vivekavanrdam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
59	Thank you for changing		vivekavanrdam	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/21 10:46 PM
1	Calling BS on Red Pill gurus	Discussion	vivekavanrdam	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/20 01:52 AM
0	Identifying as redpilled. What it means for you.	DISCUSSION	vivekavanrdam	/r/RedPillWives	27/11/20 08:28 PM
0	Calling BS on Red Pill gurus		vivekavanrdam	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/12/20 01:53 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” Did you know that babies look like their father in the beginning of their lives? Regardless of how they start to look later. Because that way the father knows it's his child and doesn't abandon the mother and the baby. Women also instinctively care about cute babies whereas if the baby is ugly, who knows right. It's really rough to realize what animals we humans are but it's the truth. So if the father isn't cute, baby won't be cute, a woman won't be into the whole situation. Women going for goo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 08:41 AM
1	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” Yep I'm with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 08:33 AM
1	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” 100% this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 08:32 AM
1	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” Not only are you not entitled to sex, or should I say we, because there shouldn't be a gender double standard, but relationships shouldn't even be about sex. You know couples who wait to get married until they've finished their education, gotten their career on track and have financial stability...who wait until marriage to have sex? They live together, share a life and thus are partners in the true sense of the word. Without sex. A solid relationship doesn't make or break based on sex. As an in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 08:30 AM
2	What's so bad about TRP? As a fmr redpill woman (23 now, was in it between 18 and 21 roughly) my main experience, which I also participated in, of the redpill was based on putting groups of people in a hierarchy. Like, ethnicity, gender, attractiveness, background etc. Everything was about either putting down or holding people up. People who shared my views did this to me, and it's a weird feeling. I got disproportionate appreciation and support for doing basic things, but funnily the same people could turn on a dime an…	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 09:47 AM
1	As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status) He must've watched Sex in the City... like A LOT OF IT. that show gives a really poor and tragic view of what women are like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 01:43 PM
1	As a man, one of the most important moments in your dating life doesn't even involve you (a reflection on status) I wouldn't be caught dead with these women or in a conversation like this. There's so much more to being a woman than our relationships. We can talk about interests and ideas without that diminishing people in our life. Just because they don't dominate our talks with others doesn't mean we don't care. What you're depicting seems like insecurity because it's like the characters are trying to prove that they actually do care by talking about men long after they left the room. If someone is doing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 01:40 PM
5	Redpiller thinks women nowadays are not worth dating because higher education turns them into feminists This is mindblowing to me because I'm from Sweden and here most people support feminism or atleast equality and both moms and dads raise their kids to support women's opportunities. Ofc we have to go to school and take advantage of those opportunities to really have a chance to make our own choices but I think it's true for most humans we get our values from home. Imagine if your family thought your education was brainwashing and turning you into an amoral person. If they shamed you for enjoying…	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/21 09:57 PM
5	In your opinion, who's the worst Red Piller and why ? Valizadeh because he bragged about raping women and told his followers to go to certain countries to "bang" because women there were easy	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/21 09:46 PM
2	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? For years I spent more Time on social media than around real people. As should be no surprise to anyone men online approach women with, to put it mildly, bad attitudes. It's enough to make you think men are a less evolved species. Stepping out in the real world however should help to heal that though. So, I think women who hang around discord and Twitter can easily get the idea that men have awful personality by default. I certainly don't blame them	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 05:28 PM
0	Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extent The taller you are, the less attractive you are to me. Can y'all stop assuming women want tall men? We don't. We want down to earth, reasonable, intelligent, sociable men who can be flexible and take on different roles depending on situation and who is the most knowledgeable in whatever is going on at the moment. Posts like yours make me feel thankful I'm bisexual because toxic masculinity makes me not wanna be around men. Men. If you don't wanna lie in that bed then stop making it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 08:08 PM
2	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? Another thing I didn't mention in my first comment: have kids with your partner. You'll grow to worship the features your partner passed on to your kids due to how much you love your kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 02:50 PM
-1	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? My advice to either gender is to date people of similar background/features to you. Not because y'all have to look the same, but that way comparisons of looks will bear no relevance. I've always found women with light skin and dark hair instinctively attractive (I'm bi) and I truly believe that's evolutionarily programmed into me. Like, I'm supposed to want to continue my lineage. (Damn shame I can't reproduce with women ain't it)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 02:48 PM
3	Obese women (SMV 2/10) are now on the same level as healthy weight average men (SMV 4-6/10) when it comes to online dating. When and how did this happen? 1) I'm not American 2) gay marriage is too recently legal for there to be reliable statistics	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 09:31 AM
5	Obese women (SMV 2/10) are now on the same level as healthy weight average men (SMV 4-6/10) when it comes to online dating. When and how did this happen? You're funny. I'm actually bisexual and my primary goal is to marry a woman. My attraction leans 70-30 in favor of women so believe me, I could be spared the agony that straight women have to suffer in dating if I found it too much to handle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 08:36 AM
6	Obese women (SMV 2/10) are now on the same level as healthy weight average men (SMV 4-6/10) when it comes to online dating. When and how did this happen? As an FDS user I can tell you we want the opposite of a Chad. If by Chad you mean self-absorbed, objectifying, sexist, socially insensitive, got no real world skills, takes advantage of his mom, player. In fact, FDS exists for the sole reason of strengthening women wanting an equal relationship yet where men understand traditional expectations of gender roles and respect them, as women do, to be intentional, honest and promote stability in relationships. Modern men are the very source of societa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 08:30 AM
5	Obese women (SMV 2/10) are now on the same level as healthy weight average men (SMV 4-6/10) when it comes to online dating. When and how did this happen? SMV isn't real. Go outside and talk to actual people and you'll quickly realize that sexism is not popular. At all. Whereas online it dominates. If you want the attention of women then you should practice exuding a sense that women would be safe around you. Right now I get the opposite impression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 08:22 AM
5	CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it. Most of us women who rightfully find the question, that someone would even think they're entitled to ask, offensive and inappropriate are actually virgins. If a woman, which many do, wants her sex life to be a private matter, something only she personally can decide whether to share with you, that is not anything you have any sort of business in. Mind your own. Whatever your partner did in the past, before they met you, is not something you should necessarily know about. I swear man... modern cu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/21 11:26 AM
51	CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it. Bold of you to assume we "let ourselves get used" or whatever the hell you're implying. What if actually we're the ones taking advantage of guys🤣🤣🤣 Seriously though, women ain't saints. We're not damsels in distress incapable of taking care of ourselves, solving our own problems. We're not above selfish desires, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 11:13 PM
7	CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner. You're trolling right?🥴	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 12:46 AM
1	If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married? To get his parents to respect him. Because he likes sex but not courting. Also doesn't want STDs. Because he wants a companion. Because he wants free housekeeping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 09:10 PM
9	How can so many women be this delusional about men past the age of 30? She's right. You seem oblivious about misogyny tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 09:50 PM
1	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? I can be 5'4 and strong lol plus my intellect is my primary strength which has nothing to do with gender. Besides, lots of men aren't that much taller than me, and I don't think a man should take pride in being tall, just my personal opinion though, like imagine not fitting into a furnished room. Sounds utterly inconvenient to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 04:38 PM
2	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? Women protecting female interests is misandry?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 12:08 PM
1	Thank you for changing Cultist	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/21 11:05 AM
19	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? Men take having biological children for granted. They don't need to carry a baby in their body or birth it. So it's really easy for them to continue their lineage. As women we have to make disproportionate sacrifices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:27 PM
2	If women are financially independent these days, why don't more of them date younger men? Date someone your own age. It's really that simple. A couple years older or younger is no big deal though. Besides, marrying an older man will result in you getting widowed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 02:43 PM
0	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard As an LGBTQ woman I too often think supposedly straight folks are in denial of their true sexuality/orientation. If you in any individual relationship you could be in with someone of the opposite sex vehemently don't want to be intimate... maybe you're dating the wrong gender. That said, if the deal is you want to wait until marriage or something that is neither unusual nor controversial. So I think that is completely different from feeling disgusted by your partner's sexual advances	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 02:31 PM
2	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? +1	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 12:58 PM
1	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? Have you heard about taking care of yourself because you care about yourself?	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 12:27 PM
3	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? That ain't it chief wtf lmfao	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 12:22 PM
1	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? Well sigmas whole deal is "Idc about what other people are doing and even if I'm succeeding beyond average I don't need to impress or have an impact on others' lives. I don't need anyone to lead me or to lead others. I'm content with what I can do for myself." Basically the opposite of the redpill. Personally I think it'd be a great fit for me to date a sigma partly because I ain't that social and they don't need validation but also because they could inspire me to not get hung up on impacting o…	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 12:07 PM
5	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? Thankfully I ain't no more	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 11:59 AM
2	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? Nah redpillers hate omegas. I suppose metrosexuals threaten their toxic masculinity	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 11:57 AM
8	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? Not a single redpiller I've met has had a healthy, functioning approach to women. Clearly they're not achieving their aims, then, and btw, human nature mostly does not make differences whether male or female. We're more alike than not	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 11:56 AM
5	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? You don't seem to be reformed. That right there is literally "I'm still redpilled and too dumb to do anything about it" rhetoric. Cut it out.	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 11:54 AM
15	If its alpha to be direct, then why all the redpillers I've met are one the most indirect , flip flop people I knew? Ironically when I (female) was redpilled I dated a guy who was too and I was the alfa in that relationship (I generally am lol). Redpill guys want a woman to tell them to quit their bullshit. All their tantrums are cries for help. Just be prepared for the toll it'll take on you to mother another adult. Get out while you can.	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 11:52 AM
2	I'm just curious why it is that so many Redpill guys are lacking in social skills. I'm a woman but what you wrote pertains to me, like, all of it. I still don't have any friends but I'm working on my issues so I aim to get there eventually. This shit isn't gendered. We just gotta fake it till we make it. Insecurities and anxiety and all.	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/21 09:27 PM
6	I still have the insecurities which led me to RedPill When I read your stuff I'm glad I'm LGBTQ+ because if I were a straight woman I'd be insulted by how dumb you think they are. Seriously dude you should be happy you ain't in a relationship cos you're sparing some woman with too little selfesteem to know better a world of hurt and abuse. You shouldn't even think about dating until you can honestly say you've repaired your relationship with yourself and fixed your views/approach in how you treat other people. Regardless of gender or sexual orienta…	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 10:11 PM
1	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? Don't forget there are homosexuals and bisexuals. In most cultures we are either "outlawed" (just you try LMFAO we're still here) or otherwise persecuted by means of social institutions and cultural programming. I don't fault anyone who is LGBTQ+ for being single, especially those who have to choose either or if they want a career or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 11:59 AM
8	After discovering Red Pill, I became an incel... Isn't that crazy? Thank you for sharing. I know what it's like. Before I discovered the redpill I was a normie conservative woman who got along well with men and believed the best of everyone until proven otherwise. I'd never been taken advantage of or discredited as the intellectual, ambitious person I am. In fact, likeminded men were nothing but supportive in my political pursuits. Then I came into contact with altright, nationalists and redpill communities and expanded my views to encompass more perspectives. …	/r/ExRedPill	08/04/21 09:18 PM
9	Why do redpill men hate when they see a successful man date or marry a single mother You don't sound especially reformed bruh🤨 that is literally redpill rhetoric. I get that recovering redpillers need time and to take it one step at a time. Been there--done that--I fucking get the process, but you've got no right whatsoever to spew misogynistic bile in the meanwhile.	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/21 09:44 PM
8	Why do redpill men hate when they see a successful man date or marry a single mother Their hate for single mothers is second only to their hate for spinsters and lesbians😫😵	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/21 09:38 PM
6	Why do redpill men hate when they see a successful man date or marry a single mother OP is related to the mission of the sub. Also hilarious for a man to complain about women feeling insecure over being pumped and dumped when a majority of breakups are initiated by women. Not because women cause them singlehandedly but because most men don't have the balls to end a relationship. Y'all are the whiny sons of bitches, not us. Grow a pair. And, in the words of Ariana Grande, thank you-- next!	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/21 09:36 PM
2	There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return. Plenty of men don't respect any woman who'd have sex in the first few months of knowing each other. They might try to get her into bed as a test to see "what kind of girl" she is. If she agrees, she's failed and he dumps her. Ain't no way he's letting a woman like that be the mother of his future daughters. That's a typical pump and dump. A self-respecting woman looking for a LTR should not and cannot successfully have sex too soon without ruining her own plan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 02:01 PM
5	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? There is no "they" Just admit you don't respect us traditional women, or any women, but especially those w standards cos we don't let players use us. You want someone with low self esteem who lies in missionary position thinking she's got no right to assert her interests, in any aspect of her life or relationship. Men like that don't deserve a gf. Disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 10:53 PM
4	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? Not having sex for the first few months of dating is not "waiting". No sex before commitment is not a new thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 10:47 PM
9	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? Here's something I posted on Twitter a while back in response to someone questioning women being strategic about dating. My parents' generation could date carelessly and organically, it was alright to talk to people irl without fearing they'd assault you, porn hadn't warped perception of sex, your history wasn't documented and of interest online... Stalking is easier and more common these days. Reading about what straight dating is like for American women is nonetheless a hundred times worse so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 10:16 PM
11	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? +1	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 07:01 PM
11	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? You've clearly misunderstood what FDS is about	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 07:00 PM
2	LTR keeps male friends doing favors for her Reading these post and comments all I feel is relieved I ain't straight. Y'all straight dudes are a fucking nightmare.	/r/askTRP	25/03/21 06:00 PM
32	What double standard between men and women should exist? Reproductive rights Period as a legit excuse for a sick day Wearing your own underwear (bra that fits) in the military Paid maternity leave (parental leave is best, but if not possible at least give women a break at the end of their pregnancy and first year of the baby's life) Anything else that stems from our freaking biology making our life difficult	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 01:27 PM
-1	Unattractive nerds should try to hit on intelligent women Intelligent women also want a man who has renounced toxic masculinity and is humble that people will admire and applaud his woman, often looking past him. We care less about him not being conventionally unattractive looks wise and more about how evolved he is in terms of emotional intelligence and social views. Unfortunately it's often nerds who are the worst misogynists and make sexist jokes. I'd take dumb but hot trophy husband over someone who uses their smarts to undercut me any day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 08:28 PM
3	How men insult women by how they define them, and why. Love it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 10:25 PM
-2	Study: Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons. Yesssirrr I joined that sub weeks ago and fell in love with it right away😁	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 11:58 AM
0	Study: Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons. Don't mistake intuition and compassion for lack of rationality. If it weren't for femininity the spiritual world would be farther away than it already is. Patriarchy and atheism bear correlation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 11:23 AM
-2	Study: Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons. Evolutionarily this was necessary. We haven't evolved that significantly on a primal level since hunter gatherer days. Men as hunters needed to be alert go getters and have reliable skills and instincts, which is obviously a task, but women had a different kind of responsibility that requires more long-term patience and rationality, in that gathering (whether in a literal or figurative sense, as in sorting through information) is directly tied to discernment. To be able to interpret, determine v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 11:21 AM
5	Study: Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons. Shit like this makes me kinda resent heterosexuals tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 11:11 AM
3	Study: Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons. Very few socalled incels are actually incels...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 11:10 AM
1	Study: Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons. Your comment is very emotional my dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 11:08 AM
7	Study: Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons. The simple answer is people don't raise sons. They all grow up but many don't mature for this very reason. The term manchild is very real...painfully so. I know it might be hard to face but parents of sons generally deal in boys will be boys mentality. This basically means not to educate or discipline apparent disrespectful, selfish and shortsighted behaviors. Their mothers coddle them and their fathers adore the fact they got a legacy to a point of their son can do no wrong. In fact all of this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 11:07 AM
1	Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to women Ain't this some simp shit😳	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 10:17 PM
2	Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that? 💯	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 04:23 PM
4	Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios? Disgusting considering there are those of us who know real abuse yet don't use that as an excuse to go on to victimize others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 04:37 PM
3	Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios? As a woman who has been threatened and stalked in reaction to rejection I find this "simping is innocent" intervention to be out of touch. Simps don't just obsess, they're willing to be and do dangerous things that'll harm their victim just to prove their point, that they're worthy and that the victim is to blame for enticing them. Does anyone actually honestly think this is acceptable?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 04:34 PM
1	Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios? "She asked for it" 🥴	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 04:30 PM
6	CMV: Men who are considered 'Beta' are better off alone. Agreed. Don't commit to a woman who considers you a beta. Keep looking. You'll find one who doesn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/20 12:39 AM
3	Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious? It's comments like this that make me happy I'm not straight 😵	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/20 12:07 PM
1	Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious? Redpillers don't believe that women should have freedom to exercise decision making and therefore they can't make a choice. Instead, they're supposed to "gratefully receive" aka accept the first offer they get. This is why grooming is encouraged. Teenage, sexually frustrated, girls who are kinda quirky and awkward won't know how to put their foot down against a charismatic predator. They're easy prey. Personally I was always assertive and knew my value, even as a 20 yo redpiller. Needless to say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/20 12:05 PM
1	Identifying as redpilled. What it means for you. They're important to the premise of my post which isn't trolling so I guess if you're that close minded there ain't nothing I can do to satisfy your preference. It honestly seems like you're gatekeeping for the abuse of women in redpill communities and feel threatened by the fact that I expressed a willingness to connect with anyone looking to get out and get help and find a safer environment. Women ensuring the abuse of other women is unfortunately exactly what I expected of this subreddit. I w…	/r/RedPillWives	27/11/20 10:26 PM
1	Identifying as redpilled. What it means for you. The self promotion thing I get, but why do you call my content "trolling " when I clearly stated my curiosity? Just because I don't agree with the redpill doesn't mean I come to troll.	/r/RedPillWives	27/11/20 10:12 PM
1	Identifying as redpilled. What it means for you. When applied to the specific circumstances of securing a marriage the way you describe redpilling sounds like a female equivalent of game. Tbh it reminds of second wave feminism in that it brings back ancient pre-Christian notions of femininity not as weak and inferior but as a divine purpose to be idolized and revered. Say what you will about second wave feminists (I personally am critical of feminism) but them understanding that differentiating women from men and elevating the unique female ex…	/r/RedPillWives	27/11/20 08:51 PM