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| 4 | EXCLUSIVE: 'In his mind this was his only way out of his toxic relationship.' Daughter of school principal who took his own life at Disneyland claims it was his WIFE who was abusive, tore her family apart and sent her vitriolic textsYes | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 04:38 PM |
| 7 | EXCLUSIVE: 'In his mind this was his only way out of his toxic relationship.' Daughter of school principal who took his own life at Disneyland claims it was his WIFE who was abusive, tore her family apart and sent her vitriolic textsDo you work with women or are ever physically near them? | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 03:27 PM |
| 13 | I think this should be brought to attention more.Sometimes it's better to leave the shit show behind and move out. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/22 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Conflicted with custodyGet sole and offer supervised visitation after papers are signed and she cleans up her act. "Why didn't you protect us?" Isn't something you want to hear in 20 years | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Divorce question 12 years Post DivorceAlways makes it sound as if it's impossible to avoid CS. It is possible to avoid being required to pay. We can't spread ideas that CS, and other things, are unavoidable. If we continue to spread this information then future soon to be divorced men will give up at less than they could have gotten, eg "at least I got 30% and only pay 30% CS." Fathers need to and can get 50% of legal and physical, and CS needs depend on the financial situation of the parents and state's rules. CS can be $0 even if … | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Divorce question 12 years Post DivorceUsually there needs to be a reason to modify. I'm surprised this worked. Maybe a bad lawyer? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Woman's compulsive lies led to ex-boyfriend almost being shot by policeIsn't this normal? This happened to me, not as extreme because I left the apartment before the cops showed up. But I saw the police report and it was nearly the same set of lies. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | 2 jobs. should I drop one?Uhpaid sabbatical? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/22 02:21 AM |
| 2 | anyone feel like they've been stripped off their masculinity?Only your lost possessions. Gone in the fire/tornado/disaster. Time to move on and buy a new one. Don't let the disaster take more time from your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | anyone feel like they've been stripped off their masculinity?If you change your perspective and treat the divorce like a fire, it might help. You lost the wrench in a disaster, you have the choice to buy another but the original was destroyed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | “Tainted” by your exSounds like you did what you needed for you kids without sacrificing your integrity. Excellent work. I hope you and your kids are doing well. They have a father who cares greatly about them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | “Tainted” by your exJFC So lie to evaluators? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | “Tainted” by your exAcrimonious because of the filming? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/22 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Extended FamilyFamily court seems to be a roll of the dice. A lawyer in your county will know them the best and know what they care and don't care about. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Extended FamilyWhen your kids say something like 3 grandparents, make sure you ask them to explain what they mean. Then document. Check with your lawyer to know what isn't ok to ignore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/22 10:51 PM |
| 3 | DIL Atomic BombSupport his fight for 50/50 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/22 09:34 PM |
| 2 | [US] question on parenting planHow old is your kid? What's stopping the other parent from ignoring FROR? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/22 01:48 PM |
| 2 | had mediation Thursday, I need to vent...Don't give up on 50/50. You got this | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/22 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Custody HelpDon't settle for less than 50/50. They will pressure you with lies your stbxw told them. Stick to 50/50 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Ex is driving me to bankruptcyFor? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Resources for co-parenting with a BPD exWhat is important though? Seems like there are so many issues it would take hours to go through. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I shot myself in the foot. Fella, divorce is a war that needs preparation."house" | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | I shot myself in the foot. Fella, divorce is a war that needs preparation.The next 2 years of suffering will be worth it when you have 50/50 with your kids. Don't give up on your kids. It's going to get rough but you need to push through it no matter what comes at you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | I shot myself in the foot. Fella, divorce is a war that needs preparation.Clean your house up | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I shot myself in the foot. Fella, divorce is a war that needs preparation.Don't put much thought into it. You know it's bullshit so don't let it ruffle you. Don't respond to the false allegations. Fight for 50/50 no CS. Tell your lawyer you want at least 50/50 no CS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/22 10:50 AM |
| 2 | I shot myself in the foot. Fella, divorce is a war that needs preparation.Need one of those images for a women's divorce starter kit. First image is TRO | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/22 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Her lawyer offers to dismiss TRO if I agree to joint custody with her being domiciliaryFight for you kids. You get CS and 50/50, she drops TRO. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Acting up in courtGet that TO modified of you can. It could be permanent if you got kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Give it to me straight fellas50/50 Tell your lawyer that's what you want | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Blind sided. Trying to cope. My folks are so supportive.This seems to happen to most folks. You think this is the first time the judge has seen this tactic? Fight for 50/50 even for temporary orders. Never accept less than what you can live with for the next 10 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Keeping the house at all costs?Don't give up | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/22 09:34 AM |
| 8 | Proving your a good father?Fight for 50/50, don't give in to anything less. Tell your lawyer you want 50/50. Get 50/50 during temporary orders. Walk away from anything less. You working doesn't mean you should see your kids less. It means she needs to get a job post divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Ready to file but wife has threats over my headLol | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Future proof my next marriage?Do you have to live in Nevada? How does it protect against CS? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | A pretty common example of how courts treat lying under oath - Alex Jones warningSame. Liars do get caught and face consequences even if not confronted directly about the lies. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | I hate this legal system and my lawyer is not making me comfortable. please advise.I don't think you hear "consider yourself lucky" from a good family lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I lost the desire to live.Find an Airbnb or lease an apt. Find a great lawyer. Don't settle for less than 50/50 in temporary orders, also you get alimony or child support in temporary orders. First words to your lawyer need to be "I want at least 50/50" if they say not happening, find a new lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Michigan. Need to file. Need adviceNobody asks why the accounts are empty? Seems like a good way to get in trouble | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Michigan. Need to file. Need adviceWhat would they suggest? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/22 05:26 PM |
| 15 | [USA] What do you think about the Unborn Child Support Act?My child's father is Bezos! | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Financial PTSDTell her now that you can't do it. Then move on with your lives because marriage doesn't help you unless you need insurance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/22 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Financial PTSDNo reason to get married except for fantasy. Don't do it. You can do 99% of married people things, why get married? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 53 | My wife abused me and the police acted like I was at faultShe is going to put you in prison and take everything you own. Are you ready for that? | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | I am losing hope in the legal system.Did you make a police report? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/22 10:51 AM |
| 2 | I am losing hope in the legal system.Most likely will be dropped. Courts see this BS all the time from women. It's part of thier divorce starter kits. Stay strong, be yourself, and fight for 50/50(especially temporary orders). If your lawyer won't fight for 50/50 get a new lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | A horrible but common story. It’s a hard read for parents in the same position.Nice that you let him. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 4 | My ex-wife wants to go back to court 13 years after our divorceDiscouraging to say the least. Why try harder if she is going to try and maybe will get 10% of you effort? Yikes | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/22 12:21 AM |
| -3 | My ex-wife wants to go back to court 13 years after our divorceI'm not buying it. Seems abusive. There must be a reason or way to prevent this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | My ex-wife wants to go back to court 13 years after our divorceHow does this work? Wouldn't she need justification before getting anything? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/22 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Filed on FridayDon't ask them questions like that. It could be used against you. Be there for them. Don't settle for less than 50/50 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Filed on FridayHow old are your kids? Don't ask them who they want to live with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/22 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Losing one of my children to the dark side.Do women have groups where they discuss how to ruin men's lives? It seems too common | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/22 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Advice with wife's ridiculous termsWhy are you taking to her? Respond with"interesting" and ignore | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | FSTBXW wants to file jointly. I’m pissed.Do it. You will benefit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/22 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Mediation vs. CourtGo to meditation and leave with 50/50. Took me over 10 hours but I got what I needed. Court probably would have gotten me more if facts mattered but the fact was the room was bias against me and I felt like the court would be too. 50/50 on everything was a happy ending. Fight for it, don't give too much too soon. Always aim for 50/50 because "why wouldn't it be?" <= Make them(the room) answer that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How much did you end up paying in child support?100% | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/21 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Anyone ever able to prove emotional abuse?Exciting to hear! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/21 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Anyone ever able to prove emotional abuse?Was that the turning point that got you primary or was there more? I have these types of recordings from before when I filled. I guess I should use them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/21 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Anyone ever able to prove emotional abuse?What types of things were said to you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/21 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Child Support, and Custody: What Am I Missing?Fight for your rights. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Child Support, and Custody: What Am I Missing?How would she go nuclear? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/21 03:29 AM |
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