viriXXus Archive

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7	Feeling very depressed and hopeless....Needing to hear some happy stories I'm pretty sure those of us here are slightly biased towards thinking this way though. I think that a girl doing "basic bitch" things while travelling is a bad sign (typical stuff like going to very popular slutcation destinations, staying at some luxury hotel/resort, taking a million selfies, going with just her girl friends, going for some vague reason like to find herself). But i also think it's possible for travelling to at the very least not be a bad thing if the girl has a particular inter…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/15 02:01 PM
2	Ladies, I'm pushing my amazing man away and I don't know what to do! I told him I thought it was sweet of him but turned down his offer and told him we think she needs professional help. He argued that he did care and that he did try to help (mainly by offering to talk to her, I think he might have been a bit offended that I turned his offer down) Actually, I'm pretty sure that his thoughts were that you didn't want him to be too involved with the situation. Thus, he probably didn't want to bring it up again, since the first time he tried to get involved you said…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/15 09:04 PM
2	My SO and I both exclaim, "She's so hot!" Why? I agree, I usually look for little things to steal from their style to improve myself! (Hair, fashion style, makeup, etc) Another thing i notice is, in a way I'm also thinking about what sort of women to look out for irl, in an instinctive sort of mate-guarding kind of way. I don't act on those thoughts in any bad/paranoid ways but i recognize that they're definitely there.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/15 03:05 PM
2	Ladies, how would you deal with your man's lack of passion? Based on your comment about how he actually pushed for the house, it really sounds like he's just totally unaware of finances or something. Like a fat guy who doesn't think he's overweight. I mean, i can understand it if he just stagnated at his job for a long time (suggests laziness/not caring) but telling you he wants to be a SAHD (instead of making more money, cutting it down even further??) sounds like he has no clue about finances or something... You asked him for good reasons why you would…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/15 11:37 PM
1	How to deal with intense and irrational jealousy? My guess: It sounds like you might not have the greatest self esteem if you are afraid he'll find someone better. The solution here is not to artificially inflate your self worth (like BPers would tell you to do -- "just love yourself the way you are BS") but to actually work on yourself. When you improve yourself and your life there's a certain confidence that follows, and it'll help negate this. I think this usually happens when a woman believes her man is high value (which is great!) but then…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/15 11:09 PM
2	Vetting potential LTRs Being more aware/observant is enough. I feel like manufactured shit tests usually mean nothing, because you're creating a problem and seeing how he reacts, but it's a created problem so usually it's kind of bullshit or doesn't indicate much. What you actually need is to experience your guy handle real problems, which can only happen naturally and over time as life throws crap at the two of you. So outside of blatant red flag behavior, you'll only really get to know your man over time. Unfortunat…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/15 07:13 PM
1	Required college class wants me to learn about non-red pill values and I'm stuck! Lol, it would be so great if you could just write a RP paper then feed it into an opposite-machine and turn it in... Anyway, it's just kind of like how RP men sometimes have to shield their ideas. It's not smart to hurt yourself trying to convince others. Don't throw your pearls before swine. :) Plus, the best way to prove that RP works is by example. Actions/results are much more powerful than words. You wouldn't be able to defeat their feels and hamsters anyway :P	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/15 10:19 PM
1	Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex? I think that's a good plan! Best of luck to you c:	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/15 03:34 AM
1	Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex? Tempest is so spot on. The situation felt weird - mixed feelings of "this is dangerous" and "but i don't think anything would happen" but it was hard to pinpoint why. That explanation makes everything make sense! The only thing you'd have to do OP is make sure he really, really understands that he shouldn't meet up with her (without you) because it would upset you. Even if she happens to be reaaally nearby and just reaaally wants to talk to him/get closure/etc. I don't doubt that he'd reject her…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/15 05:25 PM
2	What to do when your guy doesn't like to text, yet you thrive on it? You're welcome :) I think you'll get used to it! I think focusing on savoring the times you are together more will help. It's like going from eating a lot of cheap chocolate to learning how to indulge in one piece of expensive high quality chocolate! Good luck :)	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/15 08:42 PM
1	What to do when your guy doesn't like to text, yet you thrive on it? I think that although you wish to be more connected to him through these things, him actually doing it won't be so attractive. I don't think it'll make you as happy as you think it would. You say part of why you like him is he's different from guys your age. I also think you'll lose some respect for him if he changes for you. Also, learn to appreciate that you can miss him. I'm currently in an LDR so maybe my perspective is way different, but missing someone is a powerful thing. After two months…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/15 07:59 PM
1	Not sure what I'm doing If you haven't been able to gauge his commitment, he's not shown he's committed. You can stick around longer to solidly determine what you are to him to make sure, if you know you won't give yourself away, you don't mind the potential "wasted time," and you can handle potential hurting emotions (not sure exactly how strongly you feel for him). Otherwise it may be wise to try not get too involved emotionally unless he shows more interest commitment-wise. If you don't mind me interjecting my opini…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/15 06:54 PM
1	Help! Families meeting: RP vs. BP I think you are upset with your mom because you feel that because you're related to her, your boyfriend's parents may think you are like her. However, with the way you have written this post, I'm going to guess you're not like her at all :P Your boyfriend's parents seem like understanding people, they'll know that you and your mom are very different people from how you act. I would keep that in mind and try not to worry too much about things. If you're going to confront anyone about this, don't …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/15 06:56 PM
2	Not sure what I'm doing Commitment isn't as much of someone's word as it is their actions. So when he says he's committed, you may trust that as long as he's been showing it through his actions and it's been consistent, etc. If you feel like there's not enough evidence, then he hasn't shown that he's committed to you. It all boils down to who you think he is as a person and whether you think his actions have shown enough commitment for you. In situations like these, being too trusting or being too untrusting are both b…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/15 06:19 PM
4	living with boyfriend abroad for a semester -- too much on my plate? I agree, though i think "I wish i wasn't so tired everyday" might not be clear enough (he won't get the hint) or at worst possibly come off as passive aggressive. It's better just to present the problem clearly "I'm starting to feel overwhelmed by school and housework, what do you think i should do?" (Or maybe someone can chime in with more elegant wording). Definitely without expectation or blame like you said.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/15 05:55 AM
10	living with boyfriend abroad for a semester -- too much on my plate? The problem isn't that you're tired if you would be happy with the arrangements if he paid more rent. You're just unhappy because you feel things are uneven right now. You volunteered to do the housework and now you want to go back and say "but wait it's not fair!" I think without knowing it you've created a covert contact in your head. Instead of "I'm doing this because i want to" it's "I'm doing this and it's counting towards my internal relationship contribution tallies." A possible reason wh…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/15 08:10 PM
9	Ladies, what is your personality type? INTP. I think RPW especially appeals to xNTx types because it's a framework to examine one's relationship with. NT types tend to kind of suck at the navigating-personal-relationships thing and we also like theories, so RPW is those two likes put together. Also, we've probably felt as though we've been misled by society with its gross, relationship damaging advice (girl, YOU be happy! Do whatever the hell you want!!). I think most of us have been damaged by it before, and then once we stumbled up…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/15 11:25 PM
2	Is it possible to balance TRP with sexual submissiveness/masochism? As i understand it, D/S is just power play where one person gives the other more power. It's deliberate; you are handing the other person more power temporarily. IF you're only talking about D/S during sex (and no lifestyle/out of bedroom stuff) I think it can still work (though of course it's still hard to pull off). You have to make it clear that the power exchange is deliberate by you and definitely temporary. You would have to make sure she never believes that the power you're giving her is …	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/15 05:11 AM