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I used to believe this until someone I was seeing broke up with me because I didn’t compliment her enough. I’m still upset about it tbh, she was a doctor and I thought she was really attractive too. Then two other woman mentioned how I never give them compliments like other guys as well.
/r/seduction22/01/25 11:35 PM
3

Exposure theory. Just start doing it and eventually it will become easier and easier. But to get over the fear you have to expose yourself even if it’s small steps.
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:41 AM
11

Or the illusion of it, profiles are mostly just marketing. Not everyone’s a great marketer, and some people are great marketers selling a shitty product. Even a well done profile can only say some much, and sometimes in real life we even have different chemistry happening. The reality is we swipe left on tons of potential great matches all the time.
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:43 AM
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You don’t even have to, just switch your guy account over to woman looking for man and keep all the same pics up. I’ve done this a bunch of times so I could see what other guys profiles look like, and I did it late at night thinking no one would see me. I got over 50 likes in 5 minutes every time I’ve done this. Tons of guys just super swipe right.
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:40 AM
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How do you jailbreak it? I just saw a video of it the other day and have been trying to learn
/r/seduction11/01/25 12:48 AM
16

It’s not just that, but it’s one of the most important things. But it also doesn’t mean you have to be like crazy outgoing confident or anything. For example you can be shy and still be confident. Just don’t be shy and not confident lol. There is plenty of fake confidence out there, and overcompensating, and it can work, but I dont bother with it.
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:24 AM
103

I’ve dated doctors that make 3x more than me. I’ve been timid af on dates and still had woman come on to me for sex. These were not dominant woman. They tell me I seem shy then after sex they say I’m definitely not shy like they thought. I’ve had woman that I hold back on because I don’t want to put them on a pedestal and they broke up with me because they like more attention. All that matters if that you’re confident enough in yourself. You don’t need all these magic rules. And also know how to…
/r/seduction02/01/25 12:32 AM
9

Ya this is pseudoscience bullshit to make insecure people feel better.
/r/seduction02/01/25 12:24 AM
1

If you look around I real like there are tons of short guys with good looking woman. I couldn’t take my eyes off this girl at work the other day and then realized she had a husband, he was like 5’6”.
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:34 AM
2

In places where the use the metric system the magic number is actually 180 that all the woman go after, and that’s actually under 6 ft., it really is all bullshit and in the head.
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:32 AM
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Cool maybe I’ll text you in a few days
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:16 PM
9

I’ve had woman, doctors, throw themselves at me on like the third date because I wasn’t making any moves or escalating touch at all.
/r/seduction11/09/24 02:20 AM
3

I see you’re not a sapiosexual
/r/seduction07/09/24 02:11 AM
3

Choosing what you want to do is pretty much the epitome of most modern day Christians.
/r/seduction07/09/24 02:10 AM
1

Not caring or having someone else
/r/seduction21/08/24 12:59 AM
1

That happened to me before when I first downloaded it, idk how it stopped but it did. Now every once in a while it happens, you just have to swipe through them all and all the hot ones show up.
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:25 AM
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I’ve switched my profile to woman seeking man before to see what the competition looks like. I did it late at night so no other guys would see me. Stayed on there for like 5 minutes and did it quick. Got over 50 likes in 5 minutes, from straight guys when all my pictures were still the same. I’ve re tried this experiment many times. Guys just swipe right without even looking . I can’t imagine how many likes woman get.
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:22 AM
1

Try that plus not wanting kids. It feels even more hopeless. Can’t even meet anyone and even if I did like 80% of the people I meet will want kids.
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:02 AM
1

There’s always some friend trying to cock block
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:01 AM
3

The same thing just happened to me. She said she needed more attention and felt like I didn’t like her. A lot of these “rules” are stupid. Different woman want different things. Also if you look at like this, why does something like a push pull work but then love bombing also works on people when they are are complete opposites?
/r/seduction28/06/24 10:34 PM
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The problem is in your fifth paragraph. Those are good general rules but you have to be yourself a little more. You can talk about yourself, give longer replies..It creates more rapport and a conversation goes both ways. Just don’t over do it and talk about yourself too much and let her talk too, have a balance. And you can answer when you want to you don’t always have to play games. A little can help and you don’t want to be too needy but just read in the vibes. The more you manipulate now it c…
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:54 AM
1

But you don’t say how to make it right after, without being clingy
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:40 PM
0

Indirect is also better because so many woman have their guard up and hate men for being creepy and stuff like that
/r/seduction07/04/24 12:16 AM
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I think it’s fair to say fuck it as long you tell her she catfished. Or tell her she catfished so you’ll split it or nothing. It also helps her and everyone else if you be honest and tell her she catfished.
/r/seduction25/03/24 12:11 AM
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My ex was 23 and with a 37 year old before me (I was 29), it always grossed me out thinking about it. She wasn’t the type to use anyone, except for her own self validation if anything. But thinking about her with some almost 40 year old dad made me almost not even want to be with her .
/r/seduction17/02/24 08:44 PM
3

Who would judge someone for being alone? None of that stuff never even crosses my mind. If they do it’s probably because they feel insecure about it themselves. People go out alone for all kinds of reasons, including people’s with plenty of friends. Some people prefer it or don’t want to hang out with their friends or their friends could be busy.
/r/seduction14/02/24 04:03 PM
1

I wouldn’t even want to do it even if they paid lol
/r/seduction05/02/24 03:53 PM
18

The girl you’re trying to fall in love with is fucking 30 guys a month lol
/r/seduction02/02/24 09:16 PM
25

Fake, no one who does this much math gets laid this much
/r/seduction02/02/24 09:15 PM
4

Didn’t you know, dolphins are masters of seduction https://youtu.be/WluLdcv5RXM?si=qHvtrPdVgAHRnSzP https://nypost.com/video/hapless-tourist-gets-humped-by-frisky-dolphin/
/r/seduction31/01/24 04:32 AM
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Know you’re going to get it eventually so stop caring about this one , if you get it that’s cool if not no big deal becuase it will come. Which ironically is caring becuase not caring helps you get more.
/r/seduction26/12/23 03:59 PM
3

You can make someone interested though
/r/seduction02/08/23 09:53 PM
3

You’re supposed to drink the syrup first for it to work
/r/seduction27/06/23 11:58 PM
1

I find Bumble to be worse and Hinge worst of all. And at least Tinder has fairer prices and options than Bumble (never checked hinges prices). The first time I used Hinge the first person who liked me was an obese woman (I don’t mean this in a mean way) , but the system automatically ranked me lower and all the woman I got shown after that was bottom of the barrel picks. I had to delete and start over. What a messed up system.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:06 PM
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Was a heavy weed smoker all my life, not only did it kill my game especially when I went out high because it made me antisocial, but it also just makes me not give a fuck and I don’t even try. Have way more confidence and ambition without it. Thing is no one ever really wants to admit weed actually can cause some negative side effects and people love to defend it. I know people who smoke a lot and have no problem with woman, but I also know tons of who do and don’t get any. I think over the cour…
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:23 AM
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That’s funny because one thing I noticed was tons of girls wearing cowboy boots and hats and I couldn’t tell if that’s like normal or they were dressing up lol. Some natives were telling me Nashville is a little different from the rest of Tennessee too because you get a such a mix of people coming in. The hot chicken was fucking amazing too lol.
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:29 PM
3

Nothing wrong, but I kind of felt like there wasn’t much more to see or do like it wasn’t anything crazy that I need to go back for, I saw it and I’ve been to more interesting places. I went to that big street with all the bars, it was cool but unless your really into live music and mostly country stuff I wouldn’t spend every weekend there. I also don’t party much anymore though so it’s not much my scene anyway. I could see some advantages to living there over other popular cities though I guess…
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:01 PM
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I just spend 4 days in Nashville , it was cool but I don’t feel like I ever need to go back honestly.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:31 PM
5

Or you could just flush the condom, but this would be sweet revenge as long as it kills the sperm
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/22 03:13 AM
1

My pictures always come out blurry for some resin and I have an iPhone 12 Pro
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:09 AM
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I can always tell when a pictures purpose is just to flex a tattoo, it turns me off
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:07 AM
1

Why don’t you ever compliment? I don’t either but I was thinking about changing it a little since most guys seem to compliment and use pick up lines. To me if feels contradictory and I also feel corny doing it but it seems to work.
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:43 PM
1

Why don’t you ever compliment? I don’t either but I was thinking about changing it a little since most guys seem to compliment and use pick up lines. To me if feels contradictory and I also feel corny doing it but it seems to work.
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:09 PM
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Why don’t you ever compliment? I don’t either but I was thinking about changing it a little since most guys seem to compliment and use pick up lines. To me if feels contradictory and I also feel corny doing it but it seems to work.
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:09 PM
2

I have a theory that simp behavior ruins it for everyone. All of does it inflate their egos. Why complaining and simp just to boost their ego especially when they did nothing but look pretty? Guys will write in comments or slide In dms just to complement even though there’s zero chance they will get anything out of it, why does anyone do that?
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:05 PM
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Oh if it’s actual trt and your prescribed that’s a different story lol. If you hit the gym you’ll probably get some nice gains too. I’ve seen people take it when they don’t need it though and mess their shit up early.
/r/seduction20/12/21 02:19 AM
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It’s fake confidence, if you get used to it you’ll be less confident than you were before need it forever. As soon as you go off that cycle it’s gone.
/r/seduction20/12/21 02:08 AM
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Sometimes when you really look at someone with plastic surgery you can still see parts of who they were before, their unconfident, insecure and “ugly”side. That part of the personality and ego still can live inside and shine through. A new face can cover it up but not completely all the time. Also a lot of people don’t stop at one surgery because the problem is more in their head. If you’re gonna do it you should at least learn to accept yourself first, so that you don’t need it to feel good but…
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:02 PM
2

So how does giving compliments fit in to all of this stuff because it kind of contradicts it all and seems like simping but at the same time people say to do it
/r/seduction23/11/21 03:06 AM
2

It’s the conversation for me, right before I’m about to do it the bullshit small talk flashes before my eyes and I’m like ya this isn’t even worth it I’d rather just sit here and chill than force a conversation with a stranger rn.
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:16 AM
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I straight up gave up on this because I realized I don’t want to have a conversation. It’s not the approach, it’s the idea of “damn I have to sit here and talk to this girl and pretend and bullshit and make small talk just to get laid” . Fuck that. I’m a social person , I can approach people and converse with people if I need something from them, but I barely ever do it if I don’t need to for something. I could be at a party and I’ll sit there for hours by myself, idgaf but I’m not starting a bu…
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:13 AM
2

Except she doesn’t write half of it. And if you listen closely it sounds like she’s reading write off the paper in most recorded versions
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/21 03:42 PM
1

They do it, but taking the hint if they want you or not is the hard part
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:48 PM
3

I usually just prefer more down to earth humble girls, which is not using the case with the IG models. A lot of them are really the same too and kind of basic. I’m a big attitude person and also think being intelligent is hot, fancy clothes and makeup doesn’t do it for me.
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:44 PM
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If a girl is an “Instagram model” she’s instantly almost completely unattractive to me. Other than that seems like solid advice.
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:08 AM
3

It’s like that at your gym too? I feel like as a guy I still get looked at by everyone for some reason when I’m at the gym , I can’t imagine what it’s like for woman. Some like the attention but I’m others just just want their privacy.
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:46 AM
1

Also if they point their feet at you and touch their hair
/r/seduction13/12/20 05:40 AM
1

I remember reading something years ago called the moon glance , it’s supposed to be like a spell or something but it’s a good technique for eye contact
/r/seduction13/12/20 05:38 AM
1

I was with a few girls the other day and they were just talking about how weird and creepy this guy is but the guy also gets tons of other girls
/r/seduction14/08/20 09:58 PM
2

There’s also being nice becuase you don’t want to come across as a perve or an asshole, or be a sexual harasser, the guy so many girls claim to hate even though those are the ones that seek to get the most . It’s not always so much fear of rejection but rejection from a societal standpoint as well
/r/seduction14/08/20 03:24 PM
4

The concept of bad is so stupid. I know people who haven’t broken a law in their life but girls think they are so bad because of something so little or an illusion
/r/seduction05/07/20 12:58 AM
4

Dale Carnegie mentioned this in his famous book “ How to Win Friends and Influence People”. There’s a reason why they are mans best friend.
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:00 PM
1

And the people like me who kind of want to have a convo and meet up but at the same time are too lazy to go through the process so it appears like any of the above
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:03 PM
1

I used to only get with girls that went after me first because it meant I didn’t have to do any work, then I realized I never get what I want, I just keep accepting what I get and never really end up satisfied.
/r/seduction15/06/20 10:44 PM
1

It’s fuckin hard , the best conversations just happen when both of you click, this isn’t going to happen all the time, in fact most of the time. If you really have to force it and try then you’re obviously not clicking. Sometimes you do have to get the ball rolling a bit and sure sometimes there are little tricks you can use to have better conversations but Id say all in all don’t force it too much. Even if you are going to try to go against what doesn’t click and try out different methods don’t…
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:04 PM
1

Keep finding ways to be positive and convince yourself otherwise , there’s always a different perspective to see . Also start achieving some things to make you feel better
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:59 AM
3

Maybe it just happens when you get older, not so much a seduction thing. I don’t get crushes anymore either. Every once in a while maybe a mild one but it can go away pretty quick and I don’t really dwell on I too much. A couple years ago I very strong one for a girl at work that might be the only really strong one I’ve had in over 5 years maybe 10
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:06 PM
1

Unfortunately these days it helps. A lot of people consider social media reality even though it isn’t . But you can still date without it. I prefer woman who don’t post a lot on social media and have less followers but most guys love those types of women. If you think about it I’m reality most of the time it really means nothing about how special you are, but it does create an illusion.
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:45 AM
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I can be really good at this when I’m in the right mood or state of mind but other times I can’t force it like if I’m tired or my mood isn’t as high
/r/seduction08/04/20 11:35 PM
1

Unfortunately I won’t be back, I’m older and already went to college, I was just taking a certificate program that’s over this semester and it was nice to have the chance to meet woman somewhere other than a bar or online. But oh well
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:59 PM
3

I was doing this, until classes got canceled for the rest of the semester and I’ll never see her again
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:55 PM
2

There are actually a lot of signs and body language that women will give off when attracted. Don’t be stupid like me I missed out on a lot because I always thought they were just being nice, most fo the time they are not going to just come out and tell you, here’s a few of the signs but if you just google you can find something good lists: Frequent physical contact. If someone frequently bumps you when walking or touches your arm in conversation, there's a good chance they're interested. ... Con…
/r/seduction26/03/20 03:52 AM
1

I don’t mind the approach as much as thinking of something to say. Most of the time I have nothing to say or keep the conversation going
/r/seduction04/03/20 08:22 PM
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Mine is how I want it to be too, not posting anything , but then I don’t get the bonus
/r/seduction01/03/20 09:26 PM
2

Thanks I’ll read it . But I don’t see the point of asking someone for their Instagram when you could just get a phone number . Also for someone like me who doesn’t use it as social media, and I know a lot of people so I don’t want to post a bunch of pictures of myself and build some kind of online profile to show myself off just so I can get some girls. I don’t want to be seen as someone who posts that kind of stuff to the rest of people I know at the expense of getting some woman , and I also d…
/r/seduction01/03/20 03:08 PM
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All this shit is ridiculous why can’t people just text wtf is the point of going through an extra middle man to do the same thing.
/r/seduction29/02/20 10:17 PM
15

Dude they are strippers they are not interested in you they are doing there job
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:51 AM
1

Seeing a problem , coming up with a solution, and creating a plan. Nice. But what about the second situation you only mentioned what you would do at the gym, what about a line or social event ?
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:57 AM
1

YoUr pRoBaBly TaLl
/r/seduction02/02/20 11:10 PM
1

I don’t have much experience either but usually you would send a text I think, just don’t be too clingy trying to talk too much , but don’t over think it either , I think I have ruined some chances by trying to force conversations I didn’t even want to have. If you didn’t even think to text her then obviously you didn’t really want to so don’t force yourself too much but maybe a quick one is good somtimes, and if a conversations starts out of it and you guys keep talking keep it going for a litt…
/r/seduction01/02/20 08:47 PM
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lol nothing is real. But I have a reputation to keep and I don’t want to look like an asshole or a dumbass in front of everyone I know on there . And I don’t care much for girls who spend a lot of time on there anyway, the more followers and selfies they have the less attractive I find them
/r/seduction16/01/20 05:26 AM
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But I don’t use Instagram to show off and be cool so this is where I get screwed. I don’t like to post much of anything because I feel like I’m showing off it just feels dumb to me. That shits not real anyone can fabricate any life they want on there it’s an illusion. I know people in real life
/r/seduction16/01/20 05:07 AM
1

I used to be like this, just used to take what came to me, with at least 95% of the people I’ve slept with this was the case. I used to be on antidepressants so I didn’t really care. I never really had motivation to get anything. I didn’t feel like trying so I waited for them to come to me. Then I stopped taking the meds and realized this. I wanted to get girls I wanted. Ever since I started trying and not accepting what I don’t want, I haven’t gotten laid. I figure if I made it so far without t…
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:25 PM
1

I agree but I’ve asked this on multiple threads and everyone seems to think it’s just normal
/r/seduction13/01/20 02:49 PM
1

Sounds cool man, but dude what’s the deal with girls giving out Instagram these days instead of phone numbers I don’t get it
/r/seduction12/01/20 09:51 PM
1

Your definitely worrying/ thinking’s about it too much. Your not going to be bad as it. Just go get laid. Also don’t be too desperate to get laid because that’s a turn off for girls too. And who knows, some girls actually would probably be happy to take someone’s virginity, you could even use it as a selling point.
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:07 PM
1

Thing is it is basically bragging and showing off though, and most of it is so fake. It doesn’t take much to create an illusion using social media. For those reasons I have a hard time doing it.
/r/seduction03/01/20 06:18 PM
3

If you rely on weed or any other substance you will always need it , better to learn to face your fears straight up. That will fix the problem weed will only cover it up making it last forever. I love smoking weed but once I learned that is really when I started getting the actual results I wanted in life, then you can smoke for the little things. You dont NEED anything it’s all in your head !
/r/seduction30/12/19 02:51 AM
1

Unless she’s being immature and playing games with you to make you try harder or something, or just didn’t know how to react. Either way very weird
/r/seduction27/12/19 02:23 PM
1

Good for you man , what gets always gets me is the part where you did triceps together , I would never want to do that with any stranger or anyone I even know lol , why I avoid starting conversations because I don’t actualy want to have to hang out with them lol. All my life I wait for people to ask me to hang out or do something, I don’t like doing the opposite not do I really care to
/r/seduction25/12/19 05:12 PM
1

Nice man you got balls doing that in the gym I never really considered that an option. I always get afraid also becuase I don’t want to hook Il with them or stop dating and have to see them every time I workout lol
/r/seduction16/12/19 05:48 PM
1

I don’t understand the Instagram thing , why not just a number ? Of course they want followers but does it work otherwise ? What’s the point so you guys can look at each others page and judge personalities before you meet? I honestly hate it becuase I don’t use my instagram like that, I don’t post much and I barley post myself , it’s not a good representation of me if I were to give it to a girl . Idk why that has to be the way to show who we are lol .
/r/seduction16/12/19 05:46 PM
1

I hate the number 3 things, because I used to be more “bad” live a more rebellious life , but I have it up so I could have other things. Now I don’t appear as attractive , but in reality ,for the most part, it makes no sense for woman to be with someone who is “bad “ if they want a good future.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:04 PM
1

Things like that happen all the time , most people aren’t aware of their subconscious reasoning. Most of the time there’s a reason for what you do behind the reason you think it is.
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:04 PM
1

Maybe our definitions of asshole are different
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:02 PM
1

What if they are not really that attractive but them being an asshole makes them seem more attractive and you your not even realizing you are actually attracted to assholes
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:55 PM
1

If that’s what you want then be yourself and be a nice guy , but if your trying to get laid , you might have to be a little bit of an asshole
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:52 PM
4

Def trolling. Majority of the time I’ve seen guys get girls at parties it’s the assholes. If they are nice and polite they are pretending because they are assholes. Being genuinely nice is not dominant and assertive enough.
/r/seduction26/10/19 10:54 PM
5

Get really fucked up and make eye contact to establish my presence and hope for the best. Not very effective and has shown diminishing returns with age.
/r/seduction26/10/19 10:52 PM
1

Vast majority of the time you will have to approach them in some way, the amount of effort you need to put in can vary though
/r/seduction26/10/19 12:58 AM
2

Dale Carnegie sais this in his book How to Win Friends and Influence People
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:51 PM
1

I heard you go up and act like you don’t have much time, create the illusion of scarcity, it’s attractive , then just talk to the whole group but don’t completely focus on the one you want , Don’t let her know your top available , then pretend like you have somthing to do and leave and I forget the rest I think you just get the number before you go or come back later lol
/r/seduction29/09/19 10:47 PM
1

I can confirm the regret is real , I have done the same exact thing and missed out on tons of opportunities , now they don’t come around as often and I regret it .
/r/seduction29/09/19 10:43 PM
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