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We have two kids but they will be staying at her place. She is going on a conference and will be driving up to see her friends which is where I live. I haven’t asked her why she wants to do lunch but I think keeping it at like a coffee is better than lunch. Divorce papers have not yet been filled but she wanted the divorce for the longest time. Since we first split up. I don’t see her wanting to work things out and she usually sticks to what she wants even if she is wrong. She has way too much p…
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/19 10:52 PM
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I think coffee would be better. She is going to a conference in a near by city and will be driving to to see her friends, which is where I live. She said she wanted to maybe do lunch. I didn’t say yes or no but rather I’ll see what I have planned that day. I don’t think she has bad intentions, and if she did, what could she do? She did the worst to me already with her affair.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/19 10:47 PM
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Point taken. I can honestly say that it hurt like a bitch at first but as time has passed, I have to be the stronger man than what I once was before and learn to move on in a positive way. If not for me, at least for my kids. If they go through something like this, which I hope they never do, I can show them that I am proof that things will get better. How can I teach my kids something if I just give up or let my emotions get the best of me? Lunch is just lunch. Keep it easy and simple.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/19 03:30 PM
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I appreciate all the comments. I’m glad it’s a mixed crowd. Not everyone is saying they same thing. Much appreciated fam!
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/19 09:27 PM
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I do feel like if I start to pull away from the cloth all of it will start to unravel. As in there are a few questions I would like to know but I don’t want to know at the same time. But I don’t think lunch would be the best place or time to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/19 09:26 PM
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Good point. At the end of the day, she is still my kids mom. No matter what happened in the past between us. Yea I can keep it under control. I know she has for sure because she wants the divorce. Not me. At least in the beginning she did.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/19 08:37 PM
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Thanks. What about dating apps? Honestly I’m not looking to be tied down but it’s hard to convey that message without sounding like a douchebag. I’m thinking of the bigger picture and I just want to move past my ex but also, not be dating any one specific. I haven’t been single for almost 10 years and I’m just getting back into it. A few people have told me it’s like riding a bike.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/19 02:50 PM
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