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| 1 | Why do women complain that men put low effort but also claim they are too desperate?I think for that you need to figure out who you are, what are your likes and dislikes, what is your opinion on some commonly discussed topis, read and learn about things you like and what's going on in the world, etc. Unfortunately it's on us to be a whole person in order to be able to connect with others on some meaningful level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do women complain that men put low effort but also claim they are too desperate?Ah, and I though the point is to find someone you like and share similarities with to build a relationship on, not trying to force a connection if there is none | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do women complain that men put low effort but also claim they are too desperate?I can understand how that would be difficult, especially with people you don't know, but that's a rather self-defeating mindset. If you tell yourself you have nothing to talk about you are already going into the situation failing yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do women complain that men put low effort but also claim they are too desperate?Everybody has something to ttalk about. The thing is that you won't click with every single person, even if you try your hardest. Some people just don't click and that's okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do women complain that men put low effort but also claim they are too desperate?I'd say it would be rather difficult and maybe not as rewarding as building connection with someone who you have something in common with. But in the core, we are all human with experiences amd feelings, so asking them about their work/growing up/dreams etc. and genuinely listening and interacting is how you build connection in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do women complain that men put low effort but also claim they are too desperate?Why would you be in a relationship with someone you have nothing in common with? Wouldn't that be kinda pointless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:28 PM |
| 4 | If you had $10M that could only be spent on improving your dating/sex life, how would you spend it?I'm not sure you can buy a better personality. Maybe a therapy would be a good investment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get upset every time young men find a role model who tell them to embrace traditional masculinity?Yeah, I suppose in very general terms you are right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get upset every time young men find a role model who tell them to embrace traditional masculinity?It's few women who agreed to be with these mem, versus many who say they wouldn't. It's about finding a person who aligns with your ideas. If you want to follow their teaching, you need to find a woman who agrees with it too, which will inevitably affect your dating pool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get upset every time young men find a role model who tell them to embrace traditional masculinity?Because this idea of 'traditional masculinity' is tightly bound to toxic behaviors, often targeted at women or people seen as less than | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get upset every time young men find a role model who tell them to embrace traditional masculinity?If their target is straight men, and women disagree with those points, isn't it kind of a sing that maybe what they are saying is off the mark? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 3 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingAh, sorry about that :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 11:13 PM |
| 3 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingThat's how life works, you'll get there too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 11:09 PM |
| 12 | It’s not that looks don’t matterThey are not arguing, quite the opposite, I think they were agreeing with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 06:30 PM |
| 19 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessThey can be confident and attractive all they want, just don't expect me to wet my panties just because they say 'can I have your number' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’Same, in 30 years I haven't really encountered that, but now I'm thinking maybe it's because I just surrounded myself with good men. In last few years, changing the industry, I have definitely encountered a wider arrange of male specimen and it's interesting, to say the least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:29 PM |
| 7 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’With the shitty men who can fake the good attributes for a certain length of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’I hope that's the majority Have a wonderful time =) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 12:06 PM |
| 14 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’I don't think that women see 'approaching' in same way as men do. Especially after reading some reddit stuff, men see it as an approaching games an numbers, while women usually try to assess the situation before asking someone for a number or to hang out. I don't know many women who would go and say 'hey, you cute can I have your number', regardless of how hot they think he is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:58 AM |
| 13 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’Not in some male's minds, no. They think that if they want someone, the other person has to automatically fall for them. Luckily most men are not like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:48 AM |
| 12 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’Most red pilled men see women as a thing, a trophy, a win, not a human being or a partner, that's why women with self respect and confidence don't go for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:31 AM |
| 22 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’The internet allowed us to be aware that we don't have to settle for a mooch who can't wash his own panties and make a sandwich, so yes, the expectations are a bit higher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:29 AM |
| 12 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’I guess you summed it up, women are not to have standards, because they don't qualify for such privilege | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:26 AM |
| 32 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’I always wonder what those 'high standards' are. Because those guys either want to date exceptionally beautiful and accomplished women and and get upset that only Chads get them, or they are upset that women have basic standards of how they want to be treated and those complaint-men can't even reach that and still complain that the standard is too high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:25 AM |
| 28 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’I have been baffled by it for a while. Then they try to figure out how to force women to have lower standards so they can reach the lowest bar to get laid, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:13 AM |
| 8 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?Best response here so far, but I doubt it will get through to the boys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Why are men expected to not be upset about their dating struggles?I think it's the echo chamber they locked themselves in, they go around whinging about not getting females, then sharing cringe worthy 'strategies' they dreamed up in their fantasies, and then keep crying more because women run away from them as fast as they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:53 AM |
| 3 | What is a feminine woman?You're welcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 03:30 PM |
| 8 | What is a feminine woman?It's kinda hard to make men listen to you if you're a woman, they'd rather do it their way and then off-handedly say, eh, you were right I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What is a feminine woman?Kind, warm, understanding, nurturing, with class and grace, but also aware of her strengths and ability to use them when needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 7 | What is a feminine woman?That is so nicely worded and well put, thank you for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 03:06 PM |
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