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Holy shit you’re just ignoring half of what I say. Like I feel like I’m taking crazy pills. This is next level ridiculous. Questioning stats doesn’t invalidate them. Just cos you don’t know where they come from doesn’t mean they are wrong. Be curious. Go investigate. As long as media has existed? You honestly think men and women have had it the same this whole time? Also did not support it anywhere. Actively didn’t support it. Mainly the people doing it, if they happen to be men that’s on them? …
/r/MensRights30/05/25 11:39 AM
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Sorry I don’t know how to do that thing that highlights something you said so I can respond to it directly. Trust me. I’m curious. Like genuinely. You seem like an intelligent person, and from what I’m guessing based on what you have said, you have fallen into some weird extreme corners of the internet with some really weird “feminists”. I am very sorry that so many men feel so hurt by the fact that what I see as the systemic oppression of women over thousands of years is finally being highlight…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 11:28 AM
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The point has been made. You haven’t actually said anything to counter me. The issue of “what was she wearing?” being asked by a police officer looking at CCTV footage is not the problem. No one has ever fucking complained about this. This is exhausting. Victim blaming women is something the media has been doing as long as the media has existed. People (not only men, all people) are finally being called out on it. Is it shitty that they are getting called out in an article where a man was assaul…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 10:29 AM
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Men are not the villains. The people who victim blame women who have been sexually assaulted are victims. Hint: some of these people are women. lol. Cool comment. Not sure what kind of feminist you identified as. Most feminists are also trying to help men. My comment history is consistent with the things I have just said.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 10:23 AM
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Yes. Anger is a completely valid emotion. How can you not see that the people in the comments are also angry because of an injustice? Granted and already conceded that setting someone on fire is an injustice and not okay. But honestly rather than saying “feminists are just saying this stuff to play victim” why not maybe consider that they are angry? Women have been asked to put away their emotions for men for centuries. How about rather than responding with anger (which seems to be the only emot…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 10:18 AM
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It’s wild that with all the evidence and lived experience you can’t concede there is a clear issue. Like you’re trying so hard. Let go bro.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 10:01 AM
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Men should talk about their feelings when it helps them off the ledge. I think it was pretty clear what I meant. This feels just like men getting angry because it’s the main emotion they have been programmed to feel. Honestly, that sucks for you.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 09:57 AM
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Yes I would object to that. But I have already explained that I thought what happened to this man was wrong, just pointed out the clear point that the comments were making. I’ve honestly never heard of any of these terms before. I’m not sure you’ve been dealing with real feminists Nope. Don’t disagree you’re right. I do believe that masculinity is innately toxic. But I don’t believe the type of masculinity we are seeing is actually innate to men. I believe it has been learned. So yes. I hate tox…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 09:55 AM
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Also it’s not just men who ask “what was she wearing” “why was she out late” etc. it’s women too. This isn’t really attacking men. The fact that this sub is so triggered really says a lot.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 08:51 AM
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Sigh Have already explained this.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 08:40 AM
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I agree with your assessment of my first comment. That’s exactly what I’m doing. I dunno what “beard tears…” or any of those things mean. Sounds like something you guys made up. Third point. You’re 100 percent correct. When I think about what masculinity would look like without toxicity I imagine compassion, nurturing, empathetic humans. Which yes indeed is gender neutral.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 08:39 AM
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Not uncomfortable at all. Actually far more comfortable after reading this. Thank you.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 08:33 AM
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I mean yeah. How could they not be? Poor women have historically (and I think irrefutably) had more social disadvantages than poor men. I think it’s impossible to argue otherwise.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 06:47 AM
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Dude. I agree with everything you’ve said here. This doesn’t have to be an all or nothing game. We were commenting on one specific incident remember? My two cents about the suicide rates though. That is because of the way the patriarchy has depicted what a “man” should be. If the dreaded feminists ruled the world, men would be allowed to cry, hug each other, talk about their emotions. Toxic masculinity kills. Toxic masculinity is caused by the patriarchy. Doesn’t mean it’s not important. But I d…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 05:47 AM
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This response shows me you are capable of understanding the nuances of culturally ingrained misogyny but seem to refuse it exists. All of these things (slightly altered) are also true for women. Except that it just happens to women more. And it’s more violent. I personally don’t see a world where women perpetuate these crimes equally as much as men. It just doesn’t fit with lived reality. But hey whatever you think man. You don’t really seem to have the data to back it. Your life experiences vs …
/r/MensRights30/05/25 05:25 AM
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Like I said. These are US stats. Not Aus… can you read?
/r/MensRights30/05/25 04:40 AM
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Actually the definition of rape has been changed in Australia so that it now includes women. Your “fact” is outdated.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 03:12 AM
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I agree that it’s wrong that only men can commit rape. That’s ridiculous, of course women can. That’s an injustice that needs to be overturned. For what it’s worth the facts page is from the US government, not Australia. I suspect the Aus stars would be much worse. Curious though, if men reported women for sexual violence crimes do you think the numbers would be proportional?
/r/MensRights30/05/25 03:07 AM
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Omg… Who said it was just police? Like honestly. Why can’t you just trust the experiences of others when they tell you they have been through something? The truth is when people hear about rape or sexual assault, for some people the response is still “what was she wearing?” “Why did she walk through the park alone at night?” “Why didn’t she share her location when she got in that cab?” If you want to deny that these questions get asked, and deny that many people still subconsciously blame the vi…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 03:03 AM
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Of course she should be sentenced and charged. Of course she should! She committed a criminal act and should be penalised to the full extent of the law. Those comments I’m referring to are using this horrible criminal act to highlight the thousands of criminal acts done by men that have been diminished by the media and society for thousands of years. That of course does not excuse this one woman’s behaviour. But saying “those horrible things in the past”, “those men have been sentenced and incar…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 08:17 PM
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Like you understand why they are saying “he asked for it so he got it” right? You know what’s being referenced?
/r/MensRights29/05/25 06:05 PM
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These are the kinds of comments I’ve seen on other platforms/subs for the same story. They raise a very good point to be honest and I haven’t seen anyone on here discuss them correctly. So… it obviously doesn’t matter if they are true
/r/MensRights29/05/25 06:01 PM
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But what was he wearing? Why were his clothes so flammable? Did he ask her to stop? Why was he alone with a girl he doesn’t know that well?
/r/MensRights29/05/25 05:53 PM
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You are ignoring all the systemic factors that mean that daycares, nursing, and teaching is dominated by women. There is literally no scientific evidence to suggest women are “better” “more suited to” or “prefer” these things. The fact of the matter is that women breastfeed. This is a biological phenomenon that cannot be argued with. There are certain hormones released during this time that help with bonding. But that’s it. Studies show that fathers, adoptive parents, and non-birth caregivers al…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 04:47 AM
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You just asked how a married man can be a misogynist? Do some married men beat their wives? Yes. Is that a misogynistic act? Yes. Therefore it is possible to be a married misogynist. Logic pretty simple. Didn’t claim quantities or anything like that.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 11:05 PM
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It’s just hilarious that people on this subreddit claim that “feminists don’t want to hear the truth” when the truth is presented to you. You freak out and downvote it. This is why no one takes men’s rights seriously in the mainstream media. You refuse to engage with facts.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:47 PM
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But poor men got to vote before rich women? I wouldn’t use this in an argument with a feminist. It won’t last long. They will just talk about intersectionality, and honestly. They’ve got you there.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:39 PM
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Of course you can be married to a woman and still be a misogynist. If you marry a woman but then expect her to do all of the work around the house while you’re out for drinks, that’s misogynistic. If you are both at work and your kid is sick at school and someone needs to go pick her up - if you expect that to always be your wife, that’s misogynistic. If you’re married to a woman and beat her or abuse her - that’s misogynistic. The truth of the matter is some men marry women just to control them…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:20 PM
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They hate you too. And they will ALWAYS win. Because misogyny kills waaaaaaay more than misandry. There’s just no way around that. You can argue with those facts forever but you’re going to come off looking stupid. It’s okay if you don’t want to try to help the situation. Like sit there and be hateful. But you should be okay with being called a hypocrite when you get angry with women for doing the same thing.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:09 PM
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Be careful if you argue with feminists on this one. Because the facts aren’t really on our side. Married men have lower rates of heart disease, depression, and substance abuse. They also live longer on average Married women often experience a slight increase in stress and weight gain, and their health benefits depend more heavily on the quality of the marriage. Also, marriage often improves men’s financial stability. Married men tend to earn more than single men, even after controlling for other…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:01 PM
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Hoping you also have not slept with many women. Since we worry a lot about double standards, better be consistent
/r/MensRights27/05/25 07:47 PM
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