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STRATEGYvirgoran/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 03:55 AM
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I used to HATE walking into my home and hearing the wonderful tones of guns and violence blaring through my home as he played video games. Now I come home to fresh flowers and calming tunes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:51 AM
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Lmaooo I remember in my pre-fds days asking a guy to use emojis occasionally. I was so weak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:20 AM
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Love bombs can be grand actions too, not just buying gifts!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:26 PM
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He would have had to learn cursive for that! What a HVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:00 AM
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First date with a male last night. He was so shit on conversation... didn't ask me any questions about myself. I had to perform all the heavy lifting and ask question after question. He then called me intense. Ok, have a good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:43 AM
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What was that baby? You have five platinum trophies on the playstation? Take me back to your home, with unwashed dirty navy sheets immediately !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:24 AM
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Did you also date my ex? A perfect description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:23 AM
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Asked a guy why he didn’t answer questions I asked him about work and he went straight into “I guess I’m not good enough for you”. You’re right. I love when the trash takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:46 AM
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Probably. Buzzing for the call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:02 AM
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Told him to remove it, then blocked and deleted. If he couldn't figure out why I was upset, that's on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:35 AM
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Holy. Fuck. Girls. Have I dodged the largest bullet of my life? I have been on three dates, THREE, with some guy that was masking as HV. HE just sent me a text telling me he applied for some government job, and listed me as his partner. What the actual fuck? I'm fuming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:08 AM
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What's the FDS stance on men who pay for boosts/premium on dating apps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:29 AM
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Since I've put in my online dating profiles "No Hookups/FWB" my matches have gone down exponentially. However, the quality of matches I'm getting is steadily improving. Still a tonne of vetting and most suck, but at least time wasters are slowly removing themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:31 PM
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Being hugged by the right person is going to feel so much better than any low value man hug. Keep your head up. You've got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:44 AM
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"However teenage boys don't care how weird you are if they think there's a chance they could have sex with you" This oddly validates a lot of my teenage years experiences. Not on the spectrum here, but those words still ring true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:18 AM
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Yes. I developed Chronic Migraines. 20+ a month. The day I left I didn't have a migraine for a whole week. Pure bliss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:58 AM
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I love being banned from twox. I've found it a not very woman friendly sub at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:47 AM
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Is there a copy of the fds handbook without the pink background floating around? I’m a hard copy reader for life and would love a copy with a white background so that I could print!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:07 AM
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My NV ex literally would make me walk on the dirt next to the pavement because I was not good enough to walk on the pavement. How my pea sized pickmeisha brain did not realise this warning sign is still beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:20 AM
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How do I help him see we have other options? You don't. Different needs/wants. Just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:57 PM
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Went on a terrible date today. He lied about his height, so I was already turned off. He wore terrible cologne. I was quite uncomfortable. Then, when he goes to cheers with me he says "If you don't make eyecontact when you cheers, the sex will be bad!". I left. Pre FDS me would not have left at that comment. I'm going back to no men for 2021.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:58 AM
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I ended up scrolling through this entire womans Tik Tok and oh my god. It's eye opening. Amazing. Real FDS shit. I recommend the rest of you do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:35 PM
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Oh hun, at least you didn’t get invited out for dinner, the restaurant he chose and made you drive for was shut, so he took you to kfc instead. I was the biggest 🤡 in my early 20s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:31 AM
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The amount of times this happens is insane! I always ask now before meeting up with an online date, and if they happen to be the same height as me I assume they're shorter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:13 AM
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That’s such a fascinating yet heartbreaking sub. I texted the man yesterday and said no to a date. Sounds like I dodged a whole ass bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:49 AM
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You're so right. I think I was getting confused between my compassion and what's right for me. There's too many risks here for minimal reward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:05 AM
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Thank you, I needed this. I don't have any expirence with any addicts, so this was a really insightful read. I knew my warning bells were going off, but I couldn't figure out why. He does display HV characteristics, but you're also so right with everything you have said. I do feel compassion for him, maybe I was getting confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:04 AM
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What do we think of men with baggage? A guy recently re-reached out. He used to be a drug addict. Clean now. But I'm still awfully weary. Yay/nay to baggage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:45 PM
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One of my longest male friends complains to me regularly that he is single and can't find anyone. One glance at any of his social media profiles and it is painfully obvious why he is chronically single. He follows 1000+ partially clothed women on social media. He's good to have a conversation with, but it makes me laugh he can't figure out why he's single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:44 AM
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I am so proud of my FDS growth. I am identifying red flags so much quicker and actually sticking to my boundaries! Met a guy 2 weeks ago on OLD, seemed quite HV at first but he is far too flippant. He’s 33 and not ready to settle down. Pre FDS me would think I could change him, but I know he’s not going too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:45 AM
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I'm stealing this one. Genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:56 PM
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Cut it off with a LVM last week. He seemed so super HV at first. When he was at mine I didn't have to do anything for myself. Nothing. He made me cups of teas and brought me blankets. But. Then he changed- literally overnight. He couldn't keep up his HV facade. I was missing him last night, but I seem to have pushed through those feelings today. Going to stay single for the rest of 2020 and work on being strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:52 AM
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Girl. Same. Alway around my period. I know I'm strong enough to live my life alone. But damn, those staged photos hit hard sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:45 AM
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The funny thing is that I used to cook for his sorry ass, because I really didn't think boiled chicken/mustard was providing any form of health benefit. He got shitty at me, saying I was trying to control his life, blah blah. Man babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:04 PM
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I broke it off with a LVM this weekend when I also thought he was HV material. It's the worst feeling of all time. I feel like an idiot too. But man, I am looking forward to being single too. We can do this girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:20 AM
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A guy I spoke to nearly 4 years ago recently reached out again. I was happy, he was a nice guy but ended because he couldn't commit. 5 days into chatting he asked for nudes. 4 years ago me would have laughed it off, current FDS me knows that it's time to let him go again (and not let him back). This sub has changed my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:31 AM
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Look, it's my NV-ex whenever I asked him to stop playing video games and help with a single chore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:04 AM
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My ex is a Leo. Biggest ego of all time. Thought I should do everything for him so he could play video games in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:22 AM
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Didn’t notice a LVM until a little later, but I’m learning to identify them quicker which I’m proud of. Anyway, this LVM were on about date 4? And he’s telling me all about his home renovations. I decided to go check them out. There’s no plaster on the walls... holes in the floor. I ask how long it’s been since he’s had walls or a floor without holes. 8 months. Boy bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:09 AM
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A week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:05 AM
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My LVM ex had a pair of the ugliest expensive shoes. They were gym shoes, made from cork and apparently "really good for lifting". He said he'd sell them for profit as they're collectables. The brand doesn't even exist anymore. So I'm sure they're worth so much money if the brand didn't even last a year. Also 31 y.o and diet only contained boiled chicken and mustard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:43 AM
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I have been reading the FDS guide all week and it is just so good. It's positive, uplifting and has really made me think of myself as the centre rather than sacrificing myself for a LVM. I am so excited I have found this community <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:47 PM
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