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Do you even understand the methodology of this study? It is not comprehensive in any way, it exclusively looks at a single genetic marker (blood type). The fact that their estimate is 1.7%, and solely based on ABO blood group typing, heavily implies that the actual rates are MUCH higher (paternity tests can look at over 40 genetic markers). I've seen studies with higher rate, but they used sample of men who sought DNA tests. Right, and those studies included paternity tests that utilized extensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:33 AM
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I think just caring for children is enough to have this effect, because something similar happens to men. Their testosterone drops and their brains release more oxytocin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:11 AM
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What if you were just infertile, and it wasn't about him trying to exclude your genetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:59 AM
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Blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:20 PM
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You do realize that most states require an agreement of paternity or paternity tests to establish child support, right? Yes? This is the entire point. Do you think more or less men would sign VPAs if a paternity test was performed beforehand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:20 PM
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Every study on the subject has come to the conclusion that it is absolutely not rare. What do you even consider "rare"? 10% of fathers being lied to? 5%? 1%?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:40 AM
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Of course it would be noticeable, a significant number of men will now know they aren't the true father before paternity is established. Why would they sign the VPA?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:37 AM
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I bet you get more attention from dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:31 AM
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The state isn't interested because it'd result in more welfare-queen single mothers. The government would rather let some schmuck get completely screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:28 AM
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It's offensive. The mother of your children is obviously going to want you to trust her. You'd be better off arguing that it's offensive, but necessary. Similar to when a doctor sticks his finger up your ass to check for prostate cancer. In a perfect world, all of our buttholes would remain tight and unviolated; however, it's worth getting finger-blasted for peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:22 AM
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Making an assertion that is impossible to test is not science, it's pseudo-science. A hypothesis needs to be falsifiable when you make it. This is literally what "falsifiability" refers to. Are you just using words that you don't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:37 PM
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there is no conclusive evidence that there is a genetic component to why more boys are diagnosed with intellectual disabilities than women What? Of course there is. Men exhibit more genetic variability. I don't know what you're counting as an intellectual disability, Low IQ. not Dyslexia. If you don't think boys not performing as well in school isn't an issue I think forcing them to comply is an issue. I don't think more boys failing than girls is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:10 PM
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Are they not happy? Most women didn't give a shit about suffrage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:04 PM
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Yes, and the geocentric model was not falsifiable. They lacked the technology required to test it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:03 PM
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Ok? So gender roles originate from natural pressures?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:54 PM
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Why are you ignoring the significance of similar gender roles appearing in practically every human society to ever exist? Just try to use your brain, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:45 AM
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I don't even know what you're talking about. Literacy? The majority of people, something like 80%, are adequately literate in the USA. I'm not sure where you're from, but it's probably similar. That means the vast majority of people capable of being literate are literate. I imagine much of that 20% would be intellectually disabled or have low IQs that border on it... They couldn't be literate even if the school systems were specifically designed for them. So when you say boys are "falling behind…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:14 AM
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Every scientific field has made decisions influenced by the culture of its time, astronomy once placed Earth at the center of the universe. You're arguing that the geocentric model was scientific? Really? Psychiatry, like all sciences, evolves through evidence, experiments, and revision. This IS NOT what happened: "The science of psychiatry has evolved and improved so much, we've realized that homosexuality isn't a disorder!" This IS what happened: "Society no longer views homosexuality as overt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:46 AM
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No we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:42 AM
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No it's not. You are naive if you somehow think an nih.gov article is the end-all, be-all on the legitimacy of psychiatry as a "science". It's absolutely not. Do you think the American Psychiatric Association decided to classify homosexuality as a mental disorder as a result of scientific evidence? Or did they do that because of the prevailing societal beliefs at the time? Crazy to think that any legitimate science can be based on societal views of how people should live their lives. How could y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:41 AM
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Nobody in this subreddit comprehends what they are reading. They all just say meaningless words. It's disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:21 AM
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I agree. Is it ok to admit that "female nature" is a real thing now? I thought gender roles were oppressive and fake, not based on natural inclinations and biological constraints? For example, if I say "women are more emotional", will you be offended? Or do you only utilize this reasoning when discussing situations where females have an advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:04 AM
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Psychiatry is a pseudoscience. There is no real "mental health care".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:52 AM
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The school system in the Western world was even harsher, more regimented, and more punitive when girls were discouraged or even actively prevented from receiving an education. Compulsory grade school hasn't even existed for that long, only a century. You're right that the school system really isn't designed to benefit males. Is the issue their under-performance, though? Or is the issue forcing them to comply with such a system? I think it's the latter. For most of history, if you wanted to learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:27 AM
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believes gender roles are inherently systemic and harmful to all genders What do you even mean by "systemic"? Top-down enforcement? Gender roles emerge naturally from human tendencies, behaviors and biological constraints. They aren't some unnatural system being enforced onto people. That's why 99% of human societies throughout history have had similar gender roles. Completely unrelated societies that were never once in contact with each-other somehow ended up with similar roles between the gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:31 AM
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Nice LARP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:00 AM
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Your sister probably sucks at her job. I bet she wouldn't even have one without affirmative action.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:00 AM
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For computer science? Yeah right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:52 PM
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You mean customer service?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:50 PM
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OP just got annihilated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:43 AM
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Why would you have CS students?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:41 AM
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Absolutely not intelligent. You want your woman to practically have an intellectual disability, trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:40 AM
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What are you, 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:39 AM
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and she should look like your mom too. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:36 AM
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I think the entire point is to just prevent people from having their resumes immediately dismissed over race/gender stereotypes. Obviously you will have to meet in person or over video, most likely to do an interview, but then you atleast have your foot in the door and aren't completely ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:10 AM
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Blind hiring (exclusively on merit) benefits men. The Australian Public Service had blind hiring practices for a while, but ended up removing them because they resulted in even more men being hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:06 AM
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Then move
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:45 PM
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Wrong, it's actually quite easy to live off a single income. $50k/yr can buy a family of four a very nice life in the USA. I understand that might seem impossible to you, but it's only because you're addicted to consumerism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:39 AM
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No, they have nothing to offer. That's why they are losers. Most women have no interest in just selling themselves to highest bidder If they knew what's best for them they would. Regardless, I disagree with this too. Most women want their husbands to have an income that is significantly above the median income. So, you're just wrong. I guarantee that a man's income significantly impacts your view of them as a suitor. Why don't you try being honest for once in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:56 AM
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My sisters are very attractive and one of them exclusively dates the biggest losers of all time. I don't know what's wrong with her, but it offends my grandma. She's always telling my sister to just marry a rich guy and put up with his shit because she probably could marry into the aristocracy if she wanted to (she is so hot).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:10 AM
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This is just completely inaccurate, absolutely absurd that you would even say this. Most people's parents are encouraging them to find a partner and have children so they can be grandparents. They do this to their sons and daughters alike. Historically speaking, mothers, grandmothers and other female elders played a massive role in preparing their daughters for marriage. They would teach them how to find a good husband and be a good wife/mother. The start of Mulan where all the old ladies are wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:20 AM
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might delude themselves into thinking they might one day be wealthy The whole 'temporarily embarrassed millionaires' theory is bullshit invented and pushed by socialists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:03 AM
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This has absolutely nothing to do with it being a social expectation or 'pillar of Islam'. I'm sure people try to replicate Muhammad's life, but that's vastly different from what you implied. Stop talking out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:50 AM
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It's pretty much a pillar of Islam Where did you hear this? I'm trying to research where Islamic teachings state that additional wives must be widows and cannot find anything. Did you just make that part up? One of the oldest Not even close. Out of the major world religions, Islam is the youngest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:21 AM
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No, men with status and wealth had multiple wives and numerous children because they could afford to. any additional wives past the first should be widows. What? I don't doubt that this was an expectation in some cultures, but to act like this was a standard across human societies is absurd. It's way too specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:59 AM
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The arguments made by many women on this subreddit are so deranged that this post could very well be authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:31 AM
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How could a woman possibly say this? Women cake on so much make-up they look like entirely different people. They also get the VAST majority of cosmetic surgeries. I don't even disagree with you, I think all of this shit is bad. In my ideal world, shoe lifts, make-up, cosmetic surgery, hell even Ozempic, would all be banned. But it seems ridiculous for a woman to say this, when women are notorious for deceptive practices of this variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:09 AM
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Anyone over 23 has nothing in common with an 18yr old. Who cares. You? Why would your opinion on another person's relationship matter? 18yr olds should be with 18yr old's so that they can grow together without weird power imbalances. This isn't a power balance. The 18 year old is an adult. If you think they can't make choices like this, they shouldn't be able to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:27 AM
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He should get that checked out. Definitely not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:47 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:46 PM
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Sure, but I can see issues with this theory. I raised one of them in another comment, which you replied to shortly after you left this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:08 AM
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There's no consensus. Most sources say there isn't a refractory period in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:04 AM
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What would you say the reproductive climax is for females? Basically, I'm asking what biological function the orgasm would be tied to. For men, it's obviously ejaculation. If there isn't one, that's a fundamental difference between the male and female orgasm. If it's not associated with the climax/goal of the female role in reproduction, then it may as well be an entirely different phenomenon. We should probably use different words to describe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:15 AM
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I'm not embarrassed at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:08 AM
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Men don't even experience full-body muscle contractions when they orgasm. This is why people like OP think the female orgasm is made-up, because you're just saying goofy shit. There's no way you're truly experiencing involuntary muscle contractions throughout your entire body as if you are having a seizure. It just doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:08 AM
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Oh nice, more garbage. You clarifying garbage, irrelevant points doesn't make them relevant. It just makes more garbage. An ejaculation is not an orgasm. Men ejaculate without an orgasm. Looking this up, it's a rare condition. That makes it an abnormality, not a normal aspect of male biology. So who gives a fuck? They orgasm without ejaculation The biological processes are still occurring every-time a guy orgasms, his body is attempting to release semen even if it's unable to. We can feel our or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:59 AM
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It was evolutionary useful for female humans to climax. Why would it be useful for them to climax? It'd be useful for them to desire sex and feel pleasure from it, but there's not a biological function they'd need to be incentivized to reach like there is for men. Since the penis and the clitoris form from the same cells depending on the sex of an embryo, it was evolutionary useful for some of the function of the penis to be built-in to the cells it develops from and therefore be shared with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:45 AM
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Who are you even talking to? You're not responding to any of my arguments in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:13 AM
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For you, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:11 AM
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It's not a "self-report", what you mentioned in the second sentence is the entire point of OP's post. The "female orgasm" is ridiculously inconsistent, and there's no physical evidence that an orgasm (sexual climax) occurred. It's not tied to a reproductive climax that serves a biological function like the male orgasm is, because as far as I am concerned there is no reproductive climax for women. I mean, what would that even be? When the egg implants 5 days later?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:17 AM
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How would you know that what you are experiencing is an orgasm? There's no physical evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:11 AM
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Keep it in your pants
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:11 AM
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This is an assumption you made, not something he shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:10 AM
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Have you considered that men have a definitive climax supported by physical evidence? Men ejaculate, which is the clear and ultimate goal every-time they have sex. There is no such thing for women. There may be a peak in pleasure but it wouldn't have a biological function or benefit reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:08 AM
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No I wouldn't. It's impossible to experience things from another person's perspective. We have no idea if the experience of an "orgasm" is even remotely similar between men and women. I'd wager it probably isn't as there are numerous quantifiable differences (OP mentioned a bunch in his post).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:02 AM
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He didn't admit that. You made that part up in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:18 AM
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You're correct, if there is any pleasure at all, then there would be a peak. However, I think what he's arguing is that there isn't a definitive, climatic goal like there is in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:17 AM
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It's clearly despised, it has elicited very negative reactions from numerous commentors. If it's such a "self own", why don't you actually address the arguments he made in his post? The reasoning he supplied is valid. The inconsistent nature of the female orgasm does raise some questions, especially when compared to the male orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:13 AM
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He's only argued that they don't orgasm, not that they do not find sex pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:06 AM
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Your comment is more embarrassing than OP's post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:06 AM
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I don't think he's arguing that woman can't experience any pleasure from sex or masturbation. He's arguing that they do not orgasm, at-minimum he's saying it's not comparable to the male orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:05 AM
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You're going to upset people, but you raise some good points and are a man with convictions. I respect that. Do you deny that women can experience any pleasure from sexual contact? Or just the idea that they can experience an orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:03 AM
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I couldn't jizz for the first few years of jerking off, I hadn't hit that part of puberty yet. Regardless, I don't necessarily think this proves OP wrong. I had all of the male parts and processes required for a male orgasm, I just lacked the ability to produce ejaculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:46 AM
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Norah Vincent lived as a man for 18 months. I was also referring to the transmen who have said being a man is rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:19 AM
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But hey, if we're listening to men about how awful it is to be a man, then we should listen to women about how awful it is to be a woman. I didn't even advocate for this. I advocated that we should listen to the biological females who've experienced living as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:24 PM
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This isn't a "pity party". It's you refusing to recognize that you belong to a privileged class.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:22 PM
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If you are talking about the US. There is no "draft". Men are forced to sign up for the selective service. They can face legal consequences if they do not, which is coercion. When they become adults, they are forced to agree to terms that effectively state: "if the state is in need of soldiers, they can strip me of my freedom and bodily autonomy and force me to go die in a foreign country". Imagine if we did something similar to women, e.g. made them agree to the following: "if the population of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:00 PM
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That women didn't fight "tooth and nail" for their rights. There never was a fight. There never will be a fight. Women will always lose in a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:42 AM
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There are countless articles and reddit posts written by female-to-male trans people talking about how they've realized how difficult things are for men. What are you even implying here? That if it was really that bad, they'd reverse their transition? I would assume they probably feel as though the downsides of their dysphoria outweigh the downsides of being a man. I feel like you don't actually believe trans people can just be all willy-nilly with their identities like that. It's bizarre that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:17 AM
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Women didn’t gain rights because of male empathy - they fought tooth and nail for them. No they didn't. The vast majority of women didn't even want to be emancipated. Some states had women vote on whether or not they wanted suffrage. In Massachusetts, only 4% of women even cast a ballot on this issue. The vast majority did not care. But the ones that did participate really had to fight "tooth and nail"! Oh my god, they had to fill out a ballot?! How brave of them! I can't imagine how perilous it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:02 AM
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What have you done specifically that deserves praise? He helps preserve your distorted view of reality by adhering to the abstract ideals necessary for a civil society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:38 AM
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This is not true, at all. Women receive lighter sentences for the same crimes, studies that control for criminal history, severity of crime, etc all find this. Men don't even have bodily autonomy in most Western societies, they are forced to sign up for the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:29 AM
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It is a privilege, though. Rights are an abstraction, they are not real. They only exist if members of a society have been possessed by the concept and believe they are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:28 AM
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The entire concept is trivial and arbitrary. It doesn't actually mean anything. Part of the definition is "the ability to understand and manage your own emotions", which arguably applies to men more than it applies to women for most emotions. For example, men obviously show negative emotions like sadness less than women (they don't cry as often). Women might say "well that's bottling your emotions up! not managing them!", but according to who? Because for a guy to recognize that he is getting sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:44 AM
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Here is what they will say: "Oh honey, women aren't actually more neurotic. Our rates of mental illness are higher because we constantly face an oppressive system... If you had to live as a woman, I doubt you'd last long." When in the reality the opposite is true, women lead cushy lives of privilege compared to men, according to women who have actually experienced it (e.g. Norah Vincent).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:33 AM
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"Emotional intelligence" doesn't actually mean anything. It's a made-up term women use to feel good about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:23 AM
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You just have low standards for 'evidence'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:43 AM
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It's from the University of Chicago's Social Survey, which is also well-known, widely utilized and respected. 27% of men under 30 in their 2021 survey were virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:35 AM
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What the fuck even are these websites? I know you saw numerous articles backing up the statistics I sent you before you stumbled upon "southdenvertherapy.com", whatever the fuck that is. Just stop, it's sad. You should be looking at Pew, considering they're actually a well-respected and reliable research center. Their surveys have found >60% of men under 30 are single. I guarantee you saw numerous articles referencing this exact survey when you were looking shit up, and chose to ignore them in f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:28 AM
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Most people are not getting laid in high school, they have their first experiences during or after college. So saying "I should've ended up an incel" is just wrong, unless you think >70% of guys should've ended up as incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:09 AM
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Whose ass did you pull those stats out of? They are not correct. The vast majority of young men are single, nearly 30% of men under 30 are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:02 AM
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We can't abolish the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:08 PM
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No, it's not even remotely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:33 AM
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to be fair, i think one of men's most valuable privileges is that no one cares about them, which by proxy means no one even think about taking their rights or freedom away. How could you possibly say this?! It's the most ridiculous thing I have ever read. Men are arguably completely deprived of their rights more often than women because of their strength and expendability. They are conscripted and forced to die in wars. Men aren't even guaranteed the mere right to life. Even in the United States…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:29 AM
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You just contradicted yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:17 AM
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Nothing I said is off topic. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:30 PM
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Then what is the "orgasm gap" women refer to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:28 PM
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Yeah, right. Everyone moderately familiar with human development (basically every reasonably educated person) already knows this. In-fact, men opposed to circumcision discuss this all the time, as the biological equivalent would be removing the clitoral hood. You just live in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:19 PM
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That PhD is your mistake, not mine. I don't care about it. Which part of this post was difficult for you to comprehend? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:24 PM
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You realize this post is a response to the phenomenon of women calling men poor performers who cannot give them orgasms, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:22 PM
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It's okay, just don't do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:07 AM
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You're just wrong. Health classes include detailed diagrams and analyses of both male and female genitalia. You live in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:04 AM
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Is it hysterical? How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:42 AM
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This post sounds like you don't like women What did I even say that gives you that impression? You just made it up in your head, nothing in my post even remotely implies I dislike women. Your opinions are vapid and meaningless. I have no issues making a woman cum How do you know they didn't just fake an orgasm because they wanted you to stop touching them? I think that's more likely. BTW this comment sounds like you don't like women... which is fine. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:35 AM
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Yeah I'm sure you're worked to the bone laying there doing nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:29 AM
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Chad's complete disregard for her pleasure makes him even more attractive, so when Chad refuses to date her, she becomes bitter and resentful. She complains about the "orgasm gap" and desperately tries to convince herself that she didn't love when Chad used her like a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:11 AM
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This is silly. There would be less of a reason for women to fake orgasms in the 1950s, because men cared less about the sexual pleasure of their female partners. A significant percentage of men thought the female orgasm was a myth back then, doctors were writing essays that said this in the 60s lol There's no need to be offended, even if your girl actually is faking orgasms, she'd only be doing it because she likes you and wants you to feel good about yourself. I suppose she could be doing it to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:06 AM
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I don't get all of my life experience from statistics. I don't trust most sociological studies; however, this is based on rather simple surveys so I'd wager it is accurate. These surveys also appear to be repeatable to an extent, which differentiates it from most other sociological research. Obviously the rates at which women respond with "yes, I have faked an orgasm" vary wildly; however, they all appear to be >=45%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:00 AM
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No? I thought red pill was about reality, like in the Matrix movie. The reality is that a significant percentage of women fake orgasms and men have no idea when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:53 AM
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Every single thing you're saying is more applicable to women considering they take on a passive role during sex in the vast majority of cases. That's the entire point of the post. If you're spending time worried about what feels good for you, then you're doing it wrong, stop using women like a crusty sock and they might enjoy having sex with you. If I told you this: "Every time I have sex with my girlfriend, all I do is lay on my back. First she makes out with me for a few minutes, then blows me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:59 AM
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I don't know why you're so focused on this, I keep seeing you comment regarding it despite its irrelevance. We all took health class and studied female anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:49 AM
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I just think they need to be more proactive about achieving their own orgasms. There's not even a need for them to dominate the man, so I'm not sure why you think that is necessary. They could get on top of or lay next to the guy and grind on him in whatever way feels best to them. That's not emasculating for the man. Hell, they could even grind his leg, which is how some lesbians occasionally have sex. That provides the man with zero pleasure but isn't putting him in a state of submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:47 AM
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Every sexual encounter I've ever had has involved foreplay. I don't even understand how it'd be possible to skip foreplay unless your intention was to physically harm the woman. She needs to be aroused not only for lubrication but also so that her vagina elongates. All of the solutions you provide involve men doing more things for women to increase their pleasure. Not a single suggestion for women that might help them reach orgasm. "I lay on my back and you touch my clit while you thrust and if …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:38 AM
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it's also about focusing on the other person and they focusing on you Women rarely focus on the man, I could only come up with 2 examples where they take on a more active role in sex. Usually the man is tasked with making himself and the woman orgasm. This is the entire point of the post. Women don't do anything to help the man orgasm beyond merely being present in most cases. Not only that, but they don't even do anything to help themselves orgasm. It's as if they completely detach themselves f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:18 AM
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No, women can have orgasms. Did I say they cannot? I'm just telling you that there's no way for you to know if you're actually making your girlfriend orgasm as much as you think you are. I'd wager you probably are not. Women fake orgasms very frequently and you seem overconfident in your own capabilities. If anyone lacks experience with women, it's you buddy. You are naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:12 AM
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You need to work on your reading comprehension skills. This isn't even remotely close to what I said in my post, you just made it up in your head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:37 AM
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Statistically speaking, there's a pretty good chance she's faking her orgasms. How would you even know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:34 AM
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Seriously, you guys believe having sex with you devalues us, and you also don’t care if we enjoy it? How the fuck does me recommending that women be more proactive to ensure they orgasm give you the impression that I don't give a shit if they do?! Seriously, this makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:32 AM
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It's pretty ridiculous that this is how you interpreted my post. All I did was suggest that women shouldn't expect the guy to be solely responsible for their orgasm if they're going to complain about how they didn't get off. i came because i was masturbating using your body like a fleshlight This criticism is more applicable to your position than it is to mine. You expect men to behave like automatic sex toys that exist solely to provide you with pleasure while you lay on your back and do nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:23 AM
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I don't really care who is in control as long as I'm being stimulated in a way that gets me off... The guys I slept with didn't really want to do it in positions that didn't also look/feel good for them as well. This is what my post is about. It doesn't sound like there's much room for compromise, you need the guy to have sex with you in a specific way so that you can orgasm, in a position where he practically has to do all of the work. Which is perfectly fine, obviously you can have your prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:10 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:57 AM
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I don't think it's very rare. At least not in my experience. Obviously I'm not keeping a tally, but I'd estimate >90% of the times I've climaxed with a woman it was during vaginal sex. Blowjobs account for a rather small percentage of my total orgasms, I imagine it's the same for most men. That's what I meant by "rare".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:50 AM
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Of course I want the other person to feel good. Did you miss the last paragraph of my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:42 AM
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I don't even disagree with you, but think this is just how sex outside of long-term relationships is. If there's no emotional intimacy then you're basically just using the other person to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:54 PM
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Well, I mention this in my post. It doesn't seem like most women are comfortable on top, but it's really the only position where the woman has control over movement in the same way men do in most other positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:41 PM
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Exactly. You made this response while I was typing mine, so we ended up making the same point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:35 PM
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You're not attacking my argument, you're just attacking me personally. I'm glad you brought this up though, because I can use it to reinforce my point. What exactly is preventing women from stimulating their own clitorises during sex? You're basically arguing that men should do that for you, but also expect them to stimulate themselves. This is why I believe the orgasm gap exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:28 PM
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Who cares. This has nothing to do with our convo. Stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:56 PM
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That's a temporary fix to a permanent problem . Right... Like make-up, wigs, a myriad of cosmetic procedures, shoe lifts, etc. People hide their insecurities with temporary fixes all of the time. Women especially do. Are you just typing random words, or do you actually think things through before you send them? How do you know men don't take them anyways? They tell you about it ? If a significant percentage of men were taking Viagra to increase penis size, there would be discourse online regardi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:58 AM
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There are non-invasive things you can do to enlarge your penis. The vast majority of men do not care enough to do them. Many men report having significantly larger erections than normal on Viagra. The blood flow is maxxed out, so you get a temporary boost in size. Penis vacuum pumps have a similar effect. You would think that if this was a major insecurity, tons of guys would be using these methods before dates, just like how women apply make-up. Obviously some men do take Viagra, but they are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:36 AM
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The fundamental problem with this entire discussion is that it exists in this weird hypothetical vacuum where we pretend women are walking around with mental spreadsheets comparing every sexual partner's exact measurements What the hell are you talking about? No it doesn't. You can admit attraction to a trait independent of other traits. For example, the vast majority of women will admit that they like tall men. They are able to concede that height is an attractive trait on its own. All else bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:17 AM
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When I am having sex I think about the size of my penis and look at it in the mirror while flexing like Patrick Bateman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:05 AM
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Of course I'm viewing it differently. I'm not delusional, 4Bers are. Tick tock. Tick tock. Tick tock. Do you hear that? It's the sound of your ovaries drying up. One cell at a time. Don't blow it. ⏳
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:32 PM
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They will be lonely and bitter. Time is running out. If a woman wastes 5 years of her life on some stupid online protest, she may never have children. She will end up as a lonely, decrepit spinster. Despite being provided with every opportunity in the world, she still managed to screw it up. Sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:21 AM
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A person who chooses to be lonely and bitter is way sadder than a person who ends up that way because they are a victim of circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:46 AM
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Most people who do 4B endlessly complain about men on the internet. That's all they do. They are the female versions of incels, except for them it is voluntary, which makes it even sadder in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:19 AM
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Wow, you have no idea what you are talking about. Of course owning a knife increases your chances of getting stabbed. The source of that "owning a gun increases your chances of being shot" claim is not the result of carrying it in public, obviously. It's because it increases the chances of someone you know using it against you. For example, if you get into an intense argument with your wife and she wants to hurt or kill you, she'd be able to use the gun to do that. The same would apply to any we…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:32 AM
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It's legal in most US cities, if not all (with a license to carry). Owning a knife increases your risk of being stabbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:08 AM
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Just get a gun and train with it, then you can take night walks anywhere. Also, white men have been raped by other men before, no idea why you think only "men of color" get raped. That's obviously not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:25 AM
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This "trauma dumping" shit is shallow and stupid. They're trying to connect and be vulnerable with another human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:50 AM
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I started dating my ex when I was 29 and she was 18. At first, I definitely felt a bit creepy when I'd pick her up from high-school (she was a senior), but my god was it worth it. Eventually we had sex and I stopped caring if people thought it was creepy because the experience was divine. I know for the fact that all the men secretly wish they had the balls to do the same, so they're just coping. If you're a guy and you say "no I wouldn't do that you pervert!" then you are coping. Get over it. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:13 AM
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Female rape jokes are not common at all. Male rape jokes are absurdly common, especially in movies and shows. Men being raped is played for laughs all of the time, I have never seen the concept of women being raped in film/tv being used in a humorous manner. So, is that a symptom of a culture of rape against males? Are women perpetuating a culture of rape that targets men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 10:14 AM
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No I didn't. I specifically said I want to have sex with a different woman who merely looks like my mom. Not my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:06 AM
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Why? I love my mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:05 AM
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It's "is". Not "are". Is being literate of little value as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:45 AM
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Same for me but personally I also want her to look like my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:41 AM
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Preferably one that looks like our moms. That would be ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:40 AM
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I want a version of my mommy that I can do sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:39 AM
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