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FACTS!! 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:03 PM
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You should watch SheRaSeven1's channel on YouTube (she is on the FDS recommended list). Dust yourself off, level way up so that you are way out of this ahole's league and guarantee it will never happen again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:34 AM
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Omg, this is SO accurate. I briefly dated the the 'narcissist/love bomber' from this list. We had the same job title and but he automatically assumed I made a lot less money than him (in fact, I made a lot more), he was telling me about how I beat him when it comes to charm but he beats me when it comes to intelligence (those exact words -_-) and he was always randomly 'testing' me in different areas and claiming it was his way of 'flirting.' Also, he had no friends and was not interested in mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:24 PM
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If a man is truly serious and doesn't have time, he makes time. If he reaches out last minute, act like you totally forgot/didn't realize that he was even supposed to reach out and tell him that you already have plans made. He could be doing all this to try and manipulate you into believing he is the prize. Be careful and don't forget your value. If he reaches out after today and pretends like nothing was discussed for Wednesday, act like you do not fully remember who he is..aka "who is this aga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:34 PM
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What a negging douchebag. I learned the hard way not to reveal weaknesses or insecurities because men will feed off them. They depend on us being insecure and not fully happy with ourselves because it makes us easier to control. This is why, as women, it's important that we love and accept ourselves for the divine beings that we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:26 PM
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What a lowlife lying gaslighting scumbag. Good for her for sticking to her guns. He is panicking because he realized that child support for 3 kids will have him eating 99 cent bread and canned peas for quite a long while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:13 PM
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This is wrong and disturbing on so many levels. Her - zero self respect and self awareness 🤡. Him - possibly gay and/or just with her out of convenience/utility. Perhaps, she pays his bills and gives him a free place to live and he cannot stand the sight of her and pursues other women (or men) on the side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:11 PM
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🤢🤮 If there was no picture, I would naturally assume that "baring" children is a typo. However, looking at his picture I assume this is something he is probably into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:00 PM
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Shera is awesome. The ultimate cure for the pick me disease. Looove her. She gives it straight and doesn't sugar coat. It's life experience. Maybe somewhere in my 20s I probably would have thought that she paints a painful and dark picture of life and men - but now, at 33 years old, I can say that she is a million percent on-point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:52 PM
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"Because I want to see you struggle".. Geez, insecure much!? What a basket case. The "joke" part is a huge red flag. In the future, he will play off everything negative he does as a joke and gaslight into thinking you are crazy/overreacting. The fact that this instance set off your intuition is very telling. You are not overreacting. These things always start small and progress into living hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:06 AM
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This is beyond disrespectful. He doesn't value you, your time or your company. He seems of the mind that you will always be there when he waves his finger. I would (and have in the past) ghost and/or block. View yourself as a rare and precious commodity - not a manchild's expendable plaything. If he had at least an ounce of character, he would be man enough to stay true to his word and to the plans he originally made. Pathetic flakey manchild seeking instant gratification. Toss him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 07:54 AM
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He has no power over you, remember that. "Power only exists if believed." I was in a similar situation at one point in my life. Simply act the opposite of what he expects - - which is for you to feel afraid, intimidated and with your eyes down. My old boss occasionally lost his temper with me and made condescending remarks, while blaming me for things that were not my fault. One day, I simply looked him straight in the eyes and said this: "You listen here. DO NOT use this tone with me; I am not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:49 PM
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Yes! Came here to say this. Love bombing can make some women blind. It's very important to be prepared - calm, collected, not easily swayed and always ready to walk away. I never thought love bombing would happen to me until it did. I'm just glad I got out very early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:19 AM
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I don't have any social media but super excited about the YouTube channel! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:39 PM
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Wow, this is triggering. I was in a similar situation one time, where he told me it was "alright to approach him for help" as if he was a noble and I was some peasant. I just remember being so angry and shocked when he said it, especially because I was always there for him when he needed me. I wanted to punch him in the face. I felt so beyond disrespected. My advice: RUN. It only gets worse. The man you are with is clearly not only selfish but also delusional and manipulative. The aura of superi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:18 PM
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Doesn't know the difference between plural and possessive: check. Racist and misogynist: check. Projecting his personal desire for cock: check. And if he thinks "91" is his IQ, he is aiming quite high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:26 PM
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Stay safe ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:15 PM
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This picture always made me extremely uneasy. It doesn't look romantic at all. This is not the body language of a woman who missed her man and is happy to see him back from war and alive. This is the body language of a woman being assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:12 PM
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A bit sad. Why must women always degrade themselves to "read between the lines" and decipher so-called "mixed signals"? Most of the time, things are just as they appear. If a man is treating you as a 3rd tier side piece and shows zero initiative, it does not mean he is "secretly in love with you" and "scared of his feelings." It means he sees you as a 3rd tier side piece and doesn't give a rat's ass about you, unless you show up at his house offering pussy. There is no such thing as mixed signal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:37 PM
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Yes, absolutely. The high from taking back power and control will make you feel much better :) Do not let LVM, NVM and similar garbage live rent-free inside your mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:11 AM
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As cliche as it may sound, the most important thing for your happiness is for you to see your worth - and not have your worth be contingent on a man's opinion. Men must always always be reminded - directly or indirectly - that they are disposable. Because they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:45 AM
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Apologizing for things that were not my fault, splitting the bill, laughing off neg-type jokes, getting him nice Christmas & birthday presents when he would always forget mine, letting him blur the lines of respect, falling for "potential" and thoughts of how I could help him "build" himself, crying when he yelled at me instead of standing up for myself, agreeing to not use a condom earlier than I felt safe, tolerating being gaslighted and feeling like I have to walk on eggshells, not putting my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:39 AM
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Wow, this is a classic textbook-style codependent/narcissistic dynamic. I think you already know this. This man does not love you. Everything he does/has done for you that clouds your judgment into believing he may be HV (i.e. Business help, paying bills, etc.) is because he loves the adoration you give him for it; he loves the idea of you feeling/being dependent on him. This is how narcissists work. This is how they trap you. I know given your business ties etc you are not in an easy position t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:42 PM
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This is why it is important not to ignore red flags early on in the relationship! I very much doubt that this is the first time he acted like a selfish insensitive jerk - it was just easier for her to ignore before. If he treats you like shit when you are healthy, it will be much worse when you are sick. I feel so bad for her.. she just went through such a traumatic life-threatening experience and the only thing she is worried about is how to "look more attractive" for her porn-addicted cohabita…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:18 PM
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Wtf did I just read!? Unbelievable. She is clearly as dumb as a brick and needs to stop thinking with her pussy and stop making excuses for him. He beat up a small sick dog!? That is a SICK piece of scum. If she doesn't leave him, she deserves to have the future child taken away. Abusers always start with animals and move up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:39 AM
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"Going for a drive" 😂.. I've heard that one before! What is this, the 1800s?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:42 PM
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A magical place to be. Having self-respect, self-love and freedom to be - as well as the pure love and companionship of a cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:35 PM
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Barf! Was probably there to jerk off reading women's posts discussing their breasts - and was triggered by the mention of FDS. After all, more women on FDS means he will have to continue dating his left hand for a looong time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:06 PM
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5'8"..."I think highly of myself"...The irony. But, mind over matter, I guess. Who knows - if he sprinkles some water on himself and stands in the sun, maybe he'll grow a few inches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:27 AM
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Don't. She is a big girl, and therefore should be biologically capable of differentiating between good and bad. And if she is not, nothing you will say will change that. What is worse - you risk coming off as the bitter, jealous and crazy ex in their eyes. She may assume you are trying to win him back. And he will gloat in the delusion that 2 women are obsessing over him. Do not give him this. If he is a horrible and evil jackass, this is a lesson she will need to discover on her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:18 AM
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He is swinging on a rope between delusion and desperation. Surprised he was not wearing skin tight pants with rolled socks stuffed in his underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:08 AM
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And it appears he owns just 1 pair of pants. How precious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:18 PM
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Cringe.. A LVM I broke off contact with recently messaged me and asked if the reason why I was so quiet was because maybe I or someone in my family contracted COVID-19. Wtf!!!! The audacity is mind-numbing..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:41 AM
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As they say, the grass is always greener on the other side. HV qualities manifest over time - when someone is there for you and with you through times of crisis and joy. Just because your friends called him the "most eligible bachelor" does not make him high value. You don't know what their relationship is like. You don't know how he treats her behind closed doors. The point is - you don't know. Do not look at the situation through rose tinted glasses. You never dated him and you've never met he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:24 PM
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He is not extending you basic human respect and decency. Normal people don't even cancel appointments last minute multiple times - let alone dates! Say, if I were to cancel on my hairdresser last minute, let's say twice, she would not book me a third time because she knows her time is valuable, she no longer wants to lose income since someone else can be booked in that slot and she no longer trusts me as a client. Respect your time! And by ghosting him, you would actually be taking the high road…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:29 PM
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Painful to read. Fly away, sister.. Far and away. I remember being laid off and the LVM loser I was seeing invited me for coffee to chat right after I got the bad news. We ordered coffee and a bit of food and he stepped aside, with the expectation that I would pay. I was speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:30 AM
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I did, and wow.. He looks he is still going through puberty! Basically, an immature kid who clearly not very bright. Where did she find him and how the hell did she stay with him..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 07:29 PM
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The "sperm stealing".. Omg, no words! I knew a guy who was convinced that his ex took his sperm to have his baby. It's like dude - you are average looking at best, you have no formal education, you are practically on welfare and you are lazy, immature and inconsiderate (in other words, not exactly "prime breeding material") and just because you tricked some poor girl into not using a condom and got her pregnant, does not mean "she stole your sperm."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:02 PM
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I'd say it depends on the context/situation and type of information you are trying to get. For instance, some people are more open about it than others. People can also lie. If you definitely know that he is taking antidepressants and you are curious, you could bring it up casually and ask about his experience in a non judgmental way so that he does not feel threatened. Meds carry a stigma and people feel embarrassed. Of course, take everything he says with a grain of salt and use your own judgm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:47 AM
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This x 1000. Very important to keep your dark/private/secret shit to yourself - with the exception of your therapist. Had to learn the hard way, with multiple attempts involved. It came back to bite me in the ass each time. I've viewed talking about my past and the trauma I went through as a way to establish human connection and show how much I've grown as a person - both to myself and the other party. Unfortunately, people do not always filter and process information in the way the person "doin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:36 AM
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Firstly, there are plenty of people out there who are detached and unable to feel love towards anyone without any type of medication involved:) Regarding antidepressants /SSRIs etc: The affect they have on people differs greatly. Even if it's the exact same medication. It's also often quite difficult to find the right med/dosage when one first starts taking them. Having said that, I take an SSRI and also a med for ADHD and I've experienced nothing like what you describe. I feel exactly the same,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:07 AM
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Yes. Cannot upvote this enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:28 AM
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Have not tried the course but have definitely thought about it for personal leveling up and just becoming a more refined version of myself, with an in depth knowledge of etiquette rules, etc. I think the course is around $350. I've watched quite a few of Anna's videos on YouTube and have great respect for her. Her message is about being your best version, inside and out - and living your best life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:13 PM
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Ugh.. This is such a pathetic LVM manipulation technique. It's like they're trying sell you a used car. Phase 1 involves pumping up their perceived value with sexual and nonsexual references to ex gfs (aka "look at me, I'm such a virile man, I was in close proximity to human females for an extended period of time" ). Phase 2 involves him calling those said exes crazy/psycho and how he bent over backwards to be the "perfect man" but they did not "appreciate his heart and his love" and manipulated…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:53 AM
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Very true. Not to mention, this type of men usually know jack shit about how a woman's body actually works or what it takes to get her off - and that beating your meat to tentacle porn 24/7 as you smoke weed does not make you a "good lover."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:53 PM
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Wow. How old is he? It sounds like he is OCD-level cheap or really inexperienced - or both. He has an opportunity to spend time with a lovely woman and instead of thinking how to impress her, he is obsessing over how to save a few bucks? Jeez. And what does he mean by "dateS"!? Does he really assume there will be multiple? Unbelievable. He sounds miserable and deluded. My advice: block/ignore and don't look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:41 PM
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Went on a date with a doctor once in my early 20s. It was an arranged date by my family; they said "he was a good boy from a good family and a doctor." The date was arranged after he saw my picture and said "she is so beautiful, definitely looks like a girl I would like to marry." I almost vomited when I heard that but they made me go anyway. He was on the shorter side and dressed in designer garb from head to toe (like Gucci logo shoes and Louis Vuitton belt) which I found super tacky. He kept …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:38 PM
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I used to feel some guilt or uneasiness about men paying for quite some time. I guess it has to do with how society engraines behavioral expectations on us women - that we must not take up a lot of space and not make others feel uncomfortable and not express our true feelings, etc. It can take years of personal growth and cognitive introspection to get out of this mindset. It did for me - I am in my 30s. The guy you mention sounds like immature, selfish and delusional garbage - you are not his p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:06 PM
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Yes! Awesome post. Reminds me of a situation I was in. Some time ago, I began seeing someone while being way out of his league and he would tell me that in the beginning. I thought he was "smart" and "different" and it started innocently enough. He was a bit younger than me and we both worked in the tech field. He began to disrespect my boundaries for privacy, claiming he must know everything about me, to which I pushed back strongly. He would then complain about how drinks are a "waste of money…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:31 AM
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