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2	Is it possible to go from introvert -> extrovert? Whether you are an extrovert or introvert can change over time. However, once you reach puberty this aspect of personality appears much more stable. The brain is more plastic than was previously thought and you can change its inclinations. If an introvert can systematically face their inhibitions and fears they will have a huge advantage over the typical extrovert. The extrovert’s weakness is in his disdain for long periods of reading, studying, or intense focus. All of this, by its nature, is i…	/r/seduction	30/05/16 05:55 PM
2	One little tip that will boost your success rate immensely (night game) I love this. To those cringe worthy comments, this takes strong inner game and body language to pull off. You gain this by throwing yourself out there and gaining reference experiences. Challenge your paradigms. This can be learned.	/r/seduction	15/02/16 12:24 AM
2	[30M] I'm sick of women being so insulting and toxic in the dating game and that my only option is to accept it and move on. It's making me hate women. Dude... I think every one of us opened this thread wanting to help, but wow... You're the common denominator...and pig headed. Until you accept that, you and everyone else with your worldview is fucked. What you are describing may be explained by evolution, right? Understand it, accept it, and be at peace with it. When you're in the surf and a wave knocks you down repeatedly, would you get mad at the wave and say it was stupid? Would you fight the wave and everything it stands for? You see other…	/r/seduction	19/12/15 12:37 AM
1	It's not talking to the girl that scares me, it's for when they see what I got in my pants. I wanted to comment but the replies you have received are very good. If you are worried about your ability to please a woman, don't. As a man with an above average penis and ability to "last" in bed (a skill aquired through practice due to similar self esteem issues) I can tell you that your surest route to being considered "good in bed" is mastering cunilingis. The best book I've found on the subject is She Comes First. Actually, on the subject of books, read, read, read. The book I most recomm…	/r/seduction	20/11/15 03:04 PM
2	How would you answer 'why do you want to kiss me?' This. This does not happen very often and is very likely an insecurity issue. Is it possible to overcome her resistance? Definitely yes. But everyone who's done it will say you don't want to. You have a lot of women in your life and your time is valuable. Screen this one out.	/r/seduction	12/11/15 05:49 PM
2	What should I [20M] as a virgin do when watching netflix in bed with girl [20F] to lead to us having sex? Exactly, game on. :) A quick note on resistance: no means no. This is where calibration is useful as last minute resistance is very common but you always respect the woman you are with. She is not obligated to sleep with you or anyone. If she does this, stop, smile, and focus your attention on her face; if you have already been fairly intimate, stroke her hair or her cheek as you say, "I don't want you to do anything that makes you uncomfortable."...and mean it. From here, only you can gage the …	/r/seduction	12/11/15 05:24 PM
3	What should I [20M] as a virgin do when watching netflix in bed with girl [20F] to lead to us having sex? There is no single rule or guide to initiate sex in a natural, non-threatening way; but here is how I would do it. When you sit to watch netflix, make sure that either your legs or arms are touching right off the bat. This is not a huge leap but still fairly intimate and you can build physically from there. When that is comfortable, move so that both arms and legs are touching. When that is comfortable, put your arm around her. If you feel confident enough to be direct about this, go for it; if …	/r/seduction	12/11/15 12:56 PM
1	Guys how do you deal with being physical with taller girls? Lead her up some stairs, turn around, and plant one on her.	/r/seduction	12/11/15 05:16 AM
2	I need help ! This. Run to the next toastmasters meeting and explain your situation; they will be happy to help by letting you practice on them and giving you feedback. I would even recommend joining for real once your speech is over. In the mean time, there are other things you can do. 1) Improve your mental state. All external improvement first comes from correcting or improving your internal "map" of the world and the way things are. Since you're in a hurry, here are two things to start internalizing every…	/r/seduction	02/11/15 06:38 PM
10	Recently started reading Neil Strauss'(Style) book The Game.. A few questions. The Game, while an entertaining read, is not necessarily what you want to emulate. Models by Mark Manson is the most popular outside recourse on this sub, and for good reason. That said, it sounds like your sticking point is not what you're saying. Aside from self-depreciating humor, and even then there are plenty of exceptions, it's more important HOW you say something than WHAT you say. Strong body language, tonality, and physical escalation are what you need to focus on. There are many resour…	/r/seduction	29/10/15 06:21 PM
13	My cousin has serious problems interacting with women, please help me help him. This is my first post. There are plenty of great replies already; but twenty-three is the age when when I first held hands with a girl. The most important part has already been said. Your cousin has to decide. When I first held hands with a girl, I hadn't decided, yet. It was just dumb luck at some drunken New Years party. I'm twenty-six now and it's hard for me to conceive where I was for twenty-three years of my life. Two pieces of advise I would give your cousin and myself, back then: (1) be …	/r/seduction	13/10/15 02:20 PM
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