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But..but.. the moment in my life when I build some career and was in my 20th was the moment when I was getting most attention in my life. Not the teen years when I was poor student in cheap cloth. And getting a man with good education and from a good family if you don't match socially is very very hard. Not mentioning that if he got some property, he would want a woman with her own place too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:36 PM
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I am not a man, and it would be weird for me if I had best male friend and a boyfriend separately. Also if he would have bff and me, it would just look not normal to me. If we are in any sort of a serious relationship. I would say more, I need to build this friendship before I can build anything else with a man. We should start getting along, be able to cooperate, talk about everything and laugh. Like what is really the opposite of it, whom should we be to date, strangers? Thanks for responding …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:31 AM
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"Your partner is your best friend" - what is wrong with that? Like really?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:30 PM
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Thinking about all of this. Thank you for your support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:35 PM
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Hmm... I am not sure I understand what do you mean by expensive. Having a child or smth else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:42 PM
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Thank you, but I am not sure I am that brave to just go for it) The guy is right, he is not craving children as much as I do, otherwise we would have already had them, but he is fine having them as soon as we build solid foundation. I think he would be a good father too. So what made you decide that you want a child? For many women a lot of it is just pre-programmed in brain. I was quite neutral about children and then it just hit me at some point. Was talking to a friend, and she said the same.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:38 AM
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No, I am this woman who is wasting her fertility) I just had to work hard for everything, we are building a house now, so in 2 years I guess we finally would be fully set and could have a child. I would have had earlier. For me living in a family is the most natural state, I tend too pull men into smth household-like very early. Never understood the idea of getting to know each other through dates, when you just go to the movies. I need to share everyday's life with a person, do normal things to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:28 AM
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This sums up many things nicely. This might be a little too personal, but what about your daughter when she grows up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:09 AM
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This last sentence is actually very deep and touching, thanks :) But my idea still stands. Also I saw you were saying to someone about not wasting the fertility time on making wrong choices etc. From what I remember a lot of arranged marriages would be conducted within an extended family, cousins often. So genetically we are winning in one thing but losing in another. And let's not pretend men don't lose on sperm quality with age. And I don't know if anyone arranges a 16 year old boy to marry a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:45 AM
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Actually I wanted to tell you how arranged marriages looked in Russia among those very poor farmers back then. Nothing to do with my home country ofc, makes us cringe too. So they would marry a slightly older girl to a younger boy, could be her 13 and him 10. Ofc the idea was more of taking an additional worker into the family than an actual wife for the son. When the girl would start coming of age, her father-in-law would start sexual relationship with her since her husband still would be to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:12 AM
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In ideal case scenario. But if a family is so nice I think their children would choose good for themselves by default because they would have learned all these good patterns already. Family could only help to identify whether the guy is possibly a pretender. But if family sucks it would suck at arranging as well. And I would not want to be sold to some gipsy baron) And on a very side note, when I was 22 a 28 year old guy would be like a grandpa to me. When I was 18, 28 would be like he is talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:32 PM
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Hmm, I think full thuth is to mention that marriages were arranged for men as for women historically. Literally today talked to a friend who is going to ask for permission from the parents of his girlfriend to marry her and only then propose to her. He thinks his girlfriend would like it as they are both very traditional. Live together since half a year though. So would you let your parents chose for you? Like remember whom you wanted as a teenager, and whom your mother would recommend you? And …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:29 PM
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Ugly but a good lover. Would choose 10 000 out of 10 000 times. A man is as handsome as he is useful. Btw, there is certain appeal when a man is really ugly, like it makes sex dirtier in a good sense. And on a side note, if a man is good in bed, smart, hard-working and has a sense of humour, I would never call him ugly. He would turn into a star in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:51 PM
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For me is important that the guy gives me sense of security and protection. And the feeling that we share life from now on. That's why only official marriage. Where I live by divorce people split what they earned during marriage but not before - as I understand the whole issue is that in USA it is not the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:02 AM
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Bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:40 AM
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Yes) But I would not describe it as a desire to "fuck someone's brain" as I don't dissociate a person from his brain and otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:39 AM
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I had a colleague whom I never saw even on a picture but reading e-mails from him would make me absolutely wet. The way he structures information was like teasing. It would make my brain automatically develop a chain of phantasies of meeting him somewhere in a hotel in between of our countries. At some point we met in person (business meeting), he was cute but we didn't have matching personalities, so reading e-mails from him afterwards knowing that was much easier)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:33 AM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:02 AM
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I think I am overall submissive, this is my core. At the same time I have been mostly working in male dominated fields, first in construction than in IT, now in IT/Finances cause these jobs are payed the most. And at work I need to be assertive, take ownership and responsibility etc. And talk the way that my voice is heard. Being like that always drains my energy a little and outside of meeting rooms I tend to be naturally soft and enjoy serving people. I also like complimenting and encouraging …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:09 PM
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