vk059 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly? Great answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 11:20 PM
5	Fellas, is it discriminatory for women to experience attraction? Discuss I don't think I would enjoy an ugly woman hitting on me. I would probably feel uncomfortable tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 08:39 PM
–	AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Maybe it's due to the "un-naturalness" of it all	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 10:56 AM
7	Why do some women find it so much more difficult to orgasm than others? I think it's a sort of mechanism to select for the healthiest sperm	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 02:55 AM
5	Lots of the frustrations in the current dating world are from some men refusing to accept that most women are generally more valuable than most men Men are less valuable reproductively. More expendable and replaceable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 09:30 PM
0	Lots of the frustrations in the current dating world are from some men refusing to accept that most women are generally more valuable than most men Absolute truth nuke	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 09:25 PM
6	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Among my straight guy friends everyone is ridiculed and made fun of for literally everything they do. Insulted for being dumb, for being smart, for having interests, for having a girlfriend, for not having a girlfriend, for spending time with your girlfriend, for having hobbies, for being unmasculine, for working out, for minor trivial inconsequential differences in opinion. Nothing is off limits. But at the end of the day we know its just banter and all for fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 02:17 PM
6	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves I am a straight man who banters with his straight male friends. What do you mean by "men don't dare step out of line?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 01:50 PM
3	If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choice We don't work more than we did in the past. For the United States, average annual hours worked was ~2000 in 1950 and ~1800 in 2025.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 06:34 PM
2	If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choice I go to the bar as a single guy who isn't into hookups because its the easiest place to just "hang out." Sometimes you are just bored and want to talk to people and all your friends are busy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 06:22 PM
1	If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choice Good for you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 06:20 PM
1	If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choice True. But OP's post was about "getting women." You won't find your life partner at the club but if your only goal is "getting women" there is no better option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 05:48 PM
1	If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choice This is completely correct. Dating apps are ~worthless for the vast majority of men. If you are ugly/short you will look uglier and shorter at the club but everyone is drunk anyways and that boosts your charisma/charm 100x.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 05:35 PM
–	In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards. Oh no, I fully agree. I think that there are many, many factors that have conspired together to result in the situation we have in the west/developed countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 06:32 PM
–	In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards. I'm not saying there is no cultural element, just that "women have higher standards than men" lines up completely with biology. I guarantee you that African women have higher standards than African men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 06:18 PM
–	In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards. Yes, but what can you as an individual do to change that? You can either play the game or decide not to, but is their any sense in feeling indignant about it? How does that benefit yourself in any way? What I am trying to say is people need to control their emotions more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 06:02 PM
–	In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards. Like I said - there is nothing wrong with feeling frustrated, or pointing out unrealistic standards. But there is just no point in feeling outraged or wronged by someone's standards. If an average or below average woman has unrealistic standards she has a choice of lowering them or keeping them and most likely remaining single. It's her choice to make - what can be done about it? If she would rather remain single than settle that's her prerogative. You can believe that, if she was thinking ratio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:44 PM
–	In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards. No. That would be like being ashamed of practising a musical instrument when some people have perfect pitch and can play anything by ear. It is both irrational and unproductive to be ashamed about something genetic that is definitionally not within ones control	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:18 PM
–	In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards. Guys should try to increase their desirability in the range of whats possible. Appearance, personality, social skills, resources, etc. Going from a 4/10 to a 9/10 is just not possible for almost all guys, but going from a 4 to a 6 is. There is a genetic floor and some people are just unluckier and must put it much more work for the same result. Its "unfair" but that's just life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:13 PM
–	Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women. If men put as much effort into their appearance as women do, the average man would def be more desirable	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:06 PM
–	Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women. If your only source of human interaction was da club you'd think the average man was 6'2. It's wild out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:58 PM
–	Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women. When I talk to guys about what they find attractive nobody mentions makeup but I'm 99% sure its because they have no idea what no/little/heavy makeup even means. There is a reason why looksmaxxers put that stuff on. Makeup just makes people look better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:56 PM
–	Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women. Kinda. But at the same time I feel masculated(?) standing next to shorter men. So it's all a wash in the end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:48 PM
–	In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards. I don't think its about conditioning. From a biological perspective it makes perfect sense why women have high standards - they take on all of the risk of pregnancy, childbirth and child-rearing. Men aren't forced to contribute anything but a couple minutes of time and energy. Of course women have high standards and men don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:25 PM
–	In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards. It is pretty ridiculous to get mad about someone else preferences. Really, how could you possibly change how someone else feels (especially something as fundamental as attraction) in a way that isn't prohibitively time consuming and/or infringes on another person's person-hood. The best thing to do would be to move on. Nothing wrong with being frustrated or dissapointed but there is no sense in thinking that what they are doing is some sort of moral outrage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:22 PM
1	if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer I mean, a huge % of women are choosing to be voluntarily single - they are not looking for any kind of relationship. So a roughly similar % of men must also remain single, whether they want to or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 11:26 AM
2	Do men just want to be seen as attractive and nothing else? All men, most men, or some men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 09:47 PM
3	Do men just want to be seen as attractive and nothing else? No. I said "be" because men want to be in every kind of relationship more than women do. https://np.reddit.com/r/psychologyofsex/s/aYCzsTi7Ys	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 09:42 PM
3	Do men just want to be seen as attractive and nothing else? It all goes back to biology. Eggs are valuable, sperm is not. Men just have a much stronger desire to "be" with women than the reverse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 07:28 PM
18	Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man? Why are you so nihilistic towards marriage?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 07:20 AM
6	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Thanks. I was writing as a descriptivist, not a prescriptivist. I was attempting to get across, to the best of my ability, why people (specifically men) see the world this way. Instinctively, I am a liberal who believes humans should be allowed to do what they would like to do, provided it doesn't harm another person. But I am also someone who really rejects the idea of "you are not obligated to do anything for anyone." I think that there was a very good reason why humans created these social to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 12:51 AM
11	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Economics is the study of how humans allocate scarce resources. As animals and as living things, reproduction and the desire to pass down our DNA is baked into humans as our #2 priority after survival. Before the last century sex was not possible to separate from reproduction and even now men and women still largely act out their innate, biological reproductive strategies despite reproduction not needing to occur. While sex isn't a resource, babies are - it's not as if everyone who wants to repr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 12:17 AM
8	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Yes. It is pretty blatantly untrue and only really believable if you have no contact whatsoever with other people irl	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 08:38 PM
4	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. I am single, but I could very easily be in a relationship if I decided to be with a woman I wasn't attracted to. I really wish I could lie to myself and say that I don't care about looks but I can't. And this is coming from a guy who - maybe egotistically - believes he cares about personality more than looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:51 PM
13	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Completely agree. Most average or slightly below average men I know are perfectly capable of partnering with average women. Hypermasculinity is a requirement to have tons of hookups with attractive promiscuous omen who hang out at clubs, but that group is a minority. Most women are in monogamous long term relationships with men that they are similar to, or are single and not looking for any sort of relationship. It's this third group that is causing a rise in singleness among men - not the first…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:46 PM
4	Life as a woman in west is so much easier The greater male variability hypothesis!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:59 PM
5	Life as a woman in west is so much easier Men have a greater variance in life outcomes compared to women. Overrepresented at both the very top and bottom of society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 05:58 PM
1	“Would you love me if I was (sic) a worm?” is the single most valid concern/insecurity women have and men should be ashamed for mocking them over it At least this one is interesting and not annoying	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 01:49 PM
1	Many young men are viewed as blobs Well said	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 06:56 AM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 This is how I know it's my personality. Hot women match with me and I bore them away!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 10:58 PM
2	Many young men are viewed as blobs Yeah it's looking like in the future there will be a lot of involuntarily single men - roughly proportional with the number of voluntarily single women. The healthiest thing to do would be to accept it and focus on everything else that makes life great!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 10:38 PM
2	Many young men are viewed as blobs I agree in sentiment but you're being hyperbolic. I do think that a lot of guys need to get it into their skull that they are not competing with "chad." They are competing with her phone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 10:11 PM
2	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward This is what I have noticed on dating apps tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 04:34 PM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Not sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 01:14 PM
0	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 12:40 PM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Happy Canada day to you too! 🍁	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 07:29 PM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 🤗	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 07:23 PM
–	What movies would you like men to watch? Brother...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 02:12 PM
2	Most women have someone. No?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 10:32 AM
1	Q4A: If dating apps added conversation ratings, how do you think you'd score and how would this impact the experience of OLD? Smurfers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 08:26 PM
2	Women only feel anxious and unsafe because they have no survival instincts, and don’t learn until something bad happens. Not particularly relevant but women have a consistent lower mortality than men in every country in the world and at every stage of life (including in the womb - male foetuses have a migh higher rate of miscarriage). The most likely explanation is that there is something about the male body that leads itself to being worse at survival.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 01:36 AM
1	What do you mean by “social skills”? Most men are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 04:41 PM
–	If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate them It very early agricultural societies as little as 1/17 men reproduced. But that was very exceptional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 07:32 PM
–	If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate them In parts of the world where polygamy was commonplace powerful men frequently monopolized women. The issue is that it always leads to instability as polygamy is not a great deal for most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 05:27 PM
3	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Before modernity having children was almost a necessity because there was no support from the state if you didn't and children provided and economic gain by working on your farm. For the people who didn't or couldn't have children, monestaries and convents (and their equivalents in other cultures) existed to provide that family-like support. Now, with the welfare state support has been depersonalized. Regardless of whether or not you have kids, the state will still take care of you in illness or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 09:28 PM
–	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? And in modern Africa there are regions where 20-30% of men are polygamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 02:35 PM
2	What are men wanting in terms of dating? I am a single man who is happy and happy being single. What I would want in a partner is someone who loves and appreciates me for who I am as a man and as a person. That's basically it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 12:21 AM
1	Question for men: How many women did you approach in 2026? 20M, 1 - she offered to put her number into my phone but I was drunk and got distracted so I just didn't bring my phone out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 08:58 PM
19	Most women have someone. The truth is that men are just intrinsically less valuable than women are. Eggs are much more valuable than sperm is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 05:10 PM
7	Are young men THAT conservative? Few are genuinely conservative but few are "woke" either. I am friends with guys who are left wing and right wing and in terms of humour/personality they are all pretty much the same. None have the woke sensibilities that some young women have even if they are politically left wing or progressive.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/06/26 12:24 AM
–	What are your views on sex education in schools? I had basically no sex ed throughout elementary or high school. Most I can remember is being told to avoid STIs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 06:17 PM