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I am the one moving because I want to, benefits of renting. We dont have kids, dodged a bullet there. I was on a few days off to rest for recovery. I do have a job that pays me decent.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 03:15 PM
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I understand the power talk. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 07:49 AM
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Broken ribs. Still hitting the gym. Taking care of my shit. She didn't fuck some other guy because I am taking naps, she is probably just not attracted to me. If I were her alpha, I could just do no wrong, I could laze around and still get laid like tile. But I am not, so.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 07:49 AM
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I will think about this BPP. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 07:49 AM
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Honestly, if carrying on redpill will cause my marriage to die - fuck it. Hold on. That's not how a man thinks. Keep this redpill thing aside. Do you have male friends? The kind that have wives who follow them like he is the leader? If not, make some, and spend some time with these men every week. You will see redpill in action. Take mental notes. Go slow. As an aside, you know if you don't have redpill men friends already, it is going to be hard for you to be accepted in the tribe of such men, …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 09:09 AM
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Get a lesson in A&A instead. You sound bitter.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 07:55 AM
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Again redpill is redpill. Imagine a buff bearded tattoed man riding a highway on a fat motorcycle. He sees humans in the distance and he stops by to share his conquers, then rides away to his destination when its time to. Plating, dating, ONS, ltr, marriage, friendships have their time on his highway. Why are YOU so afraid of marriage?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 07:45 AM
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A red pill man does not buy coffee for sweetie, listen to bird sounds and buy circus and movie tickets (unless he does all of the above for 4 different girls) Bro. I don't know why your comment gives me the feeling that you are stuck somewhere in the anger phase. While I will give a thought to why I should not buy coffee for my wife at the time, you should put a thought into why you feel like such a victim of hypergamy. You give me a feeling that you think you are being cheated by women for your…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 07:07 AM
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work you put into her shoulda gone into yourself. Sparring partner. All the work that looks like it was put into her, made my punches stronger and knuckles harder. Doesn't matter what it looks like, what matters is how I feel about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 07:00 AM
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Hello BPP. I am not assuming my wife is having an affair, but there are chances she is. I have a gut feeling. It might not be a gut feeling but just insecurity, but I feel it doesn't matter. A relationship should not make me feel this way. The answer might be man-up bud, let go of the insecurities. Sure, so when she calls divorce, I reply yes. That's manning up I suppose. What would you do in my situation?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 06:54 AM
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Yes sir. I am on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 06:44 AM
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Your situation was if I remember correctly, a slip up on her part during shark week. I know you always blew comfort tests in your relationship, all she wanted was holding hands with a dude, she wanted comfort. But her alpha(you) was back at home and she genuinely felt bad for doing that behind your back. She proved to you that you were(are) the alpha. But you know better, just my take on the situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 06:42 AM
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She is hardly touching me, sex is far off.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 06:33 AM
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Two , this is you in her frame. How? My mission continues regardless she is 'go' or 'no-go'. Ok. Let me DEER. I have always been famous on social media as a musician. If after she has threatened divorce, I stop being the man that I am, that means I am in her frame and at worst I am affected by pussy leaving me, which is a sign of oneitis. And most importantly I am not forcing myself into doing it so that I look like I am an unaffected pussy-abundant man. No. Its just what I am. I know you from O…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 06:32 AM
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Troll, because a true MRP who's been around here a few months would know that the spouse who wants the divorce is the one who should leave the marital home. No true Scotsman and all that, I guess. Hahahahaha. I thought we learnt that 'we should do what we WANT to do' and not what someone tells you to do. You are deeply in MRP's frame, though that's better than being in your wife's. Cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 03:27 PM
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Maybe if I was RP as fuck 7 months ago, I would have set boundaries in time to not let it get to this. It could have probably worked out(a little longer) with this chick if that was the case. It stings me that I was not RP and that means its my fault. Otherwise everything you said is spot on and exactly my thoughts. don't satisfy her. On a lighter note, the day after she brought up divorce I put out a cool video of me playing a musical instrument with finesse, on our social network. It went vira…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 03:22 PM
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Lol. Your hamster can probably run a heavy industry.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 02:54 PM
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I had read all of the sidebar. Rollo hit me the hardest and I was pissed at him for being born. Ignorance would have been bliss. Rational Male told me I was probably being played for my resources. While I was still deep in the anger phase, GargantuaBlarg29 made a post called : "Here's your example". That one really helped me get closer to 'getting it'. I followed this dude like a devotee. He made another comment on another poster(I think it was drty_pr) and it read 'stop being a fucking pussy'. …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 02:53 PM
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convenient excuse Oh for sure. The hardest part is accepting that its all my fault. Blaming her is easiest.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 12:27 PM
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Reply to your edit: Seems theres a lot on this one that misses context. There is a lot more, I will share once I am done grieving the loss of this woman from my life. For now, suffice to say that, I took her away from a redpill man and wifed her 2 years later. We know how that goes. I could never replace him. That along with swallowing the redpill, made me go into an anxious spiral. Fighting anxiety and depression? Yes I am still, and its one of the reasons I have not yet been able to create a h…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 11:52 AM
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Or maybe she just wasn't into me when we got married. Starting out beta is an uphill battle.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 11:25 AM
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I am a fan of you too. The 'conversation archetypes' matrix that you put out has been an eye opener. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 11:23 AM
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Thank you for typing this out. Lot to work on for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 05:33 AM
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Yes. And its going to take a while for me to be so self-assured, that its all natural. Working on it. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:33 AM
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Thanks for pointing that out. I seem to still struggle with the understanding of the DEER. Can you specifically point out that in this conversation?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:32 AM
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what you first think about after waking in the morning This is a high priority bullet on my MAP right now. I am fighting depression and anxiety, the pill has been hard on me. Those morning thoughts need to go, they also come with chest pain.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:26 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:24 AM
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I am in her frame there. Its going to take me some time to have 'mission' thoughts at the wake-up hour. That's where I want to get to. As an aside, I am one of those guys BPP describes, who spiral into depression after finding the pill. The pill has been hard on me and I am currently fighting depressive thoughts and anxiety through therapy. Those morning thoughts have to be killed, they spoil my day.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:23 AM
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It took me a long time and work to figure this out, to figure out how simple this shit is. Thank you for the comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:18 AM
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Men Merps are the real romantics.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:16 AM
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Your obsession for validation internal or external shows Me that you haven't really swallowed the red pill at all and you haven't fully unplugged. Bang. That was a dagger. This is true and I have a lot of work ahead of me.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 10:33 AM
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Quite true stoney. Need to work on my head and mind. Thanks.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 10:31 AM
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To replace that the concept of "Mission" comes naturally. You end up being immersed in the process not because others react positively or because you do but because you internalize the concept of having life-goals that fulfil you. Yes. This is great. Somewhere I had read about the concept of FLOW. Like getting in the flow of things. And with a mission to work on it should be achievable.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 10:30 AM
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Will check. Thank you for the recommendation.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 10:29 AM
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Women are genetically disposed to not providing validation to their BB. Otherwise, he might realize his true value and start wandering. Internalizing this is the first step. I was that man. I am still that man in some ways. Literally get out paper and start writing goals, time frames, and your plans to achieve these goals. When you achieve your goals you will be "validating" yourself, you don't need somebody else to tell you when you have arrived. Great advice. Thanks.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 10:29 AM
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This is for you, not her. Would need to work on just GETTING this.
/r/askMRP19/09/16 04:11 PM
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Do you Listen to your Partner? I do. But I can't depend on it. I am learning to watch what she does.
/r/askMRP19/09/16 04:10 PM
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Respond to them, or do not respond to them! It does not matter. Just stop putting as much thought into it. Ok, I hear what you are saying. I put thought into it, because I come across as a dick if I do not. Should we as men not work on our communication skills? Can that not be a part of MAP? And when I say communication skills I mean both 'verbal' and 'action'.
/r/askMRP19/09/16 04:07 PM
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That won't mean nearly as much to her as a wink and a smile from the millionaire with abs and nice clothes. Agreed, coz he has a high sex rank.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 07:23 AM
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Show me the sidebar content in question, OP, and I'll help you put it into perspective. Thanks man. Will get back whenever I might question any of the sidebar content, if at all I am doubtful.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 07:21 AM
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Manipulating someone's self worth is different and not something that's commonly practiced as a part of MRP. I have seen a few stories on the sub, where the woman is heart broken by the changes. In other stories, the woman was strong enough to hold on. I know the advice might be to 'next' or 'do what you want/need because this is YOUR life.' It is ugly to do that to someone, to break someone so bad, in my opinion. And I don't know if there is any good advice when it comes to a 'win-win' situatio…
/r/askMRP12/08/16 07:05 AM
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Think of this place like having an old school dad. I have seen you from many other posts. I like your style, man.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:30 AM
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When are you going to live your life for YOU? I have a hard time understanding why you would bring that advice up. Its repeated all over the sidebar and this sub. And I am TAKING enough of that advice already from the sidebar and the posts. I know the common answer is: "Because you are a pussy and we need to keep reminding you." Thanks for reminding me. Queries. If you can't/don't want to answer them, then don't. If they are irrelevant to the sub, then say so. If they are irrelevant to you then …
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:27 AM
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If your intent is to punish your wife, you're doing it wrong. Are you saying that only intent is what matters? I still can't see how removing attention cannot be seen as a punishment by the other person. I see that RP men are busy self-improving men. 1. Good behavior = Attention, Time, Affection + Busy self improving 2. Bad behavior = Busy self improving - Attention, Time, Affection + (I have also read comments telling) "up the dread". Are you saying, pt. 2 above cannot be perceived as punishmen…
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:11 AM
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exactly the kind of guy who needs to work through NMMNG. and the rest of the sidebar. Thanks.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:02 AM
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Thanks for the long reply. WISNIFG is next on my list.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:01 AM
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that sort of behavior doesn't turn off men in the same way that it turns off women. This. Makes sense now.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 05:57 AM
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