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most girls where I live cake on tons of makeup and have the trendy Instagram model look (like giant penciled in eyebrows, crazy lipstick colors, long pointed fake nails). I feel insecure as well about that. They get a lot of likes and compliments in the comments from guys, but then as you pointed out, the vast majority of guys says they don't like that style. So what? Judging from their actions, it is attractive, but judging from their words, it is not attractive. I really don't understand.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 10:19 PM
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Personally I'm not a fan of the "glam" look, and some of the most trends can get a little weird (blue lipstick?). 100% agree. I don't understand who dares to buy and wear blue/green/black/violet lipsticks, they look so fake and unnatural. I'm even scared of fuchsia lipsticks. Nude is supposed to make your lips look better, red to make them sexier...but what's pink and fluo fuchsia (not to mention orange) purpose?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 10:13 PM
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Thank you, looks interesting!
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 10:07 PM
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Thank you! I've checked it, looks like a great channel!
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 06:04 PM
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I just want to cover acne and do something to my eyes to look sexier, because I'm 24 but people think I'm 15, and the general advice I got is to use makeup and try to get back some years. Mainly because boys of my age don't look for a 15 years old, and having that appearance might prevent me from meeting someone. I was thinking about something like this or this changing the colours according to clothes.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 06:03 PM
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I don't understand the women's behaviour at all. She has a particular smile, you might like it or not but she isn't ugly. She's not a top model of course, I guess the company chose a normal girl because that's their target customer, and that's just a marketing technique to make the customer feel represented and see herself in the ad. I'm sure the company has also made some research before launching the ad, so I don't understand why so many women criticized the one in the ad. And in particular th…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 09:37 PM
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What do you think about the comments? Women say she's ugly and looks better without makeup, men saying she's hot in a horny way...two extremes, literally.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 02:22 PM
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Thank you all for your replies! Yes I have straight hair that refuses to get curled, I gave up many years ago on that. Now I think I'll cut them and ask my hairdresser to make some layers (now I think I don't have any or maybe only one).
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/16 10:45 PM
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'm talking girls who dress poorly, have greasy hair, never wear makeup, drink too much, sleep around & boss their guys around all the time. Really? I used to think French girls are all about fashion and beauty; good to know that's just a stereotype. How do French guys react to all that? I mean, there is no hookup culture so they aren't just looking for sex, I suppose they want a serious relationship with a feminine girl, but can't get it because of feminism...how do they manage that?
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/16 11:28 PM
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I've read that a general advice you give here is to grow long hair. Could you define "long hair"? Maybe using this chart as a reference so it's clear what we're talking about? My hair has now a lenght midway between waist and hips, I'm afraid I'm growing it too much out of the idea that the longer it is, the more attractive I am. I'm 5 1' so it is now 1/3 of my height, that looks weird rather than attractive I think. Last time I cut it midway between shoulders and armpit lenght, I got a lot of c…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/16 02:58 PM
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Thank you so much for your advice! I'll try with the most detached tone I could use next time and see if they shut up. Also, I don't drink and when I go out I'm 99% of times by my car so I never end up drunk or alone in someone else's car.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/16 05:25 PM
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How can I figure out if that's the case? And, most of all, how can I change the vibes I give off? I don't want casual sex, in my whole life I've always wanted a LTR and love, and I don't know how it's even possible I look like an easy one.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/16 05:07 PM
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I clearly see the problem. I just don't know where to find decent friends (and consequently, a decent boyfriend). I've changed a lot of groups in my life, always the same situation. Maybe not the same, but similar. Seems people don't grow up anymore, they stay childish forever, but learn all adults' bad behaviours.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 11:00 PM
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I'm not sure why you are worried about being cranky v.s. being cool. Check what VigilantRedRooster wrote some comments above this, he/she completely nailed it. People like that are able to make you feel guilty if you react, and spoil your reputation telling around you are cranky, touchy, irritable, hysteric or whatever (in my language we have a term for it, but I cannot find an equivalent in the English dictionary). Don't ever be alone with them, shit can happen quickly with people like this, Do…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 10:26 PM
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We hardly ever have one-on-one interactions, that happen only if I'm around university by myself and bump into one of them but it's a rare case. Usually we are always in group. And I know that's not a friendship, we are not close friends, we just are in the same group but hardly ever text or phone each other to talk outside the group. I never contact them and they contact me only if they need notes or something like that to study for some exams. No chatting, no sharing interests, nothing one-on-…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 10:19 PM
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Interesting definition, I didn't know there was a term to define that behaviour. They are exactly like that, 100%. Maybe being cold to them and avoiding them without a lot of arguments is the best thing to do, in my situation. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 10:13 PM
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If there's people who do not make a single joke, nor laugh at it, pay attention to them. Even if their attention is elsewhere. Yes, there are a lot of guys like this; many just laugh and don't say anything, some don't even laugh. Why should I pay attention to them? Do you think their behaviour implies they are suitable for a LTR?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 09:18 PM
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Would you want a sister or a daughter to be with guys like these ones? By "to be with" do you mean "to have a relationship"? Of course, no. And I don't want to have it myself. I don't even want to be their friend. They are just 3-4 people in a group of more than 10 and I can't decide by myself whom to invite; the others are not close friends but better than staying at home all day. I've figured out that in every group of friends there are at least 1-2 guys who behave like that. I've already chan…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 06:27 PM
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Thank you for your analysis! I'm looking for better friends, so that I could just disappear slowly instead of making a mess and argue with them. We'll be in the same university for 1 or 2 years (I've asked to spend 1 year abroad but I'm still not sure about it), so I cannot allow them to spoil my reputation. If I make a mess with them, I'm sure they'll start gossiping around and some of them already say falsities about me (and not only me). This could nonetheless keep good guys away from me. Cou…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 06:14 PM
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No, I'm just going out with them because otherwise I'd be alone; I hope to meet better friends soon. The problem here is many people are like them. As I said in another comment, before this group I was in another group with similar dynamics (plus drama queen type girls). I find it really hard to find different people. Sometimes I even think I'm wrong in taking them seriously and I should just let them do, as everybody tells me to do, because it seems everybody is ok with guys behaving like that …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 05:36 PM
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You have never actually firmly and in a serious manner asked these guys to stop I haven't figured out a way to tell them to stop being serious and firm but at the same time preventing them from accusing me of being a crazy touchy one. I'm quite sure everything I could tell them will get them angry at me, and the first thing they do is accusing me of not having a sense of humor and of being a cranky one. If that happens, they'll have the group's support (because everybody agrees they are joking) …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 05:04 PM
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These guys are a mixture of immature, creepy, desperate and lonely. 100% agree. Couldn't have said it better myself. I told them multiple times I'm not interested, but they still keep on. And it's not possible for me to completely cut ties with them because they are in the group, so cutting ties with them means stop going out with the whole group (decent people included). Of course I try to avoid being around them in the university, but then when we go out 3 out of 4 are always in the group. Rec…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 04:48 PM
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I'll surely do that, thank you for your advice!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 02:42 PM
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I have the impression that a lot of people think I'm crazy, but I'm not. I have generalized anxiety, that's all. Maybe I'm just pessimistic and they don't think so bad about me, I really don't know. I've asked a couple of people if they still remember me crying for my ex in class and they said they did not remember or they had to make an effort to remember and said they didn't pay too much attention. But I know others did, and still gossip about it 2 years later, even though they know I did noth…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 09:48 PM
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Do you really think I'm young? I feel sooo old for not having found the right one yet, and not knowing if I'll ever be able to makes me anxious. Here average age at marriage is around 34 for men and 31 for women, so yes, I might be young; I don't know how many years before marriage people usually meet, I can't find data about that. I agree I should find older men, maybe someone around 27-28, the problem is nobody is in university at that age (I'm 24 and I'm the oldest one in my class, usually pe…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 10:21 PM
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First off, I'm sorry for what your wife did to you. I know some gold diggers and they are quite disgusting. I've also dated both rich guys and poor guys, that makes no difference to me, and one of my ex, who is really poor, has no problems in finding dates (he's never been single for more than 3 months). If you have girl friends, or sisters, maybe they can help you spotting gold diggers and avoiding them, as usually we recognize quite easily who is like that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 09:49 PM
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Thank you! I don't know the difference between graduate school and other schools, here we just call them "universities". You get a BA studying 3 years, and a MSc studying 2 years (that's what I'm starting this autumn). The university is always the same, same building, same offices and professors etc. My mother used to tell me guys grow up later than girls, so I'd find someone at high school. I ended up in a class of bullies. So she told me I'd find someone at university, I'm graduating and still…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 11:53 PM
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I'm studying economics, I've some classmates whose major is finance and they are generally not interested in a LTR. They are 90% people who want to make money and have ONS (things are like that also in the other majors, but finance seems to attract the majority of this kind of guy). Finance is risky, working on it stresses you a lot, that could be why they don't date long term and look for relaxing casual sex
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 10:49 PM
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Meetup in my country offers events only close to big cities, and I live away from there. What do you mean by coffee shop? I live in Europe and here we mean places where it's legal to use substances; I don't use such things, if that's the case.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 10:42 PM
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Aboun point 1 - if you think like that, you limit yourself really a lot. I don't want to avoid guys who might be great guys only because we don't share similar interest before we meet. If I cut off everybody who doesn't have the same interests as me, and then everybody who doesn't have the same lifestyle as me, I'm seriously heading to become a cat lady (and that's the same for everybody, I personally know really few couples who share similar interests) About point 3 - not me. I don't even like …
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 10:38 PM
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You're right, that's a really tiny line. I use to do big tangible favors only to boyfriends usually, while if I like someone but he's not my boyfriend I might help him with an exam or similar stuff but nothing too exaggerate (I've high marks so it isn't a big effort for me to help people with exams). Also with my ex I didn't provide much tangible help, but mainly intangible as they had psychological problems (one heard voices in his head, one was not entirely sure to be heterosexual and had also…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 10:22 PM
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Ahhhhh, that kind of type. Well, when I was at high school I used to like rock guitarists and I had a couple of them. Now I don't have a type anymore in that sense, I'm just fine with someone who wants commitment and has the same lifestyle I have. Is that an issue? I mean, not having a specific type I don't limit my chances, I think. EDIT: forgot to mention I'm not an office worker, I'm graduating soon and I'm starting a MSc this autumn.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 11:16 PM
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who shares a few of my interests I use to get interested in what the guy I date does. So if he does something I don't do, I naturally get interested in that. is loving, supporting, caring (we love submissive behavior) I am like that. To the point that usually guys either take advantage of me or dump me saying I'm insecure because I try really hard to please them so they assume I'm insecure. Cooking and cleaning the house would be a bonus if you ever managed to start living with him I've never li…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 11:07 PM
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I got all of my exes through friends of friends as well, but recently the people I know are not willing to mix groups of friends, so I use to go out very seldom and with a single friend or with a group of friends I know and who already know each other (usually my classmates at university) and nobody brings in new people except their SO (if they have any). I also tried to ask to some of them to invite new guys but they refused, saying that "I must not look for love". The only occasions when they …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 10:43 PM
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By "special snowflake" do you mean a virgin? I'm not a virgin, if that's the case, I had a boyfriend until 2 years ago. Having positive attributes that make you a catch will get guys interested in you What could a guy be interested in? I mean, I might have those attributes or not depending on they guy's preferences, I think. Is there anything general any guy is interested in (besides sex), to help me figure out if I'm ok or not?
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 10:15 PM
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