vivelarose Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
40	tips for asian guys	vivelarose	/r/seduction	02/04/11 02:02 AM
1	[FR] was he trying to hit on me? At work?	vivelarose	/r/seduction	01/04/11 03:23 AM
0	Movie night FR - closed number, but ditched a group on a bad note	vivelarose	/r/seduction	19/06/11 03:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How do you guys escalate in a club? Theres nothing more important than having fun and being comfortable with yourself. Once you are seen as someone who is having fun, you're automatically more attractive and approachable. Dont just worry so much about looking for that girl. Build on the comfort with yourself on the dancefloor. When you happen to see a girl, approach within her side view. Try not to approach from behind or directly in front that may seem uncomfortable and awkward for her. Once you approach, its important to slowly …	/r/seduction	25/06/12 02:53 PM
2	Week 3 learning club game When you're at the club with loud music blasting, dont bother trying to start a conversation. Instead, have fun dancing with her and building comfort through escalating kino. When you're not sure if she will be comfortable, guide her to move the way you want her to. Hold her hand up to show her that you want her to turn. Its always about reading her signals and escalating from there, even if its little steps at a time. But never stop trying just because you're unsure. If you dont try anything ne…	/r/seduction	26/02/12 03:16 AM
1	seduction advice for a lady? Focus on being more social and talk to everyone you happen to hang out with and be around. When you meet a guy or a stranger that you're attracted to, you'd feel more comfortable approaching. Its also important to build on inner game to get better with approaching. Just talk to them like any other person. Dont be hesitant, realize that the other person might feel the same way and not want to approach. Push your anxiety aside as you approach, you've got nothing to lose in the end. Another thing y…	/r/seduction	02/02/12 02:14 PM
1	Conversations with acquaintances Be aware of your surroundings and live in the moment. Be comfortable, if you show that you're uncomfortable and awkward, they will act the same way. Dont let that feeling get to you and how you interact with them. Just stop over thinking things and be so self concious. Talk to them like how you talk to an old friend. Greet them, show them that you actually want to talk to them. Showing that you're relaxed will make the conversation more natural.	/r/seduction	28/01/12 01:50 AM
1	Do you think it's a bad idea to tell your girlfriend about being into the Seduction Community? It really depends on what you decide to do with pickup. If you're using it for self improvement and gaining confidence in social environments then its fun to tell her about it. But if you use it to simply get with women then that can harm your relationship. Just keep in mind that shes aware of your actions in the future when you use those tactics in social environments.	/r/seduction	27/01/12 06:17 AM
2	One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation) Great post. Although i am a female lurking seddit for a while, this can apply to my every day encounters. Every point you mentioned can really make a difference in the way i feel about myself and people i meet every day.	/r/seduction	27/12/11 05:56 AM
12	From a chick seddit-reader: Thank you, guys. (And can any other lady-readers comment?) Hey i've been reading seddit for a while as well. I think its amazing. Some of this stuff should help everyone in some way, not just males. I agree that pick up is not only about women, but also about building confidence and being happy. I've been trying to over look it on a different perspective. Its good to know i wasnt the only girl here.	/r/seduction	04/12/11 06:39 AM
2	Seddit I'm suffering one-itis with my first real social group and I'd appreciate some advice on how to advance You're putting to much weight on this so called "friends" you have. You should focus on making new connections with people that you interact with everywhere you go. There's plenty of opportunities out there, you just gotta keep your eyes open. It's not like you're burning bridges with this "established" group of friends you're talking about, but to move onto what awaits you. Be the guy who invites people to events, why should you feel like you should be invited all the time, when you can just st…	/r/seduction	02/09/11 04:12 PM
2	[FR] One failed set, but settled for second place. Some questions and AUDIO included You were coming off to strong. The way you asked for her number right off the bat shows her that you just want to hit on her. You should've made her more comfortable by starting a conversation with her, like maybe ask her something about employment tips or something random to get her off guard that you were solely trying to get her number and leave. Better luck next time.	/r/seduction	15/05/11 06:03 AM
3	Text Game - What to do about 1 word replies? Either change the topic & ask her an open ended question, or continue on with the smileys or comment back on what she said. Just be spontaneous on you responses.	/r/seduction	13/05/11 12:23 AM
1	[FR] was he trying to hit on me? At work? someone who offers shopping advice i'm guessing	/r/seduction	02/04/11 01:13 AM
0	First day at work FR So what do you consider flirty? What you think is flirty may be different than what they think. And its kinda risky to do that at a working environment. Even if you were trying to break a few barriers with them, I suggest that you should just be friendly with them and get them to be comfortable around you.	/r/seduction	19/02/11 01:27 AM