visu21 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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12	Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life? The apps are completely useless and no one has success on them. Talking to women IRL is the only way.	/r/seduction	11/05/22 12:25 PM
2	I FINALLY did my first approach! I feel like I am flying, lol :D This went well and you’ll understand the cues better with experience. I’ve approached a few thousand women and it becomes way easier to read them over time and your own actions will get smoother. For example if she breaks the touch barrier you can escalate pretty confidently. Also the easiest way to get her to think about sex is to talk about sex. After you established the initial rapport you could ask (jokingly) “I heard women who wear glasses are freaks in bed. Thoughts?” You seem like the ad …	/r/seduction	04/02/22 02:03 PM
3	Terrible Date She invited you for a drink and you decided not to drink. That’s kind of a buzzkill since she wanted to drink more but felt uncomfortable doing it alone. You should’ve made it a dinner or day date. That being said a woman who cheats on her bf is low quality, it is very annoying that she gave you little warning but you should’ve decided then whether you wanted to be a part of that or cancel the date.	/r/seduction	04/02/22 01:05 PM
18	[deleted by user] I think you could’ve pulled the number from the second one. Her: “That fast?” You: “I’m a busy man.” smile Roll with the punches, never apologize, they love the DGAF attitude, and most importantly have fun because they love that too, it’ll come with time just keep up the good work.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 09:27 PM
2	What happened to my approach anxiety after 140+ approaches in 1 month. I started out using your opener. It worked ok, but a couple issues is that it is very common and feels a bit like a catcall. Lots of eyerolls and “thanks! Got to go!” I have switched to real time observations. Ultimately I just try to be funny and authentic. Examples: girl getting groceries. “Hey I see you’re looking at the ice cream, any recs? The more sugar the better” Girl at bar. “I love that beer, are you a hardcore IPAer or do you dabble with inferior beers?” Two girls at concert. “Are you…	/r/seduction	26/07/21 03:10 PM
10	Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me. Maybe cancelling on you reminded her of a time that another guy got upset and she decided to tweet about it.	/r/seduction	19/07/21 01:01 PM
1	Why are there no pick-up groups for Women? I have definitely met beautiful girls that are also extremely sweet. The problem is most guys associate hot with glammed up, and a girl spending hours to look good is going to be both high maintenance and narcissistic. That is miserable. The worst part is when you realize they’re trying to look hot for everyone EXCEPT you. And ultimately after you get used to someone’s face, they don’t “wow” you like they did the first time. Not worth it.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 09:20 PM
5	Why are there no pick-up groups for Women? I made plans with friends and in the back of my head I knew she might be upset because she was needy and expected me to keep every weekend free for her. After I told her I made plans she started taking 8+ hours to respond to my texts. I assume she wanted to punish me/manipulate me into deprioritizing my friends in the future. I called her out for her childish behavior and she denied doing it on purpose, saying she was super busy. Then an hour later made some instagram story post about how she di…	/r/seduction	24/12/19 09:12 PM
–	Why are there no pick-up groups for Women? If a guy is attracted to a woman its very hard for her to mess it up. Although I actually do agree that some women are bad at maintaining a relationship. I dropped a girl who I was extremely attracted to because she lied to me to try and trigger a response.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 04:39 AM
–	How to get over mistakes? I’m not gonna sugarcoat it: that kind of insecurity is a huge turn-off and could lead to a permanent loss of respect from a woman. The best advice I can give you is to never degrade yourself like that again and hope she treats it as a one off. Women don’t respect men who don’t respect themselves.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 04:36 AM
1	Should you approach girls on campus? Yeah but be subtle, pick and choose. Don’t spend two hours on the campus lawn spitting game because you’ll get a bad reputation. At bars you can be a bit looser.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 04:33 AM