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violettta/r/MensRights01/06/11 12:48 AM
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NO. Quiet man!
/r/MensRights13/07/11 01:24 AM
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I used to be made to sleep on the floor if we had an argument, the couch would be a luxury haha. People can be so cruel.
/r/MensRights11/07/11 01:48 AM
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What the fuck.
/r/MensRights11/07/11 01:44 AM
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eh they couldn't arrest me if they wanted to, I was technically an 'escort', so it's a loophole in the system ;)
/r/MensRights08/07/11 09:43 AM
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haha wow epic, maybe i am one of the rare ones then? never want kids, and dont see the point of marriage, i dont need a pointless sparkly bit of carbon on my finger, and a piece of paper, to prove i love someone. I also dont see how someone can feel good about themselves after basically taking half of someones wealth that they did not earn, dont they feel guilty at all for just fucking over another person? Everyone is so selfish... i'm really high so i'm probably not making sense hahaha.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 01:40 AM
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i dont think a mans/womans worth should only be determined by wealth, thats why alot of people are unhappy in relationships if thats what they souly base their attraction to that person on. Partners should be best friends aswell as lovers.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 01:11 AM
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Haha in no way is he dumb, he's extremely intelligent and i find that really attractive, I'm not going to go marry him and take half his money or some shit if thats what you are implying by risks, only a rare few people are that eeeeeevillll. I don't want a corporate job really, i am studying 3d animation and want to get into app design i think, would rather earn not much money and do something i am passionate about than be stuck in a dead end job.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 12:48 AM
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Exactly :) while there are alot of women in bad situation involving prostitution, legalizing it wold help regulate safety and rights for these women (or men, who can be prostitutes too) I'm dating a guy who used to pay me for sex actually haha, most guys who pay for sex are really normal guys or men with alot of money and not much time on their hands and pay for the convenience, i used to charge $500 a night, was the best job I ever did.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 12:41 AM
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what about women on top of the social economic status? They cant exactly marry up can they? there is always the option of being a boytoy of a rich woman i suppose ;D
/r/MensRights08/07/11 12:35 AM
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Well at the moment i have an extremely rich boyfriend, but i am also studying to get a career. If i had to choose, probably just stay with him and be effortlessly rich, but he encourages me to study and make success for myself. I would probably get bored of freeloading after a couple of months if i had nothing else to do to progress in my life.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 12:13 AM
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prostitution is actually a fun, easy job that pays well, not cruel at all, but i guess i didn't go through a pimp or anything I organized it myself and was smart about it, and met my clients for coffee beforehand to suss them out. I have never felt objectified because it's MY choice.
/r/MensRights07/07/11 11:50 PM
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As a girl who dabbled in 'prostitution', I honestly could not give any LESS of a fuck what feminists or society thinks of me. :)
/r/MensRights07/07/11 11:48 PM
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I want both... :) and i'm sure most guys wouldn't mind if they had wealthy wife's either, makes life more fun and less stress.
/r/MensRights07/07/11 11:41 PM
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haha ok, maybe ive just been sleeping with pedo's, i do look younger than my 15 year old sister...
/r/MensRights07/07/11 04:41 AM
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them too, or donate to children, or animals etc :) but I was referring to 3rd world women, in my opinion atleast they are probably some of the most hard done by and in need of help.
/r/MensRights07/07/11 01:41 AM
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Since when do men not like brazilian wax? I've been with alot of men, and literally every single one of them has preferred completely hairless. But that might be because ive been with under 30's, older men seem to like bush. (ew)
/r/MensRights07/07/11 12:46 AM
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Agree, life as a women for me atleast, is easy. I choose never to have a baby, and i don't even work because I have a wealthy bf who helps me financially while I am studying. Lifes good man, and beauty products are fun to use in my opinion. Then again, life for alot of women in 3rd world countries is hell, so we should appreciate how well we are have it and if possible, donate/help our fellow womens in need :)
/r/MensRights07/07/11 12:42 AM
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Holy shit that is horrible... D: But how can that be stopped?? is there adequate sexual assault education and counseling in the military?
/r/MensRights07/07/11 12:37 AM
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Well while I did start out as the definition of a whore (sex for money), it grew to be more than that and now we are in love, I like him for him and not just his money. Am I still technically a whore? I don't know, and I don't really care haha, we're happy and thats what should matter.
/r/MensRights04/07/11 03:19 PM
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yea would be a bit hard to prove because with prostitution it is meant to be kept discreet and such, but she totally should have asked for money first.
/r/MensRights04/07/11 01:04 PM
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I would assume he would, but i don't know? Figured that it is pretty obvious considering she's a maid and he is a rich guy.
/r/MensRights04/07/11 12:39 PM
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if it was obvious she was a prostitute, its not rape, its like... stealing?
/r/MensRights04/07/11 11:33 AM
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Oh he doesn't mind at all, he makes something like half a million a year so money is no issue, he enjoys spoiling me, and i enjoy being spoiled. win win. My situation is certainly not the norm tho, I have dated men with less money than i have and happily paid for half or more of the bills. As i said before, I'm no feminist and think men and women are different in a fair few ways, i havent got much of an issue with gender roles or anyting, i do think equality is needed when it comes to basic huma…
/r/MensRights04/07/11 08:24 AM
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Is there anything wrong with being a whore? I'm not hurting anyone. When we have sex and it's passionate and amazing and an expression of love. Plus I <3 giving blowjobs, so I get something out of that too.
/r/MensRights04/07/11 08:18 AM
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I get what your saying, hmm last time We hung out I made him burrito's and gave him like 3 blowjobs, I know you said sex doesn't count, but I do give DAMN good blowjobs hahahaha. Interesting thing: we started out as him outright paying me for sex, in a way, was kind of an escort arrangement, but then we started dating and now love each other. He doesn't give me money now unless I'm going shopping or if I really need something. Haha this soooo isnt going to go down well with the mra community is …
/r/MensRights04/07/11 07:40 AM
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I'm a woman who watches alott of porn, I can kind of understand how porn can desensitize people, I like it rough, like REAL rough, yet It's hard to get to the point of extreme-ness I want in sex because I have such high standards, unsure if that is due to porn tho?
/r/MensRights04/07/11 06:19 AM
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Hahaha very true, and about the same amount of amazing men, (I has one!)
/r/MensRights04/07/11 04:39 AM
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thats true :) like i dont think women should just expect men to pay every time or anything, if i was rich i would have no problem spoiling my SO, just seems a little silly for a jobless uni student such as myself to pay for dates with a guy who is a multi millionare, in my case atleast.
/r/MensRights04/07/11 01:30 AM
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I like men paying for me in dates because of multiple reasons i suppose, it feels nice to be 'looked after' in a way, i also have no money so I literally cant even offer haha, also a lot of men seem to enjoy paying, makes them feel all manly or something i am unsure.
/r/MensRights04/07/11 12:52 AM
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I'm no feminist, but I enjoy the man to at least offer to pay on a date. Especially if its dinner or something, splitting the bill in an unnecessary hassle. My boyfriend pay's for everything, but I bring value to the relationship in other ways. :)
/r/MensRights04/07/11 12:41 AM
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isnt that like labia plasty? some people choose to have that done because they think it 'looks better', isnt as fucked up as chopping off the clit (ouch)
/r/MensRights01/07/11 03:21 AM
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if all the males suddenly died out in this world, there would still be sperm banks available, i guess?
/r/MensRights30/06/11 09:53 PM
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ahh i hate that excuse for cheating: "it's just instincts, biological need to sleep with lots of men/women hurr durr" >:( GRRRR
/r/MensRights30/06/11 06:43 AM
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maybe it's because im in australia and out unemplyment benefeits are different, but on average they recieve like $500 a fortnight, yet we dont have food stamps or anything. Definitely needs to be fixed.
/r/MensRights29/06/11 12:52 AM
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not really, sometimes they have no choice or are scared for their lives etc. each persons experience is different. And give me a short opinion/response :) I dont think either is worse because violence can get you killed, but emotional abuse can fuck you over for life.
/r/MensRights29/06/11 12:50 AM
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No, no they don't. Some women like getting hurt in sex etc, but getting beaten without consent, well no one would like that. Obvious troll is obvious. Also sad to see people fall victim to manipulative men/women who use them like in this article. serious question: Do you think physical violence or emotional abuse is a more serious issue?
/r/MensRights28/06/11 09:24 AM
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I was assuming you were joking/trolling about the women beating thing u first posted. If you are a serious woman hater / pro violence then, well, how sad.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 09:15 AM
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Because they are victims of abuse and it's not their fault? Many people CANT escape from that kind of situation so its not cool man to joke about that kind of shit. Not funny either.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 09:06 AM
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What do I not understand? it's pretty obvious that anyone who beats someone weaker than themselves, (unless self defense) are absolute scum. But eh no point arguing with a troll I spose.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 09:01 AM
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victims of abuse. goes either way really, men who get beat up by women are also victims of abuse.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 08:55 AM
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Men who beat women are weak little pathetic boys. fuck off.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 08:51 AM
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mmm my parents seem to think it does... haha i suppose they are the ones paying for my rent tho. :P i find it strange that its SO hard for students to get benefits off the government but anyone over 25 can automatically get benefeits for being unemployed. system is fucked.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 07:57 AM
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lazy people do take advantage of tax payers $$$, definitely think unemployment benefits should have a 1 month time limit unless there is an issue that stops the person from working.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 05:42 AM
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i see no problem with having standards, some people like to have an equal relationship where both partners contribute, some people like one to earn the money and one to look after the home/children. It's all personal choice. :)
/r/MensRights28/06/11 01:24 AM
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ummm i think it's ok if you are doing something like studying, but a lot of people do nothing but smoke weed all day and get money off the government for doing nothing, when they are capable or working. I'm unemployed, but dont get any government money and i study full time.
/r/MensRights28/06/11 01:20 AM
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I have actually, of course I have a victim complex as I am a victim of domestic violence.
/r/MensRights27/06/11 02:01 AM
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An abusive man can feel the need to control all finances, as in even money that she makes. That's what the title was talking about, I think financial abuse is a form of abuse.
/r/MensRights25/06/11 05:10 PM
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Since forever, women's can emotionally abuse men too if that's what ur implying?
/r/MensRights25/06/11 05:03 PM
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It's a tricky thing, because in most cases emotional abuse is not obvious to anyone outside the relationship, also why it's extremely difficult to charge anyone over any sort of emotional abuse because of lack of solid evidence. I know slot of people who consider getting screamed at and slapped by their partner to not be abuse, there needs to be a lot more work done on educating people on red flags to lookout for before the abuse gets too bad.
/r/MensRights25/06/11 04:38 PM
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My ex boyfriend used to steal my money, that is an example of abuse, or the man using money as a way to control the woman by not allowing her to work, is also abuse. A woman stealing a man's money is an example of a woman abusing a man, it's not one sided.
/r/MensRights25/06/11 04:34 PM
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Yes that is clear cut emotional abuse, and that kind of abuse can really fuck a person up. don't go trivializing domestic abuse.
/r/MensRights25/06/11 03:57 PM
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so it isnt worth protecting women from crazy men? why should it be more important to protect men from crazy women? your logic makes no sense.
/r/MensRights24/06/11 10:15 AM
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those jobs are paid very well, maybe with management positions, women have leadership qualitites that men just dont have.
/r/MensRights24/06/11 10:14 AM
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Lets face the other reality, there are far less women doing a trade (building, carpentry, electrician etc) . Is this fair? Have men created a system that doesnt attract women to trades?
/r/MensRights23/06/11 02:09 AM
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i was never protected from bad men, maybe because i don't have older brothers or a close relationship with my dad, but yeah most men dont care and will choose not to get involved.
/r/MensRights23/06/11 01:20 AM
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don't plan on it.
/r/MensRights22/06/11 11:57 PM
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Just like all the crazy ass abusive men out there give you guys a bad name.
/r/MensRights22/06/11 11:54 PM
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I'm sorry, but you aren't very coherent?
/r/MensRights22/06/11 12:02 PM
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who do you want demonized? no one should be demonized.
/r/MensRights22/06/11 11:54 AM
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What basic changes do men and women need to personally make to reach a higher level of gender equality? i have allways felt quite equal with my male counterparts but i know many males and females don't.
/r/MensRights22/06/11 06:13 AM
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Awh I dont think chivalry is dead, I thought it was but recently met a man who treats me like a princess and he changed my mind that men can still be respectfull and treat women well. It's just very rare to see happen nowadays.
/r/MensRights22/06/11 06:06 AM
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i think maybe both men AND women should change to some sort of equal compromise, isnt that more fair?
/r/MensRights22/06/11 06:04 AM
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wait............. women poop?
/r/MensRights21/06/11 07:30 AM
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I think mens rights and woman's rights should go hand in hand. I'm all for women's rights, i just dislike the word feminism because of the negative stigma associated with it.
/r/MensRights21/06/11 05:45 AM
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no. :)
/r/MensRights21/06/11 01:08 AM
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nope, I do like a bit of excitement in my life ;) at-least I'm honest.
/r/MensRights21/06/11 01:08 AM
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I admit, would be pretty fun/exiting to date a drug dealer if its just something casual, and free drugs is always a bonus ;D haha definitely not the sort of man you aim for if you are looking for a serious relationship tho.
/r/MensRights20/06/11 08:58 AM
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" In short, women who aren't feminists will end up alone and miserable because of the actions of a few highly dysfunctional people. " Wtf is this shit? I'm not a feminist, but i'm in a relationship and VERY Happy, the actions of feminists have given women everywhere equal opportunity. i think op was talking about 'men hating' women, who are not allways feminists, i think the word feminist should be reserved for women looking for equal rights of both men and women. Crazy ass man haters can be cal…
/r/MensRights17/06/11 05:10 AM
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what are you implying then? why even bother mentioning feminists?
/r/MensRights08/06/11 05:55 AM
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leprechauns!! :D and i really cant be bothered haha
/r/MensRights08/06/11 04:54 AM
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there you go again talking about the structure instead of tissue. le sigh haha.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 04:37 AM
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thats what i was saying, she's a girl so i dunno how she doesnt know this? out clits get little lady boners hahah.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 03:27 AM
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I really dont think circumsision is something many feminists advocate to be honest.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 03:26 AM
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ahh ok, well if anyone actually gets offended over that they need to harden the fuck up hahaha, maybe we should just call all cars and cyclones pokemon names and then no1 will get offended? i'm obviously a genious.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 03:19 AM
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you kno whats interesting? abusers hardly ever THINK they are abusers. I know many people who have been abused by their bf's, but their bf's flat out deny it to everyone to protect their own asses.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 02:42 AM
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hahaha still wasnt relevant to what we were talking about, being tissue.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 02:31 AM
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well according to the internet both the head of a dick and the clit are the same thing, cant really be assed to reference it, but google "clit erectile tissue" and you will get your answers. :) your reference talks about structure not tissue.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 02:21 AM
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It's about 30% of women who can orgasm from just zee dick, ahh the female orgasms are damn tricky things haha :P. I hope you are not trying to justify genital mutilation tho because thats how you are comming off? it's all very inhumane.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 02:03 AM
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ahk i just googled it and yes the clit is infact erectile tissue, the hood of the clit would be equal to the foreskin. ouch.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 02:01 AM
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ahk well the majority of women can not orgasm other than from clit stimulation, but i thought the clit was erectile tissue? it does erect/swell when aroused? I'm no expert on clit tissue tho so i dunno haha.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 01:59 AM
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I can see where you are comming from but you are totally going about it the wrong way, much of society is against male genital mutilation and it is definitely on the decline, maybe it's because i'm australian but im gonna be honest here, out of the 15+ dicks i have seen/experienced only 1 was actually cut , so it appears that it isnt so common for the younger generation. The social reasons for cutting a boys dick is 'cleanliness' and occasionaly for phismosis, it isnt appropriate to mutilate any…
/r/MensRights08/06/11 01:57 AM
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the clit is equal to the head of a guy's dick, if you took that away a woman wouldn't be able to have orgasms.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 01:49 AM
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No it is not, is promoting female genital mutilation really going to help the situation with male genital mutilation at all? If you were fighting for equality you would be fighting to get rid of circumcision in male babies, human rights and gender equality kind of go hand in hand, removing the rights of one gender to even the playing field is not going to achieve anything.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 01:48 AM
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I always thought people names their car's with female names because they considered their machines to be 'beautiful'... shows what i know haha, but yeah if it is for the reason that cars are 'temperamental' then i suppose it is a little bit sexist towards women but not too much of an issue, doubt anyone is going to get offended over it.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 01:37 AM
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None, genital mutilation of any kind if fucked, how is promoting female genital mutilation about equality at all? Just seem's like a childish spitefull thing to say if you ask me and taking a step back in progress. If anything we should be working to get rid of male genital mutilation of children in our culture.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 01:35 AM
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carefull, your paranoia is showing.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 04:38 AM
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If one partner is pro-life and one is pro-choice, it makes things very complicated. I know if i even accidently got pregnant i would certainly abort it, but what if i was with a guy who wanted to keep the kid? And what if it is the other way around? If one person doesnt want to keep the kid does that mean they should be able to relinquish all responsibility and not have to pay child support and is that fair to the potential child? It's certainly a grey area.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 04:34 AM
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The father should definately be consulted, and im sure in most instances he is, but the mother and father are not allways going to agree on the decision, and a decision DOES need to be made. :\ So it's kind of a shitty situation.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 04:23 AM
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I dont get it, so a woman get's pregnant when she and the father are not ready for a baby, if she keeps it, she is a evil bitch and not deserving of child support. If she aborts it, she is also a evil bitch and a baby killer. Whats a girl too do haha?
/r/MensRights07/06/11 03:14 AM
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Yes I am sure they are capable to look after themselves if they try, but just seems easier to have someone else look after them. Plus in this day and age there is alot more pressure on women to be hard working and have a career etc to try and prove ourselves. Kind of a reversal of roles really, we should probably backpedal a bit and meet somewhere in the middle. :)
/r/MensRights07/06/11 03:00 AM
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I think it's because younger men have been babied growing up, alot of what i experience is men wanting their girlfriends to act like their mothers and look after them. Thats not necesarily a bad thing some women like being nurturing and such but for many like myself it makes finding a man who can look after himself hard.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 01:18 AM
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its hard to deny that uncut dicks are more 'glidey' in sex tho, reducing the bad kind of friction, feels good man.
/r/MensRights06/06/11 02:02 PM
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no women dont find mutilated penises more attractive, foreskin is there for a reason, and sex feels better for both men and women when the man is uncut.
/r/MensRights06/06/11 05:49 AM
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i know, just talking bout how action should be taken instead of bickering perhaps.
/r/MensRights06/06/11 05:46 AM
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Still 90% of domestic violence cases are not considered to be false, and a portion of that 10% could still have been violent but with not enough proof to convict the violent men and women. As a victim of domestic violence and serious abuse he sadly never got prosecuted and told EVERYONE I was a lying bitch and most people believed him. le sigh.
/r/MensRights06/06/11 12:04 AM
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i dont think killling a rapist vs killing a girl who lied to get pregnant are in the same league...
/r/MensRights05/06/11 11:56 PM
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hehe yeah, well he runs a business and is like a millionare, so i don't think i will be splitting bills with him any time soon since i earn $0 a week, I am certainly a good gf too him tho :) I am apparently 'simple' in a good way as in have no drama and am completely honest and easy to read and he likes that.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 11:54 PM
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I just think you are comparing two different things, while both are very shitty, the psychological damage caused would be pretty different, i would assume a man/woman would kill their rapist in fear that that person will rape them again?
/r/MensRights05/06/11 07:01 AM
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change that to "Dear person who lied to me", an entire gender did not lie to you.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 06:56 AM
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yeah i never ask for expensive dates or presents or anything, but i do accept them when given, alot of men actually find it rude when I insist on paying. I just make sure when someone does spoil me that they know it is very appreciated.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 06:53 AM
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If you want to reverse the situation it would be more fair to compare this to a woman violently raping a man and then the man shooting the woman for revenge i think.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 06:28 AM
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He doesn't just like me for sex... he enjoys my company, our dates don't always end in sex.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 06:09 AM
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yeah that's true, i enjoy being generous with my close friends who are struggling and have no issues paying for like a taxi or whatever, if i was able to be generous all the time i totally would, it's a nice feeling.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 06:04 AM
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on the other hand i don't think it's a good idea to ask someone on a date if you are not at least able to pay the bill or if it will put you out of pocket, it cant always be assumed the bill will be split i guess, something like a picnic would have been a better suggestion if the guy had no money. I wouldnt go on a date with a guy to an expensive place if i knew he wasnt able to afford it.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 06:03 AM
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Doesn't bother me at all, he gives me alot of money too so I guess if I did offer to pay it would be with his money anyways... haha. :P
/r/MensRights05/06/11 02:43 AM
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I'm a broke jobless student, my bf on the other hand is extremely rich, should I even bother to offer to pay on dates?
/r/MensRights05/06/11 02:03 AM
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Seems pretty dumb to base your opinion of all the billions of women in the world because of the actions of one person, so imagine if another guy fucked you over too, would that mean 2 people made to hate literally every one in the world?
/r/MensRights05/06/11 01:23 AM
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Nothing really wrong with having high standards and expectations, its how we weed out the bad men from the good.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 04:26 AM
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Well thank you then, the more you know. :)
/r/MensRights04/06/11 04:23 AM
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how are men who believe you should never hit a woman 'pathetic'? I was under the impression guys who DO hit women are pathetic. (unless ofcourse in instances of self defense)
/r/MensRights04/06/11 04:17 AM
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Hmm nice guys are few and far in between but they are definitely out there, and by 'nice guy' I mean a man who is respectful, honest, not violent, not manipulative and is faithfull. Allthough I have had my fair share or absolute dickheads, my general niceness has finally attracted another nice person. :) Patience is key! And yes women are attracted to power but a person can be nice and have power/dominance aswell.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 02:38 AM
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Spelling mistakes happen to the best of us ;)
/r/MensRights04/06/11 02:06 AM
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feminism and gay rights anger also isnt the best way of making a difference in my opinion, rational arguments are good tho :)
/r/MensRights04/06/11 02:05 AM
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I'm not very innocent when it comes to sex but i do look the part, and many older men seem to love immaturity and child-like qualities because they think it's 'cute' i suppose?
/r/MensRights04/06/11 02:03 AM
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I just think it's interesting that someone would ask why there is hate for the mens rights subreddit, and when someone offers a possible answer as to why it attracts alot of hate everyone gets EXTREMELY defensive. :\
/r/MensRights03/06/11 07:05 AM
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haha gawddamnit, i wish there was some sort of third gender that was awesome and sane.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 04:35 AM
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I'm not telling anyone how to speak, just suggesting a reason as to why alot of people seem to hate you guys, sheesh i pushed some buttons. :\
/r/MensRights03/06/11 04:29 AM
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wut... calm down bro, this is probably why alot of people hate mensrights, I never said I did, i'm all for both mens and women's rights and equality.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 04:25 AM
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I'm totally not surprised, by the sounds of it alot of men get fucked over by the system, but the reason there is so much hate for MRA's is because of this display of anger. If people were more calm in here there would be less hate. just sayin.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 04:20 AM
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I dont even know what that means... haha, but seriously people shouldnt ask questions if they don't want answers, was just giving a possible explanation.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 04:18 AM
1

haha awhh, i really don't think that's a rule, most people end up finding someone they love and are compatible with, is it a rule that all men are manipulative, lying, violent and abusive too?
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:59 AM
1

What rule is this that you speak of? haha, but yeah nothing good comes from holding grudges against the opposite sex because of the actions of a certain one.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:54 AM
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why am i getting downvoted? i answered the question as to why there gets alot of hate here, im all for rights for men but some people go about it the wrong way.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:53 AM
1

holyshitttt that's so fucked :s
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:51 AM
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I think it's because mens rights should be more about actively attaining rights for men, but there just seems to instead be alot of hate posts about women here.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:29 AM
1

does that like... actually happen? :| shiiit you would think they have laws against that kind of stuff, have you got a source or is it like just a story?
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:26 AM
1

one girl skrewed you over, probably because of her own personality and no just the fact she is female, a guy has violently abused me before, in your logic that is because he had 1 Y chromosome?
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:17 AM
1

Not that rare I suppose, My mum is the sole bread winner of the family for instance and my parents have been happily married 20 years, I turned out different to her but what I'm trying to say is it's all personal preference really, no need to completely generalize, to each their own :)
/r/MensRights02/06/11 04:41 PM
2

What do you mean? who knows maybe I am the exception when it comes to this, alot of women like relationships to have completely equal, and alot dont.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 04:15 PM
1

oh really? thats pretty bad, is there a source or example of that tho?
/r/MensRights02/06/11 04:11 PM
0

Well i suppose those kind of relationships arent for everyone, just saying if a guy is looking to date a much younger woman, he is probably looking for her to act quite young aswell. For me I don't feel satisfied if the man isn't in complete control of the relationship.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 03:26 PM
1

that slight condescending tone just turned me on... tehe. :P
/r/MensRights02/06/11 02:52 PM
0

I am still in my teens and i like older men in their late 20's or early 30's, I love being nurtured and being taken care of and older men can supply that, and older guys like my innocence and immaturity and submissiveness, just feels natural i suppose. :)
/r/MensRights02/06/11 02:00 PM
1

totally agree, like i said, people shouldn't be held back because of things they cant change. Also i think feminism has done some good in giving woman rights and equality but it has been taken too far in alot of instances, feminism also has a place in 3rd world countries where women are still severely disadvantaged. I really dont think men and woman are all that different and we should all just get along :)
/r/MensRights02/06/11 12:47 PM
1

yeah annoys me when like 20 year olds get married, you have to date a person for quite a while to see the real them and to know you can trust them. knowing a person for a year isnt long enough to get a real judge of their character. If people were just smart about it and take things slowly there shouldnt be a need for divorse, im not even really a fan or marridge, like why cant you just have a wedding and such as a symbolic thing but not adhere to the whole legal bullshit about it. Dont need a p…
/r/MensRights02/06/11 12:39 PM
1

I see :) well they should probably fix that to be 100% solid, but then again I wish people could just trust each other with that kind of stuff, people rush into marriages way too fast.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 12:19 PM
2

Okidokes, well that's good :) equality for all I say! nobody should have an advantage or disadvantage over anyone else due to things you cant help like gender. But even I can see in circumstances as a woman I do get privileges.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 12:16 PM
0

Isnt there something you can get the woman to sign saying she wont take half your money if the marriage does end?
/r/MensRights02/06/11 12:14 PM
2

ohkk, well maybe the better word is womansrights and mensrights :)
/r/MensRights02/06/11 11:28 AM
2

If the wife earns less money, he pays her. If the wife earns more money, she pays him. :) So sometimes the woman can lose alot of money if the man doesnt work.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 09:41 AM
2

Can't you be in favior of both men's rights AND feminism? Both are basically striving for gender equality :)
/r/MensRights02/06/11 05:41 AM
2

A happy relationship isnt really a 'pipedream', it's a pretty reasonable thing to strive for really, and who knows he could marry a rich woman who would pay HIM allimony if they got divorced. :P
/r/MensRights02/06/11 05:24 AM
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How about you have a baby with someone trustworthy that you love and raise the child in a loving 2 parent family? Now thats a plan. :)
/r/MensRights02/06/11 05:04 AM
1

I think the main thing about feminism is having the CHOICE to either choose to adhere to a more traditional relationship, or a more modern one. Back in the day it was just expected from every woman, but those kind of gender rolls don't sit well with everyone.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 04:49 AM
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I dont think feminism has killed that just yet, quite alot of older men like the old fashioned ideals when it comes to relationships, good thing I like older men ;) Most guys my age (19) expect their girlfriends to mother/provide for them and I personally can not handle that at all. 1950's relationships make me horny... hahahahaha!
/r/MensRights02/06/11 04:45 AM
3

Same reason men/boys date bitches, they usually don't start out bad, and use manipulation and lies to get you hooked and THEN they let the crazy out.
/r/MensRights02/06/11 04:36 AM
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Eh, I have never had an issue with landing men and I am extremely nice, sure some men take advantage of that, but in general men like nice and honest women. Do any men here actually like 'bitches'? I think not...
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