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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	[deleted by user] No, it’s not. Usually if there are quite a few words I want to type, I break it down in a few texts. Doesn’t matter. Double texting is bad if you, for example, text her, she doesn’t respond for 2 hours or a day, and you text her again.	/r/seduction	08/09/21 04:33 PM
1	I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by women I wouldn’t say men have better sex drive than woman in general. It’s the fact that women have much more abundance. Sure, there are a lot of gays out there but there’s no way man->man ratio is higher than men->women.	/r/seduction	08/09/21 04:30 PM
1	What did I do wrong? Actually it might not be too late for the “where is this coming from?” text, I’d send that first. If you get the same response (not looking for a relationship), then send one of the other 2 texts	/r/seduction	04/09/21 04:00 PM
1	What did I do wrong? Hmm alright. If you had responded with something like “Where is this coming from?” you might have gotten a better insight into what made her change her mind. Honestly I don’t have too much hope in this but I’d still try something like “Too bad, I was hoping we’d get married and have 10 kids. Already made a prenup”. By doing this you take her frame and over exaggerate it, and you’re basically telling her how absurd it is to be thinking about this future stuff after the first date. Then I’d wait i…	/r/seduction	04/09/21 03:56 PM
2	What did I do wrong? I wouldn’t drop her just yet. What was your response to her snapchat?	/r/seduction	04/09/21 02:51 PM
2	What did I do wrong? Here’s my best guess: either she thinks you’re a pussy because you didn’t escalate it further, so her attraction dropped, or she felt rejected and now she’s the one rejecting you to save her ego.	/r/seduction	04/09/21 02:25 PM
1	Is this a soft-rejection? How should I proceed? I personally wouldn’t go with this frame. Here you’re guessing yourself and not sure if she likes you. I always stick with the frame “she likes me and wants to go out with me”. You may think this line of yours is carefree, chill, and that you’re good with whatever comes out of it, but it actually subcomunnicates your value. And here you’re the one who’s chasing. If you go with my frame though, make sure to not be too pushy. I’d say something like “hey (her name), let’s hang out some time, I coul…	/r/seduction	01/09/21 06:32 PM
1	Is this a soft-rejection? How should I proceed? Hard to say without seeing the whole conversation. You could’ve messed up somewhere after she said she wants to meet you. And I’m not a fan of your “I hope I didn’t interfere in your schedule” response. You basically said her plans are more important than you. My plan here would be to text her again and set up the date. If she doesn’t respond well, drop it.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 02:47 PM
1	How do you avoid the 'friendzone' when playing the long game? I just realized you probably meant “not available right now” as in she has a boyfriend. In that case, yeah. If she wanted to fuck you, she would (assuming you played your cards right)	/r/seduction	01/09/21 02:39 PM
1	How do you avoid the 'friendzone' when playing the long game? While I agree with other guys here saying don’t wait on any girl, I don’t agree with their “if you’re thinking long game you already lost” frame. It often happens that you meet somebody and they travel somewhere, go on vacation, etc, so there is actually no chance of meeting up right now. You can stay in touch and be on her radar without being needy, just don’t text her all the time. And when you do, make sure to make your convo man to woman and flirty so she knows you see her as a potential mat…	/r/seduction	01/09/21 02:37 PM
3	From a fellow autist - flirting tips that actually work! Great post! I would also add something on eye contact - if you want to build tension, which you really need if you want to escalate things more smoothly, it’s important to make pauses. For example, when she’s talking, have a deep eye contact with her and when she stops talking, don’t break it. Don’t say a word. Smile a little and if you do it right, she’ll smile back or even say “what?” and giggle. Then she will look away but you shouldn’t. You will both feel so much tension here and if you keep…	/r/seduction	31/08/21 03:44 PM
1	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. Kaksen link? Lahko mi pises pa kaksno receva, ce si tudi ti v tem svetu!	/r/seduction	29/08/21 04:13 PM
8	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. Qualify as in prove herself to you. She needs to know you have some reason you want to see her, either because you like how she looks, her style, but even better if you don’t qualify her on looks but you like what she does, her hobbies, etc. One example, girl knows I play piano so she says she used to play it as well. I say something like “cool, so you have some talent. I love people with good sense for music” and I qualified her with that. And by doing that you’re also higher value and you’re t…	/r/seduction	28/08/21 09:24 AM
3	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. Slovenian. Would be awesome if you speak it, much less work for me haha. But yes, worst case scenario is you grab a drink with her somewhere public and try to pull her back to your place afterwards. I don’t see how you can turn her away by asking her to come to your place right away though. It just shows you have balls and that you did it before. Not many people actually do that since the “socially accepted way” of going on first dates is public places.	/r/seduction	27/08/21 08:34 PM
14	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. If you message me I can give you some examples, although it’s in another language so I’d have to translate it. Basically you need to build some rapport and get her to qualify herself to you. Then what I always do is find some things she likes (usually a simple “Do you like wine?” will do). When she says yes I say “Cool, we can split a romantic bottle of wine on my balcony”. Then you double text her either a condition (“only if you don’t try to get me drunk”) or tell her something like “I literal…	/r/seduction	27/08/21 05:05 PM
3	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. With proper text game you can get them over to your place on the first date. That’s what I do with my tinder girls actually, I rarely go out for drinks with them anymore. If you want some advice, I’d love to help.	/r/seduction	27/08/21 04:20 PM
6	We often associate taking action with risk, however inaction is often the much riskier decision. While we all have choices in life, they are not all equal. Some choices lead to growth, others lead to regrets. The choice we make will have an impact on our future. There is no point suffering and waiting. You either live your life or you don’t, but you can’t do both. Instead of being busy doing nothing, you’ll be busy doing something. Sometimes you have to stop obsessing over the past and get going with your life. We have no idea where life will take us. We are all in the same boat, so we migh…	/r/seduction	24/10/20 08:43 PM
1	What I learned from my first date in years Lol	/r/seduction	19/10/20 08:07 PM
8	Texting be hard sometimes tho This. Don’t be her text buddy dude, she either wants to go out or doesn’t. Getting to know you more over text is no excuse, accept that frame and you’re fucked. She’ll just milk you for validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/20 07:54 PM
1	How is Pete Davidson so successful with women? Magic	/r/seduction	14/07/20 04:26 PM
2	Can you fall in love with someone if you secretly hate yourself No problem	/r/seduction	01/07/20 09:20 AM