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I love listening to music while cleaning and cooking too... I like contemporary gospel music like Hillsong church along with some Brazilian gospel as well. It keeps me happy and content. I do like some rock n roll classics and listen to all decades due to the uniqueness.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/21 02:21 AM
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I didn't know how to properly wash and style my hair until my graduation. However when I do style my hair I usually put in a slick bun. My neck is longer so I guess and I don't like it down and people have said it reminded them of Audry Hepburn. I buy my hair accessories from Walmart or Target. But I will admit I love bows or headbands. I bought my headbands of multiple colors online and love them. So for my hair - it's either in a bun, ponytail or clipped back.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 02:20 AM
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Read a good book or take a nap. :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 09:26 AM
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I would hire a cleaner. There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 02:24 AM
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Love these. My new year's resolutions! Along with Whole30.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 02:22 AM
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Depending on the color and how old they are. I own 5 pairs, only colors that look good. If I were I'd keep the newer ones, because the older make up might not be fresh, especially after 2 years. Try it out. Best to own 3-5 pairs though, but if you want a collection there's nothing wrong. ​ It doesn't matter how many rather than the expiration date.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 05:11 PM
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Would love to, thanks for the recommendation. I've read Christian RPW books but not that one.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 09:28 PM
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He wanted to come over. He wanted to see me. He wanted to see me at 12am for a lunch date. I may see him later. He doesn't act disinterested, he just doesn't have much time to talk because things are busy. During the summer it's easier. Last minute meaning after the date. But maybe he's busy. And yes I know he's busy. ​ I just don't know how to tell my parents that he's probably going through some things. ​ I do have a phone is just has a lot of problems I guess I need to get a new one. ​ ​
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 09:26 PM
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Wow that's what I found about my bf.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 01:41 AM
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What helps me is to read self improvement books that improve behavior. I try to dress well that is reasonable. Like, from wearing cute nice blouses and sweaters to sexy form fitting dresses. I always go for the bargain deal :) For this year I would like to try an anti-anxiety diet. Foods like leafy veggies, cashews etc. My bf loves fast food, but hopefully I can start cooking more because I don't like the way they feel. Exercise also helps. I exercise at least 2 times a week but I want to try so…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/18 01:07 PM
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Just accept it and learn and try everything you can not to do it again. We're going to keep making mistakes. So the best you can do it forgive but don't forget but don't fret Just let it go and improve. Ive lost a friend recently too. :( I'm with ya.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/18 11:38 AM
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All we had in our freezer was frozen meals. I heat up some fried cod and made some white rice but I did something to flavor up butternut squash Add some butter and brown sugar. I did a recipe a long time ago for acorn squash and it was basically brown sugar and butter. It was so yummy
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/18 11:32 AM
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I learned the hard way. I used to be like extremely clingy about marriage because I wanted to be a stay at home wife. I'm still with my boyfriend because I can see why he's not hesitant. You learn to respect each other and admire the more years together for some it seems
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/18 09:18 PM
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I'm working on that :) yes ma'am will do.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 02:48 AM
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I appreciate what you said entirely. You've helped me a lot. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 02:24 AM
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If you want to know anything let me know and I will explain
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/18 01:30 AM
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this is a red flag for the both because you can't change a person. ​ i've been there before, but i chose him and i was being very selfish towards him so we ended up compromising. commitment of any sort is best for me. ​ dont ever involve your parents (it would be worse) do you want to stay and compromise or do you need to get married immediately? do you want to be the love of his life? if you're losing interest he may not be the one. ​ ​
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 12:42 AM
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Stew is delicious. Soups are also a winter favorite. I make chicken and rice bake every fall winter. It's french onion and cream of mushroom soup mixed together with water, rice, and whole chicken.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/18 04:20 PM
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I made spinach cheese stuffed tortellini with bechamel sauce last week. I make easy dinners (i learned how to cook later) because I'm still limited. I started learning as an adult. 1 box of spinach/cheese tortellini 3 tbsp of butter 3 tbsp of flour Salt Pepper 1 cup of milk Parsley (optional) In a pot, boil water. Add tortellini. Cook it for 12 minutes. Set aside. In a skillet, melt butter on medium (my stove melts slow, medium high), add flour to make a rue paste. Add milk. Whisk till it thicke…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/18 04:16 PM
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I've been dealing with this for a long time. My boyfriend would be going months away because of issues with his family and I felt depressed and anxious. But what got me out of the depression is focusing on my goals. When I got employed and start working out and taking care of my myself I became less needy and my confidence grew. Don't suck it up but just communicate effectively and express your wants but calm down the anxiety or maybe focus on your passions. What are your passions? With anxiety …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 09:59 AM
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Love it. Respect is key for man.:)
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 07:12 PM
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wow. my mom cusses a lot but she toned down the nagging. they rarely fight anymore. i also cuss but only if im angry.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 09:31 PM
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my mother stick with my father. they never divorced, but have seperated but both apologized and stayed and accepted imperfections. i consider that rp because longevity is important and growing together... rpw encourage longevity and i guess i consider that to be red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 06:35 PM
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I love my so because he stick with me through day one. Always loving and sweet. Fun to hang with.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 02:17 AM
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the traditional ones
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 09:32 PM
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Traditional is what sense? Cake or behavior? But cake? I'm kind of an early cook lol But if you do a betty crocker chocolate cake with cherry soda topped with cherries and chocolate syrup... You literally don't even have to add water or egg. Just soda and cake XD I've done homemade cakes but my kitchen is extremely small... I've watched a video on Buttered Pound Cake and it looked easy too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 10:42 AM
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teddy bears :) ​
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 03:16 PM
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you can also clean microwaves with vinegar
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 08:59 PM
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Lol a little (more smell, not taste) but it helps shine it. Like add 1/4 cup of vinegar and water and it can rinse it without much streaks.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 08:57 PM
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Maybe I'll bake him a cake this year. He likes stuffed animals and chocolate. I bought him that last year. ​ And funny enough, his birthday's on Christmas
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 08:44 PM
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Tip: when avoiding water stains while washing glasses, spray it with water and vinegar (only if you have no dishwasher, doing it by hand). Have you tried this before?
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 08:39 PM
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Cute and casual at home. It makes you feel better anyways. When I'm not well groomed it's usually when I'm sick. Like a cute tank top and some nice form fitting jeans or shorts are the best. Along with nice flowing dresses. ​
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 08:56 PM
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Understandable. It especially looks good with jewelry. Like a nice ring and bracelet. :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 08:52 PM
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I didn't know how to clean actually until recently. Thank you so much for this. Sometimes I get lazy on putting things back in it's home. But hey, I'll keep trying. I've learned more in my late teens early 20s than my childhood years. Watch cleanmyspace too, they teach you so much
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 10:19 AM
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I am thankful for my motivations. Got a lot of the house cleaned and i am also grateful for my support from SO to friends to family. I feel much happier than when I was younger.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/18 10:16 AM
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I use cetaphil cleanser and moisturizer. It helps clean my skin. After that I put on lavender lotion. I never heard of a toner. I think I will try that. Note: I never took care of myself everyday until 2015 so I learn something new from the internet. Any recommendations for toners?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 11:42 AM
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Love them. I own some and I clean and cook with it =)
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 03:51 PM
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Depends. Sometimes the really long acrylics can be tacky looking. However false nails can be pretty. I like them. They especially look good with jewelry.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 03:49 PM
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I agree with this. My grandmother lost 20 lbs because of measuring calories. My fitness pal is a calorie counter which can help
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 03:01 PM
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My motivation to be here is the positivity and the safe space for anti feminist women. We can discuss our love for others and how we strive to be feminine and docile.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 01:24 PM
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OK, these are mine 1. Start exercising getting better abs 2. Controlling my sugars 3. Start putting effort to see my boo bear 4. Show love language 5. Finish 2 books I am reading Become a better teacher by being calm and collective
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 10:21 AM
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Maybe we just get into fights. I say the wrong things when I am sad :(
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 12:44 PM
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He's a very handsome man. Very sexy. He looks like an adorable teddy bear. I haven't had sex yet so I think I should have it because we haven't had it however it will be at a time when he's not busy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 11:49 AM
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I feel like I am whining but I need to learn to be loyal instead of baggy. He tried his best but I just don't know. I tried hobbies but after awhile I get needy. I think I am crazy
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 11:36 AM
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My dad is very hard working. He will work and provide for my family while my mom takes care of my sister. He will always protective of me... He will never speak badly about his daughters. My grandpa is hilarious and quirky... My boyfriend is also. Most of the men in my family is very hardworking. I love them very much. That's why I love this sub you tell it like it is while no male bashing. Some women need a little reality check and I'm grateful thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 07:22 PM
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This comment helped me... When it comes to dealing with past. Believe me I used to be very sexual in my teens... But just be glad your doing what you can to not sleep around... Obsessing over the past can lead to depression. (I may not give a RP answer but I have been there when it comes to being depressed about being overly sexual to multiple men... Be the best you can and good luck)
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 08:50 PM
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You are pretty much a role model to me. Able to do all that stuff. You seem so happy. Which is wonderful. Keep doing what you're doing just like what the other comments said. Keep appreciating him. You're improvement is wonderful. I wish you luck. I'm sorry I didn't come up with any advice but I will say this have you read any books about RPW? You're definitely bringing something to the table. Plus do you plan dates? My so and I are having our 3 year anniversary so what do you do when you show h…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/17 11:36 AM
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I want to be less rude and work on my attitude because I can get snappy I want to join the gym and start gaining strength by lifting. It's almost my anniversary so I want it to be nice with a nice meal like with honey wings or something I want to be a harder worker and work on my routine. I want to read books about self improvement. Good luck ladies!
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/17 12:01 PM
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Yes, my moms friends. As much as I love them, they don't really want to change... Both of them have diabetes but they don't really want to change their eating habits... One also is losing teeth... My mom tries to help them... Maybe they just aren't ready yet
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 01:26 PM
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Blonde in the Belly of a beast... What a name but yes... Along with Stell Bell
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 07:01 PM
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The Surrendered Wife or anything by laura doyle is a good start. Some submissive Christian women books And other stuff is great Oh you know gardening! Awesome. I would love to garden with my grandmother as well.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 12:03 AM
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From what I have read, this is stuff that I got from RP sites 1. Try and don't give up. Self improve by loving yourself and other people 2. Be calm and gentle. Be feminine. Be proud of your feminine energy. 3. Dress better and eat better. Since men are attracted to looks mainly, it will help. Use skin protection and try your best to reduce age. 4. Keep your n-count a low number. I have done so much mistakes before the RP and even after. Save your virginity until you finally found the partner who…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 01:02 PM
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If I am wrong let me know. My family understands but I will try to improve myself. Thank you very much for this post.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 11:32 AM
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Yes I guess but here's my advice, find something calm you down. Remember the past but don't obsess over it. You will become very depressed. The stressors can cause psychosis
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 11:30 AM
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Depression here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 11:18 AM
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A lesson I have learned is to try to think of something you love. Sometimes when I am sad I don't get things done. Sometimes I can go psychotic. I take two medications. Sometimes I even think I can go without it but I don't. Sometimes what helps me is thinking about my family and friends. What is your experience like and how do you manage? I love Little Princess School it makes me happy. My family comforts me too. I realised I will have to work harder. I want to prove I am a good lover. What mak…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 11:17 AM
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Congrats. Keep working hard!!! I may have to learn a thing or two
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 06:27 PM
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I guess because of feminist brainwashing which is obvious. However we women were all blue pill at one point until we started agreeing with the manosphere. I enjoy Roosh and Roissy content.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 12:34 PM
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I haven't gave it to him yet but I will give him a big kit kat valentine chocolate. It's his favorite.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 12:42 PM
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He asked me to improve myself career wise through graduation. He was disappointed in me for staying at home. It took me awhile to figure it out because I was blaming my disease for everything. Now I am doing better.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 03:32 AM
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I am an assistant teacher at a learning center. It requires certification of child care.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 01:25 PM
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I use cetaphil for my facial cleanser and mary kay moisturizer for my dry skin. I easily get flakey. I also like cetaphil moisturizer as well. I also like medicated lip balm to make my lips younger. Cetaphil is expensive but it doesn't cause grease unlike clean and clear. I broke out from that thing.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 01:53 PM
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I am using a hamhock I shredded the meat and the beans did good. I just had to put it in the slow cooker
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 04:34 PM
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Today I am making pinto beans. I failed the last time so I hope I do good this time. I am not a very good cook because I barely started. It's for beans and cornbread at church. It's kinda like a potluck.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 02:57 AM
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Yeah. So far the book helped me and it deals with long lasting relationships. It tells you to control nagging and have an ideal relationship. I will probably read those books everyday because I need to work on my relationship by staying as loyal as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 03:12 PM
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Omg my boyfriend doesn't mind me in my house clothes. Makss sense.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 11:42 PM
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Stevia is the best. Be careful with sucralose as well.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 02:53 PM
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So far I am reading my first RPW book which is called Romancing Your Husband. It's religious but it teaches you how to become a lover wife, not a mother wife
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 02:29 PM
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I don't blame you one bit
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 02:26 PM
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I understand how you feel. There are times when I would wear attractive clothes because many people like it but I have learned to focus on what my SO likes. He likes natural women so I don't wear as much makeup anymore. I like wearing feminine stuff still because it makes me feel good. There are times when my hair was messy and I wore sweatpants. I think he doesn't care but I like when he compliments me. He likes feminine women who's career minded
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 01:12 AM
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I love this post
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 11:38 PM
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I am a bit more in love and loyalty. They are very important. I have been less selfish however I can be at times. I do like dressing up and taking care of myself more. I have been more confident in myself. There's a few things I need to improve however my boyfriend still loves me. I just want a peaceful love, like with my family.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 11:17 PM
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Yes I go to college
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 11:12 PM
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It is a religious book but she gives advice on how women can make their spouses happy. I read it every night
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 10:27 PM
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OMG I love her. I remember watching her on The Food Network. She's awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 10:18 PM
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No. However I was with a punk once. My bf is used to be a jock until work has taken over. He loves soccer. I never was into jocks because many seem cocky. I hated most of the jocks in high school. I think because I'm not very popular back then and most men made fun of me. Which is okay by the way since I fixed the problem. But there ya go.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 11:39 AM
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Even though I'm not OP I will admit that I love books about how to make a man happy. Have you read this book called Romancing Your Husband? They made refrences to Laura Doyle's book. I haven't finished the one yet because I started reading novels. But I can't wait to read Surrendered Wife.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 11:52 PM
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I decorate my families home for whichever season it is. I remember using pumpkins and orange colored table cloth in fall. Then I add some flowers in spring. I love decorating. It makes me feel good living clean. I never do it top the bottom since I have started taking care of the house My house has knickknacks and such. I know a lady that lives next to me and her home is always warm. She's my rolemodel.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 12:40 PM
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Man, I know how you feel. You actually found the RP before your at your SMV highest. I wish I was like you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 12:29 PM
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Yeah. Teenage girls can be silly and their emotions are all over the place. I am one kinda lol. My great aunt used to cry everyday. She got married at 15 then divorced him later. It took her till the 80s to find a SO and they have been married for years I used to cry a lot from bullying. Now I am a neighbor of a bully but he became nice! We've become acquaintances. Lol small world we live in.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 12:24 PM
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This is awesome! Submission is often accused abuse but it's not, it's putting others first.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 03:37 PM
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I was allowed after highschool. My parents are really active because they want me to abstinent. They like him so far but yeah.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 01:38 PM
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Embrace your care free attitude. Do things you enjoy doing. I am usually fun when I'm with my friends, family and others.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 01:36 PM
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I don't know how normal it is but it's a good thing. It means you're passionate about your love for your boyfriend and such. Btw I cry at love songs thinking about my man. Maybe I will cry when my boyfriend and I have sex. Don't worry about being normal because everyone has their quirks.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 01:33 PM
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What's your definition of loyal?
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 01:04 PM
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Not much. I was called ugly a lot because I didn't take care of myself. High school sucked until I met my SO senior year, it was nice.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 12:47 PM
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When I first lurked on RP sites I thought being a housewife was a must. Then, I came upon RPW and they even have a thing on the sidebar talking about working women. I guess for my relationship he prefers a career woman. I feel happier getting out of the house 10 hours a week. I work at a daycare and I love it. I was miseraboe staying at home all the time and so was my mother when I was younger. Staying busy keeps many women happy whether she's a career woman or a housewife.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 02:12 PM
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This makes sense. I guess I can do some certain kind of love languages with my SO. I mean, it's the only way my relationship can work. I have been fickle because my boyfriend works really hard but we barely see each other. So I will have to start being patient with him. I have even asked a question about this. I had to realize my boyfriend just has a lot on his plate, but I guess I need to work on my love language. I am currently reading a book called Romancing Your Husband, and a love language …
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 02:57 PM
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I believe in AWALT as much AMALT. Even blue pill men believe in AWALT to a certain extent. I mean, why do men ask questions like why are girls so emotional or validation seeking? Because we are different from men. They are saying AWALT because they believe that most women do this. We are naturally more emotional yet we have our positives in the AWALT feature as well, like we are not as emotionally distant, so AWALT isnt the worst thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 01:29 PM
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The attractiveness is an asset of SMV while career is an asset of RMV. If a man wants to have only no-shoe-strings-tied sex he will look for beauty. If a man wants a relationship he looks for both, along with domestic skill or any other things women bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 01:21 PM
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When I feel womanly I like my femininity and beauty products. I don't wear makeup, so I wear lotions to protect myself. I also feminine colors and fashions. I also like feminine alure, like walking feminine and cooking too. Even though I barely started.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 12:55 PM
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This question is funny but alright I suppose. I like giving blowjobs (yeah...) to my man but I do not know about that. I would try I guess but I have barely any alone time with him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:47 AM
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I remember asking my boyfriend what he likes in a girl. He told me her personality. For then I thought, I shouldn't have to work on my beauty. However after reading these sites I have started dressing better, my man started liking my clothing. He doesn't like makeup much but I love dressing up for him. This is a good post. Men don't care for materialism however they do care about youth and beauty. And us women should do our best to make our man happy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 12:36 PM
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This is awesome with so many details.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 01:56 PM
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Do more chores around the house. Get rid of soda and anything containing more than 10 grams of sugar (unless they're juices) Start an easy todo list so I can organize myself better. Work on being the best teacher I can be. Improve my looks by drinking more water, no make up and put egg on my skin to help. Dressing feminine when I am going out. Start learning to cook again Watch less TV I have been slacking lately due to procrastinating. I gotta make sure I don't slack.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 01:31 PM
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Yes I agree. Sure RP men are harsh and BP will say that they are being misogynistic. From my experiences I have been able to more self aware of my nature. They're harsh truths, let them believe their fairy tail. Harsh reality is better than fantasy land, because this is RL, not a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 03:54 PM
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This has got to be the best advice ever! I have a problem completing tasks. But however I will work on my beauty skills. I do want to learn domestic stuff but I feel better at work. I must have a big hamstering issue because I would believe in the RP then I have doubts of it. RP men believe we are inconsistent as well. However for us non homemakers this has got to be the best advice yet!
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 01:58 PM
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Thank you very much
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:50 PM
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Or maybe they don't have a bad rep, maybe it is the title I am confused about.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 11:03 PM
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I guess to me beta qualities are wanting to please and being a follower while an alpha is decisive, a leader and puts themself first (not in a selfish way). I believe want both an alpha and a beta mix in terms of mating because an alpha may be too aggressive and a beta may be too passive.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 10:22 PM
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They have to have both beta and alpha qualities. Because there are certain beta qualities loved and alpha qualities loved. Like providing (both), compliments and assertiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 01:23 PM
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Thank you sweety I love the positivity in your post sorry I didn't see it on time. I will admit I was a bad girlfriend but I will try to be better and I feel good about him now. I just need to work harder with him. You are a good person thank you for helping me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 04:30 PM
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I am barely off high school. Lol. Some of the advice when I was lurking on red pill sites was to try and maintain a decent SMV or work on your relationships by being kinder to your SO so you can maintain happiness. If you read the side bar it taught me about being selfless to your partner. Each day you learn more and more. You learn new terms, new strategies about maintaining LTR. Like the above user said. Eat healthy and try enhance your beauty. Men are attracted to many things, but the first t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 10:27 PM
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Burlington is pretty cheap and casual. So is Papaya. Both have cute stuff that aren't pricy. Have you tried zulily? It's online but they have some casual dresses. I don't know about cheap though. I usually buy my clothes at Walmart however I occasionally buy my clothes at those stores. Walmart may get a lot of flack but they do have some cheap, long lasting and cute stuff. Didi's is also cheap and casual but the clothes are cheaply made unless you put it on cold water, gentle dry or handwashing …
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 10:12 PM
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Congratulations my friend!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/16 02:31 PM
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I know this sounds crazy but I know how you feel. I self talk my situations because I am afraid of people judging me about this. Social acceptance makes a woman happy in life. If we don't have it, we feel isolated. So far I believe this is the only forum. I believe you can discuss through comments on the manosphere's main sites. I've even seen RPW on facebook.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 12:46 PM
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I guess I would have to live with it. I will try not do that mistake again. I was a plate when I was younger because I was foolish enough to be with him. He already had mental problems like dark triad traits. But after him I found a man that loves me. He said I should go to counselling, so I did and it helped. So it can be done. Is plate like a side chick? Then yes, I was one. I know the definition is similar to beta orbiter but female form.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 03:00 PM
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Yeah I know my boyfriend would probably want to see me more so I will try to talk to him.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 02:53 PM
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I will try. And btw I guess I get shy about the full info but I will explain more. I guess I will have to put my full story which is good. I will have to explain to him a lot. The main thing is that I will have to be myself yet improve my appearance. I guess I just need to think about it less. Another question I have is how do you know if you truly love someone? Is it happiness, commitment, both of us have done wrong so we will have to improve.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 06:12 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being shy. It's actually very pleasing to be with someone who is not too talkative and it's easier to enjoy the moment. And those are his friends, sometimes I know you feel like the third wheel but that's okay sometimes. Maybe you can put your insight on the conversation, that's how most people end up being a part of the conversation. Always start out with small talk, I am very quiet too. You don't have to be friends with everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 06:06 PM
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Maybe. I am trying to be better since I have cheated on my ex so I am far from innocent. I will find some hobbies though. I only two hours a day since I work the afternoon hours at a local daycare. I remember when I tried to breakup because of this he was very hurt so I don't want to hurt him. Me and him need to talk every other day and maybe see each other on his off days, which is hard. I have asked him if he cheated and he says no. Maybe I need to get another job maybe.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 05:58 PM
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Thank you for being nice. He has work and school. I guess I have too much free time. Sometimes I miss him and I need to work on long term relationships. He has a busy schedule. I just miss going to school with him everyday. Sometimes he forgets to answer his texts for days. It's like my mood is changing every secomd because when he doesn't answer for days I think he doesn't love me. I guess it's called flaking. But when I see him I feel happy. I just need to control my moods because we only see …
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 03:42 PM
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We haven't had sex yet but I hope it will be a lot
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 01:50 PM
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Not very prevalent. I am very fickle about my beliefs and my boyfriend doesn't care about politics, so we don't discuss it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 04:47 PM
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Some good stuff he writes on his forum is "The True Nature of Women" and "8 ways women can improve themselves" particularly western women. He talks about the red pill too and has created a movement called neomasculinity. Matt Forney can write offensive stuff but he makes a point. Some men want independent women, however, a man might be turned on by her beauty and fertility rather than her career. He writes and travels around. He is a pickup artist but he writes good stuff about psychology. I hav…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 01:06 PM
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perfect! Well done!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 12:46 PM
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Good luck. That's good you've gotten commitment with your true lover. You keep doing what you need to do. I am new too so I know how you feel. If you have any questions pm me. Have a good day.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 10:47 PM
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I found this interesting. I don't know if I am truly a RPW but I like learning about how to keep my man happy. I am very new to this but I have read a lot of Roosh Vs sites about how to obtain commitment. Sure, my boyfriend doesn't care if I gain a lot of weight (I think he has a thing for fat women) or how I cook but I think a good relationship requires talking and such. TRP can be easy if you start out with Roosh and then if you start understanding how it works you can go to Roissy. I guess I …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 10:37 PM
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This might help me a lot. I remember reading an article about how women can increase their smv. So this reminds me of that article. This also applies to my dad, despite not being in a relationship with him. He works 60 hours so I need to learn ways to let him relax.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 02:41 PM
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I believe trying to sleep with multiple men however it could be also used for women who use a lot of men for as much sexual attention as they can. You know? Like showing nudes to multiple men through sexting. It doesn't have to be sleeping with men.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 01:28 PM
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Try to tell him the best you can. It's very hard because I have the same problem but this is the only way to not be passive aggressive. Just be upfront, but not to the point when you sound rude. I hope I helped and if I didn't just ignore my answer. I do agree with the answers, so yeah do your best in your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 01:17 PM
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