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For a relationship...? Which has an element of pussy, but that might be 5 dates down the line...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:18 AM
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Never? I'm pressing x to doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:17 AM
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There's plenty of people who are good lovers, but don't like cold approaching. Those two are not the same skill set.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:11 AM
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Right. Like yeah what a stupid post from op. Of course only people who had it blow up in their face think its shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:13 AM
4

Yeah I would agree, but that sounds like a fun female friend as a dude too. I'm not wifing her that far down the list. But I'll definitely chill as friends and put my name on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:55 PM
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As a dude - I'm not waiting 2 months, but I do wait until at least the second time we hang to try to get it. I would rather know the person a bit, like can we actually talk, are you smarter than a coat rack, or do I just want to see your boobs? I'll do a hook up if I'm plastered still of course. I know, what a Saint, right? Line up ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:53 PM
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Its possible for men. But not all men for sure. Women fuck up not down, if everyone just fucked up and down, then it wouldn't matter. I'm not saying anyone SHOULD do anything, just saying the way it is, with social media, and women having options to skip less desirable people for more desirable ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:47 PM
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Not for me personally. Hugs are uncomfortable unless I feel close to the person. Best wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:25 AM
1

Yeah... Shaking hands is not intimate at all. Maybe hugging is a better example. Or kissing. I appreciate your opinion, but don't feel like most people are going to agree that putting a skin sausage full of mystery goo in them isn't intimate. Maybe I dont understand your definition of intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:53 AM
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Well, thats news to me I guess. Having an unknown dick in me would feel pretty damn intimate compared to small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:39 AM
4

Right. I get how it works. But having someone's pussy or dick in/on me feels more 'intimate' than having to have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:29 AM
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How is sex less intimate than hanging out together?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:18 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:09 AM
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Just an asshole. You saying I'm bitter, is you projecting. Thats on you fam, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:57 PM
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Less than 5 minutes doesn't hurt, but if you don't think your girl is beautiful the morning after without makeup, thats not a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:38 PM
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Big city. 1000000 times easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:23 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:22 PM
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The inability to format coherent sentences isn't a typo. Thats lack of mental capacity. And me being an asshole vs bitter are different. In this case I'm being an asshole. Being bitter is a buzzword used on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:20 PM
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"Never gonna use" it implies aversion. Aversion implies offense. Step one to step two. Your words not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:57 AM
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What word are you going to use? Awakened? Liberated? Sexually experienced? Promiscuous shouldn't be offensive imo. Slutty should. Thats negative. Promiscuous is pretty medical and non judgemental. It means sleeps around a lot, doesn't talk to partner quality, or anything. Its important to be able to distinguish between a person who has 0 experience and one who has hundreds, without writing a book. Promiscuous is a good word for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:03 AM
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Any word can be used in a negative connotation though. Thats not a problem of the word, thats an internalized reading of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:52 PM
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A happy divorce will be worse than a happy marriage for kids. But a happy divorce is better than a broken marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:43 PM
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That wasn't a typo, that was so retarded I couldn't even decipher it. Mad props you're even allowed to use a computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:39 PM
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I hope English isn't your first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:30 PM
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Women on this sub definitely deny that women never approach on this sub (or at least a few have to me), often saying well actually my friends approached (which probably means like 10 tines ever in their lives, between her 3 closest friends), and were successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:25 PM
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Pretty good writeup. 8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:23 PM
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Not quite. No biological rush for childbirth. Risk of defects go up much faster for women in their 30s than men in their 30s. Otherwise, I agree its just a cultural round number.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:36 PM
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Not a zero sum game. Winners and losers. Sometimes winners and winners. Sometimes losers and losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:06 PM
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Thats a complete non sequitur. Stay on topic, don't change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:58 PM
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Are you actually reading what people are saying? Or just trying to argue. He (assumed he) said women aren't choosing average men. It has nothing to do with men not being willing to settle, it has to do with them being ignored and overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:57 PM
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Women had less options. Meaning average was just that - average. Because they have 100s more options now because of online dating, they no longer have to settle for average, they date up. So men didn't have more options, they just weren't ignored as much. Also looks were less a centerpiece when you actually had to meet in person and could let your personality show, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:55 PM
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Right, I think if most people worked different jobs half these problems would be solved. The other half is actively looking for activities. In small towns that's really hard. And if your budget is small, its even harder. Just moved to a big city from a small town and its night and day the opportunity out here. I won't even touch online dating after I tried it before. It was countless rejection or ghosting. And was obviously just a plot to get men to pay for extra features (predation of peoples i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:24 AM
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The fantasy is that it requires no time and effort, and thats what they want. Which is half fantasy, half true, but I just met like a 5'7 Asian who's a cool dude and has bug eyes, and a average to below average frams, and he puts in next to 0 effort and still gets it - bartender though. So the fantasy can happen, but not for people complaining and doing nothing on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:34 PM
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I dont he was saying those traits make betas, he was saying those were the orlutcomes for the BB's or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:32 PM
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It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all - this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:31 PM
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Being good marriage material just sounds like - you're not a shitbag and have a good job. Like l, yeah, thanks Mom, love you too. If women find having to mother a mate so unattractive, why is referring to me as basically your father supposed to be a compliment to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:29 PM
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The change based on age is probably ly exclusive though. Dudes "fling vs settle" categories dont change based on the age of the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:24 PM
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They would never know. Weirdly girls at work have told me how much they make selling tit and feet pics, and I'm thinking.... why are you telling me this, again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:21 PM
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Makes no sense. Only makes sense if they forgo regular work and developing skills. Then yes, bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:57 AM
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Then go back to the op and tell them that. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:40 AM
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Ok. That sounds like black pill, not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:44 PM
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Genesis khan. Possible, not likely. You don't need to protect your kids if you have 100 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:35 PM
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You managed to avoid the question again. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:34 PM
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Explain how women... And go slowly here.... Need to PAY.... PAY PAY...PAY... for sex. You keep bringing up shit that has nothing to do with PAYING for sex, which is what your comment was about. Then you go off on non-sequiter tangents Stay on topic, and explain how women need to PAY for sex, which was your original comment about if they wanted attractive men they would PAY for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:48 PM
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I'm not sure you're reading what I said. Women don't need to pay for it. They have apps - bumble, tinder, etc. They could get it tomorrow from multiple people if they want. They don't need tonpay for it. I'm hungover too, but slow down and read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:41 PM
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Your comment was about if women wanted attractive men they would pay for it. I was illustrating why they would never need to. All this shit you put in your response has nothing to do with your comment I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:37 PM
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Status - see "sex symbol" - one of the greatest musicians of all time. Thats status bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:35 PM
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They do. Were not 100% monkeys. But we are still like 50% monkeys (not a statistically accurate number). Your monkey brain is still ij there making decisions for you instinctual, and it usually makes the FIRST decision, and your rational brain makes the second decision, or rationalizes your monkey brain. I dont know why I keep ending up with X for example. Of course not. Your rational brain isn't in control your monkey brain is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:34 PM
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Hair and makeup are key. Ill pass on the rest. But once we have been talking for a while I probably like you without makeup just as well, but first time meeting, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:32 PM
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No need. No scarcity. A woman can download any app they want and have 5 dates by tomorrow, even as a sub 5. Can't tell if your post was purposely disingenuous or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:29 PM
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Why don't you want to agree. Men can have 10 million babies, women can have far less. Being more selective about health maxing, but also resource and safety maxing makes way more sense bilogically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:28 PM
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If you're hiring, ill come on for only 300k. Its a bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:26 PM
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I think he was pointing out that you chose one of the all time most successful people on the planet, which trumps pretty much any other shitty quality. Very rich, very high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:07 PM
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This. Men are purses. The first thing they mention is what he does, or how tall he is. Thats whats actually important so they can show off and say "see, im valuable, because I got a traditionally valuable partner"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:06 PM
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TRP is good up to the get better and work on yourself part. Then it gets borderline anti woman and is shit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:54 PM
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L.S.P. Looks, Status (status is what money buys), Personality (intelligence is part of personality)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:52 PM
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Rich men were the center of attention. Its never been about being a man. Its been about being rich. The dude barely scraping by had no way out other than his labor, and even then it was almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:35 PM
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Sticky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:26 PM
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No thats bullshit. Men don't care if you approach. Women don't like it because its the only time they face rejection. There's 0 risk waiting to be approached vs introducing risk through approaching. Thats why your friends don't like it, not because they think they are going to be shamed. The shaming angle is a way to justify it. Women being slutshamed is a completely separate and unrelated issue from approach. I'm not bitter about that shit, but I dont lie about it. You legitimately think free m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:25 PM
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Never heard a person in real life ever say this shit. I think you're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:11 PM
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Noone says that in real life. And pointing out a reality, and that reality being offensive to you is your problem. It doesn't make it untrue. You went on a fucking tangent about shit I didnt say. I love women that approach, because its rare, and it means I was valuable to them. Simple question: A 5/10 man and a 5/10 woman both go out to the bar and dont do any approaches. Which one can get a date for "free" just for showing up? Only the woman. Be offended if you want, but reality won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:11 PM
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Agreed. On all points. 100k vs 150k are the same, your retirement fund just builds up faster, and you might get a better house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:05 PM
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I think its hot. I make good money as a controller, and recently talked to a woman who made stupid money doing sales. It was really nice to be able to go to nice dinners and us go back and forth on them, to go out to drink and go back and forth on it. I never minded. There were a few times when we went to expensive dinners (200 sushi place), and she paid. If I made like 40k that probably would have been uncomfortable to me, so I could see men feeling demasculated by a successful woman IF they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:02 PM
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Right, but just get a joint account instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:59 PM
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In real life, they say this to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:59 PM
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25% seems significant, ecspwcially when women complain about gender pay gaps at like 10%. But significant is relative, i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:58 PM
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This first paragraph is all bullshit. They didn't agree to get married, her stay ar home, them get a divorce and him lose half his stuff. Noone agrees to lose half their shit. What looney tools world are you living in. What happened is two attractive young people got married and didnt sign a prenuptial. She ended up being lazy and not wanting to work. She divorced him like 15 years before he even retired. What happens is the courts fuck over dudes in divorce court. The man cut his own firewood, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:57 PM
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Because men don't have to carry a child for 9 months, and we can have thousands of kids, so it doesn't matter as much, but being fit is attractive in women. Bikini models are more attractive than mcdonalds land whales.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:48 PM
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Free from effort. No need to approach, no need to chase, no need to plan the date, no need to pay for anything. No need to do anything except say yes or no. You can go to a bar and have a date tomorrow, you can sign up for a dating site and have a date tomorrow.. IE free
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:46 PM
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No idea. Never explicitly asked my uncle. But my sister has a guy who hasn't worked in 6 years, and she just doesn't want to end it. To be fair, the woman was very attractive even at 40 when I knew her, so I imagine she was probably gorgeous when younger. Same with my sisters long term bf, 6'3, doesn't work, but works out every single day, and eats beans and health foods only.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:23 AM
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Muscular health isn't hard. It equates to healthier babies, just like height, and intelligence. People don't want retarded dwarf babies. So they don't mate with retarded people, or dwarves. Money is good for the same reason. Better life for you and children. Why is this hard for people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:19 AM
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This is fucking gold. I cant wait for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:17 AM
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No. She didn't fucking work. If it was a fair deal I wouldn't bring it up. She played tennis. While he worked for a public school teaching special needs children, and ran the basketball program for the school. Revered in the community, she left him and got with some dude 10 years younger and still kept half his shit. Public school teacher sdont make much, that pension was most of all of what he was going to get for his hard work. But I guess her doing laundry and dishes for two people is the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:13 AM
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So i guess she maybe did laundry and dishes for two people... Sounds 50/50 to me. Any man who doesn't sign a prenuptial better never get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:11 AM
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I'm with you. Stay at home wife isn't a job, thats a lifestyke. Stay at home mom is basically a job. People need to not conflate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:06 AM
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Which direction. Men are dating higher income women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:03 AM
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Stay at home what? Wife? Doing laundry and dishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:03 AM
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I didnt say they didn't. I presented a mathematical approach to evaluate cost and benefit, and reallocate resources, that someone with a few excel classes and a basic education (the court systems) could apply rather than using an overly simplistic 50/50 approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:00 AM
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My uncle was a schoolteacher. They had no kids. When he got divorced at like 40 his ex-wife was entitled to half of his pension when he retired. They never had kids. How does that make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:58 AM
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So this is an innefficent process. Get a joint account. Fund the account 50/50 from individual accounts each month, to be limited to specific family categories. Adjust as neccesary. Why venmo eachother on each purchase. Thats a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:56 AM
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That should be in the prenuptial too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:54 AM
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Ah yes. Because women don't date up in terms of income...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:53 AM
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Perfect. Cost of rent, half of food, utilities etc. Then the competing wage for a similar worker in that market (maid, gardener, etc.) Times number of hours worked (less taxes). Then apply an inflation or return factor for previous work (7%, or cpi, or somewhere inbetween). Then maybe factor in theoreticals like half of the cost of home ownership being tax deductible, marriage tax credits, etc. This provides a rate of return and whoever comes out ahead or behind pays. This is mathematical and fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:50 AM
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Its common in texas (just moved here from the midwest). Out there you do your own housework, maintenance, and yardage. Out here you outsource everything. But that outsourced work isn't from a spouse, its in the form of cheaper labor. I agree with your point. I used to do my own laundry, im not asking anyone to do it. It shouldn't be assumed I couldn't do it on my own just cause you did it. It also shouldn't be assumed your career potential is the sake as mine. Take the market average for that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:44 AM
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Please call 911. Save me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:22 AM
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But they go out of their way to announce it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:50 PM
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Correlation is not causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:48 PM
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Well its men sleeping with subordinate women. So they use it for sex, because thats what men want from young women. In male relationships men threaten firing their subordinates to get money. Have you not been around the last 10 years, where older male hollywood producers were sexually abusing young women to get them movie parts. You're blissfully unaware this is happening all over. And im a dude with no love for hr departments, or the metoo movement. They are a waste of space most times. But you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:48 PM
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You provided example software incels and Jordan Peterson. Those are internet people. Ill give you 10-1 odds you aren't meeting incels in real life telling you any of this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:41 PM
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I just realized this was the same person I just replied to who was being toxic as hell. Yeah, I feel bad a bit, but this shit just insane man hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:37 PM
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Being tall doesn't get you a yacht lol. It might get you a promotion. Owning a business gets you a yacht.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:36 PM
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I feel like that has nothing to do with men abusing positions of power on people that are under 18. Unless your point was that you think men getting women under 18 interested in them so they can have sex after they graduate is ok. I'm 31, and my two most recent women I talked to were 23 and 42, I prefer women older without baggage, rare but much better. And 18 if we meet at a bar might be ok. Thats not the same as me being her manager at hooters, or her schoolteacher, and using my position of po…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:34 PM
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So people you will never meet in real life, just the internet. Who in real life is saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:58 PM
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I talked to my first bi girl recently and she definitely said similar things. Women were very emotional and she loved that, but way harder to deal with. (Which i selfishly thought. Hah, now you understand my frustration when I try to apologize 15 times and you won't accept any of them) For men she said they were simple (which if framed incorrectly could be insulting, but I knew what she meant), made her feel safe, and made her feel attractive. That still makes me feel like a caveman a bit thats …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:52 PM
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When did he say they did. I just reread his quote, maybe I missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:40 PM
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He's not. Your comments are antagonistic, and reek of contempt for men. You're just trying to argue. His replies are reasonable from what I've seen, and not antagonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:38 PM
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Based on your replies, im not sure i would classify you as 'an agreeable person'. But who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:37 PM
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You don't have to. Who tf is saying you have to do anything. It's a general concept he's presenting. Live in boat on the Mississippi River, its your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:35 PM
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A 30 year old man that looks decent IN A POSITION OF POWER, convincing young women to fuck them isn't novel or difficult Its so common, its basically cliche. Happens with managers in service industry jobs, teacher student relationships, boss/secretary, all the same concept. A child has thoughts sure (I notice you keep not mentioning they are a child), but the whole point is they aren't adults that know what they are doing yet, like a 30 year old man. This is textbook grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:30 PM
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It gets sketchy if they are priming children while they are underage so they can fuck them the day after their 18th birthday. The manipulation happened when they were children, the sex just happened after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:25 PM
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He should have been on a yacht because he was smart and tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:24 PM
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Yeah, the ability to be on boats for the genders follow opposite paths. As a boat captain (leader, initiater, salesmen selling boat rides), your ability to go on boat rides increases as you age, and buy bigger boats, and keep the boats clean. As a passenger on a boat (passive participation, customer, boat rider not captain) your ability to go on boats is always there. But the value from boating i think develops differently, since the challenge is much different. For example, as a 30y boat captai…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:18 PM
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I still don't think the primary function is to shame people. Its still rooted in self preservation in my mind. While it may not be 100% rational, I dont think its 100% irrational. Rarely in life, are things all black, or all white. Virgons are often imbalanced due to lack of experience, but on the flipside men and women with very high partner counts are often unstable too, and can't hold relationships, or are trying to mask pain. Maybe i just have an aversion to people that try to paint everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:53 PM
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You figured out my insecurities from one sentence? Move over dr. Phil. We have a new fake doctor in town.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:53 AM
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Yeah my sister tried to hook me up with her weird ugly friends all the time. I had to just tell her its insulting. I dont need a relationship like you do. I make 4x your salary, I dont give a fuck about dating like some people do. I have my success over here, if you think being a relationship is good for you over there, thats fine, im not an extrovert, and I dont really like getting nagged about dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:19 AM
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That should honestly be in the marriage contract. Never been married, but thats a hell of a bait and switch. I like contracts and numbers though. Surprisingly didnt start working until women hit their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:17 AM
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But thats not untrue. Maybe unfair, but not untrue. Women can get dates and sex for free. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:14 AM
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Its gross to you. Its not gross to them. I think language policing is pathetic and gross, as well. Most of the time women aren't used, agreed. Sometimes they are. Consensual is often at a bar, when drunk, and a no sober, becomes a yes drunk. Unsurprisingly, the people initiating and chasing aren't usually women, its men using alcohol to then pick up chicks. Women sometimes do this too, and I've had some really bad 3am choices. The line of that being consensual or not would easily be argued as no…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:38 AM
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Men aren't offended by those terms. Man spreading is one of the dumbest feminist overreaches ive ever heard. Noone cares about male tears except incels on the internet. Toxic masculinity is a buzz word used by feminists like nazi is used for everyone. Noone is offended by the word feminist. Feminism is a joke of a movement, just like men's rights groups are a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:33 AM
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Women will still like the town bike, men won't. For better or worse, standards are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:30 AM
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Fboys dont want virgins. Incels want virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:29 AM
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2-1 ratio isn't even close to what apps currently are l, isn't it like 10-1? Spitballing here. Could be way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:18 AM
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31M INTJ here (I think, I would have to check my saved tests to confirm). This sounds right to me - I have more options than I have ever had in my life right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:16 AM
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INTJ's unite!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:14 AM
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Try meetups if you're in a big city and have access.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:14 AM
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I also second this guys comment asking how many times. When you say you've approached, and known people are you talking once, or hundreds of approaches, or what? Curious what the other risks women can take that you mentioned, instead of the approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:11 AM
1

If you are doing it yourself sure. But if these guys aren't skanking it up, they can judge skankers without being hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:02 AM
0

Sounds like everything is a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:00 AM
0

Sure. Sounds hypocritical to me. Non sluutess, can still judge though. And sluttes can judge those not doing it. Everyone can judge anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:59 AM
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The aversion to women who fuck around alot is not fabricated. Its a response to avoid disease, and dedicating time to biological material that isn't yours (child). Its rooted in biology. It may not be rational today, bit the idea that it doesn't have a biological component is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:10 AM
1

Yes you can. You can judge anybody for anything, and be judged by anyone for anything. Judgement is healthy. Obsession is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:06 AM
3

This. Its people being mad they were not getting it, and it comes out as projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:05 AM
2

Case in point went out tonight and a gorgeous married woman and her mom were all over me and the dude I was with (6/10 looks 10/10 game). She didn't cheat but wanted attention from every dick that existed. Thats a beautiful woman problem. They need validation as they age (early to mid thirties).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:39 AM
2

Beautiful, tall. Rich, all advantages that reduce the amount of work you have to put in, in adolescence. Good short term, not useful long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:36 AM
2

Yeah, I think it depends on what they started with and what type they got. Theres a couple types is my understanding. The two people I knew had different feels. Definitely to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:00 PM
1

I've casually talked with two girls with implants, and I liked them. As long as they aren't balloons, they are still nice to play with and look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:37 PM
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Joke or no, I prefer attractive, but not "i have to worry about you getting hit on all the time" attractive. Thats not fun. And there's an inverse correlation between personality and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:48 PM
2

All or nothing. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:47 PM
1

Thats true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:52 AM
1

But does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:52 AM
1

Some are lying. Some aren't. Absolutes are almost never accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:50 AM
4

I prefer someone who spends time self-developing (learning to communicate)... ...Not learning how to attract women (learning to communicate). The mental gymnastics in this comment... don't learn to talk to people, just be naturally good at talking to people... yeah... because the ability to navigate social situations is a skill you are born with... right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:48 AM
1

Wanna have sex has worked for me before... Its environment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:46 AM
1

An honest idiot. I'll take an honest idiot, than a genius fake. Well, maybe I wouldnt...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:45 AM
4

I mean yes he does sound jaded. Thats not a counter to his not very good argument though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:42 AM
3

Always? Not a single thing? No language? Its all?... Sounds a little biased. There's no single community on the internet for useful info for men? You started with MOSTLY, then went off the deep end into just a 'I hate PUA' rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:41 AM
12

Be more emotional with me. Also: Don't talk about your self help journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:38 AM
2

Tingles aren't attraction. Thats lust. All lust is attraction. All attraction is not lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:19 PM
3

This is the correct answer and might be why their were no more responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:01 PM
8

Exactly. Loyalty is loyalty either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:45 AM
1

I didnt see you said it was someone else's line. I thought you were asserting this. Yes. Thats absolute delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:45 AM
1

Any guy that prefers women that shave is a pedo? So 75% (conservative) of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:33 AM
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Who takes the stance its ok one way but not the other? Thats textbook hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:30 AM
1

Pick a man with character with the potential to be successful, not someone that gets the tingles going.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:29 AM
1

How would i know that? And being fat makes your face look bad. Its not a healthy trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:26 AM
1

The morbidly obese dude? Yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:06 PM
1

You said the same thing he said. You said it seals the deal (implying it doesn't open the door). He says it opens the door, but doesn't seal the deal. But yeah. A) attractive. Dont look like an ass. B) average attractiveness. Have above average personality. C) not attractive/ugly. Be amazing person to compensate. Not saying thats right or wrong, but option A certainly seems easier, ecspwcially since you can always just fake it. The scales flip based on looks, and the effort is not even close. 90…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:05 PM
1

You're more interested if they are already in a committed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:52 PM
1

"Good people despite..." yes. Indont know them but that phrase may be accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:34 AM
1

Never cheated. Never flirted or texted with anyone while I was dating. Now I guess I can't 100% say I never flirted, but I certainly don't remember ever doing it, and I never consciously made any effort to branch swing , while in a relationship. I do t think men typically try to branch swing while dating. They try to cheat by fucking. Women try to cheat by branch swinging. An oversimplification, but yeah, I may get bored with someone and leave them, but I recently talked to a 42 year old million…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:46 PM
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Not neccesary, and you do t have to be the best for sure. But I would say leading in general for men is, while not universally attractive, attractive to most. Which makes sense biologically. It means you can make decisions, deal with stress, empathize with humans, make forward progress for goals, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:42 PM
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Be a leader outside of work instead toom. Sure maybe you aren't the boss of the company, but being the top painter, or whatever else, or even being in charge of a volunteer group would still be attractive I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:40 PM
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I mean knowing nothing else about this group of women, that doesn't sound like a group of people I would want to know after knowing this. In reality I would never find this out unless I dated them and they overshared, but yeeesh. I'm sorry girl, your areolas are too big. Leave now. Oh and I'm going to shame you and tell this to all my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:31 PM
1

I dont even consider it a kink if its not a real desire though. I dont know a good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:25 PM
1

I see. Makes sense if you study that a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:22 PM
1

Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:21 PM
2

I mean I guess my buckets were broad, but I agree with this whole list (other than not having any kinks, and size 8 since I dont know sizes) - like I assume a woman has a job for me to be interested, and maybe I should put that on there. And politics and religion are good ads. Kids is 50/50 i have no idea what I want there. Even this list sounds like 'be a decent human, who takes care of themself' vs the woman's list i remember from before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:20 PM
1

Ok. Very cryptic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:27 AM
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People certanlinly lie, and then pull 180's. That we can agree on. 5'4 and 6'2 aren't extreme. They are at the ends, but 6'2 and 5'6 are common, 5'4 might be a stretch except for some minorities. Interestingly 8 have never really heard of too tall being a problem until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:26 AM
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I never contended any 'need'. But sales people do tend to be very self aware of how they present themselves. What is the field. I didnt see an answer. Was i right? Because that would be a hell of a guess to get right. Otherwise I'm guessing its something athletic, bit that seems obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:19 AM
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Own it and list it then. If your looks threshold is first, you should list that before humor. It shouldn't be a disclaimer at the end. If humor is most important it goes first. If looks are, it goes first. You fucking the 5'4 fat funny guy, or the 6'2 fit bland guy. No judgement but at least be honest. Or neither. Thats valid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:16 AM
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Mom is a blood bond. When my girlfriend of 6 years left me at 24 for a mid 30's heart surgeon that wasn't classic hypergamy? Never beat her or cheated on her and moved to her city. Money talks. You not being hypergamous doesn't prove or disprove women in general aren't hypergamous. It just shows you don't think you are. Its very logical for women to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:13 AM
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This is like 80% of the population. Above 5'4 and not a dbag. Shit if the man is being fake its like 95%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:10 AM
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Shoulders are key. Skip arm day and hit shoulders bros. Im glad my genetics did one thing right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:08 AM
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Yes. What is pre-selected?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:03 AM
2

Don't bring up anime either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:02 AM
2

I would hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:01 AM
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While incredibly vague, It at least sounds honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:00 AM
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Jesus. My list for a woman. Don't be a bitch. Dont be super stupid. Be kind and attractive. Dont be a prude. Women's list be crazy as fuck. And this is the shared list. The real list SCARES TF OUTTA ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:59 AM
1

What field? Sales?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:56 AM
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Knowing percentage body fat is a discerning thing to note. Thats not a casual stat you throw around. Thats a very specific thing to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:56 AM
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Be tall, not fat, and don't talk. Women select out, not in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:53 AM
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Saying less to a woman seems a good strategy. Women select out, not in. They look for reasons to discredit you, not let you in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:52 AM
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I'm not sure you interpreted my comment the same way I wrote it. Unsure if thats my fault as the writer, or yours as the reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:50 AM
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Sure. That would make sense. I always assumed hetero.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:55 AM
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I dont believe a fruitful conversation can be had between the two of us. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:36 AM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:35 AM
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Maybe. I liked your story, and am glad something good came of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:10 AM
2

They are the gatekeeper for marriage, not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:57 AM
3

Lowkey roasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:56 AM
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If any dude thinks an open relationship is going to be the same for him as it is for her in terms of options he better be 4 steps above her because it won't be (if thats what he thinks and wants). She has 10x the options by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:52 AM
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And way overplayed. Its desperation, not a real kink most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:51 AM
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Yup. For some reason playing video games in your apartment doesn't work for meeting chick's. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:45 AM
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Shit even as a drunk patron the bartenders were into it once I saw them at a new bar. Theres a nono I guess about it happening at place of business. Which was inconvenient since I lived next door.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:15 PM
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Cause and effect. Men worry about the effect, the output. Women worry about the cause, the input. At least thats my vibe. Example: We get in a dumb fight about pudding pops. I just care about how to make things better and how to avoid pudding pop fights, but im not trying to figure out why it happened to begin with other than to prevent it. In my experience it seems like women can find a lot more reasons why the fight happened and thats more bothersome than the actual fight. But we can all agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:13 PM
0

I'm glad I finally got to meet the worlds greatest asshole. And I didnt even have to visit the worlds largest Ball of twine of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:50 PM
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Service industry jobs would solve 90% of these guys women issues. Its human interaction all day, and leads to getting laid when drinks after work are on the table every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:48 PM
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It counts, but it was different. Social media, and the internet fucked people over w8th human interaction. Also I suspect alot of people work deskjobs vs bar jobs, or other social jobs. I work from home. So I know unless i get hobbies I won't meet anyone (31m), I think other people struggle to accept or admit that. Just relocated to a bigger city and try to use meetup all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:47 PM
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I'm from the Midwest (just got here a few months ago). I know its unfair to judge, but I just find (Many but NOT ALL) new yorkers and la people incredibly condescending - a soft bigotry. Ecspecially those with great careers (I moved for work and am doing good) seem like they have no idea what 90% of america is like. Poor country people. Its not this insane woke BS from your big cities. Its poor people in small towns without a ton of opportunities, and the attitude of just learn to code, or just …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:43 PM
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Seems like a lot of repressed hate here coming out with passive aggressive emojis, but... porn definitely warped men's minds, and made them thing average is what ij reality is probably a 7. Shooting for 8's as a 5 with little experience isn't going to work. And complaining about it on reddit definitely wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:28 PM
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NYC and LA sound like the last two places I ever want to live. I'm in dallas and all the people who moved into Austin are from there, and it is insane the SJW BS in that city.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:25 PM
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I had to stop and laugh at -withering alone, hatewanking on the internet. Thats an amazing phrase I need to add to my memory bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:38 PM
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What medium did they use and in what time frame, recently, online, in person at bars, in person at group events? What field did they work in - social fields, or like programming etc. Legit think this could help people on here. Your profession is huge and if your profession isn't social having social hobbies is neccesary. Bars and the internet are more like luck imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:33 PM
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Second guy is most def below average. Glad he's getting the reps in, in that department
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:13 PM
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Alcohol. It happens at 3 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:17 AM
1

Great to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:10 AM
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You're leasing cars, not buying them. Buying one happens at 30. Throw some spit and polish on it, turn the odometer back, and mums the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:00 AM
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Div zero error!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:02 PM
2

Insert crazy hot matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:01 PM
2

I found my relocation from a small town to a very big city was very helpful once I got over the sticker shock. I have met more people being outgoing for a few months in a new city than I ever did in a small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:00 PM
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Right. And so if you have less (perceived) options it makes more sense to me. Which is where the danger of social media, and internet dating, and the false sense of abundance it creates would seem to make sense that we now have a completely different view of the world. People aren't even living in the same realities anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:59 PM
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I haven't studied TRP or that women wouldn't use sex to get things. I doubt humans wouldn't use things they have to get things they want though, whether tangible or intangible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:47 PM
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I'm certainly jaded by my own experience (long term gf of 6 years left at 24 for a 32 year old heart syrgeon- basically confirming hypergamy for me - as I've aged i realize nursing is specifically worse for hypergamy, they are shameless over there). I'm 31, own my own house, make 150k before investments and plenty of career progression abailable, 5'11 so not a midget, i work out most days, higher than average IQ, used to do comedy shows too so i have a personality, not an incel who can't go outs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:44 PM
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Most people don't get to 100. They get to 20 (these aren't related numbers,, this is a concept) and stop trying - thats what incels are. Women will get asked 100 times still by the same group of guys I have no idea how to Guage men's level of interest in women they like, but certainly lowering your standards makes the risk of rejection lower, thats basically the concept of settling, which is perfectly viable for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:29 PM
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Yeah. People arguing on this sub is a very good use of energy. Glad you need that, glad I could provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:10 PM
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Ok man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:05 AM
1

Sounds like you want to answer your own questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:52 AM
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Seems like you are trying to compare the poor to patriarchal oppression of women. Was that the intent?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:45 AM
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Very few people want to be valued by noone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:44 AM
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Maybe jealousy. I'm sure that's there. Your comment makes it seem like thats all it could possibly be. Non-equal power dynamic situation that are repeated over and over (casual sex with smv partners lower than yourself), seem exploitative in nature. That is different than 10s hooking up with 10s. Bit if 10s are hooking up with 6s and 7s they are probably using them then setting them aside. As a general rule, I dont think I would trust a sample from this group vs a sample from the general populat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:41 AM
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Men want to feel valued, just like women. Its not about paying for sex. And even more with men they don't form these other relationships that women do. A close relationship with a partner might be the only vulnerable space some guys have. I'm not in that camp, but when let's say CHAD gets to fuck up and down the block he is validated, and the women are validated. The other guys were told they were not good enough (its not about the sex, its about what it means), and so they get mad and find ways…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:34 AM
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Fucking std's, it being illegal, and not wanting to have a shallow fuck with a gas station cum dumpster. What a stupid comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:25 AM
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Social media is the worst thing that happened to any of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:10 AM
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Advocate for long term relationships earlier in life (vs waiting until 30 to mature and then quickly marry a less attractive but kinder more stable man), which shifts the priorities from physical attractiveness to long term success and moral character. That means people will settle down and pair bond in their twenties vs club hopping and then dudes just opting out of the game and women wondering why A) their expectations cant be met, because they were dating up in looks B) men aren't unrealistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:09 AM
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Agreed, other than it does seem like it will be a problem if left unchecked. Just like wealth inequality becomes a problem if left unchecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:02 AM
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Shots fired. The patriarchy will be used for the next 100 years as an excuse. 300.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:01 AM
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So when they hit 30 and complain about not being able to find a good man, even though they had plenty of casual flings and opportunities with attractive high value but low moral fiber men in their twenties? You mean like that? They complain too. Just 10-20 years after.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:00 AM
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Its not strange. It made total sense when we used clubs and spears. Qere not monogamous by nature, there's no risk like there used to be, so monkey brain can do whatever it wants. That benefits women much more, which is what it is. The dishonesty of bad partner selection early and then 'maturing' later is startling though. Just admit you're a monkey like dudes are, and you make bad decisions like we do. Don't complain when you hit 30, and dudes you either need to hit the sym or go to church. Lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:58 AM
3

Cough divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:55 AM
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Its just basic power dynamics. Giant men use their size to intimidate people. Women use their sec appeal to get resources. Charismatic people will use their ability to manipulate people to... manipulate people. Nothing is going to change that baseline, unless the value somehow changes. Trp is on the right track, but would require everyone to participate. Which won't make sense, because if you're a guy that's already living life on easy mode in terms of sex you're not giving that up, because that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:50 AM
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Democrats don't want to... O right. White men are evil. I almost forgot, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:46 AM
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Right. Like the male peasants of the middle ages were out there oppressing women, in between working 16 hour days, while they give away 75% of everything they own, and try not to die early. Fucking patriarchy over here, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:44 AM
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Lots of people who have casual sex have it to stave off depression and loneliness. Having sex doesn't just make you not lonely or depressed. Just like having money doesn't make you happy. Lack of things like sex, money, etc. can make people unhappy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:41 AM
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Being told no 100 times vs telling 100 other people no have very different effects on your physchi. Both genders can only do the same if both genders play the same game. Dudes bitching about it being unfair, and women lying about the strategies for both genders being the same are both problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:39 AM
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They don't use the word CHAD or hypergamy in real life. They use jocks, dbags, rich, etc instead. Half projection, half real. Stereotypes exist for a reason. Its not all made up on reddit. Overblown, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:35 AM
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I dont blame either. I point out if you have the same results over and over its probably not all the other people. You are probably overlooking bad traits over and over. If you end up with varied results thats how a natural sample selection works. Same results mean same input (selection criteria). Dudes were dbags. Woman asked for it. But if you asked for it, don't complain about it afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:50 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:35 AM
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Probably less happy in general due to social media not mating, just IMHO. Men are addicted to sports and video games, but comparing themselves on social media? I dont really think thats a male problem like it is for women. And comparing yourself on the internet seems like a recipe for unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:18 PM
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Examples!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:15 PM
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So my understanding of Redhill is those dudes are still getting laid, and will still date, but won't deal with any BS, they are just being assholes. Mgtow will probably do a hookup, but won't date. Incels can't get any. I think they are very different. But I recognize your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:59 PM
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Those are 3 different things. True Redhill is a real choice. Incel is not (its in the definition) Mgtow is somewhere in between. The question is either ill informed or disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:02 PM
1

Aight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:47 PM
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This sub is unhealthy, and makes me want to delete reddit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:46 PM
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I think it was sound advice too. I like her, she was a super successful career oriented woman in sales. But yeah... sales dudes are (often) dbags who are good at lying to people. They get paid to do it for a living. High prevelance of narcisstic, psychopathic behavior in that field. Along with surgeons, ceos, etc. (And I say that as someone in finance trying to roll into the ceo cfo or real estate development track who has never cheated) Welcome to reality girl. Your friends should have been hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:33 PM
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Obesity is not in style. Having a fat ass is. Let's not get the two twisted. I dont even know what a size 12 is, but a but of extra weight is fine if its going to right places.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:28 PM
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When this girl talked about every boyfriend she ever had cheated on her, it was a dick move but I said, then why do you always fuck cheaters? They aren't that hard to spot. Needless to say that didn't go well. But that to me is accountability, if either sex keeps making the mistake, thats a personal problem of choice at some point, not that every guy or girl is bad. Peoppe choose the same bad archetypes over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:23 PM
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For real. Girls i talk to want to share too much, not lie about it. Like girl, why you telling me you cheated on your ex or that they cheated on you. I'm all for emotions, but I dont really care, want to be your therapist, or want to know about your lack of fidelity. Tell your guys. I dont feel like most girls I deal with are lying about their past, if anything I feel like they overshare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:20 PM
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Right. It implies value and flexibility with one partner vs another. Now is that illogical, probably. Is being mad because someone didn't match their socks illogical - yes. Ladies still get mad about it (in general). But if someone feels they are being treated as less valuable when they hear about someone's ex and how they were more open and adventurous with them (threesomes, etc.) It can certainly hit someone's ego. Pretending men have no right to have an emotional response doesn't feel fair to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:21 AM
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Are threesomes just falling off trucks and I dont know about it. Got a link for that I need to know about? I feel like threesomes happen from a dude pressuring a girl. Now this dude (assuming) has a super cringe trash post. But the hot take that threesomes are just available in single life seems unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:08 AM
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No idea. I moved across the country so I'm pretty much starting my friend circle over. My old groups, were Fraternity, military, and work basically, and it seems like most people were either way to the left of the curve or way to the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:31 AM
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At 31 my n is about 15 and that feels super low to me. Most of those were ONS. I was also in a fraternity and in a ltr all through college though so I saw a lot of hookups, but didn't participate in a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:25 AM
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Haha, waiting for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:21 AM
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Its not the same judgement though. Constant access and restriction of urges, vs non constant access and a requirement to actively seek it out. A high n count (whatever that is) is a red flag either way, but for slightly different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:19 AM
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2nd'd. Rest was good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:52 AM
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This is very common for nursing girls. I know noone wants to admit it, but nursing girls I knew (dated one for 6 years) talked very openly about just trying to marry a doctor and be stay at home houswives/trophy wives. Maybe 30-40%. Coincidently my ex left me for a heart surgeon at 22, despite me being her first partner. I think nursing is an outlier though. Most fields aren't that crazy hypergamous for women. But nursing. Yeah. Alot of them are straight shameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:45 AM
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I mean, thats not surprising. Not because I think worse of women, but there's a hell of alot more opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:49 AM
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I have no argument and ill go. Have a great one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:45 PM
1

Ok babe. You do you. I'm not reading all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:43 PM
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You're throwing out buzzwords like "Oppression Olympics" because thats how you're used to arguing. And then you also said I'm biased. Like no duh, Sherlock, so are you. Introspection, bruv, try it some time. I repeatedly said dudes need to get over it. But you want to reject that its a reality altogether (thats fantasy), and pretend its just dudes whining. Women have it harder in many ways, I agree. In this particular area (rejection, and lack of social validation), you are full of shit if you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:19 PM
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I will. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:08 PM
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I dont disagree its a weak mentality. It is something men and women need to work to get over, but denying the imbalance is denying the reality of many guys. Women don't experience rejection even a tenth of the same level as average men. Thats horseshit. If an average woman wants to be validated she can create a profile or go to the bar and be validated without taking any risk of rejection. Thats not a fair comparison, as their is no outlet for that for an average guy who is going to get shot dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:08 PM
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Your inference is based on your view of the world. You see what you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:59 PM
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Ok. Sounds great. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:58 PM
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Its not that hard to talk to everyone instead of trying to attack one person. I know some women and men on here just come to fight though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:20 PM
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I was, I dont thinkni understood your comment. Sounds like you were saying i was a simp commenting on peoples profiles or something. Which I've never done, I deleted Facebook 2 years ago. I use Twitter reddit and snapchat, thats all for social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:19 PM
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What are you talking about? I think you have me confused with someone else. Or dementia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:06 PM
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He might be socially awkward. People have panic attacks just from public speaking or going outside. So if people get that nervous just from talking in front of people and feeling judged, some of those people would be devastated based on rejection. Not saying thats good, but it might not have anything to do with looks. It could just be a learned behavior from being shot down before, or extreme social anxiety, etc. I think women underestimate the difference in attitude being chased and socially va…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:05 PM
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Ok. Fair enough my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:51 PM
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I think you're used to arguing with people on here and assuming everyone is bitching about being an incel. I'm not talking about me. I was actually talking about the other dude. Its 7 in the morning and i dont have the energy to argue with some snarky internet comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:50 PM
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I cant tell if you are just arguing on purpose or not. Women don't chase because they don't have too, it has nothing to do with standards. But im sure my original explanation was an oversplikplification like everything on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:45 AM
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8P Jan 25th 2024 expiry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:42 AM
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Thats probably true. The lower you go, the more even the distribution i would assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:41 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:40 AM
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The guy wasn't saying he wanted to orde sex like it was a pizza. He was saying he didn't want to get rejected 10x as much as this other dude, because of what I assume were physical characteristics he was born with. While the girls he like hooked up with and dated dudes who were pretty obviously non commital dudes just looking for sex, only to say he can get a chance after she is done with her party phase. (IE blatantly shitting on his current value, so he can get a consolation prize later) I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:39 AM
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I for one never look at attractive women and fantasize about them. Disgusting womans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:32 AM
1

Genfhis khan?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:31 AM
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Its 90/10 bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:28 AM
1

Right. Some people give no shits. Some people give a shit but its not a deal breaker. Some people its a deal breaker. The gray area is the dangerous area.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:21 AM
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Unless he doesn't want that...?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:14 AM
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Everybody should be able to do what they want and not be shamed for it. But I get the statistic discrepancy. Chasing and putting yourself at risk of rejection is much more difficult than saying yes or no. So I dont think it should be celebrated, and as a dude i dont like first night full hookups, and would rather wait at least for a first date unless I'm sloshed, but I've definitely felt the pressure to lie and say I've slept with more women than I have (i just round up all the ones where I coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:13 AM
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Right. Dudes are finally starting to get options in their late 20's they never had before. You have attractive women down to 20 (if you just want dumb and pretty), or up to 40 if your interested in someone with a brain. As long as you didn't fuck up your career late 20's early 30's is the best time imo for a dude. Why give that up when you finally have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:06 AM
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Nah, just delete your profile and lie about it. Super easy. Barely an inconvenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:02 AM
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I mean, if YOURE the obvious catch in the relationship, or whatever else, I dont see how it wouldn't be easier. Whoever likes the other one less has the power. Not saying thats a great way to look at life, but it checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:01 AM
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There's a difference between having posters up of cat girls, vs watching DragonBall z or something. Some dudes who watch anime are super fucking weird though. Thats like saying someone who watches horror is off limits. Watching horror doesn't make you a serial killer. For example, I watch basic animes on Netflix, like one piece, horror, and thriller, and some Korean stuff is honestly great, weird but great. That being said I have agrrat career, can go be social with almost any group but valley g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:04 PM
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Yeah that would have been a better response. My ick list is people who fucking have an ick list.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:42 PM
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Reread his comment. He very specifically said NOT successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:35 PM
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What about ASMR shit, people are attracted to that, and there's no person involved. Or what about sex hotlines, etc. That has to be a turn on to something non physical. I guess its not attraction to a person, its attraction to an idea of a person...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:34 PM
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Much much much much*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:26 PM
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Disagree on intelligence. Unless I'm drunk. I cant deal with trying to hook up with a dumb woman... maybe if she doesn't talk at all, and leave right afterwards, but my God, a dumb woman, or a social media addict is so unbelievably unattractive. Then again, that limits approach, but I guess if she cake over and said, can we go to back to your place and fuck, I would probably still say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:24 PM
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A girl at my complex was hanging out with me the other day and said do you have an ick list. I was like wtf is that. Like food I dont like? She said, no an ick list of things that are automatic deal breakers, like watching anime... and I was like, wow, thats the most retarded thing I have ever heard of. Apparantly she and her friends all have that dumb shit. I was like, well being ugly, stupid, or mean, I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:19 PM
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List please
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:12 AM
0

Embrace the ugly. Ironic, but... probably the best option, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:11 AM
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I mean wouldn't that apply to money, and anything really. There's a difference between nothing in the bank vs 100k, vs 1M, vs 10M, vs bezos, but it diminishes. Just like artistic/athletic skill, wee wee length, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:36 PM
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I would say being tall, then money. But thats just nitpicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:49 AM
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Yeah i get it. People have different things they care about. No worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:34 AM
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Yeah I got into very light public stuff with another couple, and that was fun, but it was places like the library, or on top of the bleachers behind the call box, on the field, etc. In the public bathroom just grosses me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:31 AM
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Thats not your significant other. I'm not kink shaming people. But drunk hookups are different than talking to your girl or boyfriend and saying, let's go fuck in a dirty bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:16 AM
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Yeah, I had a competition with another couple for a while, but publix bathroom, ecspecially at a bar never made the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:45 PM
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In what world would you want to fuck in a dirty toilet if you're already in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:53 PM
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So much projection in this comment. Dude never said men were better, and didn't isolate differences to physical strength at all. That is only one difference. Differences in behavior are differences of the mind, not differences of strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:59 PM
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Welcome to human interaction. I've had women nag me about not putting down the toilet seat. I didnt make up a social movement and call it womensplaining. People suck, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:33 PM
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👌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:07 PM
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I dont know. I just explained what my sister said. White men designed seatbelts for white men, not women, so it doesn't take into account their smaller necks or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:06 PM
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Idk. Apparabtky because engineers are male they don't think about women, and so they get whiplash more often because of something. It turned into, well all us presidents are white males and engineering is exist, and wasn't a productive conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:33 PM
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I never made that argument that it was. That was a different guy. Please don't associate me with arguments I never made. All I said is mansplaining isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:47 PM
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Blue collar men harassing the other people they work with. That unheard of, and unacceptable, and certainly not something guys do all the time to eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:46 PM
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My sister said seatbelt design to ke yesterday. Seat belt design is sexist...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:53 PM
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Actually there have been years of systemic oppression in underwater welding, oil rig working, and alaskan fishing. Women are applying 10x more than men. But the evil men are stopping them from getting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:52 PM
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Mansplaining isn't a thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:50 PM
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Men are treated as rape threats, and women are treated as overemotional,m. Those stereotypes aren't baseless. They happened because thats what happened over the years, and were proven true. It has good and bad elements.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:34 PM
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Got eeem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:30 PM
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I'm going to press x on this. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:12 PM
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I work in accounting. One guy forgot to pay our real estate taxes on a property for a year. Another was in AP and got a new job as we were starting the process with her, and decided to shit talk the company at work, so we escorted her out and let that be her last day. Another guy didn't make it past the first 90. He just wasn't picking it up. My current firing is also because they don't understand anything, because whoever hired her was too nice, and everyone just ignored that she wasn't qualifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:55 AM
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I've fired 4 people for being lazy, or not competent enough, and am mid process on another. Many more left on their own, but no downsizes. I would question whether those people were made redundant or were fired, and just lie to save their own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:53 AM
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You didn't use the word conjecture incorrectly in this reply I dont think he will understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 01:47 PM
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I'm 30 and definitely look my best. Now thats from starting exercising daily. And working from home so I dont go to the bar, my bank also got fat from working from home, and getting promoted. I fucking love rona, other than the crippling loneliness, depression, and self imposed house arrest. Yeah, but otherwise... Sobs....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 05:30 PM
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Nah dude. Men age well, women have it much rougher.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:03 AM
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You can be a nice guy without being a 'nice guy'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 02:19 AM
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Is Good person, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:08 AM
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People say (about themselvez) "I'm a nice person" all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:04 AM
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Funny post. Women love all types, with all chiseled jaw faceshots, and one fat guy. Assuming satire. No idea on this insane sub though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:46 PM
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Ok no worries. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:00 AM
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Not a pleasurable usage, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:19 AM
1

Maybe 3:1 if you count fake accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:53 PM
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This is pretty common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:45 AM
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Right, I've had girls talk about all kinds of shit that 'I'm like, ok thats a clue, no problem, I get it, just friends' but really its just nervous talk about shit. Or not talking to me at all, then telling me they had a crush on me... uh ok. Or women that are conplete and total flirts all the time, but just for attention and validation. Or a series, of 'not now, not tonight's, but secretly i meant yes by the end of the night.' Signals vary by individual, situation, attraction level etc. These p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:39 AM
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most guys dont Speaking in absolutes is dangerous. There's plenty of horror stories, but they still represent the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:31 AM
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The op knew it was a false equivalence when they posted this. It was intended that way. I would hope everyone knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:51 PM
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...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:50 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:39 PM
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Whats the site
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:42 PM
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I see nothing insightful with a post stating "The mental gymnastics" with three elipses. No explanation of the supposed concept was presented, this was a simple way to post a catchphrase that is vague enough supporters of that general segmented side of the thread could agree without having to say anything substantiation. Basically this is Make America Great Again for blue pillers. Or it at least looks that way. However, when you say you were clear... Very clear, comprehensive, and transparent th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:35 PM
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What? I know you're not the op I replied to, but adding passive aggressive elipses and nonsubstantitive isn't woke. You're not woke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:47 AM
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Didn't he start the movie by offering to paint her naked. Knowing full well she was engaged. Its been years since I watched that and only once, so my memory may be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:11 AM
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How did you get from his comment that he was bitter? Seems like projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:23 PM
1

Ty, ill take a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:46 PM
1

Can i see the stats please
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:19 PM
1

I would say 50% of men have no partner and want one, or are unhappy with their current one, or settled and just don't care anymore. That statistic doesn't seem unreasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:31 PM
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I assume because they want sex but not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:58 AM
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This might also be cultural. For instance if i take a woman on a date and am not dating her, the way I was raised, that is exclusive. I have never tried to date multiple women at once. It just doesn't 'feel' right. If I feel a 'multiple suitors' vibe, or hear a comment, thats a big red flag for compatibility for me. Getting drunk and fucking, or whatevs is chill, but taking someone out and trying to talk and learn about them is different to me somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:27 AM
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The green party
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:21 AM
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I (no kids) assume they think it is a double standard since women can choose to abort or kill the kid where they can't choose that. Idk. One area I dont want to explore personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:18 AM
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Its bad but yes. I will casually talk to a girl, but as soon as dating comes up thats a hard pass. Committing for me means taking care of the woman as a provider, and that means her kid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:10 AM
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I dont understand your sentence structure. My entire point is that (oftentimes) 'no' does not actually mean no with women. Without scrolling back and checking i believe you made a statement of no means no as an absolute, which when talking to women is cancer. Nothing they say is what they actually mean. Sometimes no really means fuck no, and sometimes it means i want to fuck you right now, but i want you to prove your value first. If a man says no thats real, when a woman says it, context and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:05 AM
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No i was pushing past a no, because I knew it wasn't a real no, it was a 'you didn't earn a yes yet. The no means no is horseshit, women do not say what they really mean with their mouths, but use non verbal signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:08 PM
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Yes, but the yes started as a no. By the end of the date its a yes, a playful no by feminist standards is still a no, which becomes maybe, then yes. But ofteb starts as no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:20 PM
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Yes. Women say no, then say yes later. It called courting. Being coy, etc. Must be a societal construct, women have never been known to 'not say what they mean'... and a woman has never said no at the beginning of the night, and then said yes and been excited about it later. Have fun in your fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:13 PM
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Yeah, definitely know girls who will say no the first time and mean 'yes, but I dont want to be labeled easy'. I'm not waiting for all of societal standards to change, or changing my preferences to sexually open women. Shy women sometimes want dat booty, but don't want to outright say it. The whole 'a single no is a stopping point thing' sounds good on paper, but the dudes who are problems don't give a shit about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:29 PM
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A single no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:40 AM
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I'm assuming fanfiction is supposed to be insulting? I'm not sure what an analogy would ever be considered other than a source of fiction. You are free to read or not read whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 12:57 AM
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You have a group of employees starting at a job for a firm, they will work directly for the owner. One person puts a bunch of time (labor) into increasing his sales productivity. That person is put through a training and vetting process along with other candidates. He may or may not get the job. He knows the owner is a big fan of golf, and is interested in playing with him, but is focused on the job, because he was always taught to be a proper employee and it will pay off. This was poor advice, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:26 PM
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This is hilarious. Exactly what I was thinking. Is thebodometer just going to be hidden for the rest of the life of the car, or eventually does it come up. I would strike the damage part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:54 PM
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And some people do. Whats crazy about this sub is all the people who think it does matter try to explain that (some logical, some just bitterly), and then the response is always 'well why should it matter.' Maybe it doesn't matter to you (Many times an ex-promiscous female), but im not sure how people think they can define other peoples thought patterns. It this constant fucking I didnt get laid alot and want someone who values me by not having fucked alot before vs. I used to fuck alot but now …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:52 PM
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I would say dings and scratches are allowable, the rest is kind of overboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:42 PM
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A long term investment even
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:39 PM
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No disagreement there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:33 PM
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Kind of the point I was failing to make very well. Dates are much cheaper because you have to impress them and pay, part of the exchange is personality, not finances alone. I think of that much more with girlfriends that like expensive concerts and always put out during or afterwards. That feels more analogous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:39 PM
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I would like to know where I can get a prostitute that looks like the girls I'm paying 10 bucks for a 5 guys meal with. Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 01:42 AM
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No, I understand why everyone thinks that. Bad comment in hindsight. But I meant the damage from that ends up being carried forward from victims of abuse, which could be a big red flag, like single motherhood. The 23 year old is a warning sign because he's a fucking child rapist/pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 02:49 PM
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Yes, and many people carry their past trauma into new situations. Hence... warning sign... not value assessment...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 02:38 PM
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I didnt blame anyone. Reading comprehension, genius. I said its a ⚠️ warning ⚠️ sign. IE many people will bring issues from past trauma into current relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 02:27 PM
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Personally both are warning signs to me. But thats just if I knew nothing else about either person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 02:51 AM
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I believe I said "it effictively would be". That they were equivocal in all but name. No need for the passive aggressive 'again'. You don't seem to understand my premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 11:43 PM
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Definition of privilege (Entry 1 of 2) : a right or immunity granted as a peculiar benefit, advantage, or favor : PREROGATIVE especially : such a right or immunity attached specifically to a position or an office privilege verb privileged; privileging Definition of privilege (Entry 2 of 2) transitive verb 1: to grant a privilege to 2: to accord a higher value or superior position to It is not a right or immunity. It is not granted in any way. It is not a perception or blue or a superior position…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 10:43 PM
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If it is a mandate it is not the hiring managers choice. The hiring manager would then not be selecting based on merit, they would be selecting based on the mandate. I make no claim a company cannot make that choice. But it then is not a merit based selection, it is an equality of outcome decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 10:28 PM
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Yes, if the merit is based on race, gender, height, or anything non performance related (IE to bring about equality in outcome vs equality in merit), that is what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:11 PM
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Scholarships... I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:29 PM
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I think the bitterness all stems from non selection bias in adolescence. Formative years. Alot 9f bitter people would be way different if they had different relationships when younger, and so they carry those thoughts into every relationship, and then onto the internet, where anonymity is provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:23 PM
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All white men are bond villains obviously. The ceo's at the top, the middle class family man accountants, the poor blue collar workers, and the criminals, and drug addicts. I know I regularly meet with the poor white heroin addicts and our CEO's at our biweekly white guy meetings. We talked about how we haven't been oppressing Asians enough last week, working on a plan currently. /s for the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:21 PM
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I think everyone, men and women alike, need to look up the difference of privelege. This is not a privelege, its a biological difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:16 PM
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*Worrying about the possibility of being raped Every street isn't a rape street. Its a serious concern, but your phrasing could be changed. You don't just get raped, everyone isnt out there just getting raped. Thats what your tone and sentence implies. Still it is very serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:15 PM
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Yeah, the genetics argument was stupid from that dude. Thats a benefit, not a privelege. Just like being stronger or faster as a male isn't a privelege, its a benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:13 PM
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"Special programs for getting women into STEM It’s a privilege that we need these programmes because women are at large not taken seriously in these programmes? Or hired, or even encouraged to pursue." This is one of the dumbest comments I have heard. Getting money for free is a privilege, stop pretending its not. Refute the real terrible claims. At this point its easy to see you will argue against anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:01 PM
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It effectively would be though, or else the quota wouldn't be neccesary. Unless there is inhetent hiring bias. More likely it is that less women go into certain fields, so the pool is smaller, and the higher quality candidates are picked out first. The difference being that since men are more represented there are in aggregate a bigger pool to draw from before moving down in quality. Any quota for men or women will have the same effect. It will move from the most qualified candidate to the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 04:59 PM
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Like late term abortion! Dealbreaker for me. Fucking killing babies, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:09 PM
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Shy and introverted. Duh. Thats the problem. Then you went into phtsique and style. Thats a hard miss. Being less bold is 90% of the problem. But yes there are more aggressive narcists, than shy ones. The pool has more assholes, but 75% of them are great actual people. Super fail post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:07 PM
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Causation vs correlation. I'm not sure if this is a real post or a troll, but if this is a real post, please research the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:49 PM
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Yeah, doing your hair is fake. I still do it. But i aint out buying men's jewelry, or doing facial exercises. If you want to be a boss, and be respected, feared, or love then do it. Dobt do this poser shit. Make money, advance your career, be in charge of everyone, and show up in sweatpants while other people are showing up in dress shirts. Who looks more powerful, the dude in the full suit in a cubicle, or his boss wearing sweatpants, coming in when he wants, doing what he wants. Power is going…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:35 PM
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Excercise, and skincare are real. Posture from a health perspective is real, but be powerful, dont act powerful. Doing facial exercises, shaving your body hair and whitening your teeth to please others, that dont provide any health benefits, and are intended only to influence other peoples opinions are def fake. Buying a watch, yeah... watches are useless now, that's all show. Everything isnt fake as you say, but half your list is. Just fucking make money, eat better, workout, and take care of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:18 PM
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Being fake sounds like a full time job. I'll just try to make more money instead. Worst case I have extra cash, best case bbn inhale extra cash plus all the other benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:00 AM
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You sure? It lists the post you replied to at the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:47 PM
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O no. It was a she. My shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:24 PM
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You said you didnt. I wanted to make sure you knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:24 PM
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You replied to the bot bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:39 PM
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Did you reply to the bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 12:28 PM
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Lol. He reads the internet, he knows how dating in today's age works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 12:24 PM
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Right you made a claim it was to hide double chins and asymmetry. That was a bad claim. I was refuting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:06 PM
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When I felt pressured about starting to round up my height it was largely in response to women's first comments about 6 foot plus men. So and so has got a new boyfriend. He is like 6'5. Women lead with - height, if tall. Profession, if impressive. Hobby/Passion, if cool (artists). (Or the he's a really nice guy start, which just means one of the other 3 doesnt apply) Always one of those 3 things to start with. And would you know it - men focus on those things too. To me that insecurity seems a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:56 AM
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Uh People dont shave because it's way less work. Not to specifically hide double chins... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:46 AM
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Haha Haha. Rich too, lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:44 AM
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Or rich. Dominance hierarchies/superiority Height (genetic superiority) Facial features (genetic superiority) Charm (perceived societal domiance) Money (perceived societal dominance) Etc. If you ain't born with it, you better fake it, or make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:42 AM
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Yeah, but if you make it while your still young enough and haven't simped it really ain't bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:48 PM
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I would rather fuck hot girls too. Didnt read the rest of these comments, because I'm sure this sub would hurt my brain as it always does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:45 PM
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.... I'm 30. I would still prefer 24-28. 30's are maybe. Then again, I get more attention from24-28 yo than when I was 24-28.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:27 PM
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Prove your belief in your abilities. Amazing how gullible people are to 'confidence'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:15 PM
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Vomit. Cant even finish reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:45 AM
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I dont think those are the same things... Sounds a little bit insane, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:54 PM
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Annnnd... the lie detector test determined that was a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:52 PM
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Aggression and confidence are also quite often misinterpreted by women, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:51 PM
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Connotations are subjective noones using clinical definitions on ppd. Motherfuckers on here aren't physchologists, otherwise they wouldnt say the crazy shit I hear on here. Im curious why you assume op was a male though. What's the rationalization behind that? Im going to stop talking to you now, because this is pointless. Best wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:05 PM
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My goal post was that using the term rationalization was not a knock, that was my original response. You went into the rationalization vs reasoning thing. I dont think it has a negative connotation if the whole planet does it. I think its ilmuch worse to pretend peoplendont do it. Maybe rationalization gets a worse rap on ppd because of the way people use it on this sub. Mainly because it's a highly emotional concept (and this is where we wont agree, and why continuing will be poibtless) noone i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:48 PM
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The idea that you think people actually understand their own thoughts is interesting. Everyone is self deceptive, you, me, men, women, children. Man is not enlightened. That is overly generous. Every time I dont do sit ups I rationalize it. That's for physical fitness, which is much less complicated than the inner workings of the heart, and interpersonal attraction. Everyone rationalizes. The higher the emotional pull, the more likely we are to do it. Edit: of note in your quote- "people rationa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:23 PM
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I think you are rationalizing our interpretations of the word rationalize. These are subject internet articles about philosophy. Not definitions. Using rationalize does not infer a connotation. You infer the connotation. You infer the knock. Rationalizing as it stands is a natural thing. Not good not bad. It is used to cope for bad situations, and explain why good things happen, and all kinds of thinks in between. There is no inherent malice in using the term. IE it is not a knock. You interpret…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:54 PM
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His comment isnt neccesarily 'knocking' anything. Its pointing out people rationalize why they think things, whether that rationalization is true or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:25 PM
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Eh. Works for me so far. No need to dream. Thanks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:32 PM
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Doesnt seem to be true for me. All you need is 6 figures, and decent clothes. Who said anything about avoiding single moms, I'm not marrying these girls. Successful is in perspective, if you come in from business meetings to the bar and have a nice place, you are important, and powerful in your niche. By comparison to other 23 yo dudes playing video games, if you still look good (slim) you are a much better choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:09 PM
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The pedophilic thing is definitely projection from whoever said it. But yes, the desire for younger (for me this is like 23) women is probably partially biological, and partially ego driven. If you in your late 20's can more easily get what you could not get in your early 20's, then why not do that. The anti red pillers on here unfortunately sound just as hateful as the virgin worshippers. Many more of these people are female and did not have a supply and demand problem. Lack of resources of any…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:52 PM
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Just be remotely successful... and not a creep. You can date younger women. Just have to have proximity- ie remain active in group activities, bars, sports, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:44 PM
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No idea. Poster deleted their comment for me to reference now...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:42 PM
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That is not what the previous poster is saying. You arenpurpouseky being disingenuous at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 12:57 PM
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Double down bruv.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:59 PM
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I have no idea how someone could interpret someone directly quoting their words, then characterizing what a group of peoples perceived thought process would be for those quoted words could ever be misconstrued as someone directly characterizing the person being quoted as being part of the group in question, and by proxy being associated with the aforementioned thought process. That is my mistake (again). Sorry for the run-on sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:48 AM
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You directly quoted me, and then commented on the quote, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:56 PM
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Uh no. I do fine. I'm an 7 who rolled to an 8 in the last year or two imo. Jesus Christ, There is so much projection on this sub. There are people who agree with certain points with going full incel. Would love to know how you got bitterness out of my original post though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:51 PM
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I mean. You still have to work as a 7, it's not free till you get to 8 or 9 territory. But you've definitely dropped it to one or two dates if you aren't super weirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:34 PM
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I thi bbn knit would help if we changed th nomenclature. Providing vs Procreating. Different synapses firr when thinking about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:36 PM
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Averages. I'm talking averages. I dont know where you got hate from my comment. I think women are smarter on average, but men have more geniuses and idiots. But we (men) have to perform to exceed and carry on our Gene's (traditional 'Chad' style or 'beta' style) Women dont have that same performance requirement to mate or be valued. That's not a capability statement. It's a necessity to be traditionally successful (and is where red, and black pill philosophies oroginate, imo) I dont think these …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:11 PM
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Some are. Some gay men you cant even tell Some gay men are even more extreme versions of women than actual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:37 PM
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I was with him for the first 1/3 of that. I genuinely believe the bell curve for men is much wider. Contribution wise we shift right due to the necessity to perform to be valued. But naturally we would on average be behind women, but with much longer tails.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:35 PM
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It they make jokes... jokes... a natural male adaptive behavior... jokes...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:33 PM
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I was with you until the living downtown part. But I guess technically I agree. It doesnt improve attractiveness, but it does improve access and increase repetitions which leads to success if you're in a decent state.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:23 AM
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Yes if you are rich and jacked. But literally owning people by owning their real estate, or jobs, etc. Is much more alpha than working out and working at mcdonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:42 AM
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He's half troll but unfortunately this is half truth. An older dude with money in good shape beats a jacked young dude. Because overall the older dude owns the younger dude and absolute power is what matters to SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:01 AM
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I didnt make the initial claim. What am I parroting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:57 PM
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Partner counts are self reported. Getting off the horse at 25 just might indicate a change in opportunity or societal pressure, not a difference in character, etc. Not saying it's bad, but nothing you are saying holds any weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:11 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:58 AM
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Sounds like strategy not necessarily insecurity. That's Inferred Might be a correct inference, might not. Personally I have a good career and enjoy the new options from 23 yo women. Adopting the strategy later isnt neccesarily insecurity, just might mean you peaked later.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:56 AM
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It is sad. It may have been true. It may not have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:53 AM
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I'm a guy and would rather get a bj than risk pregnancy. Too much to lose. Gurl I'm hanging with now is ok with squirting from fingering and I usually have to stop her from trying to fuck, until she gets her birth control back in. Condoms ruin anything for me, but the same would apply to a one night stand or hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:08 PM
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Sure. Nut the dream lives on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:47 PM
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Maybe not a 10v1 but looks wise and 8 and 1 (just imo) or therabout. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6566897/amp/Disabled-man-able-bodied-girlfriend-document-relationship-vlogs.html
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:12 PM
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For sure. That's why I drink vodka and water despite it being pricier. Keeps the hangovers at bay by mixing water and almost no calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:10 PM
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Twice her age no. Girl her with me is 23 and I'm 30. Why not 40 and 26? I see it all the time. You migh not, but I do in business
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:14 PM
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Because of the current system of the courts. Like getting half of someone's pension 15 years after they were married. Obviously we differ here. Probably different sides of the equation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:13 PM
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What are you talking about. He built the business. That's not luck. Helping do something is not doing something. Being the spotter for a lifter doesn't make you the lifter. It makes you the lifters friend/bro. You get to tag along for cool shit but you dont get half of everything they own just for having a vagina. If they wanted half they should put their name in the business instead of their husband only.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:40 AM
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I just think younger women and older men will become more common as drugs become more prevalent to fill problems with men. Realistically a good portion of left out men will become career alphas and since they dont have to get married anymore they can just plate. Those that miss this will continue on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:36 AM
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Right. That's not worthy of half of everything it grew into. Give her 10%. Half is a joke, if spouses were business partners they should put their names in the business. They arent 50% contributors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:21 PM
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Much higher than the odds of becoming the richest person in the entire world. Good try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:29 AM
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Because he built the biggest business in the entire world. The statistical probability she would have done the same is basically 0. Give her 10%, she still becomes one of the richest people in the world, and the odds she would have even built that is still basically 0. But being arguably the most impressive man in business, and then to half of the rewards reaped from that success due to a marriage contract is not equitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:27 PM
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This SMV vs RMV. I learn so many acronyms here!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:53 PM
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Ok maybe were saying the same thing. I think men think more logically evolutionarily until reproduction comes in - this is where nature flipped men and women around. You I believe are saying women are men's Achilles heel though that causes them to stop thinking logically. Many tragedies are written about this and I would agree there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:09 PM
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"Men aren't more logical" then... "that might lead them to be more logical" Lack of an empathy has nothing to do with a predisposition towards approaching situations logically vs emotionally as a baseline. Men aren't more logical? Not sure you read my original statement correctly, or you just want to double down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:05 AM
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Soccer partying and money all worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:52 AM
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That wasnt the question. The question was whether in aggregate whether you really think women are mor logical and less emotional than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:13 AM
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If you eat healthy and dont overuse drugs or tanning, you will look 10 years younger than your peers at that age. That's not a super high bar in my opinion. I'm 29 and get 24 a lot. I assume this will translate at 40 to being like 32. Idk though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:17 PM
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Having sex the first time is not always awkward...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:12 PM
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So you think women are logical in comparison to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:10 PM
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Yeah, I mean just be impressive at something dudes. Just something. Then go outside. Dont even try to get laid just show up places with women. Bonus points if this impressive thing is something noone else in that group would be good at. Multilingual - freebies, powerful/well paying career- freebies, musician - freebies, hacky sack champion - we shall see, nice car- freebies (first time I talked to a girl and she said she was fucking with a dude who lived with his mom but had a 100k car I did vom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:07 PM
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It is insane. This thread: Ppd men- All women are whores and cant take responsibility Ppd women - All men are incels and cant take responsibility Other people on ppd - maybe its nuanced? Chads - what's reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:55 PM
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It COULD be about personal choice. lots of people speaking absolutes in this sub. I have started running into abundance lately but it seems completely unintentional by focusing on my career. But even then I have to go out and meet people in person, it would not even come close to OLD Chad abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:51 PM
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Eh. I think this is a half truth. They would pine after that guy, but in person you can exhibit non physical traits - humor, intelligence, social competence, life of the party, etc. Being tall and muscular is obviously a great non verbal cue. From personal experience i am 100 times more successful at a house party than anywhere else, that's my element, mainly for the reasons listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:45 PM
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Women are emotion boxes who pretend to be logical. Men are logic boxes who pretend not to be emotional. There guys. I have solved the differences. You may all now carry on with your days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:37 PM
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Let's change it to a furby then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:35 PM
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Orange man good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:33 PM
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I dont understand this either. If I had a perceived or earned advantage earning me free pissy and didnt have insecurities/ health concerns/ moral qualms/ etc (Chad) why wouldnt I pump and dump. Not Chad's fault. If women are stupid enough to fall for bs then that's on them, definitely. If all parties agree they want that lifestyle then as long as women know they will be judged on it later, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:32 PM
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Makes me sound terrible but that's definitely what I have been doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:43 AM
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It's definitely scarcity mentality. Source: did this on my first hot girl after a 6 year relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:25 AM
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I agree I love it. One of the most successful people from where I grew up, (moved back from the city to take care of my mom) - at least from a career perspective and staying in shape. Almost any door is open, weirdly age doesn't seem to be restrictive either. Fucking around in the city vs executives, etc was a waste vs small towns.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:18 AM
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Women with kids are great targets. I agree they are much more desperate to switch from Chad to provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:10 AM
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Right just br a dick and date down a little. Make more money and excercise. Took a few years, but it's not that hard. Absolutley no desire for marriage. Cut down the drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:09 AM
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Homie. I appreciate your input. I understand nuance, and how to interpret in real life. I was there you weren't. None of what you are saying will apply except as theoretical possibilities. I agree those are possibilities, and that the possibilities I postulated exist as well as countless others. Since I was there, and based on my interaction before during and after I out your scenario as one of the lower chance possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:18 AM
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Right and that person wanted to eat the cake the whole time... Not sure what your point is, but keep digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:56 PM
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Pink
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 10:11 PM
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It doesn't I was just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:51 PM
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What color is your hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:22 PM
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I would say millions, not thousands. As well as millions who do not agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:57 PM
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Except sometimes no means, I'm not ready... yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:54 PM
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I pulled a classic duck season rabbit season trick, but with no's and yes's. And then once I had her, she had accidentally said yes so she was obligated at that point. Life is obviously a black and white cartoon with no room for gray areas or interpretation. Especially with women - a sex known for acting rationally, and never emotionally. Ingenious and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:53 PM
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News flash. She hung out with me a second time and did have sex with me. First time was just hands and light oral. And she's asking what in doing for new years. Not signs she hates me suddenly. First time was only maybe 3 drinks, second time was no drinks. Women play hard to get to get you to work for it, so they feel better about not being 'easy'. I dont think worse of her for it. It just means we vibed. I'm not sure how you extrapolated what some woman you have never met thinks about me, anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:49 PM
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Right. For you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:44 PM
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There are studies some people reference that state pair bonding is more difficult with high n counts. I am not stating an opinion either way on these. Just their existance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:18 PM
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Usually. And the dream lives on. I think if you increase your societal value you can. Looks, money, social status, power, skill at actually talking to women and seducing... but most people dont want to work that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:17 PM
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Fair enough. I probably misread your comment. There are a lot of sweeping generalizations from all sides in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:13 PM
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I hope you're not judging women who play games character here. Tsk tsk. Girl I'm talking tornadoes this, I'm assuming to protect some form of viruosness, who knows. And yes, even though the feminist cringe on this sub of 'women dont play games' is strong here, young padawan... They do! It's amazing, but women - shocker here - dont always say what they mean, dont engage courtship, play shit tests (including saying no, maybe, only if you earn it, etc), and speak emotionally instead of literally, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:07 PM
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Girl I'm talking to right now does this all the time. Why do you ladies think these women dont exist and men just made then up. Seems you are trying to pretend they dont exist but know they do - like the concept that women play games instead of saying what they mean is some conspiracy? Pretty universally accepted concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:59 PM
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But all women dont. Girl im talking to right now says no all the time and always means 'I want to say no so I dont feel like a ho, but really i mean maybe or yes'. A lot of girls want to feel they were 'worked' for or something. It's good you think you and your friends dont do that. You dont represent all women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:53 PM
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Both of the last 2 nights I hung out with the last girl I hung out with she was saying how there was no way she was going to do anything with me. Repeatedly. Both nights she came back, and there was contact, sex the second time. No means no is idiotic, if I we ent back to being an autist I would have taken all those no's literally and both me and her would have been frustrated and disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:48 PM
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Tuesday: Ben I really like you. I want to take my time. Wednesday: Chad and tyrone, ok im drunk let's fuck. Thursday: ben thanks for dinner I think we have a shot at something great here. Friday at midnight: I'm horny what was that one guys name from tonight again? O well it was just oral. Friday at 2 am: Ben, absolutely thanks for asking me out. I'm ok with taking our relationship to the next level. This is the only 'serious' relationship I have had. Thanks for taking the time to really get to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:06 AM
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I just gained the trait "autism+1" from reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:01 AM
1

God these threads are terrible. But I cant stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:05 AM
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Why do you keep saying 99%. How did you come up with this stat you keep using.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:02 AM
1

Jesus. Could you use more emphatic language.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:01 AM
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These two comments sum this up so well. Comments were all defensive about not hitting the wall , and why her ex and other guys dont understand her new maturity,, nstead of saying why this guy was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:43 PM
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*Im in.... then * I'm out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 11:57 PM
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I dont know why I still come here. It's insane women who dont believe hypergamy, and the cock carousel could exist at all and all men are rapists. Then on the other side its incels pretending to be chads who think all women are lying whores. The same people in the middle all leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 09:05 PM
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Yes... not trying to breed tards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 12:25 AM
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It's all about whether they approach or not. Only thing that matters at all. Women wont do it, men are reinforced or pushed away based on past success or failure here. That's it, none of the rest of this sub matters. Failures fall out and stop trying, those that are successful keep trying and it gets easier. You dont understand this because you dont do it, it's not bad or good, it just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 10:59 PM
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Both ridiculous yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:06 PM
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I dont understand where this idea that everyone just goes and gets hookers comes from. It's highly illegal, often visceral, and fraught with risk. Why is the idea that ease of access would not be a major contributor to behavior patterns so offputting to those who rally against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 03:46 PM
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I wouldn't disagree with that at all. Men make 'activity buddies'. Women make friends. Options increase for married men, but if in agree with your point, the so does risk if they dont have a strong social circle. My point was more that women have more options to play the field when younger so could defer marriage, or get divorced young. When older, the value based on our admittedly fucked up societal norms dont play in their favor anymore. The scales tip towards men in term sof social value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:29 AM
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Or you have already hit the wall and have less ability to branch swing. Lots of theories you could throw out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:54 PM
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Note the use of the phrase "being able to". Its not banging the house, but knowing you can. I 100% am ok without the sex if I know I can make women want it. I will turn down partners, vs when I am desperate and will cling and chase anything, and crave validation. Important distinction. The need to actually act on it is an inability to control impulses, and I believe personally is a weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:12 AM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:09 AM
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Whether someone has an std?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 04:31 AM
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Right but that's all I do too. It's like really? But chill, let's go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 04:30 AM
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Try not to post here often, but to clarify, are you asking why you should care about bending the truth about STDs you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:30 AM
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Not someone who chases, but this is by far my best strategy, and usually happens on my dont give a fuck nights. Weird shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:42 AM
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Well certainly. People envy things they dont have access to. Money, power, sex, influence, etc. Supply demand doesn't work that way there, the vice still exists but its redirected towards impossible beauty standards, nice things, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:07 AM
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No idea what mra or twox are. But sounds interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:04 AM
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I know, it's just more easily accessible (whether feigned or genuine). That's why I find it hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:15 PM
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BB, and easy access to social validation, or an easy affair (if desired) through the interwebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:21 PM
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Women have entire political campaign about whining about single digit pay discrepancies. It makes me wonder, what would happen if the roles were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:16 PM
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Yikes. Women who don't understand being a man and tell them how to act, are almost as cringey as men who don't understand women and tell them how to act. Why did I sub to this again? Guess I thought it was going to be a place for reddies and blueys to compromise. Boy was a I wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:15 PM
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Sarcasm I hope
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:59 PM
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Bro, why is everyone so bitter. Seeking validation is something so terrible as a man now? Women are chased non stop, perhaps that's why they don't understand? Personally I feel that though, I've gone home with my share and often it doesn't even lead to outright sex. Social validation was the point often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:33 PM
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Right, its an indicator of past decisions. Why wouldn't i use that to extrapolate possible future decisions. Seems about as logical as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:01 AM
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They both serve a purpose. As long as your dog doesn't try to enter into a lifelong contract and get half your shit, and lies about licking his own ass and eating shit before giving you kisses... everybody's chill. Dogs are trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:58 AM
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This is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:54 AM
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That doesn't indicate he was happy. It indicates he was seeking happiness through marriage. Whether he achieved it cannot be measures by anyone but him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:48 AM
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Vomit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:46 AM
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Did you purposely try to avoid answering what he was talking about. He was talking about abortion not financial support. Read the comment again and start over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:05 AM
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I can't predict how she would or would not act. I can however analyze what she did or did not do. Her actions and situation can both be taken into account. I think you are pushing back too hard against the over virtuous types by going to the opposite extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 06:47 PM
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That is how you interpret it, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:33 PM
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Good post, except the girl with a hundred plus. Easy indicator of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:49 AM
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I wouldn't say that. Women are trying to maximize their long term sexual trait maximization in the short term. Assets are a long term play. The current environment has allowed this trend (due to increasing availability) to extend past when it normally would have in the past. They only shift to assets when they have to. They prolong this now because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:25 AM
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Right. Why argue women font want resources and power for maximizing production and resources for their children long term qhile seeking short term biological traits, and men don't want to minimize birth defects and maximize health of their potential offspring, biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:44 AM
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Looking for a BJJ gym.now!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:10 AM
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Improv meetup group was one of the best things I ever did. It was cheap and the people were all weirdo improv people. It's very non judgemental and everyone knows you are putting yourself out there and might fail. Probably one of the most open ways to meet chill people. Dancing is great too just choose your dance deliberately. Tango and salsa are much different but if you bring a decent female friend to a tango class you will get attention. Argentine tango specifically is very close embrace and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:07 AM
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Do you feel this contributed to his suicide at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:13 AM
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Agreed being boring and honest is overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:33 AM
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Making money >
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 09:45 PM
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Better than getting called a bitch and sucking cocks for a living due to low self worth.
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 04:26 PM
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Capitalism is rewarding for above average performers.
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 04:09 PM
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I was so with you till the last minute of that video when it became I want a girlfriend and a family. Desire to pass on a legacy, but don't desire a woman for validation. That checkbook is more validation than the acid dropping hippies next two choices. You need to go to wine bars instead. People like intelligence there.
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 04:08 PM
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