). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:23 AM |
| 62 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I’ve dealt with anxiety for 5 years now. I’ve never disrespected him. He has that “ dr jekyll and mr hyde” personality. It’s horrible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 41 | For any women out there that has been disrespected by their partner in a heartless way. Leave. Even if it’s the first time.I’m currently reading it. I’m really enjoying it and learning! Im just so upset because I’ve been told “ is that the first time he’s talked to you that way, you’re over reacting.” When he texted me while drunk, saying “ fuck you bitch” and “ piece of shit” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:15 PM |
| 21 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.I feel like eventually every relationship gets to a point where both are comfortable. Should it not be that way 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:17 AM |
| 1 | While we’re at it, let’s not reward this basic behaviour either.😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk long distance relationships.....Will check this out definitely thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:17 AM |
| 4 | Let’s talk long distance relationships.....I read the handbook today , it was very helpful!! I was able to understand my situation a lot better and I don’t feel so alone anymore. I can’t believe the man I love unconditionally is doing this. It’s a weird feeling... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Let’s talk long distance relationships.....Thank you for this. I’m just shocked I’m in this position we’ve had many great memories but I shouldn’t have overlooked the red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:16 AM |
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