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Do you happen to know any resources that can help me with this endeavor?
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 02:56 PM
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I'm here because my dad's nagging about getting married recently and my not being interested in relationships at all has been really getting to me at an emotional level. Not to mention, he actually created an online dating account for me despite me saying no. Here is the website that actually allows relatives to make a dating account for a person with or without their consent. https://www.bharatmatrimony.com/ I really hate when he brings this subject up again and again, and I really did not know…
/r/MGTOW227/05/21 09:55 PM
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I don't recall ever mentioning that I obsess over women. In fact, I have never been in a relationship with a woman nor a man, and I am not interested at all in them. As far as getting over my small amount of fear saying no and standing up for myself, do you happen to know any resources that could help me with this? I would greatly appreciate it.
/r/MGTOW227/05/21 09:44 PM
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I want to be a MGTOW, but I also don't want to burn bridges for opportunities in case something goes wrong.
/r/MGTOW227/05/21 09:20 PM
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I don't think you understood what I was telling you. I was just saying that not everyone on this planet has the same mindset as you to be able to ignore what their parents are telling them because their mindset has been with them since childhood, and their parents pretty much held their hands all through childhood and made their decisions for them. Not to mention, parents get into much of a young adult's life in those cultures compared to others. Those children/young adults pretty much never if …
/r/MGTOW227/05/21 09:19 PM
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Not every person on Reddit (or this planet for that matter) had a similar upbringing and developed a similar mindset as you do. When I was a kid, I grew up very attached to my parents. They were parents who tried to get rid of as much conflict in my life as possible and I just blindly followed along with what they wanted me to do in life (up until my first degree-related job) since I felt bad for disagreeing with them. I typically avoided speaking up and getting into conflict because I was scare…
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 06:55 PM
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You don't own your parents anything Isn't that selfish considering all they have done for me?
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 05:58 PM
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Thanks. Evidence for a claim like that would be good.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 05:57 PM
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Is it true that it's hard to find a spouse at 30+? That's another thing they keep telling me.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 03:45 PM
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"By the way, I'm picking up a little undercurrent of concern in your father that you might not be self-supporting. It sounds like part of the reason he wants you to find a life partner is so she can take care of you, and he doesn't have to. I could be wrong, that's just my suspicion. If so, do your work to achieve financial independence from your parents. That should take some of the pressure off." You are correct. I am actually 27 at the time of this typing. This letter was sent to me a year ag…
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 03:44 PM
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"Also, point out that most wives are the prime source, not the solution, to men’s mental health issues these days." Are there any sources of evidence for that? If so, would you please link me to them?
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 03:43 PM
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What about "Who will help you out if something bad happens to you?" and "Who will help you out emotionally?" It would be cool if there was a list of FAQs from parents about being single and responses.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 03:38 PM
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Why do you say that? Isn't that selfish?
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 03:27 PM
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Indian :)
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 03:24 PM
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That video slightly helped. Where exactly would you recommend I go to find conflict?
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 03:01 AM
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Thanks but do you really need to sound so melodramatic?
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 02:58 AM
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I appreciate the feedback, but was it really necessary for you to sound so smug at the last part where you wrote “ Welcome to relationships, where oftentimes people have conflicts.”
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 02:57 AM
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Do you know any resources at the top of your head where they can help me know what to do specifically in various conflict situations? Going into conflict without knowing what to do is kind of like building a house without knowing what each tool does.
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 12:12 PM
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I'll be honest. The idea of conflict seriously makes me feel really uncomfortable to the point where I automatically cave in to whatever someone says or does without even thinking when they get slightly agitated. In other words, whenever someone gets frustrated I immediately have my rational thinking shut down and all I do is just agree with them and back down like a wimp. I really don't know how I can stop doing this. Can you offer any advice on what I can do?
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 02:14 AM
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I'll be honest. The idea of conflict seriously makes me feel really uncomfortable to the point where I automatically cave in to whatever someone says or does without even thinking when they get slightly agitated. In other words, whenever someone gets frustrated I immediately have my rational thinking shut down and all I do is just agree with them and back down like a wimp. I really don't know how I can stop doing this. Can you offer any advice on what I can do?
/r/MGTOW221/01/21 04:58 AM
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Would you say having a pet gives the same feelings as another human?
/r/MGTOW214/12/20 01:26 PM
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Apparently, on some websites like https://www.gujaratimatrimony.com/, it is acceptable for relatives to set-up dating profiles for someone else. I don't know the legality of it.
/r/MGTOW213/12/20 09:51 PM
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Thank you for that advice.
/r/MGTOW213/12/20 09:50 PM
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Apparently, on some websites like https://www.gujaratimatrimony.com/, it is acceptable for relatives to set-up dating profiles for someone else. I don't know the legality of it.
/r/MGTOW213/12/20 09:49 PM
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That's not funny.
/r/MGTOW213/12/20 09:48 PM
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How are you able to handle conflicts without feeling bad about standing up for yourself and what you want?
/r/MGTOW213/12/20 09:48 PM
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