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Question For Menvivienneebackwood/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:24 PM
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sorry you feel that way but you are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:58 PM
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i highly doubt i’ll let myself fall into this mindset. you’re projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:40 PM
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finally, a response that isn’t all doom and gloom LOL i just look forward to life in general, which seems to be a crime here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:33 PM
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i’m not letting nihilists on reddit make me think my life will be over once i reach a certain age. i have seen people in REAL LIFE living their lives to the fullest no matter the age. my professor is 50+ ,childless, and unmarried. she has a different story every time i talk to her. if i had to give up a family and panther to live HALF the life she did, i would! sorry you have those views. life is gonna pass you by because you think it’s not worth trying since you’re no longer 25. that is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:29 PM
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i’d rather live in my delusions then be miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:21 PM
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okay 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:35 PM
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my life is not perfect. stop letting nihilist online ruin your perception of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:09 PM
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i am very non-conformist and will die alone before i live a life that doesn’t suit me. i plan on going into a field i love, and im not marrying anyone who wouldn’t be an equal contributor to our home. i know life isn’t fun all the time but i refuse to live a majority boring unfulfilling life. whether i’m 23 or 53. i will enjoy my 20s, just like i’ll enjoy the rest of my life. hopefully, you’ll enjoy yours too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:06 PM
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theres still hope buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:24 AM
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or you choose another path and not give up on life because yours doesn’t look like the peoples around you? i’ve decided early that i’m not gonna life by some arbitrary metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:53 AM
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all of life is do or die
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:43 AM
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i guess this is a unpopular opinion but im excited for my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:37 AM
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so glad i don’t view the world so bleakly i don’t understand all this rhetoric around life being horrible after 30. sorry if your life sucks, but i’m refusing to believe my mine is gonna decline once i enter my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:32 AM
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don’t listen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:31 AM
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i used to be so confused when girls on love island would say they liked “tall, dark, and handsome” and they’d be talking about a white man. l thought dark was referring to physical features LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:49 PM
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i’ve always had lawns but thank you for defending me HAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:13 AM
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my parents just never asked me to LMAO either my brother did it or they paid someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:11 AM
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i’m slapping my knee right now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:01 AM
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truuuuue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:03 AM
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what an odd question. conflating yard work with defending your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:48 AM
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good. as it should be. do men really need more encouragement to go into stem? no. they don’t. edit: i should’ve worded this as “we need to encourage more girls to go into stem”, bc the reply made me realize i forgot about low income and/or nonwhite boys. we definitely need to encourage them more too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:46 AM
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i mean yeah i can see the risks but the way op put it was so dramatic LMAO like you’re going out to hunt for food for your family or something. we’re talking about weed whacking 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:45 AM
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outside work is sacrificing yourself for your family? what life risking jobs are you talking about? LMAO i have never cut grass in my life and i never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:24 AM
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veterans benefits being cut is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:31 AM
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it’s not like women were barred from majority of things for a very long time or anything. the government just wants to baby women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:55 AM
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the fact you can probably vote is terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:53 AM
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this is unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:18 AM
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yes dating can be hard for everyone. now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:33 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:49 AM
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i do want kids! it’s just so scary to think about. i don’t plan on having kids anytime soon (thank you, copper iud), but i’m sure i’ll feel different when i’m at that stage. thanks for sharing your experience 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:38 AM
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you are talking to insecure, anxiously attached girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:35 AM
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what if i like girly lookin, sensitive boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:34 AM
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finally, a thread where people are rubbing more than 2 brain cells together and thinking with nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:32 AM
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i literally teared up earlier at the thought of pregnancy ruining my body
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:16 AM
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harrasment being equated to “manipulating a man for resources” is so funny 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:45 AM
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i thought women has endless options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:15 PM
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you’re a sad person LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:13 PM
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wanting friends is a womanly desire ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:11 PM
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you hear it on reddit because it’s usually people who struggle with social interactions period, asking for advice. starting with making friends is a natural first step to improving your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:10 PM
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not matching would be an ick for me if majority of men didn’t dress like shit but men do so i have to let it slide 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:00 PM
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i’m glad we settled this. good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:55 PM
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this is why i only talk to 7-10s. if they hurt my feelings at least they were hot 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:52 PM
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21 years olds are dumb as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:49 PM
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it is true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:49 PM
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y’all say anything LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:48 PM
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she’s could literally have anyone she wants. she’s objectively attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:47 PM
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red pill doesn’t resemble real life but whatever reality helps you sleep 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:39 PM
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say the red pill man 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:59 AM
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i’m here to point and laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:58 AM
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wah wah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:56 AM
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not reading all that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:48 PM
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nothing is shopping them. i agree. i won’t be participating in that though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:48 PM
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i’m not reading all that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:11 AM
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we are not saying the same thing at all LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:35 AM
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ones harmful, ones not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:21 PM
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you don’t talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:59 PM
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they think this is a gotcha moment but if you think about for literally more than 2 seconds, it would make sense to you. but no, we need another bs reason to think all women are greedy, gold digging whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:53 PM
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no normal person thinks about it like that. it’s a “symbol of love” and shows commitment. if you don’t want to get your partner a ring, the sort that out before. let everyone else live their life LOL personally, i think diamond rings are a scam after learning about the history of the diamond industry. i’m expecting a ring but definitely not a real diamond.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:49 PM
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so wanting rights and a wedding is having your cake and eating it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:30 PM
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not all traditions are inherently bad. wanting a ring and a wedding is not the same as being expected to be a home maker. can we PLEASE THINK WITH NUANCE
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:29 PM
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you can want society to improve while still wanting a wedding LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:26 PM
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dating isn’t fair. dating is hard for most people. dating takes EFFORT. you’re so entitled, it’s insane. it’s not feminism’s job or a woman’s job to make dating easy and fair for you. if you’re wondering why you’re getting no luck maybe it’s because you’re posting this bs on reddit LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:09 PM
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lmao whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:02 PM
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bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:13 PM
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yeah i’m depressive and passive aggressive as fuck. idk about projecting sexism though. i’m mean to men but in a joking way where they know i’m just playing with them or if it’s warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:49 PM
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it’s funny how people only seem to “care” when women DV victims are the topic 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:10 AM
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heyyy twiiin 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:56 AM
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it’s correlated to the conversation. what are you on about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:52 AM
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i think everyone should wear what they want regardless of a relationship. obviously, use social cues and know when you wear the mini shirt vs the jeans but making your girlfriend change is weird. personally, i’m pursuing a career in fashion and i use clothes to express myself. sometimes i show a lot skin, sometimes i’m dressed like malcolm from malcolm in the middle. regardless, im wearing what i like and what i’m comfortable in. if someone i was dating tried to change the way i dress, that mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:31 AM
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thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:53 AM
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ugly men cheat too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:14 AM
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well now you know. it’s triggering bc we’ve all been there and it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:10 PM
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what a poetic way to call me a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:21 PM
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is my heart supposed to bleed for rich men being scared to go in elevators? i literally don’t care. they will be fine. my heart bleeds more rape victims
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:10 PM
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lmao boo hoo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:37 PM
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okay cool that’s doesn’t mean other women are lying or that this is a common occurrence. hope this helps 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:18 PM
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please just say you don’t understand social cues and body language
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:15 PM
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….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:08 PM
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y’all are so funny 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:08 PM
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why can’t we complain? or make jokes? it’s not that serious. grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:06 PM
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and you have a problem with that because…?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:02 AM
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he was making her uncomfortable and she was in situation where she couldn’t avoid him. he was persistent despite her tone and body language. that’s what bothers people. not hard to understand. dude even lingered when he was finished with his transaction and asked if she wanted his pin. THATS WEIRD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:53 AM
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this reminds me of when i was 19 and got harassed by a grown ass man while i was at work. the first time he came in, he asked how old i was and i said 19. this man looked me up and down and said , “ yes. you. are”, with the grossest look on his face. second time he came in, i talked to him to be nice and i hoped he’d just go tf away eventually. but he started asking me out and saying he has connections in a gang or something??? i paged my manager and asked to go on break to get away from him. af…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:30 AM
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nah huh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:16 AM
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op doesn’t talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:12 AM
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quite literally no one said this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:11 AM
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someone’s projectingggggg
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:05 AM
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they should get therapy and hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:41 AM
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i must be dumb as fuck then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:05 PM
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please make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:41 AM
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right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:40 AM
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like?? they complain that we don’t call out women then when i do critique a certain kind of women, im a traitor. put the crack pipe DOWN.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:39 AM
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y’all love to make up scenarios. where did i say any of that? please re-read my initial comment and your response and tell me you don’t sound insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:38 AM
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women who claim they like toxic men, are toxic themselves. they’re probably young and like playing the “game”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:50 PM
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please make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:34 PM
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i use my toy while i bone, guys already buy stuff for me and they’re all hot …so i guess i win!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:16 PM
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i’ll take the word of the women i know, the countless stories, and my own experience 😁 “data” like are you fucking joking? you think every rape/assault/harassment is reported? get a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:14 PM
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controlling the dating market LMAOO. someone can’t get a date. womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:20 PM
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i’m not saying it needs laws to be bigoted. i’m saying it’s never been to that extent. since it hasn’t been to that extent or had any substantial effect, i don’t care. misandry isn’t real. you’re cringe for thinking you’re oppressed for being a man :3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:14 PM
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it’s a very common experience. please don’t be dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:02 PM
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wtf are you talking about ? you know nothing about my “desires” LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:42 PM
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it’s a joke but y’all push me closer everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:27 PM
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misandry isn’t real (at least not in any substantial way). it’s stupid to compare it to bigotry that has oppressed many groups of people for hundreds of years. some forms of bigotry had literal laws that oppressed people. haven’t heard of any “misandrist” laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:27 PM
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or laughing at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:13 PM
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“too many rights” LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:13 PM
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my best friend hates august because everyone asks him to help them move shit LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:02 PM
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well you don’t seem very fun to be around. hope this helps. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:57 PM
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no literally. they put more effort into to linking tinder studies on reddit than actually trying to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:40 PM
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making the last part my instagram bio
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:37 PM
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ND women have a much, much easier time. • because girls mask it better. i’m sure this has been explained to you many times. also you need to be more specific, neurodivergent is an umbrella term for MANY disorders. like are we talking asperger’s? autism? adhd? This 'no one owes you anything' stuff is a grim worldview, I wish people would drop it. • this isn’t my worldview. i’m actually a nihilistic optimist lol. i believe we should all help and learn from each other but , how is it a random girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:36 PM
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their neurodivergence isn’t their fault, but it’s their responsibility. this is coming from a neurodivergent woman. again, women (honestly, everyone else too) are not responsible for teaching you how to socialize. what you said earlier about men only being able to learn by fucking up, is true. how else would you? that’s how everyone else learned. it’s okay if you’re ND, or shy, or awkward. what’s not okay is blaming others for those things. so go ahead with those awkward approaches, conversation…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:18 PM
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that’s literally how socializing works. we don’t have to hold your hand and teach you how to talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:03 PM
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yall learned what that word meant and NEVER let it go 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:02 PM
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“chadfish” …. bro you’re scaring away the hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:01 PM
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it’s giving “i’m taking women/gender studies to meet girls”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:00 PM
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no :3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:38 PM
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literally what are you talking about LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:35 PM
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a girl not liking you because you’re short is nothing close to racism. if anyone were to rub two brain cells together for a few seconds, they would realize this doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:43 AM
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none of what you said is real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:39 PM
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deadass😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:22 AM
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this isn’t common. sorry you believe that lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:20 PM
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thats not true at all. this isn’t some unspoken thing that’s women have agreed on. you’re misconstruing why she was mad. which is what i figured you got this belief from. she was mad you went to anyone before her, period. she’s not mad you have close friends, she was mad because she felt like you chose someone else over her. she is very insecure for being mad about that. saying because this happened to you most women feel this way, ridiculous. she just sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:32 PM
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misandry is a joke and you’re delusional if you think it impacts men in any significant way <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:30 PM
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misandry isn’t real so how would we speak out against it? i see feminist all the time advocate for men. if you want advocation then, YOU DO IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:17 PM
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because their mothers, sisters, wives, friends, and cousins would be beaten , raped, or detained if they protested. so yeah ,i would think the men would be out there instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:07 PM
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link me to this said research that doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:55 PM
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booooo corny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:54 PM
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women do work those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:26 AM
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life is hard for everyone womp womp women only love conditionally? are you serious? LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:23 AM
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sometimes i see comments that are so stupid that all i can do is point and laugh. i’m pointing and laughing at you right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:22 AM
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you think men are socially less favored ? and that they’re as less favored as black and muslim people?? LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:14 AM
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in what instances do men advocate for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:10 AM
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have never met a woman turned off by a guy having close male friends. i think this is the first time in my life i’ve ever seen those words in the same sentence actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:08 AM
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just say you’re illiterate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:02 AM
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yeah, let’s ignore all the nuances behind unhealthy relationships and just say women stay with toxic men just for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:50 AM
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that’s literally what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:49 AM
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what are you saying no to? i never said he couldn’t get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:04 PM
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yeah personality means absolutely nothing whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:03 PM
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well no shit attraction is the most important if you’re just looking to fuck. it seems like that’s what those women want from your friend. if i’m looking to fuck someone, i probably won’t care what their personality is like. dating is completely different. attraction is very important but it’s not the ONLY determining factor. personality matters too. i don’t want to spend my time with a 6’2 , 200 sack of muscle if they can’t even make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:32 PM
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idk what world they’re living in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:52 PM
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men never experiencing someone being attracted to them is not a fact. it’s your projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:49 PM
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what’s the issue with this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:45 PM
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and what do you want done about that? like what now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:43 PM
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everyone is shallow. women not wanting YOU doesn’t mean they don’t want men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:08 PM
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pro-ject-tion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:55 PM
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those women are shit birds. this doesn’t prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:54 PM
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yes, attractive people benefit from the halo effect. that doesn’t disprove anything i initially said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:52 PM
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wtf does paleface mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:45 PM
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womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:00 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:57 PM
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they think we’re inconsistent about this when we’re not LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:57 PM
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well you sound lovely ! i’m sure there’s so many women dying to have your attention 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:53 PM
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“hot” men can be in toxic, abusive, or unhealthy relationships too. them being “hot” doesn’t make them immune to shitty relationships. that also doesn’t mean “average” men are automatically getting a second rate experience because they’re “average”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:49 PM
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i’m also super self deprecating and i try to laugh at myself before anyone else can. i’ve been trying to work on not automatically shitting on myself and asking myself, why am i putting my self down ? it’s helped a lot and i recommend trying to push back on that. it’s hard bc you think laughter equals good and it's comforting but you’re only hurting your self esteem. i also recommend therapy! my therapist was the one who made me realize how harmful this behavior was and how i should fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:41 PM
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you’re so right about dudes’ dating profiles. it seems like a majority don’t know what looks good 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:35 PM
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you’re not helping their case LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:40 PM
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i didn’t know men who like young women was a gender
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:36 PM
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thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:34 PM
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because you’re terrifying and should stay away from women. actually, you should stay away from the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:31 PM
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you need to be on a watchlist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:26 PM
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i’m here to point and laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:21 PM
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womp womp you’re so mad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:59 PM
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i mostly see 20-something girls who think he’s a freak. including me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:56 PM
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plenty people think he’s a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:35 PM
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this is very nihilistic and a very sad way of thinking. expressing yourself isn’t always about fixing something, everything we do does not need to lead to a solution or productivity. sometimes you just feel like shit and you want to cry, that’s okay. sometimes you just need someone to listen, that’s okay. i hope you change your mind one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:29 PM
1

periodddd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:26 PM
1

i hope you change your mind about that one day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:24 PM
0

you sound emotionally stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:03 AM
1

it’s literally their job to listen to you be vulnerable… but i do get wanting your therapist to be the same gender as you. i will only ever talking to another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:03 AM
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this attitude is why a lot of men end up miserable enough to kill themselves. good job 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:00 AM
1

love that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:54 AM
1

why do i have to think of my male friend as a romantic prospect, to give him advice? just because i’m not attracted to him in that way doesn’t mean others won’t be. also, what is so wrong with telling someone they should TRY to be more confident? what should i tell them instead? what is the better option? what’s the “good advice”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:15 PM
1

why do i have to think of my male friend as a romantic prospect, to give him advice? just because i’m not attracted to him in that way doesn’t mean others won’t be. also, what is so wrong with telling someone they should TRY to be more confident? what should i tell them instead? what is the better option? what’s the “good advice”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:15 PM
7

okay i’ll just tell my son he’s an ugly piece of shit and being nice won’t get him anywhere instead. problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:10 PM
13

who is the average women dating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:09 PM
1

yeah something’s comical alright
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:41 AM
1

dating apps are icky to me now, so i deleted all mine so i can meet someone in real life. i haven’t yet but i also haven’t been as social as i usually am. it’s definitely gonna make meeting people harder but whatever i’d rather try that than use an app at this point. not looking down on anyone who uses dating apps btw! i 100% get why you would use them and it has worked for a lot of people. i just want to try something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:17 PM
1

depending on a relationship for happiness is not healthy. it’s also manipulative to put your mental well-being on another person. being alone sucks, but you gotta accept that’s where you are right now. it’s no one’s fault you’re single. when people tell you to find hobbies and focus on other things, it’s not to fill that void but so you can develop as a person. what’s the alternative? being miserable and single with no hobbies or self identity? going into a relationship as a means to find happin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:28 PM
1

then don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:14 PM
1

don’t y’all say fat women date more than y’all? i think the fat ladies have the last laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:13 PM
3

you’re still getting left behind. i pity your wife and all the women you come in contact with. the girls you think are getting left behind probably have careers and lives that they love. they probably don’t need a man or marriage to validate their existence. if that’s what being left behind is then, PLEASE leave me! how is sedating your housewife with sedatives comparable to modern women voluntarily getting psychiatric help? please make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:48 AM
2

you think …this is gonna get you to be taken seriously? just because women don’t want to be your servant doesn’t mean they’re bitches and hoes or old and used up. if you’re looking for “wify” , then treating women like actual people would be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:43 AM
2

“hunt” bro we’re not in cave man times LMAO. no matter how hard you wish you could go back to when we ran around naked and picked berries, or when they sedated housewives with prescription drugs, you’re gonna wake up in the year 2023. get with it or be left behind. you’re not gonna find “wifey” thinking like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:37 AM
0

this is the craziest shit i’ve seen so far this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:32 AM
1

your hatred for fat women makes me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:29 AM
0

it’s not anyone’s fault, you’re not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:16 AM
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she picked them for sex, not a relationship. just because she didn’t value sex with them, doesn’t mean she thinks it’s meaningless with you. idk, it’d make me feel better that she didn’t actually like them. i’m not saying her hooking up with y’all’s mutuals isn’t weird and your feelings around that are very valid. i’m trying to say her past sexual history doesn’t inherently mean she doesn’t see you or sex with you as special. have you casually hooked with a girl? do you think that sex is the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:25 AM
-1

their feelings for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:59 PM
-1

or maybe she views it as both. your view of sex can vary from person to person. she saw sex with his friends as something insignificant now that she has a boyfriend she likes, she thinks it’s special. but i agree, it does seem like their values don’t align. i still think he should tell her how he feels so they can deal with it in a healthy way. rather than, keeping it bottled up and projecting it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:00 PM
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how do you not feel special? she picked YOU. she could’ve dated one of your friends but she wants to commit to you. she definitely should’ve told you earlier but you’re not the butt of some joke. do you really feel not special or are you more grossed out? it’s sounding like you’re more grossed out than anything and you view her as tainted now. not trying to invalidate your feelings but she obviously views you differently than your friends because she decided to spend her time with you. it seems …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:35 PM
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if anyone referred to my vagina as a “sweet candy cavern” , i would file a restraining order. as for the questionnaire, i would think it’s weird but id fill it out for the humor of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:26 AM
2

that’s what y’all love to preach. hopefully one day, the incels on this subreddit learn to go outside instead of projecting their misery on women. as if men didn’t create and up hold societal rules that harm them. i won’t hold my breath but i’ll keep my fingers crossed 😣🤞🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:30 AM
1

i didn’t always have that and i was fine then too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:24 AM
0

having fun with your friends and socializing is better than pitying yourself about being single. hope this helps 🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:23 AM
3

saying if you’re ugly, you have no hope in finding love, is rooted in self-respect and happiness? i guess i’ve been doing this all wrong and i actually hate myself 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:19 AM
0

a one night stand isn’t gonna fix anything and you will still be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:05 AM
2

no literally. the disconnect is hilarious 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:11 PM
2

it brings me comfort that men like you are lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:10 PM
1

LMAOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:07 PM
3

the criticism is rooted from feeling insecure and rejected. i have yet to see valid criticism of women that isn’t just straight up misogyny. please project that pity on me. you need to pity someone besides yourself for once <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:04 PM
3

all i see is red pillers hating the women that they supposedly want to be with. i go outside and i socialize and i have sex and i date. that’s why i have observations based in reality and that aren’t formed out of self pity :3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:48 PM
2

and men aren’t too lazy and entitled to improve themselves for a relationship? bottom line: go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:34 PM
3

i hope one day men can have meaningful, intimate friendships so they can stop projecting their misery on women :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:15 PM
0

you’re looking in all the wrong places. i don’t know the right ones, but we both know this isn’t working either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:04 PM
1

i’m the bad person because i think dressing well matters? okay. y’all are hurting yourselves by being in these echo-chambers of incel rhetoric. y’all ask women questions and when we answer, it’s gaslighting? LOL you’re not giving them anything that will help them achieve what they want or be the person they want to be. you’re not providing any solutions. you’re saying if you’re ugly it’s hopeless, which isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:01 PM
3

but it is varied. please go talk to real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:53 PM
0

if you’re turning to biology as your first source to help you date then i think you have bigger problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:52 PM
0

male friendships seem so sad omg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:49 PM
3

woman who is okay with being single and has friends = gay. i learned something new today!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:47 PM
2

that’s no one’s problem. if they’re spiraling into a depression and becoming red pilled/an incel, then there’s bigger problems than them not fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:46 PM
1

LMAOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:42 PM
0

or she has meaningful relationships and doesn’t center her life over her lack of romance ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:38 PM
2

woooow you’re mad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:35 PM
0

“evolutionary sense” “species” you lost me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:24 PM
1

it’s seems like you’re projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:19 PM
2

okay but what is your point in saying a lot of women like conventionally attractive men? like …duh. society has agreed that chris evens is attractive so it’s not surprising a lot of women find him good looking. i don’t think you’re wrong but i don’t understand what your point is. why does it matter if people are attracted to conventional beauty? is that a bad thing? liking conventional beauty doesn’t mean you find anything other than that unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:18 PM
-2

it’s actually very easy to be single when you have meaningful friendships, hobbies, and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:09 PM
5

is attention from friends or is it having meaningly relationships with people? having friendships and not having your life revolve around dating is definitely gonna make it easy being single. romantic relationships and sex is not all there is to life. we’re not cave men focusing on procreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:06 PM
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beauty is not always objective, especially amongst average people. what my friend thinks is attractive could be a turn off for me, vice versa. i’m not attracted to chris evans, am i lying? how does a lot of women liking an actor suggest, majority of them have the same preferences ? it doesn’t. people have crushes on celebrities because they are usually above average attractive and/or talented. they also get more exposure so obviously more people will like them. why is it so hard to believe women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:53 PM
1

not even close to the truth. having good style can make you overall more attractive even if you’re “ugly”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:39 PM
1

how you dress is apart of your looks. if you dress better, you’ll look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:36 PM
0

or … it’s because they look appealing or interesting. you don’t need a fat wallet to look nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:33 PM
1

a sense of style is very important to me and it’s very attractive when a man has personal style. i’m a fashion student so i might care about it a little more than others. even if you aren’t overly stylish, you need to know how to look put together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:31 PM
4

you think gold digging deserves the same public shaming as sexual assault. what am i missing here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:25 PM
6

adding words doesn’t make your claim any less insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:47 PM
6

omg the fact you posted this again after it was removed LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:36 PM
0

tbh, a lot of them time i lie HAHA. if i’m in public and i get approached, i’ve lied about my age to get them to not be interested anymore. if i’m in a bar, sometimes i entertain it for a drink. other times, i’ve said i’m gay or have a boyfriend. i lie just because it’s easier and i feel like it’s better for everyone. i get out of being uncomfortable and they can leave with their ego still intact. if it’s a friend, i’ll be straight up and tell them i’m not interested in them that way, but i stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:00 PM
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media and a few tinder studies has lead people to believe that most women have the same taste in men, when that’s just not true at all. everyone has different preferences and i believe theres a person for everyone because there’s literally 8 billion people on this earth. like you can’t possibly believe every woman wants a ceo with 8-pack abs, it’s just ridiculous 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:27 PM
1

pretty enough to leave my wallet at home <3 also, if that’s your metric of beauty, then i can’t imagine what the girls you date look like since you make them split the bill LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:34 AM
1

no, i’m just pretty and men want to spend their money on me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:23 AM
1

not like date rape happens or anything. i have literally heard of women being murdered by their date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:21 AM
1

it’s actually mind boggling how mad you are over paying for a meal for someone you supposedly like LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:12 AM
0

obviously the person would be interested in spending time with you, that’s how you got the date in the first place. why is paying for a meal such a big deal? i’m sure people getting their meals paid for aren’t living as miserable a life as the people who complain about paying $50 for a date on reddit. again, spending time with someone you’re interested in is priceless. it’s not gonna hurt you to do something nice for someone you could potentially date, my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:58 PM
0

do you even like women? spending time with someone you’re interested in is priceless. why do not want to treat the person you’re interested in? it’s a NICE thing to do. if you’re only doing things with the expectation of something tangible in return, you’re gonna lead a very miserable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:48 PM
1

sex is definitely not required for my happiness. if my life is borderline perfect, i doubt i’d be too stressed about being celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:24 PM
1

centering your life around getting sex and looking for relationships sounds miserable. there are so many great things in life besides putting your p in a v.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:20 PM
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