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Wth are you talking about. I haven’t seen such comments at all. I- as a progressive woman whatever that means to you don’t like Bonnie blue bc what she does seems like self harm to me. I don’t support prostitution in general. But also because she targets vulnerable populations. Her biggest hit was the whole “schoolies” thing where she was trying to sleep with “barely legal” 17/18 year olds. That’s disgusting to me. And that has nothing to do with my politics. Also schoolies aren’t what she calls…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:15 PM
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Lol this is such nonsense, Timmy Chalamet has been a heartthrob since he was in call me by your name at age 21 (and looking more like 18). And frequently gets internet “bullied” about his supposed “twink death” since aging. Although that has restored a bit with Dune. Most women are attracted to their age mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:52 AM
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Idk why no one here can read, it was clear what you meant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:50 AM
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Women over 30 probably aren’t going to nightclubs populated by 18 year olds no, but I’m sure they go to dive bars 25+ nights etc. Feel like the number 1 crowd of certain cocktail bars is people unwinding after work. It just depends on where you go
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:48 AM
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Not going clubbing in your 30s makes u bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:46 AM
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Interestingly enough that’s something prostitutes in my country would sometimes say about themselves aswell- that they were protecting proper women and children, by being prostitutes. It’s an incredibly depressing statement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:17 PM
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What true nature would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:05 PM
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Wait you are upset that women way factors of more meaning (like values and personality) as..more important? I wish people were less shallow. Not to such an extend that you completely discount physical attractiveness since that type of desirability is also key for the majority of people. But this does seem like complaining about your toast being to buttery idk. I think it’s also a lot of insecurity- the insecurity of not being truly wanted- when in reality a desire for someone that is appearance …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:04 PM
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This all seems rather innocent, and like everything, like it could apply to some people. Some people do have daddy issues that influence their dating, some people do feel the effects of close proximity with the only other college student working at the Irish bar etc and that’s pretty funny. Not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:25 PM
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Not to be that person but what is your source for the coupled vs uncoupled thing. I’d like to read the source directly to see methodology etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:18 PM
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Cool, I too have family members and a variety of cultures, countries and races I’ve observed. Now what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:36 PM
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And you can’t argue with a person like this either. Too up in their “noticing”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:31 PM
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Man in his 20s who hasn’t been married thinks he has grand revelations about women bc women like having a Pinterest board full of wedding dresses. Such insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:30 PM
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The equivalent would be the secondary sex characteristics of men. I do not know of this trend of daisy dukes with zippers undone. And I’m in my early 20s. But yeah actually when I see young men who wear their trousers on half their ass to show of their brand underwear (a trend I don’t understand) I control myself and don’t stare at them. It’s quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:06 PM
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Since when is cleavage equivalent to exposure of the genitalia? are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:50 PM
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I can see ways where it goes awry, like the weird reinforcing that goes on in unhealthy spaces (like female weightloss groups or male bodybuilding forums)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:44 PM
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Do you think self control is a concept that only applies from men towards women? Who gives a fuck if someone is wearing a revealing top. Don’t stare at it. Low impulse control is tied to low IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:42 PM
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The healthy part or the men part?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:59 PM
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Why are you leering at people just have some self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:57 PM
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Same with men, so much of gender posturing is for same sex acceptance. I think it’s mostly healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:56 PM
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How is the argument that you know many women in commited relationships an argument against his position on women’s lower desire for unrestricted sociosexuality? If anything it supports it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:34 AM
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Not sure why you commented this at me. But if you have to use your passport to find women that want you, you obviously do care what women think. Which is fine, that’s how the reciprocal nature of romantic relationships and options are to work. Don’t know what “postwall” women or fatness has to do with this. Neither concept is gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:15 AM
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No. Her point perfectly aligns with ours. That which is in anyone’s ability to change is your own responsibility. Her point was not that the entirety of that which is important to dating is within your control. Just that that which isn’t- isn’t the responsibility of anyone to shoulder for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:37 PM
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We are talking of the act of approaching which in this gendered context would be out of place for a woman to do with attached repercussions. She noted she doesn’t think it’s that big a deal after having done it. I feel similarly, eventhough its out of the gendered script. As such being a woman does not prevent her from making commentary on the concept of approaching. I do not understand why you are going on this barely intelligible rant about how women are scared of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:34 PM
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That doesn’t preclude her from having have approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:25 PM
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And a woman can be the same. Dating has an aspect of luck to it. And not all of us are lucky. It’s why it’s hard to give dating advice in general in my opinion. Having a certain trait or not does not assure partnership, perfectly similar people can end up in totally different trajectories.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:22 PM
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We are very similar people! I’m not ashamed at all. Just don’t want to have sex with someone who I only have a lustful attraction too. It’s not fulfilling. I’m attracted to many people after all. I live in a society where I can do casual if I want to. And the repercussions are pretty much non-existent. It’s also not hard to hide “sluttiness”. Just don’t run your mouth. Another commonality in my country (Netherlands). It’s just not for me simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:11 PM
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I don’t know about that, I think the wishful desire is to tell women PiV orgasm is easily possible, not that more than 80% of us will struggle with it. Although I’m sure the research isn’t as exhaustive as could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:15 PM
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In what way do you mean the bit about penetration orgasm? My guess would be it’s pretty low. Don’t the stats say that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:52 AM
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Funny how you don’t actually listen to any counter perspectives and instead insist you know better about a persons experience than them. What was the point in talking to you then? You have your mind made up to such an extend you determine others experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:02 AM
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How am I being a contrarian for asking you to link a source to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:20 PM
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So link me whatever you are basing your opinion on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:02 PM
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Where are you getting the claim that promiscuity is tied to cheating in future relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:23 PM
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I agree with you. That’s why in my first sentence I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:51 PM
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This doesn’t actually interact with what I said? Because I didn’t talk about this idea that you should be with someone if they are a single mother through sheer unluckiness. I said that that unluckiness exists. So you are going somewhere I wasn’t talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 10:50 AM
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I agree with you. But I didn’t say it’s impossible to pick wrong, people here seem to be convinced however that ending up a situation like this without knowingly “picking wrong” IS impossible. And I don’t understand that perspective. My father didn’t pick wrong by marrying my mother who happened to become completely traumatized after her child died 13 years into marriage. There was no way to see that coming. The idea that this is impossible (as some of my replies are saying) seems to trigger som…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:04 PM
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When people say “picked wrong” they aren’t alluding to the fact that faith can come down on all of us. They are pretty much always implying there is some fault to be had on the part of the unlucky person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:05 PM
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Why is this scenario triggering for you? It happens. People change, they aren’t static. People can become completely different after massive life events like having children, and that can completely blindside a partner. Which is pretty different from “picking wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:42 PM
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Yeah I have to say I can completely understand not wanting to date someone with children, but the argument of “you aren’t as important as the kid” is crazy to me. You shouldn’t be? Like do u want her to prioritize you over any children you might have with her? God hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:40 PM
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Where in Europe bc not really in my country
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:58 AM
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So now you are yapping about s tier women? But you are per your own estimation not an s tier man. So what in the world are you even complaining about if you are looking outside your own league
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:07 AM
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Women don’t hate sex just because they don’t go about getting sex the way you do. Or don’t need sex as often as you do. What a strange thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:55 AM
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You are aware the gen z sub is mostly people over 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:14 PM
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Oh yeah fair enough. I really think it must be delivery or something bc the amount of red pill men I see saying basically the same thing that do not get downvoted like this.. for the record I don’t completely agree bc I know in my first year of uni girls loved the hook up culture as much as the guys, but it did slow down after that and I’d say most people here are not recently released wild 19 year olds so, surely it’s quite accurate!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:26 PM
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Why are people arguing with you, is it because you are a woman saying this? Feel like I see this sentiment expressed all the time, and I think you are mostly correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:19 PM
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You sound unhinged, plenty of the women in this thread have also said the message sucked and was cringe. And I’m sure not all of us dress like “sluts” or have hang ups. Calm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:17 AM
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The text message in that bumble post was kinda cringe ngl as long as you can gauge that I think you’ll be fine gauging when to bring up sex aswell. Don’t overthink it. Also I think bumble girl was looking for a relationship and that message was giving off major “fwb only” vibes. Is that what you are looking for aswell? Because if so you can certainly shoot your shot more- IF- the girls your going for are similarly minded which in the scenario you described (girls you get high with, casual stuff)…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:15 AM
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I mean we certainly can’t talk if you are convinced that your ideas are “objectively true” without much evidence, and you seem unwilling to actually talk about the (essence of) your comments even with others in this thread🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:08 AM
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I did, so unless you feel misrepresented there’s not much left to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:41 AM
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the essence of your comment- or do you feel misrepresented?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:29 AM
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Take a look at the male mental health subreddit, the gen z subreddit etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:06 AM
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“Women only care about their looks and have no personalities or inner qualities” is a thought you shouldn’t be having anymore by age 16 lmao. I’m sorry if you are struggling in some way but “muh false lashes!!” And “girls have no hobbies” are genuinely such juvenile convictions that I almost thought this was a troll post. You can draw on eyebrows and have a personality lmao. Sometimes I find it really hard to be sympathetic to the men on this sub. Because many have such a dehumanized view of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:04 AM
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I don’t think the worst of the other gender, I am quite objective. That’s why I point out to you it’s not sympathy, it’s frustration, esepecially from a tribalist standpoint lol. We all went through covid, I was able to schedule though- your story is more about your inability to hold a day schedule juggling every part of life than it is revealing anything to us about gender dynamics. Frankly it’s too anecdotal and specific and too off topic to draw the conclusion you want. Perhaps you should com…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:44 PM
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It’s not about comfort, it’s literally that women have done this and realized it’s not a good strategy. There is also a difference between being active (a.e putting yourself in situations to be approached, participating in dating apps, socializing and networking, keeping convos going etc) and telling women to make the first move. Being active is a requirement for getting out there, being receptive is a requirement. Approaching doesn’t tend to yield desired results. I think many women would love …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:34 AM
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It’s not about empathizing, I find it incredibly off putting that so many women I’ve met have been like this. You can claim society is gynocentric all you want but the proof is not there. I live in probably one of the most progressive western nations and it’s just still not the case. “Women won’t see this as sacrifice” many people male and female won’t see this as sacrifice because who tf spends so many hours a day gaming that they are running into scheduling issues with their partner/more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:05 AM
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Women initiating the majority of divorces does not mean that women’s reasons for divorce lay in an inability to deal with relationship turbulence/ when the going gets tough. It might literally be that women are more likely to do the paperwork. That’s why the other person send the stats on partnerdisease.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:26 PM
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Wild because as a woman this is actually what I’ve perceived in other women. Sacrifice and losing themselves in the relationship completely. Seeing a relationship as their main accomplishment. While with the men I often see that they think having a girlfriend gives them some sort of status, but they are also much less likely to lose themselves in the relationship and are very “add to my life (whatever that means to them..) or go”. But the men do tend to stick through things more than the women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:23 PM
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I had to seriously sit with the idea that I would discount a “perfect” partner just because he had had sex once before. I thought about all the friends I have who are pretty shamelessly involved in hook up culture and how I consider them all to be loveable people who deserve to be loved. I thought about how upset he was telling me he wished it had been me instead. It just started to seem somewhat shallow eventhough I was myself a virgin (and I don’t think a virgin wanting to be with a virgin is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:44 PM
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Lol what? This standard was so important to me to the extend that I considered not dating this person. And thank God I wasn’t that shallow in the end! I think you will change your tune about this once you lose your virginity and realize that it doesn’t make you or a partner a masturbatory tool or unable to bond with. Someone who’s had a partner or 2 isn’t going to to change pair bonding ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:01 AM
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it’s a bit of an unreasonable explanation for what is I think not that crazy of a standard if you are yourself a virgin (but will very much limit your options). It’s just that as someone who used to hold the same standard and then fell in love with someone who had a singular partner before me. I now think I was misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:28 PM
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I don’t read healthline articles for my views on scientific consensus no lol. I’m asking where you got this from because there is known health risks like autism for offspring born to teen moms compared to 20s moms (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26055426/) and there is also the question if you mean purely physical or by total life outcome. There is also the question of what’s meant by peak fertility (ability vs quality?). Technically for example PCOS women tend to have higher oocyte yield than …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:41 PM
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Why do you not want a partner with previous partners? Is this a religious thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:29 PM
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Lets not be obtuse, I think everyone can think back to when they were 16 or 18 and compare it to now (I’m from 2003) and it’s a big difference in maturity. Life experience gives a lot of people maturity and life experience tends to increase to a certain extend with age
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:28 PM
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Where are you getting that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:24 PM
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Getting your virginity out of the way isn’t the right advice I feel, I do think you should not really mention it until you are more established with a person. Keep trying IS good advice, but if it’s getting to demotivating you should allow yourself a break. You aren’t pushing 40 you know. I think you should try your best to find organic connections outside of the apps, ask your male friends if they know someone or if they could invite you to places where there’s a lot of guys. My guy friends alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:40 PM
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You have to evaluate what exactly is going on then, what “standards” do you hold etc. Because if people are responding to you, you are thin (which is a little more uncommon for your demographic) and from your comments here while you’ve probably swallowed a bit too much of the pills you seem intelligent and coherent, then it’s something else..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:27 AM
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They’re just pointing out you have a bone to pick for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:45 PM
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are you actually going to argue that being closed off emotionally is more intimate than not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:34 AM
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The act you are describing right now is not the same as what is being talked about. What you are talking about is something we call “taking old cows out of the ditch” in my language- it is not a gendered thing to do. And it certainly is a potential bad thing that can happen to you when you open up to anyone, friend or partner. What I’m referring to is that you simply can never actually grow truly intimate with anyone if you put up an emotional front. You will not know them and they will not know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:43 AM
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I’m starting to think a lot of the posters here must be teens who discovered the redpill or something and have never experienced a true love
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:50 PM
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They weren’t.. they were sharing stats en general with no claims of interpretation or comparison usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:18 PM
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The researchers know this, which is why they would never make any suggestion that women are “the problem” based on comparisons between hetero’s and lesbians lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:35 AM
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She’s saying that heterosexual women and homosexual women are not the same group of women. Homosexual women have their own patterns and behaviors and even cultures and thus comparing the groups as if they are equivalent with only one difference (as to make the comparison work) is kinda silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:23 AM
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I don’t think being picky in general is a bad thing, as long as you accept that your preferences have preferences and you could very well end up unhappy and alone (or happy and alone who knows) as a result of your pickiness. And that goes for men and women. Wether someone considers your preference picky is going to depend entirely on their own convictions. I don’t think you are picky, but that’s my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:47 PM
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What was the percentages for overweight bmi in total? Rather than just obesity? Do you happen to know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:14 PM
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don’t like it? Get in the top 50% y’all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:12 PM
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You’ve just described about 80% of the discourse on this sub. I’m starting to feel like there’s less and less insightful stuff here and just a lot of bitter, resentful people who dehumanize eachother (but frankly it’s levied most at women) into 1 dimensional cartoon villains.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:10 PM
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Half of this sub is men complaining they can’t have relationships so it’s seemingly a reward enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:08 PM
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It’s literally the “beat it chick” meme lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:23 AM
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I think it’s indicative of the fact that many people here have maybe never truly been in love? The idea that you choose the person in this wholly objective way where you plot out all their green and red flags and attributes and minuses and whatever is a very cold approach. I would say practical but I don’t even think that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:22 AM
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Ehh not really you don’t know what your children will inherit, especially since “unattractive” features tend to average out in offspring. Regression to the mean/average if you will. Obvious exceptions apply - treacher collins syndrome for example, but that is also not something plastic surgery can fully remedy. My main concern is the discrimination that we see in societies like Korea, job discrimination, extreme complications from normalizations of things like jaw shaving, extreme aesthetic diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:57 AM
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You are correct. The problem is that any solutions people can think of or that “incels” tend to propose involve infringement on other peoples autonomy in a manner that obviously doesn’t fly. It’s hard, there is no clear solution. It’s why I have a really complicated view of plastic surgery, on the one hand I really dislike the plastic surgery culture of a place like Korea- which seems almost dystopian to me. On the other hand plastic surgery will increase the amount of people able to find love/s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:33 PM
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Maybe in essence TRP is rooted in self improvement but it’s followers tend to get stuck in the “woe is me” part of the ideology. If they actualized the self improvement part it would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:49 PM
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I know one I think and he’s just kind of a guy we all take a bit of pity on. Don’t really know how to help him but we also don’t want to ditch him even though a lot of the stuff he says is just cringeworthy and offensive bc he didn’t used to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:32 PM
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Like these people are delusional, the vast majority of women marry and date within their class
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:01 PM
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I prefer skinny aesthetics myself but I am also aware enough of other peoples preferences to know that she would still be considered attractive even if she isn’t most peoples ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:40 PM
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I’d argue the tweet picture is fat and desirable. Maybe not to your personal tastes but enough so that a majority of people seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:07 AM
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Lizzo has an attractive face so if that was the comparison drawn between me and her I’d be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:06 AM
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In what world is Lizzo at the “forefront for women’s representation” wtf even is that? She’s a singer and flute player. She’s not the “forefront of women’s representation”. There were rotund black female singers in the 50s to like Etta James, Although they certainly fell victim to the racism and misogyny of their time.. just like Lizzo today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:01 PM
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A good post on purplepilldebate, miracles exist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:44 PM
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So you started 10 years late and now you are facing the consequences. Terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:41 AM
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Is this real? Because I’ve known plenty of short dudes (5”6-5”8) that have no problem getting dates. Granted most of them are ethnic minority (including non Germanic European in this category) so it’s more “accepted” for them to be short but still. That is not a “death sentence” height, not even here in Netherlands
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:17 AM
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It’s hypocrisy, but nobody is obligated to justify their hypocrisy, and if they can get their desired hypocritical dynamic then they never have to justify it. But it will not suddenly become logical or non hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:25 PM
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I’m sorry but you sound like someone who just read Tajfels intro on group psychology (been there done that) and it’s off putting, you don’t sound smart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:14 PM
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Well yeah I mean India is pretty backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:48 AM
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If a single person can afford the child in question and provide the needed emotional support I don’t see the issue. Unless anyone can show me statistics specifically for ivf children from single women and it shows negative trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:38 PM
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Read better: it will NOT stop women from NOT choosing abortion. Aka there will be women who won’t abort regardless. You failing to understand something is unimportant. I don’t understand why people drink into oblivion or become overweight. Doesn’t mean I get to governmentally starve people or ban alcohol. Point remains that people will have sex and taking away their children after putting them in single mother temporary houses/hospitals is not going to stop it as it didn’t in the past. Your argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:36 PM
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This is sick and untrue, I’m sorry for any adoptee that reads this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:31 PM
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Except it didn’t stop women from not choosing abortion nor from having sex. So very dumb suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:28 PM
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Actual it does have to do with eugenics- you are limiting who can use eugenic measures. If you are a former anorexic or older woman ivf might be your best bet and to take that away on the measure of relationship status is quite dumb. I can’t actually think of a nation where ivf is limited to couples (?)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:27 PM
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Its because the African American men in question blast it on social media and participate in a couple of “isms” that people take big issue with (sexism, racism, colorism mostly). Which is how you get situations like that black guy that was chased out of Brazil (?) and made the news. Be a passport bro in quiet and at the most you’ll get is a chuckle from Angelina Petrova or Marisol Fuentes-Gomez who also came to the west in a similar way. My country has many eastern and Asian brides, nobody cares…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:39 AM
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No that for most people being skinny is an aesthetic preference and not a health preference and that they’d rather have a thin woman with related issues (not too severe) as a consequence than say a lightly (lol)overweight woman with no weight related issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:31 AM
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It is not a dimorphic trait since we are talking values here rather than strictly biological aspects. From a strictly biological aspect sexual purity would be desired for sexually transmitted diseases aswell. But there’s a reason that and paternity are barely ever raised as actual reasons: because they aren’t the actual reasons (hypocritical) men want virgins. And from a value (the actual) standpoint sexual purity for thee but not for me is not comparable to the mutual desire of say short woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:10 PM
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is it hypocritical for a broke woman to want to marry a rich man- yes. However many men and women alike don’t seem to have an issue with dating those who earn less than them. It’s incredibly rare for a millionaire to date a minimum wage supermarkt worker though so, and a minimum wage supermarket worker would definitely be looked at funny for only wanting to date millionaires. It is not hypocritical for a short woman to want to date tall men. These are dimorphic traites and usually desired. Short…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:43 PM
1

Sure mate, I agree with your aesthetic visions though. So I’ll let it slide
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:11 PM
2

I have to press x for doubt here as someone who has administered tests and done them herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:47 PM
2

If you truly believe this, then I sincerely hope you find your 135IQ partner so that it lifts your offspring into the triple digits because my God lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:48 PM
2

Active in redscarepod Sometimes I scare myself with my ability to predict
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:12 PM
2

You will be giving your partners the WAIS before you consider them? Let’s be serious here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:39 PM
24

“Human trafficking accusations aside” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:46 AM
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Sure but that’s not really comparable to the request made here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:07 PM
4

Actually it’s not that hard to lose your period. Hell you don’t even need to be underweight. Dieting from overweight to normal weight can make your period irregular/go away. It’s a nutrient thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:18 PM
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Can you expand a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:37 PM
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Hmm alright but I still think you probably just moved to fast for her liking and that’s very understandable because having a singular date is just not enough to establish that sort of thing. You seem sweet but when you are that quick with it it can scream insecurity to some.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:56 PM
2

Yes you can get emotionally led on by a woman who is only into you for physical pleasure you provide aka “using for sex”. That’s not really what’s happening in your case though. Its normal for someone to not want to be your partner after hooking up once lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:06 PM
2

Im slowly but surely convinced this sub is full of actually r*tarded people or teens or something bc why do reasonable comments like yours never get traction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:35 PM
2

Yeah he’s a good looking dude, idk why he seems hellbend on destroying his reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:21 PM
3

Sneako maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:58 PM
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I mean this in the nicest way possible but can you read? Lol. Kevin Samuels used redacted scientific papers to claim certain hateful things about black women. He did not make these research papers himself. He did however use them to “advice” people (wrongly) as I explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:27 PM
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What exactly does anyone of any gender or race gain from being presented an argument based on a redacted paper made by a man who’s (multiple lol) redacted papers are literally used by universities when discussing bad psychology research? Did you read what you are quoting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:22 PM
1

Not much to add but I love the term Haughty Hotties. Haughty Hotties are hot, and many are willing to cater to hot people regardless of how aloof, mean, bland and rude they are. So is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:28 AM
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Disagree, he was absolutely off base with a lot of his “advice” see: telling a woman earning 6 figures, thin, youngish and average looks that she couldn’t find someone in that league (which is ridiculous bc class is the main commonality between couples) and didn’t seem to follow his own advice either lol. He had a hate boner for black women that extended so far that he pushed redacted evolutionary pseudoscientific papers simply to hate on them. And the way he died is just sad and ironic: sleepin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:26 AM
12

Women or male adjusted teens and early 20s on tiktok whom the algorithm rage feeds you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:26 PM
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Ehh let’s not generalize the rest of the world- in many ways the third world treats it’s young people much the same. Just in different ways. In many of these countries throwing your “children” out of the house at age 18,19 is considered abnormal for example, while it’s the norm in my first world country. But meanwhile getting married at 24 is considered completely normal in some countries, while it would be regarded as “quite early” where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:57 PM
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What’s the uk male preference like? Curious bc I feel like body in the first pic would do really well everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:26 PM
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I find so many people beautiful that I don’t really have an “ideal” but women who always catch my attention: Samara Weaving (when she doesn’t get too thin) Duckie Thot Taylor Hill Helen Mirren when she was young Isabelle Huppert (objectively probably not that attractive but sooo alluring to me) Grace Kelly Ornella Muti Angela Bassett Nana (kpop star from Orange Caramel)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:21 PM
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Every person needs love and nurturing to an extend. Be it from romance, familial or extended social relationships. The only exception to this I can think of is schizoid disordered people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:11 AM
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The insistence upon that line is so strange to me, is it a victim complex thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:09 AM
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I mean I’m all the things you mentioned (besides conservative I suppose). But I’m also off the dating market. I just like discussions about ridiculous things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:23 PM
0

Big lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:10 PM
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Yup. I mean I’m sure occasionally it happens with a jealous friend, but that sure isn’t what it is 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:30 PM
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I can only speak for my father rather than personal experience as I am a woman. My father is 5”4. He married twice and had several children. Both his wife’s were taller than him. My mother is 5”8. He’s also an ethnic minority in a white country- that country happens to be the tallest country in the world the Netherlands. My father is charming, incredibly charming it’s the one thing everyone always reiterates. He’s a social chameleon. And he’s always been in shape as he was an athlete in his youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:16 AM
1

What “insane amount” of freedom would that be exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:51 PM
2

That’s this whole sub honestly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:58 PM
1

nothing new really, many black men dislike black women. My black father always told me “not all skin folk are kinfolk” holds true everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:06 PM
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The high value man of the black community is not a rapper lol. Myron and troll and the women they bring on are not representative of anything black community related tbh. Black dating culture is non existent bc the black community is in shambles. This is maybe at stretch “black community dating” according to a very small subset of the black social media sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:04 PM
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All these people would be better of stopping the hoeing and red pill shit. Calm down and settle down but they won’t do that. Vanity all the way down no building of anything meaningful kinda sad that there’s so many people like that out here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:01 PM
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Does anyone take these goofies seriously? The women they bring on are either bootlickers or stupid. When they bring on someone with a semblance of intelligence it always makes them look goofy. There is nothing of value here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:57 PM
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My parents had me in their late teens. I could not bring home someone only 5 years younger than my mother lmao. I’d be out of the will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:42 PM
0

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:08 PM
-1

Men care if women are tall in the sense that shortness is preferred and very tall women struggle to date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:47 PM
1

You are very correct and I’m glad there’s reason in these comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:44 PM
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What she is going about is simple logic. One does not need to take personal offense or whatever to stand behind a point. I’ve been thin my whole life and I still recognize that these points being made by redpillers are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:44 PM
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How is age “bullshit” lmao, aging comes with weight gain it’s a very basic concept. Metabolic changes cause this (in part obviously but inescapable regardless of health consciousness).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:40 PM
3

Can I ask you why you necessarily want a virgin partner (no judgement here im a catholic lol). Your answer is one of the more reasonable ones in here!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:38 PM
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0 (catholic) and I usually say 2 just to see what the reaction is and so the men I engage with don’t try to say 0 aswell I’ve only been asked this a few times though, most people are uninterested in that type of information. The internet skews this perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:56 AM
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I wouldn’t care if a man filled in his brows or wore foundation, eyeliner I wouldn’t care either (I’ve seen ME men wearing kohl and thought it looked really good). But muscle suit? No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:06 AM
1

Lmao this is so real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:09 PM
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The person she responded to said he had never seen such things in red pill spheres- the red pill spheres on Twitter disprove that. Nowhere did this person say it represents all men, not even all red pill men. Just a portion of them. Which substantiates her claim of these people existing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:05 PM
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Go on RW/ White nationalist Twitter, go on BAP twitter (basically the same thing to be fair lol) go look up Dutch confessional party leaders and indeed as you mentioned Muslim forum figures like Daniel Hackikajoo or whatever his name is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:04 PM
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Lol I somewhat agree reading manosphere stuff made me far more aware of how misogynist certain men were/are. I was a tween watching Stefan Molyneux videos and it definitely put me on edge. But if anything it’s been a plus- I vet men very hard and I’m aware of much more. I didn’t stop dating- and my dating experiences have been decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:02 PM
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Read ur comment. The implication is that if a woman doesn’t feel like that it’s a bad thing. So I’m asking you why would you want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:41 PM
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You want a woman to see a distressed man and think “ I want to fuck him”?? That’s disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:39 PM
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How can someone be my partner if they are emotionally closed of? Im glad my guy feels comfi opening up to me. Its also allowed for me to adjust my behaviour- I sometimes used to make insensitive jokes and comments that I didn’t know were insensitive, and now I do. I can’t speak for other women but I’m not actually with someone until we’ve crossed that emotional boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:34 PM
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I already explained that in my initial comment- the reasonings for women not being in politics via misogyny, sexism, disadvantage what have you is the reasoning for wanting more women. It’s an unnatural absence (in some countries more so than others). If all women were natsocs, I wouldn’t want them because they are natsocs, their absence in positions of power would likely be explained by people not enjoying their ideology rather than their gender. And thus complaining about lack of women would m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:31 PM
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Are you dull? You can complain about it regardless because the reason there are less women in positions of power have a bunch of mechanisms behind them beyond final election. There is issues at the roots. Something can matter and also not be the deciding factor of why or how something should go. Im not voting for say- a national socialist- just because she is a woman. I simply want women to have equal chance to end up on the stage (this includes the hypothetical national socialist) and that chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:55 AM
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Point 10 makes zero sense- I find it disappointing that there’s few women in positions of power but this does not mean I’m going to vote for someone solely because they are a woman. That is irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:26 AM
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average makeup isn’t changing a woman’s whole face. Mascara concealer and blush don’t allow shape shifting to that extend. Full glam is not something the average woman does on the daily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:05 PM
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I care to but I think on average women do care less
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:32 PM
1

Example more so of the depravity of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:50 AM
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I think if you are hinging your partners worth on providing or on their looks, you are setting yourself up for failure. Especially if you think their declining looks should be followed with declining of your providing. Which is the inherent implication here. That’s a non human way to look at intimacy and partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:04 PM
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Im literally the first woman, from Western Europe. Granted I’m off the dating market lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:17 AM
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I mean yeah they are, replication crisis is kinda kicking psychology’s ass. With the exception of neuropsychology I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:56 AM
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It’s almost like the common reasons men and women can’t get off are different. And thus the narratives around these things are different. Wow shockerrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:54 AM
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“Their looks” the fact that you boil your woman down to this says it all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:49 AM
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Lol so true, just the other day I read this comment about a woman who “donkey kicked” her partner bc he purposefully put it in the wrong hole. She then bragged that “he never tried that again” someone rightfully pointed out to her that she was insane for still sleeping with him. She had no comeback. Like wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:38 AM
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Sure but there’s only so much one can build when not doing weight lifting with progressive overload. It will give you muscle, but it won’t make you look the same as a lifter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:26 AM
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Maybe, but I do know what I’m talking about. My dads a former professional athlete. Does mostly calisthenics now and he’s 5”4. Him doing that gives him a lean but fit look. I think that’s probably the ideal for someone of his height (mine too tbh as a 5”4 woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:05 PM
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Or a tall girl? My mother is 5”8 my father is 5”4. His second wife was 5”6.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:33 PM
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In my personal opinion I think being very muscular as a short guy can make you look kinda stumpy. You are better off (aesthetically) being lean. Not thin or buff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:32 PM
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If it wasn’t your intention to imply such you should maybe change the wording of your comment because this is how the vast majority of replies seem to have interpreted it I explicitly said that’s not the case, I didn’t even imply all male incels are demanding Point out the contradiction if you don’t mind. Maybe I’m slow here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:38 PM
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Nobody said all lonely men are demanding things. you implied the lonely women in that sub Reddit should be told not do demand things and as such people responded that they aren’t actually demanding anything. Men weren’t even involved in my response. Lonely men aren’t all incels, nobody said so Foreveralone women is a femcel adjacent sub, in comparison with male incel spaces they are very different (in a good way). People noticing this is not the same as saying all lonely men are psycho incels
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:51 PM
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Breast implants are expensive especially in upkeep (switching implants every decade) and come with a multitude of risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:31 PM
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You are completely on the money.The only femcel adjacent space I can think of that comes close to the vileness of the male incel forums is certain parts of crystal cafe. But even they aren’t as demented
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:30 PM
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The women in those spaces aren’t demanding anything if you go there and look
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:28 PM
2

Again: where are these stats on interracial marriage in Sweden. How many of these women are marrying mail ordered people and how many of them are self identified feminists? Also “small Asian women are considered more feminine” what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:08 PM
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I don’t have to explain anything because I’m unsure how one could determine wether those women are feminist and what the percentage of feminists among these women would be in comparison to women who do not participate in sex tourism but are in interracial relationships in comparison to feminists in the non interracial relationships etc. Which seems to be your whole point. If you want me to argue against the general point that sex tourism done by women is mostly centered on Africa then I won’t ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:05 PM
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My mother is indeed white, my black female aunts are all married to white men so also not sure where your “9/10” thing is coming from, might apply to your country but where I live it’s pretty 50/50 for interracial relationships involving black people. My mother has dated men of nearly every race. Your strange theories on feminists sexual ethnic preferences are unsubstantiated. Seems like you have some issues maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:47 PM
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I actually agree with u on the racist/ fetishist part I just don’t think that’s what Swedish guy was saying haha. I think he was underlining some sort of hypocricy on the feminists part but it fell kinda flat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:52 PM
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But who thinks Asian women are more traditionally feminine or African men more traditionally masculine and why would a liberal feminist desire the latter. I think the person I was responding to is just making ish up. I’m sure the feminist opposition to these Asian mailorder brides was simply feminist opposition towards mailorder brides in general (safety, exploitation etc) which makes far more sense. As far as I am knowledgeable I doubt the black males these Swedish women are marrying are mail o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:28 AM
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Very confused on what you are trying to convey. Since when is wanting a black male partner a stereotypical ethnic preference for feminists? Don’t think that’s how my mother feels and she married a black man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:05 PM
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I can’t answer you that but here in Netherlands I’m seeing a lot more natives marrying foreigners but as a general trend, usually other Europeans. There’s been a massive increase in European country A x European country B marriages. I’m sure this applies to countries outside of Europe aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:48 PM
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Ah yes the young virginal woman who’s also somehow a total freak whore in the bed. … are you 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:42 AM
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These people live in fantasy land
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:45 PM
3

We ask Mary to pray for us, our prayers to her are honoring her. We do not pray to her in the same way as we pray to God. Mary and the saints are not worshipped like we worship God. Just like the prayers others make for us are not the same. That’s what I learned in church.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:43 PM
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No literally why is he calling the girls whores but the boys…are unscathed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:38 PM
2

Well it is. A minority of men have bachelors degrees, a really large swath of black men of marry-able age are felons or have had interactions with the law. I don’t know about the kids part. You have to keep in mind black men (all so the grandpas and the babies,) are maybe 11% of the total male population. With the above requirements you are really cutting down the grass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:14 PM
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I don’t think you understand the divestor crowd. Divestors are pretty much always black women who are “divesting away” from black men or even “black communities” as a whole not because they hate blackness or black men but because they suffer under the self hatred, colorism, problems with domestic abuse and lack of quality of the men in the black community/ who identify as black. Many divestors would prefer to be with someone who shares their racial background or have no racial preferences. But a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:12 PM
5

Then you aren’t looking? Plenty of people are making well construed arguments. But you have to ponder whether there’s a point to responding to obvious bait and memery. I don’t always see the point. Scratch that if anything this purge is proving to me that there’s isn’t a point 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:04 PM
10

How does a clearly photoshopped shirt on a singular woman illustrate the “hypocrisy” of women as a group?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:02 PM
2

I mean I can understand the concept of surrogate oppression in the sense that acts done upon AI can mirror cultural patterns that we observe in the real world. And that is pretty disturbing. That’s not even considering the concept of AI personhood a la Ex Machina.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:35 AM
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What are you on about im a heterosexual with a boyfriend. I just don’t see why any women would be upset that certain men would choose sex robots. And clearly we women (or atleast the ones on this sub) don’t really care as illustrated by the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:34 AM
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One of the most upvoted comments on the sex robot thread was literally a woman saying she was okay with these men removing themselves from the dating market. Why are you making up this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:47 PM
0

Maybe learn to read. That is not the concern he brought up- instead he brought up that “sex dolls don’t age”. If he had said “sex dolls won’t bite my penis off” I would have scoffed (bc sexual violence is almost always male on female or male on male) but atleast it would have been an equal equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:17 PM
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Nowhere was that done, nor do I agree with that. The comparison is still absolutely ridiculous. Aging is not an attack on your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:49 PM
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The fact that you think “ a dildo won’t physically hurt me with violence and will not be selfish in bed” is equivalent to “ my sex doll will not age” is disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:48 PM
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Proportional nose, symmetry and properly spaced eyes are also not pornhub categories- doesn’t make them unimportant, symmetry is so incredibly important in beauty assessment. So your metaphor(?) falls a bit flat. Clear skin is also not a given, the average persons skin is not very clear. Most people are blemished to some extend (clear doesn’t just mean no active acne).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:07 AM
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She’s not chubby (and thrust me im quite ruthless when it comes to discussing weight). She’s at a healthy weight, the positions she’s in is going to mean you see rolls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:13 PM
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Confused on what your saying. Clear skin is a massive part of beauty. If anything subconsciously since it’s a health indicator. It’s also pretty much a universal (non culture determined) standard. This is kinda of topic I suppose but lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:11 PM
2

As a women who just entered her 20s, it’s gonna be Timothee for my demographic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:13 PM
5

What are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:35 PM
3

You fail to understand that this is not an argument against what MuchMethod is saying. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:48 AM
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Not having sex with the government designated male obviously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:45 AM
6

You should never scorn anyone for being unnatractive nor is that encouraged behavior towards any gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:29 PM
3

I beg you to go outside, average women everywhere with average men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:38 PM
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It’s not a lie. Averageness is a very sweet spot appearance wise. If you are a 5-6 your personality can absolutely elevate you immensely. I’ve seen it myself. But you have to be average not below.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:16 AM
2

Depends on how you define desirable, men in the past were valued pretty much solely on their ability to provide. That’s what made them desirable or undesirable. And women were very limited in their ability to practice autonomy, be it opening bank accounts, acquiring resources through their own non domestic labor, or having love marriages. Men have always needed to be desirable in that sense. But if you are talking things like looks, personality what have you- maybe the 1960s onward? It’s gonna d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:46 PM
2

Most Americans are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:57 AM
5

Y’all really talk about us as if we are different species goddamn. Im so tired of this. It’s just another form of dehumanization
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:41 AM
2

Hmm okay, maybe you have high attractiveness standards then? Although to be fair, I’m assuming most people you see on the streets are older, fatter, stuff like that. “Youth” (<30) population is very small in most western nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:30 PM
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I would say that thinking “that dude is hot” and “I want to date that dude” are two different things. Are they the same for you? Several of the men I’ve been into would not be people that I would notice if they walked past me on the street. I would not be “attracted” to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:11 PM
1

Seems a bit simple to say this, my father married taller women than him twice… my uncle is married to a taller woman. We live in the tallest country in the world where the average man is 6 foot so if anything this definitely shouldn’t be the case yet it is. Almost like your premise is flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:47 PM
1

Well this sounds very drastic but move to the Netherlands, you are still considered tall here but it will be way less of a dating hassle since the average height for women here skews high (5”7) and many find tall women to be appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:33 PM
1

My mother was 4 inches taller than my father, my fathers second wife was 2 inches taller than him. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:30 PM
4

A woman who has had sex before is automatically a slut??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:58 AM
0

This is the most insane comparison ever wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:57 AM
13

I have never had an issue with a male interest crying or being vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:33 AM
1

No. I’ve been hit on respectfully during the day before. But this does not happen daily or weekly nor do I find the times that it did occur disrupting to my day. I do find that some men stare a lot. Which occasionally makes me uncomfortable but again disrupting to my day? No I suppose. I really don’t understand the insistence of men on this sub that women are “spoiled for choice”. Not my personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:26 PM
-1

You need to take less advice from the movies and media you consume lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:37 AM
1

No, because assuming I’d still feel the same way like my personality would remain the same then I would still feel like a woman. I would be trans, and it’s really hard to be a trans person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:16 PM
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Depends what you file under dating down. I have no issue dating down looks wise, but I will not compromise on anything besides that. But also I can do that, I can love the appearance of almost anyone even if they are deemed physically unnatractive by many people. I’ve had very odd crushes lol. But the one time I decided to comprise on personality/intelligence I had a super bad time. I would encourage anyone to not be too hung up on looks, but not everyone can. And I don’t think it’s fair to tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:29 PM
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You are missing what is being said: young average and below average men do not want average women who have all the characteristics of “girlfriend/wife material”. Because they don’t actually value these characteristics and just want to have sex only. They either don’t go for these women in the first place, or use them. Im inclined to agree with this observation. And so is the guy I’m seeing (whom is nothing like that and as such a real exception to the rule).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:08 PM
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What is AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:04 PM
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No fr most people I know are dating people in their “looks realm” so to say. Exceptions apply both ways obviously but like I just don’t see this average girl hot guy combo a lot. Let alone having it be THE most common combo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:03 PM
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The girl who plays Tessa in after is arguably just as attractive as the boy who plays Harden. After’s audience is teenage girls- hardly grown women. It’s not the same audience as a movie like 360 days. Both these movies have been heavily ridiculed and are movie equivalent of trash tv for the people that watched them. Or like really bad telenovellas. There’s plenty of movies of average dudes being involved with above average woman, not sure what the issue is if this occasionally is portrayed. I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:14 PM
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I think you are confusing willingness with ability. Most women do not stand a chance physically against men- and it’s men who are the main perpetrators of violence. During school shootings we see that women give up their lives in order to protect others- see Sandy Hook, Uvalde. I think we can safely assume those women knew the consequences of their martyrdom. Why you presume they don’t is a mystery to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:10 PM
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No actually, the reason the afghan planes were mostly full of men is because most foreign intelligence workers seem to be men and because the idea is that the man will settle in the western nation and then through family reunification programs the rest of the family comes over later. This is usually the typical way it goes. Same thing happened during the Syrian refugee crisis. Most women and children came after the father had been settled already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:08 PM
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Not a unicorn, I know as many women exactly like me as I know women who have casual sex. But barely ever one night stands and stuff like that. It happens but most of the time it’s friends with benefits stuff. It just doesn’t last long. They kinda switch around to other people after 3 weeks or a month. Student culture I suppose. Many of the people i know who are in relationships also were friends with benefits before hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:35 PM
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I have absolutely felt love (and am currently deeply in love) OP. If you genuinely think women as a demographic can’t feel such a base emotion then idk what will convince you otherwise. Because that is a veryyyy fucked idea I can describe the concept of love to you in great detail if you wish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:12 PM
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Anything that focuses on glute work will help your ass. Ribs can’t be changed though that’s correct. If you have a wide rib cage the solution to the “problem” is to enhance your shoulders and hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:50 AM
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No offense but she did not really pass to me so that’s maybe a little bit more subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:45 PM
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Yeah I went through the thread and I feel like OP is being very bitter and also seems to maybe come from a non western culture where marriage functions differently or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:40 AM
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You’re being really strange OP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:11 AM
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I find it kinda weird that you say that people are pretending women are “asexual beings that don’t enjoy sex” because if it were true that women don’t orgasm from PiV then…that still wouldn’t make them asexual beings that don’t enjoy sex lol. It would literally just mean the avenue towards an orgasm is clitoral stimulation. Anyway I like the write up further more. But the numbers are still pretty bad, albeit not as bad as I thought lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:57 PM
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Yeah I’m only reading terrible advice from pilled people tbh that doesn’t vibe with the reality of the world. All the “high value” men where I live marry women from similar class/education backgrounds and marry after education is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:24 PM
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No more so the way you write
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:15 PM
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Yeah I was being a little to broad I think. It also depends on what you consider successful I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:25 PM
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Being neurodivergent will always be a disadvantage in dating. Any disability really. Autistic men are not unique in that sense. This may not be a comforting thought but it’s better to just accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:45 PM
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I’m from the NL too and that’s literally not true lmao. The only reason you feel that way is because you literally hate minorities and women as you’ve expressed multiple times.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 08:21 PM
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No big disagree, you become more scared of the world. And are way more likely to hold extreme positions. That’s what I’ve observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:05 PM
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Yall are making a lot of assumptions
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/21 02:26 PM
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Good to see I’m not the only woc who thinks those white men on Twitter coming out with this take is weird and insensitive. Ofc woc have it worse, doesn’t make this case any less sad. And certainly doesn’t mean white guy Kyle on Twitter needs to talk about it in order to distract.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:28 PM
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I will never understand why European refugee policy, and just refugee policy in general doesn’t favor women and children when it comes to Islamic terrorism refugees. They suffer the most
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:25 AM
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This happens every time a refugee crisis happens or whatever, it’s always only young, fighting age men that come over and it has always confused me. I know family reunification is a thing but I wouldnt let my female relatives stay there over my male relatives- send the women and kids first and let the men follow later. Men in Afghanistan are more privileged than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:23 AM
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Any (black) man that requires you don’t show your NATURAL hair to get his peeper hard is a man you shouldn’t associate with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:17 AM
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Why do y’all wanna fuck young women so bad? Just fuck people ur own age??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:19 AM
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This post is just plane racist, and I also think it’s not very accurate, and idk what “westernized black vernacular” is supposed to entail. Please get out of your stereotype bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:31 PM
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