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| 1 | Any good tips for text game? Never can secure a dateMost valuable tip for texting is to just cut off the texting when it sparks, that way your mates would think "ow he is fun to talk to" leaving her with a good energy wanting to speak with you again. many guys would and go on and text as long as possible getting into a long kinda boring conversations letting the vibe dies, and likely ending up being left on read. you can even ghost off the conversation sometimes leaving her hanging and let her wait for you to text her. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Talent vs hard workFirst we have to define what "talent" is in pick up. It probably mostly about confidence, self esteem, and be a chatty guy, kind of a story teller. Those things can be learned and developed. So I call Bullshit on this statement. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 12:10 PM |
| 1 | A girl I’ve been involved with just ended things out of the blueFrom what you described I think maybe you two have been "involved" for too long doing too little, when things aren't going forward for a long time they usually going backward and attraction drops. Also seems like you probably value the relationship more than her which might come up as neediness. Eventually you will meet a new girl and get over it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 12:02 PM |
| 3 | How do I become a more “open book”?Well you don't have to become an all "open book", just be more engaged in the conversations, cooperate with your partner, try to show more curiosity when the other speaks, be present, share some things of your own, speak your mind, don't hesitate and over think, it mostly about a state of mind, flow. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Opener: Direct vs IndirectI do like direct game (although I believe it depends on what kind of girl you trying to attract). But you specifically said "for shy men", and thus I would recommend at least for start an indirect style of game assuming a direct game would be too big of a step for a shy man and wouldn't be able to perform it genuinely. Remember you still have to lead and escalate. Game isn't much about the opener as what you do after the conversation sparks, there is no magic opener. Go get your feet in the wate… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 11:33 AM |
| 5 | What's with the whole "no-porn" and so onWell at least in my opinion, I do believe porn potentially fucks up your pick-up game and do overall damage to your inner mind. 1. You rewire and drain your sexual energy to watching porn instead of try and meeting girls. 2. Lot's of men would feel lame immediately once they done watching porn - then go watching porn again, making a vicious cycle. 3. You might behave your mind to think - I watch porn = I can't get any real sex. 4. Porn isn't usually watching regular sex, is watching them perfect… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 11:17 AM |
| 41 | Why does it feel so "illegal" to approach a hot girl?Limiting belief. when you a approach a "hot girl" you might think oh wow she's higher status than anyone else here, while it's really nothing but physical appearance. Try perceive them in your mind as any other average girl and that feeling should be gone. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionYou don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman. | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on models?Honestly, I did not like the book. I think it might be "ok" if it's your first book about attraction, for me I've actually read Models after reading several other books and felt like it doesn't add any value to me. Also the writing is quite boring I have to say. | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 04:43 PM |
| 7 | Attracting girls with an accenti'm not sure why taking it as a bad thing, many girls could find it interesting since they unfamiliar with that kind of accent guessing you came from abroad and would want to know more about you. | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 06:27 PM |
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