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1 or 2 are great arguments to continue just fucking around. As for 4 whos to say guys like me want to bear children? We could, doesnt mean we want to. How the heck am I supposed continue fucking women if I get a child lol. Men in LTRs dont have to put in more work? Theyve gotta provide, placate and keep their woman happy to get sex lol. I just have to woo the woman for around an hour and Ive got her in bed. And Im usually good enough to get repeats. Low effort, high reward. The only argument is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:57 AM
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Im single too, precisely because I personally get success with women. Im no chad too, but I guess some of the men here may consider me as one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:51 AM
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What harm? I dont see none coming my way lolol. Love and relationships are a hasssslle. Ive seend BFs do more than what I get for less. And the stories Ive heard from women Ive been with def steered me clear from the committment route. Also, women do get behind me. When they give me a reach around lolol. Crass, but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:27 AM
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Many are great at the game though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:21 AM
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Cus they are. Not saying the dads arent cool though lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:19 AM
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Not RPed but I wouldnt rank a married man like that high too. Married men can get lucky with 1 or 2 women. Getting multiple women consistently for years is someone Id put at the top of the list. It shows skill and desirability on a diff level IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:18 AM
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All it means is youve mastered one woman. Its an entirely different beast to master the game, meaning multiple types of women. IMO the game is just that more satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:15 AM
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I wouldnt want women to like me for my personality lolol. But then again, Im not into dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:13 AM
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Grind it out. Its worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:39 PM
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I mean you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:38 PM
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A lot. Its fucking great lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:37 PM
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Because guys like that are privileged. They can do shitty things and women will still flock to them. Mid and ugly guys cant afford to do that, so they should act accordingly. Getting rich seems to be the most viable way. Money makes women do things they normally wouldnt do after all. Just gotta accept they want your money, so use them for all theyre worth. Or seethe and rage I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:49 PM
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True. Men may not be privileged early, but they stay privileged for longer if we were agree about the wall and men age like fine wine trope. But the real privileged are the dudes who had it easy eber since the beginning lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:41 PM
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This comment is purely on your statement about not needing men, but I saw your comment about profiting off dudes as a camgirl? Aint that a bit contradictory? Lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:36 PM
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Eh, sickness to the point of needing someone else to handle your bills is kinds rare and an edge case scenario tbh. Children? Pass. Pooling money? Thats why individuals should strive to have more than enough so you dont need to do that stuff lol. Planning finances and retirement doesnt even sound appealing. And how was I strawmanning? You def can get most of those from your social circle. Money handles the rarer scenarios. Ive been with 1 GF, and I cant say it felt better to be with her than not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:21 AM
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Well, there you have it. Thats where the expectations come from. Yall uphold it too, until it doesnt fit some narrative youve got.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:49 PM
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These dudes get ton of sex. Id see why dudes look up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:46 PM
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True. Not refuting what I said is enough though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:45 PM
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Not in dating specifically, but just in general. Women love the optics of being seen as the more "mature" and "moral" gender from what Ive observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:39 PM
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Yall are the ones acting like that lol. Women love the being seen as moral and fair, even when yall are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:27 PM
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Sex may not be all that matters, but its up there lol. You can get all those supposed "benefits" platonically from your social circle. Sex included. Too much of a headache to have a GF just to feel the tingles. Different women could solve all that without ever having to experience the mood swings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:24 PM
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Hey, I 100% see where youre coming from. Doesnt that kinda mean bad behavior gets rampant though, if enough women saw it the way you do? Just for the sake of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:48 AM
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Being mid sure does suck a lot. Feel for my dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:25 AM
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I agree to an extent but youve still got to listen a bit if you wanna get what you want from them, whatever that is. My favorite thing to listen to from women though is when theyre having a great time in bed lol. Only time when Im all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:17 AM
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Just seems to me you can be an asshole if youre able to override that with other desirable qualities. Nice and asshole are in fact neutral qualities, as the other user said. I know, Im kinda, sometimes just, an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:22 PM
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You dont care? You agreed your own relatives hold these feelings and youre indifferent to it? Interesting. Youd think with how women fight against mysoginy, every one of you would have some semblance of concern. But I guess not a monolith lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:17 PM
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Depends on what you consider quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:09 PM
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And thats why men will never change their ways when being mysoginistic still gets them laid. At least, men like me. What most women say is basically lip service lol. Ive been toxic af and women still want me. Hell yeah if bad behavior is rewarded why should we change. Lots of times theres even no need for veiled "sensitivities". Looks trumps all, in general. Happy to be blessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:01 PM
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No cap. So as dude above said, how? I mean, I know how but Id like to add to my repertoire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:48 AM
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Its been a long standing agreement that what men and women consider a compliment is vastly different from each other. Personally, if a woman invites me to her bed or her to mine, thats a damn high compliment. Im sure most of my fellow dudes would feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:45 AM
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The hypothetical woman aint no ones wife tho. But I aint also sayin no man leaves their sick wife. Well, you better start praying real hard lolol. More men are just minding their own business nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:24 PM
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And she isnt entitled to anything that would be beneficial to her, just because she would be willing to do something benevolent. Dafuq. Yall really saying they should do this because I'll do that. Basic? Who says. Minding your own business is whats up in the big 2020s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:29 PM
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Ahh but we as a society love and are capable of ignoring and outright change those widely accepted beliefs, are we not? And suddenly were supposed to uphold those because it fits the narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:58 PM
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I would want to be helped, but Im not gonna think hes an asshole for not wanting to help me if he didnt want to. Were both in the same predicament after all. Were as equal as can be on this hypothetical island. Also, Im quite capable of helping myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:57 PM
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Something basic? Nah, no one is owed help. Helping is not a requirement. Maybe she shoulda just kept on doing her own thing, like the dude did. Theyre both in the same predicament anyway. No reason why she cant survive on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:54 PM
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Whose morals we talking bout. Stop moralizing, moral police.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:03 PM
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It says shes experiencing muscle pains after being left to fend for herself. Thats why she eventually did what she did. Its in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:35 PM
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Then start stockpiling food and water herself?? Its an island. The scenario didnt say she was being actively prevented from getting her needs. She sounds weak af tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:30 PM
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Good for him indeed. She could too, if she endured the muscle pains.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:29 PM
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I agree. Asshole dude shoulda just ignored her attempts at echanging sex for help. Theyre both in the same predicament anyway. Equality achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:28 PM
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Cedric seems fine survivng alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:12 PM
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Then she could stop. Shes got a choice how she wants to live or go out. Shes not entitled to anything. Theyre both in the same state, stranded on an island. If dude can survive w/o her, why cant she? Nah. She made that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:43 AM
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Thats entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:30 AM
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She has the choice not to do it though. It would just be harder. She wasnt threatened with force, nor is she gonna die instantly if she didnt bite the bullet. She just wanted to survive in an easier manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:27 AM
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Doesnt make her better than him. Only different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:25 AM
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I mean, I sometimes step into asshole-ish territory. Still works though lol. I dont really care about the woman, only enough that I get them in bed. Its gotta be mostly amicable with a dash of an edge that reels them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:48 PM
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Nice and good are adjectives for when the dude is as bland and average as can be. Nothing about it is a compliment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:44 PM
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As a guy wanting all dudes to have some sort of success, sadly this is true. Ive had friends try to mimic what I do but to no avail. It is what it is though. Lotsa guys really, really need to lean in on their strengths hard to have a chance, and even then it might not be enough. Lucky to be blessed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:55 PM
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Publicly anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:17 AM
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Women especially like that reasoning once theyre done fucking around too lolol. Its always crap, but they still did it. No complaints from me though. Dont really care to give one. Easy women are a revolving door. The ones who go will always be replaced by another. Often younger and less jaded too which is nice. Men dont have to lift a finger lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:49 AM
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I love sexually liberated women. Great to have experienced them though before they closed that chapter forever. Feel bad for the dudes after though when the women finish "testing" that life phase. Being a BF overall kinda sucks if you end up with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:02 PM
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And even with all of that, my pool of women aint running dry for any amount of time in the forseeable future. Seems like women would still touch fire even after seeing multiple women get burnt. But hey, that works in my favor lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:57 PM
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Well, my hypothetical GF isnt the only person who can find sex and lust easily lol. If she cant give it, shes on her way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:09 AM
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If yall cant believe a person cant look good and fit at any age, then yall just lack discipline. Ive seen 50 year olds still moving like water in the gym cus they trained right since they were young. It aint impossible yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:59 AM
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That shut her up quick lolol. Get dem gainz. Being fit is for all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:56 AM
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If I ever were, physical is. I want my woman to show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:54 AM
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They should, I agree. Committing to a single woman is overrated anyways when theres so many to get with IMO. But I think red pill men hide behind their ideology to cover up whatever shortcomings they have, perceived or otherwise. Which is understandable. Who wants to acknowledge they arent attractive to women yknow? I thank my lucky stars everyday I dont have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:29 PM
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The difference is casual is better by far than being in a relationship. Personally at least lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:10 PM
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Eeehhh. Okay doesnt mean they look good. Okay is literally a neutral descriptor at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:45 PM
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Were talking about getting laid though, and money + good looks gets women to your bed most times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:29 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:19 PM
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I dont do relationships, but if I did one thing would be that she want me sexually. That could be in the form of initiating a lot and being active during sex. I already get these from my casuals so my hypothetical partner would have to step up sexually lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:50 AM
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As I said. Doesnt have to be model level looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:52 AM
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Sure, but nothing beats natural born good looks. You cant groom and gymaxxx an average and below face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:30 PM
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Look good. Doesnt have to be model level looks. Thats always gotten me women. In fact, this should arguably be #1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:32 PM
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Lotsa minors deserve to be tried as adults. Their asses knew what they were doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:15 AM
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Hell yeah. Though I prefer hooking up cause I like the taste of a new woman better. FWBs kinda nice at times though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:58 AM
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Then she shoulda listened to the multitudes of women on the net that discourages sleeping around. But here we are, now either put out or Imma just find someone who had some common sense to look up what shes getting into to before she went for it to begin with. If you wanna ba promiscuous, then commit to it bruh. Thats what I do anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:43 AM
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If I were a dating kinda guy, Im not about to waste my time on a woman who was loose for other dudes but wont put out for me on some dumb standards shit. If she made every dude wait, daz cool though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:57 PM
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Means to certain type of women, and theres a lot of them, those phrases mean nothing. The man who gets her isnt getting anything worth a lot, IMO. But hey, if they wanna be that guy theyre free to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:46 PM
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Not into lovey dovey relationship shit, but the phrase "you got her" is one of the lamest phrases Ive ever heard. That doesnt apply to a lot of women and I know cus Im around these women a loooot. Feel bad for my non-hoe bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:29 PM
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So, were they being disingenuous or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:52 PM
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So, women were being disingenuous to make a point? Isnt that misleading? I doubt most women actually meant to make it rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:45 PM
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I mean, dont get me wrong I think its a stupid choice in general picking the bear. People generally have never been mauled at any point in their life so they have no reference point anywhere near that experience. But its human nature to pick whats relatable to them. Stupid, but understandable. Id actually like to see that hypothetical scenario pan out though. People often make choices they thought they wouldnt make when its actually time to bite the bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:32 PM
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Im not as smart as either of you going back and forth in this comment thread tryna deconstruct stuff, but I think dudes shoulda just been indifferent to the man v bear thing. Too many dudes got too emotional over that shit. If women wanted to take their chances with a bear, then I say theyre welcome to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:25 PM
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Hell yeah. Had to do a lot of improving in general before I could fuck women to my hearts content. Wasnt easy, but it was well worth the reward. Women are fantastic. Sadly for my fellow dudes, effort wont always be rewarded by women putting out constantly. It is what it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:08 PM
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Honestly, this is all just one big headache. Thank god Ive never been into relationships and romantic love, just my love for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:54 PM
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Ahh this BS again with so called high quality men and waiting. If this is what women think of high quality men and make them do, then Im so fucking glad lotsa women see me as low quality. Makes me so sad to see these high quality men wait after Ive been with their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:28 AM
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This is me, minus the using a relationship to get sex part. Sucks that lots of men cant get just sex, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:13 AM
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This is why I just fuck women. Such a damn hassle with all these scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:11 AM
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I did say I called them that when it comes up in a conversation. Be it with them, other women or men. I dont call them that willy nilly or out of the blue lol. Cmon now. I dont really care. Sexist is just a label. Its not a crime. I still get what I want at the end of the day, which is being in bed with a woman, or women if Im lucky lolpl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:58 PM
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Of course youve never heard. It goes against your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:22 AM
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True. Desire comes with too many conditions and caveats in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:52 AM
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Sociopath because I call or associate people with a term that applies to them? Woah didnt know the moral police are armchair psychs now too. And also, I didnt say I told that to their face. I just think that subconsciously, and refer to them as such when it arises in the convo. Im around these women all the time cus I fuck them, and I rarely call them that verbally. I think it though. Like me? Respect me? Idk but they fuck me though. Thats good enough for me. That I understand lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:08 AM
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Yeah. I dunno what youre expecting me to say lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:43 AM
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Honestly dont really care about solving any of this. I just love the animosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:28 AM
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Why? If ran through applies to the woman, then shes ran through. Its simple af.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:27 AM
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We humans have talked shit about each other since the dawn of time. Who the hell cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:27 AM
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Women loooove throwing the word insecure around. Theyve got a deep bag of words hoping itll stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:24 AM
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Sounds dumb and yet women get all up in their panties tryna tell men to stop cus its insulting and derogatory. Yeah sure, whatever helps you sleep at night lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:24 AM
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Nah. Im ran through, the women Ive been with are ran through. Personally, not a fan of being in a relationship. But if dudes dont wanna be wife up the women Ive been with because they consider them ran throufh, then more power to them. More for me too lolol. Dont think ran through is going away any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:20 AM
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Fucking true. And it irks me everytime women, and some men, say bars arent a place where people go to hook up. Like, okay because bars are where I usually get my lays.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:16 AM
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Entertaining af watching the regulars go at it lolol. The gender war is lit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:09 AM
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Ahh, projection. Another of yalls favorite. Pulling out the bag I see lololol. Hey, Im willing to concede the sell your soul schtick. Dont think its necessarily insecurity though. It could most likely stem from an extreme desire of it, even if they already have it in the first place. Greed, want, obsession. It could very well be any of those things and no ounce of insecurity whatsoever. And my example of sports still stands, since you dont have a rebut for it. Continue throwing words around, exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:57 AM
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Youre making this into a whole person then when were just talking bout sexual validation and desire. Like my analogy with being a coward. Just because you have one aspect of you thats something doesnt define you. Also, so what. People use money and achievements to validate themselves all the time. By that logic, theyre all insecure. Basketball's GOAT is an insecure athlete who couldnt live without being the best. And like I said, yall throw that word around like the how the loose women I get wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:11 PM
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Well, I agree with you on this one. Once a manslut, always a manslut. Thank my lucky stars I know who I am. Dont have to deal with OPs dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:07 PM
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Sexually and physically desirable then. Thats probably the kind of desirability OP wants. And honestly, that pretty much takes the cake in what I want from a woman. Nothing beats the satisfaction of bedding a woman hours after meeting them, personally speaking. Even better when its the type of women who make potential partners wait lolol. Kinda sick but eh. Im not the suckers that are falling for them anyways. And yeah, women like you arent the target market. I at least understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:48 PM
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And those men who end up with those women are suckers IMO. If I ever get in a relationship with a woman like that, Id be gone if I get a whiff of that shit. Thankfully, never been interested in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:42 PM
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Mens sexual validation is only gotten from women. And if they want it so bad theyre willing to do whatever it takes then it could very well be a want bordering on obsession, not necessarily insecurity. They want it, not need it necessarily. Kobe Bryant and MJ were extreme winners, even when they won. Were they insecure because they were assholes in their work ethic to the point of obsession when it came to their desire to win? Yall throw that word around hoping itll one day stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:22 PM
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Women reaaally love to throw the word insecurity around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:54 PM
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Personally dont want any of my lays long term. I just want a hot night with them, and repeat those nights if Im lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:57 AM
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Whats depressing bout that? Nothing more satisfying than some random woman, hot or bordering on not, wanting me enough to sleep with me within a day of meeting me. And I live it too. Feels fucking great.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:20 AM
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Honestly thought I'd get opposite of the replies Ive received thus far. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:39 AM
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Eyy I agree with everything you said. Past is definitely important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:08 PM
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Not really concerned about the nitty gritty, just the principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:00 PM
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So... you agree that sexual history should be disclosed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:44 PM
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Hell yeaaah. Especially if you can get casual sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:21 PM
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So you agree that people should disclose their sexual history with a potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:09 PM
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The only karma thats real is the one found on our account page lolol. Ive seen people do shit to others and not a lick of karma. Heck, I do too, and karma isnt really hitting a decent batting average against me. Aint saying consequences aint real, just that I dont believe its necessarily a "youll get whats coming to you" type of deal. Hey, I dont too. But again, a drop in an ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:19 PM
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Consequences arent a guaranteed thing anyways. If you can be a POS excuse for a human and live a good life, being promiscuous is but a drop in an ocean. Karma isnt real lololol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:08 PM
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Eeyy same here. Im mostly in the sub to watch the gender wars. It makes for an entertaining read lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:39 AM
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I mean, there could be those who can be relationship material but choose to just be exclusively into hookups. Maybe. And yeah, guys should accept what they want but avoid going into tantrums when they cant get it. Its irritating but reality is, people dont always get what they want. Just gotta accept facts. I dunno about there being no unreasonable criticism, but I do agree there are a lot. Granted, modern women also got some of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:48 AM
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Hell yeah. I think more men should be honest in what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:49 PM
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Who knows. All I know is that I keep getting play, and thats gotta mean something good at least lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:41 PM
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Aint nothing better tbh. Guys should embrace their desire, not run or cover it up. Least amount of effort, maximum returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:10 PM
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Its an honor to be chosen by a woman when theyre horny. Tbh I think thats what men like me are after. Sexual validation from women when theyre horny enough to get it with a stranger of relative familiarity. You hit the minimum threshold of the least amount of standards and boom, you get to fuck and shes willing to be physically vulnerable while alone with just you. None of this "emotionally safe" mumbo jumbo lolol. Dare I say, theres nothing better sexually than being able to be the one women lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:06 PM
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Idk bout those dudes but I like getting women in bed no string attached lolol. Minimum investment, maximum returns. No shame to men who wanna be, but being a husband sounds like a chore. Too many women in this world to settle down with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:00 PM
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I just wanna see some fucking gender wars in the comments. Makes for an entertaining read lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:05 PM
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Idk about rarely. Uncommon? Sure, maybe. Theyre still a lot who are though, even when theyre the minority if we take your word for it. And dating isnt really purely logical, so it still fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:03 PM
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Money makes women put on rose colored glasses fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:33 PM
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If everybody waited, cool. If some got it quick, just gotta change the woman to somebody more consistent. Id think thats most mens bottom line mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:29 PM
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Speak for yourself. Multiple fleshlights beat 1 fleshlight for a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:16 AM
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As a man, I agree. Too many beautiful women in the world to experience that being with just one is unthinkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:01 AM
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And they still keep regurgitating that bf/husband material get it better. Copium at its most potent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:43 PM
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I wouldnt have apologized and I wouldnt be asking for a second date. Dude hopefully has gotten some self respect by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:33 PM
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Not me. I would hope other guys would say the same. Dont be a beggar. Dont settle for less than what you want just cause something worse is handed on a platter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:36 AM
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Yeah, its simps and men like these that empower and enable promiscuous women. Its sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:41 AM
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I wouldnt ask for body count. Id ask for how many exes shes had and if she engages in casual sex. If she does then its an auto pass, and if not the number of exes gives you a ball park number of her body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:39 AM
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Doesnt devalue as a person, but as a partner IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:31 AM
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Dude hates the place hes currently at but stays cus women, naive or desperate, have sex with him. A slave to his desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:54 AM
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F no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:48 PM
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Thats great. I still dont wanna be second to any guy sexually. Im willing to not be the best in other areas, but sexually isnt one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:46 PM
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Bet she'll get plowed there too, but she doesnt do it on first dates lol. Hopefully you'll get a woman who'll meet your wants and needs and wont give you that same BS she gave you bro. Theyre rare though so theres that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:24 PM
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Nah king youre just relationship material thats why shes abstaining. Be grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:14 PM
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True. Just dont make it seem like you can detect that shit. Women wouldnt be having this problem about toxic mrn if men werent overestimating their capability to detect that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:35 AM
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Who said ignore? I said the radar mumbo jumbo is debunked so maybe stop using that in any argument? Dont perpetuate that women have some sort of precognitive ability to detect toxic traits when yall dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:14 AM
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Hey, I definitely see your point there. So I think women should stop perpetuating this "toxic radar" shit cus it aint sporting a decent detection percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:12 PM
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And yall are severely overstimating your ability to detect these toxic men. Its always "bad men are good at hiding toxic traits" when yall get duped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:29 PM
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Eh, it depends I guess. Not gonna say it doesnt matter. Just doesnt seem to be an asbolute loving emotions >> sexual chemistry win everytime. Otherwise lotsa, dare I say most, women wouldnt have some douchebag as their best lay. Yes. I know. They still share roughly the same platform though. And other dude didnt have the BF stats buff in the form of "loving emotions". If I would hazard a guess, dude was just that dude in the sack. That gives OPs post credence. Now imagine if he was relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:30 PM
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Just means that just by being great at sex can get you women, or at the very least you can get them in bed if you cant in a relationship. Women also grt curious about a mans sexual proficiency enough to try despite red flags. You dont see that sentiment on the inverse. Plus, you get to potentially even be on same sexual level as their current partner, despite not being relationship material. And women do love to hype up "emotions making it better" when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:34 PM
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Eh. Dude still hit. Undesirable relationship, sometimes even just personal, traits notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:20 PM
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For every 1 of you theres probably like 10 who arent lolol. Fact is, my side is just as real and just as many as what you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:53 AM
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Eh, still blew her mind. You may not remember it consciously, but when the topic or thought comes up best believe that dude comes crawling from the back of womens minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:15 AM
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True, nothings wrong with that. Plus lots of men would rather they have blown a womans mind sexually and be hookup material than be in a relationship where the woman describes her sex life with him as "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:29 AM
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Odds arent even bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:26 AM
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Yup. Plus you cant really take away from the man that he blew a womans mind, even if he wasnt relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:25 AM
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That aint always the case though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:44 PM
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Still had sex with the bad match. I think thats one of OPs points. It doesnt matter if a relationship happens, you still got a woman in bed even if youre not relationship material. Moreso that he blew your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:41 PM
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Maybe because its validating to the sexual/physical aspects of men. It doesnt really require all those other things in a relationship to qualify the sex. And men wanna be validated purely in these areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:40 PM
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I guess because sexual attraction comes from the lizard aspect of the brain, making it very raw and primal. It is often not conscious, and overrides human logical thinking. And men, in a lot of things, want to be desired like that at their core. It may not be THE ONLY thing and other aspects are needed to maintain a relationship, but it is veerrryy high up there for men compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:42 PM
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Its the tend to prefer larger that gets most men lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:35 AM
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Well, I certainly cant talk with my women friends on this topic IRL lol. Thats why Im here on Reddit. I dont doubt your experiences, just that posts from women I read that do experience this seem to always be with dicks "bigger than what Im usually with". Idk thats just what I read. And I know that my D isnt my entire worth, but my worth as a sexual partner does a good bit. And I agree, women dont orgasm from PIV. But PIV is still pleasurable for many and it seems that bigger does get the job do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:09 PM
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Maybe big, but bigger than average aint. I dont really think good technique is that rare, but maybe Im wrong. Still, the anxiety that there are some guys out there that will leave a sexual impact on a woman so great that youll never come close because of a physical limitation sucks. Sure, I agree with your Syndey Sweeney comparison. But the thing is a lot of times the sheer pleasure some of the gifted guys give overcomes a lot of those facial shortcomings. Even red flags become invisible beneath…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:41 PM
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Its incredible, but a big D with technique blows average and below out of the water. Nothing wrong with admitting that. It sucks for men who arent blessed, but thats reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:15 PM
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So why do you think a coffee shop would make their young and attractive female employees wear bikinis if theyre just a normal coffee shop? What exactly does them wearing a bikini add? Whats the appeal of the bikinis compared to regular work clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:38 AM
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Thats why people who get cheated on shouldnt get mad if what constitutes as cheating was never explicitly communicated nor if cheating straight up wasnt allowed. No room for assumptions. Communication and laying out terms and conditions is paramount in relationships after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:47 PM
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Becaust most times dudes understand it as: Hookup/FWB material - no personality or deeper traits needed to get intimate sexually, implying physical attractiveness from the get go and stirring arousal in a woman near instantly. Husband material - wouldnt be intimate from the get go and needs a couple more things and get to know moments to get to that level since physical attractiveness may be lacking and husband traits could be seen platonically. Basically initmacy is achieved quicker by the hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:20 PM
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How would the average or below average dude even get the chance to be with someone they like when most of these cold approaches end in rejection. Its been parroted in the internet that women dont like strangers coming up to them and asking to go on a date, nor just wanting to be dated because of their looks. Most women seem to need to be acquainted with the average dude before they even consider them to be a potential romantic interest. Unless ofc youre gifted with natural good looks then women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:41 AM
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